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I'm going to be 100% real with you: Being upset over your circumcision isn't going to uncircumcise you. Obsessing over it isn't going to fix anything for you, it will only ever make you feel worse. What you CAN do is do your best to make sure it doesn't happen to anyone else. If a family member has a baby, educate them. If you have a baby, make sure you don't allow it to happen to them.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 08:08 PM
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Exactly. No tattoos. No weird piercings. You must never have done any kind of prostitution, digital or otherwise. Sign a prenup so if you ever cheat, you are out on your ass with not one cent of mine. And you know what's sad? As I'm typing this I realize how low the bar is. This is the bare minimum of what should be expected of a woman, but most women nowadays can't even meet these very basic requirements.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 05:24 PM
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Here's the thing. No reasonable person has an issue with women having their own women's activity groups. The annoying part is that whenever men try to do something similar, that's a problem. Women either want them banished or demand entry, EVERY time. It shouldn't be a hot take, but the sexes are generally different. Women should be allowed women's spaces and men should be allowed men's spaces. If women want a women's only gym or something fine, go for it, but don't beat down our doors when we d…
/r/MensRights18/05/21 11:05 PM
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Feminists: "We care about men's issues too! MRA's aren't needed, we're already doing that job" Also feminists: "Men already have perfect lives, they don't need places where they can get away and de-stress" If only they could listen to themselves and not speak in contradictions for 5 minutes.
/r/MensRights18/05/21 10:57 PM
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That's modern society for you. Positive (or hell, even neutral) portrayals of male sexuality aren't allowed. We're not allowed to have a sexuality. Women are allowed to post half naked pictures of themselves on social media, clearly seeking male attention, but by god you better not look or YOU'RE the creep.
/r/MensRights18/05/21 06:54 PM
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You do realize that this is how people meet each other, correct? You HAVE TO strike up a conversation with a stranger in order to make a friend. There is quite fucking literally no other way to go about it. So let me translate what you're ACTUALLY saying: Women are too stuck up to have human interactions. They view themselves as princesses above the lowly peasants that would wish to speak with them. Meanwhile men are starving for the slightest bit of positive attention.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 07:52 PM
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I'm sure you don't need another heartbreak, but there seems like a decent chance your daughter might not be yours. Dead bedrooms and cheating go hand in hand, and if you were having sex "only a few times a year" yet she ended up pregnant? Nuh-uh.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 04:12 PM
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Sorry, but we're going to find that pretty difficult to believe. Every conversation I've had with a feminist where I've tried to mention men's issues has gone the same way. They accuse us of derailing, whataboutism, playing the victim, hating women, being an incel etc. etc. So no. We don't believe that feminists care about men's issues. You like believing you do because it makes you feel good about yourself, but when push comes to shove feminists have never done anything for men besides make us …
/r/MensRights17/05/21 03:39 PM
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The best way I've ever seen it described is this: When feminists talk about "being equal with men" they are only talking about the top 1% of men. They don't even view the rest of us as human.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 06:55 PM
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Why is this marked as a social issue? Men (at least the ones who aren't very confused) generally WANT sex segregated bathrooms. It keeps our daughters and wives safe from perverts and it keeps us and our sons safe from harmful accusations. Under no circumstances should men and women share public bathrooms besides maybe the single occupancy ones. And even those aren't great because women forgetting to lock the door is dangerous for men.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 05:25 PM
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A broken clock is right twice a day. "Identifying" as something means about as much as a child playing pretend. Pure imagination and nothing more. I don't agree with feminists but you know what? At least TERFs stick to their ideals. From their feminist point of view a man, born as a man, with all the "privilege" of being a man could never be as "oppressed" as a woman. Therefore feminists have no reason to include them.
/r/MensRights15/05/21 03:50 PM
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If you're a man you have a big dangly target between your legs, and even a halfassed attack aimed at this target will leave you doubled over for at least the next 5 minutes. If you're not a man there's some advice for you.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 04:26 PM
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Oh I'm aware of this. I just wasn't going to say that because feminists will scream "tOxIc MaScuLinIty" if I say men get ridiculed because of fear. Not going to give them a leg to stand on on that front.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 04:22 PM
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You and me both, man. What's sad is the amount of people entirely missing the point of what I'm saying.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 03:22 PM
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Ug ug, brain come from vagina, you no have good think because no magic vagina juice. Go get vagina juice on think stick before have idea Yeah alright, you done thinking like a god damn caveman? Normally I wouldn't grace such stupidity with a reply, but here you go, just for you. It has to be said though, when your entire argument is "peepee go in hole" you don't leave much room for a response. I can't argue with that, peepee does indeed go in hole. Listen, troglodyte, I recommend you head back t…
/r/MensRights23/08/20 02:31 PM
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I know, right? I know if I was alone at night and I saw someone, anyone, even a child (maybe especially a child, because of horror movies) approaching me from the front, my fight or flight response would trigger instantly. Even if they passed me I'd keep checking behind me until they were out of sight. I just don't see how it's a sex issue.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 02:15 PM
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Yeah didn't you know? If you're being mugged just whip out your dick, they'll leave you alone.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 02:10 PM
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unfortunately this just is a thing. Rightly or wrongly, whether it’s justified or just a product of society’s bias. So even if it's wrong and a product of bias you're willing to accept it as just "a thing". Why? I guess for me it’s down to the fact that I know if I got attacked I’d have no chance of fighting someone off if they were stronger. You mean exactly like a man? Regardless of what you believe, most men also aren't prepared to fight off an attack. Especially when anyone with access to a …
/r/MensRights23/08/20 01:55 PM
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I've been there, not specifically that situation but I get you. I've learned it's best not to idolize any celebrity or public figure because at the end of the day they're just people with opinions, same as everyone else. I went through it back with Breaking Bad. One of my favorite pieces of media ever. I (and most people, from what I've seen) always found Skyler White to be kind of an obnoxious, frankly bitchy and wholly unlikable character. Then Vince Gilligan came out and said that anyone who …
/r/MensRights23/08/20 01:05 PM
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Especially nowadays. I don't give a shit how big or tough a man might be, it means nothing if the other guy is stronger, a better fighter, or has $5 and a local Walmart.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 12:33 PM
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Yeah, that's basically what I was getting at in the third paragraph. It's collective guilt combined with victim blaming. Because some men are X, the rest of us have to shut up. Because some men are rapists, we're supposed to be okay with being presumed to be rapists. Because some men are rich and influential, Jack down at the coal mine is privileged. Because some men are murderers, the rest of us have to shrug off getting stabbed.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 12:26 PM
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Yeah, I'm not really saying "don't be afraid". I'm saying figure out what you're actually afraid of and stop blaming it on 50% of all humanity.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 12:17 PM
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It's crazy to me that sometimes people forget that other people are people too. They are the center of their own universe and they don't realize that every single other person they encounter is a being just as complex and nuanced as they are.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 12:00 PM
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There's a big difference between feeling unsafe because of bad people, and feeling unsafe because of men specifically, isn't there? People probably should generally feel unsafe going out at night alone, but no one should blame a specific sex, race, etc. for that unsafe feeling.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 08:12 AM
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I don't like that attitude, I remember being a scared lost child and people refusing to help would be pretty traumatic. I don't know if it's part of being a man or just me personally but I know I would beat myself up over it if I could help someone and didn't. Recently I helped a scuffling, slow elderly man carry his groceries to his car, and he dropped his eggs. In hindsight I realized I should have run back into the store and got him a new carton, but I didn't think of it at the time. Again, a…
/r/MensRights23/08/20 03:47 AM
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Once, maybe 7 or so years ago while I was out, a random little girl ran up to me and wrapped herself around my leg. I leaned down to ask if she was okay/lost/needed help. The moment I acknowledged this girl a random woman (presumably not her mother, because different skin color) jerked her away from me and gave me a disgustingly evil look. Like I was the one in the wrong for trying to help a lost child that had clearly come to me for help. It was such a small thing but that was the first moment …
/r/MensRights22/08/20 11:54 PM
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I don't know why you're speaking in plurality, but if you're referring to me, pointing out a double standard isn't racist. People in America have spent the better part of the past 2 months committing violence, burning vehicles and trashing buildings in the name of "justice" for black people. Considering that, it's both accurate and pertinent to say a business that treated black people like this one treats men would face extreme consequences BEFORE the law could even get to them. Also notice I sa…
/r/MensRights22/08/20 10:42 AM
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Men are factually more likely to be both assaulted and murdered. Also most rape is committed by someone the victim already knew. The chance of a woman being attacked on the street is very low, and men are allowed to be wary of strangers too. A lot of men carry knives or guns on them, we just don't whine all the time about how afraid we are. Women don't "have to" get pregnant nor do they really have to have periods either. They have loads of birth control options to remove their periods entirely.…
/r/MensRights22/08/20 06:38 AM
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I don't know if it's entirely why but I'm pretty sure a business charging different prices based on discrimination is pretty illegal. If a business charged black people even an extra 1% that shit would be burned down within a week.
/r/MensRights22/08/20 05:26 AM
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I guess it was too much to ask for that you read context clues to understand that I was referring to early wave feminists who didn't really have anything better to do than march, picket, and have meetings. Men are mostly too busy and have too many responsibilities to do these things.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 12:44 AM
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Generosity isn't an emotion you fucking neanderthal, and altruism is something men on the whole are far more acquainted with than women. We are, our whole lives, trained to give and give and give and never ask for anything in return, because as far as society is concerned asking for repayment would be wrong of us. As for being unable to "experience mental trauma" tell that to the THREE-AND-A-HALF TIMES more men that kill themselves than women. Oh wait, you can't, and misandrist fucknuts like you…
/r/MensRights20/08/20 11:39 PM
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You guys notice how every time a man posts about being discriminated against or being abused, there are always people in the comments making accusations that he's lying or "leaving important info out"? It happens literally every time in recent memory that I've seen a post like this. These people are so biased that they refuse to accept a man's story at face value or give him the benefit of the doubt, something that is universally ALWAYS given to women.
/r/MensRights20/08/20 11:28 PM
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The A in MRA stands for "Advocate", you troglodyte. You see, because men are actually working, we don't have time to stand outside a building holding signs for 10 hours a day. Not only that, the problems men and boys face are so deeply rooted in society that annoyingly enough we actually can't create any big change yet. All we can do right now is continue to advocate and bring people to our cause until we have a loud enough voice. However, all of this is made infinitely harder by you stupid fuck…
/r/MensRights20/08/20 11:12 PM
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Not really. For every woman who is "just being friendly" there's another woman out there dropping what she thinks are obvious hints and complaining that he's not picking up on them. They can't even agree on what's considered flirting and because they have no fucking clue whether they're flirting or not, neither do we.
/r/MensRights18/08/20 10:15 PM
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It gives them a false sense of superiority. Male feminists are narcissists, they think they're neat and special for not being "like all the other guys". They're indoctrinated to believe that 19 out of 20 guys would take advantage of a woman and that they're the remaining 1. Of course, we all know this isn't true. As for the guy in this reply specifically: She's not going to fuck you, man.
/r/MensRights18/08/20 10:11 PM
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He said he was a feminist and proceeded to call people who fight for men’s rights are “A bunch of crying babies who just don’t like it when a women fights for her rights” and “all men are pieces of trash” That says it all, doesn't it? Someone saying "men shouldn't fight for their rights" immediately followed by "all men are trash". They're discriminating against men while telling us to sit down, shut up and not question their discrimination. People like this are exactly why MRAs need to exist, b…
/r/MensRights18/08/20 08:03 AM
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I don't buy the "in denial" crap. It reeks of having the actual meaning "I changed my mind". Whatever was done clearly wasn't that bad because OP refuses to specify and the word "rape" wasn't used. It's a throwaway account so there's no reason not to be as open and honest as possible UNLESS she knows the actual truth would get her less sympathy.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 07:05 AM
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Oh bullshit he "ruined her life". She didn't bother to do anything for 4 years and only then when she could get some attention through some stupid tiktok fad.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 06:28 AM
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Again, we need to define "sexual assault" because it includes everything from accidentally brushing up against an asscheek to gang rape. The fact that OP refused to specify and the fact that it took her FOUR YEARS to decide she had a problem with it makes it pretty clear to anyone who's been paying attention that something isn't right here. Also, no one has a problem with proven rapists being punished. The problem is with "victims" waiting literal years to decide they want to do something about …
/r/MensRights17/08/20 01:23 AM
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"I really wanted to humiliate him" "I posted it to ruin his life" Yeah okay, this person is a psychopath. I'll never condone "sexual assault" (whatever that even means anymore, it's a pretty vague and half-ass phrase. Did he touch your tit once or did he rape you? Both are bad but the distinction matters). That said, if your reaction to having wrong done to you is "I want to ruin their life for something they did 4 years ago when they were underage" you are a terrible person and mentally derange…
/r/MensRights16/08/20 10:04 PM
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Women don't face rejection, so they don't have to get used to dealing with it like men do. Women get rejected once and their poor little hearts can't handle it because they've never experienced anything like it before. They can normally get positive attention at the snap of a finger, so while rejection to men is "50 people have turned me down, why does no one want me?" for women it's "49 people are treating me like a goddess but this one guy isn't, why is he oppressing me?".
/r/MensRights16/08/20 08:44 PM
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This is a pothead issue, not a men's rights issue. In other words, I really don't care. The "because plant" shit is so intellectually dishonest. That "plant" is an illegal psychoactive substance, deal with it. Obviously if you reduce shit down in the dumbest manner possible it sounds bad. "He drink spicy water and then he not allowed drive home :(". Your defensiveness of a drug reeks of dependency.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 05:30 AM
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I always find it funny when these people scream "incel". It's like some logic a god damn caveman would use. "Brain come from vagina, you no think good because no magic vagina juice on think stick". Fucking hell, you believe a man's brain is located in his cock and that his brain is stupid and useless until it has been touched by a woman. Yet somehow I'M the sexist one. Sure, you actual troglodyte.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 09:22 PM
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Always fun to look at the virtue signalling extravaganza that is an /r/AskReddit question about men's issues. Mention a men's issue anywhere else on this godforsaken site and those same people will mock and insult you.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 08:32 PM
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He started to fall to fall, I grabbed his shirt and pulled him backwards, the force caused me to fall forwards.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 02:05 AM
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I guess you've never been a kid, sometimes dumb shit happens that would have been preventable with an adult's level of foresight. You might as well be saying "Oh you fell out of a tree? Next time don't be in a tree" yeah no shit climbing a tree is what causes the act of falling but young people don't tend to care about consequences until consequences happen.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 02:01 AM
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It's because if there are any aspects of society where women have it better than men, their narrative that women are oppressed and men are privileged falls apart. Some feminists think they're being clever and instead they claim they acknowledge men's issues and blame it on "the patriarchy". Because apparently men are damaged by a society that universally privileges and favors them. Somehow. It's all empty words anyway, because when was the last time mainstream feminism ACTUALLY acknowledged or f…
/r/MensRights13/08/20 10:01 PM
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I'm torn on this. Yeah, I hate the idea that men and boys should always be expected to be self sacrificial. But sometimes, regardless of sex, you have to do what the other person can't. When I was like 16 I saved my young nephew from falling into a deep hole by falling in myself. I came out of it with a just broken arm and some stitches, but who knows what that fall would have done to him. I'm glad if one of us had to fall it was me. Like the article says, for his sister, it was certain death. F…
/r/MensRights13/08/20 09:25 PM
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"Everyone" should most certainly not get off twitter. Leave the loonies there, let them run their asylum. When everyone they disagree with is gone, they'll eat each other and maybe, just maybe, the world can start to go back to normal.
/r/MensRights13/08/20 06:32 PM
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Imgur is down apparently but I don't really need to see it to imagine what it says. I moved to Parler yesterday from twitter. Its userbase is a lot smaller but at least I can see the content from users who twitter deplatformed and there's no blatant misandry.
/r/MensRights13/08/20 03:38 AM
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"The way they treat their guy friends is weirdly protective compared to how women treat their female friends". Well, there are a few potential reasons for that. Most women I've gotten close to throughout my life have had the same sentiment that women kind of treat each other terribly. They're dramatic, catty, and competitive and won't hesitate to stir up drama or rumors if they perceive another woman as a threat. Friends are harder to come by for men. Men are the only one of the two sexes who ca…
/r/MensRights12/08/20 11:44 PM
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In the real world gay and trans people aren't all that common. About 1 in 20 and 1 in 100-250 depending on which source you believe. I'm all in favor of shows having REALISTIC representation but it's pretty clear that most just do it for woke points and make the character's entire personality revolve around their sexuality.
/r/MensRights12/08/20 07:28 PM
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I hate it so much, I miss entertainment JUST being entertainment and not constantly making gaslighting comments or jabs at men. Doctor Who is probably the one that stands out most to me. I started watching it around 2011 and for most of its run it was fine. Yet as it went on it very obviously got more and more woke. Rory was treated as a bumbling beta idiot in spite of being quite literally the most loyal and determined human to ever exist. River (woman character, for anyone who's not savvy) con…
/r/MensRights12/08/20 07:05 PM
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I've suspected this for a while. It's no real secret that there's a disparity between boys' and girls' performance in school and no rational person would ever say it was because boys are dumber. It's because 80% of teachers are women. Girls are favored and boys are treated as nuisances. "Problem children".
/r/MensRights12/08/20 12:31 AM
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They only say that "You shouldn't judge women by their past" shit because they are willing to overlook LITERALLY ANYTHING if they find a man fuckable enough. There was a social experiment that involved making fake dating profiles profile for some model good looking dudes who were total pricks with criminal pasts. These god damn chicks kept after them even after learning the guys were child rapists and neo Nazis.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 10:44 PM
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Don't hide. Tell him "his" girl is a cheater and you don't want her anyway. For some reason nowadays when a woman cheats the guy she cheats with is ALWAYS the one who gets all of the blame even though SHE is the one who was unfaithful. Fuck that. You don't get the blame. You didn't know. She's the one who did wrong here. So tell the guy he has bigger problems than you and that if he has a brain in his head he'd be looking at his cheating whore of a girlfriend and wondering if her honor was actua…
/r/MensRights10/08/20 09:17 PM
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The problem is that women expect men to accept and embrace the idea of "the modern woman" but their idea of what's attractive in a man is stuck back in ancient times. We're supposed to be willing to commit to tatted-up emotionally crippled hoes with staggering body counts and kids from another man, but 80% of women view the average man as unattractive.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:54 PM
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Sounds about right. Men and boys are self-sacrificial to a fault when it comes to protecting women and girls, yet somehow our masculinity is toxic to them.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:26 PM
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A 24-YEAR-OLD woman "repeatedly raped a 13-year-old boy and forced him to be her 'boyfriend'. They half-assed it because of the quotations. Probably a quote pulled from elsewhere. Later in the article it says: Lee was 19 at the time and later admitted to [having] sex with him. The boy was four years under the state's age of consent. So, rape. Not sex. Get it fucking right, you troglodytes. Lee [was] handed a 10 year probationary sentence the year after being charged as she told the judge that sh…
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:22 PM
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These people will never and I do genuinely mean NEVER stop complaining that they don't have enough power. They control the media. They control the education. They control most of the internet. It's just not enough. Even if they got a gay black trans woman president, they still won't shut the fuck up about being oppressed. I mean it.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:12 PM
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It is an important distinction though, because it puts things into perspective when feminists here complain about air conditioning and men sitting down in a way that leaves room for their testicles. It shows how little they actually have to complain about, and that's important to point out. You would never see an MRA complain about something so trivial because in spite of whatever they say we are not the privileged ones. A lot of men's issues are pretty much universal and when we talk about them…
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:04 PM
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Toxic masculinity doesn't exist. It's a victim blaming buzzphrase designed to shame men and shut them up. The implication that every problem a man has stems from his male identity is fucking disgusting and if we said that about women they'd be calling for our public lynching. "Why do we keep getting raped?" "I don't know, maybe it's your fault for being too feminine. Try being more like a man and you'll get raped less, I promise." Do you see the problem here? This is what they're doing, and you …
/r/MensRights08/08/20 03:10 PM
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Funny that, isn't it? They get to say "No vagina no opinion" on a multitude of women's issues but if I talk about men's issues with statistics in hand I don't know what I'm talking about.
/r/MensRights08/08/20 12:49 AM
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Reddit, like most social platforms aimed at 20-somethings, has a pretty significant and obvious ideological slant. "Man bad, woman weak". I believe neither of these things but somehow I'm the sexist. It gets really bad sometimes and in certain places. For example, AITA. It's awful, they take the woman's side in every. single. scenario. No matter what the woman has done. No matter how much the experience harms the man they take the woman's side. I've seen a few examples of people taking posts whe…
/r/MensRights07/08/20 11:03 PM
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The sad thing is I'm not sure even she knows what she wants. The way I see it is like this: No one can provide for her financially, but she'd never even give a shadow of a glance at a man who was willing to be a house husband. She would probably demand someone who is as or more successful. But successful men can do better than her. She has made her career off of being a politically conservative woman, but politically conservative men want traditional wives and they want children. She's political…
/r/MensRights07/08/20 09:02 PM
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We should laugh it off or come up with something cleverer or even more triggering, There's a famous Sargonism perfect for this: "I wouldn't even rape you".
/r/MensRights07/08/20 05:34 PM
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"Us women never get sympathy" I think this is the first time in my entire life I've ever come across a sentence so transcendently stupid it made me want to blow my brains out. If you never accomplish anything else in your life, lady, at least know that you singlehandedly sucked the faith in humanity from every fibre of my being. There's nothing left now.
/r/MensRights07/08/20 05:31 PM
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A person's eye color is important and necessary for the act of describing said person. Their sexuality is neither important nor necessary for describing them in any situation where sexuality is not concerned, which is most. But fine, since you're stuck on an eye analogy: In China, do you think they'd ever refer to someone as "brown eyed girl"? Of course not, because it describes almost everyone. They would only ever see eye color as a worthwhile descriptor if they came across a blue or green eye…
/r/MensRights07/08/20 03:53 PM
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Yes. The biological default. That thing we are all aware exists but apparently aren't allowed to acknowledge anymore. Everything that isn't an XY man attracted to women or an XX woman attracted to men is an anomaly. It doesn't make them bad people. It doesn't mean they don't deserve to live. It just means it's not the norm. The same way we don't see a person with both their arms and call them two-arms because rare people with only one arm exist. We accept having both arms as the default and don'…
/r/MensRights06/08/20 06:52 PM
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It's a saying older than any of us here but it's true: Women don't actually know what they want. Back when I bothered with dating sites I was only ever interested in the ones with a personality who seemed to want a relationship. A lot of them would even say "Not here for hookups" or whatever. So, I'd spend a couple of minutes of my time, each time, typing up a personalized introduction. No fuckboy shit, no pickup lines. Always ended with something like "I see your profile says you like reading, …
/r/MensRights06/08/20 06:06 PM
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Sounds about right. Society: We only want men who achieve or provide. Feminists: Your drive for success is patriarchy.
/r/MensRights06/08/20 04:58 PM
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It's one of the reasons in spite of being anti-leftist I've never been able to completely align myself with conservatives. They typically have really irritating ideas about masculinity. I remember a few years ago Gavin Mcinnis went on a weird vitriolic rant about how men who played video games were "manbabies". Wow sorry dude, sorry a hobby offends you so much. Sorry technology has moved past the 1950s to create more gratifying and entertaining activities than fishing. How do you feel about men …
/r/MensRights06/08/20 03:33 PM
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I used to like this chick back when she was still relevant, sad to see she's gone this way. Here's the thing: Men don't WANT the type of woman you are. We don't want "wealthy, independent, successful" women. That's just being alone with extra steps and we know we could never satisfy you or make you happy. It's why Emma Watson is "self partnered" in spite of the endless cavalcade of dudes fawning over her. The things men and women are interested in are just different. A man would date a literal h…
/r/MensRights06/08/20 03:00 PM
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I disagree with both of these people. This is an extremely privileged person who doesn't understand that receiving gifts is about the thought behind them. See, I hate to spend money on myself and I can never think of anything I want anyway. It is, however, exceedingly easy to think of things that might make someone I care about happy, and I treasure something more when it's from someone else. This is why gift exchanges exist. OBVIOUSLY two people could just spend their own money on themselves, b…
/r/MensRights06/08/20 02:35 PM
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Moron-speak for "normal". A man who is attracted to women and doesn't think he is one. In other words, the vast overwhelming majority of men in the world. But someone in presumably California realized they could undermine the default state by creating language that "othered" it.
/r/MensRights06/08/20 01:52 PM
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A lot of us would have loved to have a genuine discussion with feminists. Would have. But we were "incel"'d and "neckbeard"ed and had our worth not only as a man but as a human called into question the first 50 times we tried.
/r/MensRights06/08/20 01:43 PM
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"Innocent until proven guilty" is the old system. The new one is: Women are innocent until proven guilty. Men are guilty until proven innocent and oftentimes remain guilty in the court of public opinion after being proven innocent.
/r/MensRights06/08/20 01:20 PM
2

You act like it's unheard of that a group could ever co-opt an insult, but it's exactly what happened with queer. First it was an adjective. Then it was an insult. Then the alphabet squad added it to their endlessly expanding acronym. Regardless of which way it happened though, the point remains. The idea of not being able to have sex in spite of wanting to is just a normal thing that happens. Aside from those who are raped and extreme outliers who manage to marry the first person they ever sexu…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 09:05 PM
9

The problem is that they claim that "men's issues are feminist issues". They claim that "feminists are fighting against men's issues too". Every feminist I have ever spoken to says this. Yet if any of this were true it would be perfectly acceptable, maybe even welcome, to speak about them in feminist spaces. IF it were true. But no. What they do instead is tell us that we're not needed, that they're on it, they'll solve our problems... then they turn around and complain amongst themselves that W…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 03:18 PM
7

Honestly the worst thing the incels could have possibly done was adopt the title of "incel". What does it mean? Oh, you wish to have sex but are unable? Welcome to the club of every single male on the planet who's not interested in casual sex. Welcome to the club of every 13 year old who is just beginning to be interested in sex and hasn't yet found a partner. It was never even a label that needed to exist. It's just called being average. Calling oneself an incel is a self-inflicted blow. You ar…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 03:01 PM
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If feminists were against "that ideal" then why would they use it as an argument? If feminists are against stereotypical machismo, WHY do they insinuate that a man lacks it when they want to shut him up?? Excluding high school age douchebags who think having sex makes them cool, no grown adult cares about whether or not a man is getting laid. No one would ever say "You're not having sex and that means your argument is invalid". No one except, guess who? THE GOD DAMN FEMINISTS.
/r/MensRights05/08/20 12:11 AM
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That was my immediate thought too. You can tell this was made not by a neutral party, not by a person who cares about men's issues. It was made by a feminist who thinks men's issues can be solved by winning feminism.
/r/MensRights04/08/20 10:27 PM
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Feminists don't care about men's rights. If they did, they wouldn't get angry, defensive, and antagonistic whenever a men's rights issue is brought up in a feminist space. It happens every time. Without fail. If you mention a men's rights issue, the response you get will be one of several: "The patriarchy hurts men too". In spite of the fact that all of the things we have a problem with wouldn't even EXIST in a society that favored men. "Derailing"/"Whataboutism"/"This isn't about you". If you c…
/r/MensRights04/08/20 10:13 PM
5

I'm not a fan of some of these questions that have the forced binary and no "equal" option. For example, the "who is more abusive" question. I know that most REPORTED abuse has men as the perpetrator, but I also know that the lesbian community has the highest rate of domestic abuse out of any. I'm not sure it's fair to label either as "more abusive". Also the "are females underrepresented" questions. Yes. Technically they are underrepresented in the sense that the number of women in politics isn…
/r/MensRights04/08/20 08:18 PM
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I swear on all that is good and potentially holy in this world I really don't get these people. "Feminists care about men's issues too" Good, then it sounds like we have some common ground. Let's have a conversation. "No you're an MRA we have no common ground. Also stop derailing feminist discussions with men's issues" So you care about men's issues but we can't discuss them? "No because you're an MRA". So let me get this straight. You think you care about men's rights... but you disparage those…
/r/MensRights04/08/20 06:59 PM
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"I was going to eat cereal but then there was no cereal. Now I don't know what to do. It will take a herculean amount of mental fortitude to even begin to solve this conundrum" -Every woman, according to feminists.
/r/MensRights04/08/20 06:07 PM
30

Holy fuck. Can you even imagine the size of this image if we created one for the responsibilities of the average man?
/r/MensRights04/08/20 05:06 PM
14

Let me get this straight. Grabbing a man's ass or genitalia is a compliment. BUT Complimenting a woman with words is catcalling and basically the worst thing to ever exist. Righto.
/r/MensRights04/08/20 03:52 PM
11

Even when I see these sort of things I'm skeptical about their sincerity. I have just heard too many stories from men on here. Things like calling the number and being assumed to be abuser or calling on behalf of a woman being abused, or calling the number and being laughed at by the people on the other end.
/r/MensRights03/08/20 07:09 PM
8

Did you know that as far as rape is legally defined in most of the world, a man can't even be raped by a woman? The very definition of rape excludes male victims. It's why we see news articles like "Woman used knife to force man to have sex with her" instead of "Woman rapes man at knifepoint". Did you know that typically male victims of rape aren't even allowed in support groups? So I ask you, how can you believe people care when legally men can't be raped and men who are raped can't even seek s…
/r/MensRights03/08/20 02:33 PM
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I don't think any man who is raped sees his rape as "nothing". He just doesn't get to dwell on it because no one cares and no one will take him seriously.
/r/MensRights03/08/20 12:36 PM
1

Feel free, but I feel like I should warn you that people may take "Paying for a date is an investment" to mean that you expect sex. Obviously it's not the case, it's an investment in the potential relationship. If there's no potential for a relationship, there's just no point. Just be prepared to explain that to people.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 03:42 PM
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They've been doing this for years. Even before the term "incel" even became a thing they were using this rhetoric. "If you're angry it's probably because you're not getting laid". These people really believe that the only thing that could ever matter to a man is whether or not he's getting his dick wet. That every single problem a man could ever have directly relates to how much sex he's having. Subsequently, they're implying that the only thing women have to offer a man is sex. And they call US…
/r/MensRights02/08/20 03:32 PM
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Hmm, if I were a woman I'm pretty sure that would be called victim blaming. Considering feminists and women at large have started referring to the act of being compassionate toward a man as "emotional labor" I hate to break it to you but I just might be onto something.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 01:15 PM
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Nah, in my experience with literally every woman I've ever been romantically involved with, which is a fair few, they don't want a man who shares his feelings. Women claim to want a sensitive man but the moment a man appears vulnerable to them is the moment they lose interest in him. Just like a month ago I was talking to this girl, she was flirting hard, seemed really into how things were going. I opened up and told her I've been feeling really down on myself lately. I quickly started hearing f…
/r/MensRights02/08/20 11:50 AM
4

Anyone who thinks "erection=consent" definitely doesn't have a penis. Any high school age male will tell you unwanted erections happen ALL. THE. TIME. and oftentimes in the most uncomfortable of situations. The thing about guys is, we're extremely susceptible to the female touch. We literally can't help it. Again, basically every guy has a story about a time a woman touched him in the wrong way/place/time and because we can't control our bodies, things happen. And that's just innocent touches, n…
/r/MensRights02/08/20 11:33 AM
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I'm not going to vote, it just depends on the circumstances. If I invite you out and it's understood as a date, I'm fine with paying. But if you're snotty the whole time, or on your phone the whole time, or I can generally just tell "this isn't going to work" I want to split. Paying for a date is an investment and smart people don't invest in dead ends.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 11:05 AM
5

Nope. There is no patriarchy. Men might make up most of the "positions of power" but for every man in a powerful position there's a hundred homeless men. A hundred suicidal men. The top .05% does nothing to help the other 99.95% of us, so the idea that a patriarchy exists is laughable. A patriarchy would imply that all men benefit from the system. Which we don't. In fact, if there was a patriarchy, it would be in favor of women, because men favor women. Men are kinder to women. Men are biologica…
/r/MensRights01/08/20 10:41 PM
5

"There are already laws against perjury" yeah, but here's the thing: This is a different level of accusation. Normally if a person is accused of a crime and there's no evidence/they're found not guilty, nothing happens. They get to go about their lives and this experience doesn't ruin them. But accusing a man of a sex crime can and will destroy his life. Even the mere accusation, merely being on the line for a potential sex crime will fuck his life up beyond all hope of repair. He can lose his f…
/r/MensRights01/08/20 09:21 PM
8

Do the same but with "all women = gold diggers and baby murderers" and see how they feel.
/r/MensRights01/08/20 08:50 PM
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For the same reason only gays get to be proud and all lives don't matter. It's a textbook double standard. In society's eyes, if a man is single, something is probably wrong with that man. If a woman is single, something is probably wrong with every man she has ever encountered.
/r/MensRights01/08/20 07:58 PM
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Christ, imagine dwelling on one word said to you for the past 15 years. Lady: You could not survive as a man. If "slut" 15 years ago is the worst thing that has ever been said to you, you have lived an incredibly privileged life. If you have PTSD from being called a slut, a week in an average man's shoes would leave you catatonic and babbling for death.
/r/MensRights01/08/20 07:42 PM
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I don't want a society that views men as just as fragile as women. That's not good for anyone. I want a society that views women as strong responsible adults who don't need to be babied and favored.
/r/MensRights12/04/20 12:07 PM
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Being a good parent doesn't mean you coddle delusion. That's exactly why we're in the political climate we're currently in, because parents forgot how to parent and started trying to be best friends. If your message is "You'll be a bad parent if you tell your son he'll never be a girl" I am REALLY not interested in your "expertise". A 5 year old isn't dysphoric, he's confused. Somewhere along the way he got the idea that girls are more desirable than boys and THAT is the problem that needs to be…
/r/MensRights17/03/20 11:45 AM
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A 5 year old barely understands that there's a difference between boys and girls. If a 5 year old says he's a girl there's definitely a problem somewhere but it's not dysphoria, it's just a kid being a kid. The only appropriate response to boy this age saying he's a girl is "No, I'm sorry but you're not a girl and you never will be a girl. You're a boy, and that's okay. Boys are good too". You have to be real with them. Confusing them further by nurturing their confusion will only fuck them up f…
/r/MensRights17/03/20 08:56 AM
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Yeah, I generally don't give any fucks what Woke Wacko Island has to say on the matter. The fact that they can't expand the definition of "rape" to include men but they can expand the definition of "hate crime" to include criticizing a religion removes all credibility from UK law.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 02:39 PM
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Nah, considering the consequences this sort of thing has for the victims I think it's fair to classify it as rape. The guy in this situation obviously lied so he wouldn't have to use a condom and the woman obviously wouldn't have let him do that if she had known. He undermined her sexual autonomy for a little bit of extra pleasure, sounds like rape to me. Same thing the other way around. Poking holes in a man's condoms or lying about being on birth control is undermining his sexual autonomy.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 02:23 PM
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As much as I'd love to rage against this sort of thing, I'm going to be fair. I would consider it rape if a woman lied about being on birth control or sabotaged a man's condoms. This follows the same vein. She consented to sex, she didn't consent to impregnation. Accidents are accidents but this is different.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 10:36 AM
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So uh... what exactly are you offering, lady? You going to cook? Clean? Bear children? Stay in shape? If any man is willing to provide all that shit to you he better be able to come home to a fresh beef wellington on the table and you on your knees under it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/20 09:33 AM
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No, it's not a problem. I'm a white American, raised Christian. I left the religion at around 14 and am not religious now. After that I more or less cobbled together my own belief system. I disagree with very conservative people a lot but I also disagree with very liberal people a lot. I don't agree with the idea of abstinence but I do believe that sex should be with love and that people should try and keep their number of sexual partners as low as is reasonable. I honestly don't think this is a…
/r/MensRights15/03/20 08:18 AM
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The best thing about being in a committed relationship is the idea of some things being "For your eyes only". I don't know what the hell happened to the idea of sexual exclusivity but it needs to come back. I'm not interested in getting into a relationship with a woman and finding out I'm the millionth person to see her naked. There's no prize for that. Just a lack of self respect on her part and a lack of any real reason for me to commit to her.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 05:36 PM
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From the perspective of a man who wants a respectable woman, fuck them. I would never date someone who has done any type of "sex work" and the number of women who haven't seems to be dwindling.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 04:40 PM
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Not really. It's a cute idea but we all know that's not how it works. No one except gay guys and a very, very small fringe of "unfuckable" women want to watch men masturbate. Most women can get sex simply by asking, they don't need to buy porn. These onlyfans hoes make money because simp nation stays desperate.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 04:36 PM
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"Beauty"? If you cropped that picture at the bottom of the neck and told me it was a man I would believe it.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 04:13 PM
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Thanks hun. Personally I believe women are grown adults that have minds of their own and agency over their own decisions. They're big girls, they can deal with the repercussions of the decisions they make. Just like men do.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 11:46 AM
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Absolutely anything to keep women from accepting the consequences of their own decisions, right? They disproportionately choose to go into childcare, nursing, and elder care positions and then they get to be the victim because they get sick and make less money.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 09:29 AM
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The easiest way to deal with people is bring up the fact that 80% of teachers are women. When they say "Maybe men just don't want to be teachers" you laugh and hope the irony of their words hits them.
/r/MensRights12/03/20 06:49 AM
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I mean, of course there are exceptions, there are exceptions to every rule. That said, it's obvious that men just have more "training" in being funny than women do. Man says something unfunny, gets no laughs, he has to try harder. Woman says something unfunny, gets pity laughs, she continues to think she's hilarious.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 09:13 AM
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Female comedians aren't funny. Regular average women can be funny, but chances are if a woman has been put into a paid position to create comedy it's not going to be funny at all and will just be kind of uncomfortable. Thing is, men have to develop a sense of humor because if they don't, neither men nor women will want to hang out with them. Women don't need that crutch because of the inherent value of coochie.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 07:48 AM
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The wildest thing to me is that these people actually believe men are just these bastions of mental and physical fortitude. You guys really think we don't get scared? Or uncomfortable? You guys really think we are completely fine and fearless "walking alone at night"? You guys really think we don't have a twinge of unease when a stranger approaches us in a remote place? Like damn. Men are victims of every violent crime more than women. Every one except rape, and that's only if you don't include …
/r/MensRights10/03/20 03:01 AM
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Here's one I refer to often. There are more like it, search something like "woman abusing man social experiment" or something like that and you actually will get results. Here's another one worthwhile. They left a boy, a girl, a cat, and a dog in the park alone. Girl rescued in 3 minutes. Dog and cat in less than 10. Boy sat there for 45 minutes and was never approached.
/r/MensRights08/03/20 01:38 PM
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Absolutely not a damn thing. It's just a weird bass ackwards self promotion.
/r/MensRights08/03/20 06:01 AM
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I don't see the lie though. There have absolutely been instances of men being charged with sexual assault when they saved a woman's life. Women are far less likely to receive CPR in the event of an emergency because men are afraid to touch them.
/r/MensRights08/03/20 05:46 AM
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"She mentioned having a boyfriend" is kind of where I lose empathy for this guy. They both made a mistake, honestly. If you know a woman has a boyfriend or husband, you stay the fuck away from her. I don't care how good she looks, how much she seems to want it. You don't enable that. You don't ruin another guy's self esteem just to get your dick wet. Noy only that, but it's a red flag. If she's cheating with you, you know she's not a trustworthy person. Especially because it's disturbingly commo…
/r/MensRights07/03/20 01:50 AM
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I really don't get why women find it so difficult to be empathetic and helpful during a man's tough times. I've helped many women of my life through all kinds of mental issues, because I loved them, and I just wanted them to feel better. One girl I dated was anorexic, I put so much effort and encouragement into getting her to eat again and getting her up to a healthy weight. Another was raped a few months after we started dating. It caused a good 4 month dark patch in our relationship but the en…
/r/MensRights06/03/20 08:39 AM
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What reaction was she expecting from him? I'm sorry, lady, but I'm going to be 100% real with you: Your tits have absolutely zero value to me if I can't touch them. In fact, they have negative value since it's in a public place. Tit value hierarchy: Tits I can touch>Tits I can't touch, but can masturbate to>Tits I can't touch and can't masturbate to.
/r/MensRights05/03/20 02:01 AM
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This is true. I seem to recall an incident where a Muslim man in the UK got taken to court for raping a 13(?) year old and was effectively let off because the court declared that he didn't understand our cultural differences. I wish I could find the info on that again but that's not the sort of thing I want in my search history, to be honest.
/r/MensRights04/03/20 10:13 PM
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Lack of consent. It's a permanent change, why do it to babies who can't consent? Removal of a functioning body part when it's not medically necessary is wrong. There are potential complications. Loss of sensitivity, loss of ability to get an erection, keratinization, painful/burning erections, loss of penis, loss of life. Why risk it when it's unnecessary? You remove the skin it’s easier to keep clean and see possible STDs and the downside is you lose some pleasure nerves Congrats, you just made…
/r/MensRights03/03/20 06:08 AM
1

Well yeah, obviously everyone has a biological father. Thanks for pointing out the obvious, but 35% of homes in the US are single parent.
/r/MensRights02/03/20 09:19 PM
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On an individual level I don't have a problem with it. My problem is that it follows the pattern of male-exclusive things being co-opted by feminists. It's just like the issue with the bathrooms. They're taking male bathrooms and turning them into unisex bathrooms but women get to keep their own single-sex bathrooms. Now they're trying to take father's day and make it about women too, which devalues all the hard work fathers do. What bothers me isn't the idea of sharing with the extremely small …
/r/MensRights02/03/20 09:18 PM
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I don't even believe every woman knows a woman that was raped. Actual rapes are quite rare, and I don't think very many women experience them, nowhere near the amount that the feminist types let on. Besides that, men that aren't rapists don't associate with known rapists. We will flat out ostracize them. I've seen it happen, I've been part of the very awkward "Guess we don't want to hang out with that guy anymore 😬" conversation.
/r/MensRights02/03/20 08:03 AM
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I was default subbed when I made my account, and man some of the male hate that made my front page was infuriating. Tried to debate a few times, got banned. Good riddance.
/r/MensRights02/03/20 04:35 AM
3

This is true.
/r/MensRights02/03/20 04:29 AM
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This. We get upset when they make Father's Day about moms, let's not be a bunch of hypocrites. Also, if you're a single parent, don't make the other gender's day about yourself. Make it about your kid. Make sure they're okay. Personally I always hated father's day because all it did was remind me that I didn't have one.
/r/MensRights02/03/20 04:25 AM
9

One only needs to look at /r/FragileWhiteRedditor to see that racism against white people is 100% a thing.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 08:14 PM
11

Heterophobia is definitely a thing. There are gay people who call straight people "breeders" as a slur. I also recall reading a study or an article at one point that straight people in "progressive" areas feel pressured to label themselves as part of the lgbtlmnop#!BAstart group because otherwise their peers won't accept them.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 08:13 PM
1

Just an internet personality, he made videos or something. Had never even heard of him until the incident. Apparently he had so many girls asking him what he kind of girl he was into that he released a video about it. And boy did it upset them. Everything he said basically boiled down to "Have a personality, have good hygiene, and shave your excess body hair" and the troglodytes couldn't stand it. The idea that they'd have to take care of themselves made them so furious that they brigaded his vi…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 07:37 PM
3

The fact that only women are allowed to have exclusive groups is kind of infuriating. We've all seen it time and time again, any time men try to make a space just for them the feminists will brigade and hissyfit and harass until they gain entrance. I actually don't mind each sex having sex-exclusive groups because I think there is benefit and some level of comfort to be had in occasionally being surrounded only by the same sex. For example, say a bunch of guys make a D&D group. They get to be as…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 05:25 AM
3

I used to make cakes, cookies, and breads and take them in to work or give to neighbors. The first couple of times, I'm sure I probably got reactions like this, but I don't remember. Anyway, there's nothing to be ashamed of. Baking is a good hobby to have, and baked goods always make people happy. You did fine, don't worry about it. It's just unusual in peoples' minds, probably the same sort of reaction girls probably get when they show an interest in comic books or whatever.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 10:43 PM
2

And biologically men are most attracted to young women with big breasts and wide hips because these traits are associated with high fertility. Seems like yet another double standard because if a desirable man said "I only like busty 18 year olds" he'd be buried under a mountain of hate. Look what happened to Nash Grier and all he said was "Have a personality and good hygiene".
/r/MensRights28/02/20 09:48 PM
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This is why I don't date anymore. I've been through it all too many times. You give, and give, and sacrifice, and give some more, and all they return is sex and a warm body to sleep with at night. You take an L, that's your L to carry alone, they won't even carry the light end of it. They'll claim that you're everything to them but then one day everything that you are just isn't enough anymore. I know there are worthwhile women out there, but the search isn't worth all the dejection. Especially …
/r/MensRights28/02/20 09:16 PM
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Somehow I highly doubt the amount of men stretching their assholes with the Pussy Annihilator 9000 is even comparable to the amount of women doing it.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 08:35 PM
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The crazy thing about this is just how elaborate women's toys can get. They have everything from 4 inch dildos labeled for "beginners" to corn cob textured 10 inchers to fucking gas powered jackhammer vibrators with Clit Destroyer™ attachments. We legit just want something to put our penis in that isn't our hand.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 06:55 PM
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These people will say slut shaming is bad and that you should never judge a woman for the amount of sex she has. Yet these SAME people use the idea of not having sex as a weapon against men they disagree with. The amount of times I've been called an incel out of the blue in an argument against a feminist vs. the amount of times I've called them a slut is probably 100-0.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 06:42 PM
57

"Those robots won't love you" "Neither will you".
/r/MensRights28/02/20 06:31 PM
6

Well yeah, but the problem is that pointing out hypocrisy to feminists doesn't actually work. They just start squawking about how women have it worse or screaming "whataboutism". Best thing we can do is educate them because they damn sure don't know what's going on in a man's mind or his penis.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 08:45 AM
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The fact that not every erection means "I like this and wish to continue" should be common knowledge. Considering half the population is male, you'd think everyone would know this. For any ladies reading this who aren't aware: Guys can get nervous erections. Guys can have completely random hormonal erections. There's morning wood/sleep erections. There's also stimulus based erections that we have absolutely no control over. If a person's hand or head or basically any part of the body brushes any…
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:42 AM
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No, she wouldn't. If a 5 year old girl hugged a classmate it'd be seen as the sweetest thing ever and it'd probably be a national news story about how pure and kind she is. I'm only slightly being facetious.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 12:25 AM
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I honestly don't think feminists care about rape victims as much as they claim to. They only care insofar as it can be a weapon against men. When women are the perpetrators or males are the victims, they are really, really shockingly quiet. I am sorry for what happened to you. I don't believe those women would have done nothing had it been a man groping you. They probably would have either attacked or ran and grabbed the bouncer immediately. It sucks. It sounds like you came here with some preco…
/r/MensRights28/02/20 12:20 AM
2

There's nothing wrong with "whataboutism". That's just a buzzword people use to dismiss arguments they don't like. They're unable to debate you on the basis of your argument so they sweep it under the rug and hope you leave it there. No, no. You call that shit out. Call out their hypocritical double standard and push the issue back in their face.
/r/MensRights27/02/20 12:36 AM
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This is true, and the moment she makes a fuss all the liftbros will come and defend m'lady's honor. It's always the gymbros and athletes who will get violently defensive over a woman they don't even know.
/r/MensRights27/02/20 12:14 AM
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Maybe, but it's still true. This isn't the kind of thing these people should be laughing off. The appropriate reaction here would probably be something like "Oh shit, he's right. What's wrong with us?" but instead they're having a good ol' giggle because men are the victims and they don't take it seriously.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 10:55 PM
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Concerning that all these people are laughing as if he's joking. He's not. He's saying it in a funny way, but he means what he says. He's talking about a serious issue and you people should take it to heart and look at your own behavior instead of laughing it off.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 10:32 PM
1

Generally I don't think anyone deserves to die for a single crime. We're not in a goddamn Code of Hammurabi society. If you see someone do something wrong and your first thought is a desire to murder them, you're not in the right. Something is wrong with you. Obviously there are exceptions. Some people probably do deserve to die, but we're talking extreme cases. Considering murder is probably the worst thing you can do to someone short of torture THEN murder, it's a bit extreme for this situatio…
/r/MensRights26/02/20 12:41 AM
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It's sad to say that as men, there is literally nothing you can do to protect yourself from false accusations besides abstinence. You can have her sign a document, sure. You can video record her giving consent, sure. Even if you do, there's absolutely nothing to stop them from saying they withdrew consent after that point. If they are out to get you, they WILL get you. Legally speaking, a woman is allowed to withdraw consent at any point, even after the sex has started. The only state in the US …
/r/MensRights24/02/20 07:49 PM
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I have always heard that line from feminists, that "We need to teach boys and men not to rape". Fine, we'll start doing that as soon as you start teaching girls and women that sex they regret having is not rape.
/r/MensRights23/02/20 08:45 PM
5

Just curious, who do you think, for the most part, brought us the scientific advancements that led to something like that being possible?
/r/MensRights06/01/20 02:48 AM
1

Doctor Who took a really obvious feminist turn during 11's run. I think the thing that irritates me most are those "throwaway" lines that are expected to fly under the radar but are just plain vile. Things like "Are you thinking? Stop it, you're a man, it's weird". This is the Doctor, ALL HE DOES is think, you pejorative bitch.
/r/MensRights30/12/19 09:12 PM
1

Not every man can afford child support. But he's sure as fucking hell expected to, isn't he?
/r/MensRights25/12/19 06:57 PM
5

Saying "Not all men" will only get you more trouble. See, these people have constructed this perfect little game where they always win. They are happy to generalize and accuse men of pretty much everything. If you have a Y chromosome, you're probably "creepy" and guilty of something. Then if you have the audacity to defend yourself or another man by saying "Not all men" or "I'm not like that" they respond by ridiculing you for being a incel or a "nice guy". They will poke and prod you and come u…
/r/MensRights25/12/19 05:42 AM
7

I've heard this "tired of being told to smile" line from feminists for fucking YEARS and I've never understood it. I don't believe it happens nearly as much as these people insist. I have never in my entire life seen or heard a man tell a woman to smile. Never. Maybe it's a UK culture thing, if it is someone will have to tell me. Even if it does happen, why does it bother you so much? Men like women. Generally, men would like to see women happy. It's not a crime. It's not misogyny, it's the lite…
/r/MensRights25/12/19 02:25 AM
9

This is just ridiculous. There's a higher chance than not that he was minding his damn business looking at gift cards or something. I don't know what the guy was up to. Is there a possibility he was up to no good? Yeah, I guess, but we sympathize with him because we have all had a situation where we were minding our own business and someone assumed the worst of us.
/r/MensRights25/12/19 02:08 AM
5

It scares me the way society (mostly the far left) is doing its damnedest to tear apart the nuclear family. These are important values, a family needs both a mother and a father, and every piece of evidence we have shows it.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 06:38 PM
12

As in racial segregation? You mean to tell me that feminists have become regressive? Shocker. The point of my comment was that if there were legitimate reasons for "women only X" there are reasons for men to have the same. For every woman that doesn't want to be looked at while she works out there's a man who feels the exact same. For all the women who want girl time without men around? There are men who want guy time without the ladies around.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 09:56 PM
55

He warned that Adams State’s “federal financial funding” was at risk if it continued to exclude men on Women’s Night or failed to provide “an equal number of men-only hours,” as Stanford University did last year to resolve a similar complaint. This is important. Personally I would have zero issue with a women's night, as long as a men's exclusive night was also being offered. If women feel they are entitled to have spaces, events, etc. men have every right to an equal version. I'm sure there are…
/r/MensRights16/12/19 04:44 PM
1

I'm always happy to see threads like these get a bunch of positive attention. For the most part, it's difficult to get women to shut up about their problems. So seeing someone actually take the initiative to ask men what's bothering them is always great.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 04:32 PM
12

To be fair about the Time part, in 2006 I believe they named "Everyone" as person of the year. Yes it's absolutely pointless and meaningless but anyone can claim they were person of the year once and not be a liar.
/r/MensRights14/12/19 09:30 PM
4

The first guy's request was a bit strange but he didn't deserve that amount of vitriol. What's scary here is peoples' willingness to absolutely shred a man apart over a slightly silly request. Like god damn, do you people really want to be the cause of a suicide because the guy made a socially inept mistake?
/r/MensRights14/12/19 12:35 PM
11

I think the biggest overarching problem around here with circumcision is that almost no one who had it done to them, had it done by choice. It comes with a host of risks and complications and these boys aren't being given the opportunity to make that choice for themselves. This is a permanent decision to remove a perfectly functioning body part of theirs and the decision is being made for them without their consent. It's honestly disgusting. Personally, MY biggest problem with circumcision is th…
/r/MensRights14/12/19 11:13 AM
14

"Wait time for cultural change" You think demeaning 42% of the population of the country is going to get you what you want? Grow up.
/r/MensRights11/12/19 07:00 PM
14

It doesn't matter what women think about uncircumcised penises. That's how they come. That's their natural state so it's not really their place to decide how they prefer it. That "no vagina, no opinion" line that I hear thrown around a lot in discussions of women's reproductive rights can be applied here. There's a lot wrong with circumcision. It causes a lot of men to have sensitivity issues and, eventually, the glans of the penis starts to harden, like a callous, to protect itself. Besides tha…
/r/MensRights09/12/19 12:39 PM
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I hate that shit too. I hear that from too many ignorant dudes trying to defend it. "Girls prefer it" or they insult and demean uncircumcised guys. I think they're just in denial about what was done to them and find it easier to make fun of people who weren't mutilated than admit that they were.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 08:56 AM
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Cue the circumcision apologists saying they "can't be compared" because "FGM is worse and more invasive". Happens every time. Of fucking course they can be compared. Just because the penis is a protruding sex organ doesn't make it okay to chop it up. Also don't even get me started on that "circumcision is cleaner" bullshit. These people don't think vaginas collect sweat and general nastiness like magnets? Anyone who's ever been near one that wasn't particularly well taken care of knows exactly w…
/r/MensRights09/12/19 07:26 AM
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I also recall an instance of Lena Dunham assaulting Brad Pitt a number of times, including forcefully kissing him. He looked so uncomfortable but hey, he's a man so he must have wanted it right?
/r/MensRights09/12/19 04:41 AM
2

It's crazy, right? I remember a story ages ago posted on here from a man who had his child circumcised against his wishes. I don't think I could find it again, but it was heartbreaking. Legally, a parent who disagrees with circumcision can file an injunction, but you'd have to do that ahead of time. It's the sort of thing that has potential to tear apart relationships at one of their most crucial points. I would be uncompromising as well, so I'm intent on making sure any woman I enter a relation…
/r/MensRights06/12/19 02:27 AM
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I think we just recognize that it wasn't just done out of malice. No one got a sick kick out of it, no one had it done to them for any malicious reasons. It's just what's done when you're born in America. It's just an ignorant cycle and it's going to take a lot of courageous men and women to stop. A problem is that the mother's decision is final as far as the doctors are concerned. If the mother wants circumcision and the father doesn't, that baby's getting circumcised. Men who are against circu…
/r/MensRights06/12/19 01:35 AM
9

Yeah, I looked at this and all I saw was the typical "toxic masculinity" narrative. Pretty much confirmed when I looked at the guy's twitter. He's just a virtue signalling crackpot who wants to abolish gender altogether.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 03:14 PM
10

It's more about the friction. When you have a foreskin, between the skin being able to move and a small amount of self lubrication between, there's not a whole lot of friction. For me, personally, any rubbing is like 100% friction. It is less sensitive, but dry friction is a problem. Blowjobs are eh, sex is alright but it takes a good while. Handjobs you can forget about. Trying not to go full TMI while also getting the point across is so difficult. But yeah, like I said I'm not too bothered for…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 02:21 PM
13

I don't feel like less of a man, but that doesn't make me not bothered by it. I don't know about most circumcised men, but I've got a real sensitivity issue. Skin to skin contact with no lubrication is pretty much impossible, it almost hurts. I can imagine this probably wouldn't be the case if I had a foreskin, so it's irritating. I'm not going to throw a fit over my own circumcision, I'm not going to resent the doctors or my parents. I feel like that's pretty pointless, there's no point being a…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:49 PM
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Feminists: We care about men's issues too! It's toxic masculinity's fault men can't talk about their problems. Also feminists: Lol, fragile men. sips from male tears mug
/r/MensRights05/12/19 07:06 AM
1

Once upon a time, this is how it worked: A man would work his hardest to become a provider. A woman would save her virginity until marriage. The man would agree provide for the woman for her entire life and what he got in exchange for all of his hard work was a loyal, loving, virginal wife who would provide him with children and her most beautiful years. This was a system that worked. It gave each sex incentive to be the best they could be. Then feminism's "sexual liberation" bullshit happened. …
/r/MensRights05/12/19 03:48 AM
1

Once upon a time, this is how it worked: A man would work his hardest to become a provider. A woman would save her virginity until marriage. The man would provide for the woman and what he got in exchange for all of his hard work was a loyal, virginal wife who would provide him with children and her most beautiful years. This was a system that worked. It gave each sex incentive to be the best they could be. Then feminism's "sexual liberation" bullshit happened. Now what's happening is women are …
/r/MensRights05/12/19 03:24 AM
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Yet another reason the Boy Scouts should have stayed the boy scouts.
/r/MensRights03/12/19 08:55 AM
5

There's a comment in that thread that said "This is why we need feminism". It's a post about a man being beaten, but somehow we need feminism. Copy-pasting my reply: Absolutely not. Feminism only pretends to support men in order to look good. I have never heard a feminist argument in "favor" of men that didn't blame men's issues on "toxic masculinity". It is quite frankly psychopathic to look at the issues men face, watch them kill themselves in record rates, know that there are men who cry them…
/r/MensRights03/12/19 06:16 AM
2

You are correct that the original OP should have indicated the overarching categories as different metrics in some way, but I would argue that the data still belongs. It's interesting to see how one sex may make up the majority in the larger category, but the minority in one of the subcategories.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 01:06 PM
2

The original spreadsheet from the Bureau of Labor Statistics lumps "Management, professional, and business" all into one large category and then branches them off underneath. One is for the encompassing group as a whole, the other is for the branch that is just management.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 12:19 PM
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According to the OP, 2018. US. Citation right here. I thought a workforce of 156 million seemed a bit low for a country with 327 million people in it, but it's spot on apparently.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 09:06 AM
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Tried to have a discussion with a feminist around a week ago. She brought up that ever-cited "inequality" about how there's a disparity in political and leadership positions between the sexes. I tried to explain that men and women have natural proclivities and women generally just don't gravitate toward positions where they have to be in charge. This woman was having none of it, refused to believe it, attempted to dismiss my statistics with a hand wave and was all around bitchy and annoying to e…
/r/MensRights02/12/19 08:56 AM
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Which is exactly why I posted it here. Why are that many people so offended by accurate data that they had to shut OP's thread down?
/r/MensRights02/12/19 06:20 AM
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As far as I can tell, most posts on that sub are generated by the users that post them. A lot of the posts are the user's own data that they've created a visual for, such as results of their Tinder swipes put in the form of a Sankey diagram. Sure, OP probably should have put ticks every 5 rather than every 20 and cropping it at the highest data point rather than 100% wasn't the best. That said I'm not a statistician but I couldn't really think of a better way to display this type of data.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 05:33 AM
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My post is a link directly to the original. It was in /r/dataisbeautiful and, in the moderator's words in the pinned comment, it was locked because too many people reported it. Yes, people in a subreddit called "data is beautiful" were offended by this.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 04:26 AM
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Not at all, I also pretty strongly doubt that sex work is accounted for either.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 03:51 AM
5

The hormones "ftm" individuals take elongate the clitoris to past an inch or so. It's not a surgery, it's a side effect. Before attempting to educate me, I'd recommend learning a bit about what you're attempting to push.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 02:11 AM
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Yep. I'll be referring to this graph from now on any time anyone tries to tell me women are oppressed because not enough of them are engineers.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 12:59 AM
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Nope. Not about to give extra rights to a fraction of a percent of the population. Believe me, "ftm" no straight woman is really interested in seeing your elongated clit dick. Nor is any straight man really interested in seeing an inverted dick on Hulk Hogan. You're fine to use the bathrooms that correspond to what you were born as. No one's going to peek on you.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 12:48 AM
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Apparently lots of the wamminfolk weren't too happy with having this information laid out in such an easily digestible manner. Edit: Yeah, I'll give it to the person below that my phrasing wasn't the best. The reports were probably from people who are offended by the idea that men and women generally have different inclinations.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 12:11 AM
1

"Only" 5%? That's insanity. If that statistic is true, that means if you grab a random woman off the street there's a 1 in 20 chance she's sold her body. Not to mention the 5% who admit to it are only the ones who are honest.
/r/MensRights01/12/19 08:46 AM
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Absolutely infuriating. What makes me extra mad is a few comments down from the top, someone tells OP he's the asshole "Because he trusted a hookup when she said she was on birth control". Take note. The woman who lied about being on birth control is not the asshole. The man who BELIEVED HER is.
/r/MensRights01/12/19 05:35 AM
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This is true. That's a line of reasoning I've been using since before I discovered menkampf. I was pretty happy when I came across it one day.
/r/MensRights30/11/19 11:23 PM
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I've always said, if you can take a feminist's words and replace "men" with "black people" or "jews" and it sounds incredibly fucked up, it's probably not okay to say.
/r/MensRights30/11/19 08:10 AM
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That one sentence made my rage go from 1 to 100 in an instant. The fact there are people that are so positively biased in favor of women that they will frame a woman MURDERING HER FUCKING CHILD as an act of love is exactly why MRAs need to exist.
/r/MensRights28/11/19 05:35 AM
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Yeah, the comment above was removed and the user's account is gone. I was going to message them and ask why the mods deleted their comment but they just don't exist anymore. Not sure if they were banned because someone didn't like their comment or if they got bullied into deleting their account.
/r/MensRights26/11/19 06:00 AM
2

Happened to me when I was younger in high school. Girl straight up cupped my junk through my pants and tried to wrap her hand around it. I was embarrassed at the time but shrugged it off, I didn't even bother to tell anyone because it "probably wasn't serious enough". Only later when I was a bit older did I realize that was sexual assault.
/r/MensRights26/11/19 05:50 AM
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I assume this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/e1h9eo/men_of_reddit_what_myth_about_men_is_100_untrue/ It's a good one. Frustrating the top comment is "I'm a woman but...." though. Edit: It was the thread in question, and wow, that comment was removed by mods.
/r/MensRights26/11/19 04:55 AM
0

Breeders No. These are what we call "simps". Sad guys who are so overwhelmed by their desire for pussy that they will do almost anything to acquire it. Beg, blow up a woman's social media with compliments, buy her things, etc. These things aren't what regular straight men do. These things are what desperate morons do.
/r/MensRights26/11/19 04:53 AM
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It's more that the places where the age of consent is older are the only ones actually doing it right. 14? A lot of 14 year olds are just hitting puberty, why would that ever be okay? Their idea of consent and "wanting it" is warped by their hormones. Why would anyone above 20 even want to be with a 14 year old? You could never relate to them on any fundamental level because no matter how "mature for their age" they could be, they don't have the life experience. They aren't even fully their own …
/r/MensRights25/11/19 10:06 PM
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Sex you regret consenting to is not rape. If women are strong, independent, responsible adults, which I believe they are, they are at fault for their own decisions. Getting plastered ass drunk is a decision.
/r/MensRights17/10/19 06:55 PM
5

I couldn't count the number of times I've seen the women in the audience collectively "Whooo!" when hot-male-protagonist-guy in a movie takes off his shirt. Also let's not forget things like 50 shades, Twilight, and Magic Mike which only amount to fantasy fodder for horny, lonely women.
/r/MensRights17/10/19 05:58 PM
8

Wait you mean to tell me that groups can have overlaps? Beliefs don't have to be mutually exclusive? Wow, who would have thought? I'm pretty sure you could look at almost any two groups whose views don't necessarily fall in line with each other and find an overlap. Conservative gays? Yep. Liberal fascists? Yep, this twitter post is an example of one. The point is that most of us here legitimately just want an end to double standards, discrimination and for children to stop getting parts of their…
/r/MensRights09/10/19 07:19 PM
9

As everyone else said, this is pretty frivolous. It's just a name based on the people who make up the vast, vast majority of their target demographic. You are an exception to the rule. I don't think anyone really would be upset over a lawncare app named DadsAhoy or something.
/r/MensRights09/10/19 02:14 PM
1

I don't need a lecture. I don't need a lecture about what the MRM is about. I don't need a lecture about how we are not "Just feminism but for men". I've been doing this for years, I know what's up. I was specifically attacking this notion that I have seen mentioned multiple times lately that all feminists are awful man haters and that anyone who doesn't hate them is a "fake moderate". It's just a tactic to silence anyone who's not willing to generalize, and this is not what I joined the MRM for…
/r/MensRights29/09/19 06:13 AM
1

This is exactly what feminists do when they accuse us of being some kind of incel woman hating club. You are misrepresenting an entire group of people based on a few loud shitheads. I don't think the vast majority of ordinary women out there who would call themselves feminists are malicious. They're ignorant and brainwashed. They've lived their entire lives having it pounded into their head that things are awful for them. Same way most people who are raised religious continue to be religious. Th…
/r/MensRights28/09/19 07:26 AM
1

You could have just asked "Hey, can you find that video again? I would like to see proof" but you chose to be an antagonistic asshole. Now you get nothing, you get to continue to be an ignorant cunt because I don't have anything to prove to a person like you.
/r/MensRights28/09/19 04:12 AM
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Someone did a video similar to this around the last presidential election. They went around to college campuses, told the students about a policy saying it was from Bernie or Obama or something, asked them if they were in favor of it. Of course they were. Consistently. They loved it, best idea ever. Then comes the reveal that it was actually a Trump policy.
/r/MensRights27/09/19 03:29 PM
6

As a man, you learn to avoid children that aren't yours like the goddamn plague. I do not help children. I don't make funny faces at the baby in the grocery line ahead of me. I don't look at or acknowledge any child that's not my family. That's what it's come to, and it's sad. I'm an uncle to 10 and I have a soft spot for kids. Once at a graduation event for a family member a random little girl came up and wrapped herself around my leg, I lean down to ask if she's okay and a woman jerks her away…
/r/MensRights26/09/19 06:19 AM
1

I got in an argument about this a while back on /r/Documentaries. Someone had posted a documentary about a girl getting assaulted by a couple of student athletes and the legal aftermath. A few of the school staff allegedly knew about the assault and didn't report it. Apparently it was meant to be some big exposé on "the boys will be boys mentality". I said that "boys will be boys" being an excuse for rape is a strawman and not something anyone actually uses. That the actual meaning of the phrase…
/r/MensRights25/09/19 08:36 AM
4

Ah yes, the best room of the house, the pissandshitroom.
/r/MensRights22/09/19 12:31 PM
1

Bit intellectually dishonest. Considering lung damage tends to be more of a slow burn "thing that will kill you over the course of like 20 years" thing it's kind of unfair to say "practically no one has died from vaping".
/r/MensRights13/09/19 05:52 AM
1

We actually don't though. He wasn't a mentally stable person, he could have been abusive. I know people around here have a hateboner for false accusations but we shouldn't just assume every accusation is false. That's doing the exact same thing feminists do at the other end of the spectrum. I'm not concerned with whether or not the allegations are true or not. I'm concerned about the fact that she publicly humiliated and slanderized a troubled individual who had attempted suicide at least once b…
/r/MensRights04/09/19 04:30 PM
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I've debated this with people and, I shit you not, I have seen people say "You just want to hit women". Not particularly, I don't want to hit anybody. I am just sick of the double standard. Men know that if we hit someone there will be consequences of some sort. We hit a man, there's a chance he's a better fighter than us. We hit a woman or a child, we will be punished in every manner possible. Socially. Legally. Physically. Emotionally. Woman hits a man? Well then, if he's hurt he must be a wea…
/r/MensRights02/09/19 03:47 PM
2

"Breasts aren't sexual"? I once had an ex tell me that she used to put on a low cut shirt any time she had to ask guy friends for favors. She knew what she was doing, as does every woman intent on showing off their chest. She just wasn't in denial about it.
/r/MensRights02/09/19 02:52 PM
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I approve the sentiment, hate the language. "Under attack" makes it sound like the backlash is wrongful or unreasonable. It's not. This idea that "Because X had some hard times in the past, Y should feel it now too" is honestly disgusting. Same goes for people who think it's okay to be a dickhead to white people because slavery happened.
/r/MensRights22/08/19 02:19 PM
1

And? What's wrong with that? I always hear this, that somehow because the attention has a sexual undertone that it's meaningless. Yet it's still positive attention that most men would die for. Like damn, the average man, we get nothing. The most positive attention I get from a woman is a "thank you" and a smile when I help them reach something off a grocery store shelf. Gotta provide something to even get a shred of humanity.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 03:37 AM
1

As I said on another post about this, 9 months (effectively 5) is not enough. She cost the man both his marriage and his job, and if he has children he's now on the hook for child support which he can't even pay with no job. Also now it's going to be more difficult for him to find a job because any time a name or background check is run on him, the fact that he was jailed for sexual assault comes up. It's a permanent stain, impossible to get rid of. Lock false rape accusers up. I want years, at …
/r/MensRights09/08/19 06:37 AM
12

The bell curve shows that men make up both the highest and lowest outliers in IQ. Meaning that women are less likely to be below average but also less likely to be genius. ​ Just me being snarky at the implication that boy students are problem children.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 09:07 PM
25

My students are mostly females, which limits the likelihood there's a genius among them.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 08:53 PM
47

Of course, it's always someone else's fault. There's this mentality that women are never to be held accountable for their own actions. It's always "Well she must have had a good reason...." and that's that. ​ Meanwhile if the sexes were reversed a man who had done this would be fucking buried under the prison. After Tyrone and Bubba had their way with him, of course.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 03:31 PM
9

That means 13 years was the potential sentence. Instead she got 10 years of probation, meaning no jail time and she just has to keep her nose clean for 10 years but otherwise can go about her normal life.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 03:27 PM
28

Actually sexual abuse rates among school age children are pretty much identical. It becomes a different story for adults, but a young boy alone is just as much a potential target as a young girl.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 08:49 PM
28

That really irritated me. "Well it is New York, and people are busy..." No, fuck that. He was ignored, started asking for help, and was still ignored until he gave up. Perfect analog for what actually happens to boys and men on a regular basis.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 08:44 PM
33

"At one point he also began asking for assistance, but was ignored."
/r/MensRights21/07/19 06:16 PM
2

Depends if this is an expensive restaurant or just a large group of people. If it's a group of 10+ people then yeah, I think it's a bit more reasonable to expect a larger tip. If it's just 2-3 people and the food's just expensive, a $16 tip is plenty. ​ Me personally, if I go out to eat alone and my bill comes to $10, I leave 5. I feel like there's a scale for the tip vs. number of people. One person should tip a higher percentage than a group of 2-4, and so should a group of more than 6 or 7.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 02:29 PM
3

It's not that bad. I don't remember ever having foreskin, so I'm not upset about it. Like I'm not happy about it, but my penis is what it is and it works. No amount of complaining is going to fix it, so I just accept it while also doing my best to make sure it doesn't happen to others.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 06:03 PM
6

80-90% of male babies in America are circumcised. It's essentially an epidemic, parents now do it just because they think it's the "normal" thing to do.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 06:01 PM
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Considering about 70% of divorces are initiated by the woman, I'd say it's highly unlikely it's a man's fault he's not "a husband". In fact a man is more likely to stay in a marriage he's unhappy in because a split would mean losing his child. I'm watching a family member go through this right now, he wants a divorce but knows he will lose his son, so he stays in this shitty marriage.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 03:46 PM
97

Really though why do young women seem to think it's cute to be crazy, bitchy, and violent? Like they have absolutely no problem committing these crimes and even going as far as to essentially brag about it.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 07:50 PM
6

"Can get". As long as you're a man. If you're a woman you'll probably get a year of community service.
/r/MensRights23/03/19 06:14 AM
48

I'm so surprised fucking BBC of all things would do something like this. They've been pushing the "man bad, woman wonderful" agenda for years and it has only gotten worse recently.
/r/MensRights17/02/19 03:24 PM
15

I want to see a man actually call it and get some help though. Apparently it's really rare for men who call domestic abuse helplines to actually get help. A lot of time they're treated as the abuser and sometimes they're even outright laughed at. ​ We live in a fucking society.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 09:57 PM
1

A lot of people will try and deflect the male suicide rate by saying "but women attempt it more!". ​ Listen. People who actually want to die don't fail in their attempts that much. Men commit suicide because they want to die. Women fail at suicide because they don't.
/r/MensRights28/01/19 11:29 PM
20

If you're a Chinese woman and are currently pregnant with a Chinese baby girl, do us all a favor and take a trip to an abortion clinic. ​ What? What do you mean 'that's not okay to say'?
/r/MensRights26/01/19 05:55 AM
28

Oooo sorry, you can't say that man. That goes against the narrative.
/r/MensRights26/01/19 05:47 AM
63

But-but-but, what about toxic masculinity?
/r/MensRights26/01/19 05:43 AM
2

Feminists also make up a significantly larger portion of the population than the niche that is anti-feminism. On top of that, no one wants to give anti-feminists a voice. It's an unpopular sentiment and they would sooner be silenced than publicized. Ironically, the main way anti-feminists gain attention is through controversy. ​ This all aside, I don't actually believe that "feminists have thousands of members who are able to argue at a more elevated level". I've seen the TED talks, the universi…
/r/MensRights25/01/19 07:53 PM
7

Oh boy, I can already hear the feminists screeching about this. ​ This is fair though. IT is a high paying job, and in Germany women are allowed an entire year of paid maternity leave. Quite honestly, I'd rather hire men.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 04:00 PM
8

I think you're giving feminists (and yourself) way too much credit. The vast majority of feminists are college-age women who know how to screech a couple of buzzwords and memorized lines. The moment they're met with an actual argument they just cry "Incel! Mysogyny! Entitlement! I'm afraid to walk alone at night!" and fuck off into the abyss like the harpies they are.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 03:41 PM
9

If you'd have read the article, you'd have seen that the man filed for divorce and was not granted it. In fact, he got reprimanded for not "gracefully accepting" the lack of sex. Sorry, call me what you want but a reliable source of sex has pretty much always been the main draw of a marriage. If a man is being refused sex within his marriage he should be able to call it quits or seek it elsewhere.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 02:11 PM
3

I would say that masculinity is essentially the traits that, going as far back as all known history, would have been expected of or desirable in a man. Physical strength, protectiveness, problem solving skills, working with one's hands, being a provider. In the same way, femininity is the traits that are traditionally expected of or desirable in a woman. Small size, wide hips, gentle demeanor, nurturing, homemaking skills. ​ This is why toxic masculinity can never be a thing. None of the things …
/r/MensRights25/01/19 05:20 AM
9

More than anything I'm tired of being vilified. It's always something, there's always one way or another for the man to be the bad guy. ​ A while back I saw this post on reddit, something along the lines of "What's the worst part of being a man?". It had thousands of comments, and a lot of them were about being constantly vilified. There's this way people look at you, like they're always assuming the worst. You get that look when you approach a woman. You get that look when you have any interact…
/r/MensRights24/01/19 11:53 PM
1

Okay, you are actually a moron. These people are defending a MAN'S RIGHT to be present at the birth of his child in a MEN'S RIGHTS subreddit. No one here is a feminist. You're angry that you've been proven wrong, repeatedly, and now you're trying to excuse yourself by calling us feminists trolls. ​ There are curtains, and blankets, and gowns to prevent a woman's lower half from being visible. Just because a man wants to be present at the birth doesn't mean he has to have a full on spread eagle v…
/r/MensRights24/01/19 10:35 PM
2

I'm pretty sure there are precautions that can be and normally are taken to prevent "a woman being seen naked without her consent". The three people who have 100% of a right to be in the delivery room are the parents and the doctor. Everyone else is at discretion. ​ If someone presumed to tell me that I couldn't be present at the birth of my own child, they would be sorely mistaken.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 10:00 PM
23

Considering that whether he is willing or not, the father is going to be spending the next 18 years being financially responsible for that child, he has absolutely every right to be in there.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 09:06 PM
10

Right, I have nothing against a hairy vagina or even hairy legs, but jungle pits is where I draw the fucking line. I will absolutely not deal with that, and before any woman calls me superficial I would advise them to take a look at their own standards of men.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 08:48 PM
4

The implication that men don't care about raising their own children is disgusting. From what I've read on the subject, a lot of the problem is that a lot of fathers don't have the resources to fight a custody battle. ​ Say a man is going through a divorce. Not only is he losing half of his worth, he's going to have to pay child support. He can't afford legal fees. On the other end, the woman's getting paid child support, and a lot of lawyers will take custody battles as pro bono cases. ​ The ma…
/r/MensRights24/01/19 08:41 PM
4

Wild creatures that can't control themselves ​ Yeah, I've never seen a woman blame her lack of self control on "Hormones" or anything like that... ​ Oh wait.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 05:24 PM
7

I hope you don't mind if I respond to you with refutations to this post, since you've pinged them: ​ Men have to sign up for the draft in order to vote. We effectively sell our souls to the armed forces to earn our vote. What, pray tell, is required of women in order to earn their vote? Men do not have the ability to make their own reproductive choices. A woman can abort a man's child at the snap of a finger. Inversely, she could have the child and force the man to support it for 18 years. Women…
/r/MensRights24/01/19 05:16 AM
1

I find the irony that is "manspreading" to be hilarious. Feminists tell men that they should close their legs and deal with the discomfort of crushing their testicles. ​ This, however, is disregarding a man's bodily autonomy. Know who talks a lot about the bodily autonomy of women? Feminists. The hypocrisy is never-ending.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 07:11 PM
1

A recent study by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) found that 60% of employers give 12 weeks of maternity leave; 33% give more than 12 weeks. ​ More than half give 3 months, and 1/3 give more than that.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 04:23 PM
0

I mean, the evidence is in the statistics. 85% of homeless people are men. Why? Because if a man quits working there is absolutely no safety net for him. ​ Yet women are able to get months of paid time off just for having a kid.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 03:53 PM
3

My philosophy is pretty simple: If a woman portrays herself to be a sex object, I will view her as a sex object. If you wear a top that shows 75% boob and shorts with your ass hanging out I am going to assume that you want sexual attention. This isn't to say that I'll ever touch or assault anyone, but I have absolutely no problem with looking as hard as I want. ​ Either put on some clothes or accept that the goods you're purposely showing off are being viewed.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 05:06 AM
23

Somewhere within the comments of the video is a response from the CEO of Egard. He says that he consulted friends and associates before making the video, and people told him that such a video would be brand suicide, and his company would surely die. Yet he did it anyway and now look, his business is booming.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 04:39 AM
464

I just laugh at downvotes. An imaginary -1 doesn't invalidate an argument, actual argument does. A downvote is more or less "This upsets me but I'm too stupid to formulate a valid response".
/r/MensRights21/01/19 04:52 AM
0

Alright, I do think you're confused. My comment was a response to OP. OP seems adamant that MRAs just have a victim complex. I'm saying that it's pretty clear that we have legitimate grievances, most people just don't acknowledge them. The women who refuse to acknowledge men's issues are self centered and/or brainwashed. The men who refuse to acknowledge men's issues are too busy chasing ass and/or white knighting. Yes, these are generalizations but they seem pretty encompassing for people who a…
/r/MensRights21/01/19 04:46 AM
0

You might want to check again, it seems like you're confused.
/r/MensRights21/01/19 04:14 AM
5

Anyone who would dare to put an ounce of thought into it could see the troubles men face today. The problem is that most women are blind to all problems that aren't their own and most men are pussy worshipers. So which are you? I'm betting the second. ​ I recognize that this post was made for no other reason but to troll, but it's actually just plain funny to watch someone be such a purposefully ignorant coward.
/r/MensRights21/01/19 03:33 AM
3

Here's an album of them.
/r/MensRights20/01/19 07:39 PM
19

I'm going to be honest: As a man, I'm bloody fucking tired of being expected to sacrifice. We're taught and expected to sacrifice our health, our time, our money and our feelings and it's a terribly thankless job. Women don't value or respect us anymore. So no. I am not going to be fighting any wars for anyone. ​ If feminists value equality as much as they say they do, let them be the ones to sacrifice. Just for once. My life doesn't mean less because I'm physically stronger. That's a bullshit a…
/r/MensRights19/01/19 07:16 PM
91

"Blackness is not under attack. Blackness is being redefined to not include rape or stealing" ​ If you can switch men/male/masculinity out with a race and their argument suddenly becomes racist or just plain incredibly fucked up, then it's also not okay to say about men.
/r/MensRights19/01/19 05:05 AM
7

Yeah, what I assume they're doing is taking a lot of dislikes and turning them into likes. That's how the like bar is moving up a ton faster than the dislike one. ​ It started out as a 1:10 ratio of likes:dislikes, now it's at about 1:2. It's not that opinions have changed. It's that YouTube is manually "changing" the opinions.
/r/MensRights19/01/19 02:52 AM
10

You literally can't charge different amounts for the same service to different people. That is against the law.
/r/MensRights19/01/19 02:07 AM
6

I blame what can only be referred to as "passenger seat parenting" for this. Parents don't actually want to raise their kids. It's a whole lot easier to stick them in front of a TV or iPad for 10 hours a day than it is to deal with the bumps and scrapes that come from letting a kid be a kid. So now a kid being a kid is literally an undesirable trait. ​ It's bonkers, man. I miss tree climbing and exploring the woods. I'd still do it if I weren't too big for trees and could be in the woods without…
/r/MensRights19/01/19 01:08 AM
57

It's sad that after all the misinformation about uncircumcised penises was proven to be false, it's still done. For the worst possible reason: ​ It's done because women prefer them that way. A woman who's handled mostly circumcised penises gets it in her head that that's the way they should be, so she has her kid circumcised too, and it never ends. It never will end until it becomes illegal, because a woman's preference is basically law in modern society.
/r/MensRights19/01/19 01:02 AM
1

"Someone complimented me so I assaulted them." ​ ....k. Feminists are fucking nutjobs, I swear.
/r/MensRights18/01/19 10:38 PM
5

There is no such thing as toxic masculinity. If you believe so, you have an inherent bias against men. This thing people claim is "toxic masculinity" is just called being a shitty person, and loads of women are capable of it too. ​ I've had a lot of woman friends and they all say the same thing: Women are awful toward each other. This is exactly why a lot of women prefer to have male friends, because women treat each other fucking terribly. It's always a competition about who's prettier, who can…
/r/MensRights18/01/19 08:43 PM
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You can't just say "That's not how any of this works," call it bullshit, and provide no evidence or reasoning for your claims. Even for children who do have both parents, the father is usually the one who works/is away the most. You can see the discrepancies in statistics of number of hours worked by gender. ​ So dads are away at work. Daycares mostly employ women. Schools mostly employ women. The vast majority of children have little to zero positive male influence, that is a fact that you can'…
/r/MensRights18/01/19 08:30 PM
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It's not even just working with kids. It's everyday life for a man. I was at a graduation event for a family member and a young girl, probably 5 or so came and clamped herself onto my leg. I lean down to ask her if she's lost/needs help and some woman comes up, jerks her away, and treats me like I'm the one in the wrong. ​ I hate not even being able to acknowledge the existence of a child because men can only ever have bad intentions according to society.
/r/MensRights18/01/19 08:20 PM
3

To be honest, it's probably more a party thing than a gender thing. A liberal man is likely to be a male feminist, a conservative woman is far more likely to value a man. Examples being Justin Trudeau and Karen Straughan.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 11:56 PM
15

They've been trained well. Most men who support this ad seem to be one of the folowing: ​ Men who are demonstrating the "Men are bad, women are wonderful" effect. Male feminists, indoctrinated males, or men who will agree with anything they think will get them laid. The actual toxic ones who are calling men frail babies and what have you for feeling some sort of way about this ad.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 05:11 PM
1

I find it ridiculous that defending men and calling out anti-male rhetoric is so controversial that people come in acting like some wild shit went down.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 04:54 PM
5

Funnily enough, women are responsible for a disproportionate amount of child abuse and child deaths. It would seem as though women are just as violent as men, they just choose victims that are small enough to not be able to fight back.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 09:19 AM
2

I already am. I just wish enough people were privy to these issues to do the same. Gillette losing <1% of their sales isn't really going to hurt them, and it's hard to get enough awareness out there to actually do anything substantial.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 01:48 AM
4

Man is strong and emotionally steadfast: Toxic masculinity. Men should be more in touch with their feelings. Man brings up something that bothers him: Male fragility, lol male tears are funny. ​ Calling a woman out for sleeping around is slut shaming and it's not okay to judge a woman for how much sex she has. It is, however, okay to judge a man for how much sex he doesn't have. ​ Alright, no. This is not okay. I swear to fuck I am so sick of this. The anti-male rhetoric. The double standards. T…
/r/MensRights16/01/19 01:07 AM
5

They probably don't have fathers, which is why they have zero respect for a man and his family.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 07:24 PM
3

Dumb girl, he is about 3 times your size, don't start shit with a man thinking you can't get hit back. Equal rights, equal lefts. The sad thing is he's probably facing years in prison for that.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 05:53 PM
1

Was it though? He didn't scream anything at her or "catcall". It just looked like he was about to go talk to her. Maybe he was unsavory, but let's wait until he actually does something wrong to make that decision. The message was loud and clear, as it has been in anti-male rhetoric for years: You're not allowed to approach a woman anymore, and with men only getting replies on dating sites about 4% of the time, I guess the only option is to be exceptionally good looking and wait for women to appr…
/r/MensRights15/01/19 04:02 PM
7

...and people wonder why men kill themselves 3 times as often as women. ​ People point out that women "attempt" suicide much more often. I don't believe that. Men succeed in suicide because they actually want to die. Women fail because they want attention.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 03:10 PM
4

I want to say that you'll be fine, but honestly there's no telling. If there's one thing I know, it's that men aren't allowed to have anything. Over 1,000 women only shelters can exist just fine, but the moment a man only shelter is opened up, the backlash is unreal.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 02:44 AM
5

What a coincidence, I love seeing illiterate morons try to make sentences.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 12:00 AM
11

I never would have expected a razor company to branch out into soy farming.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 07:57 PM
6

I never would have expected a razor company to branch out into soy farming.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 07:55 PM
18

The part that angers me most about this is that last statement and the angel emoji. She knows what she's saying is shitty, and she knows she can get away with it because she's an above average looking woman.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 07:50 PM
6

If a man can be smacked with financial and/or parental responsibility, he has every right to know if a child is actually his. Expose the cheaters and force them to be responsible for their own promiscuity. No one wants to be tied to a public fleshlight.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 07:11 PM
54

To be honest it's not even about wanting an apology. Hollow, dishonest, corporate apologies never mean anything anyway. I just want to see them backtrack.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 06:41 PM
6

I don't actually know. Like I said, it's been years since I've had to buy a razor. Bic is probably the second best bet, but honestly I'll learn to shave with a straight razor before I give Gillette another dime.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 05:55 PM
201

Just sent Gillette an email as follows: I am writing to inform you that I am severely discontented with this "Best Men Can Be" ad. I will not simply sit in quiet acceptance while myself and other men are demonized, patronized, and belittled by an advertisement for a male hygiene product. Gillette has lost my business until an apology is issued, be it forever if it must. Send your own similar message. Make your voice heard.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 05:46 PM
61

The thing is, there was no sexual assault. There was a man about to go flirt with a woman he found attractive, which apparently isn't allowed anymore. There was bullying, but that is not something exclusive to males. School age girls are fucking ruthless toward each other.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 05:45 PM
49

I haven't shaved in about 2 years but I guarantee that if I ever have to shave again, it will not be with a Gillette product.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 05:07 PM
46

Funny though, that some aspects of "traditional masculinity", particularly the ones that benefit women, are considered okay. Such as being a provider, a problem solver, a fixer. Wonder what would happen if every time a woman asked for help, men just went "Sorry, can't. That'd be toxic masculinity".
/r/MensRights14/01/19 03:41 PM
6

I honestly hate this so much. The fact that a woman can sleep with anyone she wants, decide she regrets it, and call it rape is absolutely disgusting. Any and every woman I have a sexual relationship from this point onward will be filming a consent video. If she has a problem with it, she couldn't be trusted anyway.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 03:26 PM
3

Keep political/sociopolitical indoctrination out of education, plain and simple. How come this has been allowed to become so widespread? It's abominable to take a bunch of young, impressionable people who haven't found their way in life yet, put them in a classroom and tell them "You're oppressed and (men/white people/conservatives) are the ones oppressing you!". ​ This is no different than Hitler propagandizing young men into hating Jews or jihadis teaching their children to hate the west.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 03:17 PM
6

Funnily enough, looking at crime statistics, women commit drug related crimes far more than men do.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 02:56 PM
2

I keep seeing this argument, so I made an alt account and asked /r/feminism how they felt about paternity tests to prevent men from being forced to support children that aren't theirs. My post was rejected by mods and deleted before it had the chance to get a single reply. If that's anything to judge by, there's your answer about how feminists feel.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 02:47 PM
3

I keep seeing people saying that they haven't seen feminists complaining about this, so I made an alt account to ask /r/feminism how they felt about paternity testing. The post was rejected and deleted before it got a single reply.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 02:43 PM
3

Pretty much. More often than not, it's something along the lines of: ​ "Wow, you're a man and you're complaining? It must be because you can't get laid, lol. Try being a better man and maybe women will want you". This is pretty much the default argument and it infuriates me.
/r/MensRights13/01/19 04:53 PM
3

The issue is not "They did it too". The issue is "They do it but no one seems to mind or even notice when they do it". This sub and others like it are met with constant derision, "incel" and "virgin" are thrown around a lot, implying that the only reason a man could have a problem with society is that he can't get laid. Yet by and large, feminism is seen as something positive by society. My reasoning for my first comment was to expose the double standards. You have to be pretty sideways in the h…
/r/MensRights13/01/19 08:27 AM
16

It really isn't though, at least not in my opinion. The people who go MGTOW have been incredibly hurt. You have to have been hurt pretty badly to decide that you're no longer interested in women. For me it's a case of self preservation. I'm not in incel, I've just bad endings to too many good relationships. The only time in my life I've ever truly considered killing myself was after my last relationship ended, and it's a risk I'm not willing to take again.
/r/MensRights12/01/19 04:25 PM
15

I've never been to that subreddit in spite of having sworn off relationships myself. The problem is, there were multiple mentions of *this* sub in that thread as well. This is basically a textbook case of "Sit down, shut up, and don't you dare speak out of turn again".
/r/MensRights12/01/19 04:18 PM
27

I personally have been banned from TwoX for speaking in defense of men. When I made my account you were auto-subbed to a bunch of subreddits, including TwoX, and it was, at least at the time, a miserable place and anti-male rhetoric constantly made my front page.
/r/MensRights12/01/19 04:13 PM
3

Well, considering it's on a post about suicide and men kill themselves 3 times as often as women do yeah, I'd say it's an issue that needs to be addressed. Women don't really have to deal with being discarded and disregarded on a daily basis.
/r/MensRights10/01/19 10:25 AM
20

It's so ironic to see "Extra praise cause he's a man". Women are by and large praised simply for existing.
/r/MensRights09/01/19 04:15 PM
2

If you're calling them desperate, you really don't understand. MGTOW are men who have paid attention and decided that the potential benefits of a relationship are far outweighed by the risks and losses. ​ Risks of pursuing women: Constant rejection. The average woman's tendency toward hypergamy. Being cheated on. Being used for money or free meals. False rape accusations. Unwanted children and 18 years of financial enslavement. Skyrocketing divorce rates, 70% of which are initiated by the woman.…
/r/MensRights09/01/19 03:52 PM
2

Ah yes, "victim blaming" is totally okay when the victim is a man!
/r/MensRights09/01/19 02:46 PM
28

Here's the thing though: It's not "whataboutism". I bring up men's issues when a feminist has no concept of perspective. For example, in this case above. "Violence against women" okay, but men are about twice as likely to be victims of violent crime and three times as likely to be murder victims. So maybe if you actually care about equality, don't centralize the problem to the gender that is actually the least likely to be victimized. ​ Same with FGM. People flip the unholy fuck out at the idea …
/r/MensRights07/01/19 12:12 PM
7

Isn't that the funniest thing? Feminists love to believe they're calling out people for "shaming" of various types but I don't think I've ever seen someone as quick to shame another as the average feminist. Isn't it also funny how it's not okay to shame a girl the amount of sex she has, but it is somehow okay to shame a guy for being a virgin?
/r/MensRights07/01/19 12:56 AM
4

Agreed. I always see feminists spout this argument, "Women don't owe men anything". Listen. If I'm paying $110 for your meal, you do owe me. That's a good chunk of money for a meal and if I'm spending that, it's an investment. I'm not in the business of throwing money in the trash.
/r/MensRights06/01/19 09:35 PM
14

The original post is here. The saddest part is the mod locked it, saying it was getting too "Incel". Sorry but women like this need to get called on their bullshit. If the new definition of incel is one who calls out disgusting pattern behaviors rather than being one to "sit down, shut up, and accept it" then fuck, I guess I'd rather be an incel.
/r/MensRights06/01/19 09:30 PM
27

So it's okay for her to take up 3 seats but a man gets bitched at for not compressing himself to half his normal size? No, princess, that's not how this works.
/r/MensRights06/01/19 09:08 PM
35

Legitimately, even if the pay gap did exist and was a real thing, it would be justified because 93% of workplace deaths are men. I find it funny how people who claim to believe in "equality" get so defensive when you bring up an inequality that affects man.
/r/MensRights06/01/19 09:02 PM
34

Imagine being such a cold, black-hearted, miserable person that you find smiling to be a chore. I'm just a regular guy, not particularly charismatic and pretty introverted, but I always naturally smile when interacting with strangers. It's not something I have to force myself to do. I smile when thanking the cashier. I smile when holding the door open for someone. I smile when helping a short woman reach something from the top shelf at the store. It's effortless and you never know if flashing so…
/r/MensRights05/01/19 05:07 PM
7

Crazy how you can't even trust them even after they're legally out of your life.
/r/MensRights04/01/19 07:05 AM
11

The thing that irritates me most about this is how when the idea of financial abortion comes up, it's always a character benchmark for the man. Always the same sort of line. "A real man would accept responsibility" "This is YOUR child, man up" "Only a manbaby would want to abort his own child". ​ Yet these same lines don't fly when directed at a woman.
/r/MensRights04/01/19 12:42 AM
1

"The truth hurts"? Wow, what a misogynist. Women deserve to be free from criticism, how dare you try and make it seem as if women are responsible for their own choices. ​ (Note: Poe's law)
/r/MensRights04/01/19 12:12 AM
16

Ah yes, the "He deserved it" defense. Far more socially acceptable version of its counterpart, the "She had it coming" defense, which instantly makes you an incel misogynist rapist.
/r/MensRights03/01/19 11:54 PM
0

Woman does something bad: "It was a one time thing, she made a mistake and she probably had a good reason for it". ​ Man does something bad: "What a disgusting monster, I hope he's put away forever. Men will never change".
/r/MensRights31/12/18 01:41 AM
11

Would you still find this cringe reading the original, unedited quotes? Anything short of "Yes, absolutely, this is just as cringe both ways" is hypocritical.
/r/MensRights28/12/18 10:32 PM
3

Honestly men are a lot to blame for the behavior of women these days. Little girls are worshiped and spoiled by their fathers ("daddy's girls"), then once they get to the age where they can start receiving sexual attention, they're worshiped and spoiled by guys who just want to get their dick wet. ​ The megalomania of women is the doing of men. If men would stop treating women like they could do no wrong, things would probably be a lot better for everyone.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 08:39 AM
4

Pretty much. Studies have also shown that happier marriages are linked to the woman having fewer partners before marriage.
/r/MensRights17/12/18 12:38 AM
6

Sometimes role reversal is the only way to get through to these people. Feminists only ever think about themselves so if you want them to understand you have to put them in your shoes, and the best way to do that is use their own arguments but flip the genders.
/r/MensRights16/12/18 11:49 PM
4

Funny thing, women actually commit a disproportionate majority of child and baby murders. It's not as if women have any less of a violent/murderous tendency, they just choose smaller victims.
/r/MensRights13/12/18 01:45 AM
1

Okay, feminists. Imagine your breasts now exist under your armpits. Every time you put your arms down, they are crushed. You realize you take up a bit of extra space and you try your best not to, but it is painful and very uncomfortable. Now imagine that a portion of the population is on a crusade against you for not wanting to crush your own sensitive body parts. They demonize you to the fullest extent simply because you were born with sensitive sacks in inconvenient places. Got the image in yo…
/r/MensRights13/12/18 01:36 AM
31

Woman only bathrooms: Privacy for women and children away from the covetous eyes of bad, bad men. Man only bathrooms: What? Give men the same courtesy and privacy women are guaranteed? No way! Sounds about right for this absolute fucking mess of a society.
/r/MensRights13/12/18 01:17 AM
3

"I agree in equality across the board" But "Anyone who defends men and expects women to he held accountable is a pussy sexist incel" I take it you don't actually believe in equality then.
/r/MensRights12/12/18 10:00 PM
18

Having a child is absolutely a choice. No one deserves a year of paid holiday just for having a baby.
/r/MensRights30/11/18 07:59 PM
10

The US is actually the only country in the world with constitutionally protected free speech. All others have an empty shell of "free speech" that is practically right out of 1984.
/r/MensRights28/11/18 12:59 PM
17

I hate this narrative that if a man speaks in defense of men, he is immediately some combination of all of the following: ​ A woman hater. An incel virgin loser or something along those lines. Mentally ill. A rapist or rape apologist. A stalker/murderer/creep. I see this way too often. Back when I made my reddit account you were automatically subscribed to /r/TwoXChromosomes and it was an absolute shitshow if you made a comment in defense of men.
/r/MensRights27/11/18 11:02 PM
2

Don't forget children, who are disproportionately murdered by women.
/r/MensRights27/11/18 10:01 PM
38

Women have the privilege of always being given the benefit of the doubt. If a woman reports her "harassment" something will be done about it regardless of if there's evidence or not.
/r/MensRights27/11/18 07:07 PM
2

Having a child is a choice.... unless you're a man.
/r/MensRights27/11/18 02:54 AM
1

Sounds about right. The irony here is that the commenters are blaming men for marrying lazy women, instead of blaming the women for being lazy.
/r/MensRights26/11/18 09:46 PM
1

Men, understandably, are terrified to interact in any way with a woman they're not familiar with. Statistics show that women are less likely to receive CPR. Why? Because to touch a woman without her consent is to risk ruination of your own life.
/r/MensRights26/11/18 08:50 PM
4

This reminds me of the time a (girls only) school removed the wall from the bathroom to combat illicit activities. The stalls had floor to ceiling doors with no gaps. In other words, it was still complete privacy aside from the hand washing area. Still, reddit and the mothers of students were in outrage. ​ I brought up the fact that many male bathrooms in schools don't even have doors on the stalls and, holy shit. from the reactions I got you would have thought I had murdered someone.
/r/MensRights26/11/18 08:11 PM
3

My wallet, my choice.
/r/MensRights26/11/18 07:53 PM
9

It's not necessary at all. In fact, in addition to being mentally damaging, it would also be physically damaging. The thing these trans pushers don't want you to know is this: When a child is allowed to "transition", they are ruining any chance of a "full" transition. A male child who wants to become a "girl" but never experiences puberty can never have the surgery because there is not enough material to work with, if you catch my drift.
/r/MensRights26/11/18 07:51 PM
2

Perhaps not but being a penis owner or sperm donor sure doesn't help the situation any.
/r/MensRights22/03/18 11:32 PM
0

Actually it has been proven that loss of eyesight is hugely more detrimental to a person's mental health than being born without it. That's a self-defeating argument.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 09:56 PM
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I would still have no frame of reference to know how much, if anything, I had truly lost. Knowing what I know now, would I choose circumcision for my baby self? Probably, yes. If I had grown up with a foreskin or had a point of reference for what having a foreskin was like, maybe that would change. As it is now though, I'm pretty satisfied with my penis as it is.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 07:16 PM
2

Have you discussed this with your parents? I mean, were they actually conned or misled into doing it, or was it just that it's the common thing to do?
/r/MensRights13/06/17 07:12 PM
-3

I don't remember ever having foreskin, so I don't feel like anything is missing. None of the common complaints or arguments against circumcision are things that I've encountered. I don't have problems with sensitivity, over or under. I don't have any pain. As far as I'm concerned, my penis has never given me any trouble.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 06:13 PM
1

Felt better in what way? Physically, or emotionally?
/r/MensRights13/06/17 06:04 PM
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That sounds like less of a circumcision problem and more a moisture problem. The chemicals in some soaps and stuff like that can cause skin to dry out. It's a problem even in men that still have their foreskins. It's like how delicate clothes can be damaged by certain detergents.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 06:02 PM
0

See, that's what I'm wondering. How many of us were actually adversely affected by it and how many of us are just arguing it for the sake of arguing it? Or arguing it because equality? The statistic that "119 male babies die each year due to circumcision" is debated by those in the medical field because there's no evidence. "In the agency’s last mortality report, which looked at all deaths in the country in 2010, no circumcision-related deaths were found".
/r/MensRights13/06/17 05:49 PM
3

So "Woman gets drunk, acts irresponsibly, but rather than admit she's a whore let's say it was non-consensual".
/r/MensRights13/06/17 04:27 PM
5

Maybe "every single" wasn't the right turn of phrase, but you understand my point. There are many more male geniuses from history. Again, this isn't a matter of being sexist. The male sex has a bunch of very dumb outliers as well.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 03:02 PM
3

"Genius" alienates women. Yes, it does, but not for the reason you think it does. If you look at the bell curve, the female bell curve is higher but narrower than the male one. This means that more women are in the "average" intelligence range. The male bell curve is much wider and slightly shorter. There is more variance on the male intelligence. We can be very stupid but we can also be genius. There is a reason every single "genius" from history has been a man, and it's not discrimination.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 02:32 PM
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Can someone tell me in what situations do women face discrimination in modern society? Please do. Does getting vastly more lenient sentences in court count? Does the fact that 85% of homeless are men count? Does the fact that 3/4 suicides are men count? My girlfriend said just yesterday: "Equality doesn't just mean the things that benefit them. Equality includes the bad things too. You'll never see feminists arguing for longer jail time". I disagree. You will see feminists arguing for longer jai…
/r/MensRights13/06/17 02:15 PM
3

There was a time when it was completely accepted and even normal for a 20, 30 year old man to marry a 12 year old. Younger women stay fertile longer, they stay pretty longer. But this was back when peoples' lifespans weren't very long and, in some cases, having more children meant more success (farmers, for example). Obviously though, those ideas are outdated. It's not acceptable anymore, and no one in the developed world does this. Feminists are mentally living in the past.
/r/MensRights12/06/17 06:29 PM
21

The train of thought these people must have to go through. The level of mental gymnastics it must take to reach these conclusions boggles my mind. "Ride sharing? Sounds like a great idea!... but, will there be men involved? I mean, men are dangerous. I don't want to share a ride with them. They might rape me. What? You say a very small percentage of men are rapists? You say the driver wouldn't let someone rape me? You say that men aren't likely to rape when the app they used to catch this ride k…
/r/MensRights11/06/17 06:13 PM
20

Immigration and the sudden influx of terrorist attacks? Nah. Brexit? Nah. Net neutrality? Nah. NHS? Nope. Economy? No. Let's fucking focus on diversity.
/r/MensRights11/06/17 06:02 PM
20

Willful ignorance, by definition. "Maybe if I don't watch it, it's like it doesn't exist. Then my opinions can't be wrong!".
/r/MensRights11/06/17 04:34 PM
9

How about we start removing the labia and/or clitoral hood from female babies then? I mean, they don't do anything. They just attract sweat and dirt and they're so difficult to keep clean, so just get rid of them. ...and then every time women wear clothes or wash their bits, any time anything brushes across that area their clit will be overstimulated and painful. Oh, and heaven forbid they decide to masturbate. But it's okay, because it's "cleaner".
/r/MensRights11/06/17 04:23 PM
2

Handedness is based on which side of the brain is dominant. It's referred to as brain lateralization. Right handed people have left dominant brains, and vice versa. In theory the closer the sides of your brain are to equal, the easier it would be to be ambidextrous.
/r/MensRights11/06/17 09:18 AM
9

I didn't say there was anything wrong with becoming a teacher. I said it was ironic. The so-called "wage gap" is the primary argument of so many feminists. The truth of the matter is that women make less money because they choose to be teachers and nurses rather than scientists or engineers. This is a prime example. A woman who had literally every opportunity to go into a STEM field and instead chose to teach. Yet she still believes she's oppressed.
/r/MensRights11/06/17 01:07 AM
2

She certainly believes she is. She used to be so cool. I actually really liked her back then, but a lifetime of being told how smart she was has gone to her head. She's now the type that, if you were to get into a debate with her, she'd name no facts or sources and just say "I'm a scientist, I know this and you can't argue with me".
/r/MensRights11/06/17 12:08 AM
47

This is akin to experimentation. It has been proven that raising your children against their natural selves (ex.: raising a left-handed child to be right-handed) has hugely adverse psychological effects. Please, world, do not let this woman do this. It is child abuse.
/r/MensRights10/06/17 11:49 PM
1

On the grander scale of "How this behavior impacts taxpayers and/or society as a whole" yes, I agree. I just find it ironic and a prime example of why the so-called "wage gap" is actually an earnings gap.
/r/MensRights10/06/17 10:51 PM
8

Did you know that fatherhood has been a man only job since as long as humans have existed? How sexist.
/r/MensRights10/06/17 08:41 PM
2

If women's breasts were under their armpits, would they be expected to keep their arms firmly down all the time?
/r/MensRights10/06/17 07:24 PM
15

I still find it funny. Waste of $240,000 in order to accomplish something she could have accomplished with a couple of years in a community college.
/r/MensRights10/06/17 06:10 PM
10

The "manspreading" pictures you all see are hugely exaggerated and closer to propaganda than anything else. Yes, though, it can be uncomfortable. Especially when transportation is involved, since you're more or less sitting in one place for large amounts of time. When I was in high school, I rode the bus to school. Somehow though, the school system had messed up their routes so it was too many people to one bus. We had to be packed on like sardines, mashed together. Needless to say, it was a ver…
/r/MensRights10/06/17 05:31 PM
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