| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 26 | FR - Coffee Date and LMR | Field Report | Puck357 | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 11:49 PM |
| 5 | [FR] - Supposed to meet up with friends. Didn't happen, first time solo. | Puck357 | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 07:20 PM | |
| 5 | From low to high to somewhere in between [FR] | Puck357 | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 03:05 AM | |
| 2 | # Closed A Cougar last night, Go for the f-close today? | Puck357 | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 07:09 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| -1 | Funny lines to use if a girl keeps walking after you approach her?Seriously? If she keeps blowing you off/walking away its over and you need to move on, not make her more uncomfortable than she already is. | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Economics can help you get laid: Why you don't take risks.as a risk averse dude in a bit of a slump........this is awesome!! | /r/seduction | 12/09/13 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl's perspective: how to avoid needy/clingy girlsI feel like this works both ways. You can have a girl do all those same things (and she doesn't even have to be dating multiple people) and it turns unconfident or lonely guys into a ball of putty.....or playdoh. I find people with less going on (ie. are less busy/not as social) are much more susceptible to this | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 10:14 PM |
| 1 | So I don't want to approach girls anymore...Hey man sounds rough. Here is my 2c, hopefully it helps a bit. I apply the principles of seduction to my everyday life. I have found that I like myself more and that people like to be around me more. At one point I too thought that the key was to throw yourself into social situations and "fake it til you make it". Everyone is different, some like it but I cannot go out and apply it all the time. Instead I focused on doing what I want to do and it's always fun if someone wants to do it with me. F… | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 02:27 AM |
| 1 | FR - Coffee Date and LMRI'll keep this in mind for next time it happens | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 11:31 PM |
| 2 | New Year's kiss stories: Tell us your own mini FRs.Seems like you got more trashed than you planned. Shit happens. As long as you learned a bit about yourself (ie. how much you can handle) this hopefully shouldn't happen again. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 09:55 PM |
| 1 | New Year's kiss stories: Tell us your own mini FRs.My roommates and I had a party and I invited a girl who I see some potential with. It was around 3:45 when this happened and she was pretty drunk, I was high on MDMA and was feeling prettttyyy good. Anyway, she wanted to go outside for a smoke. Up to now there was lots of touching, leaning on me, seeking me out and joining the circles I was socializing in at the party...etc. We got out for the cigarette and she is making eyes at me. I lead with one or two misc questions about the night (cliche s… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 09:06 PM |
| 2 | How to get yourself out of a "funk" quickly?this guy.. this guy knows whats up I give myself a similar pep talk when those "OMG Pleaassseeee go my way" thoughts start to creep up. It's about the journey, not the destination. It is easy to get caught up in the moment, but in a week will you really care about this date? How bout in a month? A year? | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 11:25 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop being envious of better looking people? [Inner Game Help]Hey man, I commented a bunch in your thread yesterday about this exact same issue.. I will try and be more concise here: If you think you are ugly and act like you think an ugly person would act then you will be insecure. Insecure is worse than ugly. It gets pity, not respect..and definately not pussy (or whatever your looking for). If you act like you want (and not how you think others think you should act) it won't matter cause she will be so impressed with how awesome you are that she will ju… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 11:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm terrified that I'm not good enough...No. My ugly friends can pull better than me and they arent into this PUA stuff. Glover is a boss, and he is fuckin ripped. Even if it is looks, at this point it's time to find something you can actually improve upon. Unless you have a whole mess of cash lying around for surgury you gotta work with what you are given. It's a mindframe, and it's tricky. But it is possible, and gets easier as you get used to feeling that you actually are awesome. Evenetually you will start to believe it. I'm sure y… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 12:53 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified that I'm not good enough...so clearly looks are NOT the problem. Get a hobby, do fun shit with your friends for fun, go running, go to the gym, go swimming, go cycling, go to art shows, go to music shows.... go do stuff! If looks are not the problem then you are one step closer to finding out what the problem is and crushing it. It's what self improvement is all about :) good luck | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 11:40 PM |
| 2 | I'm terrified that I'm not good enough...Decent looking over here.. and I can say that it is fucking sad when you realize that the main reason you aren't having success with women is that your personality is shitty (or worse.....boring) My point is: good looks != win | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 10:45 PM |
| 0 | "All you ever want to do is have sex!"holy shit way to fucking own that! i wish i could just say that to the girl I'm kinda seeing now (many sexual hangups and she just shuts down completely when it...comes up), oh well it's time to move on. It's not even that this is a great "line" its just you saying how you feel and that is fucking commendable | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 10:12 PM |
| 2 | "Your thoughts are not you" OR "Stop listening to your scumbag brain"that quote on meditation is awesome! i'm gonna start reading it every day til it sticks. Thanks for the inspiration! | /r/seduction | 28/09/12 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Need help with some texting"what the hell was that supposed to mean" "Let's grab a drink Thursday and maybe I'll tell you" I'm not sure exactly what I woudl say in that situation but at this point you have nothing to lose. You could try and salvage it and then ask her out in a few texts but why beat around the bush... if she agrees to meet up she is definately into you so you don't need to worry about that. If not who gives a fuck. It was 1 text and she seems to take herself way too seriously. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one who thinks "# closing" isn't really any kind of a close?getting numbers is easy (as people have said, it can be a way to get you to leave them alone). The follow up is the hard part. I hate reading FR"s that end with "awwww yeahhh I crushed it. Got her number and almost k-closed like a bauss". If it helps you progress, awsome, but that isn't results. Number closing is like making it to step 2 of a staircase. you need to pass step 2 to get to the top, but getting to step 2 doesn't mean your almost there. It means you have just begun. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 08:32 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...you are an inspiriation. way to be. fuck, heading out to somewhere you KNOW you have nothing to lose.. respect | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Advice from a friend - For those who are attracted to girls who are attracted to youYeah man, it sucks sometimes but you have really look at who you are with and not "what you have". Feelsbadman.jpg | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 03:18 AM |
| 2 | From low to high to somewhere in between [FR]Sorry for the shitty formatting.. I can't figure it out. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Need advice/help on a current situation - like her too much, how to stop worrying and act normalI was sorta seeing a girl and this situations sounds hauntingly familliar... It did not end well and I am still picking up the pieces of myself... Anyway, my chicks issues stemmed from bipolar disorder, an irrational hatred for sex (furthest I got was my fingers), and a habit of saying one thing (ie. Come over, I need to see you) and doing the complete opposite (pulling away when I go to hold her hand, sitting as far away from me as possible on a couch when it is just us, or just being cold in g… | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Long-time female lurker here: Trying to build attraction with a forever aloneThings are only awkward if you let them be... Saying things like "AWWWWWKWARRRRRRRRRD" or acknowledging it just makes it more real. As soon as you change the subject it is no longer at the forefront of your interaction and it slowly fades. Awkward happens, but if you play if off it works out (confidence helps). It's not always easy, but that is what Seddit is for :) | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 05:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Supposed to meet up with friends. Didn't happen, first time solo.Thanks. The main reason I feel...inadequate, is that I feel like I killed the attraction by coming on too strong. It's funny cause there was no rejection or anything that night to really get me down.. I just felt SUPER beta once we got into the club and couldn't get my alpha state back. | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 10:29 PM |
| 2 | [Mini FR] Freeze outs work because she wants it to work.Awsome!!!! LMR is pretty much my worst nightmare.. I have such trouble overcomming it, it makes me feel like I'm "pressuring" girls into banging which starts a sprial of negativity I can rarely recover from. At least now I have something in my toolbox to try out. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Conversations seem dry?Go out for a drink or a coffee or something.. Coffee is stimulating and can help make things a bit more interesting. Booze...well.. just don't get carried away and things will become way more interesting/exciting. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 07:43 PM |
| 2 | A thanks to seddit and motivation for new members (like myself)I too am #closing better and talking to more ppl.. I cannot wait for the F-close as it has been a while and I am getting over oneitis... But ya, this subreddit is fuckin awsome! It is slowly helping me give less fucks while being more awsome.. Two things I have wanted to do for yearssssssssssss | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Learn to pickup vibesThis would also be why you can't just "fake" confidence and turn alpha over night.... People can tell phony bullshit from the real thing... | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 09:21 PM |
| 4 | What the hell is wrong with me?As a not virgin with not much experience, I still get this feeling... From what I understand it passes once you have gotten it in enough times for the novelty to wear off. It is fucking annoying though... everything is smooth and suddently your brain chips in with something irrelevant and stupid. You gotta just keep your head down and power through. | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 07:10 PM |
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