PudgieHedgie Archive

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1	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man Man they don't know shit, universe is a fucking onion and we're all inside Jupiter's atmosphere or some shit. Can't remember my favorite one. 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 04:54 AM
1	Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish? Okay, if that's how you feel. I dont know why you continue to respond. You had a whole nothing burger of a comment in the first place and only responded to me to try and be inflammatory. I'm not bothered by you or your elementary playground insults. Ooooh, your hair is dumb thats how you sound to me. I'm so hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 04:03 AM
1	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' I'm not. I'm defending someone getting attacked for no reason other than expressing that she would lose all trust in her relationship of 15 years. You've got some serious issues with projecting your trust and anger issues onto every single person around you. Anger is an emotion that you clearly can not control, and you are the exact reason misandric women use #yesallmen You are using misogynist dogwhistles and therapy talk to harm people around you when you don't agree with their criticism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 03:00 AM
1	Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and Society Okay, good luck with ever being heard. Have fun trying to be a big kid, i guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:53 AM
1	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' Inflammatory and completely misrepresents the issue. Suggesting that someone wants men to be subjected to paternity fraud is not only baseless but an emotionally manipulative accusation. It’s a strawman argument designed to provoke outrage rather than foster a meaningful discussion. Accusations like this do nothing to further the conversation, they just shut it down and vilify others without justification. Do better, like you claim to want others to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:50 AM
0	Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish? Sure if that makes you feel better when you go to bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:45 AM
1	Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and Society Let's imagine that I sat down to watch a preview of a professional play, and there was one person who hadn't bothered to learn their lines and this person would start fights with people when they called them out for this. My critique of the play: fire that actor. Is that not constructive? Strawman Argument, it's not constructive. You tore it down and did nothing to build it up again. Constructive criticism in real-life contexts isn't as simple as pointing out an unprepared actor. It involves und…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:40 AM
1	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' Until he finds out what you've been up to Tell me you're cheating without telling me you're cheating You made a personal attack against the women you responded to, and now you're claiming you're being attacked. This is straight-up darvo gaslighting. Say you're a misogynist louder, please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:29 AM
1	Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and Society I'm an artist, a critique is not supposed to be negative.It is supposed to be constructive. You tear it down and build it better. You chose to tear it down. You are not offering any way of building it better. You are the toxic people in the movement. If you can not see how ignorance breeds hatred, then you are ignorant yourself. You were making the most misogynistic comments at a woman earlier today because she said she would get mad if her husband of numerous years asked her for a paternity tes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:03 AM
–	Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and Society So ops comment history has him berating a happily married woman saying that she would get incredibly upset if her husband of many years demanded a paternity test, then accuses her of cheating and other awful things. Him. He is the toxic people in the movement and a misogynist it sounds like. Just figured I would let you know so you can edit your comment since you have top comment. I decided to do some digging because his answers are all over the place. Big shocker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 01:55 AM
1	Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and Society The fact that this is an argument to you and not a discussion into where things went wrong, is where you went wrong. You are angry at people who feel victimized by the system right now. People who dont feel safe or heard and you've come into their safe space, telling them they should feel bad, because bad things happened, with bad people getting power, because some of them were bad. You are telling women that they need to stand up against hateful rhetoric without trying to hear the reasons why t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 01:47 AM
1	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man I have no idea what this means if i'm being honest with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 01:31 AM
1	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man Why? Prove me wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 01:30 AM
1	Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and Society Okay, i have a new question. Why aren't you aiming this incredible amount of energy towards the people who are radicalized on the side of the rapists?? Like on r/changemyview? <honest, no sour intent> I would like to apologize for inaccurately accusing you of not being willing to discuss the topic of rape, I'm sorry to hear that you're a victim as well, and I hope you're healing well. Be These people are pushing themselves into their echo chamber corner while espousing how they are being pushed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 01:22 AM
1	Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish? He doesn't give a damn about what the women IN his life want. Are you shocked?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 12:44 AM
–	Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and Society OK, I want you to sit here and realistically listen to yourself right now. Or reread your comments. I, as an autistic individual, have just read many of your comments here. Absolutely nothing you have said has made it sound like you want to help with resolving systemic feminine issues at all, but still want the brownie points of "i want to be an ally, but topics that make me uncomfortable make it hard." You are the one making the uncomfortable topic hard to talk about by not controlling your own…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 12:14 AM
1	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man I just wanted to be clear for the autistic folks. I miss things like this sometimes, just not knowing, ya know? I'm not gonna lie. My inner monologue just sounds like House, though	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 11:42 PM
3	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man From the comments, op is a misogynist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 11:25 PM
1	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man Yikes. This comment is so problematic on so many levels. It’s misogynistic, patronizing, and objectifying, and it reduces incredibly complex experiences like childbirth and love harmful stereotypes. Your perspective is rooted in outdated and damaging views of gender, where women are portrayed as nothing more than vessels for pain and sacrifice, and men are reduced to their capacity for violence and death. There is nothing inherently masochistic about childbirth. Women, just like men, find meanin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 11:01 PM
1	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? I've had a plan in progress, but right now, I'm between jobs. I have to cover my own healthcare since I was denied disability and Medicaid. 🙄 That doesn't make my abusers any less abusive. I also have a pet that most rental agreements don’t accept, so finding a place that will take her and accommodate my low income is a nightmare. Honestly, I really dislike this country. Why do people think it's acceptable to push others into further abject misery or believe women should just get married? 🤔 Thos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 10:23 PM
1	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? I've also been told to suck it up and leave when I viably cannot. You told me to leave when i viably can not. Because im disabled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 02:51 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. The fact that you can't even talk about rape in a respectful manner during a debate where you brought it up says a lot. With all the issues I've been through in life, the human relationship with technology has only ever helped me truly understand how desperate humans are for approval and how unwilling humans are to try and understand people they struggle to communicate with. Okay, thank you, bye 👋 😄	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 11:56 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Your comment is the entire argument behind "not all men" Just because someone is perceived as high value does not mean they are not a terrible person. Why are you trying to use the worth of a life as an excuse for shitty behavior and attitudes being allowable? Average men don't get away with raping and being pieces of shit to people because they get held accountable for their actions. The worst people should get put in jail should they not? You picked an outlier (weathy rapists) to try and prove…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 08:09 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Do you seriously think some average guy will get away with being abusive, or exploitative with women? Lmao They get away with it all the time look at the prison statistics. They just get held accountable and punished afterwards because they're not perceived as being high value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 06:32 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Fair. You might be the first person I have debated with that views romance in a transactional manner and understands how it's meant to work when you do. I vibe with that. Edit: I would like to clarify that my questions were the argument. I have autism so I struggle with conveying my intent sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 01:39 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. You didn't answer my questions. I already agree with you on the part that an ultimatum is break up or don't. But you didn't answer any of my questions, instead deflecting back to the point you already made, as though i didn't understand it the first time. This is why i disagree with your point on an ultimatum being a clear form of communication.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 01:02 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Typically, people who are easily willing to abuse others for their own gains will be prideful and brag about the gains they have gotten by stepping on the other crabs in the bucket. For them, everything is transactional, even a random glance at the intersection. They then use that perceived power to abuse people within their authority, be it at work, school, home, hobby outings, ect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 05:03 AM
3	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. You're conflating abuse of authority and power with 'high value attraction' to build a false narrative to prove yourself right. Typically, people who are easily willing to abuse others for their own gains will be prideful and brag about the gains they have gotten by stepping on the other crabs in the bucket. For them, everything is transactional, even a random glance at the intersection. They then use that perceived power to abuse people within their authority, be it at work, school, home, hobby…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:16 AM
4	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Hmm, I disagree with your point on ultimatums being clear communication. You can state that a person needs to work on themself for the relationship to continue, but if you do that and something unrelated becomes a problem, do you continue issuing ultimatums for each new problem? Or does issuing ultimatums become nagging? This is where the emotional breaking point needs to come in, does it not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:01 AM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Oh, i know this one!! It's old white motherfuckers older than barney! Thats who!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 03:49 AM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. I got out an abusive platonic relationship a few years ago. The amount of men i see here using the exact rhetoric he used against me is scary. Also, I had to explain to one person earlier how they were being a misogynist in their comments trying to debate me. Like they came out of the gate with the misogyny and kept denying they were. The delusion is crazy sometimes on both sides, but with men, it's scarier because they were never expected to control their emotions as kids. So anger turns into a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 03:32 AM
1	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much I'm not emotional. I'm over here talking about this convo with my best friend right now and we're laughing. But he reminded me i need to block you now, so bye, have a sad life, homie-o Ps, you're still a misogynist, claiming I'm being emotional, after your tirade of angry comments, anger is still an emotion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 01:30 AM
1	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much This whole message and the other one that got deleted tells me more about your misogyny than anything else you could ever say to me. You demean, infantilize, patronize, and objectify women all in this one comment. You are misogynistic. You make the presumption that he was talking about all women. Obviously not because the small group like you exist. Demeaning You know whats funny is when i see comments like this and act like the women who know what the fuck they have can't possibly understand th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 01:18 AM
–	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much Yeah, no shit people get hurt. You seem to think that anger isn't an emotion, though. You're sitting here angrily typing away at me, using your angry emotions to fuel your angry, hurt feelings comments towards me. Then using misogyny to justify your anger. But i'm the one misinterpreting things?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 01:06 AM
1	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much Wow, that is some actually toxic misogyny. Women have been identifying as not wanting kids or marriage in legal papers since the 1700s at least. They were called spinsters. Female 'mgtow' movements have been around a lot longer than the men's versions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 12:55 AM
1	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much Yes, they work fine. Thank you for checking in	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 12:44 AM
1	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much You're sat here infantilizing and demeaning me for what reason other than to try invalidate my point on a debate go off, i guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 12:43 AM
1	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much You can start by looking at attractive women and what kind of men they choose. That's not condescending or redpill logic? On a post about red pill beliefs??	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 11:48 PM
1	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? That's still systemic failure. I have reported my father for abusing me, and nothing was done to help a child. I have also reported domestic violence against me and nothing was done. People seem to think that I'm not capable because im autistic and physically disabled, but then the men in my life who want my support turn around and always abuse me. Misplaced blame. Again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 04:48 PM
0	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much Hey, guess what, i listen to people on both sides of the argument. You sound like the one making assumptions of what all women want to reassure yourself that redpills can't possibly be doing something wrong, so you're attacking my questions with inherently biased personal opinions. I'm sorry you got hurt, other people are also tired of being hurt, nobody deserves abuse. Take charge of that personal accountability because systemic abuse isn't always physical. Women have repeatedly needed to conso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 03:36 PM
1	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? I'm a result of the systemic failures of the us government, I've been abused while being disabled my whole life, and people, including my own family, are just cool with enabling and using it on me. Ablism is alive and thriving in the US, sadly. Too many men and women seem to forget that resentment and anger are emotions that lead to abuse and neglect. If we spread awareness of issues like this in our respective communities, the less deeppilled/radical voices will sway towards meaningful empoweri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 03:18 PM
0	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? I'm not even going to talk to you, this feels like you're angry and feeling attacked by my statements. This is an entirely you problem, and I'm sorry you got hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 03:08 PM
0	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much Yeah, you're thinking of romance and marriage as a purely transactional institution. That's simply end stage capitalist brainrot. Women aren't demanding more. They're asking men like you, that view romance as being similar to money, to put in a bare minimum amount capital (effort). Which you also don't seem think is acceptable because you think desiring marriage (no effort) has capital interest when in the dating pool. This belief^ is what is turning many women to join the 4b movement, they're t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 03:04 PM
18	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? Yeah, but how many men cheated on their wives or even beat/raped them because the women couldn't divorce and then turn around and call them the old ball and chain. Of course women want better than the cheap dog food they've been getting fed. You can't say women are the problem when marriage was started by men in 2300s bce You can't have your cake and eat it too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:08 AM
0	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? That sounds really like some self fufilling logic. Good for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:03 AM
3	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? "Spinster or old maid is a term referring to an unmarried woman who is older than what is perceived as the prime age range during which women usually marry. It can also indicate that a woman is considered unlikely to ever marry.[1] The term originally denoted a woman whose occupation was to spin.[2] The closest equivalent term for males is "bachelor" or "confirmed bachelor" (or, in cases of homosexuality, "he never married"), but this generally does not carry the same connotations in reference t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:50 AM
0	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? Okay, but as a 'redpill woman' or as we've been called in the historical records, a 'spinster', I've been told "i dont get to eat if i dont provide childcare for my sister" and am required to help raise her kid in spite of me saying im not having or raising kids since i was a child. I've also been told to suck it up and leave when I viably cannot. Abuse gets brushed over by both sides regularly. Many women don't recognize themselves as abusers because we as a society paint abuse as being a physi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 04:32 AM
1	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much See, you're coming at this with the assumption that women are going to be malicious towards you if you are less than perfect. Which is misogynistic and thusly driving all of the average women you keep saying are being malicious away from you. Most people act shitty to shitty people who do or say shitty things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 04:10 AM
4	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much Do you not think that you hold women to a bar? That gets raised further above the average as more standards get perpetually increased? Many of the women I've met in relationships have to treat their husband like an adult child. The men don't know anything about their own medical history, let alone the medical history of their spouse or child, or other important information like that. Why would anybody want to be in a relationship with a child. Yet this is treated as if it's normal or okay or bal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 03:56 AM
0	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much There are motherfuckers out there that will fuck children, corpses, and animals, sometimes all at once. Who is dating up here? Not those fuckers, because nobody wants to date those motherfuckers. Just because you can't settle for anything less doesn't mean that other people don't find what you think is less attractive, less than attractive. Everything else is an asset to somebody. Trust me, I draw with my mostly male friends, who also draw porn and fetish art, yet they are nothing but the most s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 03:49 AM
0	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much If most redpill men finally met the bar, most women would want to date more men, Isn't that part of the fantasy having a chick that supports you for being you. You're the one trying to make terrible dating advice fit every single situation by saying everyone follows these particular dating rules, when in reality, most people don't. Your harmful idea of what being a decent person and friend is, is objectifying to women and inherently misogynistic. I can't imagine why people don't want to date peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 03:26 AM
0	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much Where are you getting your knowledge of what women actually want? You act like men dont date up all the time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 03:24 AM
1	Society has become too comfortable for bad women, to make false accusations and it’s a problem A public or private setting should not change whether something is okay to do, but in the courts you dont see the same kinds of support for people in non violent domestic abuse situations. They just get told to suck it up or leave. When i read back your points in the conversation, it sounds like you're trying to say that punishments should be equal across the board with no regard for retaliation of force. Bystanders can also be charged with assault if they get involved on the wrong side, hence w…	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 03:09 AM
-2	Society has become too comfortable for bad women, to make false accusations and it’s a problem Say someone is being told "you dont get to eat anything in this house, if you do not help raise a child that is not yours", but yet that person is fully dependent on the financial and emotional support of the people around them. Would you say that's fair? Social ostracization can prevent anyone from getting the support they need. It could be emotional, childcare, physical, financial, anything. Secondly, most men are still stronger than most women, as such that a punch from most men compared to m…	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 02:24 AM
-2	Society has become too comfortable for bad women, to make false accusations and it’s a problem Yes, because social expectations are taught to girls from day one. Women are simply expected to behave and emote correctly in any social situation, by both sides. Women are also taught they will be punished swiftly if they don't react exactly how they think everyone expects them to, which is what leads to many stereotypes between both genders. I can't tell you how many parents have told me you need to raise boys and girls differently, then can't tell me why other than "because peepee is differen…	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 01:16 AM
1	Guys, ‘You don’t know what she’s going through!’ Empathy shown by staff yo a young girl demolishing a store. I'm not saying your feelings aren't valid. I'm not sure why you're being defensive about that. You're just misplacing blame on societies failings. Everything needs to be learned from somewhere. Home is where it always starts. shrugs	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 01:02 AM
-46	High School Teacher Says "We're Failing Our Boys" by Allowing Them to Be Offensive Women are emotional? Punish them. Women want sex? Punish them. Women are disgusting? Punish them. This argument can be made from the other side with valid points as well. Some men need to take some responsibility for failing to be an involved parent. Kids have emotional needs. Anger is an emotion that kids need to be taught to how to manage in healthy ways. The system and parents are to blame for kids who act out in unhealthy ways. Blame the government that takes money away from the education sy…	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 12:51 AM
1	Guys, ‘You don’t know what she’s going through!’ Empathy shown by staff yo a young girl demolishing a store. I've worked in retail a while, they tell you do not ever touch anyone, even thieves you watched steal. It's why pos kids of either gender act like this. The parents as a pair aren't doing a fucking thing to raise their kids. Education has been stolen from America.	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 12:42 AM
0	Society has become too comfortable for bad women, to make false accusations and it’s a problem Okay, but how many men defend their sons by saying boys will be boys. Women aren't the only bad parents in this world.	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 12:39 AM