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I think being bullied by males when younger set me off to see them as possibly cruel in a way girls never were to me, then when I got older they'd give me too much sexualized uncomfortable attention so I too see men as possibly dangerous when walking down the street, so I kind of try to never make eye contact. I'm not sure if this is why. I think the bullying made me afraid that if I show interest, smile etc, they will treat me like I'm that girl who was bullied, in a cruel way. I am working on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:32 AM
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What's funny is because I know how creepy it is when men stare I am so afraid of creeping men out by looking longer than is typical. It's like I forgot I'm a woman and so its not like we do all of these things that have conditioned men to be wary of us. I have a lot more room for error.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:24 AM
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I have trouble smiling at men by telling myself to, but I could do a prolonged gaze for a second or two more. Any advice on how I can show interest without the smile (not sure why this is so hard for me, babies and dogs are the only thing that immediately creates a real smile). I see cute men all the time and I feel like I miss so many opportunities because I get nervous and look at the ground (working on that through this site and counseling and reading and journaling). Also, I deleted all OLD …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:15 AM
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Omg. He thinks this vent is on par with someone telling him they hate it when their internet goes out while watching Netflix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:35 AM
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We should create a prescription ad that lists the side effects of 5 years of cheating and memory loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:30 AM
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An author called it Himpathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:27 AM
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omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:07 AM
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hahahahahaha omg. He wished he had a gf who always read anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:04 AM
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wait, what????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:03 AM
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Yeah, the fact its your house tells me a lot. Don't assume just because someone is with you it's because they really choose you. Sometimes its just because it's convenient to be with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:50 AM
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I've sometimes responded by saying that I have to make sure you aren't a rapist or murderer first. They think I'm joking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:34 AM
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it definitely works. I hate thinking back to all the times this worked. I just want to walk in on myself and say, no, just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:32 AM
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I've decided to always respond that my body doesn't require fluids of any kind because I'm an alien.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:31 AM
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and they still fool around. I bet she has a UTI every week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:27 AM
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hahahahahahaha omg I just now realized you were talking about your dog. I was sitting here thinking, wow she's being really honest but wait, why is she giving her bf baths?!?! and only once a week takes care of the smell? Then...ohhhhhhhh....I get it now. Face palm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:20 AM
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I was just coming on here to leave a comment like this on weekly checkin. I watch youtube and googled this subreddit to see if there were any videos made by it to watch while I do other things and all I found was video after video of women and men saying things like that this is female red pill etc. I feel like none of those people have actually read the handbook. I am well educated and self educated and watch a lot of documentaries and read books that talk about gender relations. These sources …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:08 AM
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Yes! So many of these true crime stories I addictively watched during covid times started with the fear of not finding someone, anyone, after a relationship ended or they got older. Sad were the stories where first the woman established herself in her career and had a house and great savings only to meet a man later in life who lied about who he was and used her. One thing I never understood is how otherwise intelligent women wouldn't do a simple background check before marriage. Often these men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:16 AM
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I read this book, all the single ladies. It really opened my eyes to how a lot of the stats being used were outdated or completely wrong in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:13 AM
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trichomoniasis I was reading about this for first time (I can't believe I never have). And look what is just commonly accepted: The idea of getting tested may seem scary, but try to relax. STD testing is a regular part of being a responsible adult and taking care of your health. The good news is trich is totally curable with medication — so the sooner you know you have it, the faster you can get rid of it. The crazy thought that getting tested is a regular part of being a responsible adult and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:23 AM
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What the heck???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:17 AM
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reading this made my kidneys hurt. am I the only one blown away by the 10 women in a month thing. That's like a full time job. I mean he has to text like 100s of women nonstop right? Maybe I'm just naive but I'm just trying to picture these men's days. All the texting and coordination of meeting. It just seems overwhelming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:13 AM
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Hahahahahah, omg. Let's say hypothetically you even had on your profile 'looking to sleep with the world,' why can't he fathom that you still might not want to sleep with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:57 AM
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Yes this. I was telling someone about the stories on here where very casually women share on here that read like true crime shows and I have no doubt are true. I didn't read the thread you are talking about but my god if they are saying their worst rejection was from grade school, are you fucking kidding me? You must not be living if thats the worst rejection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:54 AM
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He definitely needs to sign up for online remote counseling not complain to you like you are someone making over $100/hr to listen to him complain. The only person I'd let call me on my birthday to complain about breaking up with someone is a friend who is like family from and who has done the same for me, and the breakup needs to be really horrible otherwise call me the day after my birthday for god sakes. Totally block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:50 AM
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I can just imagine you running with a big grin on your face, looking back and then bursting out laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:22 AM
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Thank you for this. This took a lot of time to write up. God, I will never date someone who regularly uses porn ever again. My ex did and it made it so he couldn't perform with a real human regularly (obviously I was the human). Fuck that. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:45 AM
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Two of my counselors counseled me to leave dates by saying I had to go to restroom then just leave, just walk out. Being a recovering "nice" girl conditioned by society I was stunned that these mature, wonderful older women were giving me permission to do something I thought was god forbid rude. I mentioned this and one said that she guesses if it really bothered me I could text them and let them know I left and not interested when got home. That was so freeing. I can't wait to do it. Why I need…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:17 AM
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My cat sounds a big alarm when she detects LVM. Granted, its usually about her needs, but anyone who dates me needs to know her needs are at the top in my world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:47 PM
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I didn't mean to bully, I promise :) I'm glad you are saying what you feel. Its sad to say, but I've had several encounters where my goal was a relationship and a date but after I felt like I was treated like a free prostitute. I do agree though with the articles I've read from the handbook that maybe to help me feel less like that I can follow the advice given. But yes, that won't change men directly in the workplace and other areas of our life. At least not right away. And Greg sounds like a t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:44 PM
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This past year with covid stopping outside life, I started to realize what I do for me vs for others. I definitely only use lotion and eating well and exercise and lip gloss for myself. The rest, not so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:53 PM
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When will those stats on house work and child raising ever change? It seems like the one stat that never budges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:50 PM
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hahaha, omg, my cat meowed right as I was reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:17 AM
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No one here hates prostitutes. Or if they do, something is seriously wrong with them. Or they haven't read about the stats on how many are in poverty or actually were trafficked to start etc. Instead, people are having a discussion about how men view our bodies etc. and entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:06 AM
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Reading current and past posts on this subreddit made me have a moment yesterday where I thought to myself, this is the center of my life right here wherever I currently am. I'm not missing out by not being on dating apps, or out trying to meet a man or putting the center of my life on some outside thing, such as a fear of missing out. I might not be explaining this that well, but its so big to realize that regardless if I'm doing dishes or cooking myself a meal etc., its okay to just focus on m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:58 PM
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That's awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:55 PM
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Or, make it clear you are a really great cook, but for yourself only ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:54 PM
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I love reading these comments and can't believe I just found this sub semi-recently. Some of these things I knew weren't just me from reading books or talking to women, but some things I had as passing thoughts or theories, and it feels so validating to know I'm not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:49 PM
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I tried dating the more nerdy type, I think I wasted years before I realized it doesn't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:51 AM
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That evaluation, I hate it. Like being watched. I actually remember eating less in college and years later, it makes me sad how much it must have affected my learning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:24 AM
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I always ask myself, is this one of the ones that would have bullied me as a kid? Years and years later, I still feel like that girl. I don't like being evaluated, positively or negatively, or that glance you get when they are deciding which way to go. Just don't look at me; or if you do, just notice me as you would any human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:05 AM
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You made my night! I ordered this book right now. I read tons of books on this topic and even watch true crime shows trying to see patterns, and all of these show up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:59 AM
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Yes, its so hard to decipher whether someone is just being relaxed about dating because they believe or were told thats the best way to date or whether its the fwb avoidant dismissive dance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:12 PM
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I personally don't like this, in my situation we didn't have a time or activity planned and he didn't text until afternoon, for Saturday evening plans. I regretted actually meeting him that night. However, I bet another place he might be told to do this. I think the key is to tell him what you want, and then watch how he responds. In my case, I was explicit after that 2nd date (the last minute text one) that I wanted communication for our next one. We had plans for midweek, and no texts. I just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:59 AM
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Yes, all of these. I mean isn't it a given that we all have to see what happens, because no one knows the future, so the very fact he has to say it is like reading you a warning label. Like when you are about to get on an amusement park ride that reminds you that you could die, well, you know there is more to that disclaimer. Because we can die just walking down the street but you don't see signs about it everywhere. Its a way to reduce liability. Like, hey I said we'd have to just see what blos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:53 AM
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I was reading a post about 'Good vibes only' and it hit home that there are a lot of terms I didn't realized signal that a guy wants something casual. What are your thoughts about someone who says 'Just open to new experiences.' This could be him saying he's just looking for sex or whatever, kind of a guessing game for the woman to find out. Also his what I am looking for is 'Don't know yet.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:08 AM
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I actually took one last year and one this year. The one this year was also so emotionally healing. We all shared and bonded and faced past trauma or acted out situations that scared us for the future. It was like breakfast club bonding x 100.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:47 PM
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Good for you! I took self defense this year and it made me feel so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:11 AM
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Exactly, I totally didn't even think of that until it was pointed out. Then all I can see is the bro getting her text, shrugging, and cutting a new slice with his family Tuesday evening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:09 PM
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Yessss!!!! As someone who hates cooking, this is why I pay for prepared meals, and to get freshly made lasagna that is home cooked quality is even more expensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:08 PM
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Omg yes!! The use you as their therapist is so true! Like we are a therapist who is also on-call and our body is as well. No dude, sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:41 AM
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OMG, yes!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:40 PM
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Yah, it's like what, is his love language poorly executed ESP? He's just thinking of cleaning? Actually, scratch that, he's probably not. Oh, but maybe his love language is being a warm ball of flesh that occasionally speaks, that must be it and will be added to the next edition of the 5 love languages. Can I also say how sick I am of hearing people talk about that book as advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:38 PM
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It's like he thinks he's dealing with a couch on craigslist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 08:21 AM
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omg, I'm getting frustrated just reading much less living it. Overly indecisive men drive me up the wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 07:48 AM
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empathy, kindness and sense of humor (last one because road trips and life is long).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 06:18 AM
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"I've been a nice guy this whole week so I'm entitled to you now!" Uhhhhh, no you aren't, people are nice because its just right to treat people with respect, not because it earns you disrespecting points like tokens you can turn in for a stuffed bear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 06:12 AM
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Favorite line. But honestly monkeys are pretty smart so I think they'd pick it up quicker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 06:07 AM
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Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 09:42 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing what you've learned. It's impressive that you've learned all of this in just one year :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 09:42 PM
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