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Speaking as someone who has recently dropped out one year from graduating, yes absolutely yes... well maybe. I've always known that college isn't for me. I was a straight-A student in high school and was selected to go to an early college at 15 (and I had a full scholarship to a 4-year university) But by age 17 I knew that I didn't want to go to college. College is counterproductive to me. College offers well-rounded course studies, guarantees you a job in the industry and allows you to meet rea…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 05:34 PM
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No problem, i think it's awesome that I was able to help someone :p And yeah, a lotta guys think with their dick. That can be a lot of fun, and it's not necessarily bad, but it's just not right for some guys.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 11:00 PM
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I don't think that's part of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 04:17 PM
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Isn't that the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 02:41 PM
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It's hard to say. Everyone's experience is different, and every therapist is different. I'm currently depressed and seeing a therapist, and my main concern is that I'm really not taking anything away from it. I guess at worst, I'm out $20 a month, and 2 hours of my life. At best, my entire perspective could change. At the very least you can think about it as seeking the advice of a person who is highly skilled in giving out advice, rather than therapy. There are always new techniques that you ca…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 09:11 AM
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Owen (RSDTyler) is fucking amazing. I think it's fuckin' awesome that he's found a way to reach out to people with depression through his work as a pick-up artist. Some of his advice and suggested readings have really helped me through some hard times.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 03:34 AM
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Honesty isn't a bad place to start. "You text me too much. I want you to text me less. This doesn't mean that I don't like you. This means that I don't want you to text me so much."
/r/askTRP04/06/15 02:05 AM
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Well you've gotta realize that your original reply Well, reducing the population of legbeards doesn't seem like a bad thing. Was in response to a comment about reducing world population by making something punishable by death. So it sounded like you were implying they should be shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 09:01 PM
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"Killing everyone with leghair" doesn't seem like a bad thing? Is that your statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 08:06 PM
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Doesn't seem like a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 07:32 PM
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Sure, let's kill the blacks and jews while we're at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 06:59 PM
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Because it wouldn't serve any benefit to our current society to force them to. Unless you were trying to increase prison populations by making it illegal or reduce world population by making it punishable by death.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 06:50 PM
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I feel like the differences in opinion on this question will largely be because of people interpreting the question differently. Those who say yes, will likely be answering something along the liens of "Do you think women should shave their facial and body hair to be more attractive to the average person?" And those saying no will be answering interpreting the question as "Do you think it's wrong for a woman to not shave? Do you think she should have to shave?" Of course women should shave if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 11:41 AM
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Ahaha I'm so sorry. I think I sorta made my point though. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 07:06 PM
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Lol, I just reread my comment... Holy hell I was scatterbrained while writing that.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 05:40 PM
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Something to help help you to stop asking your wife if she had an orgasm: Listen to her body. You don't need to know whether or not she had an orgasm if you listen to her body. You can tell by the way she reacts to your touch whether she wants more or not. And if you finish when she's still wanting more or feeling frustrated at the lack of climax, by comparing her state at that moment you finish with her state after you finger her or lick her more. You might notice that her body still holding yo…
/r/askTRP23/05/15 10:05 AM
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I didn't really look that thoroughly through the R4R post, so my bullshit radar could be completely wrong. But I think more often than not, people who say they can't improve their physical attractiveness anymore are lying to themselves. But a 6 or a 7 really isn't that bad for a girl anyway. If you're actually a 7, you shouldn't have much problem attracting guys at all, without wasting time fixing your wardrobe or other perceived flaws. Just spend more time expanding your social circle and playi…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 11:57 AM
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I looked at your comment history and noticed an R4R post. To me, that's an indicator that you might not really be looking to "thrive in the dating world" or be the alpha so that you can have short term relationships, but that you're either crazy or ugly or completely isolated from any social group. It takes a lot of desperation for a girl to post a wanted ad for dating on reddit. (And trust me, I know because I've spent my fair share of time looking for girls on R4Rs and other sites like craigsl…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 12:27 AM
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A lot of the self-improvement stuff will apply to you too. Especially the posture, lifting, assertiveness stuff. But really all you have to do is be hot. Once you're hot you'll have plenty of options to choose from, and you can grow a backbone out of that. If someone does something you don't like, it becomes much easier to stand up to them when you're not dependent on them for shit. You could probably even manipulate a beta into giving you money so that you don't even have to work a job.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 11:02 PM
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People are entitled to voice their opinions where ever they want. Lol. No they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 11:09 AM
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Yes, of course. Except for technical inability to consent because "I was drunk" rape. I hardly consider that rape anyway, but I understand for the need for that to be illegal when it comes to unmarried sexual encounters, but if you're married, you should be allowed to have sex with your wife while you're intoxiciated, and not fear having "he raped me every friday and saturday night for years" brought up in a divorce trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 01:00 PM
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Absolutely, in lots of ways. Specifically third-wave feminism is trash. The rest of feminism, the fight for equal rights to vote or hold public office etc. are mostly good except for a few of their methodologies. But modern feminism does a lot of terrible things for women. It's starting to cause rape accusations in some cases to be taken less seriously because of how strongly feminism has turned rape accusations into immediate and unsubstantiated guilt of the accused. It's causing people to take…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 03:21 AM
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I agree with this. I'm 90% red. I think it's silly to suggest that women are the least empathetic, unless you're drawing a specific distinction between empathy and sympathy, because women are certainly highly capable of at least one of the two. If anything, I would have said the opposite. That men are less capable of empathy and more task oriented, despite thinking of myself as a highly empathetic person. Empathy is a valuable social skill, and if you assume women are the more social creatures, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 10:53 AM
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This is good advice but it's easier said than done. It's difficult to just not be reserved around people. There are only a few times where I felt truly honest in the way I spoke, and about 80% of them were drug induced. Or with my mother who I know is not a judgemental person
/r/askTRP10/05/15 01:56 AM
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That's hilarious. You should make her fall as madly in love with you as possible using redpill tactics, and then record a vlog to yourself that you're about to change your behavior to beta-bluepill behavior, then proceed to tell her how much you love her and that you'd do anything for her. Then when she finds reasons to dislike you, show her the video. Better yet, record the entire process with her minus the one video stating your intentions about changing your behavior. Make up some excuse like…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 01:40 AM
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Consider the fact that you're joining a chatroom dedicated to TRP. What kind of attitude did you expect?
/r/askTRP08/05/15 09:58 AM
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If you're uncomfortable around women in general, I think it could be worth doing. You're not going to get many other opportunities to experience it in the future.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 09:34 PM
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Learn from the experience. Despite TRP/PUA halfway implying that you should plate women and have sex with women you don't know or care about, learn that this lifestyle might not be for you, because it causes you too much stress. Now before someone jumps on my case and says "This isn't what TRP is about!", I know. But compared to normal dating advice, TRP certainly seems to advocate fucking random sluts. I had similar anxiety when I was sleeping with a girl a year or so ago. I used a condom and s…
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:30 AM
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Damn. You're in a good spot then. Yeah dude, play a sport and lift. Read books on the redpill reading list and really spend time contemplating and applying the advice given to you by the authors. It's almost summer time, so realistically if you went into monk mode for your summer break, by the time you got back to school you'd be in good shape.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 01:20 AM
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25 years is a lot of time.
/r/PussyPass25/04/15 12:16 AM
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They might not care about you, but they care about things that they want from you. If you have things they want, maybe you can just pretend there's not much difference?
/r/askTRP19/04/15 12:58 AM
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35.4%
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:46 PM
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This is because the graders are systematically brainwashed by the patriarchy to think that girls are stupid compared to men, so when a girl does good, they think "This is good work... For a GIRL".
/r/PussyPass15/04/15 06:46 PM
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Yes /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 07:10 AM
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I don't think you're being very empathetic to the amount of distress having a father like this causes. The entire post sounds exactly like the situation I'm in. It sounds as if I was the one who wrote it, minus the soccer part. I'd rather have had a dad who beat me. I'd rather have had a nonexistant father. I see people who didn't have a father, and they're strong people. They took charge and handled life's problems as they were thrown at them. But having this kind of father, a half-supporting f…
/r/askTRP11/04/15 01:43 AM
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Oh my fucking god. This describes me and my father almost exactly. Not giving a fuck about me except school. Never speaking to me about social life, girls, or ANYTHING. He asks me how I'm doing and I always say "I'm ok" because I know that anything else is unacceptable or will cause for accusing conversation where it's my fault for not being ok. "Nah, I'm not really feeling okay. I don't like school and I'd like to take a year off to work a job and get my head straight". "You just have to stick …
/r/askTRP11/04/15 01:33 AM
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I get what you're going for, but you're wrong for thinking that betas don't reproduce.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:46 AM
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Not a pussy pass. It's obviously a joke photo, and men would be able to do this too.
/r/PussyPass01/04/15 09:02 PM
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Where's the middle ground movement At home, not giving a fuck. Because I think the vast majority of rational people in the middle ground don't really think that men's/women's issues are that big of a fucking deal. Like yeah, maybe you were discriminated against as a man on a plan and asked not to sit next to a child for their protection from potential pedophiles, but in the larger scheme of things, it's hardly malaria or ISIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 02:59 PM
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Fat people still know salads are good for you.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 10:41 PM
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Is the redpill a refuge for bitter neckbeards? Or is it an evolutionary step towards something else? Not sure what these questions are really asking. I get what the words mean, but I don't really know how to respond to them in any meaningful way. I'm really not sure what this whole post is about. There might be a lot of redpillers in the r/neckbeard sub because they like making fun of them because they used to be that way, or they're currently that way and they have a lot of self-hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 08:53 PM
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I think it's because they come from a place of genuine abundance. They are always desired by many men, and therefore have the innate luxury of being choosy with their partners, or being demanding. Like 80% of what TRP teaches boils down to having an abundance mentality. Shit tests are easily passed if you have abundance. Confidence is easy with abundance. Dread game easy with abundance. So on and so on.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:30 AM
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Depends on how horny I am and the chances of getting to fuck her in the future. If I can fuck her later that night, then just go to the gym. If it's a one-time opportunity, then I'll miss the gym.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 04:36 PM
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Oh yeah... no. It still very much applies. I've had it happen to me very harshly. On a Monday I hit on a girl in public and got her number. On Tuesday I went out for coffee with her and she had anime eyes and was totally into me and texting me nonstop. On Wednesday night, I let down my guard and started reverting to my beta self. I started "falling for her". On Friday, I went out with her again, and was completely nervous and back to my beta self completely. I let down my guard and put her on a …
/r/askTRP22/03/15 04:30 PM
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Fell into water meaning what?
/r/askTRP22/03/15 03:46 PM
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Wow, you're asking some original and hard-hitting questions there bro.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 03:42 PM
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Good, now don't fuck it up by getting all needy. Take your mind off of it, go find another chick to pursue. She can become disgusted with you turning beta just as fast as she got attracted to you.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 03:32 PM
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Anime eyes
/r/askTRP22/03/15 03:22 PM
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To not need something and at the same time want it is difficult for me to compute. That's exactly how two redpill books I've read say that you need to be. Not needy, yet desiring. Models by mark somethingOrAnother and The Way of the Superior Man. And I can't say I really remember exact tips on how to be that way, other than to just choose to be that way. But for me, the few times I've desired a woman while not being needy, it's been a straight choice. I made a conscious decision to be happy with…
/r/askTRP22/03/15 12:15 PM
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I go to the gym, I have a fucking cool job, my social skills are pretty good. What am I fucking doing wrong? I know the feeling man. I've messaged over 600 women online over the past 3 years, been on ~30 first dates and had almost no success. I'm a smart dude, I was athletic enough to bike across the entire united states, and I'm an interesting person overall. My heroin addict 33 year old bald cousin who throws temper tantrums at his parents, who he lives with, for asking him to take out the tra…
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:50 AM
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Everything in life is pointless.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 06:33 AM
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No, that's not what I said. I used the word Literal Literal =/= exact. Metaphors, rhetoric, tone etc. can all express exact feelings without being taken literally. You used them yourself: You're joking right? You're not literally asking me if I'm joking. You're rhetorically asking the question to convey that you're in disbelief at the absurdity of my statements. An exact feeling, a non-Literal interpretation. Women say exactly what they mean, and because of being able to express themselves on mo…
/r/askTRP15/03/15 12:02 AM
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You're a real condescending fuck. No, I'm not joking, and I haven't mistaken the "female emotional based thought process" for complex social interaction. I'm referring to the fact that when men say things, there is more often one level to it. The literal level. "Yes, I want you to stay here" means "Yes, I want you to stay here". Women almost always speak on more than one level, and include more factors than men. Which is why "men don't pick up on the hints" and when a woman says "Yeah, it's fine…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 11:40 PM
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They had no hobbies except from watching movies or listening to music or some shit. Only one of them did sports They're plenty interesting. You're just not embracing them in the right way, or you don't find the same things entertaining. I broke up with my first and only girlfriend because of this. She didn't seem to do shit in my mind. I'm like "What the fuck do you do all day?", because I spend like 6 hours a day minimum of playing games, and even though it's pointless, it's an actual tangible …
/r/askTRP14/03/15 11:15 PM
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Woman are not as pressured to be accepted by peers as men, therefore they do not hone their social skills as much as men. I don't agree with this. I think that on average, it's the opposite. Men aren't pressured to hone their social skills in the same way that women are, which is why women have multiple layers to their social interaction and why men "Say things how they are". It's why men seem stupid for not understanding what women are saying, and why women seem crazy. On the other hand, women …
/r/askTRP14/03/15 11:07 PM
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Well none of those really define redpillers as sexists, at least in their mind. Preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience. Redpill is based on reason and actual experience. A widely held but fixed and oversimplified image or idea of a particular type of person or thing. Arguably, the generalizations about women in TRP aren't oversimplified images or ideas of women, as there is a significant amount of theory about women there that is more nuanced than saying something …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 02:14 AM
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You don't think there are scenarios that you can be with a very attractive woman and not want to have a child with her?
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:00 AM
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I've seen probably a dozen different scientific studies that back up their various views. Regardless, I don't think it matters whether they're right or wrong in their beliefs, because in the end, their beliefs get results.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 01:38 PM
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To prevent a FRA: Be a paranoid fuck with hidden cameras recording at all times
/r/askTRP26/02/15 09:43 PM
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The guys venting on TRP will go "all women are children" instead of "this one specific chick who fucked me over is basically a child." I think it's important to note that the TRP'ers generalizing aren't just those in the anger phase, or those venting. Generalizations like that are a core part of TRP as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 09:37 PM
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Better to ignore or tell her what you DO want. Yeah OP. You just come off like a psychotic dickhead when you randomly cut contact and then say you don't want to be friends like she's hurt you in some way when she's done nothing wrong to you. I don't think there's any way to salvage this, because if you say "I want to be more than friends" then you're back to orbiter status. My suggestion is to just cut contact and move on, I don't think you can reverse the damage done. Take it as a learning less…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 03:17 AM
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Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 10:33 AM
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Hating something like that certainly sounds like anger phase, I agree. But I don't feel angry. Idunno, it was just a thought. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 10:30 AM
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Similarly, go for a walk or a bike ride, and try to substitute your commute with the two. You can easily drown 2-3 hours biking/walking and not end up feeling too drained at the end of it.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:37 PM
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Nick Sparks has a good take on this. When there's a bigger alpha in the room and he's in control, don't try to out-alpha the alpha. Join the conversation and allow him to be him. Don't compete, take a different route. So in this case instead of going against the alpha like he did, he should be like "Oh my god you have jetskis! Dude that sounds like so much fun" and then moving on to something else.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 02:38 AM
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Aren't all of them backed up by those archive sites?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:37 AM
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Well it's not as bad as I originally thought. I read the title and thought she was the accuser. Still pretty low though.
/r/PussyPass02/02/15 07:15 AM
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tl;dw (and for clarification): The ex wife was not the false rape accuser. Man was accused of rape, wife divorces him 3 years later, then when he's proven innocent she feels entitled to the $4m in compensation that he received.
/r/PussyPass02/02/15 04:59 AM
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Yes, you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 06:59 AM
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And how did you find out about this? From what I recall it's not a good sign if your girlfriend is the one bringing it up to you. It's a shit test to see if you'll react insecurely (And so far, you are, especially by posting it here). You shouldn't be worried about the other guy, you should be worried about yourself and your insecurities. I believe the suggested reaction shouldn't be "Oh man how do I keep this guy away from my girl, I'm so insecure that I'm going to lose you", it's "Yeah, I get …
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:30 AM
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I don't think you're going to get much good advice here for an 11 month exclusive long term relationship. We don't know if you're her alpha or her beta. Get her what you want to, but realize that what you get her will reflect your interests in her.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:42 AM
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She didn't like it but she mentioned that she often had sex with her old boyfriend twice a day as if she was trying to make me jealous. And she wanted to remain friends with me.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 03:02 AM
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She didn't like it but she mentioned that she often had sex with her old boyfriend twice a day as if she was trying to make me jealous. And she wanted to remain friends with me.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 03:02 AM
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She pulled similar bs via text and I nexted her. Thank you for your advice.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:28 AM
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This did help. I hard nexted her via text. I had a difficult time not feeling like an asshole, or not doing it out of anger/frustration, but it certainly feels much less selfish when you think about it in the way you stated it. Thank you.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:27 AM
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I agree with the first part of this.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:34 AM
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Thanks for this. Is there anything I can do to learn from the experience, or anything I can learn about escalating from cuddling to sex?
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:28 AM
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So basically you're saying I should just next her, and I plan on doing that. I figure I'll at least give it one more shot Friday night since I don't have to really sacrifice anything or waste any time. She's going to drive 30 minutes to me, and watch movies in my bed with me without me having to waste time/money going out to dinner or other date options, and I'd probably be watching movies in bed anyway. But I'd like to take something from this experience. I'd like to figure out what the cause o…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:21 AM
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I grab my phone, go to the contact book, add a new record, type her name in, and I say, "Only getting more popular, here, put your number in my phone." She did, I joked with her about it being fake, called her (so she has my number now) and proceeded to tell her I would call her to grab drinks this week before I leave town. I see this used a lot in TRP. To me, joking about it being fake seems insecure as fuck, as if you've gotten a lot of fake numbers before or as if you think she's out of your …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 11:54 PM
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I think this is a bit of a distortion to call grabbing his phone from his hands "assault". I'm sure it could technically be assault, but there's no need to dilute the word to make a clickbait point about "pussy passes". 5 people came to her rescue, because he attacked her. Sure, you could call it "self defence" if taking someone's phone is technically assault, but it's a stretch. The dude sounds like a schizophrenic to me. He probably thought the first girl was following/watching him and he was …
/r/PussyPass27/01/15 08:32 AM
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I've had similar issues. Although I can't say that I've gotten depressed or unsatisfied yet, I find that after 1-2 dates I immediately revert to my old beta self once I find that I care for the girl. I haven't been able to refrain from returning to that mentality yet, but maybe if I did then I would equally feel unsatisfied/empty as you do. I see two potential options, one is that you get more women, so that you can "basically pander to them" one at a time, and that way you're not going overboar…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 03:23 AM
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Sounds kinda gamey and tryhard to me.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 10:32 PM
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"Do I have to have a reason?" or "Fun."
/r/askTRP25/01/15 10:31 PM
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I almost did. When a group of kids in high school constantly pranked me (otherwise known as bullying), I almost killed myself. And I don't think it's that rare to feel that way after being bullied.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 10:30 PM
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If you pressure someone into saying "yes", you have not raped them, but you have been a massive asshole anyway. I don't think that this is necessarily true. I mean, I guess it depends on how you're pressuring them, and for what reasons, but I certainly don't think that it automatically makes you a massive asshole. I was on a date on Monday with a girl and was making advances toward her. I mentioned that I was cold and she said her coat was warm, and I rolled over onto her and said "Oh, is that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 08:26 AM
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Just because it's instantly logical doesn't mean it's not going to piss someone off. Example: The dude down the street punched me in the face and stole my money. He is a drug addict who needs money to fuel his addiction, and the logical and rational way to handle this situation is to document it and report it to the police. That's what I plan on doing, and it instantly seems logical to me why it happened, and what I have to do about it. Still pisses me off that I got punched in the face though a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 08:08 AM
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This^ Even if men have been lied to by society, wouldn't it immediately makes sense to them about why they were deceived helping them accept it? ... wouldn't the things they read on trp just instantly seem logical to them rendering a phase of anger illogical? Just because it's instantly logical doesn't mean it's not going to piss someone off. Example: The dude down the street punched me in the face and stole my money. He is a drug addict who needs money to fuel his addiction, and the logical and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 08:07 AM
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What about the possibility that she just feels bored in the relationship? Based on the text, it sounds like she's just kinda bored and wants to spice up the relationship with some drama or by doing new things. I mean, you're TRP endorsed and I'm just a beta dude, but it reminds me of a talk by RSD Julien (which I can't seem to find now) which talks about how women like to play with their emotions, and that they need to be emotionally stimulated, whether that's in a good or bad way. Nothing notew…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 07:53 AM
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I made the mistake of going overboard and saying "I don't normally tolerate flakes." when a girl made the (honest) mistake of forgetting she had prior obligations canceling about 5 hours in advance of a date. I was partially looking for an out because I was in a bad mood and had just found out she had a kid, but I also ruined any chances of seeing her later by going overboard. I text back saying "yeah that's fine" because I don't care either way To me, it sounds like you're handling it right. Yo…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:59 AM
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"Because I wanted to" or something else straightforward, yet not too revealing. At least, that's how I'd handle it.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:56 AM
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I'd go for it. If money is an issue, then that's a huge plus to have free therapy. Having someone around you on a regular basis who is able to analyze you and see your triggers could be helpful. Although her feelings for you could cloud her ability to accurately judge you. Either way, sounds like a fun experience. I'd definitely look in to finding another therapist on the side if your PTSD continues, or if it's bad enough to need more help.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:17 AM
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because they exploit a certain power they have What power is this? How else do you explain non replacement level birthrates What do you mean by this? You mean having more than 2 kids? Isn't that how we've always had kids? In fact I think it used to be even more common to have 5+ kids than it is now. Its the sluts that are shitting out all these bastard children and literally STEALING from the taxpayer in the form of government assistance because they become single mothers. Is it just being a slu…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:07 AM
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I don't like this comment. I understand and agree that it's stupid that people make rape out to be worse than murder, honestly I feel like it's along the lines of being punched in the face (physical assault) if it's a violent rape, and most similar to an unwilling prank if it's not. But you're comparing sex to rape, not sex to sex, and then saying "Make up your mind, either it's important or it's not!". It's similar to comparing a car ride to a kidnapping in a car. "Oh, well they are both car ri…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:57 AM
4

Agreed with this strongly. There's a lot of things I do online that I'm not ashamed of, but that I wouldn't want other people to know about due to backlash.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:53 AM
2

I found this response ironic. People paint redpillers as misogynistic, but here's your comment accepting women for who they are while others shun them and say it's fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:04 AM
1

Sounds like she's into you. Don't fuck it up by getting oneitis, losing frame, or putting her on a pedestal. Other than that, ask her out and then fuck her. She's ready and she wants it, considering your story. She's waiting for you to make a bold enough move.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 07:20 AM
2

I hit on a girl once that was WAY out of my league (taller than me, more attractive, already had a high paying job despite graduating high school at the same time as me) with SUPER creepy lines like "ey baby whachyoo up to girl" out of the blue at the bus stop and got a deservedly awkward response, and she ended up being my instructor for one of my college courses. For some reason, it wasn't embarrasing or awkward to me, aside from the initial thought of "lol well that's ironic". I don't want to…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 03:06 AM
0

I had a date last night where I didn't give a fuck, and it had spectacular results. I can't quite put my finger on what made the difference, but my advice is to just not. Find some way to rationalize it in your head that she's not that important or that hitting on girls has no real significance or no consequence. ie tell yourself "What does it matter if I look like a dickhead/dumbass/beta in front of 10 people. Nobody is going to think about it at all 5 minutes from now". Beyond that, just don't…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 12:48 AM
1

Exactly this. Additionally, continuing to press her will just show that you're coming from a place of scarcity instead of abundance. It's not healthy to think about one girl like this. Don't ask TRP for advice and then not contact her because TRP told you not to, Do it because you legitimately don't care that much.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 12:00 AM
1

Preselection/abundance mentality?
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:40 AM
1

There's a high probability that they'll flake in general, or if they know that they'll be showing up with me and another "friend" there?
/r/askTRP19/01/15 12:59 AM
1

I'm in the same place in my life. I've been trying to find a partner to work with me on accomplishing goals together, hence my post in /r/getmotivatedbuddies . Care to be accountability buddies and commit to our goals together? 22/m/Eastern USA
/r/askTRP18/01/15 11:46 PM
2

You might be her BB, but only because you feel insecure enough to ask the question, not because you can't make her come.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 09:15 PM
4

Sounds like a positive to me. Go for the threesome.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 05:33 AM
1

The amount of times that this doesn't happen vastly outnumbers the times that it does happen, and when it does, is that the responsibility of the other man?
/r/askTRP12/01/15 10:31 PM
1

What consequences would there be?
/r/askTRP12/01/15 08:26 PM
1

she got open relationship approval.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:08 PM
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What the fuck are all these comments saying "Don't do it, you'd be a scumbag!"? Is this AskTRP or ask "men"? she got open relationship approval. That's all you need (and you don't even need that), to completely rid yourself of "scumbag" status. She wants to, you want to, it would be in your best interest in terms of feeling "abundant" and obtaining validation... I mean it seems stupid not to for reasons beyond upping your number count and busting a nut.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 07:12 AM
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Yeah, they have no reason to. She hasn't pushed his buttons nonstop for weeks straight. Guarantee they'd reconsider if she'd been the bitch we know some women can be before they were asked to slap her.
/r/PussyPass07/01/15 11:27 PM
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I totally knew that a girl I was seeing was shit-testing me when she was showering me with compliments and I failed miserably by being overly humble about it. Fuck. Oh well, good learning experience though.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:17 PM
1

Thank you for your thoughtful response. It makes a lot of sense.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 01:24 PM
2

I agree with this guy^ minus all the agression
/r/askTRP30/12/14 12:03 PM
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but during sex it would keep slipping out. Why is this? Does it mean something? Does it get better with practice? Practice. Just both of you not knowing how far out to go, and going too far. What's the deal with anal sex? They make it look like heaven in porn, but I actually didn't like it that much. I'm not sure myself. It's something different I guess. But to each their own. At least you know Gratz man, good to hear from ya.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:15 AM
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If that's the prenup they agreed to. Bringing it full circle I understand that in your relationship that it is predetermined between you and your partner that you should have a safety net provided by your husband should you decide that things aren't working out. but... I don't think that this attitude should simply be the default in relationships. Women aren't stupid or helpless. And it's not a man's inherent responsibility to provide you with 6 months of money for giving up your career to be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 03:53 AM
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How do i approach girls that know theyre out of my league or think they are? Because that shit kills my confidence Do it without the intention of getting laid. That takes a lot of the pressure off. Taming approach anxiety
/r/askTRP27/12/14 03:13 AM
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Eh, don't worry about it. Well... Worry about it, but don't live your life in fear of all the bad things that could go wrong.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 03:04 AM
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I'm also passionate about similar types of videos. I'm currently working on one about "Empowering yourself". It explains how I've come across a common theme in my own life and I've seen it expressed by people who are looking out at the accomplishments and skills of others. It's a common feeling that achievements of others are so extraordinary and so unique that it would be impossible for oneself to achieve it. Whether it's an objectively gigantic task such as becoming a mountain climber and clim…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:53 AM
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If you're not confident about your body, then she's going to pick up on that and she'll go dry instantly. Lifting serves the double purpose of making you sexier physically and improving your confidence. Lifting has a very high chance to improve both confidence and physical attractiveness, whereas reading pickup material can become no more than mental masturbation. The better equivalent to lifting for comparison would be practicing pickup, not reading about it.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:44 AM
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I actually replied to that comment already elsewhere, haha. But yep, it's certainly a danger, and I've certainly considered rigging my entire future residence with cameras and microphones because I'm a paranoid fuck about that shit. I've already been threatened with accusations once, and I've seen firsthand the effects of "regret rape" with an acquaintance of mine where I saw the entire incident leading up to the point where they closed the door and she could audibly be heard saying "Oh yes, mor…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:41 AM
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Lying for sex doesn't seem like rape to me? It's not, but it won't stop her from making allegations. If I have it recorded would I be in the safe? Who knows. I'm sure there would be some court somewhere that would see the tape and still find you guilty of rape and production of pornographic material without consent. But I certainly don't think it would hurt.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:37 AM
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They only want sex for that access - access to something that I made up. I doubt they want to have sex only for that access, but rather for your perceived value for being related to that person. And either way, what's the dilemma? If they are only doing it for the access then don't they deserve to be taken advantage of in the same way that they're attempting to take advantage of you? And if they're doing it because they have a higher perceived value of you, then where is the harm? Faking confide…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:32 AM
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I edited and added more to the end that addresses this.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:07 AM
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On the first date, keep in mind that you have 2 other dates lined up so that you can maintain frame easier. Convince yourself that you have no interest in her because the other 2 are the ones you really want, and don't attempt to set up plans for another date with her at the end or even indicate interest in continuing the relationship. That way you won't come off as desperate, she will be more attracted to you, and even if the date is a total flop or you actually fuck it up, you won't have an ov…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:00 AM
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Okay, well in that case I guess the man of the relationship should be required by default to ensure a comfortable safety net for their partner, however their partner decides to define what is comfortable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 01:00 AM
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No. I was giving an example to the contrary that proves it doesn't take 15 years to save up a "safety net" as you had claimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 11:12 PM
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So to combine it all and conclude our statements: It's a woman's own responsibility to create her safety net given her choices. So you're saying women should wait until they are 30/35 before they get married to guarantee a safety net. My point is if my safety net includes me living at a standard of living that is not welfare-esque [it will take me that long to save up] I'm not saying they should wait until 35 to get married to have a safety net. You are, because you're imposing your standards of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 01:05 PM
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So do I deserve to be president of the united states because I've decided I deserve it, prioritized it and worked for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 12:33 PM
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I like how trp makes men so insecure that they forget how to have simple inactions with people. TRP isn't what is making this person insecure. The transition from one mentality to another is what is making him understandably "insecure", or at least uncertain of what should be done. He's not instantaneously going to transition from bluepill/beta to redpill/alpha, and along the way he's not going to be certain of how he should behave if he wants to be a specific way, because he's not that way yet.…
/r/askTRP26/12/14 11:38 AM
1

Sure. But is that what you inherently deserve?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 05:46 AM
1

But even if you're more comfortable with being empathetic and understanding, wouldn't it be more suitable for sexual attraction to just remain cold and unsympathetic?
/r/askTRP26/12/14 05:00 AM
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You understand my meaning, even if my wording wasn't literally correct. Edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 03:12 AM
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Honestly, that's a load of shit. Working one month of a $10/hr job I was able to save up enough to live another 2 months of living expenses, and after just 3 months I was able to quit my job for 4 months to focus on my depression and working on independent projects. It ended up going nowhere, but I'll be going back to school, and that's fine. I was frugal, and my safety net consisted of necessities. I'm sure if I were receiving child support payments I'd be able to live even longer without worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 01:13 AM
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Well a-okay isn't clearly defined, but it certainly doesn't sound like abuse to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 01:00 AM
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So now you're saying women should wait until they are 30/35 before they get married to guarantee a safety net. No, get married when you want to. Wait until you have money saved up before you decide to stop making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 12:04 PM
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Hmm. I see what you're saying now. I almost didn't because I was in an argumentative mode, but after re-reading I get where my misinterpretations of your statements were. But going back to the original comment, I do think that they're similar enough to make an analogy and be compared. Just not in the way OP has structured it. I discussed this elsewhere in the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 11:04 AM
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My point here though, is simply to make this double standard overt and visible to BPers I think if you're going to do this, you need to make sure to specifically compare apples to apples or else a Bluepiller will compare apples to oranges to "prove" that it's not a double standard after all. So going back up to my original comment for example: Withholding money isn't universally 'financial abuse', and it's not universally not financial abuse. It depends on the circumstances and the reasoning A b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 10:54 AM
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That's not what financial abuse is What isn't what financial abuse is? I didn't attempt to make an example of what financial abuse was in my comment. You can't reference an example that doesn't exist and then say that it's not an example of financial abuse. My comment still stands and I feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 10:37 AM
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Thank you for considering my point rather than just dismissing it as bluepill hamstering or whatever. I've been reading "The Way of the Superior man" and I wonder if in addition to the reasons you suggested, that she was a woman more identified with her masculine and you were more identified with your feminine, and your changes were a shift toward the masculine in a way that made neither of you attracted to each other. In short, Masculine/Feminine traits attract each other while similarities rep…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 10:34 AM
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The party who works hard and provides (predominantly and traditionally male) having a duty to continue doing so. The party who provides sex not having a duty to provide sex, ever. Yep. That's how the masculine and feminine work. The feminine does not have duties or responsibilities, and shirks from them. The masculine serves a purpose and has duties. I've been reading through "The way of the Superior Man" and basically the gist of it is "Yep, that's how it is. And that's how it has to be if you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 10:28 AM
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And I said: I understand that in your relationship that it is predetermined between you and your partner that you should have a safety net provided by your husband should you decide that things aren't working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 10:09 AM
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If withholding money is 'financial abuse' Withholding money isn't universally 'financial abuse', and it's not universally not financial abuse. It depends on the circumstances and the reasoning, so simplifying the entire "if" statement down to that is kinda silly. The same is true of withholding sex. It depends on what the reasoning is. If it's being done to manipulate the partner or harm them, then yes it's abuse. But if you're not attracted to them or you just don't want sex for some reason the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 10:02 AM
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I understand that in your relationship that it is predetermined between you and your partner that you should have a safety net provided by your husband should you decide that things aren't working out. but... If anything happened I would expect 6 months of money ... if she gave everything up to take care of family, she at least needs a safety net until she finds a job. I don't think that this attitude should simply be the default in relationships. Women aren't stupid or helpless. And it's not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 09:56 AM
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while anyone deprived of food and shelter (the basic needs money allows to be met) will die, if deprived for a sufficient length of time. You're not comparing similar levels of "deprivation". You're taking this to an extreme, and outside of first world relationships. You can take every single first world couple and have the moneymaker deprive their partner of their money, and not a single person will die. Having access to your partner's money is not a "basic need", it's "nice to have" in the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 09:42 AM
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Hmm. I can't help but think that if interpreted in a bluepill frame, your field report would be evidence to the fact that not all women are attracted to RP qualities, and not all women care about your "alphaness", money, or physical attractiveness, considering she broke up with you (or at least wanted to break up with you, even if it was mutual) and went to a beta 4/10 with no solid career. Regardless, I'm happy that you're doing well.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 08:59 AM
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I'm currently reading The Way of the Superior Man, and pretty much everything he is speaking about lines up with RP ideology, but the dynamic he describes is between the feminine and masculine rather than man and woman. He says that his advice applies to all relationships between those identified with the feminine or masculine, and that doesn't necessarily mean that the man is identified with his masculine. Whether there's truth to it, I don't know, but the fact that this author goes out of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 07:18 AM
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abuse - use (something) to bad effect or for a bad purpose; misuse. alternatively treat (a person or an animal) with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly. There are situations in which "physical assault" outside of self-defence does not fit these descriptions. You can most certainly hit someone for a good effect or for a good purpose, with love in your heart. My father spanked me as a child with love in his heart, and he meant it when he said "This is going to hurt me more tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 02:28 AM
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because they can make themselves believe the made up situation. This is what fucking scares me so much about the female brain. In my childhood my mother was pretty "crazy", but it's the type of crazy that is all too common among women who are shittesting their men. Here's my story: The worst two incidents nearly got my dad imprisoned. One on a charge of child molestation, and one on a charge of domestic abuse in which she narrowly escaped him tying her to a chair, pouring gasoline on her, and bu…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 11:29 PM
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Is it dismissed or ignored? When I've seen it discussed, people aren't simply dismissing it as a phase, but rather saying that it's an inevitable phase that must be moved through if you're going to become truly RP/alpha. They're not dismissing it as illogical, or not part of the process of "awakening" like you would when you dismiss a teenager's emo phase, but rather accepting it as the initial consequence of hearing harsh truths. I think the context that it's being dismissed in is over debates …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 10:58 PM
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I think the problem a lot of people are going to have with this question, or the debate, is really over the meaning of "reason". Those who say "No, there is no reason to ever hit your SO" mean are interpreting reason to mean "justification" whereas those who say "Yes, there are plenty of reasons to hit your SO" are probably interpreting reason to mean "cause" or "purpose". So yes, hitting your SO could serve countless beneficial purposes, many of which could be in the benefit of both parties in …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 07:22 AM
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I thought it might have been ADD as well, but considering that it was only pertaining to books I was always afraid to see a doc about it because it totally sounds like something a kid would make up to get out of his reading assignments, or at least use as an excuse for not reading. It's not like reading books is necessary at all anyway. I get educated enough though other sources. I think the whole "reading makes you smarter" thing that people commonly think isn't accurate either. It can certainl…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:34 AM
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Some people have a much more difficult time reading than listening to an audiobook, and I'm one of them. I don't know if it's a medical condition, or if it's just from being on the internet so much, but ever since around the 8th grade I couldn't pay attention to books. It's not that I wasn't interested in them, it's that my brain would start thinking about things tangentially related to the topic while I was still reading words in the book without paying attention to them. I'd wind up 15 minutes…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 07:39 PM
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I'm currently listening to "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida and it seems pretty RP.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 07:35 PM
0

Well it's not as though I'd oppose satire, but it would serve a different purpose. A bluepiller's purpose might be to poke fun at redpill by making a satirical post which would go out of the way to be ridiculous with bluepill terminology and ideologies because that's how they see the redpill. My purpose is to try to prove the correctness of the bluepill in the same way the redpill does, without sounding ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 01:38 AM
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This doesn't seem like a pussy pass to me. That's a pretty severe punishment, given that she was doing it out of stupidity and kindness rather than malice. Appropriate punishment in my books.
/r/PussyPass19/12/14 10:46 PM
3

Interesting: Lopadotemachoselachogaleokranioleipsanodrimhypotrimmatosilphioparaomelitokatakechymenokichlepikossyphophattoperisteralektryonoptekephalliokigklop Interesting indeed, Autowikibot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 02:15 AM
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I think this should have been clarified in the original post, because your post comes off as if you're feeling entitled to sex with specific individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 07:23 AM
2

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 11:59 PM
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but if this is how most users interpret TRP it would behoove the sub to stop describing themselves as purveyors of "the truth" I'd also like to add that I don't think that it's untrue. I think the majority of what is said over there has a decent amount of truth to it, but whether or not it's true is simply beside the point. The point is that it works, and accepting it as true will get you laid. Even if the philosophy is scientifically unproven, or even shown to be false, it still works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 09:35 PM
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Whether or not it's true is beside the point to me. To me, simply accepting it as true doesn't have any harmful side-effects that I can think of, and only serves as a motivator to improve oneself with the idea that 80% of the dudes aren't getting laid, and you could become the 20% that gets 80% of the chicks with enough hard work. And that's how I interpret a lot of what TRP says. I interpret their claims as likely speculation and not scientifically proven to be true, but that the claims if acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 06:37 PM
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So what makes you think they're not helping betas improve themselves?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 05:14 PM
1

Not Obese Likes me Not a bitch Open minded Being open minded is a huge one to me. I like that shit. Other than that I'm not picky. I've never had a serious relationship though. It'd be cool if she were enthusiastic enough that her enthusiasm helped with my depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 01:01 PM
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As a reader of this post, what point am I supposed to take away from this?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 12:53 PM
2

I had the exact same thought about This thread 2 weeks ago where a guy explains how he refuses to help a girl and her friends take a picture until they say the "magic word." As I'm passing [This ungrateful girl, she] says 'Can you take a picture of us?'. I say 'sure but whats the magic word?' in a bit of a playful tone and smiling, and gesturing that I'm ready to take her phone / camera. Ungrateful responds - 'You mean please??? I already said 'can you'?! I say, again playfully, 'Hmmm not quite …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 12:32 PM
1

When did I call you a name?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 03:42 AM
1

You can have an entitled attitude regardless of saying please and thank you, and you can not say them and not be acting entitled. What does paying have anything to do with it? You're not entitled to a favor just because you pay for it, no matter the amount. You're full of shit too.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 03:28 AM
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I enjoy how you made up fake statistics to back up your point. That's rather amusing. This is completely normal behaviour for a socially dominant person. The difference being I put a number estimate on mine whereas you just said it was completely normal. And it's not fake statistics, it's a estimation of my personal experiences with similar social interactions, and it should be taken as such. Hence why I said "I think". He was simply being playful while at the same time not being a complete door…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 04:24 PM
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This is completely normal behaviour for a socially dominant person. What is normal behavior for a socially dominant? Refusing to help someone until they say the "magic word"? I think the normal behavior for 99% of people is to say "Sure! No problem." when asked for a minor favor. So unless you're going to constrain being socially dominant to that 1% of people, I'd say that this is completely normal behavior for socially domineering people. People who are going out of their way to be try to be al…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:45 PM
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You likely just came off as a dick, and her response is completely rational... not entitled at all. I know if I were to grab the attention of another man (or anyone for that matter) with "Hey, can you take a picture of us", I wouldn't say "please", and I'd probably think he was a complete dick if he refused to help until I said the fucking "magic word". This thread is full of shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 04:45 AM
1

Mostly Redpiller here. I agree with this. It's not so much about teaching not to rape, but about teaching the value of empathy. I think those who empathize more with others would be much less likely to rape. Besides, having the ability to empathize with others is an incredibly valuable skill to have on its own, and if explained properly, it shouldn't be too difficult to convince someone that it's worth learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/14 10:56 PM
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In a world without such ramifications I think a lot of red pill men would be rapists. Yeah, no shit. So would bluepill people. You're literally saying the equivalent of "If you remove the negative consequences an action, then more people will do that action". No fucking way! In a world where feminists and bluepillers could seek out and murder men who don't bend to their every desire, without consequences, I think a lot of them would be murderers. It's unfortunate that you're a bluepiller, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/14 10:50 PM
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Two. Cis-scum and the enlightened.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 06:47 PM
2

I don't know if he was "accused of a crime", but it seems like pushing a girl's head into your crotch would be sexual assault very easily. And honestly, even though I'm a fan of RSD, I'm having a difficult coming up with a counter-argument to calling it assault without researching exactly the circumstances that he did it in or how far he went.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:14 AM
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You're right. I shouldn't be simplifying it like that, that sarcasm wasn't helpful and wasn't funny.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:10 AM
2

That's sad. What an unfortunate situation. Nobody will give him the chance of the day to explain his situation, unless they already know what he was about. All they'll see is a confirmation of their preconceived notions about PUAs as sexual predators and/or rapists. I don't watch as much of Julien's stuff as I do Owen's, but when I'm watching Owen's I get this overwhelming sense that he's genuinely working from a place of love, and that he's using the PUA platform to share powerful lessons that …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:53 PM
1

Crime? His crime was being a white cis male rape oppressor. We all know that any male with a sexuality is instantaneously a rapist. That's evidence enough.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:43 PM
2

... Okay? Pickles aren't Lamb meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 08:29 PM
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But part of me is being an insecure person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 07:40 PM
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she has mentioned him before, and she praises the doctor aspect It's arguable whether or not she has expressed interest before, but without even going that far, let's pretend she DID express interest before. Could you explain how her mentioning him in the context of admiring him is a shittest? And please, refrain from downvoting me again. I'm asking a sincere question here.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:03 AM
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I'm not sure I understand this. Can someone explain it further to me? How is her talking about some dude that she admires for being awesome while having no mentioned direct communication or contact with him constitute a shit test? To me, it just sounds like she's conveying her frustration with being a simple student, and that she thinks it's awesome that someone else is going and saving people, regardless of gender.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:42 AM
1

/r/gue used to be halfway decent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 08:33 PM
1

well it kind of does if they can point to those tech companies and say "we want that too" Yeah, it influences public opinion, and the public can want that stuff, but the companies are well within their right to simply refuse that service, and continue about business as usual. It's a stupid idea, and it frustrates me that the big tech companies are pandering to the SJW feminist bullshit. I wouldn't say it's a stupid idea. It just accomplishes different goals than what you think would be right for…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:57 AM
1

Thanks for this post! That's an interesting way of thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:21 AM
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I understand the point that you're trying to make, but it's also worth noting that you're comparing "Tech Companies" to the individual choices of two specific tech companies. They're not representative of the whole, and their choice to support female workers doesn't affect other tech companies.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:15 AM
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"TRP is just like these actual sciences that practice actual scientific theory" vs TRP is more like the social sciences That one word change makes quite the difference, especially if you're quoting me. So it depends on what you define as really being "pseudoscience". So like I said, it depends on your definition of what a pseudoscience is. If you're using the definition I provided, I don't think it's innacurate to say TRP is more like the social sciences, because nobody is mistakenly regarding t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 06:47 PM
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Pseudoscience - a collection of beliefs or practices mistakenly regarded as being based on scientific method. I don't think a majority of TRPers see their beliefs as being based on scientific method, but rather that the underlying principles are scientific, and their beliefs are interpreted with respect to experience in the world and with relation to the underlying principles. So it depends on what you define as really being "pseudoscience". I'd say TRP is more like the social sciences like soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 12:00 PM
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Redpill puts women on a pedestal just as much, the difference is that once in that position they pelt these women with excrements to proclaim their own superiority over them. The pedestal is a metaphor for viewing women as near perfect, or superior to oneself, or maybe with an angelic/godly sense to them. Not a metaphor for putting them in the spotlight. You wouldn't throw shit at someone "on a pedestal", or proclaim superiority over them, because putting them on a pedestal is proclaiming their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 04:18 PM
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Putting women on a pedestal is not redpill. Do you agree or disagree? I'm using the world "bluepill" to mean "not redpill", and you're making the hugest fucking fuss over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 03:39 PM
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You seem so defensive about the core beliefs of what it means to be "bluepill". I don't get the point, does bluepill really have any beliefs at all other than its opposition to redpill? /r/TheBluePill is a satire of /r/TheRedPill and the strategies discussed on that particular sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 03:27 PM
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and it's certainly not valid grounds to dismiss a response out of hand. I'm dismissing it because it's not the point of the post whatsoever. It's a completely minor and off-topic argument that has no place here. I'm completely fine with replacing "bluepill" with "not redpill" in my original post, and you can assume that's what I meant in all 3 of the places.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 03:24 PM
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This is just an argument over semantics. Bluepill was created in opposition of redpill, and redpillers often simply refer to anything that isn't redpill as being bluepill. Therefore everyone who does not identify as redpill must believe it? But no, not identiifying as redpill doesn't mean you are bluepill, or put women on a pedestal at all. You of all people should know that, with your "Green Pill Alien" tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 02:43 PM
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Because it's not redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 05:05 AM
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Well why don't we survey a bit of TRP? It's bound to be a biased survey, because only certain type of people will respond, and there's bound to be plenty of trolls but I think you could at least disprove the "handful of manosphere bloggers" idea. I consider myself mostly redpill, although I have myself tagged as purple pill since I only agree with redpill at surface level, I haven't really read everything in the sidebar, and I don't quite know how literally everything should be taken. In my inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 05:24 AM
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And last I checked, men cheat, too. What does this have anything to do with anything? This isn't an emotional fight over whether or not men are better than women. You are trying so hard to make the reality that, of course women, and men, too, are going to be attracted to other people even when they're in a relationship, something deeper, weirder, and more sinister than it really is. No, I'm not. I don't see it as sinister in any way, it is what it is, it's human nature. What I'm doing is simply …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 02:33 PM
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but it's sort of ridiculous for you to insist that deep down I'm hypergamous when I'm telling you that I'm not. But that's the thing. Your conscious mind is the one telling me that you're not hypergamous. That's separate from what's "deep down". That's the entire point of the post; your conscious mind can't speak for your subconscious as easily as what you think it thinks it can. And I'm not saying that I can speak for your subconscious better than you can. I'm not insisting that you're hypergam…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 08:52 PM
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Have you considered that you might be misinterpreting what you think RP beliefs are? Aside from your opinion that their views are "toxic", I think it's likely that your idea that their views include labeling women as lesser beings than males is not what the majority of them actually think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 07:38 AM
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The RP idea behind women being "hypergamous", leaving their SOs for someone else merely for status or money, or cheating is that these are subconscious thoughts, not conscious ones. I believe that you're being 100% honest when you think you wouldn't leave your SO for someone with more status or money, but when someone with more perceived status than your current SO comes along, redpill theory is that your subconscious mind will influence your conscious mind toward that person with higher status,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:55 AM
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Me? What are you attacking me for? I'm pretty clearly marked as purple pill am I not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:13 AM
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Considering juswannabeanony misrepresented what RP beliefs are (in saying that RP believes that women are lesser), I'm going to have to agree with Bakerofpie on calling bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 12:28 AM
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Nah, only ever had 2 girlfriends, both short-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 03:24 PM
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Well tell me what you want, and there's about a 75% chance you'll want the exact opposite. Yeah, it's fine if you go hang out with your friends Its not fine if you go hang out with your friends I don't want anything for my birthday I want something for my birthday I just want a nice guy I want a guy with confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 12:41 AM
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Bluepill gives women what they say they want, Redpill gives women what they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 05:56 AM
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Not at all, if they are capable of being a moderator. My problem was with the idea that having a more equal number of opposing views in the moderators would fix something that doesn't really have to do with moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 07:48 PM
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Unless there is censorship going on, I don't think it matters how stacked the mod team is. I could go over and moderate /r/feminism or /r/Christianity effectively despite completely disagreeing with their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 07:29 PM
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The point is to be less biased, not to add bias to somehow counteract other bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 07:12 PM
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So both have sex, and if men can abort financially, only women will have consequences, but choices are equal No. Both men and women will have "consequences", and equal ones at that. If a man has sex, gets a woman pregnant, and wants a child, he will have a child (or "consequences"). If a man has sex, gets a woman pregnant and does not want a child, he will financially abort (or have no consequences). If a woman has sex, gets pregnant, and wants a child, she will have a child (or "consequences").…
/r/MensRights22/04/14 10:19 PM
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But aren't many women this way because they never had the chance to actually grow a personality thanks to society telling them what they should behave like since they were babies? In part, yes, I get where you're coming from but as far as physical attraction goes, I think her own personal preferences have just as much to do with it as society does. Whether or not men are told to like fit, healthy women by society, they will end up finding these traits attractive. The same goes for women, and att…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 12:06 PM
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Thing is, the idea of leaving him and never getting to see him ever again... That's more than I am willing to go for. What I really want is to be able to check in on him from time to time, make sure he's allright. Make sure he doesn't think too bad of me. I'm not attracted to him anymore. I love him. He is a big part of my life. But not in a physical way. You want a beta orbiter backup plan. I changed a lot throughout our years together (gotten my degree, started working, got fired) and am havin…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 08:33 PM
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No. As many horror stories I've heard of men who thought they were in loving relationships and having their partner turn to an evil manipulative bitch who takes them for everything they're worth, no. I don't trust the opposite gender, or even specific people of the opposite gender that I've gotten close to, because if so many other men have been incapable of distinguishing a manipulative bitch from a nice girl, then I don't really trust myself enough to be able to tell the difference. I'm more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/14 10:00 PM
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Wtf? It's completely logical. Guys will go further than women will because they desire sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 08:31 PM
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And that's the difference. Guys would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 07:43 PM
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Okay.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:45 PM
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"Trigger"
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:40 PM
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You sound bitter bro.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:03 PM
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Are you a girl? If you are, and you live in the US, wanna meet me halfway and fuck somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 09:17 AM
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It's not semantics. It's two completely different things. I don't enjoy pissing, but I highly desire to piss every single day. I highly enjoy cycling and some sports, but I don't highly desire them every day that I don't have them. http://imgur.com/4PRt5zp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 08:59 AM
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Is this supposed to be a poem? If the strategy works and everyone benefits from it, that's great. But it might be beneficial to consider explaining that since you ~40 hours a week, and she works 15, that she owes an extra 25 hours of work in chores than you do. And I honestly can't see how every household chore (outside of cooking) would add up to 25 hours a week.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 07:47 PM
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She can claim abuse, rape, all sorts of things, and he gets fucked. She holds all the cards because the law is on her side. What does this have anything to do with this post, and how has what he did a solution to this problem Never had an abusive woman in your life, have you? How exactly is she abusive? "I'm okay with the current state of affairs" she replied. So I stopped taking out the trash AT ALL and even if there was a lot of it So he was helping out, she said she was happy with that, and t…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 06:13 PM
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So what you're saying is that she DOES work a job, and you're not doing your fair share of the housework. It's cool to be redpill, and I don't disagree with a relationship set up like this, but be honest with us (and yourself) when talking about this stuff. Don't set up the post misleadinig us to believe that she is being a whiny irrational bitch, when her desires are completely rational.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 03:37 PM
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Yeah, and I feel like that's probably the case, but if it's not, it's reasonable to want someone else to do their fair share. The only reason why I feel like it might be the case that he isn't doing the fair share, is the way that he writes: "this is your dog too!". She wanted it, I wanted it too, but whatever, the dog is more hers than mine. I told her I am not going to walk it. Unless I want to do that. "Just like the kids?!" she asked with anger. "Yes, just like the kids". It sounds like he's…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 02:37 PM
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I can't help but think that she wasn't wrong for wanting you to do your fair share of work around the house with the kids, dogs, and trash, but you didn't fully mention what your situation is. If she's not working... well that's HER job, but if you're both working jobs you should be doing your fair share.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 01:59 PM
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A related vid from RSD Tyler that is tangentially related. I read this article and watched the video back to back and I feel like it might help others to do the same.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 10:04 AM
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Enjoying sex =/= desiring sex Not to mention, it's just the assumptions of the question, to make the answers more uniform and related to the actual question, rather than some side topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/14 07:07 AM
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What does a suspended sentence mean exactly? The Wiki page leads me to believe that it means she won't have to serve her sentence at all, given she doesn't try to murder anyone again in 4 years. Aww that's okay honey, just try not to brutally stab someone again, mmmkay?
/r/PussyPass12/04/14 10:18 PM
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Why are you here? You're clearly not interested in debating anything purple pill. We know people oppose it, you're adding NOTHING of value to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 08:38 PM
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I think I get what you're trying to say... but your wording is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 02:22 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 01:42 PM
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Maybe making moves isn't a masculine trait as much as it is a logical trait.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:35 AM
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I really don't see how you rationalize Rationalize - attempt to explain or justify (one's own or another's behavior or attitude) with logical, plausible reasons, even if these are not true or appropriate. It's not about saying that they're right or wrong, he's trying to give insight on HOW women/feminists think. Rationalizing something doesn't mean that you're saying that it was acceptable or true, but that you are showing how certain decisions are made given a specific mindset. For example if y…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:25 AM
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Thank you for this. I really love this kind of stuff, and it's fantastic when someone is able to give me insight on a different way of looking at things. You didn't really say anything I didn't already know, but you phrased it in a way that made it easier to understand how someone could think that way.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:18 AM
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It's not more praiseworthy than sex, it's what leads to sex. If you can't trust someone, then it makes sex less appealing, as there are a lot of ways a sexual encounter can go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 12:53 AM
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Perhaps you read her post wrong, but she's saying you should prioritize trust and romance, instead of sex. You can still be horny but have different priorities other than sex in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 07:07 PM
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Wait... there are places on the internet where trolls DON'T exist? Sign me up for one internet safe space please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 07:02 PM
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The biggest difference I saw was that I didn't get messages from men pretending to be lesbians. Really? That was the biggest difference? Not the whole difference between getting 40 messages a day to getting 2 a month? I'm going to have to call bullshit on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 07:01 PM
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I do know that. That's not the point of this post though. And how is that strategy not applicable to online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 06:22 PM
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Current results: Number of first messages from opposite sex Number of messages sent Percentage of positive replies Percentage of dates accepted Percentage of casual sex accepted 0 0 0 0 Examples of messages sent/received: empty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 06:12 PM
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21/Male Status: Not swapped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 06:09 PM
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Nobody was asking for my advice on how to get laid, so I'm not going to give it. TBP/PP women: If you were a man, how would you go about getting laid? wat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 05:57 PM
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Just that simple eh? I could have sworn I was doing that all along but I must not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 05:55 PM
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There's an awful lot of bitterness in your OP Unless he's edited the post, I'm not seeing where he's bitter in any way. He posed a question and stated the assumptions, where does any of his emotions come into this at all? ask someone to come home with you if you want to sleep with them. Is it really that simple though? How would you ask? "Would you like to come home and sleep with me?", would that really work on you? See, I have a feeling that would have a low success rate because it doesn't giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 05:52 PM
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Lol, so what she's saying is if she wanted to get laid as a man, she would just go on craigslist and pick out a girl to get laid, that simple. But she would never be that type of girl to go and get laid on craigslist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 05:47 PM
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And how do you date good friends? Newsflash: women also enjoy sex. Who is saying they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 05:45 PM
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Are you in the right thread? What does this have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 05:44 PM
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I have no idea how our ages suddenly got involved in this. I don't ever remember being told your age not did I ever tell you mine Since I've been a man longer than you have TBP/PP women: If you were a man, how would you go about getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 05:42 PM
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I think that a redpill thinker would think "If she's not into me, she's not into me. Next.", because they have the mentality of having an abundance of women, but perhaps I'm confusing that with the RSD Nation thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 06:03 AM
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The other one in this thread you called out as not being RP I agreed with, but I don't think it's fair to say this one isn't either. Definitely sounds redpill to me, but an asshole one. PUA and RP are not mutually exclusive, and often compliment each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 03:04 AM
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The first guy sounds bluepill as fuck. Anyone who chases a woman for 10 years is putting her on a pedestal in his mind, and that's the opposite of what RP is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 03:00 AM
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I agree with this. The redpill mentality is more like "Take it or leave it", not "If you don't take it, I'm going to keep going after you for 10 years". It's about NOT putting women on a pedastal... and that's exactly what he's doing. Other than him claiming he's RP, nothing about his description sounds Redpill at all to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 02:58 AM
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Idunno. The first girl I tried redpill 'tactics' on last week was really turned on by it, and she seems like a really nice girl that I would enjoy a longterm relationship with anyway. It's only 1 data point, but I also think you're confusing redpill with seduction/pickup. Everyone likes confidence. I don't think it's a minority subset of women who like redpill confidence in a man, but that it's a minority who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 02:52 AM
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There are plenty of bluepillers out there that will take her in, so no she's not doomed to live a sad unfulfilled life in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/14 05:30 AM
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I may be wrong about this, but I believe RPillers believe more in the idea that women's love isn't like men's, and if the definition of "love" is assumed to be the male version, then women don't/can't love. And I think I'd say that men and women are more similar than RPillers are willing to admit, but that they likely do love differently, or on different conditions such as success/respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/14 12:10 PM
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So is that a yes to my question? And what about my second question?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 05:29 AM
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So is that a yes to my question? And what about my second question?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:14 PM
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I mean, you can call pretty much anything shallow. If you are picky based on appearances, then you're shallow. If you choose not to date someone because they don't have a high paying job, you're shallow. If you want someone who can make you laugh, and exclude everyone who can't from your dating pool, you're shallow. Basically it's the beta's way of getting back at the people who won't choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 05:51 AM
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I mean, I don't know if what I mentioned is technically a "neg" but I don't think there's really a technical definition of a "neg" anyway. They just sound very similar to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 04:53 AM
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I'm starting to see how people don't like TRP now. If you answered her honestly then no. I initially read this as "Be deceptive, don't be honest with her", as someone from outside TRP would. But after looking back on how I handled the conversation, I realize that I wasn't outright honest with her, and I did exactly what you said. I kept the mystery and passed shit tests. What you're saying sounds so much more deceptive at face value than what it actually is. I've got a bit of a clearer picture w…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 09:33 PM
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It depends on how it's done. If you're trying to be manipulative and deceptive, using negging to lower their self confidence, she's going to see right through it and you're going to look like a creep. But you can neg, hold frame, and treat them like they're despensible without being a creepy dickhead about it. If you're playful about it all, and your intentions aren't to trick them into sleeping with you, but rather to just have a good time, then it will work out better. For example, something I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/14 09:23 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OA1PLU_p8vs#t=79
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:41 PM
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By the fourth sentence she was prying for my major, and mentioned that I'd probably make a lot of money in Engineering. By the 6th sentence, she was asking basically whether or not I was successful (if I had a job, car, good grades). All of my past successes have been moments where I was accidentally alpha. Isn't that stuff redpill topics?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:05 AM
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Well as far as the apologist bullshit goes, we might be referring to different things. I don't think most of the basic principles are bad, but I've seen a lot of very questionable stuff on this subreddit by its users. this sub is for people who have no problem accepting it without debate. As far as that goes, perhaps Xein was right to refer me to PurplePillDebate, but I don't think it's wise to accept something without questioning it. I assume you mean that this sub is for people who have alread…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:09 PM
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Maybe so.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 04:02 AM
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We have different perspectives on this. You are misinterpreting the English language.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:09 AM
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He didn't have quotes around the word "can". In the English language, the quotes: I said can and I said "can". have different meanings. The former means "I said [the meaning of can]", and the latter means "I said [the literal word 'can']"
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:57 AM
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I don't really agree with this. I think it goes along with society's influence on women. They're taught and raised from birth that they will be safe and protected by someone else. There's always some nice person that will magically pop up to save the damsel in distress if any problem arises. I don't necessarily think that it's sexism in either their favor or against them, it just is what it is. That's just my theory.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:44 AM
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Synonyms for "can" go to the verb tab "be able" be capable of
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:13 AM
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Yeah, I mean it's completely plausible, and I don't have any more reason to disbelieve it than to believe it, but you've gotta admit that it fits so perfectly with the things here that it's suspicious.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:17 PM
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No but really, what about men? I said they do, but that's not what we're talking about. Why are you getting upset about something that has nothing to do with you... or does it? The sister had a valid point. And her point is what, exactly?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:08 PM
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I was with you up until the last paragraph. "Women need men to take charge because women just spend their whole time fighting amongst themselves." That sounds too stereotypically redpill to be true, forgive me, but I'm calling bullshit on this one actually happening. Regardless it's a good story that can be learned from.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:02 PM
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So is that a yes to my question? And what about my second question?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:54 PM
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So is that a yes to my question? And what about my second question?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 02:51 PM
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A lot of these aren't even really rights to be fought for, but rather random, specific statistics of 'bad things' that aren't a matter of equality, but whatever. Only 6 months off for maternity leave Often no paternity leave A woman's chance of being raped in the U.S.: 1 in 5 A man's chance of being raped in the U.S. : 0, because men can't be raped. Number of states in which rapists can sue for custody and visitation: 31 Number of states in which men can't sue for a financial/parental abortion: …
/r/MensRights30/03/14 02:49 PM
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Ah, gotchya, haha, I see what you were going for now. Leave it the way it is, I'm sure most others will understand it.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 01:39 PM
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My frame is fine, my game is strong. This tenet is truth. That sounds cultish as fuck. So do you literally believe: Men are capable of extraordinary love and have the ability to consider consequences beyond their immediate desires and emotional state. All Women, on the other hand, will give up agency to the right alpha. If so, what sources do you have that prove this? I haven't gone through all of the sidebar stuff, but I'd be willing to bet there's no scientific study that says women's brains a…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 01:36 PM
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Hey now, let's not bring Latin into this. She's having a hard enough time using English.
/r/MensRights30/03/14 01:29 PM
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Your comment confused me at first. Maybe it was a bit ambiguous or maybe I'm tired. Tell me if my clarification is misinterpreted: [Edited to correct interpretation for future readers] They viewed the world as if they were men, and it terrified them. I wonder if they've come to like having the male "privilege" they talk so much about.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 01:27 PM
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It is nice that you, a man What does me being a man have anything to do with anything? Kinda sounds sexist that you are implying that being a man is in some way negative, or in some way makes my argument invalid. who is not a feminist is telling feminists what they are fighting for I'm not telling any feminists what they are fighting for at all. I'm talking about the method that feminists are using to fight for the rights that they fight for, as defined both by feminism, and your comment which s…
/r/MensRights30/03/14 01:18 PM
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I didn't see the second part of your post until now. Personally I don't feel there is a huge amount they are discriminated against for. What about College admission rates/quotas? Workplace death rates? Suicide rates? Homelessness? False rape accusations? Female support groups? Creeper shaming? That's 6 things, just off the top of my head in a minute and a half.
/r/MensRights30/03/14 12:58 PM
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We are fighting to be equal, that's what the name means. Yes and no though. In my experience, feminists don't fight for overall equality to men. They pick and choose specific rights to raise to what they think will be equal to that of men's, while ignoring the rights that women have that men don't. Let's put it like this: There are muticolored marbles on either side of a scale. There are 3 green, 2 red, and 1 blue on the left. On the right there are 2 yellow, 2 green, 1 red, and 1 blue. The scal…
/r/MensRights30/03/14 12:45 PM
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Oh boy, this will go well! I'll bite. Why do you call yourself a feminist, and not an egalitarian? What things do you think men are discriminated against for? (if any)
/r/MensRights30/03/14 11:54 AM
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I disagree. I prefer debating people on issues that are important to me, whether or not they're convinced in the end that I'm right. I think there's a lot of important things to be learned from argument, and I know I've benefited greatly in my life from it. The most important being solidifying my beliefs in the things I'm arguing about, while exploring other possibilities. If I argue a point, I think more critically about the topic that it's on. I delve deeper into why I think the things that I …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:36 AM
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She said that she expected Mutual Friend to take care of her, which clearly he didn't. Wat. I'm completely floored that girls think this way. And I was also floored the first few times I went out to bars with groups of friends. There was occasionally a girl in our group that would get just completely blackout drunk beyond belief, in a city that she didn't know, miles away from where she was staying for the night. It was just expected by her that everyone else take care of her. She didn't have a …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:25 AM
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“WTF? This is how women are. Am I gonna start dating men?” No. this is what I signed up for. You have to wonder though, if it's how women are, or how people are. Nobody likes to hear anyone bitch about things that are going wrong, the people around them are not going to enjoy it, and unless being supportive is directly on their mind, they will want to get away from it. "I got to know my feminine side. Then I choked the bitch to death." (From another comment in this thread) You have to really won…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 05:10 AM
3

Yeah, idunno about this one myself. I've given my fair share of arguments both for and against TRP but it seems like a bit overboard to make such a wide generalization. I have a little bit of a feeling that some of the people who are upvoting the thought that "all women will give up agency to the right alpha" are doing it because it's a good mentality to adopt when you're trying to become an alpha, as when you fail at connecting with someone, then you blame yourself for not being the right alpha…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:48 AM
2

Everyman is capable
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:31 AM
0

Perhaps it's not even the value derived from it due to rarity, but rather that they're simply noticed. And perhaps the value stems from having more attention in their direction.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:46 AM
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This guy clearly hasn't played League of Legends. But yeah, video games can be great, but it's easy for them to be your 'quick fix' like a druggie. I know a lot of my unhappiness comes from LoL, but I can't quit.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:43 AM
2

So can Red Pill theory not be applied as a general philosophy to life for purposes outside of getting laid? Such as maintaining a healthier lifestyle, or even a healthier longterm relationship?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:34 PM
3

Your goal is to put your penis into vagina. Nothing else matters. I don't really get this. Are you saying that one should adopt that mindset for one's life, or simply a mindset for one to adopt for the night to get laid?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:19 PM
1

I'm also new to TRP, and I hold a lot of the same ideas that most people here do, but I don't necessarily see the endgame of TRP being "bang as many chicks as you can." I see it as a different, possibly more healthy way at looking at life. Remove the bullshit from your life, take a step back and really analyze what makes you and others tick. Realize that women don't abide by the same logic and emotions that men do, and that the things you find attractive in a girl (or in a guy as a friend) are n…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:17 PM
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Shrooms may have saved me from suicide. I've been depressed for over 4 years, and about a year ago I was at my worst. I turned to shrooms as a "Fuck it" last resort knowing that there were many people who have had it help with depression. It was one of the most fantastic experiences of my life, I just stayed home and played games, but I had a massively widened mind, and had the overwhelming feeling of having the raincloud over my head, that is depression, taken away. I saw the world for what it …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 04:28 AM
1

Patrice O'Neal demonstrated it best when he asked an entire crowd of women what they would do to keep their man if he was thinking of leaving them, most of them said they would fuck him. Does this really mean that women objectify themselves, or is it that they don't know any better? I mean, if women are constantly told they're nothing more than fuckholes, and that the only thing men want from them is sex, then why would they be expected to respond to a question like that any differently? I don't…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 09:46 AM
1

Wat
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 05:14 AM
3

Maybe I'm not understanding this comment, but are you trying to say that female children have less common sense than males?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 04:06 AM
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http://www.stuff.co.nz/the-press/news/9823448/Lucille-Scollay-jailed-for-manslaughter 6 years
/r/PussyPass16/03/14 03:07 AM
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Wait, so the video you're talking about is the news cast and not some surveillance footage? ... I mean, there was only two witnesses there, and one of them wasn't there to see the actual shooting. So I wouldn't be so quick to say it was in self defense, even if he was attacked. If someone attacks you, and you pull a gun, and they begin to flee, and you shoot them down, that's not self defense. That's murder.
/r/PussyPass16/03/14 03:04 AM
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women perceive the creeps as the socially retarded guys, the geeks, the out of shape guys, the guys with bad posture, the ugly guys, the poor guys, the unconfident guys. Oh god. No wonder I've been called a creep. Every single one of those matches me lol.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 04:44 AM
1

I miss /r/gue
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 07:38 PM
0

I explained why in another comment
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 07:32 PM
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Thanks, this is the type of validation I was looking for. Also, my main reasons for arguing about something against an opposing view is not to attempt to convince the other person of my way of thinking. That's about number 4 on my reasons for arguing.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 03:36 PM
0

I think I was justified in playing devil's advocate for this subreddit, I feel like I understand the general principles, and that's often enough to defend a point of view.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 03:32 PM
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I'm not so worried about the downvotes as people here seem to think I am. I get downvoted all the time for other unpopular opinions I have, and it honestly doesn't bother me at all when I know that I've argued my point well and I know what I'm talking about. I'm just more worried that I could have missed something important, as I'm new to TRP, and I was just looking for a fresh set of eyes.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 03:29 PM
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I strongly disagree that I'm wasting my time with the arguments, I listed some reasons here. But TL;DR is I enjoy it, I learn a lot from it. As far as posting here being a waste of time, I don't know. Although TRP isn't a solidified set of rules, it would be nice to get a thumbs up that I haven't misinterpreted the things that I've read here.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:32 AM
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I don't argue to try to convert people as much as I do for the sake of argument. I love arguing about various topics, as it really helps me solidify what my opinion on an issue is. A lot of times, people think they believe one thing, and they simply don't think about it too much or consider counterarguments, and when they do they realize that they didn't endorse the idea as much as they thought. Not to mention, discussion on these topics really gives me the ability to empathize with different li…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:29 AM
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Wasting my time in what way? Wasting my time in this post, or in the argument?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 07:47 AM
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I'm partly looking for validation because I was heavily downvoted, which often means that I've made a mistake in understanding what it is I'm talking about, in my logic, or in my interpretation of the person's comment. And I'm partly looking for those who are more experienced to tell me if I'm missing the point of TRP, or if I'm wrong about something, so that I can better understand the ideas. You use a plethora of buzz words without proper understanding of their use. I'm not familiar with buzz …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 07:13 AM
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I don't get the point of this post
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 06:07 AM
3

But... But I believe in gay rights and I'm an atheist. That means I'm open-minded and tolerant, right?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 05:48 AM
3

I tried to debate with a few of the people there, and while I don't have a complete grasp on the concept of TheRedPill, I feel like the most common misunderstanding about it is that we're following this advice to trick women into sleeping with us. It seems that the people who really have a problem with TRP are the ones who misunderstand us and our motives. Although I may not know the full story, as I haven't been around for very long.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 05:43 AM
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I have a feeling you didn't read my entire post. Like I said, I'm not against it, but so consciously and purposefully assigning a value to each person and considering them of no value if they don't benefit you just gives off that vibe to me. That's all.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 10:33 AM
2

"I do think it's a form of cyberbullying even though she wasn't a direct recipient of those messages on Facebook," Yes, you read that right. You can be bullied without even being interacted with. I also love that the screenshots were from a camera/phone picture of a screen. The person who took the pictures was too stupid to figure out how to take an actual screenshot. Not surprising though.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 10:20 AM
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