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I think it IS the other way around? Sounds like they both cheated, the debate is who cheated “first.” But there have been rumors of him cheating for years/decades before this. I don’t think having extramarital partners is unheard of in their relationship, the only reason this is even coming out is because they are in contentious divorce proceedings.
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:22 AM
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This sounds like a really messy situation. First of all, it doesn’t even sound like you want to be in an open relationship - it sounds like you want to break up. It also doesn’t sound like your girlfriend wants to be open, as you had to convince her that this was the right move. I would say sort out your relationship and living situation before bringing anyone else into this. Especially with a little girl at home, you need to carefully consider what you’re doing and not make poor decisions just …
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:19 PM
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Guys, they were together for 20 YEARS. Way longer than most celebrity couples. They had three kids, and started multiple businesses and charities together. Seems like they are both hardworking and decent people, but shit happens and people can grow apart. I wouldn’t read more into it than that.
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:27 PM
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I’m sure Leo is charming as hell with most people who cross his path, regardless of how attracted he is to them.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:21 PM
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Hmm. To be honest, this doesn’t make intuitive sense to me. What makes you think you’re boring to women, but not to men (or “rocks” ha)?
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:14 PM
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Congrats man, you found a girl you really like! Pursue it, and see where it leads you. This could be a really important relationship in your life.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:08 PM
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True. Although I don’t think it matters much in terms of social perception and status.
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:27 PM
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I married my husband well before he became a doctor. But anecdotally, I would say his male friends from med school and residency seem to be doing great and have settled down with beautiful and intelligent women.
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:26 PM
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I truly don’t think it’s a game, I think it’s just different communication styles. Women are typically less direct and assertive than men, but I actually think this particular girl is being fairly straightforward.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:47 PM
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Ha thanks! Happy to help.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:43 PM
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Happy to translate anytime!
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:43 PM
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100% in agreement with this plan!
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:42 PM
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If I guy said, “our conversation is going to go so much better when you stop interrupting me,” that would be the end of that chat. It would make someone seem extremely patronizing and unpleasant to be around.
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:19 PM
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OK, woman here. I’m going to try to translate: “I’m busy Thursday I go dancing with my friends. You can come if you want.” She is trying to be casual, but is very clearly indicating that she wants you to be there on Thursday. In girl-speak, this is basically her asking you to meet up. This is date-adjacent, and is actually pretty forward from a girl’s perspective. You breezed right by the Thursday suggestion/invite and tried to pin her down for a separate 1:1 date. Which is fine! But just recogn…
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:07 PM
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Nah. America has significant issues - I would say our insane amount of guns nears the top of the list - but is still offers a high quality of life. On most lists that factor in everything from cost of living to climate, crime, health care, and educational attainment, the U.S. is in the top 20. We’re a weird country, but we’re not cowering and fearful.
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:18 AM
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Whoa, you get it! For what it’s worth, I think that many, if not most, women in their teens and 20s would assume that a man who does not pick up on their cues does not find them attractive. It’s drilled into women’s heads that they are not pretty enough no matter how they actually look, and that insecurity is often right under the surface.
/r/seduction21/08/22 02:48 AM
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It’s tough, because OLD has become so widespread. But I would say your best bet is meeting someone more organically. You may already know a person who would be a fantastic partner for you. For example, my husband and I met in college, but didn’t start dating until our paths crossed years later. Several of our married friends had a similar story (i.e., met in college or even high school, didn’t date until adulthood). Other opportunities to meet people that stand out to me: small parties/gathering…
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:18 AM
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Sorry about that! I was actually going to say it sounds like you have grown a lot over the last few years. You’re going to be OK. Keep doing what you love and work on being the best version of yourself, and you will attract a woman of the same caliber. People may downvote that statement, but I’m older than you and have seen almost every man I know find a great match in their 30s - even those who struggled with dating earlier in life.
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:23 PM
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OK, what’s the point? It seems to me like you are imagining a hypothetical where the woman you’re interested is asked on a date by Hollywood royalty Going on a date with a celebrity would be a once-in-a-lifetime experience for most women. This would not be a normal thing whatsoever, and the woman’s friends and family would likely be pushing her to go, even if just for the crazy story. This scenario has very little in common with dating in everyday life, where you are getting to know another pers…
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:46 AM
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Attracting a mate is a powerful driving force, but is not the only motivator for human behavior. I agree with the comment that women may be more motivated to fit in with “the tribe” as a survival strategy (for themselves and for future children, who are even more vulnerable and in need of protection from a community). Clothing and fashion are ways of signaling group membership. Men do this, too, of course, but perhaps to a different degree. I actually think the way women dress for men has been v…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:23 AM
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/r/seduction18/08/22 12:41 AM
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I don’t understand the purpose of takes like this. He’s not a famous actor, and she’s (probably) not a Victoria’s Secret model. What good does it do to imagine how a person might act if they were going on a date with an A-list celebrity?
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:58 PM
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Woman here. And while I don’t speak for all women, I’ll say this: In general, women aren’t just looking for a “good enough” guy to fuck. If they are looking for sex, they want the guy to be different and exciting. They want it to feel like an adventure. A guy needs to stand out. Now, this is where I diverge from some people here. To stand out, you don’t need to be the hottest guy. In fact, being another gym-going dude who dresses like everyone else will just make you blend into the pack. Being t…
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:06 PM
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Do you think she’s just going to reschedule indefinitely? For what purpose?
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:29 PM
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That’s not flaking, that’s asking to reschedule.
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:28 PM
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I’m with you on race. But the reality is that women should be cautious when they are meeting up with a man they don’t know. Most people are good, but some have bad intentions or will seize an opportunity to take advantage of someone who is physically weaker. The “you’re not going to murder me, are you?” comment that OP gets from women comes from a place of of anxiety, but is also not to be taken literally. These women are not accusing OP of being a killer, but are asking for reassurance that he …
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:30 AM
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Women are uneasy around men they don’t know, regardless of race. But if that comment is representative of how you banter with women, I’m not surprised if you’re having some issues.
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:53 PM
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OP, you’ve said yourself that you realize it’s not going to work between you and this girl. But you really like her as a person, and obviously you like your best friend. So, this is one of those character-defining moments. Can you step back, see the big picture, and support your friends even if your feelings are hurt? Or do you prevent your friend(s) from seeing each other to protect your own ego? The thing is, even if nothing ever happens between them, you already know that your crush has feeli…
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:19 PM
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I think this could create a really weird and uncomfortable dynamic. What if OP’s friend really likes and has a genuine connection with this girl, but feels like he can’t act on it because…why? OP’s pride? Wouldn’t that create feelings of resentment? ETA: in my experience, it’s common for people to crush on or date multiple people in the same friend group. A person is not typically “off limits” unless they have had a serious relationship with someone else in the group, and even then it happens. J…
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:48 PM
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My follow-up question would be, SHOULD this mess up the friendship? Can someone really call “dibs” on a girl, even if that girl would prefer to date a different member of the friend group?
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:41 PM
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You seem to understand that this kind of comment comes from a place of anxiety/fear, so why does it strike you as rude? It’s not personal. Almost any woman who is alone with a man she does not know will feel uneasy and vulnerable. Making a sexual joke in this scenario is…not good. But being funny is fine. I might just turn it around, like, “No, but wait - are you going to murder ME?” Keep it light and build trust.
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:39 PM
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But the girl is not OP’s ex. Do you mean the girl would be off-limits to OP?
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:33 PM
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First off, good for you for being honest and self-reflective about your alcohol use. Many people don’t seriously start thinking about making changes until they experience negative consequences, and by then it can be very difficult to stop. I think for you, harm reduction could be a good place to start. In other words, cut back on your drinking and see what that’s like for you. You mentioned that you are at times having more than 10 drinks a night, which I would agree is not sustainable. So next …
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:31 PM
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Agreed. I briefly dated a guy who used these methods and, in retrospect, he was absolutely Cluster B. He had a lot of success with beautiful, but emotionally damaged, women. I dated him for about two months, and lost all attraction to him due to his constant manipulation and drama. However, he remained highly attached to me (we had several mutual friends) and tried to rope me back in for years. He ultimately was destroyed (in his words) by an absolutely gorgeous woman who was apparently better a…
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:20 PM
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:(
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:47 AM
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You’re likely acting this way with women you’re not as into. Because you’re not that invested in the outcome, you’re unconsciously projecting the “abundance mindset” people talk about here.
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:27 PM
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I couldn’t agree more. I spent my teens and 20s in major East Coast cities, and there was a space for everyone. Bars, clubs, coffee shops, galleries, classes, etc. for every type of person. You just had to get out there and explore, and you would find amazing places and people. But I don’t see much of that mentality in this sub. It seems like most men here believe that they have to look, act, sound, and even smell a particular way to attract a woman. They also seem to believe that all women are …
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:32 PM
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Sorry to see that some are downvoting you. I think they’re scared to see that someone who doesn’t adopt a hypermasculine persona is still having success in the dating world. I feel for the men in this sub who believe they have to pretend to be someone they’re not to attract a mate.
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:12 PM
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Sure, why not? Most of the men I dated before meeting my husband were artists of some sort (musicians, actors, filmmakers, etc), and were non-conformists in a variety of ways, including gender expression. These men had NO problem attracting women! ETA: not sure if this is the case now, but back in the day when I was in high school, the theater kids got laid way earlier and more frequently than the jocks!
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:57 PM
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Yup! Most experts say pee and wash with soap and water after sex. That’s it.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:49 PM
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I have never heard of this practice, and a quick internet search indicates that it does not protect against STDs. Also, undiluted hydrogen peroxide irritates the gums and can cause bleeding, which could paradoxically make one more susceptible to infection.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:48 PM
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Two words: Harry Styles One of the hottest and most sought-after people on the planet. Dates gorgeous superstar women. Wears whatever the hell he wants, including dresses. Doesn’t give a shit about conforming to standards of masculinity. There are so many other examples of incredibly sexy men who defied the traditional masculine role. David Bowie, for one. Prince. Iggy Pop. Lenny Kravitz. The list goes on. Long story short - don’t try to be something you’re not. Embrace who you are, and be the s…
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:22 PM
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Noooo GTFOutta here
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:37 PM
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NO to asking a stranger to put sunscreen on your back. Just no.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:34 PM
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Agreed that if you are uncomfortable with conversations, striking up random conversations with people may not be your best bet. But FWIW, most people are at least semi-social and interested in interacting with other people.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:33 PM
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Thank you!!! I’m older, too, and a woman. But every quality straight man I know is partnered with a truly awesome woman. Beautiful, adventurous, smart, funny, independent, talented, and so forth. And the men are fantastic, too!
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:22 PM
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Maybe skip the racist jokes. Or get rid of them altogether.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:20 PM
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You’re human, you were in an increasingly toxic marriage, and even though it was the right thing, your divorce threw you for a loop. Then add a global pandemic into the mix. You will be just fine, but give yourself some time and some grace.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:14 PM
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In the future, I would probably make some kind of joking comment that gently reinforces that you have no idea what she’s talking about because you (I’m assuming) are a straight cis dude. For example, something like, “oh yeah I hate it when that happens” with a laugh while wiggling your (I assume unmanicured) fingers. Just keep it light, and don’t get too in your head about why she’s talking about a given subject.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:07 PM
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It’s when we assume that a person who has one positive quality has ALL the positive qualities. So someone who we think is attractive may also seem cooler, smarter, etc. than others. In other words, we unconsciously give them a “halo” and feel like they can do no wrong. This is typically a temporary state. ETA: We do this with other positive qualities besides attraction; like if you think a particular man is extremely smart, you might also assume he is cool, funny, great with women, etc. despite …
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:16 PM
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I don’t think the lyrical content is why musicians are attractive…I think it’s about charisma and the ability to charm/command a crowd.
/r/seduction07/08/22 01:52 PM
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I want to say upfront that I’m not sure that this is the right girl for you. Basically everything she does seems to trigger intense feelings of insecurity and anxiety. For your personal growth it would be good to understand your own reactions to this person, before jumping into a relationship with her or anyone else who makes you feel this way. That said - I think your next step should be to slow waaaaaaaaay down and reset. Do not text her. When you see her, say hi and take it from there. Don’t …
/r/seduction07/08/22 01:25 AM
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This doesn’t have to be a big deal. I mean, isn’t everyone doing this to an extent on a first date? I would take a comment like this pretty lightly, and would make some kind of (equally light) comment that you’re doing the same thing.
/r/seduction07/08/22 12:07 AM
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As a woman, I generally agree with CocoBabe (although I would substitute “arousal” with “attraction”). I have been attracted to men that my friends did not find attractive, and vice versa. And when a woman (although I think this is true for men, too) is attracted to someone, it doesn’t matter what they’re wearing or what their hair is doing. That said, if someone does not find someone attractive, they will look for reasons why not. I think that’s human nature, and not necessarily a “woman” thing…
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:46 PM
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I would agree that money doesn’t mean as much in your 20s. Most people your age are living with roommates and barely making ends meet. But you can use your money in ways that will enrich your life and make you more appealing to potential mates. I’m thinking cool hobbies, international travel, better clothes, etc.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:37 PM
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I think the setting is key. Speaking as a woman, being approached in a public and well-populated space (e.g., a bar, coffee shop, etc.) where people go KNOWING they are likely to interact with others is fine. Being approached in an environment where it is not generally normal to talk to strangers (like on the street or in a grocery store) is much less likely to be effective. I would also argue that the less populated an environment is, the more likely that a woman will respond negatively to a st…
/r/seduction04/08/22 09:08 PM
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Good question. For me, someone who is comfortable with themselves is generally not going to force themselves on others. Comfortable to me means someone who is relaxed and at-ease with themselves and others, and who is going with the flow and not pushing for a particular outcome.
/r/seduction02/08/22 08:57 PM
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I generally agree with you. I’m out of the dating game now, but was what you would likely classify as a “hot but normal” girl. Things to know about girls like me: I was very conflicted about my looks. I wanted to be taken seriously (I have a PhD and was often in academic or professional settings where my looks were something of a liability), but also had a deep and secret fear that people would not like me if I was no longer beautiful. I think a lot of “hot but normal” girls who are not creating…
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:42 PM
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Hmm. I would say most beautiful women want to be treated like normal human beings. They want someone who can be real, and who makes them feel like they are being seen as an equally real person and not a beautiful object. I think someone like Pete Davidson is a good example of this - he is not the most attractive, wealthy, or high-status man, but he is able to have relationships with incredibly beautiful and famous women. Ariana Grande famously said that Pete had “Big Dick Energy,” which I suspec…
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:44 PM
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People who are comfortable with themselves and their sexuality are sexy. An average-looking guy who is at ease with himself and women will likely have more success than a good-looking guy who seems uptight or uncomfortable in his own skin.
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:42 PM
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If a woman marries a man for money and a man marries a woman for beauty, that is an extremely weak foundation for a lasting relationship. I’m not surprised that either partner would stray in that scenario.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:51 PM
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OK, a couple of things stand out to me. First, a small thing - I would totally set “pupils dilating” aside as a way to gauge attraction. Strobe lights (or even subtle changes in lighting), substances, etc. are more likely to cause discernible changes in pupil size than sexual interest. Second and more importantly, it sounds like something is up with your kissing. There is a pattern of women being attracted to you and escalating until that point, and then backing off. My first thought is breath, …
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:42 PM
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Hey! Speaking as a former high school girl, this is really not that bad. It sounds like you just took her by surprise. Being nervous is normal, and honestly - if you’re 6’4 and fairly attractive?? - she probably thought your nervousness was cute. I think the biggest “mistake” (not that you did anything wrong, really) was approaching her in public. High school kids are ruthless! And immature, by definition. They would have snickered even if she said yes. Just push them out of your mind, and say h…
/r/seduction29/07/22 10:04 PM
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It sounds like his girlfriend read the text messages and/or noticed that he was flirty with you, and laid down the law.
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:39 AM
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What I’m telling you is that this take is not factual. Their lives may seem more boring to you because you are not interacting with them beyond a superficial level. It would be the equivalent of someone saying, “men’s lives are so boring, all they do is watch sports and drink beer.” Does that seem accurate? If it does, I would suspect that your interactions with men are also quite surface-level.
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:46 PM
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This take seems wildly off-base. Women are people, just like you, with likes, dislikes, interests, passions, horrible and wonderful life experiences, dreams, goals, etc. If you find half the population boring, that says more the way you are relating to women than it does about the women themselves. For what it’s worth, I’m a psychologist who works with completely fascinating people (male, female, and other). I find no one boring, because I am privileged to have people share the deepest and most …
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:26 PM
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All women cheat when not in a relationship? 🤔
/r/seduction22/07/22 11:57 PM
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Dude, please stop doing this shit. Especially something like passing by a woman and doubling back to approach. As a woman, I would clock this action and it would freak me the fuck out 100% of the time, regardless of your appearance or level of confidence, etc. I think you’re more likely to have the police called on you than to get a date with this strategy.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:50 AM
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I know some guys say not to listen to a woman’s advice, but I’m now many years out of the dating game and have had time to reflect. In my 20s, I lived in NYC and was approached by men on a regular basis. The direct approach in OPs post is quite literally the only one that ever worked for me. Short, sweet, and to the point. Other “slow” approaches often felt awkward and anxiety-provoking, even if they involved someone I might be attracted to. It’s important to remember that women are people, too,…
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:02 PM
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