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| 137 | "Do Men Even Like Women Anymore?"Conversely, remove money from a relationship, and you will learn that 90% of women won't see a reason to be in said relationship. I feel like this needs to be amended to say "remove services from a relationship" and it would be more on the mark. Sometimes money is the service. However, a lot of women are making as much as men are, but they still want a man around for their utility. Fixing things, building things, opening jars, killing bugs, etc. Women are incredibly pragmatic when it comes to ma… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/02/25 02:55 AM |
| 11 | female teacher of the year faces life in prison for misconduct on student.I think there's a lot of variables at play here, and you mentioned two that are definitely factors. Another factor I'd put forward is the increased tendency of boys to speak out about unwanted advances/contact. It is possible for men to be seen as victims of sexual assault these days. As unbelievable as it sounds, that wasn't always the case. In the past if you'd have spoken out, your peers might have questioned your sexuality and most adults would assume you were lying or exaggerating. You have… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/24 04:14 AM |
| 28 | Wash away all your bad choices and bungled relationships with Abusive Ex™️I think it's partially this and partially that to women, every ex is by default "abusive" because they didn't make them happy in the end. All exes coincidentally have a much smaller penis and sucked in bed after breakups too. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/08/24 03:34 PM |
| 12 | So I feel like I want to take the rest of my 30s for me.You greatly underestimate the desperation of lonely, middle aged men. Especially KHV types. Also do-gooder church guys who "step up" as a father to virtue signal. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/24 10:19 PM |
| 15 | So I feel like I want to take the rest of my 30s for me.I have seen single mothers of all types and ages snag naive simps. Many guys are just happy to have a warm body next to them at night, and these women can sense the desperation and take advantage of it when needed. From hambeasts to junkies, it doesn't matter. A woman can always find a man when needed. There's always some dude out there that they can call on who will ignore all of the red flags just for the chance of being touched. Men being starved for affection and the harem-style hookup scene… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/24 06:24 PM |
| 32 | So I feel like I want to take the rest of my 30s for me.She'll take the usual path for this type - when she's ready she'll pick up the most gullible, desperate, kind-hearted guy she can find to help her get through the infant/toddler phase. He'll feel like he won the lottery and end up financially supporting her during this time while also doing half the childcare. Once they are out of the weeds, she'll notice that she doesn't really "have feelings for him" (he's not hawt) and will either leave him or start having affairs with men she's actually attr… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/24 04:32 PM |
| 36 | Men (nowadays) are absolutely savage and cruelWomen used to be pressured to choose practical men. Those who displayed traits of stability and long term security. That pressure evaporated and now they simply follow their tingles, much like many men do. The difference is that women are only attracted to a very small percentage of men. So they compete for and share those few men because there aren't enough of them to go around. And when men have a lot of sexual options, they don't tend to stick around for long. This is why we are seeing the da… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/24 02:07 AM |
| 20 | Emotionally mature and stable AND educated and successfulMy sister is like this. Claims that men suck these days. Claims they don't try hard enough. She goes for guys with emotional baggage and drug issues and then comes out of those relationships whining about abuse. Then she oscillates back to the other end of the spectrum and finds safety with a straight and narrow type. After a while, she gets bored, dumps him and goes back to complaining about men until the next "exciting" guy comes along. She is perpetually torn between the guys she is physicall… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/01/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Men dropping out of the labor force in huge numbersNot all of them are fat neckbeards. Do you also consider yourself someone that wouldn't have been capable of contributing had you chosen to work? And yes, a lot of those men would have been doing manual labor jobs, which women do not and for the most part, cannot do. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Men dropping out of the labor force in huge numbersWomen don't build or maintain infrastructure. As the video states, there are over 7 million men age 25-54, able bodied, who are not in the work force. More of them leaving and being replaced by women will help fill social services and healthcare, maybe, but the physical sciences and hard labor will continue to deteriorate. I'm not sure that you're really understanding how things are produced or maintained. You don't work yourself so you are a part of the growing number of people who consume reso… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Men dropping out of the labor force in huge numbersI think that there's actually a fair amount of intelligent, insightful men out there who have just completely given up on society. I don't believe that the average guy who gave up on working had nothing they could have contributed to society - they just had no reason to. As far as long term economic implications... it most certainly will have a negative impact over time as more and more men choose not to enter the labor market and instead collect some form of NEET bux. That is more people to sup… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Men dropping out of the labor force in huge numbersNot trying to attack you here. I'm sure you are used to people trying to embarrass or shame you for choosing not to work. I spent significant periods of time as a NEET in my 20s. In my opinion, it's a fairly predictable response that young men are having to a society that doesn't value them. I don't really begrudge young men for opting out due to that. However, society better reevaluate its priorities soon if it doesn't want to fall apart or drop into very poor living standards. Men are required… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 12:07 AM |
| 7 | Men dropping out of the labor force in huge numbersI personally don't work but my reasons are philosophical and I don't think there's more than 10 of me at max. I can assure you that there a lot of other men out there who disdain work in a manner that is more or less "philosophical" in nature. And such a statement can't help but beg the obvious question about how you are supporting yourself, assuming you aren't retired or underage. The questions being asked here are fair to ask: Who are these men? How are they surviving? And what effect does thi… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/23 11:51 PM |
| 18 | Brisbane teacher charged with grooming boyi imagine the bragging rights is how these women keep getting caught up Almost certainly. I would have been all in on a chance with a teacher like this as a teenager, and I undoubtedly would have let it slip to my friends at some point. From the perspective of a teenage boy, it's just too big of a feather in your cap to not brag about. These women are letting their fetish/fantasy cloud their judgment to the point that they forget that social standing among your peers is everything to teenagers, … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/03/23 08:49 PM |
| 15 | If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. I give you the Tradthot (new weekend theme).Yep. Her friends were showered with positive attention for getting married and having kids and it's tearing her up. She likely spent the last decade being a boss babe, making her friends jealous of the vacations and clothes she was able to buy with her high paying job. And now her friends have something she doesn't have and she suddenly wants that. A single or divorced "trad" woman over 25 is about as silly of a concept as being a born again virgin. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/03/23 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Millions of men have dropped out of the workforce, leaving companies struggling to fill jobs: It's "a matter of our national identity"I was mostly agreeing with what you had been saying, but I guess you're too dense to pick up on that. You were (likely rhetorically) wondering how men are abstaining from working. They're on disability or hustling or being supported by relatives. It's that simple. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Millions of men have dropped out of the workforce, leaving companies struggling to fill jobs: It's "a matter of our national identity"The only grown men who would voluntarily walk away from their jobs have their parents to go live with or their wife supporting them. The article mentioned "Many others rely on safety nets, such as disability payments." I think this is a big part of what is going on. At the root of it though, in my opinion, is this. The bizarre, post-quarantine economic boom spurred on by stimulus money led to a false sense of abundance among the working classes. Nearly everyone was flush with cash. Many working … | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 06:17 AM |
| 36 | This guy had the perfect counter argument to the hypocrisy that was being displayed here and look what they focused on instead.I had an Asian girlfriend way back in the 90s who was deeply insecure about the color of her vagina. Like she mentioned how she wished her vagina and nipples were pink instead of brown at least once every few days. I had never expressed such a preference to her, nor had I ever considered it or heard of such a preference from other men. It came across as really bizarre to me. They are creating the very things that make them feel insecure, judging each other on it, and then blaming men for the tox… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/23 02:10 AM |
| 8 | Women Are Much More Selective And Find 80% Of Men Unattractive On Dating Apps, Per Recent ResearchIf working at all. In my 20s I was kind of in and out of NEETdom and there were a LOT of other young men who were doing the same. I'd imagine those numbers have only increased in the last decade since. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 02:23 AM |
| 41 | Women Are Much More Selective And Find 80% Of Men Unattractive On Dating Apps, Per Recent ResearchYep. Societies are built on the foundation of working men having and supporting families. Hordes of young men growing up with little hope for a fulfilling relationship or family as an adult is not going to end well. I'd guess that it is a major reason why we are seeing so many men join the NEET/incel subculture and completely opt out of society as an adult. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/23 05:17 PM |
| 40 | Women Are Much More Selective And Find 80% Of Men Unattractive On Dating Apps, Per Recent ResearchExactly. The top 5% of men benefit more than anyone as they can maintain their harems and multiple relationships without public scorn now. Followed by almost all women who can hook up with these men at will usually. Meanwhile all other men are dealing with convincing an average woman to settle for an average guy while she is used to hooking up with much more attractive men. Those men would never actually commit to her, of course, but she doesn't realize that. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/23 04:13 PM |
| 102 | Women Are Much More Selective And Find 80% Of Men Unattractive On Dating Apps, Per Recent ResearchFemales are either joining harems This is exactly what's happening and women are somehow okay with this explicitly patriarchal setup. They would rather vie, or even aggressively compete for, a top 5% male than date an average looking man. So that top echelon of men are able to essentially maintain harems of women who are more or less aware that they are sharing a man. Hookup culture brought us back to our basest of instincts where the dominant male has mating rights over most women. Women get a … | /r/MensRights | 21/02/23 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYI believe I know what you are getting at, even if it cannot be explicitly said, and I agree. All of this was engineered with very specific aims. The virus has to be removed before the symptoms can clear up. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/23 04:10 PM |
| 13 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYThe problem is at the societal level, not personal. Men do - we build, maintain, invent, go to war. But men have to have a reason to do these things. Often times a primary motivator to improve ourselves or cultivate value is to attract a woman who also has value. If that isn't a realistic option for 80% of men because the top echelon of men are maintaining rotating harems of women, the incentive to contribute starts to wane for the average man. We already see that with the significant overlap be… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Is there a cultural push to make men accept cheating or cheating-like behaviors from their wife ?It was never socially acceptable for anyone to cheat. What shitty people did you grow up around or what hellhole were you raised in where people condoned men cheating? Maybe big cities in California or NY? If you were a known philanderer in any small town, or pretty much anywhere across most of the country, your reputation went to shit. Tune out mainstream media. It's feeding you a false narrative about history that didn't exist and you and other women are inspired by it to act vengefully toward… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Is there a cultural push to make men accept cheating or cheating-like behaviors from their wife ?What you're describing is not the cultural norm where I live (USA), and hasn't been for decades, if it ever actually was at all. Even then, adultery has always been looked down upon in the west, for men or women. If you cheated on your wife, you better hope that her family didn't find out. Or that it didn't get out in public and turn the whole town against you. Regardless, men cheating more liberally in the past wouldn't make women doing so now any more righteous. My personal ethics regarding in… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/23 06:28 PM |
| 28 | Body positivity seems too onesidedIt's more due to the fact that the overwhelming majority of women have a strong preference for tall men. Not just men that are taller than them, but taller than other men. Height isn't a deal breaker to men the way it is to women. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 12:24 AM |
| 38 | Is there a cultural push to make men accept cheating or cheating-like behaviors from their wife ?Feminism's drive has never changed. Judging by the actions of feminists rather than their words, feminism's singular goal has always been to place women above reproach. This is why feminists do not see equality in the eyes of the law as their ultimate victory. And no amount of employment quotas or public assistance programs would suffice. In their eyes, victory is when women can't be judged or criticized for their actions. Whether it be cheating on their husband, eating too much and getting fat,… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/22 06:08 AM |
| 4 | Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination.You can't escape it, I agree. And a lot of short men just don't pick up on the fact that they were far from a first choice pick by their partner and are truly confused as to why she resents him or there is a dead bedroom. I'm 5'8, but my wife is 5'7 which is fairly tall for a woman, so she brings some tall genes to the table. I probably would not have had kids if she were below average height. When I was in my early 20s and figured out how traditionally attractive women thought about short men, … | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination.Yep. I know exactly how that feels. And girls used to not care about height until they were in their late teens, so I do know what it is like to really be desired. I had the "cute" thing going for me as a kid and didn't really have any issues with girls until halfway through highschool when all of a sudden they started to care about height. I quickly became invisible and it didn't make any sense to me as I was basically the same person that was doing fine with girls up to that point. That may be… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 06:22 PM |
| 6 | Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination.The disdain that most women feel for short men is really bizarre. I can't imagine feeling antipathy towards someone just for not finding them attractive, but it's like women find short men to be audacious for even trying to find a romantic partner. Short men are apparently supposed to just stay out of sight, getting work done and providing for society but never ask for more. The realization that height was by far the most important attribute women were looking for in a man was a huge black pill … | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 03:44 PM |
| 26 | When did the US dating scene turn so toxic?Yep. It seems that by the time someone is asking for an open relationship, they are usually already sleeping with someone and want to absolve themselves of feelings of guilt about it, or they at least have someone specific in mind they want to sleep with. "Open relationships" are just women indulging in their alpha fucks, beta bux instincts while trying to retain their social status and access to resources. No man with any self esteem would entertain the idea even for a moment. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/22 05:55 AM |
| 2 | "'Trad wives' are using social media to romanticize a return to 'traditional values' as more and more women face post-COVID work/life balance burnout"Not all men with traditional beliefs are abusive. And there are reasons why most men with traditional beliefs don't want a woman who comes to the relationship with baggage or another man's child. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/22 12:39 PM |
| 18 | "'Trad wives' are using social media to romanticize a return to 'traditional values' as more and more women face post-COVID work/life balance burnout"I wonder how many of these reformed trad wives were ran through by scores of guys in their youth and/or adopted their traditional beliefs after they were already single moms looking for a life raft. If the deal were still what it is supposed to be, most men would happily take it. A wife from an early age who comes to the marriage unburdened with relationship baggage or a sordid sexual history. But that's not what most women are offering. They are spending their youth getting pumped and dumped by… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/22 03:35 AM |
| 10 | Woman who proposed to boyfriend trolled online OP: god forbid women allow women and men to break gender rolesGood point. That seems to be the case these days. A "pick me" may just be a new way of referring to a girl who is, in the eyes of other women, guilty of setting too low of a price for the services (companionship/sex) that men usually have to compete for and/or commit resources to obtain. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 11:01 PM |
| 50 | Woman who proposed to boyfriend trolled online OP: god forbid women allow women and men to break gender rolesThey hate it because they see her as lowering the price of female attention and affection. It's the same reason why they still hate sluts despite being against "slutshaming" - sluts and whores lower the perceived value of something they expect men to have to earn from them. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Men are loosing interest in fatherhood in the United StatesOne of the best. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 06:15 PM |
| 8 | Men are loosing interest in fatherhood in the United StatesSource? Source? Source? Do you have a source on that? Source? A source. I need a source. Sorry, I mean I need a source that explicitly states your argument. This is just tangential to the discussion. No, you can't make inferences and observations from the sources you've gathered. Any additional comments from you MUST be a subset of the information from the sources you've gathered. You can't make normative statements from empirical evidence. Do you have a degree in that field? A college degree? I… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 04:25 PM |
| 29 | Men are loosing interest in fatherhood in the United StatesOr maybe men aren't satisfied with their kids going to daycare This has become a cultural standard, it seems. The number of times people have looked down their nose at me for sending my kids to daycare up until Kindergarten... Not all of us have jobs that pay well enough to support a stay at home mom for our kids. And those that do sure do love to preach to us about how awful daycare is. When the decision for the average man has been boiled down to: have kids with a wife who stays at home and yo… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 04:23 PM |
| 15 | Is YOUR partner a sex pest? Many women are complaining about 'gropey' husbands – and how to stop him hassling you for good. OP: Men branded "sex pests" even in a relationship!Women the world over love reading stuff like this because so many of them are indignant about having had to settle for a man they aren't sexually attracted to. This is a non-issue for women with men they actually want to have sex with. Unfortunately women only find about 5% of men attractive. So unless they want to be part of a high value man's harem, they have to begrudgingly settle for beta boy and feeling shivers down their spine every time he touches them. Women's natural sexual inclinations… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 03:00 PM |
| 40 | Redditor's Tinder match reveals she's a single mom who wants to bring her 4 kids on their first date.When I was in my early 20s and online dating was a very new thing (mid 2000s), I had a girl play the long con version of this on me. It was a learning experience to say the least. She contacted me first. We lived a few hours away from each other so it wasn't too impractical, but we also couldn't just casually decide to meet up on a whim. Anyways, we eventually got to texting, talking on the phone, and doing webcam chats daily for a few months. She seemed really fun and relatable. We shared commo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/08/22 01:51 AM |
| 26 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesI believe the OKCupid data indicated that women were actually attracted to something like 5% of men. Another 15% were okay and the bottom 80% were unattractive. Women's dating preferences being so narrow encourages a hypercompetitive environment where nearly all women are competing for a very small percentage of men while the rest are basically invisible. So to those women, dating may actually seem very difficult and it really does seem like "guys never ask them out", but only because 80-95% of … | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 02:58 PM |
| 14 | She talks a big game about the importance of size despite being an abhac gan bhrollach! How ironicNah, she'll just change her profile to make her sound like she has more depth than she does to attract a different type of guy. Her profile as-is signals that she is only interested in sex with a hawt guy. Once the fun runs out, she starts to age, and baby fever kicks in, she'll act like she was never that type of girl to begin with. She'll bury her past, act like she was always a quirky, interesting person "looking for something more" and snag some gullible beta who was patiently waiting his tu… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/04/22 06:06 PM |
| 26 | She talks a big game about the importance of size despite being an abhac gan bhrollach! How ironicI think part of the issue is basically a miscommunication. People in general tend to not realize that someone's sexual market value and relationship market value can be wildly disparate. Short men have a baseline sexual market value of almost nothing to women. They can compensate to some extent by having a handsome face or toned physique, but the ceiling on SMV for short men is probably just a hair above average even with those two things maxed out. RMV varies based on a greater number of factor… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/04/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I understand why marriages don’t last nowadays. And why women initiate 80% of divorces.You seem like a weirdly angry, argumentative person. I hope you one day find your odd little libertarian, polyamorous fantasy land where every guy, including the ugly and short ones, somehow has access to as much sex as as they want without commitment. Go get it, buddy! | /r/MensRights | 17/02/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | I understand why marriages don’t last nowadays. And why women initiate 80% of divorces.I'm not a tradcon, or even conservative. The political compass would place me as auth center. I just see what works for society and what doesn't and sexual liberation has been a disaster for the west. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 12:44 PM |
| 2 | I understand why marriages don’t last nowadays. And why women initiate 80% of divorces.Sorry, but nobody lives in a vacuum. If you want to go live in the woods and not have society dictate how you live your life, go for it. But for those of us who want to build something and contribute to a society that means something and works towards something, we're going to continue to examine and moderate behavior to try and make improvements to said society. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 02:10 AM |
| 3 | I understand why marriages don’t last nowadays. And why women initiate 80% of divorces.You have to be careful not to make rules out of exceptions. We shouldn't shape society's expectations around anomalies. Men in general want what they always have from a woman in a relationship: comfort, fidelity and support. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | I understand why marriages don’t last nowadays. And why women initiate 80% of divorces.What exactly are you suggesting as an ideal alternative to traditional values? I think a lot of young men view the solution to societal decay as either turning their backs on society or joining in the fray with a hedonistic, nihilistic attitude. And while that may work for the individual, it is short sighted and unhelpful in the end. Some of us actually want families and a society conducive to raising children in. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 01:27 AM |
| 3 | I understand why marriages don’t last nowadays. And why women initiate 80% of divorces.Knowledge of our nature is ancient knowledge. None of this is new. We're just painfully going through the process of relearning it again. The traditional expectations of behavior are there because they help build a stable, prosperous society. What women want by nature is to mate with the most physically appealing male and be held in high regard by other women. That simply isn't possible for all women to have. What men want by nature is access to sex with many women and the respect of other men. … | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 11:37 PM |
| 22 | I understand why marriages don’t last nowadays. And why women initiate 80% of divorces.That's true and it comes from the fact that attractive, high value men are having sex with them. They don't pick up on the idea that the caliber of man they can get to have sex with them isn't the same as the type of man they can get to commit. They conflate the two, then end up in a state of perpetual discontentment because they don't understand why they should have to "settle" for a lower value male. The "alpha widow" phenomenon has probably caused an immense amount of damage to the social fab… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 08:00 PM |
| 202 | I understand why marriages don’t last nowadays. And why women initiate 80% of divorces.That's created by an abundance mentality. Women can go on a dating site and are instantly flooded by male attention. So why bother staying with the man they have when they can just upgrade? Unfortunately it's a misleading feeling. Out of those hundreds of guys messaging her, only maybe 5% are attractive. And those same 5% of men are the same ones every other woman finds attractive too. So they all try to upgrade to the same guys who are having a ball just spinning plates. No reason to commit on … | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 03:17 PM |
| 4 | Theyre trying to make tiktok videos and trick young men into thinking this mess is acceptable.It's because they don't want to share resources or attention with a single father's children or ex-wife. And until childless men stop accepting this awful deal, single mothers are going to continue believing that they shouldn't have to settle for a man who comes with already established commitments like they do vs a man who can dedicate all of his time, energy and resources to them and their kids. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/22 05:31 PM |
| -2 | Lavish lady's liking lounge lizards lets lowkey lover lacerated. "Learnt low libido leads lame life" - lad's logical landing lacks lapses. Lofty long-lasting liaison's liquefaction launches literal liberty, leaving lassie lunatic.Yeah, the alliteration and Irish terms titles are about as cringe as the women being featured. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/01/22 05:30 PM |
| 50 | So she had fun getting pumped by chads and junkies in her teens, but now is "afraid" to tell the truth to the poor bf who doesn't want women like herYeah, there are definitely girls that feel ready to burst out of the gate and start living their adult lives by the time they are a teen. In 8th grade I had a friend that was in a relationship with a 21 year old guy. She was from a trashy family so her parents probably didn't know or care where she was most of the time. She essentially lived with this guy in a committed relationship, playing house with him, smoking and drinking, even driving his car around without a license. Absolutely nuts. She… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/22 06:35 PM |
| 41 | Carol spent her 20s becoming the successful man she wanted to marry, and is now 34 and wondering why she can't find the male version of herself.This is exactly what I am still going through as a married man and father. Stressed with work all day and then get a second helping from my wife who has become an ardent score keeper. Everything is always unfair to her, I never do my part, she has to work too... It's never enough. No matter what you do, if your wife doesn't respect you like she should, you will get shit-tested and henpecked endlessly. You'll get worn down over time and end up as a sad dad living in fear of his wife's temper and … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/21 04:51 PM |
| 36 | I hate pretty wymyns! I hate that I need to offer value to a man! Where are all the men who will accept my lame ass and love me UNCONDITIONALLY forever and ever, amen!!! 😠😤😡🤬😥Yep. Most guys out there are just looking for a life partner. And they have very low standards for what they'd accept. A feminine, virtuous and kind woman can have a low SMV but still have a high RMV simply because the demand from men is high but the supply from women is low. Much like a short or ugly low SMV guy can achieve a high RMV through financial success, a woman's personality has a massive impact on her RMV. But who are we kidding? The bottom 80% of men don't exist to women, so every rea… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/06/21 08:51 PM |
| 10 | Just short of asking the big question😂🤡And that's a perfectly reasonable solution for an individual man to make. That's awesome it worked out for you. The concern I have is at the societal level. When young men feel that they have nothing to look forward to, they will tear society apart or let it rot. And these social changes haven't made women any happier either it would seem. The biggest issue is that there isn't a single solution that will please everyone. Either men are deprived of the chance to make a family worth having or wome… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 41 | Just short of asking the big question😂🤡I think these replies speak to the current state of attitudes men and women have towards dating pretty well. I don't think the sentiments being expressed here are the exception anymore, but rather the rule for young women these days. Women are operating with an abundance mentality - male attention is there for the taking at any time so they can hold off for something perfect. Men are operating with a scarcity mentality - getting female attention is an arduous task so I better swipe right on all … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/05/21 02:14 PM |
| 6 | holy fake tradcons, batman!You missed my point. "Many" of these marriages do fail. But many others also don't. I was acknowledging the possibility of failure due to a woman's sordid past, but we need to also acknowledge that no matter how shitty of a deal she brings to the table, there is always a simp out there willing to step up to the plate. And often times those marriages go on for decades with billy beta catering to her whims. Women continue to follow this behavior pattern because they are able to get away with it. W… | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/21 01:01 PM |
| 12 | holy fake tradcons, batman!There are many women who sleep around extensively during their teens and twenties then hit the wall, reinvent themselves as a tradcon, and go on to marry Mr. Stable. Then they get to live the nice life in the well off neighborhoods of the suburbs with their doting husband who has no clue what all her past entails (and probably doesn't want to know). He spent his twenties building a nest and growing his career so that he could "afford" a woman who is outside of his natural SMV range. I have no do… | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/21 12:46 PM |
| 49 | After chasing Chad's commitment only to get abused and dumped, Carol finally accepts spinster status.Being single is a choice I'm making by not settling for less than what I want just for the sake of being with someone. The problem with this attitude is that women only consider about 5% of men a good catch. So almost every man is someone they'd feel like they are "settling" for. This results in women fiercely competing for a small number of men who have absolutely no reason to commit to one woman, and a whole lot of other men desperately trying to find any woman at all that will accept them. Wo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Baptist looking for love. Must dominate her in bed and love her 5 children as if they were your own. Not playing any games.Praying Mantis and Black Widow females eat their mates. Not saying we have it great as humans but it could be worse. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 10 | Because "Stay at Home Mom" sounds better than "unemployed."I have a coworker in his 40's who was previously unmarried and childless and a few years back married a single mom of 4. He's very unattractive and dumb, but hey, he's a paycheck for her to spend. He works overtime almost every single week. I guess he feels like being the savior for this woman and her brood somehow makes him a good guy. So yeah, these guys exist. They're being tricked into a life of perpetual sacrifice by women who already had kids with the guys they really wanted. And these men… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/21 02:52 AM |
| 18 | Obese lady laments "Where are all the athletic men who want to date me and not just have sex with me?" completely missing the irony that she won't do either for obese men. "Fellow ladies who won't date or f**k fat men - let's fight men's fatphobia! ✊"It is hard for many of us to imagine a woman who can't get laid. But you're right, they do exist. In my early 20's, back when band forums were a thing, I mentioned I couldn't get tickets to a show happening near me. A female user responded, overly enthusiastic, planned everything out, had a free ticket for me to use. I was really grateful someone (could have been anyone) was willing to go so far to help a stranger out. Anyways, met up with her before the concert and I could see why she was so ea… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/03/21 06:53 PM |
| 33 | Another 6ft chaser burned.Because they are competing with other women. They don't care how tall you are compared to them. They care how tall you are compared to other men. They don't want to bring a noticeably short guy around their friends who have tall partners. It would signal that they couldn't get as high value of a man and therefore would feel lower value than their girlfriends. Women have probably always felt this way, but now that hypergamy is allowed to run totally unrestrained, women are embracing their instinc… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 26 | 34yrs old,shitty attitude but still looking for her 5'11"+ unicorn. Did I mention she will call you out on your vocabulary while being terrible at it herself?Women don't care how tall you are compared to them. They care about how tall you are compared to other men. They want a man who is superior to other men to impress their friends. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/02/21 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Single mum with record number of WAATGM, from some Disney fantasy. Which we all now actually never works for the men in real life. Translation from french bellow the main image.And you also could not actually know the details of their personal lives and be judging their marital happiness based off of what they are willing to show/tell you. I didn't even invoke AWALT on this one, just conveying my personal experience. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 10 | Single mum with record number of WAATGM, from some Disney fantasy. Which we all now actually never works for the men in real life. Translation from french bellow the main image.Lack of accountability is a big part of the problem. Most women who are alpha widowed probably never actually had a real relationship with a high value male though. They were the side pieces or fuckbuddies or one night stands that Chad had while drunk and dumpster diving. Even a 4/10 woman can occasionally get a 9/10 guy to fuck her if he is in a dry spell. He then comes away from that encounter feeling absolutely no compelling urge to commit to her, but she is now fixated on him (or the qualiti… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/01/21 02:40 PM |
| 46 | This guy has learned the hard way: never open up to a woman, period.Women subconsciously seek to root out weaknesses in their partners. Now, they may truly believe they are wanting a man to "open up" so that they can relate to him better or be helpful. The problem is that even if her intentions are noble, when the man finally does make himself vulnerable women suddenly find themselves less attracted to him. This is probably a product of evolution where women have succeeded by relying on strong, healthy men to protect and provide for them and so they needed to en… | /r/MGTOW | 07/01/21 03:33 PM |
| 34 | "It's really hard after 40. If I would have known that it was going to be like this I would have taken my relationships in my 20's and 30's more seriously. 😕"I think the destabilizing effect on society of the alpha widow phenomenon isn't discussed enough. You're exactly right - once a woman gets used to a certain caliber of man, she cannot lower her standards for physical attraction later on. She may settle for someone who has a high RMV, but the lower SMV will always bother her. She'll even come to eventually resent the sexuality of her beta partner, as she identifies sex as something you can only enjoy with dominant, masculine males. Society is bui… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/01/21 03:25 PM |
| 9 | Two women candidly discuss dating later in lifeI really wonder what "very few" is to women. I used to get about 2-3 new women contacting me per week when I was doing online dating and I was pretty content with that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/01/21 11:59 PM |
| 13 | Average and fat 46 yo looking for Brad Pitt. Why is this so difficult? Anybody left in the Universe to reply back?That's how I took it as well. The onus is still on her to be clear about these things since she is composing the profile. I wonder how many guys have immediately wrote her off when they saw that bit, thinking she meant them and not her. She is probably just a longtime career-focused barslut who finally realized that traveling and being a warm hole for random guys doesn't lead to a lifetime of happiness. At the very least she is somewhat self-aware about her looks, which is rare. It does still am… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/12/20 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Wife divorces husband > Husband improves his situation without her > Woman bitter > #RepostWell said. And that's what we eventually settled on. I've been a loyal husband and father. If that isn't enough, there's nothing more I can do for her and she is welcome to try and find some other sucker who will try harder. Although I'm sure she would want to monkey branch while with me instead of going single for a while and reflecting on herself and her life before re-entering the dating market. What I've really struggled with is not resenting myself for having stayed with her through so much… | /r/MGTOW | 28/12/20 06:50 PM |
| 37 | Wife divorces husband > Husband improves his situation without her > Woman bitter > #RepostGot nagged day and night about growing up and shit like that. It's amazing that basically all women do this eventually. They get bitter and jaded as they get older and resent men for still finding joy in the same interests we had when we were younger. Even my wife, who for years played video games as often or even more than I did, pulled this bit on me once she started making more money than me. Nevermind that I had supported her emotionally through years of drug abuse and the chaos that comes a… | /r/MGTOW | 28/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 21 | EvolutionThere is no shortage of desperate men willing to wife up any woman who will give them the time of day, no matter how morally depraved or unattractive she may be. I think some guys here and on where are all the good men forget sometimes. These women aren't going to be alone until at least 40 unless they choose to. Over the years in IT I have worked with some truly miserable, lonely, desperate guys who appeared willing to do anything to not be alone. Most of them have low self-esteem, poor hygiene… | /r/MGTOW | 26/12/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Woman admitting that nice guys get the leftoversThere are some similarities in that analogy as well. I think it is different in that women expect to be taken care of by a man, whereas with a pet the expectation is that the human will protect and provide for it instead. Women are usually disgusted by men who want a woman to take care of them. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Woman admitting that nice guys get the leftoversI think our only disagreement is semantic in nature over the use of the word love. Which is a rather ambiguous term anyways, hence the quotation marks around it when I used it. I don't think women love the same way men do, so I don't think it would make sense to say that women not loving men in the same way we love them means it isn't love. It's just their version of love. As far as kids showing deference and respect to their parents... I'm going to guess you are not a parent. Kids, much like wo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Woman admitting that nice guys get the leftoversI think that how women "love" betas is definitely closer to how kids love their parents than how men love their romantic partners as adults. When we're young, we expect unconditional love, support, and protection from our parents with little to really offer in return other than our presence and token help around the house. All because we assume we are entitled to it. The way we love our girlfriends/wives when we become adults is usually quite different from how they love us in return. We can't e… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/12/20 09:00 PM |
| 19 | Woman admitting that nice guys get the leftoversI agree if we're speaking solely of sexual desire. Women never desire betas. Sex with betas is transactional in nature. If it does not bring with it other benefits, sex does not happen. Sex purely for sex is reserved for a small percentage of top tier men. What men feel for the top 50% of women, they only feel for the top 5% of men. The wall forces a shift in priorities though. They are kicked off the carousel against their will and have to reassess their ambitions in the dating world. Realizing… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/12/20 12:18 PM |
| 109 | Woman admitting that nice guys get the leftoversI don't think she's being facetious at all. This is genuinely how most women view it. What is clearly deceitful AF/BB strategy to the male observer is just a natural progression of maturity to women. They don't understand our perspective on the matter and therefore cannot comprehend why we would get so upset about it. You have to remember that women generally have a difficult time thinking outside of themselves. Solipsism informs much of their worldview and projection dictates their understandin… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/12/20 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Another life ruined by marriage and kids . Wife won't even touch him .I wouldn't say I know enough about OP's situation to claim this is the case, but I think you are absolutely right about a minority of women essentially being asexual. Most women view sex with most men as a means to an end. If there is no financial/social/emotional benefit to engaging in it, the average man isn't attractive enough to warrant sexual attention from the average woman. It's basically transactional, and if the man doesn't have anything of value to offer the woman, no sex is received. … | /r/MGTOW | 02/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 19 | Leaves “Kind men” in friend-zone while jumping into relationships with the “emotionally abusive” and complaining about men, yet can’t connect the dots herself.Because while they are young, regardless of how flawed they may be, there are always willing and available men. It isn't until they get forcefully ejected from the carousel that many of them ever have their ego checked. It isn't until age humbles women that they begin to reflect on themselves and their mistakes (although some still never do). At that point, some women re-enter the market willing to now begrudgingly settle for "Mr. Good Enough" and others stock up on wine. Personality disorders a… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/11/20 01:46 PM |
| 2 | For 2 bloodsucking vampires, No title needed. You see 2 ticks.Development/programming is a completely different track from IT support. Most guys that I know in development are making good money, working from home, and dictating the terms of their employment. I actually work more on the infrastructure side of IT now so I make decent money and am somewhat respected. But from when I worked in end user support, and from knowing the people in it currently, if anyone is going into IT without an advanced skill set (programming, networking, etc) they should seriou… | /r/MGTOW | 11/11/20 12:04 PM |
| 4 | For 2 bloodsucking vampires, No title needed. You see 2 ticks.I wish I could. Unfortunately I've spent nearly all of my working life in IT and don't really have any other skills. I spend a lot of time thinking about other paths I could take but it seems so difficult already having sunk 15 years into IT and being too old to get hired on in a co-op program if I went back to school. | /r/MGTOW | 11/11/20 12:31 AM |
| 5 | For 2 bloodsucking vampires, No title needed. You see 2 ticks.That's probably something that just applies to IT workers in that area. I work with guys who spent years at call centers making $12-14 an hour, or doing whole company support at small to medium businesses for $16-20 an hour. 50 hour weeks, getting called in while on PTO, working unpaid after hours to "get stuff done". Shit that only morons would commit to, and is actually illegal, but here they are. But they do this while Indians are hired in for the skilled jobs that they could have been traine… | /r/MGTOW | 11/11/20 12:14 AM |
| 5 | For 2 bloodsucking vampires, No title needed. You see 2 ticks.As a long time IT worker, let me just agree with you and also add that people on both sides of the political aisle who work in this field fucking suck. The liberals fawn over any token minority or female that enters the field and the conservatives are always willing to side with employers over other employees. Unions are evil, let the free market dictate wages, etc... great idea when that market is being flooded by cheap labor. The ones who do find issues with the visa worker program or diversit… | /r/MGTOW | 10/11/20 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Hunter X HunterI think sometimes chameleons are actually apolitical at heart, but are acting out their histrionic personality disorder and being contrarian is an easy way to get attention - positive or negative. So Chloe, for instance, could genuinely feel like she is being supportive while also fulfilling AWALT because she wouldn't be doing it if it didn't draw attention to herself and elevate her above other women in some men's eyes. It honestly seems at times that maybe 80% of women are cluster B types. You… | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/20 04:40 PM |
| 29 | Most men may not be "economically attractive" to women, fine. But pretty much all women are now "morally unattractive" to men.It's a cliche but also very true for most couples - once you have a child, you will never be number one in your wife's eyes again. You will transition from husband to father and that carries with it different expectations. The children will always come first and unless you can pull off a very effective dread game, your wife will always make sure you know that you come last. This is a big part of why men leave. Our culture frames it as men always "abandoning their children" but it's not always th… | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | This is where they learn it from. It's in our pop culture.That's an awesome stroke of luck. Try and hold onto that one. I don't know that I'm that interesting, but feel free to message me if you want. Take care man. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/09/20 01:31 PM |
| 9 | This is where they learn it from. It's in our pop culture.Noticing patterns is literally cult like. Ya got me. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 9 | This is where they learn it from. It's in our pop culture.Already married with two kids so that ship has sailed. I was speaking mainly of when I was in my late teens, early 20's. That's a rough period as far as dating goes for most men. Once I got into my mid 20's things started to get a lot easier. You know how it goes - women start looking for Mr. Stable/BB and all of a sudden you're visible again. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 15 | This is where they learn it from. It's in our pop culture.If they think it's the former, it's because 80% of men are invisible to them. The top 20% of men (the only ones women notice and therefore represent all men) have options so they usually play the field for longer or never settle down at all. The women they cycle through for fun then come to the obvious conclusion that all men are pigs and afraid of commitment. Meanwhile the bottom 80% of men would usually be happy to commit to even with a homely, fat woman if she were at least kind, honest and l… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/20 06:25 PM |
| 21 | Womens high standards make them alone. And they wonder why.Yep. This was one of the toughest realizations for me to come to grips with when I was dating in my 20's. I was invisible to most women and the ones who actually were interested turned out to be alpha widows who were ready to settle. Hookup culture has been a net loss overall for the majority of both men and women. Most men end up either alone or with a beta bux leech that resents them for being less attractive than the guys she used to have sex with back in her prime. Most women end up losing t… | /r/MGTOW | 13/08/20 11:11 AM |
| 17 | I'm All For Feminism, But It's Kinda Making It Harder To DateI think it goes beyond that. I see all of the current social justice movements having the same goal: to place the group that they represent beyond reproach. It's not about equality, or even equity - it's about creating a social environment where you are forbidden from even criticizing or questioning certain groups if they are below you in the oppression hierarchy of intersectionalism. They essentially want it to be illegal, or at least social suicide, for you to hurt their feelings. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/20 07:08 PM |
| 63 | I'm All For Feminism, But It's Kinda Making It Harder To DateThis approach of hers conveniently dovetails with another standard she mentioned higher up: However, women still like to be pursued (at least I do) So she maintains the facade of advocating for a fair and equal approach while the de facto state of paying is that since the men should always pursue, they should also always pay. She's never paying because she's never the one initiating. Her fragile princess ego couldn't handle the possibility of rejection. So the men pay for everything, prepare a d… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 9 | Her 20's were full of bad things that "just happened to her". Will her 30's be better? 🤡🥳🤯Yep, guaranteed she kept orbiters around for emotional support while she cried on their shoulder about being ghosted by another Chad. They claim that no men want to be with them but that's just because the bottom 80% of men don't count as actual men to women. Or at least not until they're willing to resentfully "settle" for a free ride with one of them while they're still pining for the guys that pumped and dumped them back in their prime. This is just yet another cliche alpha widow origin story… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/07/20 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Redpill tinder profileThe only advantage of being white in the dating market is being seen as a safer bet for beta bux. So women spend their youth having fun with Chad/Tyrone/Juan and then look for a financially and emotionally stable guy to start a family with when younger women take their spot on the cock carousel. It's just that the Billy Beta archetype is typically thought of as a modest, hard working, intelligent white family man. As far as sexual appeal goes, women seem to prioritize height, large frame/shoulde… | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/20 10:59 PM |
| 50 | Redpill tinder profileAnd their attraction has basically no variance from woman to woman. They are all attracted to the same physical characteristics in men, which when combined in a single man are exceptionally rare. Meanwhile men's attraction is so varied that almost all women are attractive to at least some men. It makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint as a method to improve the gene pool by only selecting the top men to breed, but I can't imagine how depressing it would be to only find the top 5% of the opp… | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/20 11:31 AM |
| 22 | I don't pay for anything.It's like the girl from Pulp's "Common People" song. A rich chick going through a phase where she seeks validation from perceived marginalized groups. Acting/looking poor is a weird role playing adventure for them. But while these idiots are playing dress up as an oppressed activist, the actual poor people see right through them and despise them for how patronizing they are. 10 years from now this girl will have probably fooled a nice engineer type beta guy into starting a family with her, with … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/06/20 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Absolutely savageryI had never heard of an Autoblow. Just looked it up. Incredible. Where was this when I was a teenager with a libido off the charts? As a teen I could probably blow about 8 or more loads in a day if I had the house to myself. My refractory period was maybe only 30 minutes or so. In my mid thirties now, I've found that I can only do maybe 3-4 loads in a day without my balls starting to get sore. And my refractory period is about 2 hours. Those are my two limiting factors. I actually welcome a decl… | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/20 02:58 PM |
| 2 | But you 5'8 with a kid thoGammas would be loners living off the grid, thugs, serial killers, etc. Or at least that was my interpretation of it. They sometimes have the same dark triad traits that alphas do, but have chosen to live outside the system rather than manipulate it to their advantage. Because of that, they don't fit cleanly into a hierarchy with the other types. This grouping system isn't perfect either, but just separating all men into into either alpha or beta is overly simplified. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/05/20 04:22 PM |
| 3 | But you 5'8 with a kid thoGotcha. I don't think alpha/beta suffices for describing men's roles but there isn't a widely accepted breakdown that is more detailed. I recall reading a good one that broke it down into alpha (dominant, good genes), beta (providers, family men), delta (mediocre in life, struggles with women), omega (awful genes, socially inept), and gamma (wildcard, destructive, outside social hierarchy). When I think of betas, I think of relatively successful, sociable family men. They just aren't effortlessl… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/05/20 08:47 PM |
| 21 | But you 5'8 with a kid thoYou're misreading me. There has traditionally been nothing shameful in working hard to create and provide for a family. That is the life of the beta male. The problem is that women aren't living up to their end of the deal anymore. They aren't remaining chaste until marriage, or even loyal during it, and are shirking many of the responsibilities we typically associate with bringing value to relationships as a woman. They tore up the social contract. I'm married with 2 kids. My interest in the ma… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/05/20 08:10 PM |
| 25 | But you 5'8 with a kid thoMost of us here probably are betas though. Why would an alpha, who doesn't have a care in the world when it comes to the sexual marketplace, bother reading into gender dynamics? He doesn't think about what he's doing or take ethical or social implications into account before fucking women - he just does it. Why would he be frustrated about the state of modern women? No one benefits from the current dating scene more than alpha males. He has access to more women and easier sex than ever before. S… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/05/20 07:15 PM |
| 8 | Single mom doesn't have time for loosersShould also mention the 7 spelling mistakes not to mention the grammar issues It's always amazed me at how remarkably little effort most women put into their profiles. She is either retarded or she literally didn't even bother to read what she wrote to check for mistakes before submitting it. Then again, there are enough guys on these sites just looking for a wet hole (any will do), that I guess it doesn't matter much. And probably enough equally dumb guys willing to step up to provide for her t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/05/20 02:48 PM |
| 18 | The “Safe Guy” vents.Yep. If the government is willing to provide for and protect a woman, what reason is there to keep a man around once she gets bored of him? The financial security she previously needed a beta bux for will still exist and it'll be enforced by the state through alimony and child support. We have created a system where average men are redundant because the transfer of wealth from men to women no longer needs to happen directly. Why would a woman not ditch the boring BB for a more attractive, exciti… | /r/MGTOW | 19/05/20 06:06 PM |
| 16 | Single moms mad because a man put "no single moms" on his Tinder. lol bailouts denied!I agree 100%. The lowering of women's value is simply a side effect of men choosing not to participate in the game as it is. I would advocate for MGTOW for men who naturally have a low SMV because the alternative now is simping for life and getting taken advantage of or humiliated endlessly. Over time that puts you in a terrible place for your self-esteem and creates a lot of bitter, lonely men who still believe that the answer to their unhappiness is some woman finding worth in them. I don't th… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/20 07:03 PM |
| 15 | Single moms mad because a man put "no single moms" on his Tinder. lol bailouts denied!I think we're talking past each other. You're describing what is happening and I'm suggesting what should happen. The issue isn't the individual thirsty simp, but rather the aggregate impact of these people on the dating scene and society as a whole. I'm not expecting anything to change or for the problem to be solved. We'd basically have to either have a ton of men opt out or forcefully implement something akin to "white sharia" to return things to more sane times. Neither will happen. It's jus… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 24 | Single moms mad because a man put "no single moms" on his Tinder. lol bailouts denied!I completely agree. I'm just saying that if you're having problems dating and finding a partner is your goal, raising your value is one option to improve your chances. It's not like women are going to become more reasonable all of a sudden. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/20 04:35 PM |
| 30 | Single moms mad because a man put "no single moms" on his Tinder. lol bailouts denied!So what should they do? As of now they are just staying in the market, chasing after any woman they see, and as a result all women believe themselves to be higher value than they should. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/20 03:59 PM |
| 145 | Single moms mad because a man put "no single moms" on his Tinder. lol bailouts denied!It seems to have gotten worse. It's been around 12 years since I last used online dating and I wasn't encountering many women like this. I'm sure they had the same thoughts, but they weren't so bold. Even as a short guy with an average face and poor career prospects at the time I wasn't struggling with dating. It wasn't too rare for women to message me first. Men are to blame for this because many have absolutely no standards Men need to realize this. The simp situation is out of control. Men wh… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | 2020 ASC (Annual Simps Conference)Yep, and of course any women who go into IT are showered with praise and drooled over. Most of us are also used to having female managers with poor technical skills. Upper management hates talking to tech nerds so they sometimes put pleasant females in charge of IT teams. Which is great for them but frustrating for the people working under that manager who has a poor grasp of what their employees are doing. | /r/MGTOW | 17/05/20 01:52 AM |
| 21 | 2020 ASC (Annual Simps Conference)Because most guys in IT or Software Development are horribly awkward and unsuccessful with women. They're desperate and easily taken advantage of. Most of the other guys I know in IT are very timid and either espouse very safe political views or just never vocalize them at all. You would think that with it being a male dominated field that it would naturally become somewhat of a safe space for men but somehow it isn't. It isn't uncommon for the co-workers I've had to basically worship women beca… | /r/MGTOW | 16/05/20 08:09 PM |
| 4 | Exhibit AJean jackets are back in? And holes in jeans? And high waistlines? One girl even has her pant legs cuffed... As much as I may look back with nostalgia on my time in the 90s, the fashion was one thing I was happy to say good riddance to. | /r/MGTOW | 15/05/20 03:04 AM |
| 7 | In all of his deluded PUA glory, even roosh knows that MGTOW is inevitable.the failure rate of game for most average guys This is what always bothered me about the PUA/redpill communities. All of the motivational stuff is said with good intentions, but sometimes it seemed to directly contradict nature. Not everyone can be an alpha. If you're a nerdy manlet acting overly confident to try and pick up women, you'll just come across as creepy and socially retarded. Self-improvement is a great thing. But alphas are born, not made when someone tries to change themselves as a… | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/20 11:19 PM |
| 4 | 23 Year Old with an Interesting Outlook on LifeThere was a thread on RedPill Wives recently (link removed, forgot it was against the rules) that perfectly illustrates the tradthot mindset to me. A few of the replies are from reformed sluts who have convinced themselves that their past doesn't matter, men love "experienced" women, and Jesus is totally cool with women being sluts until they're ready to settle down. The responses reflected the expected turbo-charged spin of a tradthot's hamster wheel as she tries to cope with feelings of shame … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else overcompensate?I really think it's entirely dependent on the guy's values. For a deeply religious person, having sex at all outside of marriage might be a big deal. For some other guys, having sex outside of a relationship is a deal breaker. And then finally there are simps and degenerates who are desperate or depraved enough to have no standards at all. I'd personally fit into the middle camp. I didn't wait for marriage but also strongly believe that sex should be between two loving partners who at least inte… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else overcompensate?"you put out for them, why are you making me work for it?" I think it doesn't really apply the same way to rape. No reasonable guy is going to hold that against her. But just because she made one mistake doesnt mean she has to keep repeating it. Agreed. People make mistakes. I think learning from their mistakes is a good thing, but... you have to take the guy's perspective into account. If he knows that you slept with guys before him, especially outside of a committed relationship, you holding o… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else overcompensate?It really depends on the guy's values. If he's conservative/traditional, he's more likely to care about his partner's number count. If not, it may still bother him but probably won't be dealbreaker. Why not just hold out for a virgin then Because by the time that most men are of age to marry and wish to do so, finding a virgin would be incredibly difficult. And most men wouldn't have the value necessary to attract one. It's a compromise in values most men have to make in order to take a practica… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/20 07:30 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else overcompensate?Plus new dude will probably get the picture that you take sex and commitment super seriously, even with a slip-up in your past. That's not the male perspective at all if you aren't actually a virgin though. He'll just perceive your reluctance to have sex with him as insulting if you've had sex with other men previously. He'll also wonder why he has to work harder to earn what other men got easily before him. Holding out on sex as a virgin is a sign of virture that men will respect and value. Doi… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | The Average Woman Would Be An Incel If She Was A Man.Of all the things which totally happened in the history of the world, this happened the most. | /r/MGTOW | 08/05/20 02:16 PM |
| 1 | The Average Woman Would Be An Incel If She Was A Man.Oh wow, men came onto you. I'm terribly sorry that happened, sweetheart. It must have been traumatizing. | /r/MGTOW | 08/05/20 12:34 PM |
| 7 | The end is near hahaThe difficulty of being a stay at home parent really depends on a number of factors like the personality type of the kids and parents, ages, energy levels, and number of kids. For instance, being a stay at home parent of a single school age, normal child is a breeze. On the other hand, watching multiple high energy, high needs kids would be an absolute nightmare. Due to Covid shutting down daycares, I am currently a stay at home dad. Two young children, one of which is high needs, high energy (e… | /r/MGTOW | 07/05/20 09:37 PM |
| 11 | Found on another sub. Others are starting to catch on to what we already know!SJW's view "hate speech" as something not protected by freedom of speech. So in their eyes they genuinely see no contradiction in being both pro free speech and anti hate speech. "Hate speech" being anything which is even remotely critical of anyone but straight white males. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/05/20 04:08 PM |
| 17 | Thank simps for thatThey forgot why there were rules in place to moderate behavior. Female instincts were kept in check by social pressure/shaming and religious teachings. Their nature hadn't revealed itself in most societies in recent history on the scale it has today. Picture yourself growing up as a boomer or "greatest generation" member with the nuclear family being the standard model of society and degeneracy largely stamped out. Combine that with lack of information from where women had been behaving unrestra… | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/20 04:23 PM |
| 2 | If you ever think a women loves you, beat your meat get that post-nut clarity and then read this. You’re welcome.When they divorce, she'll get a set percentage of his assets and income. If she wasn't the one who initiated divorce then this will seem like a loss to her because when they were together she viewed everything he had or made as hers. | /r/MGTOW | 29/04/20 12:51 PM |
| 12 | If you ever think a women loves you, beat your meat get that post-nut clarity and then read this. You’re welcome.I don't think women even understand this about themselves. Guys tend to forget this. I really think that very little of female mating strategy is deliberate and planned. They are swayed by hormonal changes and social pressure. Then they act impulsively to satisfy a feeling. The rationalization and reasoning part comes after the action. So it's very possible for a woman to feel like she truly, deeply loves her caring, emotionally available BB for almost all of the month. Then when ovulating (or s… | /r/MGTOW | 29/04/20 03:14 AM |
| 24 | We Need Mandatory DNA Paternity Testing So That We Can Put A Stop To This Madness.No-fault divorce is a major reason for why keeping a marriage together has become so difficult. Women are naturally hypergamous and always looking to monkey branch. No-fault divorce provides a way for women to extract resources from a man without even having to provide anything in exchange. The current system allows women to cheat on a man, then make that man to continue to support her by force of law, with no consequences. There isn't even social pressure on women to be faithful anymore because… | /r/MGTOW | 22/04/20 03:07 PM |
| 66 | The Average Woman Would Be An Incel If She Was A Man.Most guys would be tickled if a woman simped for him. We usually are. When I was a teenager I had a few fat girls pretty aggressively go after me. It never offended or disgusted me. I accepted the situation for what it was, appreciated their interest, and politely declined. It wasn't creepy for a girl I found unattractive to pursue me. The only time that got weird was when one of them was absolutely trashed and tried to grab my goods. But again, double standards persist. I declined, laughed it o… | /r/MGTOW | 18/04/20 04:24 PM |
| 15 | Young women are given every advantage in biology and society to find a good man that will take care of themselves and their children. Most of the ones that don't have chosen to be single, even if they aren't aware of that choice.Very few women are indifferent towards height. It's usually the first physical criteria they judge a man with. I recall once I met up with a girl from match for a date and she made a big stink about my height. As soon as she recognized me, she got a frown on her face. The first words out of her mouth were "I thought your profile said you were 5'10"? I'm 5'8. My profile said 5'8. She probably just didn't actually read my profile and assumed I wasn't short. Women are incredibly judgmental about a … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/04/20 03:32 PM |
| 12 | Carousel rider finds out the Internet never forgets the hard way. She tried to hide her sexual past, but now her husband is divorcing her lying pregnant ass.He's exaggerating, but genetic diversity can be an issue in the more insular Amish communities. A lot of them marry Amish from other communities for this reason. I'm from Ohio and we have a fair amount of Amish here. The women are modest, quiet, and hard working. Lots of them have natural blonde hair and blue eyes. Almost always thin when young. The ones that come to our fairs to sell baked goods are often exceptionally attractive. They do expect a lot from their husbands though. So if a guy is … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/04/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | The Perfect Illustration That Simping Doesn't Work.That's a good observation. And I've known girls like this as well. They made perfect grades in school, showed no interest in partying, and didn't even date despite being attractive. Women are social creatures and will reflect the values of the social group they find most rewarding. These girls were all well insulated from degeneracy by strong church and family ties. Which is a good thing. Those sorts of women aren't just trying to appear virtuous and chaste - they actually are. That type of woma… | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/20 03:51 AM |
| 20 | The Perfect Illustration That Simping Doesn't Work.My issue with them is that they don't find being a tradwife a good idea until they're at least in their mid 20's and have already "had their fun". Convenient how that works out. They spend years experimenting with all sorts of guys and then decide that Mr. Safe Bet is suddenly a great catch. And then the tradthot will post all over social media examples of how wholesome and conservative she is, as if her years of sleeping around had no impact at all on her character or RMV. And the poor beta bux… | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 39 | This must be oh so rough for herThey are encouraged by modern psychiatry pushing the idea that "you aren't responsible for other people's feelings". While taken at face value this might be true, but it doesn't take into account that when you harass, insult, assault someone or take resources or children from that person, you absolutely are responsible for negatively impacting their emotional well being. Absolving yourself of guilt for being a shitty person does not make you any less at fault for hurting others. My wife has used… | /r/MGTOW | 26/03/20 04:31 PM |
| 38 | [~30F] Spent her 20s riding the carousel and now can't get anything more than a hookup.Same here. I've never seen the appeal of casual sex. It feels good for a short period and then you've got to worry about a load of potential consequences afterwards. If you didn't wear a condom, you have to worry about claims of rape, a potential STD, and unwanted pregnancy. Even if you did wear a condom, you still have the chance of a false rape claim if she regrets having sex with you the next day. You can still get herpes. And she can claim the condom broke and try to hold you accountable for… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/03/20 03:26 PM |
| 13 | Where Are All The Good Men?I think that the dual mating strategy is actually a subconscious plan B for women. The ideal man all women look for during their prime years is the "alpha provider". A man who has all of the qualities they pine for in both a hookup and husband - tall, masculine build, athletic, handsome, intelligent, confident, charismatic, ambitious, and financially secure. The problem is that these men are extremely rare. Most alphas get rewarded with an enormous amount of positive attention simply for being a… | /r/MGTOW | 10/03/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Don't be this guy. You know better.Thanks for the support. I really appreciate it. What was your lowest moment or moments and how were you able to manage your emotions at the time? I'm really struggling to cope with everything that is happening. | /r/MGTOW | 26/02/20 06:26 AM |
| 11 | Don't be this guy. You know better.Sorry in advance for the wall of text. What I've learned from my relationships is that women only care for you so long as they're trying to get something from you. Once they have everything they wanted, the love dries up. Over the course of 12 years, I have seen my wife transform from a vulnerable, caring, eager to please partner into a bitter, condescending, defensive roommate. As long as there was something from me that she wanted, she loved me. She got to move in with me, we got a dog, got an… | /r/MGTOW | 26/02/20 04:58 AM |
| 5 | Which one of you wants to man up and date this 34 y/o ex-cia single mom and get farted on while you get destroyed?The old fat'n'flat. Or in other words, "she better have a great personality". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/02/20 03:41 AM |
| 13 | Carol finds out men don't give a shit about her multiple advanced degrees, resorts to calling them fragile and limp-dicked.We live in such a weird time. I just looked at her profile. She's clearly fat and you can tell from the outline of her face that she is also ugly. Probably a 2/10. And her personality basically amounts to her pets and education. What guy is going to find her interesting? In sane times, a woman like this would be developing useful skills for the home and trying her hardest to appear modest, charming and feminine. She would do this in the hopes that some man, any man, would be able to look past he… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/02/20 02:41 AM |
| 34 | A weekend warning: The TradconAll of the actual traditional, conservative women I've known were married no later than 25 and had at least two kids by 30. For most of them, their husband was one of the first, if not the first, boyfriend they had. They didn't recover from the party scene - they were never in it. They didn't resolve to find a relationship instead of just sex - they demanded a committed relationship prior to having sex to begin with. And they certainly didn't reform their views once they hit the wall to try and … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/02/20 02:55 AM |
| 4 | When A Woman Gets A Promotion She's Thinking About Herself.For a lot of guys, the only positive outcome of a marriage is the children. I don't regret having children, but I do regret having them with my wife. She has proven to be nearly intractable as a fellow parent. She demands to have the final say on every parenting decision and will throw a massive fit if she doesn't get her way. I really do think there are some quality women out there, but you have to get ahold of them while they are still young and you have to be high value yourself. There are ve… | /r/MGTOW | 18/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 11 | Have any of you guys with children demanded a Paternity Test? How did the test turn out?Because I have a co-dependent personality and she has, for the most part, been decent to me. I am generally a loner outside of relationships as well, so she is basically my entire support structure. It's only as I've gotten older that I've realized that I'd probably be happier alone in the long run, mainly due to trust issues with women in general considering how they are these days. But I already have a family at this point so I am going to see it through as best as I can. | /r/MGTOW | 17/02/20 04:47 AM |
| 9 | Have any of you guys with children demanded a Paternity Test? How did the test turn out?I did. But it was an agreed upon condition for us having kids. Something we discussed prior to conception. My wife wasn't a huge fan of the idea but was pretty desperate to start trying for a kid and the logic of her knowing 100% the kid is hers but me not having that same certainty made sense to her. We later had a second kid and I did the same for that one too. Both results came back with something like a 99.997% chance of me being the father. I'll be honest though - I sometimes doubt the accu… | /r/MGTOW | 17/02/20 04:08 AM |
| 8 | I've seen to many "real men" posts. Let's switch the gender now.I don't think this attitude is even abnormal these days though. That is the standard reaction most people have, women or men, to hearing that a woman cheated on a man. He wasn't giving her what she needed, he didn't appreciate her, she felt neglected, she's more attractive than him, his penis was probably too small, etc... The blame is always placed on the man. The entire drive behind feminism is to place women above reproach. You can't judge them for their actions or criticize their opinions. E… | /r/MGTOW | 09/02/20 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Why get married?How surprising. It isn't that she doesn't want to have sex or has a low libido, she just doesn't want to have sex with her husband. You know, because a guy who is ostensibly providing for her and helping her to raise the kids is beneath her affection but some hypermasculine, aggressive stranger gets her steamy. It's funny how typical this is. I'm going to guess that she doesn't find him attractive because he is a "manchild". This seems to be the go-to complaint these days for women bitching abou… | /r/MGTOW | 05/02/20 02:49 AM |
| 14 | When she rode the carousel through her mid-30s, but now wants a good man for marriage and children.It's amazing how much resentment women store just beneath the surface towards their husbands because they are lesser men in their eyes than the guys that used to pump and dump them in their prime. It just seeps out in little passive-aggressive, snide remarks over the years. My mom was generally good towards my dad but by god she had to make sure he knew how much it bothered her that he was short. If he were to make a joke about her weight it would be totally out of bounds. But his height? He had… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/20 12:45 AM |
| 6 | Another beached single mother with a few extra pounds. This one thinks she is Captain Obvious with her description.I agree. The full figure pics give off a different impression than most of the women we see on here. She's fat, she knows she's fat, she knows she's probably always going to be fat, and she has the decency to let prospective matches know from the get-go. I've shown up to a date where the girl was almost twice as big as her pictures let on and I was more pissed because of the deception than the fatness. Her bio is incredibly vague and boring, but maybe she's just a boring person? Most people are.… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/01/20 04:05 AM |
| 6 | Suck a lemon!It is amazing how little effort most women put into their online dating profiles. Even with a raging hard-on and no other matches, I'd never message someone that comes across this lazy and stupid. You're ostensibly looking for your life partner and you can't be bothered to spend more than 2 minutes crafting a presentation of yourself that doesn't make you seem like a moron? I've never understood that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/01/20 03:43 AM |
| 9 | Scared to have kids?You will be overwhelmed, confused, worried and stressed out. No doubt about it. But there will be moments where all of that melts away and you just enjoy being with your kid. It's almost impossible to describe why it is worth it to someone who hasn't experienced it yet. It all sounds so awful, and parents complain all the time, but there is a special joy that only your child can bring to your life and it is uniquely fulfilling. For what it's worth, I was absolutely terrified when we had our firs… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/20 04:14 AM |
| 6 | My first post and probably only post on reddit. I felt like this one had to be made known. Back to lurking...That's awesome. I had never heard a name for it so I always personally referred to it as the Gonzo since his nose looks like a limp penis resting on his face. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 25 | My first post and probably only post on reddit. I felt like this one had to be made known. Back to lurking...It's because they want a man who is taller than other men, not just taller than they are. It took me a long time to figure out that whole bit about just wanting a guy tall enough to wear their heels around was bullshit. Whatever the average height of a guy is in their area, they want a guy taller than that. Their entire dating strategy revolves around finding a guy that will impress their family and friends. And their biological drive is to mate with men who have exceptional genes (physically at… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/01/20 03:01 PM |
| 20 | Feminist bimbo with 2 jobs wants to trap Mr. Niceguy BetaBux to support her and her womb turds. She expects to be taken care if financially and bankrolled into a nice lifestyle. Oh and no Trump supporters need apply.Thanks man. This is going to be a rough year for me. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/01/20 04:09 AM |
| 65 | Feminist bimbo with 2 jobs wants to trap Mr. Niceguy BetaBux to support her and her womb turds. She expects to be taken care if financially and bankrolled into a nice lifestyle. Oh and no Trump supporters need apply.I've actually brought that up before. At first half-seriously, then gradually moving to complete sincerity at times. The answer was always no, I can't get affection elsewhere. Sex with someone who wants you is amazing. Duty sex is basically using a pussy to masturbate (which I am OK with at times). But sex with someone who really consistently has no interest in you at all becomes degrading over time. Women just don't understand how insulting it can be. After a while of this I'd rather just jack … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/01/20 04:03 AM |
| 81 | Feminist bimbo with 2 jobs wants to trap Mr. Niceguy BetaBux to support her and her womb turds. She expects to be taken care if financially and bankrolled into a nice lifestyle. Oh and no Trump supporters need apply.Been there, am still there, lots of fun. Soon to be ex-wife once told me that us having sex was just for me. As in it's merely an obligation, not something she enjoys at all. I took that as a sign off from her to stop bothering trying to please her and it became much more enjoyable for me. Why bother eating pussy, fingering, "getting in the mood", etc if it's all a chore for her anyways? I'll just get my nut out and go on with my day then. Watching her try and walk that statement back later on w… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/01/20 03:29 AM |
| 14 | Thanks to our boy goodmansaysfuckyou for this one. I give you: "Methy McFivehead".It seems to be increasingly common in any rural area these days. These women grow up there, leave for a while, then come back with a mixed kid. This is why you still see a lot of mixed race kids in areas where there are hardly any adult black men. The stereotypical path is that they get into the party/drug scene in high school, drop out, follow the drugs to the nearest city, get pregnant, then panic and run back home for mom and dad to help them take care of the kid. Sometimes this is cyclical a… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/12/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | As a 24 year old guy, I’m starting to hate women.It's dictated by artificial scarcity. That is why women develop disproportionate egos and wildly unrealistic standards. This scarcity is created by women preferring to compete for a high value man than settle for an average man. So the top echelon of guys are "seeing", in one way or another, multiple women who believe they are going to win his commitment. And so those women are essentially off the market. This leaves a shortage of available women, who then have their pick of tons of desperate av… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/19 03:41 PM |
| 4 | As a 24 year old guy, I’m starting to hate women.One of the things that really opened my eyes to how women view men is realizing that women aren't actually pursuing a partner purely for love's sake - they view men as a tool to help reach self-actualization. Their ideal man posseses the qualities that enable a partner to live the sort of life they want to lead and help craft the sort of image they want to have. The man creates the conditions which allow the woman to be who they want to be. This is why women often abandon or cheat on men who go … | /r/MensRights | 28/10/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | When a DNA Test Reveals Your Daughter Is Not Your Biological ChildI guess you didn't read the whole conversation. I did get my kids tested. I have a brother in law who was cheated on who did not test his kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/19 12:59 PM |
| 2 | When a DNA Test Reveals Your Daughter Is Not Your Biological ChildKnowing how rotten her family is at this point, I'd be more surprised if I found definitive proof that she hadn't cheated than that she had. Even so, I've never come across anything that was damning, nor does my wife engage in the sort of obvious behaviors that the article guy's wife did. I keep my eyes open and follow my intuition if I ever feel like something isn't right, but so far so good. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/19 02:22 AM |
| 38 | When a DNA Test Reveals Your Daughter Is Not Your Biological ChildI bet workplace cheating is more common than the stats show. All of our info is reliant on people reporting honestly and we know how women can convince themselves that something did or didn't happen based on how it made them feel afterwards. My wife's sister cheated on her husband for a full year. She had to travel for work and live for weeks at a time in another city. Apparently she was playing house with a co-worker while there. When she finally got caught through word getting around to her hu… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/19 10:16 PM |
| 70 | When a DNA Test Reveals Your Daughter Is Not Your Biological ChildPart of the issue is that women probably get away with cheating undetected more often than men. Not only do women tend to be more emotionally intelligent/manipulative than men, but the logistics are often covered by the guy. When a man cheats, there is usually a paper trail of money spent on hotel rooms, meals, movie tickets, etc... this isn't the case with women. The man they are cheating with is paying for all of that. The only thing they'd have to account for is time and employers are often m… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Medical journal argues against use of sex robots - since they promote gender discrimination and advance distorted views of attractiveness that reduce female body confidenceAnd I agree with that. I was simply elaborating on how that affects the sexual marketplace and how sexbots will impact that imbalance. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/18 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Medical journal argues against use of sex robots - since they promote gender discrimination and advance distorted views of attractiveness that reduce female body confidenceThe same applies to either sex or dating. There is an evaluation of value before accepting/declining. While most men are typically willing to drastically lower their standards for casual sex, women tend not to. In fact, their standards for physical attractiveness in particular may be higher for casual sex than dating. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/18 08:59 PM |
| 7 | Medical journal argues against use of sex robots - since they promote gender discrimination and advance distorted views of attractiveness that reduce female body confidenceThere are more women than men in the world because women tend to live longer. Males are slightly favored at birth actually. So you have a great deal more old women than men but slightly more young men than women. Dating when young is complicated by the fact that women only actually find about 20% of men attractive. They also have a much narrower range of what they consider attractive in the opposite sex than men do. Men are much more indiscriminate when it comes to partner selection. So the end … | /r/MensRights | 05/06/18 08:34 PM |
| 21 | High School Counselor sentenced to 11 years and 8 months in prison for sexually assaulting two 16-year-old boys.I think that boys in general will more aggressively seek it out, but there are a lot of girls who are interested in having sex at 16. I lost my virginity at 14 to a girl who aggressively pursued me solely for sex. There were a lot of girls even at my junior high (ages 12-14) who actively looked for much older boys and I can only imagine that sex came with those relationships. A friend of mine in 8th grade was 14 with a 21 year old boyfriend and she bragged about it constantly. It's pretty diffic… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/18 11:44 AM |
| 22 | Mom who killed kids hours after husband filed for divorce is sentenced to 120 yearsDisgusting. I wonder what the breakdown is for people who do this as to whether they are just mentally ill or terrible people. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/03/18 10:24 AM |
| 134 | Mom who killed kids hours after husband filed for divorce is sentenced to 120 yearsAs a father of two young children, I just don't understand. How could you be able to bring yourself to hurt them? I feel bad when I even raise my voice at my kids. Ugh, nauseating. I hate even knowing that people like this exist. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/03/18 09:56 AM |
| 9 | Never forget that Western Culture changes foreign womenI agree, the religion is completely bogus. But the community it creates is top notch. And yeah the people might be kind of naive and corny, but I'd take that over the degenerate filth that the rest of society wallows in. Seen enough of that. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/17 04:30 AM |
| 9 | Never forget that Western Culture changes foreign womenI lived out in Utah for a while and I must say, Mormons have the best culture of any group in America right now. Hard working, honest, respectful, kind and disciplined. They are basically the result that Protestants wish they could produce for their communities. I don't get why the guy in that show looked abroad for a woman. He was in his 20s, had a job and wasn't bad looking. He has access to the least degenerate group of women in the country and he goes and finds some barslut from another cont… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 08:05 PM |
| 28 | Never forget that Western Culture changes foreign womenIt's also not true that Eastern European women are immune to degeneracy in their home countries either. If you watch some of the trash TV shows on men who get foreign brides, it usually goes horribly for them. In one of the shows I watched, a squeaky clean Mormon guy fell in love with a girl from Prague. Most of the pictures shown of her back home was of her at clubs hanging out with black guys. Mormon guy convinces her to come back to the states and marry him. She goes along with it unenthusias… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 05:33 PM |
| 8 | Husband is concerned that everything we do is "family stuff" and there is no "us" anymore. (Married 4 years, 3 year old child)It doesn't sound like kids are the issue though. She said herself that they have very little in common. While I'm sure that some people drift apart due having kids, it is certain to happen if you don't have a strong bond with your partner before having them. From my experience, if you have a good foundation for your relationship, having kids will just add a new dimension to that bond. If you don't, having kids will expose and magnify the issues already present. Lifestyle is of course important a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | He keeps breaking up with me.It was pretty normal I suppose. My parents are still together. I had a strained relationship with my parents (mainly my dad) during my teenage years. I was really close to my mom when I was young, not so much my dad. Maybe there's a Freudian reason in there somewhere as to why I developed that habit, but I can't think of one. I was a troubled teen but that's not unusual. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/02/17 03:52 PM |
| 4 | He keeps breaking up with me.I would say one of two things are happening - either you're responding in a way that satisfies a need for him and so he keeps doing it (the situation I described above) or there is a reason that he feels unwilling to disclose. By the latter I mean that there is something that probably needs to be said but he feels uncomfortable going there. I had a girlfriend who I was simply not attracted to physically at all. We got along well, shared common interests and the relationship was generally good bu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/17 04:40 PM |
| 4 | He keeps breaking up with me.I know he's not trying to manipulate me. I wouldn't be so sure on that. It's a strange state of mind and I've thankfully matured out of it, but I used to engage in the same behavior as him. I was a very insecure, paranoid young adult. I used to threaten to break up with girlfriends just to see if they'd care. If they begged and/or cried, then I felt like I knew they cared and I'd relent. Any little thing could trigger it too. It was the only way I felt truly loved. The usual gestures and words n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/17 02:23 AM |
| 8 | New Jersey man sues breadwinner ex-wife for writing "bum" on her alimony checks to himThere's a pretty broad range of personalities to take into account though. For instance, my girlfriend of 7 years makes substantially more than I do, but outside of periods where I've been unemployed it's never been a point of contention. Then again, she isn't a "career woman" - she does something she loves (RN), gets paid well for it, but at the end of the day she works to live. On the other hand, at my corporate work environment I am surrounded by hypercompetitive, status-obsessed, young profe… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/15 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Guys, I am really worried we are going to be banned. If we do get banned in the near future, I just want you all to know that it's been awesome discussing these issues with you.You are a rambling, hardly coherent idiot. So what the fuck is your point, dumbass? I didn't sub to coontown and don't really care that it was banned but I really hate it when people "debate" like this. Dispute his points, state your position, but remain civil. I hate that this style of debate is so common on Reddit. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/15 02:40 PM |
| 1 | AWALT: My unicorn betrayed meWomen do have an inflated SMV, that's true. That's why even though I may max out at about a 6 or 7, I pair up with about a 4 or 5 in women of my demographic category (white, American, under 35). You just have to slide your standards down about 2 notches to see what sort of women think they are equal to you. It sucks, but that's how things line up when women are allowed to run the game. I don't have quite the issue with heavy girls that a lot of other guys do. And that's a big advantage to me in … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 03:38 PM |
| 3 | AWALT: My unicorn betrayed meI had the same things happen to me when I dated people at or above my SMV. Just generally being taken for granted and treated like a chore. I got to the point where I felt I couldn't raise my SMV any higher (had a good job, was in great shape, etc) and the women I was usually attracted to just never returned the affection or appreciation I showed to them. I lowered my standards and ended up with women who I might not have been as attracted to, but who actually showed appreciation towards me. And… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 02:20 PM |
| 42 | New Zealand has broadly outlawed free-speech online, with "sexist" posts attracting 2 year jail terms. If opinions cause “serious emotional distress” you can be arrested and jailed.the young ones wont know any better This is the most frustrating thing for me. Young people today are being raised with the idea that "hate speech" is not a part of what free speech entails and they take it for granted that saying anything racist, sexist or homophobic should probably be punishable by law. I don't think we're too far away from people being able to use racial abuse or sexual harassment (proven or not) to justify assaulting or murdering other people. I'm not optimistic that the fir… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/15 01:38 PM |
| 1 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingWell, suit yourself. TRP has been veering more and more towards pure hedonism, or even moral nihilism, as time goes on. I'm sure your opinion is the more popular one. I just don't like to associate with skanks regardless. I ask a woman up front if she's seeing someone. If she says no and is lying, then you're right, it's all on her. If she says yes, I move on. Less chance of rejection and even less chance of drama or me having to fight some enraged beta. And on the other side of the equation, my… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 03:46 PM |
| 0 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingIt just so happens that they sometimes have a loyal boyfriend at home. There is a huge moral distinction to be made between knowing that she has a partner and being unaware of it. Don't act like it doesn't matter. Anyone with a shred of decency can see the difference. find me one that doesn't have some sort of man in her life. Again, another huge distinction to be made is what type of man is in her life. If it is just a beta orbiter who has no chance of sealing the deal then it's no big deal. Hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 03:03 PM |
| 1 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingI don't know what to tell you dude. I've come across a great deal of women who are (or claim to be) single. You must be looking in the wrong places. But hey, whatever justifies banging another guy's girlfriend, right? Some of you guys are just downright pathetic that you have to stoop so low - if you were of sufficient value, single women would find you. Instead you guys have to act like pussy vultures circling in on weak and insecure women who are just as big of scumbags as you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 12:54 PM |
| 1 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingI really haven't found it limiting to such an extent that it bothers me. Trust me, you do not want the drama that comes from getting caught fooling around with another man's woman. If she lies and you had no idea then that's one thing, but having a sustained sexual relationship with a taken women who you know is taken will land you in some serious drama eventually. It really isn't worth getting beat up or shot over. And if the other man is some lonely beta/omega with severe oneitis, you may be d… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 12:29 PM |
| 1 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingEvery girl that I'm interested in, yes. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 12:08 PM |
| 2 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingYeah, these guys who fuck taken women are just gambling with their lives. You never know what sort of mentality the boyfriend/husband has. And it doesn't matter how much of a wimp the guy comes across as either - the school shooters were all betas or omegas. A gun levels the playing field. I hope any young guys reading through threads like this realize that their desperation for pussy can get them killed. I have no idea why some people here think it's worth the risk. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 11:30 AM |
| 1 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingNone of that justifies being deliberately shitty towards other people. I never knowingly bang women in relationships and I seem to get laid just fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingI care. A lot of people care. I sympathize with innocent victims of violence, regardless of gender. Do you guys ever fucking leave the internet? I'm cynical of the state of modern women, gender roles, and the like but some of you guys are unrealistically cynical. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 05:13 PM |
| 2 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingRight. Nobody is going to give a shit about the murderer. Nobody is going to give a shit about a cuckolder who got blasted either. They're both doing things that are considered immoral in the eyes of the public. However I'd disagree that a man who was innocent of any obvious moral transgressions would receive no sympathy. I've felt genuine sympathy for other men and I'm sure that I'm not unique in that. Men are judged more harshly than women, sure, but to say that absolutely nobody cares about a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 04:06 PM |
| 5 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingI didn't say anything about that. Any desirable young woman is in some state of pursuit. That's granted. It's just how it works. She likely has a guy she's crushing on, a few beta orbiters, and maybe even a steady boyfriend that she is looking to monkey branch from. I wouldn't deny that. My comment was regarding whether or not cuckolding a guy is a smart thing to do. I would say no it is not worth the risk. I'm not willing to risk an angry beta going berserk on me just to get my dick wet. I seem… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 03:57 PM |
| 7 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingYou're free to do what you want in life. I agree, nobody owes anyone anything. I was just saying that nobody is going to feel sorry for a scumbag getting his head blown off when the guy he's cuckolding finds out about it. Whether it's right or wrong is secondary to whether it's wise or not. I'd consider it a foolish thing to do - an unnecessary risk to take when there's so many other options out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 03:04 PM |
| 5 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingEven a 5' 7" fat guy can kill pretty much anyone if he brings a gun. And I would feel absolutely zero sympathy for a guy who gets killed for cuckolding someone. It's a shitty thing to do. There's enough plates to go around without meddling in some other man's life. People are free to do what they want but not every beta is just going to take it on the chin and look the other way. I recall a few years ago there was a murder suicide close to where I live - a 20 something guy was banging a 30 somet… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 02:43 PM |
| 6 | SMV and herpesYou're going to have to get girls interested in you and hooked on you before you have sex with them. That's as scummy as a girl "forgetting" to tell you upfront that she has a kid. It might work, but she'll most likely be even more put off by not being upfront plus an STD rather than just the STD. I was speaking to a girl years back who waited until we had been talking to each other for a month before letting me know she was a single mom because she "didn't want to scare me off" - in the end it … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 03:43 PM |
| 0 | This sub is kinda getting off topic, its turning into women getting punished rather than puessypass women getting just deserts.That's a legitimate saying. It basically means getting the payback done to you that you deserve. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/01/15 05:43 PM |
| -2 | This sub is kinda getting off topic, its turning into women getting punished rather than puessypass women getting just deserts.puessypass pessypassdenied pussypassdenied (got it right once OP, good job) puessypass It's like he has an OCD compulsion forcing him to spell it differently each time. Also OP, nice concern trolling. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/01/15 05:30 PM |
| 2 | What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter?That's why I stress on marrying virgins only There are not nearly enough to go around these days. It would be extremely impractical for any man in the western world to limit his selection to virgins. Even if he met a great girl who said she was a virgin, chances are she isn't. Or she is a "born again virgin". And if he goes through with the marriage expecting her to be a virgin and finds out some years later, what is he going to do? Divorce her over only that reason? The courts would find it to … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 10:19 AM |
| 21 | A woman pretends to be a man for 18 months and is shocked about what she finds out. Food for thoughts.Not surprising. Women have intrinsic value in our society while men do not. I'm not decrying this, just stating it as a fact and there are understandable reasons why it is this way. Men have to prove our worth through our actions. If our actions amount to us being of little use to society then we have no worth to society. Even if a woman is completely useless - can't hold a job (or doesn't want to), poor interpersonal skills, uninteresting personality... it doesn't make her worthless. She's stil… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/14 09:30 AM |
| 0 | Enough's Enough "Asian Men Have it Hardest/Race Traitors threads" = Instaban. Man the fuck up pussy.Sometimes the best way to play a handicapped game is not to play at all,because,you know,not all of us can become the top 20%,and if everyone did it the bar would raise again because of hypergamy. I agree but any time you say this here someone is quick to offer their anecdote of the short/brown/retarded/invisible/extraterrestrial friend of theirs that gets ALL the women when they go out..... what they don't see is the other 99% of men who are like that which do not have success in the dating wor… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 08:23 PM |
| 7 | Enough's Enough "Asian Men Have it Hardest/Race Traitors threads" = Instaban. Man the fuck up pussy.It is weird that nobody talks about that. How many beta white guys wish that they could just have an arranged marriage with a very low chance of infidelity or divorce (due to enormous social pressure)? Sure it's not terribly romantic, but it beats the hell out of the dating scene if you're not having any success at it. Having it setup this way is much more conducive to success in life if your goals are to have a stable family where the focus is on your career and kids instead of some fantasy-bas… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Enough's Enough "Asian Men Have it Hardest/Race Traitors threads" = Instaban. Man the fuck up pussy.This is a common theme around the internet. Apparently white men have an aura which causes spontaneous orgasms of all non-white women within a mile radius. And there are literally boatloads of Asian women heading here who are ready to throw themselves at the first white guy they see when they reach the shore. I'd imagine nearly all women the world over would prefer a tall, white, athletic, confident, handsome man over the local variety. This is due to entertainment (movie stars like Brad Pitt al… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 08:01 PM |
| 2 | I'm sick and fucking tired of men who enable women and their "it's not my fault" bullshit victim complexThe issue is that other groups don't play that way. Idealism, or at least in the egalitarian sense, is a thing peculiar to white men. These other groups are entirely about identity politics. Take a look at what has happened to South Africa and Zimbabwe. The entire political system centers around the drive to destroy the remnants of colonialism. The farm invasions and killings are celebrated by the blacks there because they see it as fair retribution for the past deeds of white men. Other groups … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 05:39 PM |
| 2 | I'm sick and fucking tired of men who enable women and their "it's not my fault" bullshit victim complexWhite men weren't one unified group. No shit, I never said they were. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 05:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm sick and fucking tired of men who enable women and their "it's not my fault" bullshit victim complexThe issue with egalitarianism in general is that people who only advocate for equal application of the law while still acknowledging differences in gender and race are a tiny minority compared to the egalitarians who truly believe that we are all equal and would prove this to be true if only given a fair chance. It's become part of the politically correct, marxist doctrine. Personally, I think that's RedPill as fuck - make everyone responsible for the outcome to their life. I think that the "giv… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 05:16 PM |
| 0 | I'm sick and fucking tired of men who enable women and their "it's not my fault" bullshit victim complexYou're wanting to argue semantics for some reason. As far as the vernacular goes, whether you consider the usage to be correct or not, those are examples of rights. Anyways, not going to get into a nerd fight on the internet over the correct usage of a word. It has little to do with the main point of my post. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 08:39 AM |
| 0 | I'm sick and fucking tired of men who enable women and their "it's not my fault" bullshit victim complexVoting was simply an example. I do not believe in equal rights across the board either though. Some people are more valuable to society than others. This is how society views the situation now, whether or not it acknowledges it. A doctor who has spent 30 years performing life saving heart surgery is unlikely to get the same sentence for murdering someone as a lowlife highschool dropout crack dealer with a long list of prior convictions. Society silently accepts that the two should be treated dif… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 08:23 AM |
| 6 | I'm sick and fucking tired of men who enable women and their "it's not my fault" bullshit victim complexExcept black slaves didn't free shit, northern Whites did. This is all too often forgotten. Blacks were freed at the cost of hundreds of thousands of white men. The claim that (insert minority group) in (white nation) "won" their rights is absurd. Those groups complained and white men, who were politically dominant, granted them their new rights. And yet the oppression by those white men is never forgotten while their mercy is never mentioned. If white men had chosen to, they could have simply a… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 07:53 AM |
| 2 | I'm sick and fucking tired of men who enable women and their "it's not my fault" bullshit victim complexThe MRM might have a strong contingent of liberals The majority of MRA's I've run into on Reddit are egalitarians with a strong liberal slant to their beliefs. Egalitarianism is very non-RP in my opinion. A significant part of "taking the red pill" is acknowledging unpleasant truths. One major unpleasant truth is that not all people are equal. This applies on an individual level as well as comparing different demographic groups such as gender and race. If egalitarianism is not simply the belief … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 07:44 AM |
| 10 | Double standardsWeight and height are not even equivalent. Agreed. One you can change, the other you cannot. Height is an arbitrary factor that has no (strong) impact on health That's true until you get to the extremes of either end. or character. I wouldn't agree with this at all. Your height, as a male especially, will likely play a huge role in the development of your character. Tall men are viewed in a much more positive light than short men. I'd imagine most tall men won't ever factor in the advantages tha… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/14 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Woman attacks pro-lifers, gets arrested.I've heard average looking teens use it inappropriately quite a few times. I suppose they could be tumblrinas underneath their seemingly normal facade though. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/11/14 07:06 PM |
| 31 | Woman attacks pro-lifers, gets arrested.I've noticed that in the younger generations (I'm in my 30's, practically ancient for Reddit), the term "racist" has become a replacement for "bigoted" in their vernacular. If you hate people based on their race it is racist, but apparently it is also racist to hate people based on their gender, sexual orientation, or religion. It's just become a catch-all phrase referring to any sort of bigotry. Back in the 90's and I'm assuming 80's and beforehand, it referred to a specific type of bigotry. No… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/11/14 05:09 PM |
| 1 | UK: There are about 100 Male midwives in the UK. They are discriminated against and there was a great deal of opposition to them even being allowed to be midwives. In the UK 90% of nurses are female. Where is the Government campaign for more male nurses, midwives and GP's?Does your average man want to be prepped for hernia surgery by a female CNA or MA who was flipping burgers 6 months ago? A male nurse aid wouldn't be any less likely to be new. I don't see the point you're trying to make. The male patient is not only offered no choice, but often must contend with hair-raising double standards in modesty violations. Not sure that this is true. I've had a couple of doctor visits that had to do with my private parts where I requested that the female nurse not be in… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 08:53 PM |
| 1 | UK: There are about 100 Male midwives in the UK. They are discriminated against and there was a great deal of opposition to them even being allowed to be midwives. In the UK 90% of nurses are female. Where is the Government campaign for more male nurses, midwives and GP's?I'd imagine that the area of nursing you're operating in is a very small part of the profession as a whole. Outside of that niche, nursing remains a female dominated field and everyone except MRAs and egalitarian style feminists see nothing wrong with this. My first post was more of an assessment of the situation without lending my opinion to it, so I'd like for it to stand apart from this post in which I'll state my opinion. I personally see nothing wrong with there being male and female domina… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 07:55 PM |
| 6 | UK: There are about 100 Male midwives in the UK. They are discriminated against and there was a great deal of opposition to them even being allowed to be midwives. In the UK 90% of nurses are female. Where is the Government campaign for more male nurses, midwives and GP's?My girlfriend is an RN at a nursing home (in the US). Due to clinicals and moving around a bit this is probably the 10th or so nursing home she's worked at. She talks about her job quite frequently so I get a female nurse's perspective on the situation on a daily basis. From what she has said, almost all of her female patients outright refuse to be tended to by male nurses, LPNs, or nurse aids. In addition, many of her male patients have stated that they prefer female nurses. I suppose this is d… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:46 PM |
| 8 | Director of viral 'walking in New York' catcalling video admits edited out white men from itOne man's trash is another man's treasure I guess. I have a really hard time seeing why men find waify women attractive sexually. There's just nothing sexual about their figures at all to me. Shoshana has a very curvy figure. Hourglass figure with big breasts and a big butt. Sure she has a bit of a manface and could stand to lose a few pounds but she does a decent enough job with makeup and fashion to mitigate it. Pretty hair too. She'd probably range from a 6-8 for me, depending on her makeup, … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Feds spending money to study why obese girls get fewer dates.If this study can help reduce the spread of disease and pregnancy in the future - then it benefits both young men and young women. I think this is the main objective of the study, but it is overshadowed by the inadvertently attention-grabbing (and rather humorous) title. I would imagine that what they'll find is that people who are overweight are usually that way due to a lack of self-control and discipline. This lack of self-control and discipline manifests itself in other areas of their life a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/14 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedEven on TRP, we're still plagued by SJWs. Jesus Christ even TRP is full of liberal antifas. America is not a "historically white" nation. Yes, the United States of America as a nation is historically a majority white country. Up until changes to immigration were made in the 60s we were at about 90%. Are you saying the founding fathers wouldn't be appalled at the demographics of modern day America? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedI'm aware they aren't the same. However, "multiracialism" isn't a part of American vernacular - multiculturalism is. This is just a semantics argument but you know what I'm referring to. And perhaps if these people of other races didn't want to face racial discrimination then perhaps they shouldn't immigrate to historically white nations or move to white communities? How often do you hear of white people moving to non-white nations and demanding to be treated as one of the natives? I can move to… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedWow you've completely dismantled my argument with the sheer power of your intellect. Keep on pretending that any predominately white nation is happy about mass immigration. And we have over 50 years of mass migrations out of the cities of this nation specifically due to white people avoiding living near blacks. Just because it is offensive doesn't make it any less true. Time for you to take the other half of the pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedSo your argument consists of trying to shame me with SJW buzzwords. How convincing. You've claimed to be black previously. So I went with that. Am I incorrect in that assumption? Knowledge can be exchanged without having to share a nation with people whose culture clashes with yours. Tourism and trade can flourish without having to deal with the hypersensitive feelings of butthurt minorities or government mandated quotas in order to artificially prop up an ethnic group. Perhaps your people desir… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedYou didn't even bother to read what I wrote. The exchange of goods and information can continue without the exchange of people. All of the things you attribute to multiculturalism is only the result of sharing information, not cohabitation. And let's be honest: deep down the reason why your people whine constantly about white oppression yet hate the idea of peaceful separation is that you know that your people wouldn't be able to create or sustain a prosperous society on your own. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedYou're making an awful lot of assumptions about my beliefs, most of which are inaccurate. Looks like Reddit isn't completely wrong about TRP, sometimes. Why would you care what a community dominated by SJW types thinks about you? Every human deserves equal opportunity and equal treatment under the law. Why? Because this creates societal harmony You're half right. I agree with the premise of what you're saying, but not the context you're implying. You're making the assumption that multicultural s… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 11:44 PM |
| -1 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedThe term "multiculturalism" can refer to either. People use it interchangeably to describe race or culture. And it is a bullshit ideology, just like feminism, that pushes an unnatural agenda onto society that only fosters discord. Anyone who advocates that bullshit here while simultaneously denouncing feminism is only half awake. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedOh cry me a river. Muh uppresshunn! Multiculturalism is unnatural and there are obvious social consequences that come as a result of trying to force very different people to live with one another. People naturally identify with a tribe and seek to further the success of that tribe as an extension of themselves. This is another area where we're fighting nature and it is makes no sense to continue it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Emma Watson has gotten to askmen.com. The site is urging men to raise feminist sons.They can't let us have a single space for just us. They'll hold onto their women only spaces (and that is just fine by me) but then cry oppression and demand the door be opened whenever we gather on our own. The new feminist reasoning for why men's clubs/groups/events shouldn't be allowed to be exclusive is something along the lines of "these organizations are part of a patriarchal power structure which serves to advance the interests of participating MALE members, thus preventing women from adv… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 07:33 AM |
| 27 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedThe far left will forever be dissatisfied at the results of equal opportunity initiatives because it doesn't naturally result in equal outcome. They then take their frustration with nature itself out on their political opponents. What they really wanted all along was equal outcome - to see a proportionate amount of female executives to males, to see a proportionate amount of black scientists to whites and asians, to see prison demographics proportionately reflect the demographic composition of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"I think the backlash to it grew out of radfems condemning men for "objectifying" women (as if we aren't all at least subconsciously judging the worth and potential of other people when we meet them). To see that sort of nonsense here is really discouraging. We shouldn't be pandering to tumblrinas and their feelz. I guess some of the manginas just starting to come here still haven't washed themselves of the stink of the social justice bullshit they've been fed by the media and school their whole … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/14 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"I don't think we should concern ourselves with whether or not we come across misogynistic. The rest of the internet has already made up their minds about us and no amount of damage control is going to reverse that. We can't fall into the habit of assuming something is wrong because it is offensive. This needs to be a safe place where trends and patterns regarding women can be discussed regardless of how offensive they may appear on the surface. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/14 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"I never said that all men develop their own moral compass or that a moral compass can only be developed independently by men. However, it's exceptionally uncommon to find a woman who takes a strong moral stance on her own, whereas with men it isn't terribly rare. Most of the "crazies" out in the woods and mountains living on their own are going to be males. Women are more concerned about social status and image than men are, in general. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"Whatever "little man". I find it interesting that you use my size as a pejorative, yet criticize the idea that your height is a significant factor in your SMV potential. Kind of hypocritical? Guys that do well with women spend less time over analyzing their "number" and "which X/10 is compatible to them" and more time having fun. Nobody is obsessing over their "number". People use rating systems to describe others out of convenience. It's a conversation tool to communicate information easier. So… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"Probably because they don't adhere themselves to a "rating" system. It's a practical way of placing someone on the scale from "hideously ugly" to "living Adonis". Reddit has this deep seated hatred of the "rating system" for some reason, in a very SJW "don't objectify people" way, when in day to day conversation it's a commonly used tool to convey how attractive someone is/isn't. And regardless of how many short guys you see "killing it", their SMV will still not match the potential they'd have … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"purely because when a high-earner dates a low earner, the low earner usually starts sponging off them I think it's more to do with her image than the actual financial situation. A female doctor could earn $120k a year and she'd still rather be with an attorney making $60k a year than a plumber making $90k. Neither of those two men would necessarily be impacting her financial situation negatively, but the attorney is going impress her friends more. Another situation would be that same doctor dati… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"Regardless, I don't feel that his statement completely missed the mark. I find it disturbing that we're self-moderating TRP to not appear too politically incorrect. This is the one place where a generalization about women should be received and debated, rather than immediately shut down without discussion. If he's wrong, tell him why he's wrong. He's not wrong simply because what he said was offensive. All you did was tell him that his comment was stupid without offering any kind of counterargum… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"Gotta agree with this. Height extension may make you 1-2 inches taller, but it comes with an extraordinary amount of pain and a long recovery time. In addition, there is a fairly significant chance of complications. The bottom line is that if you're short, your SMV will be lower than if you were tall. 99% of women would take a tall man over a short man with the same looks, personality, and income. Nearly all short men are automatically assumed by women to be beta bux status until proven otherwis… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 09:28 PM |
| 10 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"I'd agree with what he said - not in an edgy "all women are evil" manner, but rather the suggestion that perhaps women haven't fallen from decency/morality/humanity in any manner. The decency and morality of women has always been decided by the male power structure of the society those women live in. As much leeway as men are willing to give, women will gladly take. This is why womens' morality in the Middle East is different than in the west. The men tell them what constitutes being a decent/mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Why are the feminazis so buttdevastated about the leaked nude pics?It's interesting to see feminists perform the mental gymnastics necessary to advocate for female empowerment while simultaneously encouraging immigration from cultures where women are actually oppressed. Just another retarded iteration of cultural relativism. I wonder how proud they will be of their immigration stance in a few decades when those Muslim immigrants have great enough numbers to begin rolling back women's rights. Every once in a while there is someone from the "victim groups" which … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Something I noticed with female gamers...I don't even use voice chat unless it's with my guild (who just act normal with everyone) but people will still hit on your character just because it's female, most of which I'm sure are actually played by males. And it's often brazen and tactless as well. They'll hit on a girl even when they are fully aware that she is in a relationship (and almost all female WoW players that I've known initially got into WoW through their boyfriends). I've played WoW over the years with 2 different girlfriends… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/14 06:08 PM |
| 3 | The Three Stages of the PillIt's not so much the tone that I prefer as the focus. There it is on family and raising children. Here seems to be on the bachelor's life - which is OK, but that doesn't suit my long term goals. Unfortunately if I want a child of my own, I'm going to require the participation of a woman. We cannot have a functioning society of single people. This is part of why the west is in decline. We need to get back to nuclear families being the ideal. I suppose I also haven't had quite as severe of negativ… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 05:21 PM |
| 2 | The Three Stages of the PillWhast the anger phase on women? The anger phase usually consists of a male coming to the realization that what they believed to be true about women is not true at all. Women aren't any more virtuous than males and romantic love is a myth. At this point men also discover that young women practice hypergamy and if the male isn't high value, he resents women for not wanting him. any tips for young buck? At that age you have two options - increase your value as a mate or resign yourself to going you… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 03:43 PM |
| 61 | The Three Stages of the PillStage 3: we discover they're people. It often seems like a minority of TRP posters are in this phase. Perhaps once men have reached this point they feel they no longer need the community, which is understandable. I have no problem with the posts/threads concerning stage 2, but as a man in a LTR in my 30's, I'm (mostly) past the anger phase. Having sort of swallowed the pill on my own during my college years, I spent most of my 20s consumed with anger towards women. So I've been there, and still … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 09:38 PM |
| 1 | As a younger woman, feminism has quite accurately screwed me over. (Rant)It's definitely possible to find a man like that in his 20s, just not probable. Your circle of friends certainly seem more like the exception than the rule though. And maybe you and your friends are high value and/or had reasonable standards, whereas maybe OP isn't being realistic considering her value (not making a judgment on her value as I know nothing about her, but this could be the case). I knew some genuine unicorns when I was younger as well, which is one area where I disagree with TRP's… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/14 10:37 PM |
| 5 | As a younger woman, feminism has quite accurately screwed me over. (Rant)I think an issue someone in her age bracket may run into is that most of the males who are looking for commitment she doesn't want (betas), and most of the men she wants aren't looking for commitment. When I was in my early 20s, all of the men I knew who were actively looking for a relationship fit what would now be considered "nice guys" or betas. All of the more confident, assertive men I knew were looking to play the field for their 20s. So, sure she could find a guy who wants to settle down … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/14 09:08 PM |
| 3 | r/OkCupid, redpill theory confirmedThe numbers are even more dramatic than you state. For example, a man who is 5'8 must an additional $114,000 per year to be considered as attractive as a man who is 5'10 (in online dating). Which illustrates quite well the formidable challenge that dating as a short man is. Every single time the topic is brought up, people cite anomalies (that one guy they know who is short and gets ALL the women) as if the trend is all in the minds of a loveless minority of short men. It's very real and men who… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 02:13 AM |
| 4 | r/OkCupid, redpill theory confirmedOn okcupid, where my height is listed (honestly as 5'9) I more or less cannot get attractive girls to respond to me, let alone get a date. Even 5'2 girls. That's due, as we all know, to women wanting a man that is perceived as higher value than other men. One of the most widespread lies about dating is that women are just looking for a man taller than they are and that acceptable height slides according to the woman's height. This is often not the case. Women want a man who is taller than other … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 09:40 PM |
| 12 | Fox News Advises Women To Ditch Feminism, Offers Tips To ‘Keep Your Husband Happy’For not wanting to become minorities in our own nations? For not wanting to be marginalized and silenced by the far left? That's not "victim talk", that's simply a matter of being prudent and looking out for our own ethnic self-interests. Becoming marginalized and displaced brings no benefit to any group and it would be self-destructive to recognize that we as a group are collectively losing power and simply accept it as an OK thing. I'd bet my left nut you would be first in line to be a white m… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Fox News Advises Women To Ditch Feminism, Offers Tips To ‘Keep Your Husband Happy’The Republican party is not exactly "excluding" women or minorities Of course not, and it panders to them with greater intensity every year. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Fox News Advises Women To Ditch Feminism, Offers Tips To ‘Keep Your Husband Happy’The Republican party is now seen as the party of "old white men" with the Democrats representing all other groups. Seen in this light, it won't be long until the Republican party becomes a regional (mostly south and midwest) party. So the Republicans have two options - either broaden their appeal or stay true to their values and never win at the national level again. And with the browning of America picking up pace it is unlikely that we will have another Republican president in the white house.… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 02:12 AM |
| 21 | Fox News Advises Women To Ditch Feminism, Offers Tips To ‘Keep Your Husband Happy’Sweden is an illustration of what happens when the government caters to the far left. When there isn't an adequate counter initiative from the far right. The far left keeps making requests and the government keeps granting them and you end up with Sweden. It's amazing that there could even be a substantial movement against "heterosexual white men" in Sweden. That country was never a major participant in the colonization of non-white lands. It was never a major participant in slavery or the genoc… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 12:36 AM |
| 7 | Ask Women, what is most important when it comes to ONS/Casual Hook Ups... RedPill Confirmed.I used to possess a lot of anger at the world for the way things are. I still do to a lesser degree. However once I truly accepted that romantic love is a myth, it cleared up a lot of that turmoil I felt inside. I've come to the conclusion that the closest you'll come to having a true "soulmate" is the bond with your child (or with your parents) or the bond you shared with best (male) friends as a kid. From what I understand, in some other cultures the most important relationship is between a fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Ask Women, what is most important when it comes to ONS/Casual Hook Ups... RedPill Confirmed.I agree and I think some of the people disagreeing with you are undervaluing the importance of validation to a person, regardless of gender. One of the ways both men and women seek to have their sense of self-worth established is by obtaining a high value mate. The feeling of being wanted by someone that you want is very life-affirming. The physical sensation of sex is only part of the experience. Validation is a an intense psychological need - especially when people are younger and just startin… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 07:55 PM |
| -1 | Ask Women, what is most important when it comes to ONS/Casual Hook Ups... RedPill Confirmed.It's also why I bemoan the separation of TRP and MRA. I don't miss the presence of overt MRAs here. I read both subreddits but most MRAs have egalitarianism as a deeply entrenched part of their worldview. I don't think it's changed that much over the past few years either. Egalitarianism has always been a cornerstone of the movement. Part of the appeal of TRP for me is the acknowledgement that there are fundamental differences from one human to another that are rooted in biology. The acknowledgm… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeAnd why do you think no woman is likely to go for the non marriage route? Because they desire a sense of stability and security. But again, if you can find a woman who is okay with making a family without marriage then go for it. Family court will likely still consider you common-law married though. And I'm not so sure about your class theory making marriage more ever lasting. Well, you are free to look it up. I'm on my phone right now so I'm not feeling inclined to do the leg work. Relationship… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeOh so upper class marriages are immune from divorce? Ha ! Better educated, and higher earning couples tend to get divorced less often, yes. Check out the celeb track records. Because anomalies disprove a trend? Celebrities are so negligible in number that they are irrelevant to the trend at large. You never answered my question. Why get married in the first place? Can't love just keep us together? Why does it have to be a legal binding contract which is pretty much a license for the government's… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeIs everything you say just boiling over with bitterness? Dude, I'm sorry your marriage ended terribly. You just have to pretty much count on paying child support. Or you could end up with a loving, faithful wife who is supportive and helps raise your children with you. Not every relationship is doomed to bitter hatred. My parents have been married for ~35 years now and are still as happy as they were when I was a kid (probably moreso actually). Pick your partner wisely and maintain your frame. G… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeMidwest ! hah ! I'm in the midwest. Maybe you live in a poor area? I live in an upper-middle class area and it is nearly all traditional families around here and they seem pretty damn happy. However, from my experience the working class and poor areas are dominated by single parent households. Better educated couples tend to have a lower divorce rate. I have a bud who is married for the 5th time. The common denominator is him. Anyone who gets married that many times either doesn't take the idea … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeBut if 6 in 10 marriages fail, why should any earner take a chance? Because if you want a family that is what you have to do. Very few decent women are willing to cohabitate and produce children for you without a solid commitment (which usually means marriage). So divorce happens. Since my divorce I'm quite content to have 18 to 30 month relationships. You run out of shit to talk about and do. The sex gets stale. No woman is going to fuck me out of my income and assets a second time. I think may… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeSo how prey tell could a man possible know which women are going to turn out to be holding their hands out in family court and which ones won't ? You don't. That's why it's a risk. You try and choose the best mate you can, maintain your SMV and frame, and hope for the best. Sometimes it pans out, sometimes it doesn't. But if you want a family then it is a risk you have to take. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeIf a man is going to get married he should marry a 'career-minded, "independent woman", who has feminist ideals and wears the pants in the relationship' and then quit his job and be a stay at home dad. Good luck finding a decent woman who will go for this. And have fun dealing with the shame that will be heaped upon you by others for not providing for your family. Also, enjoy thinking about your career wife enjoying alpha cocks on business trips. There's been so many stories passed around TRP ab… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 08:30 AM |
| 5 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeSo basically a woman who wants to be a housewife? I didn't say anything about her having to be a housewife. She can choose to be a housewife or not. That isn't the biggest factor in determining if she is a RPW. The relationship is red pill if the man is seen as protector, provider, and leader. The details about how that is arranged is open to interpretation based on the preferences of that particular couple. Is there no middle ground between feminazi's and women who are completely submissive? A … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeI suppose it could mean different things to different people. At the very least, the common denominator is acknowledgment of the fundamental differences between the behavior, desires, and motivations of men and women. In this case I was specifically referring to the type of women in the /r/RedPillWomen community. They are red pill in that they see through the feminist rhetoric that the media pushes on women these days. Many of them are making the conscious decision to lead a traditional lifestyl… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 07:22 AM |
| 11 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeThat's true, those people are biologically successful. However their children are normally born into a cycle of poverty and ignorance that isn't enviable. You know as well as I do that that isn't what any RP man would want (let alone being on the line for child support for a bunch of kids that you don't even know). That isn't even really considered an option for most of the people here (or I would hope not at least). I'm not saying that TRP has it all wrong about marriage and kids. I agree that … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/14 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeSociety is coming closer to a gender neutral balance. The pay gap is closing and awareness is increasing. For example, gays are accepted in society (in general) instead of rejected. Did you get lost? This isn't /r/MensRights - we aren't trying to advance politically correct egalitarianism. I enjoy the conflict, as it challenges my world views and makes me evaluate/defend my beliefs. I suppose that you are entitled to whatever lifestyle you find enjoyable. I wouldn't find that enjoyable. Women ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/14 08:55 PM |
| 15 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeEh, they'll get thrown out of court if it seems "unfair" to the woman actually. So prenups are pretty unreliable unless you have an extremely competent legal team and she has a shitty one. It's a risk. It comes down to being a risk you take or don't. Some people find the payoff (a wife and kids to experience life with) to be worth the risk and some don't. I don't look down on those who are unwilling to take that risk because I understand why they're hesitant, but at the same time I think saying … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/14 08:47 PM |
| 28 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeThis is true. If you don't want kids, then more power to you - spin those plates until you're childless and old and let your line die out. It's a personal decision that you must weigh out priorities in order to reach a conclusion on. For many of us, we still want to have children and as of now you can't do that without a woman participating. There are good women out there. Quite a few on /r/RedPillWomen for instance. If a TRP man marries someone with that mindset and it doesn't work out, then th… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/14 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Graduating with a Mrs degreeI'm a TRPist If you say so. things are in the process of changing (for the better) Better for whom? Young single career women? Certainly. Things have not improved for family-minded males. You could make the argument that women's sexual liberation has been a net positive for plate spinners but as far as the total impact on society, I would mostly disagree that feminism has or is currently changing things for the better. I can understand going for a young woman in her prime but why would you toler… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/14 07:42 PM |
| 44 | When a woman gets older, she doesn't settle! She just, uh... changes her priorities! Yeah, that's it.And then once you hit 30 you earn the duty of having to explain to every single mother why you are unwilling to raise Chad's kids for him. Women who were previously out of your league are suddenly making advances on you, confused as to why you're rejecting someone that would've stepped over you only a few years before. I just got into my 30's and it's already shaping up to be a rather interesting change of fortune as far as women go. These women honestly think that we're assholes for not taking … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Nihilism and emasculation. Some ideas to motivate your search for real purpose, and the great things this sub has lead me into.Trp will give you women, it did to me, but after a while you are back at square 1 if you don't have an passion in your life. That's very true. I grew up convinced that this emptiness I felt inside was caused by a lack of female attention. Then as an adult I've had a few long term relationships and that emptiness persists. The only thing I've really figured out at this point is that a woman is not the answer to my problems in life. Fuck money, really, I just want to be driven and happy about some… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 07:51 AM |
| 22 | Nihilism and emasculation. Some ideas to motivate your search for real purpose, and the great things this sub has lead me into.This has always been my biggest issue in life. I've known a lot of guys who developed healthy, productive hobbies as children that later became their passion in life. One guy started coding at 10 for fun and is now a network engineer making six figures doing what he loves and basically making his own schedule. Another started creating shitty websites for fun in his teens and now makes businesses, gets them to the point of success, and sells them. He too makes a ton of money and can live/work any… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 07:42 PM |
| 14 | Anecdotal experience: Went to a wedding this weekend, proved a LOT of RP theory for meYelling at your partner in public is the most emasculating thing you can do and just really rude. What the hell? It always puzzles me that this isn't a fundamental rule for all couples. One partner should never degrade, yell, or mock the other in public. It sabotages the trust and confidence they have in one another. It signals to the partner being attacked that when it comes down to it, their partner doesn't have their back. And that is a terrible feeling. For my girlfriend and I, we have a rul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/14 07:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I find a Redpill man for an LTR?lol, just a term that gets tossed around. Chad is your typical bar-hopping, pump-and-dump, young alpha - normally associated with sports and frats. Tyrone refers to the black (or wannabe black) "swagger" alphas. True enough, but you underestimate the power of sexual novelty imo. Not sure what you mean by that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/14 06:50 AM |
| 4 | How do I find a Redpill man for an LTR?because why would he? He would if he were approached at an appropriate point in his life by someone with what he considered an acceptable level of attractiveness and compatible personality. Chad/Tyrone at the peak of their game in their early to mid 20's are usually not looking to settle down. It's amazing that women still bother trying to tame them during this period of their lives - they simply have too much to gain by staying single and too much to lose by settling down. Unless you're incredi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/14 06:41 AM |
| 15 | Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But I Am NowIs this what American feminists think of their eastern counterparts? Western men using their wealth and status to secure a young, attractive woman from abroad is usually perceived as threatening to western women. Women in the west have established a system of artificial scarcity, allowing them to dictate the terms of sex and relationships. Circumventing this system and cutting through the bullshit feels like cheating to these women. They firmly believe deep down that after riding the cock carous… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/14 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Just got called a prude by a coworker because I admitted that I am abstinent (21,F) Ugh!*Rant*I am saving sex for serious commitment/ marriage! It will pay off immensely in the long-run. Most men of worth will highly value a woman who respects herself enough to not sleep around. It's different as a male (which I am) but I regret having given my virginity up at a young age (14) to the school slut. It was a bad experience with someone I didn't care about and it ruled out the possibility of being able to feel like I deserved a virgin myself. I wish I had waited and I wish I had found someon… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/14 07:03 AM |
| 5 | Female Princeton Graduate and HR Consultant tells young women to get off the cock carousel, stop career chasing, and preaches accountability and sacrifice if being a mom and having a family is a priority.I think there is really a broad range of consequences for both the individual and society as a whole. That documentary talks about how fathers act as a sort of guide into the initiation of adulthood, and that without that guiding hand many people simply never mentally or emotionally mature into adults. Thus they remain adolescents forever, having adolescent relationships, and collectively producing an adolescent culture (capricious, hedonist, selfish). One component of the resulting adolescent c… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 02:18 AM |
| 15 | Female Princeton Graduate and HR Consultant tells young women to get off the cock carousel, stop career chasing, and preaches accountability and sacrifice if being a mom and having a family is a priority.It's the feeling of being unwanted. This translates into children growing up who lack confidence and a sense of self-worth. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 10:22 PM |
| 20 | Female Princeton Graduate and HR Consultant tells young women to get off the cock carousel, stop career chasing, and preaches accountability and sacrifice if being a mom and having a family is a priority.There is a documentary on Netflix called Absent that goes into this in depth. Fatherlessness is a bigger deal than society is willing to admit. It damages our emotional and psychological maturation. It leads to a higher chance for criminal and promiscuous behavior in teens. Fair warning to atheists, it approaches the subject from a conservative Christian perspective. However, the wisdom in the message is universal. We need to get back to the idea of the nuclear family as the ideal state of adult… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 09:05 PM |
| 2 | You ever notice how there is no male fat acceptance movement or short acceptance movement it is because women and society do not care about you.Yeah she may be able to find a partner, get laid, have a kids whatever, but is she respected? Yes, if she is respectable. Meryl Streep is ugly as sin, but she's certainly respected for her talent in acting. can she have the same job opportunities an overweight man can? Of course. Most of the women in IT are fat. They seem to have no problem getting a job. Is there discrimination against fat people in general? Of course. They're fat, it signals a lack of effort/discipline/ambition to employers. P… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 06:54 PM |
| 4 | You ever notice how there is no male fat acceptance movement or short acceptance movement it is because women and society do not care about you.Your options in getting a partner is a reflection of your worth as determined by society. They are certainly related, especially in the case of male worth. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 11:18 PM |
| 11 | You ever notice how there is no male fat acceptance movement or short acceptance movement it is because women and society do not care about you.It is still much easier to find dates, get laid, or start a LTR as a fat woman than it is as a fat or short man. Women, just by virtue of being women, are never involuntarily alone. That is a huge difference in quality of life. Their mate selection gripe comes down to I can't find the right partner versus I can't find a partner that many short or fat men experience. While women certainly do experience hardship, don't pretend like men have it easier in the realm of public judgment - there is alwa… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Redpill and man as a "success object" really hitting home.I agree and I think this is really the key. I had been working what I felt was a dead end job that I hated for about 2 years. I woke up every day wondering if it was worth even going in to work. The pay was decent but the daily grind was getting to me. I had finally called off one too many times and they fired me. I had worked there long enough to gain unemployment benefits and I had saved some money up during my time there, so I knew I wasn't immediately in a financial crisis. After leaving the… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 08:32 PM |
| 8 | Redpill and man as a "success object" really hitting home.I think that TRP philosophy applies to about 90% of women aged 16-29. That figure continues to decline as women get older and have fewer options, but my point is that TRP can be taken as general truth with room for exceptions. These exceptions, or unicorns, are certainly out there. That doesn't mean that the other 10% of women react more favorably, just different than normal. Maybe they're crazy or traumatized, or perhaps just intelligent and rational enough to see through their gender's own bul… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 09:17 AM |
| 5 | Stop me if you've heard this one before: Man moves across the country to please GF. She immediately leaves himIt happened to a friend of mine. He was in his late twenties, working a shit job of some sort to pay the bills. She was in her early twenties and an undergrad. I don't believe that he paid the actual tuition or books, but he basically covered all of both of their living costs for her last 2 years of college. She finished college, he found out she had been cheating on him (for likely the entire time), and she dumped him and moved in with a new guy. The sad part is that during those two years he h… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/14 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Avoiding, spotting, and resisting players: advice for young women.There are men out there who specifically look for wife-material when they date. Even in my college years I only dated with the intention to find a LTR. This was not a popular view among my friends at the time though, I'll acknowledge that. Chances are that your average dudebro is in player-mode during college, and on the other end the incel beta orbiters are just looking for someone to cling to. Somewhere in the middle there are men who are ready and looking for LTR. I can't say I advocate the "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/14 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Women’s rights lobbyist ‘pays nanny $3 a hour’ (cross post from r/nottheonion)I'm not sure why he is so adamant about this issue. I think you're correct when you say: In the theoretical situation that a white woman was working for her under the threat of being sent somewhere else (I dunno, a fugitive, or something), Khobragade may have treated her the same as she did her nanny in real life. This seems like a socioeconomic issue at heart. Sure, it's funny for us here at MR because it was a feminist that did it, but that's not the main issue in the story. It seems odd to tr… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Women’s rights lobbyist ‘pays nanny $3 a hour’ (cross post from r/nottheonion)i'm not okay with your opinion either, but i'll simply say you're mistaken, and not refer to ego-based bullshit by claiming i "called you out" on anything you said. I never implied that I was better than you. I simply thought your comment was incorrect and responded to it. This is what "calling you out" means unless you have some particular meaning attached to it in your vernacular that doesn't ring true where I'm from. disagree if you want, but don't get on your ego-driven high-horse and claim … | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Women’s rights lobbyist ‘pays nanny $3 a hour’ (cross post from r/nottheonion)Then don't bring race into something where it isn't warranted. This is a purely socio-economic issue, with a bit of irony on the side concerning feminism. You made a callous, inaccurate statement and I called you out. I'm not trying to "fight" you, but I'm not okay with someone steering the conversation in a direction that makes the rest of us in this subreddit look like idiots. Choose your generalizations more carefully. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Women’s rights lobbyist ‘pays nanny $3 a hour’ (cross post from r/nottheonion)i said she was behaving like a western white racist feminist, which she is. How is that a "western white racist feminist" trait? Do no other ethnicities make use of nannies? Do no other ethnic groups exploit labor? Why is this a white thing? There are entitled, selfish people of all stripes. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Women’s rights lobbyist ‘pays nanny $3 a hour’ (cross post from r/nottheonion)Class exploitation has existed in all areas of the world at all times in history. This isn't a racial thing. Indians, for instance, had a caste system which has caused long term damage to class relations in their society. To say that the exploitation of lower class labor is a "white" thing, and therefore attribute the exploitation of a worker to racism, is disingenuous. It just doesn't hold up, no matter how much you want to make a class issue into a race issue. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Women’s rights lobbyist ‘pays nanny $3 a hour’ (cross post from r/nottheonion)You're giving him the benefit of the doubt and it's certainly possible that he meant it that way. However, it's also possible that he only read the headline and assumed that the feminist in question was white and the nanny was non-white (as is typical in some parts of America, ex. white mom, Mexican nanny). People typically don't point out racism as a factor unless the transgression is interracial. That and he is casting a rather wide net in his criticism of feminism. I'm no fan of it (or what i… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/13 08:16 PM |
| 23 | Women’s rights lobbyist ‘pays nanny $3 a hour’ (cross post from r/nottheonion)guess feminism really is only for middle-class, and above, white women. Devyani Khobragade. She's Indian. Her nanny was Indian. Does nobody read the article before commenting? | /r/MensRights | 15/12/13 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."I understand the perspective, it just seems so entitled of an attitude to have. Scarcity really changes how you view things. It's analogous to buying organic/high-quality food versus your standard supermarket goods. There is a sort of moral and ethical high ground to buying from local, organic sources, but it is a privilege to be able to afford that as an option to begin with. When you have little to no money, you'd be happy to take the low road if it meant ending your hunger. I really wish that… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/13 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."It's relative. If you're a white American male (which I am), 5'8 is 2.5 inches below average. It's not short enough to be considered abnormally short, but unfortunately in the dating world it is below what many women find to be acceptable. My personal experience was that most women put their minimum for height range at about 5'10 and if there was a maximum, at about 6'4. I know that being 5'8 is nowhere near the issue that being 5'2 would be, but to say that there isn't an issue with being below… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."It's okay. I know a lot of times people on the internet seem to be gunning for each other and more interested in being "right" and "winning" a conversation than actually discussing things. When you come across someone who isn't doing that, you might not realize it at first and put your guard up. I assure you I am not trying to prove you wrong - just adding my two cents to what you said. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."I didn't berate you. I think you're projecting a little and being seriously defensive. I acknowledged your personal anecdote. I supplied my own. Neither is a convincing argument. You having a bad day or something? Pretty serious overreaction, my friend. I wasn't trying to argue with you. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."I know I did. I was acknowledging that we both have personal anecdotes to support our point. What I was stressing to you is that neither makes a convincing argument for it being a trend prevalent in society at large. Why does that make you angry? | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."Right, we all know personal anecdotes. I just wouldn't say it is really a trend in the general population. I doubt many men even get the chance to reject a taller woman to begin with. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."As a below-average height man (5'8), I would have no problem dating a woman taller than I am. I haven't met another man who has expressed a disinterest in women taller than them. The majority of the women I've been with have been within an inch of my height either way. Short women tend to be more hung up about a man's height than taller women are anyways. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."I'm 5'2", and you're 5'1"...I don't think they know just how bad it is to be really and truly short I don't think any guy in the 5'7 or 5'8 range would assume to know what it's like to be a 5'1 or 5'2 guy. I don't think anyone is saying that though. They're saying that they have it worse than a guy who is taller than them, which is most likely true. Also, every guy seems to believe that the minimum dating standard for women is 2-4 inches above whatever height they are, myself included. I'm 5'8 a… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 03:57 PM |
| 14 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."There supposedly are short men fetishists, all of whom seem to reside exclusively on the internet. When people discuss women not liking short men, they come out of the woodwork and try to make it seem like it is all in short men's heads. I wonder how many of them truly pursue short men in real life or have a short partner and don't hold it against them. I have yet to meet a woman that didn't regard my height (5'8) as something to make up for, rather than being something they specifically looked … | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 03:28 PM |
| 22 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."From what I've seen on dating sites, 5'10 seems to be the standard cutoff point regardless of how tall the woman is. So, from a 5'8 guy here, welcome to the club! Short men - the club nobody wants to be in and there's no way to get out of it. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 03:20 PM |
| 5 | A woman's brutally honest response/rant against all of the "real men" posts all over the internet.Whoever the people are that read articles in /r/mensrights and then go and post comments linking to Manhood101 with phrases like "How to keep a bitch in check" (as well as the guy who said "I hope you do anal, otherwise you'll be making a herd of cats happy")... please go fuck yourself. Nothing more disappointing than reading an insightful article on the male perspective, then glancing at the comments to see some obviously chauvinistic "MRA" cheering the author on. I'm going to hold out hope tha… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/13 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Misuse of the word "creepy" and how it destroys male developmentThere are actually many causes for MRAs. That's true, but I would wager that the majority of people come here initially because of personal conflicts that either they or someone they have known has endured. While political aims may be important, I think that the impetus for getting involved is more often than not simply personal hardships. I suppose everyone has their own interests - I find personal struggles to be what I in particular enjoy reading about and discussing. I know some people here … | /r/MensRights | 04/12/13 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Misuse of the word "creepy" and how it destroys male developmentBeing polite and kind is about all that one can hope for from another person. You ask what I would like to see done. I suppose there is something to be said for commiserating. As much as reddit hates the idea of echo chambers, it is comforting to make a connection with other like-minded people. A lot of times people feel like there has to be a broader goal to accomplish and I don't see it that way - I'm fine with just having a place to vent and commiserate. So outside of removing gender bias fro… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/13 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Misuse of the word "creepy" and how it destroys male developmentI think part of the problem here is everyone is assuming 'creep' means 'rapist, murderer, stalker'. It does not in modern nomenclature. Many of the posters here disagree. As a woman, you lack perspective as far as the impact of the term goes. I think you make valid points about the difficulties men have in dating, but what does 'creepy' have to do with it and what do you expect anyone to do about it? The entire point of the thread is that the term creepy implies something is wrong with who someo… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/13 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Misuse of the word "creepy" and how it destroys male developmentYou get what you go for. You want extreme beauty you probably are going to get ego, privilege, and other downsides along with the nice ass and perfect skin. I think you're leaving out the possibility that there are some attractive people out there who are also decent towards others. Sure, a 9/10 isn't going to date a 4/10 out of the kindness of their heart, but the difference in how that 9/10 rejects the person is crucial. There's a tactful way of declining someone's advances that doesn't includ… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/13 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Misuse of the word "creepy" and how it destroys male developmentLooking through your comments, its clear that you're an angry radfem that doesn't debate, but instead ridicules, mocks, argues and shames. I'm not going to bother continuing with you. Its not worth the time of any MRA here to entertain your desire to misrepresent our views and speak derisively towards us. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/13 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Misuse of the word "creepy" and how it destroys male developmentYes because famous, wealthy men are obviously appropriate examples to use to illustrate the plight of the average man. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/13 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Misuse of the word "creepy" and how it destroys male developmentI'm sorry, just because some actors portrayed it that way does not mean it works that way. Holy crap that second guy was textbook psychopath. The first guy was just plain old polite. In fact the first guy was obviously confident. I think this was set up to look as bad as possible, which is unrealistic as denying it is a problem at all. It's satire. It's intended to be perceived as an exaggeration. I don't understand why guys will go for women who look and act like that then get mad when they are… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/13 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Time for another "don't fall for that shit" postI'm pretty sure the TRP methods would work better than just hoping people will like me for who I am. There are a lot of men who end up essentially having to "play the game" this way. I knew quite a few guys in college who had pretty much already given up on the dating scene. Women had expressed no interest in them and they had been rejected whenever they initiated contact so it seemed hopeless. I think the recently coined phrase is "involuntarily celibate". These people didn't plan on remaining … | /r/MensRights | 22/11/13 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Study: Young, Single, Childless Women Earn More Than MenI agree with much of your post. I have a different opinion about the date where equality was reached, but I think we all can agree that we are past that now and the radfem hate machine has no sings of slowing. I do think that first wave feminists were largely egalitarian in their aims. Later feminists abandoned egalitarianism in favor of vengeance and female empowerment unfortunately. Whites will soon no longer be the majority in many nations which have historically been majority white, very tru… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/13 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Study: Young, Single, Childless Women Earn More Than MenAgreed. I think it's a safe bet that feminism has no interest in that sector in its grand goal for "equality". I think gender equality, or as close as we can get to it, was reached about a decade ago in the US. Feminists had a legitimate cause up to that point. The issue is that they didn't stop pushing. And since there aren't many real issues anymore, they conjure them up or exaggerate in order to give the illusion of there still being oppression. So we've gotten past the point of equality and … | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Study: Young, Single, Childless Women Earn More Than MenI think that this is closer to the answer than it being about workplace discrimination. Women typically dominate the service sector. Men typically dominate the labor sector. We have shifted away from a labor based economy to a service based one, so it really is an environment that favors women as far as numbers go. As for why women dominate the service industry... my guess is that it is because men in general like speaking to women more than other men, while women also enjoy speaking to other wo… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Couple perform oral sex on video at Ohio University, girl regrets it, alleges rapeI need to know this as well. First thing I saw when I opened up the link. Maybe a logo for the site that first ran with the story or something? 4chan maybe? | /r/MensRights | 16/10/13 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Man helps raise child, dumped when ex graduates from college. Sweet justice when ex doesn't keep up with child support payments. (x-post from /r/pettyrevenge)however he wasn't a stay-at-home parent I must've missed that bit. Thanks for correcting me. Doesn't negate the trends you refer to about socioeconomic status and dating, but I think it's important not to overlook the hard work this man was doing as both a care giver and the primary breadwinner. I think the crux of the issue, if we are to expand this to a discussion of socioeconomic status and hypergamy, is that whatever work he was doing was likely irrelevant to her because it still placed him … | /r/MensRights | 03/10/13 05:11 AM |
| 8 | Man helps raise child, dumped when ex graduates from college. Sweet justice when ex doesn't keep up with child support payments. (x-post from /r/pettyrevenge)One of the things that modern egalitarianism (which both MRA and first-wave feminists support) neglects to acknowledge is that most women seek to marry/partner up in terms of socioeconomic status when they are younger. Hypergamy sort of tapers off as women get older and have to become more realistic about their options, but until then their dating strategy seems to be "only above my socioeconomic level is acceptable". I'd have to imagine that a young woman being around men of what is commonly co… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 05:52 PM |
| 0 | TIL in the city of St. Louis it is illegal to "refuse to provide for the support of [your] family"... But only if you are a married man.First of all, his statement is a common argument used by racists. "Oh yeah black men are deadbeats running off from their families so therefore they are inferior." Its a bullshit and leading statement that helps no one. If you disagree, then refute his claim with your own statistics/facts. Why respond with vitriol? What does it serve to do other than mimic the radfem tactic of shaming? Second of all, he provides no source for his belief. He literally just states his opinion like fact with nothin… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/13 07:08 PM |
| 2 | TIL in the city of St. Louis it is illegal to "refuse to provide for the support of [your] family"... But only if you are a married man.I find it disconcerting that you're being upvoted for essentially doing to "racists" what feminists do to MRA's. You don't like what he is saying so you insult him, ostracize him, and tell him to shut up. He was pointing out that a portion of the demographic, which is significant in this city, is likely affected differently than others. He then offered a statistic, which as far as I have read, is in line with reality. You then proceeded to just insult and attack him. Why is this condoned on this… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/13 05:15 PM |
| 34 | My (then) GF asked me "how can misandry be a thing?" **right** as we drove under this billboard.It is only a gender issue in that it carries on the popular sentiment that female-on-male violence is justifiable, depending on the circumstances. The reverse is never true. A billboard advocating violent revenge on a woman for cheating wouldn't fly. In fact, usually when a woman cheats, the first thing that people try to determine is if the man was abusive or neglectful. The idea of a woman deserving to be beaten for it is repulsive to most people, while violence or destruction of property agai… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/13 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Black men in Baltimore take to the streets to keep boys in schoolNot likely... try to find an event specifically aimed at empowerment/improvement of the white community (where the organizers of the event are open about the racial element) in America that isn't slammed in the media for being racist. I can't blame the men's rights movement for focusing solely on gender, but it is just as blue-pilled and delusional about racial issues as mainstream society is about men's rights. One thing at a time, I suppose, but let's not get tunnel vision about gender and bur… | /r/MensRights | 08/09/13 12:43 AM |
| 0 | Black men in Baltimore take to the streets to keep boys in schoolIf the public saw it that way, I'd be on the same page. Unfortunately, nearly any gathering for white males (or even white people in general) is targeted by the media as being racist by nature. If white people can have white people specific events, then I'd be more open to other demographic groups doing the same without being bothered by it. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/13 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Black men in Baltimore take to the streets to keep boys in schoolThere were a number of times in the article where black boys, in particular, were clearly made out to be the focus of the event. While there were white men marching in support, they weren't really the intended demographic. Now, take into consideration what the public reaction would be if there were any sort of "white men" event, where race and gender were specifically mentioned, and imagine what the public reaction would be. That is my problem with it. It's great that they are doing something, I… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/13 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Black men in Baltimore take to the streets to keep boys in schoolI didn't pick up that white people were being blamed directly, but I can't say that I cared for the inclusion of a racial element in this event either. While Baltimore is majority black (63%), there's another 37% of people living in the city who matter as well. I would imagine a fair amount of those people are poor whites and latinos who are also having issues keeping their young men in school and off the streets. A major component of this issue is that the stereotypically masculine (tough guy) … | /r/MensRights | 06/09/13 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Feminist MBA discovers her female students "were frankly intending to work 'for a year or two' and then move into motherhood." Begins to open her eye ... then find a way to blame men.Eh, disjointed might be an understatement. Your post didn't really have anything to do with what I was speaking about with the poster above me. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/13 11:49 PM |
| 4 | Feminist MBA discovers her female students "were frankly intending to work 'for a year or two' and then move into motherhood." Begins to open her eye ... then find a way to blame men.What you will find in male porn is that all the women are sexually interested in the men. THAT is what I see men being attracted to, not the objectification. This plays a big part in my attraction to women. Nothing makes me want a woman more than feeling wanted. It can be a cold world out there, and it is a tremendous relief (and turn on) to know that someone cares and wants to be with me. I'm sure there are guys out there who do enjoy a hard-to-get chase, but I'm not one of them. If a woman sho… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/13 06:01 PM |
| 3 | I find it disgusting that despite boys seriously lagging behind girls in education, being out performed almost always by girls. More attention is being given to the 'get rid of lads mags campaignWhile I agree with you to an extent, there's two parts where we differ significantly. One being that you seem to have an exceptionally high opinion of yourself. You have to take into consideration that this quality may be part of why good women aren't flocking to you. Another area where we differ is that the majority of my girlfriends have shared my hobbies with me. My current girlfriend enjoys playing video games with me and shares a similar interest in music and movies as myself. She does like… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/13 04:03 PM |
| 12 | I find it disgusting that despite boys seriously lagging behind girls in education, being out performed almost always by girls. More attention is being given to the 'get rid of lads mags campaignI think the term "social currency" is the best way I've heard this phenomenon described. Much like the diamond trade, the value of something has been increased by artificial scarcity. In this case, it's sex. By collectively withholding sex from men, it becomes scarcer and therefore more valuable. In this way, sex can then essentially be used as a currency in exchange for goods, services, or power. While prostitution may be an explicit representation of the way this transaction works, the allure … | /r/MensRights | 25/08/13 04:49 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck did I just read?My shoes generally last for years but I maintain multiple pairs. I usually have 3 pairs of shoes - boots, casual/walking, and dress shoes. However I wear boots about 80% of the time and they still last forever for me. I had a pair of Doc Martens that lasted me the entirety of high school, a pair of Sketchers boots that lasted for 4 years after high school, then another pair of Sketchers boots that have lasted since then (I'm 30 now). Then again, I don't exercise or hike or anything in them. Mayb… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/13 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck did I just read?Electric shaver. A good one will cost a bit, but after that, you don't need consumables for a good while. If you have a dense beard, electric shavers will not help. I know that for guys with sparse patches of hair that come in on their faces an electric shaver will work, but I've tried 5 different recommended ones and they all were terrible for me. My beard grows in very thick, and even when it is only short stubble length, electric shavers never get all of the hair. I can do it wet, dry, any pa… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/13 05:33 PM |
| 1 | TIL that there is an organization fighting for male contraception options for men -- the Male Contraception Information Project -- and it was founded by a *woman* -- Elaine Alice LissnerI didn't mean to use "racism" in its literal sense. There is no figurative way to use that word though. Don't do that - it really weakens your argument and gives away your age. I've noticed that many younger people use the word "racism" quite liberally - anything that they believe to be bigoted or ignorant is "racist". It's a very specific term to describe a very specific type of bigotry. It's also a bit of a weasel word in that anytime you throw that term around it sounds like an attack on the … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/13 08:13 PM |
| 3 | TIL that there is an organization fighting for male contraception options for men -- the Male Contraception Information Project -- and it was founded by a *woman* -- Elaine Alice LissnerBut I also believe that you have a very negative view of poor people that borders on racism. I never mentioned race in my post. Do you know what that word means? I think people are better than this and can be convinced (especially men) to think and act in their own best interests. I can certainly appreciate your optimism. Having lived in poor areas and seen the amount of single mothers with many kids from multiple men, I'd have to say that you come across as a bit naive. If birth control is read… | /r/MensRights | 30/07/13 07:25 PM |
| 9 | TIL that there is an organization fighting for male contraception options for men -- the Male Contraception Information Project -- and it was founded by a *woman* -- Elaine Alice LissnerI would argue that this would significantly affect several things in very positive ways including overpopulation, poverty, child abuse, divorce rates, and just about every other negative consequence of unwanted pregnancy. That would be nice, but I think that unfortunately many of the women who are too irresponsible/short-sighted to take birth control run in the same circles as men who are likely to do the same. Excessive amounts of unwanted children is unfortunately a characteristic of the lower… | /r/MensRights | 30/07/13 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Why can't paternity tests just be a matter of law in hospitals when a baby is born.I dont know in the USA but in my country you can provide a patternity test as evidence. It's generally assumed that when speaking of laws that people are referring to the US due to Reddit being an American company and the majority of users being American. Perhaps this is part of the cause of disagreement between you and most other people. In the US, it is not unheard of for paternity tests to be disregarded in court. The interest of the state is to focus on the care of the child - not the conseq… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/13 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Why can't paternity tests just be a matter of law in hospitals when a baby is born.You didn't address the crux of my argument though. You're so focused on your libertarian schtick that you're not directly answering the points that people are communicating to you. If the government enforces child support, why should we not require it to have evidence of paternity before being able to do so? | /r/MensRights | 28/07/13 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Why can't paternity tests just be a matter of law in hospitals when a baby is born.Maybe you know an entirely different subset of women than I do, but I don't think a single woman that I am familiar with wouldn't be deeply hurt and insulted by their partner insisting on a paternity test. Even the more rational, intelligent ones who are relatively fair in relationships would be offended. You could say "it isn't about you" until you're blue in the face, but the implication is still there. Making it legally mandated would remove that entire conflict and alleviate the couple of wh… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/13 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Something I've noticed about the "misogyny" on redditI've been saying for years that there will be a backlash and it has started And that's a truly scary prospect for society. We've gotten into a situation where people are being unnaturally bent against their will. At some point the tension will give way and retalliation will occur. One thing that's always fascinated me is that the people who enforce the status quo on the street level have always been the same people too - regardless of what the status quo is. I recall seeing a video recently of a… | /r/MensRights | 19/07/13 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Something I've noticed about the "misogyny" on redditDo you really think this only developed in the past 50 years? Really? No, I really don't. I really really don't. In fact, you could say that I really don't. You really shouldn't assume that someone is ignorant of of the greater context just because they refer to something in a specific manner. I already write in walls of text - no need to drag even more background material into what I say. Read The Sermon On The Mount. Christianity, particularly the Roman Catholic version, has a LOT to answer fo… | /r/MensRights | 19/07/13 05:44 AM |
| 5 | Something I've noticed about the "misogyny" on redditYou see it in the way most people react in vaccine discussions Yeah, I've seen that. My opinion is in line with the consensus on Reddit on this particular issue, but stifling dissent is not something I'm okay with. I have yet to see hard science to back up the anti-vaccination movement - however - I would not shut down someone for raising concerns. I'm glad that there's people out there questioning the status quo, even if I disagree with their agenda. Keep the government and big business on the … | /r/MensRights | 19/07/13 03:43 AM |
| 9 | Something I've noticed about the "misogyny" on redditquestions get dismissed because how wrong they are is just "so obvious". Yep, just like how the reddit community ridiculed that one Tea Party woman who said something along the lines of "study it out" when someone asked her to back up her political beliefs. Reddit doesn't seem to realize that it enforces its own strict form of dogma when it comes to gender and race and that when someone questions it, the typical response is something along the lines of, ironically..... "study it out". Because of… | /r/MensRights | 19/07/13 12:20 AM |
| 12 | Something I've noticed about the "misogyny" on redditI think a lot of it has to do with the victim subculture that has developed in western society. We have been shown over the past 50 years that any group which can legitimize their victim status will receive special attention to try and "remedy" it. So essentially they are rewarded for being the victim. What then is the incentive to change society at that point? Women have achieved equality in all of the areas that they wish to be considered equal (and still receive preferential treatment in thos… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/13 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Something I've noticed about the "misogyny" on redditThe comments in that thread are terrible. How could anyone believe that there is a misogynistic circlejerk on Reddit when every single thread which involves a discussion about gender turns into this? Women pontificating and men either white-knighting or being shamed. Just look at the men squirm in that thread. So eager for a woman's approval. Please listen to me when I say that I am in no way trying to suggest anything negative about women... Also, ignore the trolls. I do not support whatever bu… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/13 11:08 PM |
| 3 | "What attracted you to me?"[PIC]That could be. Or you could come across as boring in your profile. I'd imagine that would do it too. Or you might not be as attractive as you think. All I know is that increasing my height and/or salary brought drastically different results when I tried it. As a short guy who doesn't make very much money (none at all at the moment, ha), I try my hardest to not be bitter about it. Such is the way that the world works and there's nothing I can do to change it. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/13 11:36 PM |
| 14 | "What attracted you to me?"[PIC]I used to do my own "studies" about this when I was younger (late teens, early twenties). Obviously not scientific by any stretch of the imagination, but I'd try using different photos I found around the internet and would fill out a profile, see the response I got, then remove it and bring it back a few months later with different info to see if I got a different reaction. I found that the two biggest determining factors were height and income. A tall (6'0+) man making an average salary ($30k-$… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/13 11:07 PM |
| 2 | "Sick of being treated like the enemy, guys are dropping out of society"I think a younger, more idealistic me would agree. Unfortunately, the older I get the less I am willing to sacrifice for the sake of my ideals. Comfort, security, and (personal) freedom become increasingly important with age. That's why we essentially only see "freedom fighters" or rebels fighting in revolutions these days who are under 30. Kind of sad, I guess, and young Pubesauce would certainly be a bit disappointed. I just can't see "proving a point" as being worth the hassle and potential c… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/13 09:14 PM |
| 143 | "Sick of being treated like the enemy, guys are dropping out of society"And this is exactly what you should do. A couple of years ago while at the airport (had about 2 hours before my flight) a little girl about that age approached me and said she had lost her mom. My first instinct was to scoop her up and carry her to the nearest information/security desk, but logic overcame emotion and I just told her to follow me. Along the way she tried to hold my hand and I politely declined each time. She ended up kind of holding onto part of my pant leg as we made our way to … | /r/MensRights | 30/06/13 06:07 PM |
| 14 | 3 boys killed in S.A. paramilitary "man up" camp. Starved, burned, strangled, dehydrated, dead. An MR issue if I ever heard one.My parents did this to me at 14 (not to this camp, but a "bad kids camp" in the US). There is something to be said for "getting over it" and I have for the most part, but I'd be lying if I said that there aren't some lingering trust and abandonment issues because of it. I was tricked into going, then left there without a clue of what was going on. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/13 08:58 PM |
| 4 | I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My ChildrenI'm inclined to agree with you. After my initial rage subsided, I thought about what she said and it seemed less real to me. Not that there aren't bad people out there, but she is a near perfect villain. She says just the right things to piss the reader off. And it worked - my "jimmies" were thoroughly rustled while reading it. I felt like I wanted to strangle her for just existing the way that she is. Unless she greatly enjoys bragging about how terrible of a person is, I'm thinking she might b… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/13 01:09 AM |
| 13 | I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My ChildrenThis woman is a true psychopath. Cold, logical, narcissistic. Reading this article strikes a deep fear into me. Even if it isn't true, even if these people are just fictitious characters - the idea that someone would do this to someone else is repulsive to me. And the worst part is that it makes sense. She's right. By nature's law, she is thinking logically and playing to her advantage. That's what hurts the most for us non-alpha males. The idea that deep down women will never truly be content w… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/13 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Feminist: only feminism can effectively advocate for men's issues because "the lacking of a theoretical background disqualifies the men's rights activism from making serious claims about sexism." Lol!I've always been a fan of Schopenhauer. He is blunt, articulate, and intelligent. He is also bitter and cynical, so I take his words regarding anything outside his metaphysical ideas with a bit of skepticism. Admittedly, I was unable to endure the entirety of "The world as will and representation", but "Essays and aphorisms" will always be dear to me. It belongs in the same worldview as Wilde and Huysmans, my favorite authors. Brutally honest, insightful, and bound to offend most people. Glad to… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Falsely accused of rape, beaten up by a gang of white knights, now she's threatening to call police if I don't give her $1000, what can I do?I have traveled as well. While you choose to emphasize the "grittier" realities of human nature, I don't. Sure, people can be assholes to one another, but is that ability a justification in itself? Somehow to you it is. I do not deny myself a desire that I don't have. Being a party to adultery/cheating is repulsive to me. That desire to not hurt someone else is greater than my desire to copulate with someone. It's called empathy and goodwill towards others. Perhaps you simply have a darker natur… | /r/MensRights | 11/03/13 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Falsely accused of rape, beaten up by a gang of white knights, now she's threatening to call police if I don't give her $1000, what can I do?You are a bit out of touch with society if you honestly believe that the majority of people in this world see nothing wrong with having sex with a person you know is in a relationship. I'm not sure what dark corner of world you hail from, but if the majority of people there think like you do then I'd sure never wish to be there. Some people believe that we have an obligation to act with integrity towards others in order to help craft a better society as a whole. Others, such as yourself, only ca… | /r/MensRights | 11/03/13 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Falsely accused of rape, beaten up by a gang of white knights, now she's threatening to call police if I don't give her $1000, what can I do?You're just trying to dress up being selfish as an okay thing. Outside of MensRights, I don't think you'll find many that agree with your stance. When you knowingly mess around with someone that is taken, you're participating in something that could deeply hurt someone else. Regardless of whether you know the person or not, it's still an immoral thing to do by most peoples' standards. You can't place the blame entirely on the other person. You come across as a narcissist. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/13 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Falsely accused of rape, beaten up by a gang of white knights, now she's threatening to call police if I don't give her $1000, what can I do?Both you and OP lack morals. If you're okay with being a douchebag and can accept the label, then okay. But neither you or OP should act somehow surprised that people would think you're both giant assholes. Cheating is a 50/50 deal. Both parties are to blame except when one person is single and genuinely doesn't know the other person is taken. It's nice to know that there are assholes like you guys out there that will fuck a woman, knowing she is taken, and then sleep well at night. You both are… | /r/MensRights | 11/03/13 02:09 AM |
| -1 | Falsely accused of rape, beaten up by a gang of white knights, now she's threatening to call police if I don't give her $1000, what can I do?Who cares if you know the guy? If you know someone has a partner, you don't cross that line. How would you feel if you had a girlfriend who sucked some guys dick and he figured it was okay because he didn't know you? I don't agree with what is happening to you because of it, but you're not exactly a person with integrity either. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/13 09:11 PM |
| -10 | Falsely accused of rape, beaten up by a gang of white knights, now she's threatening to call police if I don't give her $1000, what can I do?I think I hate everybody involved in this story. You are a genuine piece of shit for encouraging someone to cheat on their partner. She is a genuine piece of shit for cheating on her partner then trying to blackmail you. There are so many mistakes that you made in this story that it almost sounds too bad to be true. Why didn't you contact the police when her boyfriend threatened you? Why didn't you contact the police when you were battered in public by a group of people? Don't just "take it like… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/13 08:32 PM |
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