| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Should I go back?No. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 08:54 AM |
| 9 | Married for 10 years and confronted four times in the last two months when I found my wife cheating. I don't know.No kids? Run..you won.... you just don't know it yet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you still keep your ex pictures together?I have them in a photo album in the closet for my kids... | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/26 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Should I take my ex wife backNo. And No again | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 10:34 PM |
| 8 | What led to you/ partner initiating the divorce? Did it happen in stages or spontaneously?3 days before Christmas she asked for a divorce after I caught her cheating on the 20th of Dec. She woke me up at 4 in morning... and said "I want a divorce" then walked out of the room. I was in survival mode and trying to save my family by tryin to work through it.. Like a damned fool. Hindsight.. it was definitely in stages. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 10:33 PM |
| 2 | High Conflict Custody SituationOf all the things mentioned the child support angle.. It may be the reality check this "woman" needs to get her head out of her ass. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/26 11:39 AM |
| 2 | An UpdateHopefully in cash. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 04:22 PM |
| 14 | If you have children, do you wish your Ex a “Happy Mother’s Day “ ?Nope. You break up a family... you ain't much of a mother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 07:22 PM |
| 7 | I’m a lesbian and this sub is a breath of fresh airNobody wants to be the villain in their own story... so that is why there is no accountability. Women look for and recieve outward validation... that is why you are seeing all the " you go girl" and "her living her best life"...it fades and it fades quick. Men, we fix ourselves inside first.. something we are taught at a young age.. ain't nobody coming to save us. That we have to fix our own sh1t. Of course i am speaking generally... Sorry you are going through this... keep yer head up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 09:29 AM |
| 1 | So... About Mother's Day?I don't do a damn thing. If my kids needed money or a ride to a store.. absolutely i would help them. But youngest is still in school so they make gifts. I am going to detail my car today... | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Something I Will Not Miss. How About You?Coming home to a gross house? Laying on the couch all day? Complaining about nonsense that has to nothing to with anything? Our wives must of been friends. Lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 09:04 AM |
| 3 | How long do you wait for a response on whether she wants to file for divorce or try to work on things?Yep.. they always "want to find themselves".. yeah find themselves some new... | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 08:47 AM |
| 2 | I wished my ex-wife a happy birthday, and didn't add an insultI don't acknowledge anything birthday, holidays or life events with ex. Strictly business with the kids... | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 08:42 AM |
| 6 | I think this was my 1st and last marriageAgreed. I will only have a girlfriend...maybe. The minute I ain't feeling it ..I am gone like the wind. Never will have a wife again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Phony new Girlfriend?Waste of time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 11:21 AM |
| 3 | My ex's boyfriend thinks he can discipline our teenage children and that he has parental authority over my kids.No dude.. First fukn talk to me like that ...phone would of been returned in pieces. Whoops it was dropped. Second this dbag is only going to get worse... he thinks you are a push over... match his energy EVERY damn time ..make it uncomfortable every time he is disrespectful to you. Gets loud at school...you get loud. Trust me that simp will fold like a lawn chair. Third you don't want your son/kids seeing you disrespected like that. Kids will think that shit is okay to put up with. Unfortunatel… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Ex-wife's boyfriend overstepping boundariesNo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/26 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Thanks a millionIt is the game of musical chairs(skipped the obvious joke lol) you dont want to win. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/26 10:52 AM |
| 6 | Was the divorce your fault?25% me....25% her....50% her cheating. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 09:25 AM |
| 12 | STBX sleeping with someone elseGood now she is his problem... | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/26 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Giving up on my kids for everyone's peace?Go down swinging.. YOU will never forgive yourself for giving up...especially if something bad were to happen. This sucks man... sorry you are in this shitshow... | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/26 04:53 PM |
| 7 | Wife agreed to work it out? Can I trust her to not change her mind?It's all the same, only the names will change... the same playbook every damn time. Nope. She is buying time my friend. Sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Recently Divorced - What's the toughest hardest moment of your day - nights, mornings, work or co-parenting?The first few minutes after hand off... then I try to do something active. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/26 05:37 PM |
| 6 | If you guys could start over anywhere, where would you go?Back to 2002... | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/26 10:07 AM |
| 4 | I’m losing interest in ever wanting to be in a relationship again after my divorceI am open to having a girlfriend... but never getting married again.... | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/26 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Any other dads... [Light-hearted]Yup... picking my battles. Lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/26 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Men who got divorced, did you lose a lot of friends?Nope. Gained a bunch.... | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/26 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Discarded due my actions, feel lost 7 months later.The lying is more damaging than the act.. of course she would believe your ex. It is such a mind fuk to be betrayed like that by someone you trust. You question reality. Thankfully she seems okay... now you need to be okay. It was a bad choice by you.. but you are human and hopefully you learned from this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 10:35 PM |
| 7 | This BS about how she grieved the marriage for a long time…That is a nice way to call a liar a liar. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 09:56 AM |
| 2 | She cheated but I stayedLike all the other posters have said ....DNA test. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/25 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Wife 29F ask for separation from husband 31MYep. I feel like I am watching the same movie or ball game over an over again. Every damn time with these women ( obviously not all )..its the same "reasons". | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/25 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand why my ex-wife cheated on meSometimes you need to be hit with a 2x4 right over the head to be woken up from a funk and change. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/25 05:32 PM |
| 3 | STBXW wants us to spend future christmas' togetherI agree with this 100%... everytime I see her.. it is like seeing the murderer of my family. So put me in the Fuck no camp. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/25 04:36 PM |
| 2 | After Divorce, dealing w EWOne word answers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 04:42 PM |
| 3 | STBX is suspiciously not worried or hurt at all about being served. 3 year old son involved.Calm before the storm. If she was blindsided...likely in shock. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/25 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else ever feel like they just want to punch the AP?I got no more fight in me for what was once my marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/25 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Divorcing after 23 yrs of marriage and I'm heartbrokenIt is crazy.. they must hand out the same playbook for cheaters. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Honest is it your fault?I always tell people this... 25% my fault... 25% her fault..50% her cheating. 75% not my fault. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/25 07:24 PM |
| 2 | I need some positivityThe Original ...Roadhouse. A story about a man hired to fix up a local establishment and falls in love with a hot doctor. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/25 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Marriage… what’s the point?I wish I could make a case for pro. ... I won't get fooled again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 06:58 AM |
| 4 | Help with divorceHere is some advice.. delete this post. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/25 10:59 AM |
| 5 | How do I keep playing nice?“Be nice until it's time to not be nice” -James Dalton. Almost similar story to yours.. i steered into it. I took the angle "Yes go find yourself.. get a new place and find yourself." Had her out in 3 months.. It sucks man... but you need to show zero emotion and for your kids and your sake keep your temper in check... that "woman" ain't worth any emotion. Strictly buisness from here on out dude. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/25 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Need supportKeep being the rock for your kids man.. you are going to be tested like youve never been tested before. Keep it strictly buisness... and take of yourself first. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 10:19 AM |
| 13 | Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced?Not me... once the mask was pulled down... i couldn't even stand looking at her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 09:35 AM |
| 5 | Thought my situation might be different, lol.They always want to "find themselves".. yeah find themselves some new sexual organ in the lower abdominal area. Stay strong man... her cheating has nothing to do with you. Unfortunately tho we get to deal with the fallout of a broken person. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/25 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Should I Take Her back?No. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/25 08:41 AM |
| 5 | Here’s a FML story for you!It would be crickets from me in reply. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/25 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Help pleaseKids being safe and you being in their life is the only thing that matters right at this moment. The rest of the stuff will work out... stay strong man. Oh and never get married again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 11:02 AM |
| 1 | What to do nextYou aren't in love with her brother.. you are in love with the idea of her. Now, do the best the best you can for your kids....you are lucky to be 27... not 47 like I was. You are going to be okay. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 11:11 AM |
| 2 | We were all married to the same person at the same time- is there anything you learned that actually helps?Document everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 11:00 AM |
| 1 | What did you do with your ring?Mine is in a box... I plan on chucking it into the ocean on a fishing trip. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 10:56 AM |
| 3 | How do other men manage their anger without becoming violent?I love my kids more than I dislike my xwife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 04:41 PM |
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