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I don't know what I did to activate this line in your dialogue tree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:56 PM
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The no offense made me snort lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:46 PM
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You could find a man for a long term relationship easily but your standards require him to look like a tv actor and go along with your every whim. That's gonna be difficult to find, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:21 PM
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That despite having the ability to date any guy you want, you still complain because these individual men have individual feelings? If that's what you're saying then yes we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:12 PM
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Yes you're right, sometimes men have their own feelings and desires and don't just exist to fulfill female fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:48 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/4yu50cdm373d1.jpeg?width=612&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=574a2ec600637e595dfe9352283f59d0c57d7a96
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:37 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ul4uhmru173d1.jpeg?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=739fc53e32b6ab398e3eed22d3fb30a014efff9c
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:27 PM
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My man. You linked a 25 minute video. Go click the link you posted. How do you feed yourself? How are you capable of functioning on a day to day basis if this is how you operate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:23 PM
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Too lazy to even watch a YouTube video. So sad that people don't even want to listen anymore. So arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:20 PM
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https://youtu.be/wnhvanMdx4s?si=SkElQiIfJLvFAV3v There's data presented at some point in this video that disproves your argument go watch the whole thing or you're lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:18 PM
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Reported for harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:14 PM
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In the time you've spent arguing with me you could have come up with time stamps for the 25 minute video you claim as your source. And no I haven't watched your 25 minute video yet because I consider it a better use of my time to send your dumb ass into a rage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:06 PM
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Thank you for repeating yourself I was very confused about what you meant
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:58 PM
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Say it one more time I'm not sure I got it yet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:49 PM
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So repetitive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:44 PM
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Did you mean somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:42 PM
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*You're
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:40 PM
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You didn't click the link lol you look so bad. So embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:38 PM
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Go click the link that you copied into that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:31 PM
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I have had two different people tell me this has been done to them, both fairly normal people not like they're hanging around crackheads or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:28 PM
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They say they're going to put in their number and then use your phone to make a venmo transfer to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:26 PM
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Does your spouse know you spend your time lying to get clout from strangers on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:22 PM
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You did not give me a 2 minute clip you linked a 25 minute video and refused to give me time stamps. How pathetic do you have to be to lie about an internet argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:19 PM
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Lol. Posting a half hour long video and telling other people to go watch it is disingenuous and proves that your argument doesn't have merit. If you had evidence you would have had more than enough time to present it. It's not my job to go digging for evidence of your claim, it's yours. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:09 PM
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You're just gonna double down, hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:52 PM
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I'm not going to sit and watch a 25 minute video from some niche youtuber. Do you have time stamps that point to the data you're trying to use for evidence? And, again, I have literally never used Tiktok I'm a grown man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:52 PM
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Lol I don't use tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:50 PM
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By "you" I meant you, the people who support the coercive Capitalist system. And no, I won't move because I am a patriotic American. I will stand and fight the Capitalist to win a better future for myself and my countrymen, but thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:09 PM
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And yet you provide no evidence still lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:30 PM
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Calls people ignorant for believing commonly accepted narratives but provides no evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:13 PM
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Some people are more common than others
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:10 PM
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"If you don't like oppression you should either become an oppressor or withdraw from your society." That would be awfully convenient for you, wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:10 PM
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You can do it, be yourself, follow your dreams And if it doesn't work it's because you weren't good enough. Nothing is ever about social conditions, everything is always because of men's personal inadequacy. That's the bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:19 AM
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The existence of the loneliness epidemic is a commonly known fact and commonly known facts don't require citation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:45 PM
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"I don't care about data that asks me to empathize with people I hate."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:14 PM
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This list makes me very nervous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:34 PM
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All of this has already been addressed. Read the rest of the thread. Edit: Also it's not illegal to discriminate by age in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:18 PM
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Oh yeah native Angelenos are not to be trusted regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:14 PM
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Yes it's called feminism. Perhaps less backed by and more heavily inspired by. No. I'm sorry, just fucking no dude. You: This coffee shop had a million dollar foundation funding it Me: They did? You: Well... no... but they belive in Feminism and that's the same thing as having millions of dollars. Absolute trash take. I care very deeply about breaking down oppressive systems surround gender, but I suspect you just care about having a reason to have a chip on your shoulder. Have a nice day dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:40 PM
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I lived in LA for two years and it definitely made me more skeptical of the things women claim about their own behavior and desires. It became clear pretty quickly that rules surrounding the way you treat women only apply to average and below average men. Above average men are given carte blanche for any kind of misogyny or rudeness imaginable. I also saw the casual cruelty that women inflict on men. Using men for food/drinks/experiences. Pretending to give numbers and then emptying guys' venmo …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:20 PM
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The coffee shop had backing from a multi million dollar foundation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:14 PM
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Read the full parent thread to our conversation, I'm not going to keep typing the exact same thing over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:05 PM
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I have already explained this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:03 PM
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I have already explained multiple times why it favors women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:02 PM
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I've already addressed this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:00 PM
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No one is talking about casual sex. I am talking about the commodification and flattening of sex. You are purposely misrepresenting my point because it gives you an excuse for your callous disregard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:59 PM
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It's a problem faced by men, of course you don't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:58 PM
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We're now to the point where I repeat the problem and you repeat that you don't care. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:14 PM
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I have absolutely already stated why it's worth criticizing, but I will give you a tldr here: Dating apps as they currently exist have hyper-commodified and flattened our understanding of sex and intimacy. While this commodication and flattening is bad in and of itself because it cheapens an essential human experience, it is also discriminatory because it creates conditions that solely value aesthetics, and women receive far greater social training and help with their aesthetics. In these condit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:58 PM
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Well yeah, you've identified yourself as Blue Pill so I already know your go-to move is to blame men. I'm a Socialist, so I'm far more concerned with going after systems and corporate power than I am in ridiculing individuals. Feminism takes a pull-yourself-by-your-bootstraps approach to men's issues and there's no use trying to talk them out of it. You can't debate someone into caring for others and taking on corrupt power structures, they either care about it or they dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:43 PM
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If some backwoods Bubba gas station in South Alabama put up a sign that said "No Blacks" I would hope someone did something about that and I'd be glad to hear they went out of business. If some Feminist grad school dropout opens a coffee shop and charges more for men I would hope someone did something about that and I'd be glad to hear they went out of business. In either case, I wouldn't be writing multiple paragraph rants about it years after the fact. I would focus on issues that actually mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:39 PM
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Men's skill at online dating is irrelevant because women are not held to the same standard. Women are not forced to hire professional photographers or write a masterpiece bio to get matches. This is an unequal condition that disadvantages all men, regardless of their individual skill or effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:31 PM
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Also, what is so wrong with that message? I would like to feel I'm desirable and can have anything I want. I would love to feel that way too. I never will because I am a man. That's my point. Because I have not seen the app favour women by creating anything special for them. They don't get unlimited likes, they don't get any of the premium features. The app is not at fault. Crack cocaine carries the same penalty for both white and black people, so raising the penalty for crack of powder cocaine …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:22 PM
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Don't be too sure, women SA men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:08 PM
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If you don't understand that that's not what I meant, I seriously question if it's worth my time to talk to you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:06 PM
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Your argument amounts to saying, "This problem will always exist to some extent, so we might as well make it as bad as possible." I don't think you would take this stance if you didn't support the social problem being created.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:04 PM
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I am saying that the message men receive from the dating app experience in general is that they are undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:45 PM
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The real world does not train us to flatten individuals into 3 photos and 500 letters. Real world interactions encourage us to try to get to know other people, while online dating encourages us to seek reasons to reject people. Under conditions where relationships are commodified and made as shallow as possible, women will always have the upper hand because society provides them with more guidance regarding their aesthetics. The owners of these businesses know this and have purposely created con…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:43 PM
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I agree with all of the serious issues you brought up here. And you make all of us look stupid and damage our ability to make progress when you allow yourself to be baited into petty bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:27 PM
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Just because someone profits from evil behavior does not negate the fact that they are still choosing to engage in evil behavior. You and I do not know the inner workings or the mentalities of the people working at Tinder, Hinge l, etc. and so we can't speak to their motivations. However, it is absolutely a fact that a significant portion of Feminists do actively seek to lift up women and demoralize men as much as possible, and if such a person were looking for a way to have an impact, going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:13 PM
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Male victims are constantly and consistently ignored, invalidated, and dismissed, because of the narrative that men are perpetrators and oppressors, and so cannot be victims. Absolutely correct. So why are you whining about a coffee shop that hasn't existed for years instead of actually talking about that problem? Is there a possibility your attention is being co-opted to distract you from meaningful issues? Nobody thought suing would do a thing, because while discriminating against women is alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:08 PM
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I don't think we have enough knowledge about how these apps are programmed to say whether or not there is a conspiracy, we can only see the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:55 PM
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I'm sure they thought active discrimination against half the people on the planet to redress some perceived injustice was the right thing to do, it just turns out it was an incredibly poor business plan. So you're admitting they probably didn't do it because they thought it would maximize profit. Thank you. You're mad about a coffee shop that you have never and will never go to, that went out of business years ago. Doesn't the universal outrage and the viral nature of this story prove that socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:52 PM
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Do you think that every business makes every deciding to maximize profit? You're not aware that sometimes people do things because they think it's the right thing to do? More importantly, why are you so attached to a story about some random coffee shop in a place you don't live that you've almost certainly never read about beyond a headline? Do you think maybe this is just a little too convenient of a fit for your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:38 PM
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The point is they thought it would help them succeed compared to other businesses. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:21 PM
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Dating apps give women infinite options for sex and relationships. The message that women receive from dating apps is: "You are desirable, you can have anything you want" The message the overwhelming majority of men receive from dating apps is: "You are undesirable, no one wants you." Do I need to explain why this is harmful to men and beneficial to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:20 PM
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Are we going to pretend we don't understand that dating apps benefit women and damage men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:54 PM
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The Cafe example is a bit silly. Most small coffee shops or cafes will go under in less than a year, it's the nature of the industry. Very silly to attribute that to any progressive policies, regardless of whether you agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:41 PM
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The Cafe example is a bit silly. Most small coffee shops or cafes will go under in less than a year, it's the nature of the industry. Very silly to attribute that to any progressive policies, regardless of whether you agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:41 PM
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Very funny to see so called progressives advocate for handing control of human sexuality and intimacy to a small handful of multi national corporations just because those corporations create conditions that benefit women over men. There is no limit to the self destructive urges of the male feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:39 PM
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You could not call up specifically the actor from Challengers because he is not in your community, but you have free reign for actual men in your communities. Edit: Assuming you're at least average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:48 PM
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Except when women talk about who they are attracted to, they're talking an unrealistic, hyper athleticized Hollywood standard. Same way dudes get porn brain and can't get hard for real women, women get RomCom brain and can't feel attraction to normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:46 PM
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Traitors gonna trait
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:50 AM
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I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:33 AM
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Explain what? That you've poisoned your brain hate watching Fresh and Fit and now you have a delusional understanding of men and how they behave? What am I supposed to explain about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:28 AM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:24 AM
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No I'm not saying I want bodily autonomy taken away, I find that despicable. I'm saying the Feminist movement is an embarrassment to progressivism and the loss of women's rights was the obvious outcome of the unseriousness within feminism over the past decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:36 PM
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But by 50 year old drunk guy catcalling you, you mean any guy who isn't perfect. Like be real, you have more options than that readily available to you, but they either aren't Hollywood good looking, or they aren't making 6 figures, or they have their own feelings and emotions that you don't want to have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:22 PM
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Showering with gifts is an exaggeration, but it's just not true to say that average looking women don't have access to basically any kind of relationship they could want with any kind of guy they could want. That is gaslighting and it's why a lot of men become blackpilled, they don't understand why people are trying to deny obvious reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:15 PM
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But you're using language that implies obligation. I agree with you, if your partner doesn't care about making you cum you should break up with them regardless of gender. What I don't like is the language that implies obligation and is only directed at one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:02 PM
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A decent American, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:59 PM
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Very funny, in this one thread we have one feminist claiming anti sex feminism doesn't exist, and another feminist actively advocating for anti sex feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:47 PM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:42 PM
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Well I'm a radical socialist so yes I do believe workers have the right to do whatever they want to their employers as long as the coercive capitalist system exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:41 PM
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Lol, if I had a penny every time a Feminist told me they know what I feel better than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:19 PM
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She's stating that women have an innate role to get to select their partners and men don't enjoy the same rights. Putting aside the fact that this is literally something Ed Kemper said, it does imply that women are solely responsible for the outcome of their relationships, since they have the special choosing power magically imbued into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:39 PM
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Just because something was not true in the past does not mean it is not true now. For instance: In the Bush years there were critics if the GOP who called the party Fascist. While it is true that Bush was a war criminal and a hate-monger, it is not accurate to call the GOP Fascist because he wasn't enacting a Fascist domestic policy. Trump, on the other hand, is absolutely an out-and-out Fascist. So while it used to be incorrect to call the GOP Fascist, it is now an accurate statement. The same …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:36 PM
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Sorry, let me rephrase. Feminists hate male heterosexuality. Because Feminists seek to have complete control of their relationships and partners, they devalue their partners' contribution to the relationship by portraying male heterosexuality as dirty or dangerous. Example: Coyote Ugly, a movie from 25 years ago about the lives of women who work as exotic dancer/bartenders is often derided as misogynistic because of shots that appeal to male sexual fantasy. However Magic Mike, a contemporary fil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:24 PM
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The number of Feminists who come into this sub and try to silence disagreement should be illuminating to observers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:15 PM
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Feminism founded many positive social movements before it became perverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:13 PM
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Feminists have difficulty listening to the opinions of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:03 PM
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You're just incorrect. Anti-sex feminism is a prominent strain within the movement. Now typically these anti-sex feminists will not outright express their hatred for sex, and will instead try to portray male heterosexuality as disgusting or perverse, or overemphasize the dangers of relationships, but their goal is to break down the relationships between men and women so that women can be more easily manipulated into anti-male extremism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:01 PM
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Literally all court cases are just precedent that's how common law works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:59 PM
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Roe was overturned because two generations of so-called feminists decided to dedicate their lives to petty whining about bad ex boyfriends instead of entrenching and expanding women's legal rights. Roe being overturned was evil, a crime against all Americans, and it is exactly what the Feminists deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:58 PM
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Because the 1990s mark the beginning of Third Wave feminism, which sought to renegotiate the terms of relationships now that equality has been achieved. Followed by the "fuck em let's take everything" mentality of fourth wave feminism in the 2010s. The 1990s were the beginning of the decline of Feminism. Once women achieved legal equality there were no more legitimate fights to be had, so Feminism had to invent fights to sustain itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:55 PM
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Relationships are something women select, like a manager looking at candidates for a job position. Then it's her own fault if she has an abusive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:49 PM
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Fake news
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:47 PM
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Take that bullshit to Florida where it belongs. Edit: Also wow what a shock, a feminist who wants to talk shit about my sexuality, never seen that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:44 PM
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It's not my responsibility to keep anyone safe anymore than it's my partner's responsibility to keep me safe. We are free and equal individuals. You are literally just spreading pro-traditionalist pseudopsychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:43 PM
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No, I think women with traditional values are more likely to have this viewpoint. So "feminism" is kind of too broad of a spectrum because there's Left feminism and Right feminism. I guess I'm more referring to a low openness mentality. I'm an extremely high openness person, often to a fault, and so a low openness person would be a big turn off for me, and they would probably not be into me either. And I suspect that if you are freaked out by dating a bisexual person, you're probably pretty low …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:40 PM
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The "they" that you're referring to includes me, and I do not feel that way, so your statement is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:33 PM
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There is a critical mass of men that hurt women and children out of sadism. Those men are in the general population at all times, like red coloured M&M's in a full bag. Fearmongering. Women don't understand male psychology well enough to work out which man it is Condescending. Women have to put their hands in the bag and pull out one at random Women pick their partners at random? Are you sure about that? Modern men will not help women work out which ones are bad and women are tired of being hurt…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:31 PM
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Feminists are opposed to sex because it is a natural force that can bring men and women together and bind them, and Feminists profit by polarizing women against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:24 PM
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Man: Describes a well documented social phenomenon Woman: Look who's telling on himself lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:16 PM
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Women: We hate men! All men are rapists! Kill all men! Also Women: Why don't men like us?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:12 PM
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This is not true. We know this is not true because, when men try to express this they are mocked. What do you think #NotAllMen means? They absolutely do believe that every one of us is born evil and they say so openly. It's gaslighting to say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:10 PM
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Another way of putting this is that men want sex and intimacy, but resent the poor treatment they receive from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:07 PM
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In the 70s there was a RadFem concept called Political Lesbianism, in which women would reject the conditions of heterosexual relationships by turning to homosexuality for sexual release. I am personally in favor of men doing this now, although as a natural bisexual I recognize this is a lot easier for me than the average guy. I think the AI, sex robot, etc stuff is an extension of this. Straight men's perceived inability to abstain from sex puts them at a disadvantage to women in heterosexual r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:05 PM
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If women have a problem, it's men's fault. If men have a problem, it's men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:54 PM
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Blowjobs are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:52 PM
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Thats a very interesting and complicated question. I have never explicitly experienced hemophobia from women I've dated, but I suspect that if a person held that view there would be other cultural signifiers that would turn me off to her before getting to that point. It's my understanding that women, even bisexual women, are statistically far more likely than men reject a potential partner for bisexuality. That being said I do find more ease in my gay hook ups. Guys seem to approach dating with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:36 PM
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Over rate their own level of attractiveness compared to how women rate them, because women rate all men as ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:21 PM
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Absolutely agree with everything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:17 PM
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I agree with this. I have never heard any feminist talk about things women can do to be better partners, to improve the state of hetero relationships, etc. It's always men's responsibility to change themselves. We've had a decade straight of non-stop reform and improvement on the part of men and absolutely no change in the mindsets and actions of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:42 PM
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Sure, women have no agency and can't be held responsible for their actions. Very new and interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:31 PM
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Sometimes when you are nice to people, they are shitty to you in return. If you can't deal with that fact then you're too precious for this world. It is utterly unhinged to choose to live a cut off and cold life because you are afraid of other people. You are encouraging women to let their lives be ruled by fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:28 PM
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"Being nice is dangerous" Unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:11 PM
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In what other situations would you say "X group do not suffer from a problem, so they have no obligation to fix it." I believe in everyone working to alleviate suffering for everyone. You don't believe in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:43 PM
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If you're not ready, you're not ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:54 PM
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Nobody said you are at fault for your traumatic experiences, you're not. But traumatic experiences, by definition, are not normal experiences. Allowing our traumas to be the prism through which we view the world causes us to catastrophize and precise threats where they do not exist. I am speaking as someone who has been in therapy for cPTSD caused by childhood trauma and abusive relationships for the past three years. I have had to learn to not view all women through the prism of the women who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:49 PM
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I'm a man and I don't think a compliment is an invitation for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:45 PM
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You're saying that you acknowledge that women put themselves in a potentially dangerous position when they compliment men. I acknowledge no such thing. It is not inherently dangerous for a man to think you are attracted to him, and saying otherwise is unhinged. But regardless of the reason, you think women should compliment men who might insult, threaten, or even hurt them for their kind deed Yes. Because that's what it means to be a kind person. Any person who is kind to another person faces th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:42 PM
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Dog shit take. When people refer to body confidence as "narcissism" they give the game up. You likely don't feel good about yourself, and I sympathetize with that, I felt exactly the same way when I was in my late teens/early 20s, but this is a small minded and self-limiting way to think about the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:28 PM
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It sounds as though you've had traumatic experiences, and catastrophizing is a symptom of ptsd. I'm suggesting you may not be a good judge of what goes on in normal situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:15 PM
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If you're not here to discuss heterosexuality, you're off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:12 PM
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We're on a subreddit that is specifically created to debate issues surrounding heterosexual relationships. Stop dodging the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:09 PM
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If your thought process goes: -IF I compliment a man's appearance -THEN he will call me a bitch and a cock tease You are catastrophizing. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:06 PM
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Is there any condition affecting heterosexuality that you view as being women's responsibility? Or are men the only people who should ever be asked to do the work of making heterosexuality work? reinforcing that a compliment is not always flirting What exactly does this look like in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:04 PM
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Catastrophizing is a cognitive distortion that prompts people to jump to the worst possible conclusion, usually with very limited information or objective reason to despair. www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/catastrophizing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:59 PM
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Not by itself, but it will help. And I think the massive amount of pushback you get when you suggest women should be more kind to men helps illustrate a bigger problem within modern feminism, and I think shining light on that problem is more important than the actual issue at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:47 PM
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I think a massive problem among the heteros is that men, generally speaking, don't believe they are attractive. This happens for myriad reasons, including the traditional social norm that men are not supposed to invest serious energy into their appearance. However, much of this would be mitigated if attractive men were just told they are attractive by the people who they are attracted to. There is a massive self image disparity between men and women, which causes men to perceive themselves as be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:41 PM
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This would not be a problem if women would give more compliments to men. Men read compliments from women as signs of attraction because women rarely compliment men if they don't find him attractive. You have the power to fix this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:38 PM
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Men don't receive compliments from women unless they are being hit on. Women have the power to change this dynamic by giving men more compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:37 PM
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Telling a guy "you are attractive" will probably lead him on. Saying "your haircut looks nice" or "that's a nice shirt" is not going to lead him on. If women have such poor social skills they don't know how to compliment someone without it sounding like a come-on, they should work on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:35 PM
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I agree that men should compliment one another, and try to do this in my own life. However, I don't think we can pretend that hetero men receiving compliments from other men is going to have the same impact as receiving compliments from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:14 PM
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What gave you the impression I want to engage with you? You made it clear you don't care enough to do anything, so go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:12 PM
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He says thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:09 PM
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I agree with this and have made comments elsewhere in this thread saying so. The response I'm getting from Feminists is that it's not women's responsibility to be nice to men, which sort of shows the root of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:08 PM
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This is the response you get if you ask women to make even the smallest change in their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:04 PM
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Yes and they should do that too. But it is ridiculous to suggest that hetero men receiving compliments from one another would have the same impact as would be had if women would step up and do their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:02 PM
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Men compliment women's appearance and women don't compliment men's appearances. There's a very obvious a straightforward solution to this problem. But of course, the minute anyone suggests women lift a finger to improve conditions you get "Why is it my responsibility?", "What about when men do xyz?". So tiresome. If you want things to get better then do your part. If you don't care enough to do your part the least you could do is keep your mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:42 PM
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I agree with this, but would add that the gender compliment disparity is a real problem and women need to step up their game and be kinder to men about their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:31 PM
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And also the men calling Margot Robbie mid probably aren't under the impression they have the opportunity to sleep with her, whereas dudes who post "Gorgeous 😍😍😍" under some Insta girl's post probably do think they have a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:29 PM
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I think that OP is addressing a real social problem but doing so in somewhat childish terms. It is absolutely a fact that women receive more positive feedback about their appearance compared to men, especially on social media. It is also a fact that, generally speaking, women tend to overrate their own appearance, while men tend to underrate theirs. This causes obvious problems in the hetero world. The solution to this problem is not for men to become more cruel, it's for women to become more ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:21 PM
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OP is more concerned with the fact that, as a general rule, women receive far more positive feedback regarding their appearance than men do. One extremely famous woman having something negative said about her does not disprove the social trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:17 PM
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You've been told where to go to find what you're looking for and you refuse to do it. You're just being childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:06 PM
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You're just making up a scenario to get upset about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:18 PM
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I agree with this. As a man who often does not cum during sex, I don't put that on my partner. If I'm in a one-time hook up situation, I'll usually lie and say I'm on a medication that makes it difficult to cum. I am responsible for my own orgasm, and if I really want to cum I know how to do it for myself, but it just usually doesn't happen when I'm with a one-time partner. It seems to me that many women are in the same boat as me, and yet they seem to think that it is her partner's responsibili…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:14 PM
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Incredible the mental gymnastics women will go through to justify their inability to communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:07 PM
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OP: The sky is blue This commenter: Uhhhmmm... Source????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:43 PM
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That's fair, and maladaptive is probably better if the goal is to actually cause the person to understand their own behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:33 PM
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Performative Masculinity would be better, I feel. Masculinity that does not convey genuine feeling, but is performed for the benefit of the observer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:25 PM
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Incredible how fast you lost me with the video. How is it possible for someone to try to go after the social norm that men aren't allowed to show emotion, and the only two examples you can come up with are: Jordan Peterson, a lunatic benzo addict who lost the ability to control his emotions after he CHOSE to put himself in a medically unnecessary coma and, A literal mass murderer who got away with it and pretended to cry on the stand. Truly evil stuff, and a great example of why it is often so e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:20 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:53 PM
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Another example. Survivors of violent crime only matter if they're born with the right genitals, otherwise you deserve violence. This is how women view us, and any man who doesn't understand that is a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:37 AM
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Are you saying that women aren't responsible for having sex? Only men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:52 PM
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And then she chose to become a mother by giving birth instead of getting an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:07 PM
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Lol, then why are you here? Did you think you were having a private conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:55 PM
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I'm a man and I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:19 PM
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My takeaway from this response is that you're incapable of listening to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:14 PM
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I strongly disagree. Post-coital contraception like abortion and Plan B has enabled us to separate sex from reproduction. This is socially good. When two people have sex, there is really no need for them to worry about whether or not the woman will get pregnant, because the woman is capable of fixing that problem with relative ease (pre-Dobbs). The only reason a man should be worried that unprotected sex will result in a baby is if the woman he's having sex with is so irresponsible that she woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:04 PM
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This is 100% true. And yet MGTOW and TRP are not getting praise in corporate advertisements. They're not being endorsed by international super-celebrities like Taylor Swift. The male version of this stuff lives in a dark basement and comes out to be mean on the internet. The female version is the dominant social viewpoint in America. Unlike the feminists, I don't generally like to punch down on people who have no power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:01 PM
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But conception does not automatically result in birth. For a birth to happen, the mother has to decide to make it happen by not getting an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:12 AM
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If you have a "Why should I?" Response when asked to care for your society, there's nothing for us to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:11 AM
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Yes, we know that's the justification you're using. They're asking why the question of forced monetary support is relevant to who gestates babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:09 AM
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Trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:05 AM
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But it can move people out of the "bad person" category and into the "victim" category. Status isn't necessarily the right word, but it does gain sympathy. And people with certain personality disorders often lie to gain sympathy, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:52 AM
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And yet you support this viewpoint when it means forcing men to pay money to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:17 PM
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Why should a man be obligated individually to pay for a child he doesn't want? Furthermore, you want children of single parents to be supported, as do I. I think most people in society agree. So why do we pawn off this responsibility to a single individual instead of taking responsibility as a society and using the state to provide that support?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:16 PM
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Do you believe that abortion is immoral? Do you stand by people who believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:36 PM
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Wouldn't this be an argument against child support? Child support not only applies a double standard that allows women to control the lives of men without losing the same freedom, it also incentivizes violence against women on the form of forced or coerced abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:33 PM
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What she's saying is she wants a double standard to be applied where men are trapped by unwanted pregnancy but women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:30 PM
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Yes. Which is how women date, typically. When a woman says "I love you" it comes with a silent "...until I can find something better."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:25 PM
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To anyone reading this thread: Remember that the dishonest reasoning being employed by u/velvetalocasia in this argument is the same reasoning abilities she uses when forming all her opinions. If you share any opinion with her, hopefully her behavior her can help serve as a wake up call. Anyone would reasonablely be embarrassed to be on the same side as a mental lightweight like u/velvetalocasio and you do not need to tie yourself to bad faith actors like this to support gender equality, there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:35 PM
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Lol literally acting out the meme. "I'm just gonna pretend I don't understand."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:11 PM
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You: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/that-sign-cant-stop-me-because-i-cant-read
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:02 PM
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Yes, the pregnancy. Not the birth. So you do understand then, thank you. I am done with this nonsense I have better things to do than argue on the internet with a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:56 PM
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The how do single mothers give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:54 PM
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You think pregnancies come to be without male involvement This is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:48 PM
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You have no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:44 PM
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When are you going to address the fact that you can't have butterflies without caterpillars? I have already explained to you, multiple times, why your point is irrelevant, and you continue to just repeat the point over and over. Other people have come into this thread and tried to explain to you why your point is irrelevant, and you continue to just repeat the point over and over. Either you have serious mental deficiencies, or you are being willfully obtuse. Either way, your contributions to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:33 PM
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You are too childish to have serious conversations and you should let the adults handle things until you're ready to grow up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:27 PM
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You talked only about yourself. Literally the only thing I said was about the opinions that women have shared with me. Me sharing things women have said to me is me talking about myself, but you making broad claims about what all women think is... what exactly? And at least be consistent and label yourself "anti-feminist". I believe that the traditional gender norms that society places on us are harmful and restrictive to everyone; whether theyre male, female, or anything else. The modern femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:14 PM
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No one cares what you have to say you've proven yourself to be a dishonest actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:05 PM
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u/mr_citizen Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:04 PM
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That is what I mean. You are making a mistake by thinking they don't understand my argument, they just don't want to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:04 PM
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Feminist: Shares her personal feelings and says its the way all women feel. Man: "Actually I've known a lot of women who don't seem to feel that way." Feminist: "Good for you."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:03 PM
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I have explained this to you repeatedly. I'm not going to waste mybtime answering the same question over and over again for a person who is refusing to acknowledge the point being made. I've said it before in this thread but I'll say it again. Male Feminists: take a look at the behavior of your sisters-in-arms. Look at the purposely obtuse argumentation that gets put forward when female feminists are faced with a traditional gender norm that benefits women. Ask yourself an important question: do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:57 PM
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I've explained it to you at least twice now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:50 PM
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All mothers have been pregnant, however not all pregnant people become mothers. This means there must be an extra step between pregnancy and motherhood: the pregnant person's decision to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:47 PM
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You are being purposely dense in order to defend traditionalist gender norms. Feminists do not oppose traditional gender norms, they only oppose traditional gender norms that advantage men. When a traditionalist gender norm advantages women, they will fight for it to the death. Men who consider themselves allies to this movement should take note and practice critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:44 PM
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Then you do understand my argument. You're pretending to not understand when it comes to child support because not understanding gives you permission to support traditionalist gender norms and, in this situation, traditional gender norms benefit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:41 PM
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Lol. Leave it to the feminist to ignore the argument and just repeat their slogan. Hey btw how's that whole protecting women's rights thing going for you? You guys are doing a good job of that, right? ...Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:39 PM
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Whether or not someone becomes pregnant is irrelevant to whether or not they will have to raise children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:37 PM
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Men cause pregnancy. Women cause motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:35 PM
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Getting pregnant does not guarantee that you will give birth. Another choice has to be made after the sex act, and can only be made by the woman. If you give me a car and I get into a wreck because I choose to drive irresponsibly, should you be on the hook for my medical bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:35 PM
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But becoming pregnant does not guarantee that you will give birth. When a woman becomes pregnant, she is faced with the choice of whether or not to keep that pregnancy. Every single time a woman gives birth (Dobbs notwithstanding) it is because she has chosen to do so. I believe that she should be the only one to make that choice, and I believe that only the people with agency should be held responsible for the outcomes of that choice. What you are advocating for is less freedom for women, and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:32 PM
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Of course that would never happen IRL. Non-struggle attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:21 PM
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How they became fertilized: through the act of sex with him. (Assumimg the children were actually his and he was not a victim of paternity fraud.) How they became a mother: After the sex act, these women discovered that they were pregnant and made the choice for themselves to give birth. Based on his later actions, it seems safe to assume that Mr. Sand was not pressuring these women to keep their pregnancies, so they made the decision of their own volition. Women are grown adults. They are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:17 PM
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You can read my mind through the internet, that's an incredible power
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:11 PM
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Not from your statements I didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:04 PM
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You need me to explain it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:03 PM
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What did I say that would make you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:01 PM
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I... I'm sorry... are you anti Obergefell?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:01 PM
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Presuming this wasn't in the last two years, fertilizing a woman's egg does not guarantee that she will have a child. Choosing not to have an abortion guarantees that you will have a child. If a woman is unable to raise a child on her own, the smart thing to do is have an abortion. If she chooses not to have an abortion despite being unable to raise a child, no one can stop her, but she certainly shouldn't expect the man to bail her out just because he inseminated her. He had nothing to do with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:59 PM
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Yes. Edit: If you want my for-real-for-real beliefs on this I think child-rearing should be the responsibility of the state. I don't really buy into the idea of parental rights for anyone. Sex should be separated from reproduction. Reproduction should be handled by the state and achieved through artificial means. Child rearing should be a collective effort by society, not just left to the whims of whoever squeezed the kid out of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:52 PM
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Literally exactly the same argument that opponents of gay marriage used to make. "It's not inequality, straight men and gay men can both marry women." Thank God that courts in the US are not foolish enough to fall for this reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:51 PM
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If the woman can't afford to raise the child, she can get an abortion. Whether she chooses to have the child or not have the child, it's her choice either way. No one should be made to pay her money just because she made the wrong choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:48 PM
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It's disgusting that someone had to flee the country because they didn't want to bear the consequences of someone else's decisions. It shows the unbearable cruelty of the existing system.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:47 PM
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A man who gets a parking ticket chose to park his car illegally. What you're arguing for would be like someone going to jail for not paying someone else's parking ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:45 PM
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And it's a shame that the woman would choose to have a child she can't support, that's very irresponsible of her. That is still not the man's responsibility. The man had no agency in making that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:42 PM
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And she should have that choice, 100%. But if you are the only one who can choose, you are also the only one responsible for the outcome of that choice. On the most biologically fundamental level, men are being held accountable for the decisions of women. That is unjust on its face, and it's responsible for a huge amount of the distrust among the heteros.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:41 PM
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I've had lots of conversations with women where they talked about what attracts them to particular men, and I've never in my life heard any of them say kindness. Edit: I've heard women talk about kindness when talking about why they want a committed relationship with someone. But when talking about attraction they talk about height, facial features, overall style, body type
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:30 PM
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I'm sure they love you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:22 PM
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Sociopathy and psychopathy are rare, but certain people are proudly misanthropic. Those people aren't gregarious or popular. Just gonna throw it out there that psychopaths are actually quite popular a lot of the time, because they develop pro social skills in order to better manipulate others. Psychopaths tend to have more friends and more sexual partners than the rest of us because of their honed social skills and risk-taking behavior, even if these relationships are only surface level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:20 PM
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A woman who assumes she knows everything about a man she's barely met. Never heard of that before...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:10 AM
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Why is this important? Why bother with something so time consuming and expensive when you barely know each other? This is happening because the majority of women have no emotional connection to their partners and instead just use them for material gain, an extra income to leech off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:07 AM
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Oh hey, you're back. Back to save the day once more by telling men their life experiences didn't happen, thank God we have a hero like you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:53 AM
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This is how women treat men. Evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:07 AM
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You lack empathy. Like most feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:05 AM
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Once, I was assaulted coming out of the bar at 2 am. Men are victims of violent crime more often than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:05 AM
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Lol, no you got those backward. To empathize is to feel the feelings of others. To sympathize is to understand and pity others. You are failing to empathize with the suffering of our hypothetical virgin, to feel his pain, and I suspect it's because you have difficulty empathizing with men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:12 PM
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You do know not every guy wants to engage in sex with strangers right? Lol, well yeah as one of these men I am aware that we exist lol. One is called "sucessful" one is called promiscuous ". You are right, this is one of the problems with traditional gender norms. However feminists often practice the same double standard in reverse. Promiscuous men are fuck boys or worse, promiscuous women are liberated. At the end of the day, you're being asked to empathize with a person who is suffering. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:46 PM
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I think OP is clear that he is drawing this based on what women typically say they want from a partner, either in surveys or anecdotally, and contrasting that picture with the men who are often the most sexually successful. Ie. Women do often claim that looks are less important to them than honesty, kindness, etc. They often talk down on "fuck boy" types. And yet if we look at women's revealed preferences, it is clear that this men are often very successful with women. OP is asking you to empath…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:53 PM
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A question that should be asked to a huge percentage of women. Why are you so cowardly that you respond with fear to any man you see in public? Many people feel unsafe in public, only one gender gets shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:32 PM
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Lol, still desperately trying to change the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:56 PM
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No it doesn't. Modern criminal justice disadvantages poor people. Does that mean it advantaged poor people in the past? Modern feminists have failed to adapt to the modern world. Women have attained equality, broadly, but still suffer under the norms and expectations placed on them by the traditional gender dichotomy, as do men. Rather than trying to alleviate the suffering of both men and women under traditional gender norms, feminists have instead chosen to reinforce the dichotomy and engage m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:51 PM
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if you've saying modern marriage disadvantages men that means you think there was a point where marriage advantaged men This is a leap in logic, being disadvantaged currently does not mean you were advantaged in the past. You are trying to change the subject so that you can talk about conditions that existed in the past, because this is an easier space for you to make your arguments. Feminism is an ideology that seeks to continue rehashing conflicts that were settled in the last century in order…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:11 PM
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I was with you until you called an apartheid nepo baby who abuses ketamine "mainstream"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:39 PM
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You're right. A jury of his peers felt that his defamation against the Sandy Hook families was so egregious that they awarded the largest civil defamation damages in US history to the families. Alex is the GOAT of defamation, and that status is now a matter of public record. However, if you listen to Alex's show regularly like I do, you'll find that he often complains about groups like Media Matters or the ADL, who take clips from his videos and debunk or mock them, and refers to this activity a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:26 PM
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And I will add you to the list of women who actively gaslight men. Seems like it's basically all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:04 PM
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I agree with you, which is why I called people who think it is (Alex, F&F, and OP) cretins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:55 PM
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It most certainly is, same whiny indignation that someone dares to tell them they're wrong. Members of the cult won't see it, same way feminists won't see when it's done by their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:48 PM
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It's the same mentality of cretins like Alex Jones or the Fresh and Fit guys. Disagreement = Censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:47 PM
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You don't think that it's possible for a student to sit on a scholarship selection? You've never heard of that before? The only thing I see from you is, over and over, no matter what I say about my life, you insist it isn't true. This is the experience I've had throughout my life with women who demand that I trust them over my own perception so that they can manipulate and use me. This is how women operate, and it is the reason women can't be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:43 PM
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...You're not aware of transfer scholarships? I'm at a two year community college and transferring to a four year university. Are you sure you're not the one lying because you don't seem like you know much about this? Or is this just your reflexive desire to deny men's lived experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:06 AM
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While they're in the relationship, meaning they're still lulled into a false sense of security and haven't yet seen their partner's ugly side
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:57 AM
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If you have not seen women behave in ways that are parasitic and manipulative, you have not spent time around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:54 AM
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What business is it of a parent who their adult kids date?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:34 AM
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I'm pushing 30 and I have also been on scholarship selection boards, you have no idea what you're talking about. Tho super cool of a supposed faculty member to seemingly be unaware that non-trad students exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:14 AM
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Lol, you are well aware that concern trolling and suggesting someone personally upend their own life to combat the problem are not "helping". This is absurd on its face and you are being dishonest. You're not trying to help, what you're doing is coming up with justifications for why you don't need to care about the broader social problem. And also, aren't women the ones in the victim business? You're not willing to spread the victim wealth around a little?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:12 AM
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I'm so glad I have a woman here to tell me my life experiences didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:00 AM
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Overwhelming majority of these require membership in an organization, a sport, or a specific social experience like having a single parent. Womens scholarships do not carry these requirements. If you get good grades and you are lucky enough to be born a woman, you will be showered with free money. Men do not enjoy this privilege, and denying its existence is gaslighting. Further evidence that women are incapable of recognizing other people's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:50 AM
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Man: There is massive inequity in the scholarship funding available to men. Woman: Well since you aren't willing to dedicate your entire life to this problem, it must not be real and I'm going to ignore it. Pretty typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:44 AM
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Oh sure. Real quick do you have millions of dollars I can borrow to start an endowment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:39 AM
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I have been applying for scholarships for months and have never seen a male only scholarship that is not associated with a fraternity. I do not believe you. My experience looking for scholarships at least 50% of the time goes like this: "Oh hey, I'm qualified for this! Oh wow, more than qualified... oh no, women only..."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:37 AM
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Fake news
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:16 AM
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And women don't face rejection in their daily lives. They are used to being given the things they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:12 AM
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I've had multiple conversations with women I work with where they said men should pay for dates and mocked men who didn't want to do this. Stop pretending women are angels. You are making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:54 AM
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Women receive millions of dollars in female only scholarships despite making up 60% of college graduates. Not working hard, taking free money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:32 AM
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I'm glad you're open about this, it shows honesty. Feminists do not have material complaints and are actually imbittered people who seek other people to take their frustrations out on. Men are one of the only social groups that society allows people to abuse, and so we are an easy target for mentally ill, rage-sick women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:01 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:59 PM
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Could you please limit the number of questions next time? I'll ask as many questions as you please. There's no battle-of-the-races taking place on social media. There is a battle-of-the-races though so it's more acceptable to share this perspective without being cancelled. I think there's a typo here and you meant to say "there is a battle of the sexes" Interpreting your comment this way it sounds like you're saying you treat men this way because you can get away with it. Am I misunderstanding s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:57 PM
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Horoscopes are woke?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:45 PM
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And marriage licenses were created to enforce anti-miscgenation and eugenics laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:44 PM
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100% agree. I wouldn't date a strongly religious person so that reason is out. Other than religious grounds, suggesting marriage is an absolute red flag. "This relationship is so great and I love you... that's why you should sign this contract saying you can never break up with me."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:40 PM
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Absolutely irrelevant. Men and women both cheat on their partners and this has nothing to do with whether or not modern marriage disadvantages men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:17 PM
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Do you hold other groups responsible for crimes committed by individuals in that group? If a person of a particular race committed a crime, would you tell the members of that race to "get it together"? If not, what is the difference between doing this to the members of a race and doing this to the members of a gender? Furthermore, are other genders responsible for the actions of their fellows? If a nonbinary person does SA, would you view that as a strike against all nonbinary people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:46 PM
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