PumpingIron85 Archive

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2	New to this whole TRP thing, how long did it take you guys to get rid of your blue pill tendencies? It varies from person to person. It's not like The Red Pill was invented by Red Pillers, people have been living this philosophy since the beginning of time. Some people don't need to be told to be confident and how to treat women. It probably depends on how blue pill you were before, and how good you are at changing yourself. I'd imagine some people can jump in head first and do a 180 turn around quickly. Others probably need some practice. Some TRP stuff is very intimidating.	/r/askTRP	09/04/14 01:54 PM
3	Wife asks "do you miss having sex with other people"? Being defensive and sarcastic is beta. An alpha would be cool and controlled even in the face of an obvious set up.	/r/askTRP	09/04/14 01:50 PM
1	Wife asks "do you miss having sex with other people"? You should have been more direct. Avoiding the question is roughly equivalent to stammering out some bullshit. From the get go you should have just said "Of course". The part about "subduing a large part of your biological drive" is good, but it seems like you phrased it as a sarcastic question. That's not alpha. Being cool, confident, direct, and collected is. Say "Of course I do, I'm a man. In order to be in a monogamous relationship I have to resist doing what my body is telling me to do". As…	/r/askTRP	09/04/14 01:48 PM
17	Wife asks "do you miss having sex with other people"? You need to cancel your subscription to US weekly.	/r/askTRP	09/04/14 01:43 PM
5	Wife wants another baby, I'm broke, took the red pill, what now? What do I do? I feel like, at this point, I'm only sticking around for my daughter Well, obviously you don't have another kid. What type of birth control are you using? I assume since you're married your wife is on BC or something? Judging by your post you cannot rely on her to continue taking it to respect your wishes. I'd strongly recommend getting a vasectomy without her knowledge. It doesn't sound like you're ever interested in having more kids since you already have two. You can always put …	/r/askTRP	08/04/14 09:54 PM
1	TRP how and where do you find potential plates? When your SMV is high enough there is no shortage. They're everywhere: from the Starbucks to the clubs. Here's an example of a plate I picked up last week. In my line of work there are lots of conferences, get togethers, etc. Often these are at nice bars and restaurants. I don't often go after the shrews in my field since they are either cold or about to hit the wall. At this last one there were a few interns. They were all huddled together, afraid to approach anyone. When I approached the group…	/r/askTRP	08/04/14 08:20 PM
1	What to do in a relationship I'm 17 in high school right now and I don't do much aside from academics, tennis, and SAT studies. This is bullshit. Wait until you're working 60+ hours a week, maintaining hobbies, and spinning plates. Don't sell yourself short. As far as wait to do, read the sidebar on /r/theredpill. This isn't the majority opinion, but I think any type of girlfriend game or long term relationships are outside of advanced red pill theories. Although you're young so it can be harder to spin plates since your SM…	/r/askTRP	08/04/14 07:49 PM
1	This girl is trying to friendzone me, or awkwardly connect. your thoughts? It's difficult to give hard and fast rules, especially since you're the only one that was there. I would say one try is not enough. I mean, if she violently backs away that might be a strong signal. But a little hesitation is normal. Women want you to be dominant, they crave it biologically. There is a line between forcing yourself and being assertive, and it takes sometime to find it. Keep at it! I'm not saying she was offering herself to you. From your post, it looks like she's friendzoning yo…	/r/askTRP	08/04/14 07:11 PM
2	Alright TRP, tell it to me like it is. TRP isn't just about spinning plates. It's about recognizing and creating value. From your post it looks like you have pretty low value, but it sounds like you're depressed or cynical. You probably have more value than you're relaying here. You're in a good position. It sounds like what you need to do is find something you can contribute to. Find something you like and focus on it. Create value that way.	/r/askTRP	08/04/14 06:58 PM
2	Big muscles and intelligence? I'm an attorney at a large NY firm, went to elite undergrad and graduate schools, and am fucking huge. There are plenty of incredibly smart people that are healthy. American psycho isn't an exaggeration. Finance and law attract plenty of dudes that are incredibly fit and have high intelligence. You don't have to be a body builder, but being fit is important. Inflammation is not going to hurt your brain. I don't want to be too dismissive here but that's pretty fucking ridiculous.	/r/askTRP	08/04/14 06:48 PM
1	This girl is trying to friendzone me, or awkwardly connect. your thoughts? Why didn't you make a move on the first date? You said there was "no sort of close whatever", what does this mean? What was the date about? It's a good idea to implicitly signal your goals right away. Of course coming out right away and saying "I'm interested in you only for sex" is stupid. But you have to make it clear through implication that reciprocity is required, if she wants your value she has to offer you hers (pussy). I'm not saying ditch her if she won't fuck on the first date, but if …	/r/askTRP	08/04/14 06:35 PM