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Had to comment bc my step dad has always been bald, shorter than my mom, and is a janitor lol. He’s living a pretty chill life with my mom I even chose him to do the fatherly activities over my bio dad during my wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:49 PM
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I like to stay in my comfort zone but if conditions change that force me to leave it, I force myself to adapt. For example, I was laid off from a pretty chill job that I had for years. During my time unemployed, I forced myself to get new certifications and developed new skills to make myself more competitive in the job market. Now I’m in a position that while challenging, has me flexing new skills that I didn’t know I had for better compensation. Thankfully before I was laid off, I had an inkli…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:25 PM
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Being a skinny or fit woman does not guarantee that the men you attract will all be compatible for a relationship with you. It just widens the pool of men you attract. And it seems like lots of men these days don’t like their woman actively going to the gym, restricting calories/healthy meal prep or regularly doing outdoor activities that help keep the weight off in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:40 PM
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Meanwhile, men traveling to developing countries to abuse children
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:43 PM
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I’ll agree with her somewhat as a woman. Speaking personally, yeah, a man has to pass my personal physical threshold (whether or not he’s conventionally attractive) to be considered a potential partner. But I have had attraction fade instantly when a visually appealing man says something stupid, has values opposite of mine or I discover he has a bad personality The opposite is true. If I’m not physically attracted to a man but has a good personality that meshes with mine, we can be friends. I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:04 PM
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In still bffs with my female HS and college besties so 15+ years. These are the girls who have shown up for the best and worst times of my lives. I see them as family at this point. I’ve never had a falling out with any of them but the only things that would make me drop them that I can think of right now: -abusing children or their partners -cheating on their husbands (these guys are like family too) -trying to cheat with my husband (my husband would be cut out too if he went along with it) - c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:10 AM
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I mean if my long time friend does something horrible or is constantly bringing toxicity to my life, yeah I’ll drop her and burn the bridge. Men don’t really seem to abandon friendships under those circumstances. Men and women prioritize different things and the nature of these friendships reflect that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 11:41 PM
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Right, because what was there before feminism: marrying off underaged girls, barring women from paying jobs, barring women from credit and bank accounts, legal marital rape and domestic abuse etc. basically forcing women to be with men they weren’t attracted to for basic survival and few legal options to get out of abusive relationships Yeah, that wasn’t “soft terrorism” against women and girls 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:37 PM
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You need to stop smoking that hashish. I think MENA men are hot af but after casually dating men from that demographic with the same ideas as you (conservative religious beliefs), I stopped pretty quickly.p The west is not perfect, but MENA theocracies are clearly worse for most of the children, women and men who live in them. As for South Korea, they have an even worse birth rate epidemic despite silencing feminists so that hasn’t been very successful. I’m now happily married to a western man f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:25 PM
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You can be an advocate for any group but not want to date them. Anyone can chose to not date someone for whatever reason It’s why I believe men are perfectly entitled to not want women who have high body counts. Same if someone finds a particular racial feature unattractive, I don’t care as long as they treat people of that race civilly and respectfully outside of romantic situations. No one can control their preferences and icks, dating is the ultimate discriminatory practice since you are invi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:03 AM
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African fertility rates are actually starting to decrease. It’s still higher than other places but it’s also been winding down faster than expected
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:13 PM
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Not really. Threshold will be different (I include the woman who did 100) but someone having sex with 1000 people at the same time, on camera, male or female, is clearly mentally ill or has psychological issues The mental illness and psychological issues on top of the body count are a red flag for forming healthy relationships. This goes for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:58 PM
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That’s a pretty extreme example since most women are not having 1000 person gangbangs and most men are not participating in them with 999 other men The whole reason she blew up is because it’s a rare thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:43 PM
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Treating neurodivergent or gay people with human dignity, legal rights, and respect is not the same as wanting to form an intimate sexual relationship with everyone from the demographic. Bi people could legally be fired from their jobs, denied housing, or even killed if outed. This still happens in many countries. A woman not dating a bi man for whatever reason is not the same as her mistreating him or ostracizing him from society
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:48 PM
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I think especially for women who want to be mothers, it’s prudent to marry hypergamously or at her own level. We can’t beat out biology. women become incapacitated by pregnancy/ post partum and disproportionately do most of the care for young children, especially if nursing or having multiple kids. She will take a financial hit if she isn’t already a stay at home mom You need the father of your child to be financially dependable for the moments when the mother cannot add income when she’s pregna…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:08 PM
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My mid 50s mother is always getting hit on lol. She takes care of herself but even my aunt who is older than my mom and overweight has men hitting on her. This aunt also just got married to an age appropriate man 3 years ago Yeah I see plenty of older women in my life getting male attention, wanted and unwanted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:55 PM
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We still have identical genetics to cavemen. Humans have advanced technologically at a much faster rate than genetic change can happen on a population level. It’s really only been 100-150 years that modern luxuries like medicine, plumbing, electricity has existed in the developed world. Before that, child and maternal mortality rates were astronomical and men regularly were expected to leverage their strength in wars. These factors shaped the genetics of mate selections because life was short fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:14 AM
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This is how dead bedrooms happen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:35 AM
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He’s not dating down in looks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:25 PM
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Omg this happened to me too. We agreed to keep things casual in the beginning. after 3 months of mediocre sex, i politely ended our FWB arrangement. He proceeded to spam text my phone for years after we ended things even after I blocked him multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:06 PM
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Yup, men looove dark, traumatized bad boys in their stories. Batman and Ironman are more popular than their goody two shoes counterparts for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:53 PM
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I think some women that is true For women like me, I’m not into being super feminine so I don’t wear makeup and heels in my everyday life. I dress modestly but still to the style of what women my age wear because I don’t want to stand out as frumpy. I don’t care much for fashion and men are attracted regardless of what women wear so I’ll go along with the dressing trends in my age group. I’m married but even before then, my goal was to dress in a way that didn’t look weird to other women or draw…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:01 PM
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They also forget that in the past, being a peasant also means being subject to regular famine, potentially being kidnapped/killed/ assaulted in regular wars, working the farm dusk till dawn, and birthing babies until you die or if you survive to menopause. Also, the ultimate authority In your life is your husband and maybe your adult son on top of the king. King does not eliminate these historical realities but greatly reduces it, especially the poverty part. It’s why male aristocrats kept on co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:49 PM
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Might also be a gay male thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:26 PM
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And population depends on how many women are gestating, birthing and raising children to adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:56 PM
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Yeah, this is a reflection of the dual mating strategy that most men want but only some men, can have. Have the wife (the Madonna) you love at home to “love”, bear your children and take care of your home She might not be the hottest, or the most fun, especially as she ages, but she belongs to you long term and kids from the union are more likely than not genetically yours Have the side piece mistress/prostitute (the whore) who is there to be hot, fun, and for sex without any responsibility and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:52 PM
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I argue patriarchy is about both survival and control or women. Yes men are stronger and therefore critical to human survival. But women just as much due to the means of reproduction being in their bodies. Men enforced patriarchy since ancient times to control the means of reproduction (ensuring that their heirs were genetically theirs) , which simultaneously requires the control of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:42 PM
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I also think this is culture dependent too. I was born in the US but come from a Latino/ Caribbean culture where dancing to salsa, bachata, dancehall etc is done a lot even by the older people in my family I’m in my 30s now but even the folks in their 50s will sometime go out to just dance the night away at the Latino/carribbean themed clubs. Usually it is both the man and woman. At family gatherings, dancing is always a huge component for us, usually couples will dance together but non commited…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:22 PM
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Agreed. I come from a lower income households with a single mom. It was not easy. Im middle class now and I would never advocate for women and girls who grew up in my situation to have kids without a committed father. Often that means the man needs to be married to you to give a crap about his kids. Knowing this, marriage has to be part of the deal if you plan to have children as a woman so that struggle for the child is minimized. This is the world/culture we live in. Lilith is advocating for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:35 PM
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Same. The commenters below makes it seem that “Centrists” are worse than liberals and conservatives. But I use the label to indicate that I am neither on the political left or right cuz life is complicated and nothing will ever be perfect so there will only be trade offs. Truly, I am politically homeless which is fine. I agree with a little bit of both but having both left and right views in conjunction is the worst thing to the hardcore left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:06 PM
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For sure, there are some women whose only criteria for casual sex is the guy being super hot and prioritize other qualities in a ltr/husband. I also see plenty of women in the comments saying they met their husbands through hooking up 🤷‍♀️ There are also women that never do hookups and only have sex in committed relationships. Different women do different things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:44 AM
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You don’t know me. I never dated in high school because men and boys freaked me out after being exposed to the misogyny on body building forums back in the ‘00s. My father lived across the country and I had only female cousins so I didn’t have many experiences with non internet males until college. Most of my female relatives growing up also had unsuccessful relationships so they would tell me to focus on school when I was a minor. I have no problem dumping hot men that give me “the tingles” at …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:42 AM
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Yeah you know nothing about good marriages, especially my marriage. Husband gets more sex most weeks than FWB did in the three months we were hooking up. And why are you acting like he’s the only one that has to put in effort or sacrifice into our relationship? Before we got married, his dad had to get emergency life saving surgery and I had a family event but dropped everything that night to help. My husband is an only child so all the caretaking burden post surgery was on his shoulders.I was h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:30 AM
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Sure, I was a drunk 19 year old and still learning about relationship dynamics with men. If husband had been the one at the party, I absolutely would have been willing to hookup with him. It’s all a what if, but I would hope we would have the sense to start a committed relationship with how well we click together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:27 AM
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Tbh I don’t even remember what my FWB face even looked like because he was so unmemorable and it was over 10 years ago. He just passed my looks threshold at the time. I was 19 so still learning about men through trail and error. Never slept with anyone outside of a committed relationship after that experience since I learned my lesson the first time. I was 23 when I met my husband so he also got me at my prime, hottest years in my 20s. Husband is hot af too on top of being an amazing person. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:18 AM
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My original reply to this glitched out so reposting. This does not align with my experience. My only FWB I ended three months in because he became clingy, the sex was just ok, and he started pushing for condomless sex. We met through mutuals at a house party with lots of alcohol as is statistically common with hookups. We both explicitly agreed to a casual thing and I wasn’t looking for a serious relationship at the time. He fit the look I am interested in and he was there to scratch the itch on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:13 PM
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I’m a woman who games, my husband, on the other hand, games a little but is nowhere as enthusiastic about it as I am. When I was young, I could spend all summer and all night gaming since I had no responsibilities or serious relationships. As a married woman with a full time job and household to maintain, I’m lucky if I can game a few hours a week. It will be worse when we have kids. Buy I’ll always prioritize working out, chores, cooking healthy meals and spending time with my husband/friends/f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:28 PM
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Wow this is my exact experience that turned me off from men and boys when I was a teen. I also stumbled across the bodybuilding forum and read the vile and misogynistic things these men would say about women. It definitely kept me from dating or socializing with boys when I was in school. This would have been back in 2005 or 2006 before “incels” or the “male loneliness” epidemic so clearly male “radicalization” against women is not anything new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:06 AM
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Anecdotal evidence but I’m a woman that has gotten into lifting over the past few months so I’m at the gym a lot. Before that I usually did jogs and hikes as my main form of activity. Males dominate the weight room but women dominate the group exercise classes and cardio machines. Out on hiking trails, I see as many women as I see men. I don’t understand how men are as fat as women when it’s biologically easier to be fit and trim for men. Over the past 4 months I’ve put about 3 pounds of muscle …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:53 PM
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Agreed. Even though trans women are a small minority, no way am I going to allow laws to be written so that women and young girls are forced to tolerate changing in locker rooms with males who identify as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:41 AM
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Feminist here that’s observed the rise and fall of trans “ideology” for almost a decade now 👋🏽 Entire feminists subs that awknowlege trans women are males have been banned from Reddit for being “transphobic”. Most women, feminist or not, also know that a cross dressing man in a wig does not equal a woman. Women who speak out against the gender nonsense that frequent hyper liberal spaces get shunned and labeled as conservative or TERFs. Women also have been punished more severely than men for exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:38 AM
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Yeah I don’t necessarily thing we will 100% fall into facism but I recognize the markers are there and it’s best to be prepared. I’ve always been for regulation on 2A rights and have never wanted to keep arms in my house. But after this election, to be prepared for anything, me and my husband have decided to responsibly invest in our 2A rights in the event that we need to defend ourselves from whatever chaos may come in the upcoming administration. We’re also stocking up on emergency supplies (w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:59 PM
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I agree that men and humans in general are naturally not monogamous. However the whole reason why monogamy was created as a social system is because it benefits most individuals and society as a whole. Average men and children especially benefit from monogamous society. What happens in polygamous society is that there are not enough women for every man to be polygamous. Only men of high status do, and these men will hoard the most desirable women in their communities to form their harems. Additi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:34 PM
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Can confirm. My grandfather used to beat the shit out of my maternal grandma in front of their children. She had to run away to relatives in another province with her two young children to get away from him in her late teens. My great grandma (that grandma’s mom) was basically sold off by her parents as a young teen (12 or 13) to an older man in marriage. She ran away from him, met my great grandfather and formed a family with him. Great grandpa then proceeded to have affairs and second families…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:42 PM
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Well yeah, women prefer sex in committed relationship vs casual because the man is invested in putting in the effort of getting her off + the emotional connection. Sex gets better when you do it repeatedly with the same person in a partnership. Also, less chance of STIs and trust/security to feel safe during intimacy. What’s the point of casual sex if you arnt even going to orgasm, it’s more risk and no reward. It’s not rocket science, men and women are different so gay male sexual experiences a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:01 PM
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Is this a real question or are you being obtuse? Gay men are still men and have male anatomy and therefore can get off easier during casual encounters. They are as thirsty as straight men and have the same lack of sexual risk tolerance by virtue of being male. Also, having sex with the same gender makes it so that you understand what will get them off more intuitively and with less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:29 PM
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TMZ is a legit source when it comes to celebrity news bruh. But here’s multiple sources proving the story. Many men have no issue abandoning their families for women out of their league when the opportunity arises https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/lilly-jay-ariana-grande-ethan-slater-dating-b2383490.html https://people.com/ariana-grande-boyfriend-ethan-slater-returns-new-york-amid-divorce-7567335 https://www.harpersbazaar.com/celebrity/latest/a44660991/ethan-slater-files-divorce-…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:34 AM
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https://www.tmz.com/2023/07/26/ariana-grande-boyfriend-ethan-slater-estranged-wife-abandoned-family/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:51 AM
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Oh please, there literally is a high profile case going on right now of a man leaving his high school sweetheart wife and infant child to sleep with a pop star
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:24 AM
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