Puggalina Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
28	We are living in a clown world 🤡 Word.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/22 10:07 AM
1	How to make up for what I did Well the way I see it his comment was out of line because she was not at fault in my eyes. If your bus is late for school and your teacher tells you "don't be late anymore" - I would feel the teacher was being unjust in her comment and wonder if she even heard what I just said. If so, then I would think she was a grumpy person and just wanted to unnecessarily remind me for the sake of it. The mishap was not intentional, therefore no correction is needed. Correcting people for things out of their…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/21 07:32 PM
0	How to make up for what I did Great advice.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/21 02:44 AM
0	How to make up for what I did I felt the asking someone to walk off their job was a little bit entitled and then to blame her for the wasting of his time when he could clearly see what was going on. I agree that 2 hour drive (x2) was a lot but to scold her felt a little much to me. I am not offended or bothered when someone tells me not to mess with their time (with valid reason), I AM offended that someone expects me to walk off the job and then get scolded when I choose not to do so. It was just a mistake, she didn't do an…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/21 02:42 AM
-10	How to make up for what I did He sounds a little entitled if he expects you to walk off the job for him. I doubt he would walk off his job to go on a date and put his employment at risk. A job is important. He is allowed to be bummed about it but to lecture you with "don't mess with my time" is too much and quite rude. You didn't make a mistake - unexpected things happen, you have to roll with it / be flexible. I wouldn't jump through hoops to "make it up to him." If he can't be understanding then you have bigger problems. W…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/21 09:04 PM
1	UPDATE TO: How do I date a guy who seems a bit too interested in sex and not really romantic? sensitive time for a man is when he gets home from work before he has eaten. This is a very bad time to approach him with important topics I agree one must be tactful about when to speak to someone about a topic, there's a lot of psychology at play. But this tip is mostly taught to females. Men have no problem speaking when they feel like it. It matters not what she is doing, if he wants to talk about something, he will, and she is a b**** if she doesn't stop what she is doing and talk about it.…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/21 09:50 AM
7	I can’t wrap my head around why I should have to clean for a man (not feminism) Well said.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/07/21 09:09 AM
8	I can’t wrap my head around why I should have to clean for a man (not feminism) I think so. Having chores or cleaning up your own mess doesn't make a man un-masculine. No more than a wife helping her husband paint the house makes her un-feminine. my opinion	/r/RedPillWomen	27/07/21 09:02 AM
3	I can’t wrap my head around why I should have to clean for a man (not feminism) I agree. If you are both working outside the home then it should not be expected to all fall on you. Especially personal messes: tramping mud through the house and ignoring it is extremely disrespectful. If a maid is not an option I suggest taking turns doing laundry, or I cook and you do dishes. Or assigned tasks that you both can agree on. Assigned is good as it helps cut down on nagging aka requesting assistance. It also eliminates the need to repeatedly discuss it - who's cooking tonight? If…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/07/21 08:18 AM
22	This need to be shared I looked up this book, I don't understand why it is listed in the "fiction" category. This is the second history book (about a female) that I have looked up recently that was listed as such. -confused-	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 08:31 AM
0	Tennis skirt/ skirt for workout gear = Just wear the skirt over leggings.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/21 03:00 AM
5	Help me help him be the man he is inside Maybe suggest getting an exterminator. If he values money he may get up the courage to deal with it himself rather than paying someone else. If left unchecked, the mouse could damage walls, wires and food. All he's got to do is put down some traps and pick them up.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/21 05:28 PM
2	Am I wrong for having to be assertive at my job? Or, make a sign on a stick that says "Please back up onto scales and come into office, Thank you". Can make multiple signs to say different things. If anyone complains just explain your voice doesn't carry over the noise and you don't want to scream. Then suggest they get a radio.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/20 05:29 PM
3	Am I wrong for having to be assertive at my job? Intercom sounds like a great idea. If the company doesn't want that, then you can purchase a bullhorn or megaphone. Protect your voice, you don't want to be hollering all day, not good for you.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/20 08:49 PM
3	STFU when he does something he knows I hate? Help pls That is gross, I would feel disrespected too. Sometimes people don't see the problem unless it's under their nose. What I would do is take a dirty tupperware that is ripe and sit beside him on the couch, without him seeing what's coming. I would pull out the tupperware and say "Oooh i just found this laying around" and open it near to him. When he gets a whiff of it he will immediately understand. I would continue: "Omg that is so nasty! I can't bear to clean this!" Proceed to gag and throw it i…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/20 12:12 PM
10	How to/when to negotiate? and it almost seems like his idea These acrobatics are so tiring.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 04:58 AM
1	I’m redpilled but the purity culture has harmed me a lot I am so sorry you are going through this. I see so many women suffering from this unnecessary agony. It sounds like you have found a great guy who is mature enough to respect you as a human being and not a doll. There is so much more to a relationship than virginity. It will take time but get some therapy to help undo this harm. Yes, most men fantasize about getting a virgin and most women fantasize about getting a Romeo (or whatever). But mature people accept reality and separate it from fantas…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/20 09:21 PM
1	Too late for me? If you can't see how this is harmful, I can't help you. Here we have a letter from a woman who feels she has NO VALUE and will never be worthy of a man. She seems very harmed to me. Shameful.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/20 02:02 PM
1	Too late for me? this	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/20 09:06 AM
0	Too late for me? In what way does it harm women? wow	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/20 08:26 AM
2	Too late for me? I am sorry you did not understand a thing I said. Women have much to offer other than what is between their legs. Thankfully many men see this. Yes, being a virgin is special and shiny, but if you choose a wife according to this you could be missing out on a gem. You are not picking out a vehicle.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/20 08:24 AM
0	Too late for me? Yes, the women are speaking.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/20 08:07 AM
0	Too late for me? Thankfully there are many replies to the contrary - stating that many men don't even ask about past partners. Rightly.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/20 08:24 PM
2	Too late for me? Men care. If you want to marry a man, it matters. / the dowry was higher for a virgin wife This is archaic and harmful to women. Thankfully, times are changing and there are mature men who understand that women are people and not a product at the meat market. -imagines man inspecting meat- "Has this meat been chewed on before?". Thank you for your reply, I realize this is a hot topic with many. My intention was to reassure her she has much value. (just not with the virgin hunters of course). Man…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/20 08:17 PM
1	Too late for me? "My concern is that I’ve basically disqualified myself from ever having a serious LTR or marriage. " I disagree. This line of thinking is harmful to yourself. You have done nothing wrong. Who cares how many people you "rode a bicycle" with in the past?! If someone thinks this is a deal breaker then you are better off without them; they are hypocrites. Shunning someone for something they did in the past (that they too have done) is ridiculous. Unless they themselves are a virgin, they have no roo…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/20 08:42 AM
1	Am I really being abused? This was meant for what she should say to him. I am sorry if it was vague in explanation. If I was in her shoes this is exactly what I would say to my husband.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/20 08:38 PM
7	How to deal with snarky comments (especially from women) in a graceful way? > after someone complimented me on the dress I was wearing at a wedding, was "of course you have to try and dress nice when you've got to find a husband". answer: Actually I dressed nice for this (insert event here). I think everyone dresses up for a wedding. -looks around room at all the beautiful people- It leaves them feeling dumb and/or embarrassed for having their spitefulness exposed. (lesson learned: they learned not to be petty) edit: If you want to be mean add this part -looks around th…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/12/19 01:38 AM
5	Female Best Friend I think he is giving you an answer to your boyfriend saying "you don't trust me". In response you should say "If I didn't trust you I would leave you/wouldn't be with you. I am only asking you questions." It is a red flag that instead of answering your question your bf throws it back on you saying the trust thing. Sounds kind of like gaslighting to me.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/19 03:55 PM