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People talk trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:07 PM
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this goes both ways ambitious men also attract bum women and have their lives ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:46 AM
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sex goes both ways though, it is NOT a one sided street. You want friendship? be friends with the dude you are fucking period. How are you going to expect a guy to meet your 100 needs and you can't even meet his one, ONE! The audacity is absolutely wild to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:25 AM
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I become this guy sometimes when I catch feels and guess what? Bye-Bye goes the sex, bye bye goes the intimacy etc. Oh he's keeping his end of the deal now without me needing too why not use the dummy. Women are pretty vile when it comes to this. Imagine screwing over the person that actually likes you and is doing stuff for you. Their backwards thinking is absolutely trash and I'm done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:23 AM
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for women it's always a one way street. They act like their vaginas are made out of gold or something. Jeez if you don't enjoy me sexually why are we even hanging out? Find some other idiot to do stuff for free for nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:21 AM
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It absolutely is, shes going to come with the same needs and wants as the 10/10, eventually will get annoying the same way and you want me to lose my reputation over all that? Hell no, better to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:11 AM
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I would take being single over with settling all day of the week. Desperate dudes found their dicks in a dumpster I guess, imagine having such lack of respect towards yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:03 AM
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Expecting the bare minimum of sex, which frankly all men expect is 100% unconditional love. You're literally born with it...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:32 AM
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100 percent not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:30 AM
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Not necessarily, but I'm for sure not getting married to someone that took on the whole town and I'm number 100 in line but I need to provide husband duties. Sorry. Yea it's a shame at the standards that do not make sense to be honest but what are you going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:48 PM
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Sex is not "using women" It's a mutual thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:59 AM
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No offense but it sure feels like sex is not as important to a lot of women because it's so easy to get it whenever she feels like it. Here are some examples, I knew a girl for years and we would hang out here and there and she would always be with her best friend, ALWAYS. "it's not all about sex" she would say... turns out they were bisexual all along and guess what she did in the back of the car once they had some difficulties going on in their relationship? another example this weekend, I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:11 PM
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See the problem is, women always think they are "offering" something good. But I have yet to meet one that her offer was actually worth it for me in the long run and not detrimental. I've known a lot of women and still do, nothing is changing. A lot of them think sex is good enough for some reason, somehow you can take them out for a whole day and still get the "I hope your not just using me for sex" talk. Like it's not a mutually beneficial thing. As a man I do not say "I feel used for my dick,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:01 AM
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I would assume the answer to that is NO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:58 AM
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You assume that they are struggling, I can assure you a lot of these red pill dudes especially in the party scene are getting more action with multiple women. Probably more than your husband is or option 2 they have better things to do in life then dwell on being in a relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:56 AM
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exactly, the femenists are so annoying acting like a huge majority of women aren't just looking for handouts and the ones that are making money aren't looking for a guy with even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:51 AM
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Yes it's never enough no matter what they do we get it. Stay single and do you no one really cares at the end of the day. a huge majority of women for sure don't just go out for food and entertainment. I for sure have not heard stories of women almost in their forties with $200 in their bank account going out every weekend and traveling and stuff. Of course all of that is affordable with a few hundred and it's not the men paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:47 AM
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you do realize men go down on women and do other things besides stick their dicks in right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:46 AM
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good one, I love how certain people think marriage is some sort of flex or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:45 AM
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Most guys will actually tell you the truth and it's up to you ladies to listen. Unfortunately you guys never listen. It's like this quote from hip hop song by remble "I tried to tell you my story but you didn't really listen" This is how it feels talking to a lot of women, NOT ALL but the majority. It's usually me me me me .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:44 PM
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women don't use men as ATM/Labor machines and provide nothing in return? I must be tripping. How are you being used for "sex" when it's a mutual benefit or at least it should be until women turned it into a transaction to survive. The man doesn't provide his dick for you during sex?? isn't he technically being used for his dick as well? Two can play that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:40 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:54 PM
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true but again drugs, alcohol, medications, and stds can cause that as well. Better safe then sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:42 AM
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That or also stds look it up. Those were always the chicks I'd get the clam from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:50 AM
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That's called Biology and "How the universe" was built. Men are not at fault that women were created for the task of child bearing and nurturing etc. Take it up with the universe. Also plenty of women murder men as well so again this goes both ways, there is also birth control available these days to prevent "accidents" when it comes to STDs check yourselves more often. I made it a must to check every 3-6 months and the women that do the same and or use protection are at about the same risk as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:53 AM
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yes 100% without a doubt. I've been in the party scene I've seen women sober and then go to absolutely lit and maxed out horny just because of the alcohol they consumed. It is quiet sad actually, like why can you not be like this when you're sober? means you don't actually like me? It's very interesting and confusing how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:39 AM
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I mean, can you blame men? When you know that shes constantly looking for the next best thing would you go all in?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:32 AM
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Same with the women, they were willing to stay married and work through things with the bare minimum. Not sit on social media all day looking for the next best thing with more money or ferrari or whatever, while taking the guy for all he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:19 AM
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jealousy over what???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:29 AM
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Well try and stick to men that only want a family. times are tough unfortunately not all men are trying to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:28 AM
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IF sex hurts and it's dry, you're probably dealing with an std such as chlamydia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:26 AM
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All of those things go both ways so what is your point. Even as a man if you get an std it pisses you off greatly and you don't want to have sex either... Jerking off is ok as well. the only reason women LOVE going out so much because it's mostly the men that are paying for the entertainment regardless of where you are at. I risk murder more as a man in my lifestyle then women going on dates. I had this convo with my homie the other day. "Put ourselves in their shoes, someone calls you, picks yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:21 AM
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Aren't you using him as well for his dick if we going to look at it from that perspective? What makes you special? Because you have a vagina??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:16 AM
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Yep they are easily having sex and very often with Alpha men and using betas for anything and everything besides sex. But if they were to tell them "hey I'm just hanging out with you and heading to johns right after to have sex" Even the dumbest beta would cut it off with her and bam now she is one orbiter less. Then they go and say men this men that, incel incel incel... he's an incel because he refuses to be used and played with and uses his time more wisely with women that actually want to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:13 AM
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Our grandfathers also didn't deal with modern women, otherwise they never would have gotten married and none of us would probably be here rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:08 AM
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Because there is really nothing else besides that in it for them. For example, I can go and hang out with a woman right now, but I don't even want sex or care about it right now. What is my incentive to do all this extra bs when I can just as easily go and do something by myself or a friend? Or better yet just sit at home? No I'm serious think about it, deeply think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:44 PM
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Maybe something is wrong with me, but I just feel like I need to focus on something else and on myself for once in my life that is all. I'm tired of these meaningful connections, and I would be totally down for a real one for a change. Plus I need to figure out some stuff in my life and get back into working out and some other hobbies I want to do and dating/hanging out 24/7 is just not making it any easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:40 PM
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that ain't no kind of answer. What exactly is the incentive for a man in a relationship. Women want provision being taken care of etc. What does a man get in return for this that he can't do by himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:14 AM
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1000% or they will accuse you of having ed or something haha. " I won't have sex with you and I'll make sure no other woman does either" or "You won't have sex with me? I'll make sure to talk wild crap about you to all the women I know so they won't have sex with you either" Absolutely diabolical, only women can be that diabolical as much as it saddens me to say. how many woman that friendzoned me and I would ask let me meet your friend and get the "shes a slut you don't want to know her trust m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:08 AM
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I've known bisexual women in relationships they absolutely do have free sex with each other. They literally manage to somehow have a bunch of male friends on their leash that would take them out buy them dinners and drinks whatever and then go home and have sex with one another. I don't ever remember a girl showing me a good time all day and paying for everything knowing that I was in a relationship with another woman. the only free stuff that I got from these bi chicks was them manipulating oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:03 AM
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Ive seen butt ugly women smash hot Chads. Its a mutual agreement that they never ever speak about. They will still have sex with those women in secret or when the cute ones are unavailable. It stays quiet for obvious reasons. I have a few unfortunate sexual partners myself that I hope no one would ever find out about. Because if that was to become public I'd lose out on potential better looking partners. Women WILL judge you on who you have sex with. Same way that women are able to keep other wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:57 AM
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don't take this the wrong way or as a flex. But I have partied and I have slept with a decent amount of women and have been in shitty LTRS. It's not what it's cracked out to be and I truly sometimes just want to be left alone for a very long time. I understand your frustration though because I was going through the same thing before a glow up and I never ever would have dreamed I would ever say something like this back then. Your time is still coming, just maybe have to put some effort into it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:39 AM
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What is a fulfilling and happy relationship? for a man in your opinion I'm dying to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:35 AM
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I do give them the same agency but they still manage to go back to the same kind of men that use them so I'm done wasting my breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:29 AM
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All of those things don't really make sense and it just seems like you're ranting. Racism is based in actual history and plenty of examples of it "male loneliness epidemic" that women are spouting online forums or whatever to make themselves feel better and make men feel guilty to go out and take them out more, is not something we can compare. Stds happen to both genders and there are enough women in jail for having sex with their dogs. I'm surprised where the STDS came from men having sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:16 AM
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He is kind of right, I've heard from many women the same thing. Actually the other day, my friends woman said the exact same thing! "I don't care he's awesome, he's funny, he cooks well" All of those things are true, Yet he also spends a lot on her in fact he even paid a few hundred bucks for her friends car repair.... So although I believe certain things I take that with a grain of salt what she said. She saw him throw money left and right the minute she met him and I feel like that was the ini…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:59 AM
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You literally have a Married WOMAN telling you you're wrong and you still don't believe. That is absolutely wild to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:42 AM
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you would be surprised on how many unattractive women get play from hot chads. Doesn't work with unattractive men like that. Those hot Chads keep it on the down low though. And those women up their standards thinking they are something and try to flex with that. You're a girl, it's not a flex, dude is just a desperate young dude that will hit anything and wants to get as much as he can on the daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:24 AM
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Never ever spend a single buck on them... someone else is getting those benefits later that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:16 AM
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She as a bi sexual dominant woman had a way of convincing me to do it. Either hey I have a lot of girls with me or some other bs that was not true. Then you get there the alcohol starts flowing and you become Mr. Yes man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:15 AM
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I do not know about any male loneliness epidemic because I never experienced it. if it does exist I would much rather experience that rather than constantly being used and wasting my time. A lot of men that you are talking about would gladly be ok with no sex as long as they get anything, something of equal value. But women expect men to go above and beyond and not expect anything in return? Makes zero sense why go out or go out and have an extra mouth to feed when you just as easily could have …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:08 AM
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Mine was having threesomes with men and her "best friend" while telling me she's on a girls night out and spending time at her girls house. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:43 PM
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There you go. This is exactly how it starts. at least at the after hour parties once they are done dancing. I've been to enough clubs/parties and have seen a few things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:39 PM
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There really is nothing for your wife to not trust. Strip clubs are probably the biggest cons of all time. Imagine paying and getting absolutely nothing for it, your wife knows the rules and that it's a job for them and they will never put out anyway so why would she care or be insecure about it. I respect that you are not wasting any money on them besides the food. If only more men did that, we could end this epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:34 PM
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Nah using me for rides, and for other favors acting like that's not what you are doing and when I finally call you out on it you get pissy and talk crap behind my back because I called you out for it and you're worried I will tell other men to look out. is what I mean by fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:21 PM
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No I actually have plenty, I actually want to be left alone at least for a while and focus on stuff I actually need to be doing. Plus I don't need any more fake friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:01 PM
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I mean don't take this the wrong way but as a man there is so much other things I can be doing then wasting my entire day just hanging out with a woman and paying for it only for her to forget about me or go on to have sex with my friend or some other guy. I've been friends with plenty of women and one thing I noticed is a lot of them are very quick to say no to do something that doesn't benefit them. while my male friends or even me are very quick to say "OF COURSE! So I don't know why you feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:23 PM
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Absolutely 0 men would consent to that. Hence why a lot of them love getting certain men drunk because that's the easiest way they can get them to part with their money and regret it the next day. Women feel used for sex because too many view sex or relationships as a job or a way to survive. That's the main reason they view it as "he used me" It's a mutual thing. I can say the same thing as a guy if I wanted to. Again I don't believe in "being used for sex" unless guys can hold women to the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:57 PM
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every dude can be a Chad if he just stops simping and puts some work into himself. It's just not easy and a lot of men that didn't have enough vagina are so desperate that they put them on a pedestal not realizing that is what turns them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:44 PM
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Women do not want to hear this because they realize more men are figuring this out and their simps/meal tickets rides body guards for no return on investment are slowly ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:37 PM
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Also keep in mind most women are A. in love B. having sex with someone else or C in a bisexual relationship with another woman even. But they are still dating and hanging out with other men out of boredom or whatever plus "he'll pay for us" type of mentality nothing you can do will make those women want to have sex with you unless you truly are TOP DOG CHAD and one of a kind. Women that are horny are actually very desperate. If that need is getting met somewhere else in whatever way, you're just…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:31 PM
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100000% this right here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:20 PM
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I hate to break it to you but 100% of men that are hanging out with you are doing it to get sex at some point. Sorry. Or at worst they dumb and not realizing how women work yet because of lack of experience so they assume "maybe just maybe if I will wait and show her I can be the nice guy and not the asshole she will give it up soon" "maybe if I'll be a good friend she might have my back one day and/or introduce me to one of her friends" Let's be real none of those things will ever happen,. at b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:13 PM
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If only men knew how much stuff women that like you do for you and how fast they are willing to jump in bed with you. They would stop wasting their time on women that only use use and use tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:08 PM
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Let's be honest women go out because they are social creatures is one, but usually it's to meet men so they can be provided for and have their stuff paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:04 PM
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I've been friends with two bi women for years. One was super chill and nice and the other that I believe was more "manly" Was just plain horrible, when I finally called her out on her just using people when they finally broke up I became number one enemy and her shit talking about me spread around through out the group. Also any girl that I ever liked and introduced her to they ended up becoming best friends and lo and behold she would tell them crap about me just to basically cock block me. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:57 PM
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Maybe not the most popular opinion but this "crazy men and I'm scared" is mostly an excuse. Let's be honest, how many guys realistically are killing people over not having sex? small percentage? yes absolutely but a lot of those are guys that feel jaded or used and feel like they are owed something. Let's stop using people and we can cut the "crazy men" factor in half. Women are way worse when it comes to rejection it's just it so rarely happens to them that for the most part they never had a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:45 PM
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I know, I blew my opportunity and I'm not blaming anyone but myself for it. Although it would have helped if I stayed single and invested that extra money AND TIME. (MOST important is TIME) into better ventures for sure. I was young and dumb what can you do? I don't use women, I just noticed that a lot of the rich men that I know, have managed to do that and stay rich and not only that but get even richer. So what should that tell me? I don't deserve doing everything and getting cheated on. Whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:25 PM
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this is America, very very very materialistic society of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:18 PM
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I disagree, I had a few gold diggers and I had a very good thing going for myself but I lost it. It's very hard to run a business and focus when she's constantly spending my money and wants to go out basically every single day. I literally paid for everything and they had no job, and I started it all by myself. Once I cut the money out every single damn one signed out and left the relationship. You know which guys never had business problems? The guys that managed to use their women to THEIR adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:16 PM
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ahhhhh this is more of a woman thing, not male.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:12 PM
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It isn't the case for anyone really. The less you care the more you actually get laid surprisingly. The more men start learning this the more they become like the "chad" or at least they try to. Then women start to get mad especially when they hit thirty and need a sucker to settle down with but now the sucker became like Chad and wants nothing to do with settling down or taking them out on dinner dates while she has sex with someone totally different. This is coming from an ex simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:12 PM
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As long as she pitches in 50/50 I will expect absolutely nothing, but they seem to not want to do that either,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:08 PM
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Believe her and move on...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:41 PM
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to a certain point I do believe it. I obviously exaggerated certain things nut that was to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:38 PM
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I have more fun and get more done and hang out more without a gf than I do whenever I have a woman in my life. Personally I prefer the single life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:18 AM
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Remember you create your own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:17 AM
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You can hang with the boys and spend less money and have more fun. Also hang with girls that want you and not only will you get laid but suprisingly you’ll also spend less money. But I understand what you’re saying we can’t go on dates 24/7 unless we have 10 million in our account. Chicks can be full on broke going on dates and private jets every weekend/day. Unless you’re the #1 stud in town, which again the gym can help with. Just requires only gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:15 AM
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A lot of financially successful men that were on to something good lost it all and went broke by dating women like you so yea thanks but no thanks. Been there done that, either we build together or I’m perfectly content being alone once I get back up there BY MYSELF again. The only rich dudes that I know (they don’t want to admit it) that made it big had a woman build up with them and support them only to kick her ass to the curb once they reached a very high point and got a hot gold digger. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:29 PM
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If more men understood this they could have saved themselves the heartache. I know I could have gotten laid a lot more during Covid (good times) if I had the mentality of no friendships and move on as soon as you see even a slight glimmer of her not being intimately attracted to you. It was such a huge waste of time on those types of women thinking that things will change. They never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:28 PM
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100% factual when a woman likes you and I mean actually like you. She would be giving you hang out ideas like even going to the park she’s not going to be wasting your money because she will be afraid to do anything that will risk you walking away. So spend less of your money and make it easier for you to go to third base. It’s a win win and most dudes fail to understand this and instead think feeding them, taking them to lavish places and blowing a lot of money is the way to get laid. Then they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:08 PM
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Average dudes that are decent get dates that they are used on not necessarily get laid… repeat after me, the goal is to get LAID one more time LAID. Not hang out and go on dates and validate her existence for eternity. Those “evil sacks of shits incels” you say are actually the ones actually getting laid, without even going on dates haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:01 PM
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Thanks I try, appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:00 PM
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Missing out on money making opportunities, crypto buys back in the days when I was sitting and could have bought. This is something that you have to live with for the rest of your life. If I'll end up as a bum under the bridge no one will need me at all. Girls do not have that problem like at all. Only thing she had to do was not sleep with half the town throughout her life. You can't have it all wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:58 PM
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I mean if you the desperate type to smash everything that moves be my guest, but it's FOR SURE not the flex you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:50 AM
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It's not how men feel it's the truth, why should I be the dude she decides to settle with and raise kids with? Why didn't the other 50 that banged her 20 mins into meeting her at a party step up? The men they are banging are banging and leaving and living their best LIFE. Going to bang the next girl, going to the gym to look on point, going to work and making more money. The dude she settles with she uses as a rag 24/7 guy can't even have ten minutes in the bathroom let alone the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:48 AM
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I couldn't care less that she changed and grew. I have to pay for all of my mistakes I made in my life for as long as I live, why shouldn't she?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:44 AM
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Don't even try explaining this to them because they will just "act" stupid they know exactly how that makes men feel. You see Chad can not be burdened, after all he is so busy with the other girl at the moment. Who is going to take her out and show her a great time? Girls will tell you they changed or it's sacred and than you do enough research and you find out she did have guys or girls (note plural) she was actually having sex with it just wasn't you. You're the " I can call when I need someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:42 AM
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Considering that the "bad boys" that they constantly sleep with literally lie and con and manipulate them with absolutely everything makes this even more hilarious. Girls absolutely LOVE being lied to, I personally experienced this multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:20 AM
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Women think men care more than we actually do. Reality is we couldn't care less if you don't want to have sex, dates, or get married more money saved for us. Hell maybe I can use all that saved money I'll get from lack of wasting it on women and open up a sex toy business and make more. Yes there are desperate men that haven't had sex enough times in their life with a variety of women to realize that it's really not all its cracked out to be and that is the most unfortunate part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:16 AM
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I mean tbh as an ex sex addict, it's not the flex you think it is. I don't get dudes that think they are hard for getting pussy, it's not like you discovered America or something. It's like chicks showing off their baby bumps or pregnancies on social media. Ok? You spread your legs and had sex, congratulations? I just have friends that are still in that life and are like I just smashed I just smashed ok you smashed a local whore from the bar and/or club... ummmm ok so have 100 other dudes your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:09 AM
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But not with the women they want though. Honestly I get his point sleeping with a woman and waking up in the morning thinking "No why did I do it with her?" does feel pretty shitty deep inside. I've had that numerous times back when I was in that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:54 AM
2

Damn and I thought a month was a long time. Have you tried attending some parties? A bottle is only $20
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:51 AM
1

I said before he even became president in a group chat. Donald Trump "Make Dating Great Again" I see it going this direction for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:49 AM
1

I mean really not a benefit to me besides a waste of money and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:44 AM
2

100% the longer you know a girl with each passing day the chance of you having sex with her falls drastically. I've always had better luck with women that I ended up having sex with pretty quickly. I feel like the best friendships happen after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:00 PM
2

You would think it would be an equal exchange but a lot of the women have nothing else to offer besides vagina so they basically have to prostitute themselves to survive in life. So they start looking at their body part as a "Wow I can get food for something I was born with? Say less" So that now turns the vagina into a commodity and basically gets them to feel as they were used for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:52 PM
2

I had a female "friend" contact me out of nowhere. "Hey what happened do you have a female in your life?" I was like I do stuff but nothing serious anyway I thought it was my chance. this bitch goes "Ok great hey I was calling you if you want to go out to this club with me" (shes done this before multiple times by using me as the body guard or dude to get the men she likes jealous at the clubs before) So I was like I might but I pulled a few dirty tricks to see if maybe shed be down to fuck fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:42 PM
2

It really is though, so Chad gets to fuck and not spend any time with you but your friend spends all day with you and goes home with a dry dick? not even a fucking hand job? make it make sense. No one is crying men are waking up, we done with the just 'hanging out' bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:30 PM
2

Not really it's boring for the most part and my female friends are just spending time with me out of boredom or a ride etc while the guy she really wants shes waiting a call from. "hahahaha Oh my hes calling blah blah blah, hey can you drop me off to johnnys house? Had so muc fun bye." fuck that noise. I'm not you personal entertainer, taxi driver, whatever while the guy whose dick you are sucking is out there making money, fucking other girls, taking care of himself and actually gets a hole for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:27 PM
2

Yes I absolutely have, better late than never huh? If you only knew the losses and hits I took because of it in my life. You'd laugh at me for all eternity. Of course, befriending Chads and reading No more Mr. Nice guy steered me into the right direction. See I originally thought "if I'll be nice to these girls, the will eventually have my back when I'll need it or at least some potential for future sex" bad mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:22 PM
1

Young, dumb, naive. I only woke up out of that a few years ago unfortunately. But better late than never.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:17 PM
6

If shes sleeping with other men and sleeping with me? totally cool, no problems with it. I wouldn't date her or be exclusive but I also wouldn't feel like I'm a sucker getting her ready for her cuddle buddy. If shes going with me on a road trip at 2 am or the club because her sex "boy" hurt her and I actually spend quality time with her and next thing you know sex "boy" is finally ready for round two or he just got back from cheating on her and now shes ready to go back home and all I get is a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:08 AM
1

I have moving trucks, I have done jobs for women as a "friend" that would otherwise cost $500 for as low as $100 I have loaned personal vehicles to women "friends" that were returned to me crashed (free) I've paid for food (of course) I've been the free uber shall I keep going? I've been the free 2am therapy call the body guard at the club to keep guys away from her she doesn't want/ and get guys she wants jealous. the free party host/hotel for the night I know what you're going to say, it's you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:00 AM
0

I'd rather spend time with male friends, no homo. If I'm in trouble, guess who will come through? We can do the most random dumb things and be ourselves and laugh, whatever. Why am I spending 5 hours with her at the club being her body guard while Chad is doing him and once he needs his 12AM booty call she runs straight over??? (what's in it for me man?) I've over partied myself and I'm just tired of it all, I want my peace. No sex? Say less I'd rather stay at home anyway, why am I even going ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:51 AM
1

That hilarious I never met a woman that just "hung out" with me because I offered her "nothing" I've seen rich dudes with bum chicks and I have yet to meet a rich chick with a bum dude. you sure we don't offer nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:41 AM
3

"Even those of us who genuinely wished in the past to be good to women became jaded as fuck due to women showing zero fucking respect for us whenever we showed any good will towards you" This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:34 AM
1

I actually have started doing that, and the women that I realized are a lost cause I just deleted and blocked. Peace restored. Ive been friends and done so much for a lot of women and where are they now??? You know at least the women I had sex with haven't totally forgotten me. At least they will send you a Hi from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:31 AM
-4

I 100% agree with you but unfortunately we don't learn from others mistakes. If only men knew that the key to her heart is doing the opposite of what she thinks she wants. The world would be in such a better place. I was the friend and I was also the ONS guy I def prefer the ONS. At this point my motto is "what's in it for me?" Unless she is introducing me to her friends that want me intimately or we are business partners making money we have no reason to waste time "hanging out" fuck her, she g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:21 AM
1

I would so rather prefer that than wasting 3-5 years on someone only to find out I'm just a "hang out" buddy, the free moving truck, the free mechanic.... I'd much rather hang out with women that want me for more than the "let me go hang out with him for 5 hours because Chad just effed me for 30 mins and left to go do him" You know why the men that women have sex with are more appealing? Because they do their business for one hour, get their fix and spend 23 hours working on themselves while Mr …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:07 AM
14

I think women should also be honest and not lead men on. I couldn't care less about casual sex, I care when she has casual sex with others but uses me for the rest of her free time. Men should be honest about their intentions and so should women. If you aren't interested in me sexually than tell me before you ask me to hang out as a "friend"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:28 AM
1

The guy she likes, SHE will spend money on him and she will bed him. Don't be fooled, work on yourself until you get to that type of level. They mostly use the men they aren't trying to sleep with, so keep that in mind the next time she wants you to pull out your wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:35 AM
1

If you have the need for sex 31 days a month than maybe you need sex therapy or some sex addiction 12 step program. Women don't have the desire as you stated it, because they have the constant option to do it whenever her "need" arises. When you get hungry you go and eat food correct? You can believe women telling you she's not "sexually active" but I can guarantee you if shes not a virgin she's having sex with someone. I can stay relationship free for a long time, even if I have the option to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:21 AM
1

Unfortunately they are, the universe is based on opposites attract. You know like a magnet? So you have decent men (aka I would like to think I was) hooking up with crappy women learning a lesson and turning into those guys (the asshole) because you see that it works. Meanwhile the good women were also getting screwed by hooking up with (assholes) when they were younger. So now they are older and looking for Mr "nice guy" but it is too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:14 AM
1

Have you ever had a lot of options for something? You're at a buffet with a lot of good food and you're thinking "Where do I even start" Well this is the problem for them imagine having 1000 women wanting you to have sex with them daily. by day 2 you will be saying f this, I'm good. This is the main reason it is hard for them and I truly feel bad for them. "All men think about sex" Oh really now? The truth is women think about sex more than dudes do. But again she can get it whenever she wants w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:10 AM
1

I got cheated on multiple times in my long term 3+ year relationships, my last ex cheated while I went to use the bathroom. at MY house party, with my "homie" (Yes I'm still friends with him) I haven't been dating since and instead got very social and had TONS of friends. I lost a lot because of the trust I had ranging from COLD CASH (around 50k) to property damage had my jaw broken etc, thanks to trusting the wrong "friends". I got out of that and It's so much more peaceful fdoing what I want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:15 AM
1

I have so many "best friends", that I almost never pick up the phone anymore. Last thing I need in my life is more people calling me and trying to "kick it" I'm very content sitting on reddit and answering stupid questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:03 AM
2

Considering that they never added anything beneficial to my life and only took took took and took I think I have a very good reason to like them for just that. You realize I was the nicest guy out there in the past and gave absolutely all of my friends the benefit of the doubt and got screwed majorly right?? Not by everyone but by a lot of people. Both men and women can be shitty but women are on a different level. Women totally forget about you once you become "useless" in their eyes. No thanks…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:58 AM
-1

It's not about the sex drive, women have a high sex drive maybe even more so than men. It's the fact that with their options they can fix the need whenever it arises in whatever myriad of ways that SHE chooses. If she just had sex with Chad and than calls me after the fact because Chad left and now she needs her "emotional validation" Of course she doesn't need "sex" That need Chad took care of. Also knowing that you can have your intimate needs met whenever you feel like it even for a man would…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:54 AM
1

Sorry I'd much rather be alone and at peace than have female friends. No Cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:48 AM
1

I didn't make a move but I eventually blocked and ghosted them. Personally they brought nothing to my life worthwhile and I realized I have more peace NOT having women as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:47 AM
2

Why would I got to lunch with her in the first place? What benefit would I as a man get in going through the hassle of taking a woman out to lunch and get all extra dressed, pampered etc. Even if she does pay. When I can go and enjoy lunch by myself or with a homie just the way I am? I'm content eating lunch alone, why do I need to drag a chick around with me that I'm not banging? My male friends are an asset to my life, we both receive benefits. If I break down somewhere 2 hours from home guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:30 AM
4

And men that have options are the last to waste their time with women that aren't putting out, hence why they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:25 AM
5

Because you are a WOMAN. Tomorrow you feel like getting into a relationship and you get in one and bye bye goes your "male friend". It's absolutely worthless for a man to be a friend for a woman. Everything I do with a Chick "friend" I can do with a girlfriend with the added benefit of intimacy. Makes no sense to not do that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:24 AM
1

I don't have kids yet, I want to, but I honestly have not found the right one. Thank God I managed to not have kids with any of my exes, strong pullout game lol. On a serious note, yes it would have been a disaster. I really want to find a woman I can have kids with and not to have her use my kids as a chain to keep me around. Forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:08 AM
1

Is dickmaxxing=jelquing? has it worked for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:11 AM
1

I've turned down sex, it does happen. Did I regret it maybe years later? Sure, but I'm telling you men do turn it down from time to time. Not all men are horny desperate virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:09 AM
1

Ummmmm, yes they sure do. Women are born with value and this is proven with the fact that women can get all of their needs met without much effort if any. This is is not how it works for men as much as women want to think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:01 AM
3

We don't but make it known in advance, for example. "Hey I'm not looking for sex, I'm not looking for a relationship, I want to be alone. But if you want to be friends and waste your time from time to time and be my girlfriend with a penis when my gfs are unavailable we can be." 99% of men would leave you alone automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:59 AM
2

Dude are you my clone? This is literally how I started feeling and acting at 30 as well. I love how some women throw the "are you gay" insult when I refuse to play their games. I'm sure I had more chicks than you had dudes but go on girl. The parasitic friends, is on point as well. Done with car lending, done with the money lending (huge losses) perfectly content at being alone and following my goals for once in my life. I really feel sorry for the men that can't be alone. It's quite sad honestl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:56 AM
3

If you're a virgin at 35 than maybe yes society deems you a loser, if you went through 50 women by 35 and are now hanging back and prefer peace and quiet to a relationship. I don't think that is a loser move or that society deems you a loser. I mean I'm at a point in my life where I want to stay focused on me for once. didn't realize that society views me as a loser but I also couldn't care less what a bunch of virgin boys that are desperately chasing pussy think about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:46 AM
4

Depends on the man. I'm perfectly content being alone. But I also went through a very social time in my life and honestly I still have plenty of friends and family so in reality I'm never alone. I feel like any man with a solid social group and that went through a at least a few relationships and situationships with women, will eventually be totally content with peace and quiet and will start to follow his life path.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:42 AM
1

Honestly I think a lot of men these days are way more content being alone as well. The reason women are "content' is due to the internet and simp culture of pretty much desperate virgin men. It's easy to be content when you're bombarded with unlimited options. But this is just how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:39 AM
1

It came to this because of the insane amount of freedom that they were given. I mean let's be honest, no one is trying to date a man/woman boss babe. Also the amount of demands, needs, and amount of money and time they expect for you to spend on them these days for being like you said "average" is insane. Lastly social media and the emergence of "simp" men who have absolutely nothing going on in their heads besides marriage, women and vagina because society brainwashed us to think that we must d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:15 AM
1

Well I'm on a dry spell right now and not fucking so obviously it makes no sense for me to be a "bitch boy" and be the friendly neighborhood friendo and help women meet all of their needs when none of my needs are being met. Also, why isn't the guy she's having sex with doing all these extra curricular activities with her lol? I totally get your point but also look from my perspective. I blocked chicks like that before and then I get hit with the "fake friend bs" and like I'm worse than the guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:37 AM
1

All those 3 points you mentioned is literally what women do to me, nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:24 PM
1

I wasn't interested in them at first, so I thought whats the big deal? Slowly but surely i've noticed that I'm putting more effort into the friendship (As usual) than she is. She's fucking someone else, hanging out with me when she's bored etc. So I figured, you know what? I'm helping her meet all of her needs, and some random dude meet his main need. What need does she help me meet of mine? not a single one, so I'm out. Friendship with women is probably the most useless thing I have ever wasted…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:52 PM
1

If I don't have a right to sex than she doesn't have the right to my wallet is the way I look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:34 AM
-1

So you'd rather have me be fake? I'm going through a lot in my life right now and I want to stay busy to become a someone in this world, wasting time on women for nothing in return is not going to make it happen for me sorry. Would you go to work for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:00 AM
-2

I don't value female friendships to be honest. Your boyfriend is probably one in a million to pull something like that off. I've been friends with women for years and have done 10 times more stuff for them then your boyfriend has probably ever done for you. You know what I got in return? Absolutely nothing, so nah I don't play the friend game no more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:27 PM
2

Well you should get out more and see that yes those types of characters do exist and are very much alive in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:24 PM
0

Try being friends with women for 3-6 years and not getting any sort of play. At least the dude got something out of the 7 month friendship WOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:24 PM
3

It's different though, I had to work hard to get the sex and women that I did she did not. So if I'm providing husband benefits she needs to have some traditional wife benefits which include not being the the ex town whore. I'm not about to invest and take care of someone that has a higher chance of being a cheat and leaving whenever she feels like it. In that case we can go 50/50 on everything in life and you can have whatever body count you want. Probably not going to get married to her either…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:17 PM
2

Not trying to have my time wasted is being insecure?? Is that the best you got? Men are waking up and like I said, have Chad put forth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:10 PM
1

Agreed 100% I love being single. I've been happier single than in any relationship by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:09 PM
1

The guy visited from Florida and pretty much bought this girl I knew and all her friends even me drinks throughout the night (haha). When the club closed he went in for a kiss on the girl and she said no and he got super upset and as they were leaving with me I actually looked at him and told him "I hope you learned your lesson bud" I also told the girls it's really vile what they did. The point is this stuff really happens and it is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:18 PM
1

Idk about high sex drive, my exes wouldn't ever leave me alone about it. I'd never get any peace and quiet unless I had sex. I've been around women with high sex drive and it's just as annoying, you really think I like having sex and than wasting my entire day courting the woman when I could have not had sex and spent and entire weekend actually doing stuff that matters? We do it for you guys, I don't even need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:13 PM
2

That's total of all loans give or take, not just for one person and you're right! So don't ever be nice and allow yourself to be taken advantage of. Learn from my mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:09 PM
1

Women have shown me their snap chat accounts, just because it's choices that they don't want, doesn't dismiss the fact that it's still a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:07 PM
1

Being born with a vagina is bringing something to the table? Insane, no wonder 60 percent of you will die alone and single haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:21 AM
3

She needs to see that other women are interested in you,time to get out a little bit more. Focus on yourself and maybe on your male friend group. Show her that you have options and watch her flock back to the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:16 AM
1

boom, but how can we convince these suckers that them focusing on their lives will not only SAVE their life but will also get them more sex at the end of the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:12 AM
1

$20 I can forget, I'm talking more along the lines of $40,000 thats when it gets tough to forgive and forget. Yea I lost a lot, A LOT being nicer than I should have been. I've made very expensive mistakes but at least I learned. I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:54 AM
1

So are you saying it's easier for me to get a sugar mom than it is for you to get a sugar dad? I seriously doubt that. Men are also just as likely if not more likely to get beat up and/or shot walking down the street in the wrong neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:52 AM
2

It is 3 am and you are dying you have two choices your female friend that is in bed with Chad. Or your boy? 911 is out of service, who are you calling?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:26 AM
0

As a man that had plenty of female friendships they are absolutely not the same as male friendships. Waste of time and energy. First of all I can spend time with men just doing random stuff inside the house and not spend a buck. Girls are NOT staying inside the house, they are going places and you're for sure spending money. It's 3 am and I'm dying I can call 10 dudes right now and 8 will pick up and come save my life. I wouldn't even try calling a girlfriend because they wouldn't even pick up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:23 AM
1

If she has a problem with her boyfriend she can talk it out with him or her girlfriends. But her girlfriends don't even want to hear about it if she even has any haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:13 AM
2

I've done 1-4 I know exactly what you mean. I finally cut off all my female friends because I realized that this is pointless and holding me back. I couldn't be happier, no more lets kick it (aka waste you time and money with no reciprocity) texts on friday. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:10 AM
1

Asking to borrow one of your extra cars that you're selling and crashing it and never paying for it, coming to your house and emptying your liquor and leaving, taking your jetski and running it out of fuel than leaving with some random dude on a boat. coming to your house to watch a movie but instead smashing your friend that she just met 30 mins ago in your place of residence, pickup at 3am and talk to her about "can you believe what he did?" I don't know if you did all of those things that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:01 AM
3

I let my friend borrow 1.5k for a week and asked for $100 few weeks later for 5 mins no response. That right there was my wakeup call and the last time I realized I would ever let anyone borrow money. Now I'm just collecting what I'm owed from the rest and never ever helping out in that way again. No one has my back, why should I have theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:50 AM
2

Have you ever been around manipulative con women? They are very good at what they do. Don't judge if you never experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:44 AM
2

Well she will absolutely never see me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:43 AM
5

Bingo. or she doesn't have friends all of a sudden because she doesn't want to lose all that attention and validation that she feels she is entitled too on her friend. Evil, pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:42 AM
1

So how many times have you actually hooked them up??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:40 AM
0

I don't even know why you would want to be friends with women anyway. Do you not value your time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:39 AM
3

If you only knew how many years I wasted on women that swore to me that they need attraction to build up and blah blah blah and nothing ever happened. The most useless waste of time and money I have ever experienced. At least the women I had sex with still call once in a blue moon, the ones that just needed "attraction to build" forgot me the day I stopped being useful. No we aren't playing those games anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:29 AM
1

Ever wonder why older chicks get desperate for sex? They are finally in a mans shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:23 AM
1

Who cares? Do you think men care if a girl talks to them and she isn't interested in anything beyond that? By all means tell all women to absolutely not talk to any man they are not sexually interested in, we will finally have some peace and everyone will be better of for it. I never though that "omg she talked to me" was some sort of flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:20 AM
2

What's worse wanting someone for sex that is mutually beneficial. Or wasting someones time and MONEY that is literally a ONE-SIDED benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:17 AM
1

I always go above and beyond when it comes to sex and try everything in my power to put her first and make her feel good etc. No complaints so far, than I'll hear from the women that "friendzoned" me about how guys are this and that and don't try and won't go down on me etc. Like you realize the dudes that would do all this crazy stuff with you and do what you want you're not even paying attention to. I find it absolutely hilarious, so thankful that I finally squashed all the friendly relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:07 AM
1

Most men get mad because women lead them on. She will sit there and get him to spend $400 bucks on drinks (saw it happen) and then tell him sorry I'm not interested. Now if she was to tell him sorry I'm not interested 3 hours ago 99% of men would get up and walk away with no hard feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:53 AM
1

Again the point is, any need that as a woman that you have whether its food, housing or an itch between the legs. Someone will take care of it for you as a woman, as a man you're a homeless living on skid row in Los Angeles and homeless people on skid row are not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:49 AM
1

Both since they asked me out they paying. Free food? Bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:46 AM
1

So many women do this that it truly shocks me. I know you didn't just tell me you want to take it slow and you don't do that stuff anymore when I clearly saw you having trains ran on you at almost every covid party. Or the single mom randomly hitting me up on facebook right before the holiday season and trying to ask what I do for work to get me to take care of her and her kid when I don't even have kids! The audacity is truly mind blowing. and they just don't get why men are done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:22 AM
0

I'm not unless I'm sleeping with her, yes there are suckers that do that but I learned my lesson to never get played like that again. Of course if more men would follow that trick we would all be happier and probably close down a few bars and strip clubs in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:16 AM
3

Knew a guy like that, met a girl online from LA became an actor and model through her. Some dudes have all the luck. He did have that Orlando Bloom look to him from pirates of the carribean the first movie. I'm sure that helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:08 AM
5

ahhhh no shit I absolutely CAN, you had trains ran on you in the past but with me all of a sudden you're church girl missionary? I don't think so. Past absolutely matters, especially if you expect him to be traditional and pay for everything wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:40 AM
0

They don't complain they make it an issue when you string them along and waste their time "hanging out" while simultaneously going to Chad afterwards and having sex. Sleep with whoever you want no one cares, but then go and waste his time doing stupid unnecessary shit around town not with back burner boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:37 AM
1

They aren't desperate for sex because of their plethora of options, have you ever been around a big chick at a party? They will tear the pants off any guy almost immediately. Women choose who they are intimate with and place other men on the back burner or for some other nefarious purpose and act like they are these innocent little angels to the men on the back burner. Those dudes find out and obviously get frustrated and talk smack, all of this can be solved if women just stick to the men they …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:32 AM
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Women are horny if not hornier than men. It's just they have a plethora of choices to pick from, they have soo much choices that they get to the point of not even wanting sex. Because I mean why would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:18 AM
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Unfortunately we are both born in the wrong generation. As much as I wanted to be a decent human in this world it absolutely destroyed my life. I've had my Jaw broken, for helping a friend, because he was high and assumed something. I've lent out extra cars that I had to girls and of course got them back crashed. Business that I built from scratch tarnished, got cheated on. Remember no good deed goes unpunished! I don't necessarily think that a woman is not interested if she's not sleeping with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:06 AM
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Or like an egg shaped head with receding hairline.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:03 PM
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Dude I'll take less testosterone and have no desperation any time of the day. Have you seen the dating world out there these days? You're blessed if you're not a desperate dude, BLESSED.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:26 PM
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Or just go to parties, especially with holiday season coming up, I always have luck there patrolling with a liquor bottle. I for sure would hate to entertain women who are juggling other men and a lot of them do that these days. Precisely why I minimize my money spending until I know for sure that I'm not one of those back burner boys for her. I haven't been getting good "bedtime" percentage lately, so I pulled back and back to the gym I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:23 PM
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As a skinny dude that had way better luck when I was hard core gym for hours a day compared to now when I got lazy. I can guarantee it changes your face makes it more chiseled and healthier looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:15 PM
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Me every Friday when the girls that keep leading me on with no intention to ever do anything contact me with "let's kick it". Nah girl I'd rather spend $50 on another shitty COD, than on two drinks at the bar to come back home after and get on COD. With girls and their lack of hobbies, it seems like they never get burned out from going out. It's relationships or going out, I have goals I actually want to achieve in life and it's so tiring just going out blowing time and money with nothing to sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:03 PM
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Imagine if men became smarter started focusing fully on their goals in life and started living it on their terms. Give it a month before the women would go insane, they go pretty hard on that attention thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:58 PM
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Free dates and getting to pick out of all of those dates who YOU actually want to bang and the rest can go kick rocks and beat their meat. That's pretty bad ass ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:56 PM
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agreed 100%, that's why it's so easy for men to not really care about dating these days. Like for what? I got down bad because of chasing and dating, so I see no reason to go down even lower than where I already am. I think women Assume dating is "fun" for men because it's free for them. (free is fun for me too) They generally don't see it from a mans perspective for what it is for men (generally a huge waste of time)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:53 PM
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They are shocked about our 10-15 matches, "omg you only have that much, I have like over 100" Yea you're a girl, congrats nice flex. Their downfall is they find it hard to choose because of all of those options and when their options start dwindling they want to settle but the men from their past are already done with relationships and dating. So no one gets anywhere after a certain age. I can't stand the older single moms that contact me on facebook first and ask about my height and my job. Lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:47 PM
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I have stopped being friends with women for many reasons but most importantly. Because of the abundance of benefits they get compared to men. For example. I’ve introduced my girlfriends to many of my dude friends that they ended sleeping with even days later, all the while I knew that girl as a friend for years. Has she ever in those 6 years introduced me to a girl that I got to sleep with? NOPE I’ve provided girl friends with moving help, let them borrow cars etc etc… have I ever received anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:24 AM
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That’s true when I finally stopped caring and realized I’m ok if I die single I just now talk to women the same hot, ugly, etc I don’t care and surprisingly I get the hot ones too. Just don’t be shy and talk to them like they aren’t hot and you’ll be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:53 PM
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Nope nope nope, I was that nice guy, taken advantage of not paid attention. I went and changed my life around and now the girl that’s pushing thirty but partied wants to be with me the nice guy? Nah too late I’m an asshole now. I changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:42 PM
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I’ve noticed that too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:31 PM
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I agree 100% I have a two week free trial at the max. If I realize she put me in the zone in two weeks it’s ghost mode and never hear from me again. Women really be pulling this crap and thinking it’s ok to use dudes like this it is truly unbelievable. I’m not attracted to you to be a sex partner? Tell me that right away and leave me alone! Leave me alone so I can spend that time on a girl that actually wants to have sex with me and wants me to be her everything. Are women seriously this stupid …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:19 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:13 PM
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I’ve actually noticed that works yes. Be dirty from the begining.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:11 PM
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100% it does
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:34 PM
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