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| 1 | I live in a small community and it makes it rely hard to sargeJust be shameless. If you see a girl you know at a bar while your trying to do your thing, so what? Dont be ashamed of the fact that your a guy trying to get laid. And so what if she knows someone who knows you? You think anybody will look down on you for hooking up with a girl at a bar? Thats just what men do. Own your man-ness. Go to bars just to have fun with everybody there and meet all the women. If you see one you like, then just escalate. Thats it. If there are other women there that you … | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 11:33 PM |
| 22 | How I ask girls out"Hey buddy" Lol. That made me chuckle. Honestly, this is a really good way to go about it though. | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Went out solo for the first time with some success, not gonna lie - drugs helpJust do NOT make it a habit. Benzo addiction is one of the nastiest things on the planet. It starts because it makes people fearless, but once they become addicted, they get massive panic attacks and horrible anxiety if they dont take any. I dont wanna lecture you though. Use this experience as fuel to go and reproduce that same feeling naturally. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Jumpstarting with solo travel?Do it. | /r/seduction | 17/01/14 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I am addicted to self-doubt and self-pity, and I always put up 'walls' between myself and girls I'm interested in. Desperate for a solution.Thanks, I wish you the best, man. :) | /r/seduction | 17/01/14 05:01 PM |
| 1 | I am addicted to self-doubt and self-pity, and I always put up 'walls' between myself and girls I'm interested in. Desperate for a solution.Maybe see a therapist? There's lots of people who struggle with getting close to someone. Hell, myself included. Its kind of beyond my scope to be able to tell you anything more than just to stay positive and keep working on it. People get over problems all the time, even though they can seem insurmountable. Its just gonna take a lot of introspection and a lot of work. But it is possible. Remember that. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 09:35 PM |
| 1 | 7 Reasons Why Meeting Women During the Day is So Damn EasyHm. Maybe its just personal style. When I go direct I usually just go up and get this hug smile and say "your cute" or something. There are a lot of girls who give me the "thaaaanks..." and just walk away, but there's also been all who start laughing and smiling. But, whatever works. Im glad you found a way that works for you! | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 09:26 PM |
| 1 | I am addicted to self-doubt and self-pity, and I always put up 'walls' between myself and girls I'm interested in. Desperate for a solution.Its just about practice, man. You got the beginning down, now you need to work on the later parts. Your scared of revealing who you really are to her. Right? Because to get intimate with girls involves revealing yourself. Otherwise its just empty. That's the big challenge. Breaking out of your shell, throwing away the fucking mask and being real. Just keep pushing your practice. Maybe your past approach anxiety, but now you've got intimacy anxiety. Keep working on it. You also seem to be stuck i… | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 09:27 AM |
| 4 | Summary of Models by Mark Manson. All chaptersPeople should just buy the book. Give Mark his dues. Its worth it. Its basically just about being yourself, being direct with women, and crafting your optimal life. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 08:55 AM |
| 1 | I am addicted to self-doubt and self-pity, and I always put up 'walls' between myself and girls I'm interested in. Desperate for a solution.You gotta get out there and just start working on it. Freeing yourself from your set role in life is painful. Your gonna come face to face with your insecurity. And FUCK is it intense to come face to face with your demons. Your gonna have to kill your ego. Dont wanna look like a loser? Or whatever your afraid of looking like? Too bad. That's the way forward. The obstacle is the path. If I were you (hint: I am you, I'm facing the same shit) I would resolve to get out there and do at the very leas… | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 08:35 AM |
| 1 | List of ways to build attractionI like this. Commenting to save. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 08:01 AM |
| 2 | 7 Reasons Why Meeting Women During the Day is So Damn EasyThis is a great article, Nick. You just reminded me to get back on my game. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 05:41 AM |
| 1 | 7 Reasons Why Meeting Women During the Day is So Damn EasyThis is my dilemma. I live in a smaller city (~100,000 pop) with no real downtown or places with a lot of girls my age. A while back I did a lot of mall game, but I ended up talking to so many 16 year olds it wasnt funny. A few times I've actually drove over to the neighboring city just to hang out downtown and talk to people. Probably your best bet is to just always be ready. Always go to places where you at least have a larger chance of seeing couple cute girls. Coffee shops and bookstores mig… | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 05:33 AM |
| 2 | 7 Reasons Why Meeting Women During the Day is So Damn EasyIve read the book, but I kinda disagree with Roosh here too. I've had some good reactions with going direct. It doesn't seem to "scare" them or anything, and in fact it often does the opposite. I'd definitely try it out if I was you. Nothing wrong with Roosh's style. Its just different ways. Do whatever suits you, but both work, and you should at least give both a try. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 05:25 AM |
| 3 | 7 Reasons Why Meeting Women During the Day is So Damn EasyNick is right. Acknowledge the group as a whole, make sure they are all cool with you, and then talk to the girl you are specifically interested in. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 05:17 AM |
| 1 | 7 Reasons Why Meeting Women During the Day is So Damn EasyHow many girls (in the daytime) have you hit up? | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 05:12 AM |
| 5 | 7 Reasons Why Meeting Women During the Day is So Damn EasyIm really glad to hear this. I have done this a few times without much success, but always had the nagging thought in the back of my mind that its an inherently weird experience for the girl. I know better, but its actually really helpful to hear that I'm wrong. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 05:10 AM |
| 3 | 7 Reasons Why Meeting Women During the Day is So Damn EasyOh dont be silly. Chicks love it when guys are bright red and profusely sweating. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Tips on approaching girls on the fly?Also check Sasha Daygame, and The Natural Lifestyles guys. | /r/seduction | 11/01/14 01:28 AM |
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