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it's a coping mechanism. They can't deal with their loneliness and frustration, so they turn it into aggression and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:10 PM
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Hear hear. I always find it perplexing why people seem so afraid of their partners talking to exes or they always demonize them. My last long-term relationship was a period of valuable growth for me. She was never the right person for me, but I figured out how to treat another person right, what I needed in a relationship, etc, all from it! Unless the other person was legitimately horrible there's no reason for the stigma. Love comes and goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:04 PM
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Personally as an Asian American guy, I've had way more success in Western Europe than the US. Girls are just a lot more interesting there and they want deep conversations.
/r/seduction16/12/23 06:21 PM
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Yea yes. This so much.
/r/seduction05/11/23 01:52 AM
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Enjoy it while it lasts my friend… Just be careful. Love has its price. And if you decide someone is good for you… you will suffer the consequences. I’m trying to but tbh, if the barista came back and tried to contact me I will have a very hard time saying no. I’ll probably rip my heart out and present it to her. The barista who ghosted me I still go to the cafe cause some of her coworkers are friends. But then today… I was getting my tarot cards read, and her mom introduced herself. Wtf… if she…
/r/seduction04/11/23 09:24 PM
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Honestly… same. The fact all the girls I was the most crazy about, hurt me the most when they changed, came onto me so strongly is troubling. I too find the girls who are less strong come ons “boring.” Or simply riskier. If a girl doesn’t like you in America she can cause trouble for You. But I’m trying to follow my advice. I can’t guarantee that I won’t be fooled again next time. I know will be very hurt though if I decide the next person is worth attaching to.
/r/seduction04/11/23 08:50 AM
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Read attachment theory. Attached is a good book. Basically there’s a lot of people who are avoidant types. I had an amazing girl who I sort of knew threw herself at me, and basically lovebombed me. Told me how handsome I was, while herself pretty. But she disappeared very quickly. It’s possible a lot of these girls just can’t respond to intimacy with more intimacy and it’s not about whether they like you or not. Avoidant types detach and move on quickly, and they’re simply more likely to be in t…
/r/seduction04/11/23 05:06 AM
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Horse riding club? Somebody watched mad men.
/r/seduction31/03/23 06:15 PM
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In general, dating a single parent is a huge amount of baggage. This doesn’t mean to say there’s no meaningful connection that can come from this. But this isn’t something someone with better options would choose all else held equal.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 05:03 AM
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I would honestly lol. I prefer company to no company. Just having sex without having enjoyed the girl, or if she's lazy and puts in no effort (a corpse) or acts entitled is just more of a hassle. I rather do something else more fun if I'm forced to choose between having sex with someone like that and enjoying time myself or with a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:09 PM
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Really? You're ok with that? Sex feels extremely unfulfilling if the other party is disinterested or not putting in effort to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:43 AM
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Hm. I’ve found this true in America. But for some reason Germans. French. Dutch girls have been very receptive to me cold approaching them.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 04:53 PM
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Do girls hook up with people they meet in clubs there’s? I actually didn’t go to one when I was there cause I was in a relationship. I’ve only experienced that in one club with a Russian girl who was abroad.
/r/seduction05/11/22 11:33 PM
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It always makes me happier to appreciate the people around me as having inherently valuable, interesting lives of their own.
/r/seduction05/11/22 03:46 AM
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So it sounds like my observations while hostel-hopping was right. It's better with other travelers since they don't have as much tying them down. Same with Russian girls in Thailand tbh I felt plenty of locals were friendly and flirty in Paris, Berlin, and Vienna though
/r/seduction04/11/22 04:10 AM
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Yup, experienced this as an Asian guy (sometimes friendly). Plenty of relatively cold-friendly women though.
/r/seduction04/11/22 04:07 AM
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The reason why hostels and stuff good for getting laid is because you meet other travelers there, who have the same hobbies and are on vacation so they're generally more relaxed already. You just need to find the right space. They also know they wont' see each other again most likely so there's more of a reason to act impulsively. How you meet Czech locals... I have no idea. I'm assuming similar places like cafes, college parties, companies, book stores, maybe even streets? I met a few local Cze…
/r/seduction04/11/22 04:02 AM
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Yeah… this is why I’m choosing to keep it on the low and do interest spaces instead. Usually if the vibe is good and we have a good convo about clothes, music, or something means they’ll be much more interested. Otherwise I won’t bother much. Just isn’t a good time investment.
/r/seduction30/10/22 02:29 PM
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Oh. So the deadline thing is real? Might be why its easier to get on dates when im on vacation.
/r/seduction22/10/22 11:51 AM
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That’s odd. I guess the key to me is to meet in person. If we get along and fuck that’s good. If they’re not in person they’re not real.
/r/seduction19/10/22 08:34 PM
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Seduction is also impossible to some degree. You can be the best version of yourself and put yourself in situations where you’re gonna meet a lot of women. From that some of them are going to be in places in life and will be interested in you. No one is going to vibe with all women.
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:52 AM
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Good advice. It just feels natural when you’re both doing things you enjoy. That’s what matters in the end. For me meeting women while traveling is the easiest. Easy activities.
/r/seduction17/10/22 10:05 AM
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Any news on how to solve the logistics problem? I’ve noticed some have private bathrooms. In the future I’ve thought about just moving out after a few days and meeting individually with the girl.
/r/seduction15/10/22 01:40 AM
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Agreed. The more you work at it the more you spot the opportunities and take advantage
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:25 PM
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Yeah this is a huge problem. You need a private bedroom. I am gonna try hostel for a few days then a private location the next few days
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:52 AM
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That’s true. But it depends on the context I think. Gotta make sure you’re not thirsty. Lots of attractive women in walkable major cities.
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:51 PM
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Well. No. Sometimes you’re just being a pest. I’m just gonna focus on living my life in all respects. And Wanting to cold approach in all cases isn’t the biggest priority.
/r/seduction05/10/22 01:18 PM
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Depends on my goals. I guess if she’s interested and I’m in the mood I’d do it. Otherwise it’s not a healthy fixation
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:43 PM
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This is basically what I’ve noticed. Women will be a lot more interested in mutually shared interest spaces. I kind of don’t want to do street cold approaches because they’re mostly going elsewhere. If she’s chill and going not going anywhere you can actually calmly talk to her. If you’re interrupting the day of a stranger a lot of times it’s rude. It could work but it’s gonna be more often not appropriate.
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:48 AM
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You might need different sorts of effort online Vs in person.
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:51 AM
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And it’s kind of stupid imo. You have to be really unselective with who you end up with or completely detached. If I like the woman who I end up sleeping with, I rather keep her around as a partner.
/r/seduction03/10/22 05:37 AM
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Makes sense. If guys are so thirsty/disregarding of what she wants to the point they’d do that, might as well as get a bit for their rudeness. Smart woman.
/r/seduction03/10/22 05:32 AM
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Man… that’s so cynical.
/r/seduction03/10/22 05:30 AM
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Point 1 is very important. How much the girl puts in effort is important. This was a big problem with me and my ex.
/r/seduction01/10/22 10:09 PM
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I just use Insta for fun but it seems like a lot of the girls I met up with earlier like to watch it, esp the ones that are meeting up with me in Europe. so IDK
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:52 AM
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Yup. Sometimes it’s just socially inappropriate.
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:30 PM
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Very old comment, but I see and agree with you. I always do better when I’m genuinely interested in others. This usually happens on vacation when I’m learning about the most mundane thing about some girl from Europe and her customs or whatever. And the point isn’t that it’s a different sort of relationship. But it’s the general interest and not being needy that matters.
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:26 AM
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As a Chinese American guy: I can speak to about standing out. Girls from all backgrounds like French, German, are pretty pleasantly surprised chatting with me. I’ll say we are all more open minded when we’re traveling or away from home. Interesting point about women away from homes. Weird that Indian dudes are hating on you. Overall I can relate to a lot of your post. The environment you’re in is very important for meeting women. Also, your post reminds me strongly of this: https://www.theonion.…
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:39 PM
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Might even be healthy. We should be able to find someone we like and commit ourselves to them.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:24 AM
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This is the way. Value those who are interested in you, its just a better way to spend time. In an ideal world we would have the attention of everyone we wanted, but we don’t live in that world.
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:29 AM
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Its always better for you to focus on your own then and then let the situation develop. Like for example, when I go yo a clothing store and I flak to a girl, im focused on myself and my interests, I just HAPPEN to talk to someone who’s into what im doing.
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:18 AM
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Yeah I realized you need a reason to do things, and be in places. Otherwise you really just have no life. Its ok to randomly talk to women, but don’t go out just to harass strangers.
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:25 PM
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Yeah seems about right from what I’ve observed too.
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:00 PM
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Those are unhappy women who were already wanting to get out. Sucks their characters are so low. Who knows though? I might be wrong, but I think most women just want one guy who they're satisfied with.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:47 PM
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Ahhh. Ok. Yeah so that’s just social media. I’ve personally had success when it’s in person approaches in places where that’s socially acceptable (full disclosure: my speaking voice is nice, I’m 6’2”, but I’m not cut. More like skinny fat). In China it’s not. In Europe it’s very much so. I think women can be a lot pickier on online apps because they’re not always there to date. Sometimes they’re just there for talks. Imo my chances in person are 50/50 since you’ll know if they like you much fast…
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:20 PM
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“That guy?” You mean that type? I think demographically you’re either in the wrong place, or you’re just unlucky. Attraction for women isn’t as simple as good looking guy gets all the attention. If it’s possible, try some hobby groups.
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:58 PM
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If you're talking about East Asia, there's a small percentage (think like 5-15%) of women who are specifically out for white guys. Asian culture generally doesn't punish fetishizing white guys nearly as much as the West. I was in Asia too. Since I'm Asian American I didn't really get the "foreigner bonus" that they got. For guys like us, we have to play into our strengths. Plenty of women approached me even when I traveled in hostels.
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:48 PM
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They probably just don’t see these guys as real until they meet and had some kind of escalation. Kissing, sex, etc. those tend to be signs of approval
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:30 AM
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Hear hear. I’ve gotten used to women ghosting, no point in disliking it. On the flip side, it’s nice to know that once a woman has a partner, she’ll almost always become disinterested in other guys.
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:27 AM
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Chinese society and even East Asian society is pretty casually racist. There may be a small percentage who try to talk to you, but most just won’t talk to black people simply because they will see you as too different than what they’re used to. Also, an even more small percent will be interested (probably like 1%). I don’t know for sure, but I think it’s not going to be anywhere NEAR the amount you see with white men. It’s more important for you to have a social structure, like an international …
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:10 AM
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While you do see a lot of those couples because they stand out, it’s probably 5-10% (my guess) of the total population of their age group, especially outside of Shanghai. Chinese society is controlled so tightly that the vast majority of mainland Chinese women in the 20-30s age group simply have no interest in dating a white man. Either because they’re not familiar enough with their cultures, or because they’re simply incompatible with their social groups. Again, even those looking for flings ar…
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:03 AM
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Agreed in general, but sometimes just “hi I thought you are cute” sets the mood perfectly. I’ve met some of the best women in my life this way, others just turned me away immediately. This just expedited the process since if they’re not into you, you’d know it right away.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:48 AM
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If you’re talking about Asia. Yes. You’re not gonna get as many girls as a white sex tourist. People there can be very causally racist. But it depends on where you go.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:24 AM
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As someone who’s yellow, not true. Also if you’re black or brown too. I’ve seen my share of players in Europe who are not white. It depends on your demographic, and where you go. People are generally just more loose when traveling.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:23 AM
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I think tinder actively promoted travelers with their algo.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:22 AM
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Can confirm. I’m Asian (yellow) American and it’s definitely a thing when I hung out with Europeans there. Makes you more exotic. Hopes that I’m generally sociable,considered tall.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:21 AM
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That’s China. And it’s a bit more complicated. East Asia can be one of the most casually racist places out there but they don’t generally police black people. If you’re black there’s a very small # of women who are interested too (significantly fewer than whites I imagine).
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:19 AM
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There’s a small percent of women in East Asian countries who actively go for white men. The reasons are complicated but in China it boils down to: 1. Exotic/usually high in status 2. No strings attached since they won’t ruin your reputation A white guy friend of mine got waaaay more matches than he would’ve otherwise in the US. Personally I don’t benefit from this benefit of a mostly racist society does exist.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:15 AM
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It depends on fit situation. If you guys have done a good bit already and she likes you don’t play games.
/r/seduction04/07/22 10:51 AM
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I agree. It’s easier to take Ned Flanders for granted. A loyal nice guy who’s possibly a pushover (I didn’t watch the Simpsons). There’s no excitement in being with him mainly because there’s no risk of losing him.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:02 AM
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I like to explain it like this. I’m naturally gifted in sales, and one thing I noticed is that desperation repels. While plenty attracts. For straight relationships and attraction, this means this: if you’re only interested in one person, the woman might get scared, because she’s done nothing to earn the guy and he might be a nuisance to her/take way too much effort to get. Attractive guys who give off the player vibe are always a risk for them to lose. They could be really into them and the gam…
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:59 AM
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Just because they know what the game is doesn’t mean they want to admit they play it lol.
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:56 AM
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Very interesting. I guess they see that guy as a safe hook up person. Or your friend is handsome as hell.
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:00 PM
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Exactly. Engineering is easy to do without having to be in specific locations.
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:59 PM
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Right, I think what he said here, like many things he says, is strongly opinionated. He made an observation about a basic lie in society (that men tend to dominate women) and overextended it. the role power plays in a relationship is still true.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:56 AM
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I think this book was eye-opening. It just show to you how little the principles of attraction have changed. most women won't be attracted to someone she thinks is below her. Juts look at Will Smiht right now Even if I disagree with certain specific things he thought about prostitutes back then per say.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:48 AM
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I usually just smile and nod and say "thank you so much!"
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:20 AM
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Had a weird encounter with this Au Pair girl a few months ago. She mentioned she had a boyfriend, but as soon as I mentioned how I was leaving since she didn't seem interested, her attention for me immediately spiked and grabbed my arm. Kind of weird... Assuming that usu boyfriend means no chance.
/r/seduction09/06/20 09:31 AM
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It does look weird, but who knows? The guy could just be complacent and is using his height advantage to score an easy lay, or he knows the girl well and enjoys her. I try not to let my biases affect my perception of other couples too much.
/r/seduction18/02/20 03:28 AM
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Hahaha. I'm sure there's plenty of shorter women for ya. No competition. I just like the fact when I look over at her and her line of vision is right next to me. Makes for easier conversation. But obviously whether we get along is the most important.
/r/seduction18/02/20 01:42 AM
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True. True. It's ok to just talk and enjoy them. Personally found success when I told them I liked taller women. I'm 185cm so 180-185 is like the perfect range for me and I noticed slightly taller women love it when guys like taller girls.
/r/seduction18/02/20 01:21 AM
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Like a fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction09/04/19 01:55 PM
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I agree. I think seeing people regularly makes it a lot less in need for me to show interest. Walking up to someone to talk sometimes is showing too much interest.
/r/seduction08/05/18 04:55 AM
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