PsychologicalYam15 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Is there a way to raise young boys (in the West) to make them less sex/romantical relationship focused?		PsychologicalYam15	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/22 02:59 PM

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1	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Absolutely! But that will take a lot of money and skills. Many great make up artists managed to turn plain men and women into attractive people, but I know that they are professionals. Though...why not try to look one's best for one's self in the first place. All of us enjoy good hair day, for example.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 11:24 PM
1	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Hey I am all for being able to sue one's genetics contributors (bio mom and bio dad) if we ended up having fucked up lives because of their decisions to...well, not swallow or not jizzing on a tissue (so to say). Take the problem directly to the ones (literally) creating it in the first place.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 11:21 PM
1	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? unfair genetic standards that guys face can be only attractive if he has strong jawline, I think it is more like this. Though it is not always jawline. Guys with thick beards can hide weak jaw and still look attractive for example. In the end I cannot really answer. Guys who put a lot of emphasis on physical look, grooming and dressing nicely (like a lot of guys I saw in Oman for example), surely look nice and respectable. For me I think it is just either you are doing it, or not. But I am just …	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 03:31 PM
1	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Well...dem nice beards kinda hide half of face though. So it can help. Like if lips and chin are weak, beards hide it, so you see only nice eyes, eyebrows and nose. But yeah... Do you think it is genetic thing? That even if two attractive people got together, their daughters usually inherit the good parts and the boys, not so much? Generally speaking of course. Interesting, isn't it? How siblings can look so different based on their gender at birth.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 03:22 PM
2	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? I feel like there is a difference between ugly and just physically not captivating. True ugly people are rare and they tend to be memorable. Mere physical unattractiveness just makes one invisible or forgetable. I think there are women who genuinely love men they personally do not find attractive. And the feeling is not a lie or them trying to convince themselves. Sometimes things happened.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 02:32 PM
1	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Well if it helps at all, Middle Eastern guys won the "best groomed and styled" award for me though. They give a lot of efforts on dressing nice, proper haircut, proper beard care, etc. Nails trimmed and clean. Their culture of perfume wearing does not hurt either. Most have proper posture too and not slouched when walking, etc. I think because Muslim culture put a lot of ideas on looking and smelling good as part of life rituals?	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 02:29 PM
3	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Well if it helps at all, Middle Eastern guys won the "best groomed and styled" award for me though. They give a lot of efforts on dressing nice, proper haircut, proper beard care, etc. Hands and nails trimmed and clean. Their culture of perfume wearing does not hurt either.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 02:27 PM
2	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Honesty time... I have lived in several different countries (originally from South East Asia) and I am no beauty myself. I have been lucky enough to see men from different races and cultures. Here is the rub and the honest truth. Most men are...just physically unattractive for me. While most women I have seen, make up or no make up, all kinds of races and cultures...are physically attractive. Not even talking about height, because first thing one's see is often someone's faces. Mens' faces (agai…	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 10:12 AM
20	Sexism and political opinions Maybe just read about my shithole country Indonesia? Contraceptions are not free and not so popular here, abortion banned. We are plenty of people, numbering in 260 plus millions. But we have little impact in this world in some positive capacity. Being known as one of the places where you can see plenty of child beggars and child prostitutes. Oh btw, the crime rates are sky high too. Also of course we gonna burn our tropical jungle and destroy our seas. What? You think we breed a lot and therefo…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/22 02:37 PM
2	What do you think about women who support the red pill? I have a great therapist, but it is still hard. I do try to join subreddits like askwomenover30 to get different, positive female role model even if only online. I don't really have good real life female role models unfortunately. My lovely sis in law is probably one. But she also came from a family of abusive mother, though the mother did not abuse her but abused her father. I think having abusive mothers brought my sis in law and my brother together in a weird way. And then there is also my ge…	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/22 07:10 AM
7	What do you think about women who support the red pill? Fucked in the head. I was one. You can look at my posting history. I was so abused by my mother, I basically support men who will 'punish' women who are like my mother. Also the fantasy that if my dad were just a little bit more RP, he would have not just let my mother wear the pants in the relationship and stuttered cowardly when his wife abuses the children.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/22 04:31 AM
7	How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner? What becomes of a narcissistic woman in the end? I invite you to look at my posting history to see what happened to those narc women. Or better said, the victims of those narc women, especially when they decided (and boy I feel like most of them do), to have children. The insanity continues despite age (if we are talking about true narcissism and not just some teenager/young adults asshole phase). No matter how old they are, the capability to feel other humans' pain are just not there. They can …	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/22 07:40 AM
1	Mother and Sons. I am indeed still very much hurting because I felt that the abuse my brother and I went through, even both of our failed suicide attempts (I miscalculated my jump and only broken my leg, my brother tried to gas himself inside his car but his GF found him) was literally for nothing. Nothing happened or going to happen to our mother. No regret (she said that she brought us into this world, that automatically gave her the right to decide on our lives and death), no self-reflection (she said all she…	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 05:13 PM
1	Mother and Sons. I am happy that you managed to stop the cycle, and it is tragic what happened to your mother, but still, SHE DID NOT NEED TO CREATE YOU. Just like how my abusive mother CHOSE to have me and my brother and then abused us both. I do not and will never have biological children. Ever. You know why? Because I have a duty to stop my mother's DNA for continuing. This rotten DNA deserves to be vanished. My mother's abuses were the reasons I grew up hating and mistrust women, despite being a woman myself…	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 08:41 AM
1	Is there a way to raise young boys (in the West) to make them less sex/romantical relationship focused? I agree with this. We need an "I am independen man who needs no women" movements but in a positive way and not in resenting way. I have male friends who are in this kind of position too. Not women focussed while they were younger, but ended up living happy and fulfilling lives anyway.	/r/ExRedPill	08/04/22 03:11 PM
2	Is there a way to raise young boys (in the West) to make them less sex/romantical relationship focused? Definitely agree on limiting online time, though isn't Disney lately moved on from princess - prince stories and goes on to make more movies about analyzing toxic family dynamics? Turning Red = expectations being put on Asian children, Encanto = expectations being put on children and grandchildren of family of refugees, Luca = movie about how to trust your kid enough to let him leave home and have his own world adventure, Onwards = how after one parent died, usually the older sibling having to t…	/r/ExRedPill	06/04/22 11:38 AM
2	Is there a way to raise young boys (in the West) to make them less sex/romantical relationship focused? I love your comment the most and I can feel that my male family members and friends will agree to it too, that young boys need to feel that validation from personal success. And I think sports might be one of the best source for it. I am saving this comment!	/r/ExRedPill	06/04/22 11:33 AM
1	Is there a way to raise young boys (in the West) to make them less sex/romantical relationship focused? In my culture, usually you feed them religion and teach them to pray everytime they have intrusive impure thoughts, but I'd rather not involve religion if possible. I guess getting them interested and deeply invested in something like MMA can help.	/r/ExRedPill	06/04/22 11:31 AM
1	Is there a way to raise young boys (in the West) to make them less sex/romantical relationship focused? Haaa the idea is keeping young boys to enjoy childhood for longer, how's a sex toy supposed to help with that.	/r/ExRedPill	06/04/22 11:29 AM
7	"A partner can't make you happy" I think a lot of people are just profoundly unhappy. They think happiness is when you are in an emotionally intimate relationship with someone. But don't forget that many people with close friends, loving partners, loving families also committed and completed suicide. And if you go into some traditional/conservative areas (like the area where I am from), people will laugh if someone say that having partner, having family is about happiness. It is about continuing your family/genes and building f…	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/22 05:54 AM
2	Now I understand why I was unsuccessful with women - it all started with my mom I am feeling so good to know that my brother and I did not go through this alone. And yeah, I am so confused about the docile and submissive part. Sure some of them are docile and submissive, but I feel that the amount of those are not less or more than other races of women. I am living in Europe now and there are not lack of white women who are docile and submissive (I mean in a positive way), like really really loving to their guys. That support them mentally, physically (if they are able to, …	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/22 04:03 PM
7	Now I understand why I was unsuccessful with women - it all started with my mom found him in the garbage and adopted him Fucking hell dude... Do we have the same mother? My mother also said this to my brother, me myself (I am a woman), got the snide remarks about my tanned skin, because her skin is light yellow. I did not get called Mexican, but I get called Aboriginal savage by her. I am glad to be able to report to you that many of my (fellow Asian) friends have kind and encouraging mothers. I remembered that I loved spending time more at their places than mine. And was s…	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/22 12:59 PM