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| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)You know that you can do both right? Cast a wide net. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:02 PM |
| – | How many women could you take in a fight?I used to be a bar bouncer. One night a tiny little Asian girl that probably weighed about 115 lb. was over-served and had a meltdown. It took me, the other bouncer and two cops to wrestle her down and restrain her. We obviously were holding back so we wouldn't hurt her but, she was also holding her own in spite of four 200+ pound men trying to subdue her. To answer your stupid ass question. One, if that woman was determined enough and had a reason to fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:23 AM |
| -1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex."They may be out there but if nobody wants to have that fun with you, you’re not gonna have that fun." Correct. If you are not a fun person to be around, then nobody will have fun with you. This brings us back to the point of getting out of your own way. You are rejecting yourself, before a girl has a chance to. I was rejected by 9 of the 10 girls I approached back when I was single and looking. But guess what? Every time a girl rejected me, she was doing me a favor. She was being enough of an a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:28 PM |
| -2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Seriously, the only people assigning these arbitrary values are yourselves. Having sex is not difficult, having sex with the tiny demographic of people with unattainable characteristics is impossible. I guarantee your friend who is feeling like a "sex god" has very low standards. Trust me, nobody is too ugly for sex, get out of your own way and find a girl that's on the same page as yourself. One that is just looking for fun, they are out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue.Good luck, we're rooting for you. I also forgot to mention, never leave them unsupervised with a cat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue.Nope they're your problem now. Make sure you give them a steady supply of chicken nuggys, Japanese pornagraphy and flannel pajamas or they'll tantrum out you. No takey backies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Dating is random/messy and cannot be predicted by either Red or Blue pill approachesSo trying to quantify something that is dynamic and subjective is an exercise in futility? Go figure. I never understood why folks are so obsessed over the numbers. People buy lottery tickets every day knowing damn well their chances of winning are practically impossible. So what if 60-70% marriages end in divorce, that doesn't mean your's will. Probably 9 out of 10 girls I approached when I was single and looking turned me down. I still found one, and got married, and we're still married 10 yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:23 PM |
| 1 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionSo what's the metric you considered "enough" for said 18 to 19 y/o? Would a 17 y/o that passed a written test work for your argument? How about a 13 y/o? The age of consent was as low 12 in some US States in the last century. We look back at that as barbaric today but, people fought against raising that age to what it is today. What's the minimum age a person with demonstrative knowledge (regarding the dynamics of human sexuality) that you would consider "old enough?" There are 1000s of examples… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 08:19 PM |
| – | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.And, I'll acknowledge your delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 03:04 AM |
| – | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.I don't consider them men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 02:37 AM |
| – | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.And your argument, is a fantasy. The majority of men would never allow their children to be subjugated, nor would they allow another man's child to be. Just because something is a possibility doesn't mean it can/will ever happen. Andrew Wilson is a hack, and this statement he made is his chicken-shit attempt to threaten women into his bullshit compliance. Argue the merits all you want, the real world is not an podcast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.So? Does that mean I have to do whatever a African Lion tells me to do? They are physically superior to humans in almost every way. Are my rights as human protected because Simba will kick your ass on my behalf if you try to subjugate me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:43 PM |
| 3 | People dont like men with victim complexes and men should stop wanting society to coddle them.Bad shit happens to everybody. And there's nothing wrong with seeking help if/when you need it, that goes for self inflected issues too. The problem comes when we the helpers become enablers and victims become perpetually reliant on our aid. There's people that will never be well too that also needs to be considered. One of the biggest problems we have in modern society is we want a blanket-all approach for our problems laid out in advance. That's not how the world works; we can't just dump our … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:33 PM |
| – | The only one who is following patriarchy are women not men and it has devastating effects on datingTry one thing. Anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:23 PM |
| – | The only one who is following patriarchy are women not men and it has devastating effects on datingI love all these post that rant about this and that with anecdotes and cherry picked data to support some wild clam. Yet, they offer zero solutions, offer nothing to solve this, they take no responsibility for what they themselves are possibly contributing to the issues. It's always blame, and no accountability. When folks like me try to offer help and known solutions we get mocked and and called enablers of bad habits OP. Would you like me, a well adjusted, self reliant, married man to approach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.I'm in my 40s. I got rejected all the time in my dating years. I got used, stood up, paid for dinners that went nowhere, "friend-zoned," and watched the assholes get the good girls, the same as you all today. The difference was that I didn't blame everyone else for my problems, because they were my problems. They were things I had to improve myself; nobody would "fix me" or change their values to satisfy my desires. I also didn't give up or stop trying. I would take it on the chin and seek guida… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 01:05 AM |
| – | The female orgasm is a mythThis can't be real. Nobody capable of typing this up is this ignorant. This has to be an AI prompt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 05:36 AM |
| 22 | Women's advice to men here is to keep them guessing, single, guilt tripped until they're so old they'll get creepshamed anywayNope. You as a woman, must tell this lonely man the magic spell you all keep secret to unlock your unmitigated lust for him. After he is satisfied, kindly go back to your domain and await further instructions, make sure you iron his shirts and make him a sandwich on your way out. That is the only way to sove his problems, sorry it had to be you. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Women's advice to men here is to keep them guessing, single, guilt tripped until they're so old they'll get creepshamed anywayWell you won't even get a cat if treat it like shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:18 PM |
| 7 | Women's advice to men here is to keep them guessing, single, guilt tripped until they're so old they'll get creepshamed anywayThen why are you here? I swear if you're all trolling then you guys are heavy-weight champs of all internet fuckery. But seriously, what are you trying to achieve? You're not going to wear them down and change the paradigm by blaming them for everything wrong with you. The woman of planet Earth aren't going to suddenly agree to pitty fuck the ugly guys with a shitty attitudes in between their "monkey branching" up Mt.Thundercock. You're also not going to convince men such as myself to hold them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 09:17 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Perfectly acceptable. I just used church as an example because there are a million of them and most welcome newcomers. People need real-life social interaction to learn how to be a person. Church or any other place where people regularly congregate is a great venue to practice that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 08:46 AM |
| – | Men have no options.You're right. But I am not here for them. I am here for the kid on the ledge who is at risk of becoming one of those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Why is male sexuality offensive?You're right, I won't argue with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 08:03 AM |
| – | Men have no options.No. I am not a virgin, and it's interesting you use that as an attempt to insult (projecting much). I've been married for 15 years and have two kids. I was in functioning relationships while you were learning how to walk. Go troll somewhere else, adults are talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 08:00 AM |
| – | Men have no options.No, don't hit on women at church. I can't believe that's what you took from that. You need to go where the people are; it doesn't have to be church. You also need to engage with them and learn their culture, values, and social cues. From there, you can navigate what you need to do to attract others as friends and romantic partners. Sitting online and shooting down every suggestion isn't going to get you anything. If you're here to vent your frustrations, that's fine too. But shitting on people's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 07:28 AM |
| – | Men have no options."just stop trying and she will find you when you least expect it". Or... Being part of a community opens opportunities for interactions with the opposite sex. Engaging with groups on a level playing field where safe and social interaction is encouraged might increase your chances of connecting with someone. Church is just one example I have seen work numerous times in my life. I never used it because when I was single and looking, I was a rotten bastard and didn't want to subject some poor girl … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 07:03 AM |
| – | Is caring about women seen as weakness (being a simp) or manipulation among men?Call me an outlier here, but every relationship and FWB situation I ever had started with me being nice to the girl. That doesn't mean if a girl is being an asshole I won't call her one. I once helped a lady load some wooden boards in a Home Depot parking lot. My friend watched me do this and asked why I bothered, like I should of known she wasn't going to screw me. I told him I did it purely out of common courtesy, to do one tiny thing to make the world a slightly better place. In that way, I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 06:43 AM |
| – | Men have no options.Well then you should skip that part. But, for the lads looking for that "tradwife" or whatever they call it, it's a good place to start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:45 AM |
| 47 | Men have no options.Ask anyways. But, respect her answer if it's no. Do some recon before you ask her out. See if she's talking to the other ladies at XYZ about you to see what she's saying. Strive to make actual platonic friends that are girls. They will almost certainly have other single friends that they can set you up with. Go to church. Or anywhere that has a community that welcomes newcomers. Jesus Christ you all take shit literally. Nobody is going to issue you a girlfriend, and relationships don't happen wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Why is male sexuality offensive?My friend... Go to a bar on a night that is hosting a bachelorette party. You as a man will receive unwanted sexual attention from women. I'm taking full on gropeing and propositioning from women that you will have zero desire to engage with. It does happen...regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | “Women give men bad dating advice” is a lie. The manosphere will discredit anything women say if it doesn’t fit their narrative.That too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:52 AM |
| -1 | “Women give men bad dating advice” is a lie. The manosphere will discredit anything women say if it doesn’t fit their narrative.The overwhelming majority of all my girlfriends, until I met my wife were setup by girl buddies. The others were setup by my gay bros. Believe it or not, girls know how girls think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights.You really think I'm going to let my neighbor's daughter get sold off as a broodmare, if I can do anything about it? What fantasy do you live in, were the majority of men in the Western world would sign off on this? Let's play your game, I going to "simply betray another man's daughter." Go find a random house in your community with a "Trump 2024" sign in the front yard (assuming you're American). Knock on the door and say the following to any man who answers. "I am here to claim my right of fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights.I don't think your honestly suggesting an "army of women" would survive against an army of men? No but, an army of women plus their dads, brothers, uncles and other male friends will. This isn't a threat, but if anyone comes knocking on my door claiming dominion over one of my daughters? They're not leaving under their own power. And the majority of dads across the world feel the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?You all need "girl-bros" AKA platonic girlfriends. I'm really serious about that platonic part too, these ladies are off limits to all romantic engagement. You two need to be in a genuine friendship that fosters honest communication from her. She needs to be able to tell you hard truths, and call you on your bullshit when necessary. She's not pimp though, you have to be seriously looking for LTR when you ask her for help. If your just trying to get laid, hit the bar. Almost every serious girlfri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Was cold appraching more successful before social media and online dating became common?Every cold approach (late 90s - 2000s) I made, faild in my single/dating years. However, 6 out 10 of the times that worked at it, and built a rudimentary reporte with a girl, I would get at least a follow up date. It wasn't as easy as walking up to girl and saying "let's fuck" like a caveman. And even if you put in the time and bought her drinks she could still turn you down. But, if you took it in stride, was cool about it, and respected her decision. Girl # 1 would introduce you to one of her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 08:40 PM |
| – | Thought Experiment: What’s the difference between a post-op M2F transexual and a sex robot?The fundamental difference is one is a living, thinking, human being with emotions, aspersions, and everything else that makes us human. The other is a talking squishy toaster you can masterbate into. Look, if you have no desire to have an emotional connection with a sexual partner that's fine. That's why prostitution is a thing. But, comparing a person of any type to a interactive sex doll is really messed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 08:46 AM |
| 2 | We need structured, classroom-based real-life adult/young adult education on social skills and datingThere already are resources for people struggling with relationships. The problem is nobody wants the help. Popping the anxiety bubble and putting yourself in a situation where socialization is required is terrifying to the people who actually need this help. We already have therapists, social clubs, bars, and church programs that cater to social interaction. What we really need to do is at society/cultural level. Remember when the college kids wanted to create "safe spaces" and how bad we all m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:01 PM |
| 2 | We need structured, classroom-based real-life adult/young adult education on social skills and datingI don't think this is a bad idea but not a curriculum based class. More like an after-school club that is instructor led. I think it would have to be a non-offical club or the crazies would pounce on it for "teaching kids how to have sex." I think an hour here and there where a kid can ask an educated adult "adult questions" in a judgment free space would be great. Start off with some common sense topics such as hygiene, consent, safe-sex, etc.. then move into dating/how to. I would also throw i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 07:49 PM |
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