PsilosirenRose Archive

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1	Being shy as a guy is definitely the worst possible trait, right? Confirmation bias is a hell of a drug. Edit: Also the "shy" guys I dated when I was younger often turned out to have significant overlap with possessiveness. The two traits aren't mutually exclusive. If you're bitter about what other guys are getting through predation, you're missing the point. Victim blaming is gross.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/22 09:17 PM
1	A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why? I don't really understand anyone who tries to restrict either, but I'm neurodivergent and non-monogamous so I'm not sure I'm anywhere close to the target audience for this sort of debate. All of it seems silly to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 01:56 AM
2	Ugly - hot people Yeah, most of the people I've had serious relationships weren't initially my physical type. My attraction to personality can override physical-only considerations and sometimes even shift my palate (I didn't used to be into redheads until my nesting partner and I got together and my attraction to him made me start liking redheads much more frequently).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 02:08 PM
8	Being shy as a guy is definitely the worst possible trait, right? Shyness is definitely not the worst possible trait. Worse traits: abusive, entitled	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/21 10:48 PM
1	Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely Respected I think it really depends on how one defines love. Is love a romantic feeling? A commitment to treating another person with dignity and respect? Giving over your own happiness and autonomy for their sake? You can't really control how you feel, so that first one is impossible to promise. That second one is where I sit. For me, unconditional love is kind of baseline by which I treat folks. Basic human decency, honesty, etc. If someone is toxic or dangerous for me, I can still treat them with digni…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 06:36 PM
3	Most Red Pill Users are Jealous of Women's Sexual Power in our Society The "right thing" is very individual. Not everyone cares about monogamy or chastity. For those that do, I'm glad they're walking their authentic path. But it definitely isn't "the right thing" unilaterally across the board.	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/21 11:20 PM
7	Most Red Pill Users are Jealous of Women's Sexual Power in our Society So, I'm inclined to believe that women's "sexual power" has only a little bit to do with sex itself and more to do with the quality of intimacy they have to offer. Women are socialized to have non-sexual intimate friendships, and to perform lots of emotional labor to create and sustain connections. Men not only don't get socialized to develop this skill, they are also taught that the ONLY acceptable way to have intimacy with another human being is through a monogamous, romantic, sexual, straight…	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/21 11:15 PM
1	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels They're not always white, but they are almost exclusively male. And religious extremism comes from toxic cults and people who groom vulnerable people, not from bullying. Saying bullying CAUSES incels is silly, because clearly there are other demographic factors at play at the very least.	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 07:16 PM
-1	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels I was bullied relentlessly as a kid, and nothing approaching incel ideology has taken hold of me. People in marginalized categories (racial minority, women, disabled, religious minority, etc) get bullied WAY more than any nerdy dude does, I promise. And yet it's the poor nerdy dudes that seem to always get violent. Aggrieved entitlement (https://mankindprojectjournal.org/blog/2016/06/15/aggrieved-entitlement-and-evolved-masculinity/) is a far better explanation than bullying.	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 06:02 PM
9	How I feel about the “wall” as a girl. So I'm 32. I haven't hit a wall. I think I actually get hit on just as much, if not more, now that I am more comfortable with myself and confident. There are plenty of men who are obsessed with the youngest possible women, but at a certain point, it's not about looks, it's about life experience. About the time a woman gets wise to his bullshit, or even abuse, he trades them in for a naive newer model. Trust me, you don't want to be attractive to those men, because what attracts them is a lack of…	/r/ExRedPill	17/04/21 06:34 PM
4	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? Projection	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 03:24 PM
5	Ex plack/red pilled, what made you change your mind on looks? I've been deeply attracted to folks who weren't my physical type. As I age, that gets more common. I still look at eye candy, it's nice, but I don't crave after them the way I might have when I was younger. For me, there's always a personality thing. Can't speak for everyone, I'm sure there are plenty of people who can't see past appearance, but that isn't everyone for sure.	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/21 02:28 PM