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| 0 | Help About My Engaged Chick | PuaInDisguise | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 12:59 AM |
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| 1 | Great night last night. No closes, but excellent experience in kino and compliance. (slightly long self-introduction included)I starting reading self-help stuff about 6 years ago, when I realized that I had developed major problems with sexual relationships. I specifically started reading PUA stuff about 3 years ago. This helped me identify my inner-game issues. I'm fortunate in that I have a strong natural ability to meet new people (thanks Dad!), but always had problems when it came to escalating sexually. I'm also fortunate that I realized I have good looks, and a good athletic build. It actually took quite a bit of… | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Building lasting relationshipsCool man, seems like you see the difference and importance of investing too much. With some girls there may be very little you can do to create a "real" strong romantic connection (in my experience). Perhaps it is possible, but probably not worth the time unless it happens naturally. For me it seems that 1 out of every 10 girls or so is actually a girl I would consider dating (see the post on the "8 epiphanies", about the emotional / physical connection stuff). | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 06:28 PM |
| 3 | From the Couch to the Bedroom: How To?Hey, she said she was old fashioned! | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 09:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Should I call her back?Yes, you should call her - but close this time. And a small brotip: I'm usually fingering her to the point of orgasm until shes basically begging for the cock. I'll usually have my underwear still on at that point (if shes kind of shy / reluctant), and after shes coming from fingering, whip them thangs off and go for the gold, it's unlikely you'll meet resistance, she won't have time to process that as she'll be loving it. For some girls the impending thought of "sex" is a huge burden, so by kee… | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Opinion openers - doesn't everyone know that this is a standard PUA move?Yeah, the opinion openers aren't bad themselves, it's all about how it's phrased. If you want to up your game don't keep repeating canned lines. I personally find it gets boring for myself, so why would I want to do it? Try rewording the openers, or intro-ing with a comment first. Do something that is fun/funny to you. You don't have to just walk up and say "hey guys let me get your opinion". Be unique. | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go from here?Dead on. The only possible chance OP has here is to disengage emotionally. Go do some cool shit when you get the urge to call her. If you are going to be unavailable, be actually unavailable. It might be too late to recover at this point, but it will be useful for next time! | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Building lasting relationshipsTo be honest, sounds like you are thinking too much. Please do not try to "romance" her, this will fail, I promise. Just be cool, have good conversation, make out, and fuck. Figure the rest out after. If shes a cool chick, you can continue to hang out! I repeat, do not try to do romantic things. | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I seduce men?Seriously, I don't know if the women who come here realize that this isn't just a joke. Sure, it's funny, but I don't think any straight male could be adverse to this. If you like a guy, touch him anywhere! (especially the penis). That's really all there is to it, women have it easier this way. If men could do so they would do the same to women, but they can't so OP, take full advantage! | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 07:13 PM |
| 1 | The ADVANTAGES of talking to EVERYONE, it's more then just getting laid.oooooooh, he's mysterious too! | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 06:33 PM |
| 14 | From the Couch to the Bedroom: How To?I just pick her up and carry her to my room after making out for a while. At this point her shirt is off. If she asks where we are going, I just smile, and keep making out while carrying her. It hasn't failed yet. Edit: One more thing, if she wraps her legs around you really tight while you are carrying her at this point (I think it's fucking sexy), you have the green-light to caveman. | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Seddit what went wrong??This is absolutely correct. Hey OP, lesson learned right? You must lead a woman with actions, not words. If you ever ask a chick to do something, all you are doing is giving her an "out". When her buying temperature is high (IOIs - she was totally digging you!), you lead her wherever you want to go. This is attractive to women. Also as the other posters here mentioned, you have way too much invested in her. Girls can smell this 1000 miles away (true fact!), it's like blood in the water to sharks… | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 06:12 PM |
| 1 | FR: A swing and a miss?That's the right attitude man. Keep pushing! If you keep it up, you'll look back and LOL at the AA. | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 10:31 PM |
| 2 | I was told years ago "I bet you are always just friends"Hey man, just want to say that no one will laugh at you for trying to pick up. They will laugh at you for being an AFC and not trying however! So make them stop laughing, and act based on your animal instincts! RAWR. | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 10:29 PM |
| 2 | This comment made me wonder if Seddit is familiar with this technique.I can testify to the social proof provided by being good with children. My most recent related success story involved me being invited to a going away house party for a chick that was digging me, but I didn't peruse (she was only HB6). After arriving to party, it turned out that she had her little cousins there and some other family. I've always been good with kids, and they all came up to me to play. We must have played water guns, hide n seek and tag for a couple of hours in total. I was actua… | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 10:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Goddamn Approach Anxiety, But Eventual Train #CloseHah, yeah I think it's a good line actually, but one that works better in speech than it did in txt. Too easy to over analyze it in a txt. | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Great night last night. No closes, but excellent experience in kino and compliance. (slightly long self-introduction included)Hey Bro, internet high five for pastor's sons! I went through something very similar. Keep up the progress! | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 08:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday night at the circusI completely agree with this. I will generally completely ignore it, or perhaps say something like "cool" or "duh" (for the lulz) in a completely disengaged way, while taking her and leading her somewhere. I want to make her feel silly for even saying it. Just keep escalating kino. | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Is there One Source to get all the basics of the game?This needs to be at the top. You can read all day long, but until you are failing in the real world, you aren't learning anything. Go out with the intent of HAVING FUN, meeting girls is a blast, they are there for your entertainment. | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 08:24 PM |
| 3 | What Everybody Ought to Know About ChemistryGood stuff man, I think this is pretty accurate. Just wanted to say that since your last post on "8 epiphanies...", I turned the whole "personal / sexual chemistry" thing into a small routine. I had 3 separate girls EAT THIS UP in the past week, and all of them led to a same night lay. I think girls can really relate to the idea of separating physical attraction from emotional attraction. So yeah, thanks. | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 07:39 PM |
| 1 | X-post from /r/videos: the high-five cam. that guy is in state. It's an excellent video illustrating a state so useful in pickup.That was surprisingly funny. I might give this a shot when my state is messed up one day, might be a really easy way to get ready to go out. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 05:07 PM |
| 4 | The new seddit locator. Find sedditors in your area and get sarging!Good idea. Added. | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Sedditor LocatorKitsilano | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Help About My Engaged ChickPerhaps it could be - although we flirted from the very first minute we met, and she would refer to this guy as her "friend", or "roommate", never "boyfriend". We flirted in the workplace, and most of my invitations to see her outside of work alone she would flake on for various reasons. Indeed, she probably is scared about getting married and wants some more validation. As I responded to him, nope, I have not. Most of our 1 on 1 time has been spent at work related functions, or lunch times (our… | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Help About My Engaged ChickYep, thanks. Nexted. | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Help About My Engaged ChickNever had sex with her. The point is that she does not talk about boyfriend problems with me, I don't discuss it with her. The topics about her boyfriend coming up is only very recent, and there is no discussion about it. I'm perfectly happy meeting other girls, just hate to lose. Appreciate the viewpoint, she will be nexted. | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 01:30 AM |
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