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PsychologicalHand155/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:19 AM
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A girl who likes money does not have to like traditional roles. For the most part, you have more control over your money than your looks. Looks is genetics. At least with hard work, you can have money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:30 PM
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Someone being attractive doesn’t have to interrupt my day to day. It’s more like a 1/2 second “huh, he’s cute” and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:12 AM
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The two most confident thing in a man: true confidence (not ignorantly arrogant) have a strong passion and actively persuing it. (Not just a hobby) I literally cannot stop girl crushing on guys like this. My bf is soooo passionate about his work and he has real self confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:13 PM
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Are you talking about dating or marriage? Dating? Absolutely. Marriage? No. You would be a fool to settle for a lame man/woman. Marriage is when you commit to someone for life. Dating is the trial periid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:43 PM
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What? Relevance? You said women ditched and ran. Yet like 20% of their military is women…? Surely you don’t expect women to ditch their children and stay behind to fight while strangers take their kids to another country right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:46 PM
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Way to discret the women who stayed to fight. Guess their life ain’t worth remembering and their sacrifice should be reduced to lies and slander Maybe you should look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:09 AM
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Nothing. Probably be nuclear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:05 AM
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Yet half of marriages divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:53 AM
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I’m on the other end. Grew up toxic broke home that didn’t divorce until i was done with college. I also had a lot of other shit. (Being born a girl in china during the one child policy sucked). I do not recommend people like me. Maybe not red flag but definitely an orange flag. My husband is an angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:51 PM
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Which study are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:38 PM
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So he gave it up. Not that she took it. Well we can’t help that. If it is his choice, who are you to get mad about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:38 PM
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Alimony is rare. Like i said in a prior reply, you are welcome to screen women with no career out as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:28 PM
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If you are poor, don’t buy any drinks. Just humor the girls and go on your way. Also, if you are poor, don’t go to bars. Poor money management
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:57 PM
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Both. It’s not that big of s deal too but drinks for 4-5 people. But he wants to be predator and someone said expects at least dry humping and something else. Like dude, if you want to pay for sex, hire a sex worker. Plus, to assume you would get anything for 15$ is literally degrading me below the cheapest hooker… hard red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:48 PM
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If there is a landmark case it’s showing how cultures are changing. This supports it more. You would think men would file for dead bedrooms. Sounds like concealed income is a man’s fault but women are blamed for the divorce. Mutual irreconcilabke differences? Why doesn’t the man file? Men work more probably because of the culture to expect women to give up their career and also classic women’s labor aren’t counted as hours
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:45 PM
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You split marital assets in half……..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:42 PM
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10 secondd clearly wasnt enough for you to read your own source that supports my point: “when a child’s parents are of different genders, there is a common perception that the gender of each parent plays a role in a court’s resolution of child custody. Accordingly, a common question that attorneys hear from fathers in the midst of custody disputes is “Can I really expect to get custody (primary or equally shared) of my children?” The answer is a resounding yes” Oh so it’s saying this is a common…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:41 PM
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I buy drinks for rounds of friends at times. Not that often but it’s bc i am not a big drinker. Going in and buying one drink can feel predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:37 PM
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What were the rest of the faults then? They provided several cases of going to trial and resulting in changes in politics. Which means was it really a law that was enforced? When you reference a link, would be helpful if you summarize what you are using that link for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:47 AM
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I’m not a lawyer and am not interested in reading all those fancy terms and symbols. But here is from wiki and case reports af the bottom. Women should be cautious of who they marry. But people can hide who they are and can change. But a good man is very valuable for a husband and father. Irreplaceable - like my husband :) Initiating divorce doesn’t mean much. It doesn’t exclude him being a manchild, unablw to pull his weight, abusive, neglectful, cheating, or anything else. So it’s pointless to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:30 AM
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Where is such abundant proof? If there is so many, list one or two
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:19 AM
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No, i’m addressing you “<Only way men lose more is if the woman had less. Which is pretty common. Moreover family court and divorce is well known to favor women over men.” If she gets the house, he would get soemthing else or be bought out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:18 AM
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It’s an hidden gem profession. So chill (unless it is not) and pays great
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:12 AM
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He’s clearly a mad man unhinged to attack him in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:59 AM
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I just told you, you are more likely to survive. Can bullets kill men? Ofc. But it’s more like you cover for her, you may have a 65% of dying. If she covers for you, she has a 75% chance if dying. Percents are made up to help you understand chance of surviving
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:58 AM
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Men have more muscle mass and bone structure- more likely to stop a bullet. Also, men are larger and have more blood volume, so you are more likely to survive assuming all else remains the same. Since men are usually bigger, you are more likely to be able to cover your partner and hide the fact there is a second person under you. i’m a perfusionist. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:52 AM
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I thought you save love changes things. Do you not want to protect your wife of 20 years or do you expect your wife to protect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:49 AM
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Oh make ur wife block a stray bullet?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:37 AM
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Oh? Why not? It’s the best chance of survival for both you and your 20 year married wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:35 AM
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Hid under the seat with your wife under you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:32 AM
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If you are obsessed with risk of divorce and losing half of your shit. Yes. My reply is to guys who just whine about losing half of their shit. If your wife is a doctor, and you have more assets, i assume most is premartial? Which isn’t included in divorce. If not, what do you do and how much would you make to match a heiress?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:30 AM
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Divorce rates have been declining but to answer your question why it isn’t even better…? Back then, a marriage can be shit and toxic (martial rape wasn’t even recognized), they (mostly the woman) would be stuck bc she cannot survive on her own. Now, a woman doesn’t NEED a man anymore. The bar has been raised. Having some mediocre job that barely supports the family and being a manchild at home isn’t gonna cut it anymore. Like sorry…? Women have stepped up. Now men have to catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:30 AM
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I’m not a cheap sex worker who will have sex/grind/make out with you over one drink. Even sex workers charge over 15$
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:54 AM
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So you are buying a drink just for one person you like? You poor? Lol. We like generous guys. Guess you are out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:53 AM
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Define suboptimally. Is it better dead? Half of the men out there are suboptimal. More than half. Hell, i’m a better man than like 90% of the men out there. I could raise a child better than half of the married couples that are heading to toxic divorce. Edit: i’m sure your assumptions are soon to follow. I am not a mother, i’m a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:37 AM
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Man. Women are sooo shitty for viewing what is in her uterus as her child. You trolling right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:29 AM
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It is well in your control to not marry a careerless woman and you can divorce a woman when she stops pulling her weight
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:05 AM
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Homeless people is highly correlated to crime rate. While it isn’t caused by homeless people, criminals will target areas with high homeless people. Also, i hate when people knock on my window to beg me for things. It also makes me feel unsafe. It is not my personal responsibility to decrease homelessness… i pay tax, the people who use my tax money need to work on doing something about it. I am fine if they want to raise taxes to fix real problem… too bad much of taxes goes to line politician po…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:04 AM
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It’s her child if she views it as her child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:00 AM
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Then he got other things. Ie. Investments, cars, etc. he just didn’t tell you everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:00 AM
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This is true for most cases. But if we find a guy who is amazing and one of those “wow, i can’t believe you are single, you are mine”… we definitely make it obvious and be direct. I saw my bf and right away, he was smoking hot. I found out more about him and heard more rumors about him from co workers. Seems like he treats everyone very nice with no ulterior motive, doesn’t sleep around despite looking like a chad, and he would be making well above half a million down the road. Then from interac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:58 AM
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The article did not say “the woman gets the house for free”. If the woman keeps the house, she assumes the mortgage, will have to buy out her ex husband. The wording there is misleading. Most houses are not paid off at time of purchase and those that are, the man would get a cut of the value of the house. He can go buy another house but chooses not to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:35 PM
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Man lose half his shit - women also lose half of her shit. Only way men lose more is if the woman had less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:32 PM
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For not wanting to kill their child? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:30 PM
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They analyzed also by buyers. Which doesn’t matter if they are widowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:30 PM
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Which multivariable analysis?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:26 PM
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Did your buddy buy this house during the marriage? And marry a woman who had no career and also have multiple kids with said woman? Assuming the house is not paid off, did she also assume the remaining mortgage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:21 PM
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That’s not how divorce works. But ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:21 PM
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30 min for drinks is usually 1-1.5 hr total time. 15 min commute to and from, longer if during traffic hours, 15-30 min to get ready. So no, i don’t want to waste 1.5 hrs on a guy i know mothing about just to find out he is either a creep or is expecting sex after first date or so. If a guy doesn’t have patience, he’s not the one for me. I’d rather be single than be dating the wrong guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:12 PM
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Most men matching don’t bother to read the profile. You are giving them too much credit. If a guy isn’t willing to be patient and talk for me to get a feel of them before waiting, then he’s not someone I want to be dating/marrying or even wasting my time on. Texting through an app is wayyyy less time consuming than actually getting together. Plus, we get like hundreds of matches. Easier to screen out some obvious red flags via texting than to meet every single one. Last time I did OLD, i got lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:11 PM
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Even if they say wants to get married… what’s their timeline ? Hours many kids? When do they want kids? What’s their view in roles? What’s their view on many other topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:37 AM
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It depends. Varies between a few days and up to 2 weeks. I work. I don’t want to go to a first date after working most of the time. It takes a few days to figure out if you are a match or not and get a feel of the guy before meeting them in person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:36 AM
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A lazt but good looking guy will be just fine because they are probably ok with not wanting achieve something, being not broke is a low standard and would not call that the bar for competent. Plenty of women well settle for a slightly below average but good looking man. I dare to even say the average man nowadays isn’t someone i would call competent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:06 AM
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Steve. I’m liberal leaning and i think we need to reform some things in the workforce but i can’t stand homeless people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:03 AM
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I’m pretty sure i have explained it already but let me spell it out crystal clear: Men who demands to meet up after 1-2 days on an dating app is a red flag. It brings forward predatory vs desperate vs overall creepy vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:15 PM
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I’m not sayinf being transparent is a red flag. I’m say you are a red flag… hence being transparent so we can see your true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:38 AM
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I have seen my father cheat on my mom. Such a POS. She stayed for various of reasons (mostly for us kids). Each person I dated, i learned what is important and what traits I value. I’m also not average, so no reason I should settle for the avg joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:56 AM
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Yeah. Meeting someone you were talking to for a day from online app is “knowing them”. I would disuade her from meeting guys after talking to them for just 1-2 days. Bc they can stalk me anytime, makes me more cautious to steer away from creeps. If i’m not certain, i steer away from them. You can just say “if we don’t meet up within 48 hrs, i’m dropping you”. You are demanding for being transparent right? So do it. Be transparent. It’s a huge red flag and we would be happy you marked yourself so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:39 AM
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Remember, one in four/five women went through attempted rape or were raped. 1-2 days is not necessarily enough time. People have stalked me when I met in a public place. You have to learn to respect other people’s boundaries. It’s not leading people on if it takes you longer to decide if you want to make time and risk your safety to meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:42 AM
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Let’s put it this way, if you had a daughter, do you want her to be meeting that guy after this two minutes of talking to them on the app? Put yourself in her shoes, why would she want to meet with a total stranger after just a few minutes, she has no idea who you are. You could be like a sex trafficker for all she knows. Anyone who pressures me to meet up with them so quickly and early on is someone who I assume is just trying to get laid. Which is automatically a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:51 PM
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If you are being her friend to get in her pants, are you really her friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:38 PM
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Where did you get this from? Last i read is 4-7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:48 PM
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Apartment hold
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:47 PM
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Traditional women were fucked over. Most traditional families had the mom doing almost all the house work and she STILL needed to go to a job. The rich ones, she could just stay home. What’s the issue? 50:50 is almost never 50:50 anyways. If i went 50/50 for real, i’d demand to be paid a 50% of a nanny fee if I stayed home and watched the kids when he was working. I’d also demand a (50%) surrogacy fee. Then i’d demand a wet nursing fee (50% - remember 1 oz of breast milk is 1$, and a baby drinks…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:31 PM
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My collegues are the opposite. The single men work extra bc they have nothing else to do with their time. It also builds up a nest for potential future family. And if that doesn’t happen, early retirement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:44 PM
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I don’t have time or energy to “practice” for talking to people i’m attracted to. There is no need. I habe plenty of “practice” with non strangers - such as family and friends. If i did what you did, i would literally never have enough time for anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:17 AM
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Oh that was cut off bc the light turned green so i hit reply early but that diesn’t change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:45 AM
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My point is - most of our conversations with strangers are goal direction. Guys over intrepret things like a lot of women do as well. Honestly, i don’t have enough time or energy to worry how a stranger would perceive me. Nor does it really matter. I won’t remember 99% of the people I interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:42 AM
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What edit? I was texting via siri, so i’ll edit if it makes no sense after
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:40 AM
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You would never be able to do much. I pass by over 200 people a day. If i were to stop by and talk to each person for the sake of talking, I would literally never even make it through the day. How does this even make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:19 PM
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Is there something wrong with that? Look at your life, do you talk to people without wanting something all the time? Do you just walk around and chat with random people while you’re getting gas? Do you just walk up to the cashier or not need to buy anything and just start the conversation? I mean yeah, of course that can happen occasionally, but that’s pretty rare. Most the time people have things to do. Communication usually has a purpose behind it. Especially strangers. When strangers talk to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:54 PM
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Guys seems to think if a woman isn’t smiling, they are being an arrogant b1tch… but sometimes we just have RBF or distracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:39 AM
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Have you ever thought… maybe you are thinking too much. If we’re not smiling, men automatically think we’re judging them. Like no, sir. My mouth is tired from faking smiling all day. Let my RBF rest. You even admitted nothing about your car seemed to be a target for gold digger. Most likely, she wanted help to check her tires or something. Like wow. Guys these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:36 AM
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Why would hot girls want sex with a deteriorated body?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:15 PM
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So… Are you looking for a partner or a caretaker for your deteriorated body? I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:15 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:52 AM
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Then even more so. But i disagree. You must be a teen. I campy imagine a30 year old guy be like “i only like girls 18-22”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:29 PM
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It hasn’t. Someone cited something to me weeks back. I meant to reply to them but i unfortunately got busy and it got lost in my notifications
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:29 PM
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Big advantage. Less pressure in your age. So what if you can’t date well in your 30’s? You aren’t the one “hitting a wall at 30”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:31 AM
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This is false. Look up why men don’t get custody and come back
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:28 AM
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Our preference: a chad looking guy who is loyal with a good personality and low count > a guy who still improves my life > single with cats > a guy who drags me down > abusive dead beat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:22 AM
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Enters asians
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:19 PM
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I see it all the time. Ofc they are all doctors lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:48 PM
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Most people are losers. Like sorry, but it’s true. Look at most people living from paycheck to paycheck. How there is a single mother crisis. Yeah, i’ll pass on being one of them. These aren’t dmall risks, these are dumb unnecessary large risks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:30 PM
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You never know what could happen. Birth control can fail. Pregnancy is a factor. It’s just not worth it. What’s the reason i should sleep with a lot level guy where it’s all risks and no rewards? He’s not hot, he’s broke, probably has a crap personality, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:00 AM
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I’m saying because they ARE NOT dead beats, there are less risks having sex with them regarding risk in pregnancy. I’m telling you why we have less hesitation with a top level guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:52 AM
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Top level guys aren’t deadbeats. They also aren’t broke so at least they will support the kid. And we don’t want to be a hook up for a top level guy. We prefer to be their wife. Also, please use paragraphs. This feels like a unending rant/stream of thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:46 AM
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Men: don’t fuck women you don’t want to raise a kid with. Woman: don’t fuck men you don’t want to raise a kid with. People who avoid child support should be penaltized. You should be required to spend time with your child (with some exceptions) even if you don’t want primary custody. There are even better ways but it would violate bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:01 PM
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Not amazon. More like wish… where most items are cheap rip offs. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:54 PM
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My point is, the circ is largely a male issue caused by other males
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:35 AM
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Who is to say if i were a 5 or a 10? Hmmm? You think everyone has the same opinion? Does your rank show up next to your profile pic or something? They can push for sex, they would just be shot down. Who cares if they give up? There are hundreds of guys lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:34 AM
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So i’d only be swipping for engineers, lawyers, doctors, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:09 AM
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Most of those are not listed (at least not when I was single a few years back) You are literally telling me to judge a book by its cover then op is criticizing us for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:47 AM
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Most women i know don’t wear makeup every day. Myself included. Who has time for that? But i also don’t have time for my other hobbies every day either. It’s not self centered to have a hobby that makes you feel good. It’s really is an art. I say as someone who isn’t great at make up and therefore does indeed take me an hour (full make up only for special events)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:23 AM
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You will be shuned, and if you are in china, probably sued and lose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:20 AM
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I’m asia. In my culture, they take father’s even though women don’t change their last name
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:54 PM
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If we swipped right on everyone, then we will have literally hundreds of matches within the first day. Then what…? Do we pick from the bottom of the barrel? Or should we pick from the top? You say swipe 10 times, get like 8 matches. Waste time talking to 7 of them? Maybe men should only swipe right on the woman who they think are marriage material?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:52 PM
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“A Massachusetts study examined 2,100 fathers who asked for custody and pushed aggressively to win it. Of those 2,100, 92 percent either received full or joint custody, with mothers receiving full custody only 7 percent of the time. Another study where 8 percent of fathers asked for custody showed that of that 8 percent, 79 percent received either sole or joint custody (in other words, approximately 6.3 percent of all fathers in the study). “ So yes. If you actually want custody, you will probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:46 PM
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I said “bf/gf/spouse”… so they could just be dating at 19. You want to be someone backup plan and can easily be thrown away? Loss of a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:41 PM
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So you are friends who fuck until they get in a relationship, suddenly their new partner is jealous of you and your friend will prioritize their s/o over you. Now you are out of a fuck buddy and a friend. Why do y’all even do fwb? That’s just a bf/gf/spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:38 PM
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Outside of reddit, most people of both genders are just fine. Most people do have mixed gender friends groups
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:34 PM
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If you treat women like men, it won’t be so exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:16 PM
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Did you… not read the second half…? I literally say I judge women who get knocked up by losers willingly. I judge men sleeping around irresponsibly and now has to pay CS. And most custodies are determined OUTSIDE of court and shown if a man wants it, he usually will get at least joint custody. Don’t blame us women for y’all giving up custody. Also, let’s be honest, yes some men want their kids (more reason to fight for custody) and some men just want “custody” so they can pay less child support …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:33 PM
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Average child support is like 4000 … per YEAR. Who is making 8k per year? Hmmm? If you are only making 8k per year, you shouldn’t be having sex Or you know… get custody and don’t fuck women with no jobs. Edit; i just want to clarify, i absolutely judge women who sleep with AH/bums. That said, it’s harder to predict if their husband will or willnot be a deadbeat if their dating/pre kid situation wasn’t already bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:03 PM
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No. I think she will know what she likes better and will be able to tell you what she likes so she would be easier to please
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:04 AM
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Useless term to describe women, but mot so much for men - by your logic. Bc not every man has a decent or high SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:33 PM
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They are talking SMV. Not RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:25 PM
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Op’s point is that women care less about money and status in who they have sex with… but it’s not the same as relationship value. Like hook ups or one night stands
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:25 PM
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When i said “Just yesterday”… i all referring to this happens so frequently that it’s a common belief in reddit PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:53 AM
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Just yesterday a guy said i must be undesirable if i has to ask out my guy… So… idk man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:47 AM
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The otherside of the story: she sees a house, thinks it can be improved, but it was actually infested with termites and the foundation breaks and she has to burn the whole house down. Or she accepted a house with multiple flaws, then another house popped up in her budget and it is much closer to her dream house. But guess whag? She can’t buy it anymore. i am glad for once, women aren’t the object lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:26 AM
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No. And i have low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:52 AM
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Your entire argument for #2 is “no one will push you to have unprotected sex”… but that’s straight up false. You think men are the ones pressured to have unprotected sex??? Or do you think women are not pressure to have unprotexted sex? Where is the lie for #3? Too much facts for you to handle?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:27 PM
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Most men don’t seem to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:18 PM
3

Is simp the new work for not being trash? Bc it’s way overused
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:10 AM
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You can choose to not do physical labor. No one forces you into physical labor. You can be a doctor and use your brains instead of your muscle. I assume we are referring to countries where career is a choice. Usually it is the men who push for unprotected sex. Not sure where you were going for this one. Being objectify for money is hundreds times better. Money is at least somewhat a reflection of my personality. No one said your life is worthless and you must die for women. If you are thinking m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:07 AM
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What causes you to bleed 5-8 days every month? Esp down there? You got bad hemorrhoids? You don’t have the government telling you to be an incubator. Men do not get objectified and sexualized the way women do. Don’t try to victimize yourself. My point is, people won’t stop by and help me do it now. Previously, i just pop open my trunk to get a jack and spare, and next thing I know, some guy has pulled over to save this damsel in distress
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:13 AM
2

Women don’t hate men, just some
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:08 AM
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I mean,… we let people drive at 16. There are different things that require varying maturity. Making decision to start WW3? Definitely not in the hands if an 18 year old. Making laws? Also not in their hands. I actually do think voting should be 21 or 25… same with seevice in the army
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:18 PM
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I’m a woman. But if I was born as a man, it would be great. Life on easy mode. Advantages: - less concerns for being raped - no more bleeding 20% of the year - can have kids without risking my health - have bodily autonomy - not be objectified and get lewd comments all the time - not be told my value is based in my looks and how i will be worthless after 30 Disadvantages: - i guess I have to change my own tired if I get a flat… but whatever. - risk for a draft if we go to war, but whatever So ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:14 PM
1

Ofc but ppd men don’t represent real life men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:56 AM
2

Original post? You rather talk about a totally different topic? They said it’s a benefit until they get screwed over in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:17 PM
0

Level headed people don’t punch holes in walls bc their toddler spilled some Epsom salt and the wife say she’ll clean it in a few minutes. Yes, soooooo level headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:57 PM
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Alimony is rare Avg child support is 4k per year. I assure you kids cost more. Somoen crunched some numbers and said he will be paying 1.8k for two kids. Daycare for one is like 2k
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:56 PM
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No. Op said the risk is too high but great benefit if the marriage is stable and lasts a lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:53 PM
3

Yeah. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths It’s actually disproven multiple times. You just gotta be not lazy and look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:48 PM
0

Why do they want the left over american men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:46 PM
2

She’s right. High earners indeed tend to marry high earners but they are also the ones who can afford SAHMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:52 AM
4

It’s his fault for being abusive….. You don’t tell an abuser “hey, i’m planning to leave you” unless you are suicidal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:50 AM
3

Rare? Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:47 AM
7

Alimony doesn’t give you half
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:46 AM
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Didn’t PPD say single moms are the most unattractive partner possible? Why does mary have a new bf? If she was brought up with traditional values, when did she get such bf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:45 AM
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That defeats the purpose of the post that is talking SPECIFICALLY about traditional marriage. Op is supporting women working.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:44 AM
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It depends. Some women find working easier than being at home with 5 kids screaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:43 AM
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It’s often what happens when the marriage fails. She is describing a common outcome in trad marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:41 AM
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Men who want and fight for custody usually will get it in court. Men give up custody as most custody agreements are outside of the court. Also, child support (for the avg john, or even this 100k john) is cheaper than actually taking full custody of your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:40 AM
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Again, they said… great if everything worked out. Would be shitty AF if you were left hanging dry with bunch of young kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:35 AM
3

Define “dating up”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:10 AM
1

You are over paying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:33 AM
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Because the women probably assume he’s probably not poor if he can afford to take weeks or months off to go backpacking in a different country. Where do you get the source Women throw themselves at him if he’s just passing through trying to pump and dump?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:41 PM
4

It’s not racist. It’s about socioeconomic differences
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:40 PM
2

So men fear they cannot be the best person who she’s been with… in other words, they fear women with high count due to their ego
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:37 PM
2

Real men are taught to be chivalrous by sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:36 PM
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Go try it. Go internationally. Tell them you do not have a Visa and you are a poor as them. See which woman would give you the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:54 PM
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Women in thise countries are 100% using you for their money and you exploited their financial hardship to essentially hire a long term escort for cheaper price than in the US. I’m actually fine with this arrangement since both parties are consenting. That said, if you ask “oh what about american women”. Yes, most women like a man with more money but that’s not usually the deciding factor. There is a reason why most married men still earn less than 70k. Men also have a bruised ego when they are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:57 PM
2

Lol oh this is man shaming but talking about less eggs and estrogen isn’t woman shaming? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:46 PM
2

Cool. Your one word response definitely proved it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:45 PM
6

Right? Just hire a housecleaner. One moment, men are on here crying aboutbhow makeup is a lie. And now it’s supposed to be a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:35 PM
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We’re not afraid to die alone. Lol. Most married women die widowed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:01 PM
1

Within 5 years is normal… why? Bc men mature slower
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:56 PM
2

Women are known to carry more emotiona burden and be their husband’s open ears
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:56 PM
2

Great match for 30 year old men with receeding hairline, decreased sperm quality, and lower testosterone. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:02 PM
4

If i’m paying for my lunch and I want a steak but only mcdonalds burger is available, i’m not paying the same price for a mcdonalds burger. Hell. I’d rather not eat trash and wait until I get home and cook myself a steak. The analogy here: i’d rather not settle, i’m perfectly happy to be single until I find the right guy. Also unlikely comparison with food, i can be single indefinitely. You can’t go without eating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:00 PM
1

This assumes women are aeeking men for sex and nothing else. But then why do women care about how much he makes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:19 AM
2

Usually the father did not say up front at or before conception “Hey if you get pregnant, i’m out” So her decision is usually based also on his decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:51 PM
2

Government had the final say. Why is it on the mom and dad? Should be on the government
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:49 PM
1

So ever since the roe vs wade was overturned, the government now has to assume all responsibility? Hmm doesn’t seem to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:28 PM
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Yes. Bc the avg person can easily travel to another state or another country. /s Like i said before, it falls on both parties. HVM aren’t going around knocking women up and being a deadbeat. He literally is trash, and low value. Much like how people say women with kids are less desirable, guess what? So are men. If they are a deadbeat, they are worse than single parents. Allll i hear from you is “women bad”. You can’t even acknowledge it’s both side’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:25 PM
2

Well it’s like 6 weeks in some states… she she would have to know she’s pregnant and make an appointment by 6 weeks. For many in texas, even women who want to abort were unable to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:00 PM
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A dead beat man is NOT a high value man This is both people’s fault. She should not be having casual sex or having kids with someone other than her husband. And men should stop having sex casually and only have sex and kids with his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:59 PM
1

You, like many others, confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence requires self awareness. Arrogance, maybe not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:47 PM
5

Yes and no. You used to be fat. But now you work out. Cool. You used to be poor, now you are rich, cool. You used to be child free and now you want kids (or vice versa). You used to be a dork with no social skills, now you have improved. Some things matter from their past: cheating for any reason, high counts in men, history of being abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:43 PM
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No. We prefer respectable men. Just lots of women have poor examples for fatherhood so they don’t know how to pick up red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:37 PM
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Probably. Much like single moms and dads. Kids are a lot of work… i have a nephew and no way i would do all that work for a kid that’s not even mine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:33 AM
2

Yes it is harder bc less people is available (more are in stable relationships or married, and also less likely to meet eligible single people)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:15 AM
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Men (and women) will learn that they can only lock down a partner if they add value to the other person’s life. Why would i marry someone who drags me down and doesn’t improve my life…?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:56 AM
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That’s why THEY should go pound sand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:10 AM
1

It’s ok to be shallow. Just don’t give up and settle for bad personality due to your shallowness (for your own sake). It’s not like there are only two guys out there. The 5’2” awesome man vs 6’5” AH. There are plenty of 5’7-10” awesome men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:08 AM
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There is a difference between preference and being judgemental. I’m liberal leaning… responding to your example: tall: sure, taller is better than shorter. Strongly prefer 5’9” and taller broad shoulders: don’t care low pitched voice: better be lower than mine. As long as it doesn’t sound like prepubescent. successful: everyone wants a successful person. Why would i want someone who is unsuccessful? It’s like saying “men want a woman who is breathing - duh?”. That said, success comes in various …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:04 AM
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Women bring what they uses to bring,… but now comes with an income too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:45 AM
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Slut is inapproproate as well. It’s a term created to devalue women who have casual sex. Do you do “pump and dump with sluts”? What do you mean get serious? You do casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:00 PM
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This right here “Fattie” devalues someone. It’s name calling. And inappropriate. It’s bullying. You can simply say “i’m attracted to fit women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:55 PM
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I’m sure. Do you hide being toxic or is your fiancee also into this toxicity?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:24 AM
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You still don’t get it. Smh. You can stop replying. You are the type of person I have addressed. If you don’t want to change, go for it. But idk why people who do this then wail about being an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:53 AM
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Listen into male comedians. Hell, just few years back, your president said “grab them by the pussy”… like … come on. So you understand men are being vulgar and you see nothing wrong with it? Hm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:52 AM
1

More people justifying their toxicity and wonder “omg i’m so nice, why no one wants me” Wail harder
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:50 AM
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Where did i say i support women mocking men? The original post is asking about for men. I even put a disclaimer at the end that it is NOT appropriate to devalue men - esp for things they cannot control (height, dick size, etc). There is a difference between giving sought feedback to improve oneself and another calling someone fat pig. I’m sure you know the latter is not from a good/loving place. I don’t judge people for things they cannot control. I judge people for how they treat others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:49 AM
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Saying “i’m not attracted to you bc you are short” is not the same thing as “short men don’t deserve to have a partner”. You really don’t get the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:19 PM
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Why would i be irritated? If he wants to be disrespectful and doesn’t understand not everything you think (which is already disrespectful) should be vocalized, then that’s actually better for women bc it’s easier to avoid guys like him. The relationship is guys get together and say inappropriate things ranging from talking crap to making joked about rape and then saying “oh, it’s just a joke”. To be accepting if that , and men who thinks it’s ok, are all part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:18 PM
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“ If I want to say I find fat women nauseating to have sex with, I will say it.” Do you think that’s appropriate? Just say “i’m not attracted to people with higher fat content” (Plus, fat means a lot of things. Do you mean girls who are skinny fat or the girls who are XXL?)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:10 PM
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See my original reply. This goes for both gender. Don’t expect respect if you aren’f respectful. If your mom was fat, would you tell her “no one wants to sleep with you, you are a fat whale?” If it’s not something you will say to the person, perhaps you should ‘t be talking about it in your boytalk. There is a reason this is toxic and one of many reason people say “all men” for rape culture too - (just bc you won’t rape someone, doesn’t mean it’s ok to joke about it). Edit: btw, learning how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:08 PM
1

This is why i don’t sleep with guys until he has proposed :3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:54 PM
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People like you who devalue others is toxic. If you don’t understand why it’s two completely different thing. One is your preference, one is you devaluing them. You can have a preference without saying they are worthless Stop justifying your toxicity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:48 PM
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Then that’s their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:38 PM
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There is a reply from a guy who also stTed the same and found much less lash back when you are polite and not devaluing a person. Instead of “i don’t want a whale”,… no one is gonna judge you if you say “i love to go on 10 hour intense hikes, and want a partner to have same interests as me” Ppl mostly have issues with hypocrites. Note the number of non virgin guys who want a virgin girl. Or how guys think high count is good but still looking for a low count women. Like - clearly, it’s not from a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:58 PM
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No. One is devaluing someone. One is your preference. If you don’t understand the difference, could explain why so many angry incels here. It’s one thing to say “i’m looking for someone who’s taller bc that’s what I’m attracted to, but it doesn’t mean someone who is shorter has less value as a person. I would not judge someone who decided to date a shorter person.” The other is “wow, why would anyone date you? You’re short. You, as a person, have less value”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:55 PM
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It’s more about how you phrase your preferences. Examples if inappropriate responses: i don’t want to date a fat pig she’s old, beyond her prime used holes/was a hoe she’s worthless Eamples of appropriate preferences: i prefer someone who values fitness i prefer someone who is around my age or younger. I want lots of kids and want a woman who wants a lot of kids. i value monogamy and i view sex as something special between someone I love. So if she has a high count, we probably don’t hold the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:57 PM
4

Yeah but the prompt is to list the ideal hot guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:22 AM
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It’s called arrogance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:31 AM
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This is true for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:39 AM
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If you are a good guy, you are doing it bc that’s who you are. Not because being s good or nice guy entitled you to have whoever you want fall for you If your want someone to meet your needs then you are needy. You should meet all your own needs. If you mean wants,… no one can read your mind No, bc life doesn’t work out that way If you believe in those 3 things… you are immature and not a nice guy at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:28 PM
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