PumpkinTalkari Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
607	Wedding advertisement from the a newspaper personals section, according to the BBC article it was a “small prank” but it was too good not to share here! Did anyone else see this story?	GLOBAL RESISTANCE	PumpkinTalkari	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/21 09:55 AM
80	I wonder if someone should introduce Liana Finck to FDS?	SHOWER THOUGHT	PumpkinTalkari	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 03:48 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to sniff if he's sexually competent: the quiet confidence of BIG DICK ENERGY Thank you for introducing me to the word gormless 😂 also, very interesting post!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/22 08:24 AM
5	Can we ask HVM to change in smaller ways? This ⬆️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 11:01 PM
9	As a Ukrainian living in USA, here is how most of my dates used to go for the past 10 years "here we have a man who can tell your nationality based on your looks, Ancestry.com is gonna be out of business" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/22 12:54 PM
8	A "good wife" guide from the 1950's and men still expect it in modern time. 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/22 08:00 PM
39	Women&Children and Whose Life is Valued Precisely 😢 (edit: that is to say, this is precisely why the women & children need to evacuate)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/22 11:51 AM
8	Revenge body? Try a revenge LIFE! I love your energy!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 01:23 PM
97	Hmm, did this seem like an innocent question from him or am i wrong to possibly feel the ick? “Your profile was really enjoyable to read up until that last paragraph” Nope, NEXT!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 12:57 PM
33	Man wants to have a kid with his wife's younger sister....the traditional way. This poor woman is actually confused about it. WHAT. This man 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/22 05:08 PM
124	Zero Effort Valentine’s Day If he wanted to, he would 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/22 03:17 PM
2	Received a Shock Yesterday When My Baby Nieces Started Repeating My Rhetoric Back to Me This is what i come here for 🙌🙌🙌	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 10:53 AM
97	Lil Miss Cheetah catches a Cheater red-handed 🥴😂 This is what made the story stand out for me too!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 01:25 PM
6	Strangest icks and dealbreaker? These are such important indicators!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 12:58 AM
3	Diamonds Are Forever So true!!! "No one attacks fancy vacations or fancy cars as silly, but they do wedding days, why? Because time and time again we see things in society that women care about and enjoy attacked as frivolous and silly."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 09:16 AM
15	Reflecting today… The greatest gift I’ve ever given myself was dumping the age gap, emotionally abusive scrote who couldn’t even keep his side of the bathroom clean. AMEN	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/21 10:37 PM
5	🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a man 🤯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/21 06:55 AM
5	It is NOT elitist to treat your friendship as an exclusive invitation to the world’s most important club. How “pickmes” reproduce toxic behavior. On “Pickme” energy, “friendship” breadcrumbing, digital boundaries and vetting other women for friendship. I’m also curious about this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 08:24 AM
15	My colleague (27M) fasts almost all day so he doesn't have to cook The two men I dated for the longest time were both interested in and liked to cook - as both a hobby and life necessity. One was vegetarian, the other omnivorous but into the vegetarian lifestyle - so perhaps that was a factor? And my Boomer father fights with my mom over cooking - they both want to be the one cooking most of the time. Oh and when my mom is the one who cooks dinner, he always does the dishes out of habit, never is asked to do so. There are these kinds of men out there, I promise…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 03:08 PM
10	To the ladies who say FDS is "hot girl strategy" Yes!! Thank you!! This is such an important point.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/21 06:30 PM
10	Female friendships and bonding is underrated. I hate that our society is wired in a way which discourages women from maintaining relationships with their female friends. Absolutely!! The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants tried to teach us… as did Sex and the City… as did Now and Then… as did Steel Magnolias… as did Romy and Michelle’s High School Reunion… as did The Color Purple… as did the new Ghost Busters! But we don’t learn, we don’t get the message 😥	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 08:13 AM
59	Wedding advertisement from the a newspaper personals section, according to the BBC article it was a “small prank” but it was too good not to share here! Did anyone else see this story? Aha, yes it is :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/21 11:32 AM
185	Wedding advertisement from the a newspaper personals section, according to the BBC article it was a “small prank” but it was too good not to share here! Did anyone else see this story? She did! At least one as far as I have read, apparently "one man wrote in saying he was her man since he was 'docile and not opinionated at all'"!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/21 11:14 AM
346	Wedding advertisement from the a newspaper personals section, according to the BBC article it was a “small prank” but it was too good not to share here! Did anyone else see this story? The text reads, "MATCH for opinionated feminist. 30+ educated girl, short hair, piercings, works in social sector against capitalism. Wanted: handsome, well built, strictly 25-28 year old only son with established business, bungalow with at least 20 acre farm house. Should know cooking. No farters/burpers please. Write to [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])" According to the BBC article, 'The ad appeared in a dozen northern Indian cities and cost about 13,000 rupe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/21 10:08 AM
4	Men do not form meaningful friendships with other men. It is not your job as a woman to fill in that void. 👏👏👏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 08:37 AM
5	Kind of Peeved After “Build A Man” Ok well this is knowledge that I won’t soon forget 👀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 08:55 PM
15	Kind of Peeved After “Build A Man” Ugggh good hygiene should not be an unreasonable expectation in a potential mate 🙈	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 08:54 PM
3	Kind of Peeved After “Build A Man” “and I KNOW my coochie is paradise” lololol but also you go girl!!! Keep that excellent attitude and don’t settle for any unkempt manchild!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 08:53 PM
15	I(26F) married a LVM (37M) and now I feel like my only way out is suicide Girl, I am in a similar situation and headspace… foreign country, lvm spouse, feeling very bad mentally. We can get through this. Sending you ❤️.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/21 09:26 AM
13	But - but younger women love older men! /s Love it! A good attitude to have	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 01:32 PM
8	But - but younger women love older men! /s The $@(# … post wall women. I hate how people use terminology like this so freely. If I keep seeing this I’m going to create a Post Wall Women movement to reclaim the term and use it with pride.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 01:30 PM
4	Stop worrying about 🍆, invest in yourself and the sisterhood. The Queendom will follow, sis 👸🏻 Amen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 05:36 AM
25	This is the document that helped pull me out of a terrible, abusive relationship: Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser, by Joseph M. Carver, Ph.D Howww do people become this awful to others	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 05:35 AM
10	Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath. Bahahahaha same	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 11:57 AM
6	“It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.” Exactly!!!! Ughhh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 06:29 AM
5	The fucking audacity to think porn can fix anything when you already can't get it up for your wife... 🤦‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 10:07 PM
35	💕 Oh my goodness, I too saw other women as competition for far too long. That’s so toxic! Unusually perhaps, social media like Instagram has actually lessened that thinking in me, because everyone shares so much about their beauty tips and where they got their clothes or their mental health struggles. And so it feels like I really am learning from other women, instead of comparing myself to them...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 03:36 PM
12	💕 Amen	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 03:30 PM
7	Another truth bomb from this guy! Take notes boys!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 11:29 AM
5	He speaks truth! Superbly put	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 10:28 AM
10	Queen energy Yassss queeen!!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/21 11:33 AM
5	"You're being sex negative!" is so insulting to women. True sex positivity for women is impossible to achieve in a patriarchal world. Requiring women to be "sex positive" before dismantling patriarchy is such a "fuck you" to women. This is so important. Thank you for taking the time to write it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 06:24 AM
64	Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partner “female sexual desire declined after cohabitation, while it only slightly declined when the female was not living with the male partner”	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/21 08:00 AM
11	Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed. You dealt with this really well! I am impressed	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/21 10:40 AM
5	Let’s discuss why a HVM will choose to be with a HVW over the 100 million available pickmeishas Oh goodness this makes so much sense	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 01:01 PM
3	Let’s discuss why a HVM will choose to be with a HVW over the 100 million available pickmeishas Well said!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 12:58 PM
17	Female friendships should be held sacred in a cesspool of LVM. Here's why: This has been unfortunately similar to my experience 😢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 09:04 AM
10	I can’t tell you guys how many times this has happened to me lmaooooo! True story!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 12:36 PM
2	If he wanted to, he would 💯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/20 09:15 PM
8	Which of you saved this girl? 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/12/20 11:49 AM
8	The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchy IT REALLY IS	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 07:17 AM
2	When i saw people calling this a sub for "nasty/evil/crazy/scary" women i immediately got hopeful and wanted to see whats up, not despite of the reputation but BECAUSE of it. Because every time women are doing something RIGHT it's rebranded by men as "nasty/evil/etc" I’m against the gender binary, and I am not dating, but I LOVE this sub! It gets to the heart of so many problems I have had with the rhetoric of the patriarchy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 01:34 PM
5	There are men who find your ambition and drive attractive. Don’t settle for less - your job, success, and livelihood depend on it. So, so true.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 07:19 PM
4	A guy put a camera in his shoe to look up women's skirts on the subway. That is why I always wear shorts under my skirts	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 07:17 PM
11	Men stop putting in an effort, and then are perplexed when you’re no longer cheery, feminine and enthusiastic about sex. Oh my, that is pretty bad.I dated someone who was unfailingly too lazy to get a Kleenex, and there were both ancient and new boogers all over the floor and struck to the bed frame.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 09:26 AM