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Blue Pill ExamplePsiden/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:47 AM
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Thanks Jack for putting this all together. Always look forward to these posts as its a nice reminder even for those that have been here awhile and have been reading meta on meta posts. Reminder of the basics, straight and simple. What I've noticed is that I need to work on #7 Agree and Amplify. I tend to avoid confrontational situations or my mind blanks when theres a confrontation. How do I flip my frame, and instead of shutting down, flip to amused mastery to agree and amplify?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 07:02 AM
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No because if your LTR cheats on you, you leave. Why would any man worth his salt stay just for a free pass? Leave and its an non issue.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 08:39 PM
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Note that also back in the 50-60s, a simple OTPHJ would be considered sex. Now a days, if the P ain't in the V, it don't count. Also, People like to lie. Especially women on how many people they've fucked. Rule of thumb in TRP is watch what people do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 07:13 PM
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I've had a difficult time setting benchmarks. I like to push myself hard when I'm motivated, but a lot of things tend to fizzle out afterwards. What advice would you have to learn how to set proper and balanced benchmarks and track my progress?
/r/askTRP10/06/16 09:46 PM
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Dude. Get out. It's not going to be easy. I just got out of a 2 year relationship with a girl with BPD that I lived with. I won't post my story again (check out my post history), but I know exactly what you're going through. Listen to all the other guys telling you to dip. PM me if you want to chat.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 06:22 PM
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We grew up on absent father figures and Disney romances. My logic and TRP tells me to move on because everything will be alright and this is just a part of life we have to accept; years of social conditioning is making my emotions think I've lost the love of my life. I fight it, but man... it's rough. Remembering the Serenity Prayer is getting me through the days.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 01:22 AM
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No I think you hit the nail on the head there and that's what is missing from my assessment because I couldn't find the words to describe that. I had those thoughts in my head throughout where it felt doing those things would do more harm than good. You've helped me clarify that in my mind. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 12:52 AM
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I'll share with you what I told Jack earlier when he shared this with me. We may read this now and go, like everything else we read here, "ok this makes sense. I'll keep my head on a swivel and make sure to see these signs when they show up in my current/next relationship." That is great and all, but it rarely goes down like that. I saw these signs from my previous relationship (go in my post history and see the train wreck). But I was naive and too foolishly in love to acknowledge these very pr…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 05:48 PM
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Good thing no good deed will ever go unpunished
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:12 AM
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Thanks for this. I'm tearing up a lil bit because I'm slowly realizing this. It's hard and it's swallowing the pill again. Things are over before it even began. So I needed to not forget or resent the past, but cherish it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 03:18 AM
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When you put RPW above TRP, you're literally putting women above self improvement. TRP is about sexual strategy and maximizing your potential as a Man. It's about self improvement. Without TRP, there wouldn't be RPW
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 01:50 AM
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Glad it inspired you. It's the least I can do to help other men see the fuck up I did. AWALT bro. And best of luck to you as well
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 01:00 AM
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Hey I did something similar too. Had my shit together, lost my shit over the last two years and got betafied, should've dumped girl when I started to slip and became unhappy, got dumped instead. Not sure if you saw my post the other day, but check it out. This community is awesome and supportive and will remind you to keep your shit on straight.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 12:00 AM
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That's good advice. I didn't know aspirin did that. I'm going to go pick some up
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 02:41 PM
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I'll try to remember to update in one year
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:17 AM
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Wanted to thank everyone for giving me their input and experiences. Reading through your comments keeps me sane and not wanting to do something stupid. Its a nice reminder every time I feel weak. This is the best community for men, especially those who've gone through the same shit and can share our experiences. Glad I found you guys when I did. Otherwise I would've been a train wreck. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:37 AM
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Unfortunately I'm in Kansas City. But give that beer to a man in need over there for me. Would love to have met RPers here so we could sit for beers and talk about life.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:35 AM
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Just turned 25 few months ago
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 12:40 AM
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Slow down friend. I never expected her to stay. I told her to move out. I'm not begging on my knees asking her back either. But yes I did get lazy and complacent
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 09:42 PM
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Sure thing. I would love to read it. I'm going to need that shit in the next coming weeks
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 05:37 PM
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It only gets worse down that path. Your mind is going to want to keep doing what you're doing. Remember the reason she picked you was because you were the person you were, not what you are now. It's a giant fucking shit test. Good luck man. Hope you can take my mistakes and not go down that road.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 05:17 PM
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Stop what you're doing. Think about who the person you were before you met her, and go back to doing those things. I would've continued to go out with friends, with or without her (I had a difficult time going out without her with me). Go back to the gym. Stop eating those delicious carbs that she loves. Act like a jerk and ignore her occasionally. Treat her like a rotten child. I didn't do any of those things and instead only went out when she could, only spent time with her and ignored the fri…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:31 PM
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She was incredibly cute and had personality. Probably why I liked her so much. But that doesn't matter and it won't. Cutting off contact once she moves her shit out and that's that
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:52 PM
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That's exactly what it was and I knew it too. But I didn't do anything about it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:49 PM
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Thanks man. I relate to your experience too well. The giggling on the phone, staying up til God knows what hours. It feels like shit and everything is so fucked right now. I'm spending time with friend and family to help cope. I need time to recover and move on from this.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:48 PM
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Thank god for TRP and that I had read the material before I went into the LTR. I don't think I would've been able to come out of this in one piece if I hadn't. My story would've been more like yours. But thank you for that. That was my biggest fear. Glad I wasn't that guy.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:46 PM
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I'm triggered. Yeah I'm going to beat myself up over it because I know that is what pushes my drive and forces me to improve. No more comforts and placidity of a relationship. I'm going back to college in the next few months and getting my second degree. Getting back in shape and making sure I take care of myself. It's her loss, not mine.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:43 PM
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Well I don't plan on being there because I'm afraid I'll take her back in because emotions. I have an exit plan and my family has been very supportive
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:37 PM
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Now I have the strangest urge to watch Goodwill Hunting and listen to Matt Damon's Boston accent. But yeah, I'll try to keep that in mind. Beating myself up over it because I should've known better:
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:33 PM
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Yeah I thought I could do it in my arrogance. Learned the hard way. The rental car post on the front page was another good ol slap of reality. Her partner count was through the roof. Should've known better, but didnt. Thought she was special. I don't even know how it lasted this long looking at all the facts now
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:28 PM
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Thanks. Yeah I'm glad this didn't happen years down the road with marriage and children. It fucking sucks right now but once I actually get over the emotions, it'll get better. Right now though, fuck..
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:28 PM
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Its a one bedroom so a roommate isn't going to happen. The rents nothing I can't cover. Cutting my ties so I don't have to deal with that and pay attorney fees.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:59 AM
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The lease is in both our names. But she's moving out because she can't afford the rent if I bought out and left. But yeah. Packing up and leaving
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:53 AM
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Let me translate this: Women and children are irresponsible and can't take care of their own things so they need to depend on a man to do it for them. A man learns that his daughter can't manage their electronic devices, or anything in their lives. If he had a son, things would be much better Women are weak and cannot defend themselves in the presence of danger. They need a man to take care of them The wife needs constant validation from her husband to make herself feel good I don't know what I'…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 12:18 AM
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Who gives a shit? Beta gunna bait. Why do we have to "prove" to anyone what we know works. This whole thing misses the entire point of TRP
/r/AlreadyRed11/09/15 10:59 PM
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Rule one of fight club bro
/r/seduction06/08/15 03:53 PM
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I'm in the same predicament on how I feel about working my 8-5 job. Reading a lot on how a lot of others here are in that same situation. What about those who have succeeded. What steps did you take to cut yourself off of the umbilical cord? I've been working in my field for little over a year now but I'm having trouble finding ways to network. What got you started and what steps/mentality did you find yourself in to reach your goals? I would love to hear input and your experiences
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 12:22 AM
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TRPs very own shit test. Read the sidebar. Didn't read the sidebar? You fail. Come back when you succeed.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 11:19 PM
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You read the sidebar or you get the fuck out. TRP is not here to hand hold you. None of us are here to start some movement. We're all here to learn. So as we like to say here, sit down, shut up, and read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 05:18 PM
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Extraversion 4.1 Conscientiousness 3.2 Neuroticism 1.5 Agreeableness 1.8 Openness 3.9
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 10:02 PM
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To be frank, you dont sound like someone who is ready to swallow the pill yet. One of the essential parts to swallowing the pill means understanding that women will never love you, or any men, the way we want to be loved. Read the sidebar, spin plates, and come back when you are ready.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 03:01 AM
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Have you read ALL of the sidebar? It explains all of that if you have bothered to read it. tl;dr Read the Sidebar
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:35 AM
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Read the sidebar. We dont try to describe TRP or publicize it. It is what it is. As /u/redpillschool puts it, "If you're new here, take a seat, read the side bar, and shut up for a while."
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 05:00 AM
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You posted a interesting link that we could possibly connect to redpill theory, but you gave no analysis on this. What are your thoughts? Otherwise this is just a link to nothing providing little to no value aside from us pointing out women behavior in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 04:55 AM
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Read the side bar, especially on the links "Women in Love", "Men in Love" and "Of Love and War"
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 06:09 AM
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Here for those who wish to support his work. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004C438CW/ref=s9_simh_co_p351_d0_i1?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=left-1&pf_rd_r=0J29356KS77J6QSV6M3B&pf_rd_t=3201&pf_rd_p=1774864282&pf_rd_i=typ01
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 06:07 AM
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Stop making excuses for yourself. Read the sidebar. Not just a couple of links, All of it. Start with the "New Here?" section and continue your way down. Then read it all again. There's no easy and quick way to swallow TRP.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 05:59 AM
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I'm moving to the St. Joe area in a few months for work. There any places you suggest to check out there or in KC?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:15 PM
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I wonder how different these comments would be if the situation was reversed and it was a fat white guy marrying a smart, young, healthy girl and it was her relationship with her parents that was on the line.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 03:40 AM
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