PsychoticFairy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Ltr with three people (plus cptsd)		PsychoticFairy	/r/askTRP	14/02/20 03:01 AM

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1	I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight. You do realise though that there are certain diseases and medications that make it more or less impossible to lose weight, right? Then we have eating disorders but also other psychological disorders in which eating/food plays a huge role, eg some pwdepression can't or don't eat others overeat etc. etc. idk as someone who has battled wth Anorexia (amongst other things) but also the xact opposite (just to clarify things I was never morbidly obese or anything) those views are just off-putting for m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 06:23 AM
1	Being a man means you can’t be loved Firstly you are confusing relationships with love. Secondly most of what you say is just you assuming things, maybe back your statements with actual studies/statistics. Based on my personal experience (ofc this is just an anecdote) I don't put people into categories like useless vs useful. There are men that I love and I don't love them because they are useful to me, same goes for women. However I am sorry that you seem to have made different experiences. And while it is true that more boys die …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 11:59 AM
2	Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating. of course you still need to do the work, it's not like i'll fix your psyche for you, but acknowledging that the person for example was abused and therefore a victim doesn't mean to take away their chance of healing it means validating them and their experience (someone who was murdered is a murder victim; someone who was raped --> rape victim, of course also survivor but since you didn't control the situation or the perpetrator it was soth out of your control sth happening to you, so the term vi…	/r/ExRedPill	19/01/21 08:07 PM
3	Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating. You are entitled to your own opinion, but you do realize that trauma does change your brain, it is not perceived that one feels different, they in fact do. And well, if you are stating "I have been through a lot of traumatic shit and I turned out fine and when others don't, it is their own fault because they see themselves as victims." Then, you didn't turn out fine. If you had turned out fine, you would be more empathetic and willing to learn and to progress. You dismiss well-based scientific e…	/r/ExRedPill	19/01/21 05:11 PM
5	Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating. Sure you can try to dress up facts or to gloss over that pain and suffering exist in the world whether we acknowledge them or not. But you know, shit with sugar-coating is still shit, right? mindset is not the same as scientific evidence. saying you'll get what you expect is dangerous, invalidating and victim-blaming.	/r/ExRedPill	19/01/21 04:22 PM
5	Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating. The Law of Attraction (scientifically proven now btw) states... I don't know how you define "scientifically proven" but your definition is wrong. Perception and evidence are not the same things....	/r/ExRedPill	19/01/21 03:37 PM
1	GF making demands is she trying to better at this stuff for you? or does she limit her own freedom and does stuff you want her to? If so, you should probably try to improve yourself, it's give and take. Of course you wanna do something for the one(s) you love (make their life better, help them, u know), but a little reciprocity is nice, so maybe at least try to cook for her or do it together.	/r/askTRP	08/02/20 08:48 PM