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| 5 | Men: would you date women if you would never get access to their bodies?If kids were still somehow possible yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 02:46 AM |
| -3 | "The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each otherNo one cares why you reject women. Factually wrong since I was literally asked multiple times on why I rejected women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 02:24 PM |
| 0 | "The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each otherNot on dates and they do not literally ask "what are you bringing to the table", but I had experienced women questioning me with very little subtlety to find out what is on my table. Feels as romantic as being questioned by the IRS. Not only do I have my self-respect, but I also do want some romance in my life. So hell yes I did rejected them. The thing is that I was being told by women that my personal instincts about things being unappealing should be overridden. Not all women, some of them. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 02:20 PM |
| – | "The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each otherLiterally nobody cares if you reject women for any reason. I did reject women and some people certainly cared about that. Also, asking people what they bring to the table is weird. Women asked me what I am bringing to the table. You don't get out much do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 02:02 PM |
| – | Men, do you genuinely care about your partner's pleasure and well-being during intimacy?Men, is it actually true that you're generally not overly picky about a woman's body and that you genuinely care about her well-being and pleasure during intimacy? Yes, but, I also have experience with women being selfish in bed. If woman is selfish in bed, I also become selfish in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 01:47 PM |
| -2 | "The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each otherImagine a man being told by women that his personal instincts about things being unappealing should be overridden. Like that... I shouldn't care about her rich sexual history, It doesn't matter if she has children. I should find her attractive despite her obesity. I shouldn't look at what she is bringing to the table. This would never happen. Yep, this could never, ever happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Red pill men, what actions are you referring to specifically that you say women fail to take accountability for?okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/26 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Red pill men, what actions are you referring to specifically that you say women fail to take accountability for?Accountability means owning your mistakes. I havent seen this happen from a woman a single time in my whole life. Happens sometimes but, I know some women which never apologized in +30 years. Always shifting blame, reframing, using every trick in the book to avoid accountability. They behave like taking accountability for their actions would literally kill them. This is one thing due to which I will never consider women as equals, I just can't take them seriously when they persistently avoid act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/26 10:59 PM |
| -1 | Red pill men, what actions are you referring to specifically that you say women fail to take accountability for?It's hard because a bunch of you men and women live sedentary lifestyles, so every physical work is hard for you. I work in construction, when I come home I do dishes and laundry, because that's super easy for me. Wife folds clothes though, I suck at doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | hot take: men need to adapt more feminine traits to resolve the gender warBut men have adopted more feminine traits. All of the ones you mentioned. Also we became more liberated, we became more selfish, we want our fun times, we compartmentalize women into good fox sex and relationship material, we care much more about our looks... So what's the problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/26 03:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It’s valid to end a friendship if their dating success constantly reinforces your insecurities even if they did nothing wrongBecause effect is what maters. And lies can have negative, neutral or positive effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/26 01:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It’s valid to end a friendship if their dating success constantly reinforces your insecurities even if they did nothing wrongYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/26 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Apparently women prefer to be friends first, yet dread the moment a guy friend develops feelingsWomen score a bit lower then men in spatial intelligence, but yes at certain spatial tasks women score better. You want evidence? Don't be lazy, google is your friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 03:47 PM |
| – | Apparently women prefer to be friends first, yet dread the moment a guy friend develops feelingsI didn't do that at all. How the fuck did you even came up with that conclusion? Are you really dumb, or your literacy skills are incredibly low, Oh I see that you are in the club of women which think men are more dangerous then bears. I understand everything now. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 01:42 PM |
| -1 | Apparently women prefer to be friends first, yet dread the moment a guy friend develops feelingsMy IQ is in top 1%, so haha at calling out my IQ. Yes I do know that EQ isn't IQ. Do you know that women have only slightly higher EQ then men, so all this talk amout your EmOtIoNaL iNtElIgNcE makes you women seem very dumb. We end up having more accidents due to being more prone to taking risks, not due to being less capable drivers. And the parallels with driving was just used to show how dumb it is to consider other gender incapable due to small difference in intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 01:32 PM |
| 23 | Apparently women prefer to be friends first, yet dread the moment a guy friend develops feelingsThey dread the moment when unattractive simp confesses their feelings, and simping is unattractive. A lot of friends from social circle confesed to each other over the years. Sometimes they formed couples, sometimes there was some awkwardness for some time, never some big drama. Problems happen when guys simp. Even if guy is attractive she never develops desire, because he is always present and giving everything she wants. She doesn't dread losing a friend, she dreads losing a simp which gives h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women prefer to be friends first, yet dread the moment a guy friend develops feelingsWomen are getting so annoying with the whole emotional intelligence thing. YES women have higher EQ, but it's not like men are retarded. The differences are not that high. Women have lower spatial intelligence... so maybe in turn we should treat you as incapable of driving? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 01:01 PM |
| 1 | The red pill version of female submission is stupidTRP for women is just like blue pill for men. These "advices" are not made for your interest and benefit, their intention is to turn you into ideal little plaything for some man to use. You shouldn't be submissive to a man because some pill told you so. Rather a man should inspire such confidence into you that you do not question him performing his role. I have no idea why you decided to raise someone else children. You are in a vulnerable position, he can replace you with a younger hotter maid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Women generally tend to be more materialistic than men.Plenty of women both on this sub and in real life look down on men they think are "low status" or "uneducated" and it has nothing to do with income. Yes, but this is a matter of local cultures. In my hometown women have been getting more educated then men since the 60's, and college educated women do very often marry blue collar workers. Because in local culture blue collar work is not seen as low status. I'm not going to pretend this is true everywhere, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:26 AM |
| – | CMV: It actually is terrible advice for feminists to tell high earning women who want to become mothers to seek a sperm bank and hire a nannie, because a stay at home dad is cheaper if they believe in emotional laborI'm guessing you didn't understood my comment due to low literacy skills. I don't whine about doing chores, I'm a man for fucks sake, not some whiny woman. I did my chores when I was single just fine. Now that I have a family with two kids, I still do most of the chores, and don't whine about it like some whiny woman. Get some education to help with those low literacy skills of your. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 05:27 AM |
| -2 | Women generally tend to be more materialistic than men.This is a myth men invented to inflate their value because they provide nothing to women. Women which believe that should offcourse stay single. And shouldn't even debate on this sub because men and relationships with men play no role in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 05:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It actually is terrible advice for feminists to tell high earning women who want to become mothers to seek a sperm bank and hire a nannie, because a stay at home dad is cheaper if they believe in emotional laborWhich explains how they are able to spend 7 times the amount of hours without their children than with their children, even when childcare is their literal job. Being seven times more efficient then women doing childcare would be a phenomenal result, but please explain to me, how is 6.1 hours of childcare seven times less then 14.1 hours of childcare? No, but they'll use it to shirk all the responsibility of chores and childcare at home. I've never heard of a women using work as an excuse to sit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 04:40 AM |
| 0 | CMV: It’s valid to end a friendship if their dating success constantly reinforces your insecurities even if they did nothing wrongBut a situation like this can be a source of insecurity. Leaving that situation can be beneficial for self-esteem. And OP doesn't have to be honest on the reasons for his departure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 04:27 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It’s valid to end a friendship if their dating success constantly reinforces your insecurities even if they did nothing wrongYou are allowed to do whatever you want. Well actually no. See there are these things called laws, which say that there are some things we shouldn't do. And if we do it, we can end up locked in a room for years. But leaving a friendship which is hurting us? Yes, that's a very okay thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 04:22 AM |
| -1 | CMV: It’s valid to end a friendship if their dating success constantly reinforces your insecurities even if they did nothing wrongand other people may judge your motives You can lie about motives though. A lie which doesn't harm anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Women generally tend to be more materialistic than men.I would argue that while women are more materialistic, average woman doesn't see men as just a source of resources. And if woman wants to have children with a man, that man should be okay with being a provider. Don't ask me about single moms though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 03:59 AM |
| -1 | CMV: It actually is terrible advice for feminists to tell high earning women who want to become mothers to seek a sperm bank and hire a nannie, because a stay at home dad is cheaper if they believe in emotional laborSAHM: 30.5 hours of leisure time, 14.1 hours of childcare and 10.5 hours of chores per week. SAHD: 47.2 hours of leisure time, 6.1 hours of childcare and 4.0 hours of chores per week How can you assume that SAHDs provide the same service as SAHMs, when SAHDs have 17.2 more hours of leisure time, while doing less than half the childcare and chores as SAHMs, even when he doesn’t work? The data says they're the laziest demographic here. SAHD's are obviously much more efficient at performing their t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 03:34 AM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooas someone who is attracted to men...no. like pretty much all humans, men are at their objectively most attractive in their 20s, and 30s And some men peak in their attractiveness in 20's some 30's, some rare in 40's. But those which do get more attractive as they age, they don't keep getting more and more attractive in their 50's, 60's, 70's... then become sex symbols in 80's 🤣 It's... guy keeps getting more and more attractive and peaks in 40, then goes downhill. Other guy looks like a boy band… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 10:41 PM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooHollywood stars at their 60's and 70's... that's your case? Okay... when we are in 70's and if you have money to soak in botox, you will look better then me. And I won't give a shit, because I'll be 70 years old, my dick won't work, I won't give a damn in women find me attractive, my wife won't be able to leave me because I'll just deflate wheels on her wheelchair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 10:22 PM |
| -2 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooNah, women which grow more attractive with age are super rare. Men... I'd say 25% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 09:27 PM |
| 4 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooAnd when men date or just fuck much younger women, they don't get criticized for doing that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 04:12 PM |
| -1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooThis is 100% correct, men age, lose hair, get fat, lose teeth etc. Actually men are really diverse when it comes to age and attraction. Some men grow less attractive with age, some grow more attractive with age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 04:07 PM |
| 2 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooThree times I found out women weren't telling the truth and I ended relationship. Every time woman from her life told me the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence?It is about the ability to influence emotions too. Which could be used in a positive or negative way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence?Emotional intelligence, also known as EQ or EI, is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions while also recognizing and influencing the feelings of others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence?Oh I do agree, couple should validate each other. I'm just dismantling your claim about EQ, that it means addressing emotions not making them someone else's problem. EQ is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions while also recognizing and influencing the feelings of others. Serial killer could have a high EQ, and use it to be a better serial killer. EQ is being glorified, when it's just an ability... which can be used in positive and negative ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 05:02 PM |
| 2 | The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date themIf cold approaching was extremely unsuccessful we wouldn't be doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 03:03 PM |
| 3 | The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date themWhy are men so protective of this sort of behavior? I don't see a single man in this group being supportive of that kind of behaviur. I see a bunch of men which are going to keep approaching women in public, because that's one of the ways we meet women, so fuck you. You can get to know a woman over time then ask her out instead of blindly hitting on every woman you see. And you can simply work out in your home if you don't like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 01:53 PM |
| 6 | The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date themThere is another solution. All these people which consider every human contact inappropriate, and want all of us to conform for their convenience. For people which think communal places as private ones. They can... stay at home! Because at home, people have these neat little things called doors and locks, for keeping other people and their inappropriate contact outside. And visitors have to conform to house-rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 10:10 AM |
| 7 | The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date themNope. This is a liberal county, why the fuck would I follow some rules you made up? I don't care about your little drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 09:58 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence?She should have the EQ to address her own emotions, not making her my problem. I don't have to validate her, that's emotional labour. I'm not her free therapist. She should have the EQ to understand that suppressing emotions, then dealing with them in peace and quiet alone is how I deal with my emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 09:34 AM |
| 1 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.It is dishonest. but it doesn't make me a bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 10:32 PM |
| 2 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.No, just secretly do it behind her back, you get results by mail. She doesn't end up feeling by your lack of trust. For this same reason she is going to secretly snoop through your phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.What makes you think that the men who struggle to get women’s interest when they’re approaching would ever be approached by women, much less the women that they wanted to approach in the first place? Yep, men get cold approached by women which are way below their league. Maybe there are exceptions, never heard about them though. Women in our league sometimes make first move after we organically get to know each other. So no, I really don't have a problem with women not cold approaching more ofte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.Maybe I get sexually excited when women intentionally act dumb. Maybe I am furiously masturbating this whole time. Feel free to keep these kind of comments incoming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.It's more like some women bore me with the way they are communicating. Actually annoy me and bore me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.Seriously? Literacy skills! Reading comprehension! I never said Jason Statham is not a narcissist, or is a narcissist, how the fuck would I know? I just used him as an example that sometimes, rarely, people can become famous without trying to achieve fame. Like there is a guy in town next to me which got caught... making... love... with a... house pet. He wasn't trying to become famous, he... kind of did become very famous, or infamous. Well everybody knows him, by his "artistic" nickname I gues… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.One last answer. When my mom was diagnosed with cancer, I gave up on my college education to go back home and care of my mom. I took care of her for eight years until she died. This decision costed me so much, due to it I ended up as a blue collar worker with SAT score of 1570, I ended up being single for so long due to living in a small hole in the middle of nowhere were ALL women of my age were also my cousins. I was aware this would happen when I made that decision. And I did it due to entire… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.Now you are just being boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.Most famous people are narcissistic. Due to being narcissistic they sought jobs which feed their narcissism, which give them fame, power or both. But also, lets say you are not narcissistic, and you suddenly become famous because... it just happens sometimes. Like Jason Statham was doing a bunch of different things and wasn't even trying to become famous or anything like that, got spotted by modeling agency, became a movie star. This fame can turn people narcissistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.Yes it is very mature to simply shut down people which debate in bad faith. And it would be very immature to keep engaging into these. Also it's very mature to recognize these dumb shaming attempt and call them out. Your attempt at shaming was very dumb and it didn't worked. Work on improving your shaming skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.I'm gonna assume you're just saying a fancy way of "No one wants to be a pariah", which isn't selfish. It's selfish. Even just trying to survive is selfish. You are doing all these mental gymnastics to avoid facing the horrible truth that everything you are doing is inherently selfish but... There is actually nothing horrible about it. Because even though all our actions are motivated by inherent selfishness, results of those actions can be very amazing. So rather then pointing fingers and blami… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.You simply grew from being a selfish kid driven by more basic id desires, to becoming an selfish adult which is driven by id and ego desires. You desire a status in society, as such you avoid anti-social behaviors out of your selfish desires for status. That's what drives us to act noble, our selfish desires for status. You also do stuff out of empathy which makes you feel bad for people which are suffering. You are acting to avoid feeling bad, that's selfish. You do noble things out of that sel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.Nope. We do have studies on how often men and women cheat, we also do have studies which show that cheating is highly correlated with high socio-sexuality. People with high number of sexual partners, people which have more casual sex are also more likely to cheat. What I don't know is how much having options influences people influences people into cheating. As I said no way to practically measure it. Anecdotes are good enough to say something does exist. As an example I saw dolphins a couple of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.Everyone is selfish. Feel free to delude yourself that you are not. But good luck trying to judge me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.Both genders do change their behaviour, their psychology if situation around them changes. As an example people can become narcissistic when they eg. become famous. We don't know how many men would cheat if they were given more options. Because there is no practical way to do a study. I can only share some anecdotes. I do know men which do have lots of options and never cheated. I myself am a late bloomer, in my 30's I suddenly had a lot of options. That made me more picky, but it didn't made me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.Fuck, I actually had to google this Eliot guy. So one incel with mental problems killed 7 injured 14. Sounds so shocking. So... how many people die each year due to angry incels? For comparison we have about 50 000 deaths by suicide. Without doubt there are many more victims due to gang violence. So for me, these angry incels killing people are really low on my list of priorities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.I'm not dumb you know. I can see that women say they give much greater value to character then they actually do. And women say that physical attractiveness is far less important to them then it really is. Scientific studies confirm that. So women do lie. Complaining about men lying, while failing to acknowledged their frustrations stem from women persistently lying and gaslighting. Makes you a hipocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.Can you see my feet? I can see them, so if you claim youcan't see them, you are lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.I never experienced men idolise bad boys in real life. I don't actively look for reasons to feel outraged so I don't visit these echo chambers where people openly share their deranged takes. I wouldn't write angry posts about stuff I saw on eg. Two X Chromosomes. I saw these are some crazy cat ladies and left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.How many nice things you do because they feel nice? You did them to feel nice, that's selfish. How many nice things you did to not feel bad? Also selfish. This incredibly high standard of nobility... it only wirks for people when their brains rationalises selfish decisions as noble and moral ones. Everyone is selfish. I'm simply in a club of selfish people which make better company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.But most of us don't feel upset about it because we are seeing the consequences of it. We are simply warning about the consequences of such lifestyle. I do know several bad boys, they were successful with trashy women, ALL of them ended up in shitty relationships with shitty women. That's the part these incels don't get. This minority of men which are having lots of casual sex are not fucking everything. They are fucking with a minority of women which are promiscuous. Men which fuck a lot of wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.Yes I actively chose to not let loud minority form my opinions about the whole gender. Instead I separate genders into smaller stereotypical groups. Which is way healthier mindset. You should try it sometimes. Also yes, while physical attractiveness is very important for that initial attraction, personality matters too. These guys don't have neither. When people say they should be loved for their personality but they also have shitty personality, that's just peak comedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.I wasn't writing last week though. I know people want simple explanations, but world is complicated and simple explanations are usually wrong. Men which are sought for do have more options, so they are more likelt to cheat, pump and dump, keep women in situationships... So when it comes to attractive men, women which want them for LTR's should vet them for low sociosexuality, they should seek such men which are decent. Entering into a relationship with a highly attractive man which is high in so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.I think that everyone is selfish, most people simply rationalise their selfish decisions as moral ones. I don't, I realised that I am playing the noble role out of selfish reasons. I like the privileges which come from playing by that rulebook. You can try to shame me for being selfish, but such attempt would be futile, because I think that everyone else including you is selfish. The thing is that most people do want to be a part of "noble" people... but that requires playing by the "noble" book… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.Well these incels, not as all single men, but as in incels which live in fucking basements and spend their time playing games and ranting about how evil women are. They are a bunch of people to lazy and cowardly to do something about being single. What they want is for women to seek them out, find them in their basement and subserviently have sex with them between their gaming sessions. So they get sex without putting in any effort or taking any risk. But these are a minority of men. Who gives a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.I wasn't conciously starting a strawman argument. There are people which don't do it because there are bad consequences for doing it, which is why it is bad. I guess that some men would really want to, but are to cowards to do it. As in afraid of ending up in prison for doing bad things which bad boy has to do to be bad. But most men don't do it because of social consequences. We want to be in company of decent people, we want decent women... we lock ourselves off that by being bad boys. My olde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.It seems like you have this idea that people are not acting as bad boys because they can't... as if there is some cosmic force, forcing us to play designated roles. I assure you that I can be a bad boy, not only that, I can be a horrible ruthless person. And if I was to be idolised for that... well why wouldn't I? The thing is that I would be idolised by trashy men, and trasy women. I'd be the king of the trash heap. But decent people would look at me with contempt. And I rather be in the compan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:45 AM |
| – | Progressive women suddenly know who the “losers” are when it comes to datingI wouldn't say it's just superficial identity signaling. I'd say most modern, western women (not Politkovskaya and Navalnaya) fight for a world in which they are going to be treated fairly, according to some higher standards. So men need to behave according to the moral rules they are trying to police. At the same time they don't want to be confined by those same moral rules, they do get to be superficial and pick men based on how physical attractive they are. Essentially, fat acceptance, but on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 09:28 AM |
| 0 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.I think most men want to provide for women which desires them, call it alphabuxxing. Since most men due to various reasons can't be alphabux, they settle for the next best thing they can achieve. A lot of these alpha chads playing the game can't keep women desiring for them for long period of time, because one can only keep appearances up for so long. So the next best thing is a bunch of shorter relationships. For some men next best thing is being a betabuxx. And so on... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Many bisexual men are not as "lopsided" towards straight as people think they are; their gay side simply resembles the typical straight women's attraction towards menAs a BI man, yes to everything you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:25 AM |
| 7 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.OP seems to think that all men can't be bad boys because... there is some invisible force preventing us from being like that. I can do absolutely horrible things, I simply CHOSE not to. I despise bad boys due to their lack of morals. I laugh at dumb women which get used by bad boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:16 AM |
| 7 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.I'm 40 years old, never saw men idolise bad boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:13 AM |
| 4 | Tradwives reduce men to a paycheck and a bodyguard while Feminists want an actual partner.Is this a grift? Feminists demand more, and offer less, because that's what they do, that's their idea of equality, maximizing what they can get, while minimizing what they have to give. They say they want a partner, just like they say they want allies, but they actually want one way relationship, in which they just take. That's why feminists prefer men which are traditional when it comes to giving, but don't expect women to be traditional when it comes to giving. Feminist women just see men as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Red pill failed menNot everyone gets to enjoy the fall. Some of us were blessed with good looks. We get to fuck around with zero considerations for traditional social norms and duties. Other men grow more and more frustrated. In the end society falls due to failing birth rates and increasing number of anti-social people. Or these frustrated men start a revolution and change whole society into traditional society. Or traditional people simply outbreed progressive people, and outvote them. I don't have a crystal bal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Red pill failed menI was there from the beginning, Red Pill started as an easy to use guide to getting laid. And at the begining it was doing just that, it wasn't asking too much on why, it just asked what works. But men are curious little creatures which like to know why things work the way they work. And Red Pill enabled unsanitized discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:20 PM |
| 6 | Red pill failed menRed pill understood that women's behaviors will lead to the fall, they argued the fall was inevitable, and best course of action for men was not to try to fix things, but enjoy the downfall. And they were right about it. A lot of men took the red pill, spent some time being bitter, then worked on improving their superficial traits, and went out there to have some superficial casual sex. Yay. But some men, instead of working on themselves and getting their dick wet... stayed and festered on their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:33 PM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.A woman fucking a man hoping he will commit to her is the same as a nice guy being kind to a woman hoping he will get sex. Exactly. Both are investing, "paying" in advance hoping for a return, both are putting themselves into position to be used. Both are doing essentially the same thing. When nice guy does it then he is devil incarnate, because he was doing it "just" to get into her pants, he was treating relationship transitionally, he was consciously with malicious intent planning the whole t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:04 AM |
| 6 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.When women say they want a nice guy... it's bullshit. Women don't find niceness attractive, period. Women find physically attractive, fun men which share interests with them to be attractive. That's what science says, and that's okay. If you can't cope with the fact that women lie, sure, go ahead and figure out some scenario of "well women actually mean..." But I'm not buying it. Women lie, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 09:31 AM |
| 9 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Yep, while both genders are biased in favor of women, women are much more biased. Red pillers were right about blue pillers all along, it's not a figure of their imagination, they just suck at doing actual research, they had scientific studies showing this bias right under their noses for years. Women on this sub claiming that blue pillers do not exist is peak comedy, because reddit, and women on this sub specifically are blatant examples of this bias. Extra comedy for blaming men for putting wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 12:24 AM |
| 6 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Never said that, also I have no idea how you came up with that conclusion. Are you dumb? Blue pill is just another name for Women are wonderful effect. A bias which has been scientifically measured. Here is a Wikipedia page on it. This bias seems to change through history, there were periods of time when men were considered to be pure gender and women were considered to be dirty, periods of time when women were considered to be pure, men were considered to be dirty. A short summary made by AI be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:22 PM |
| 21 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.That's the double sword created by the blue pillers. On one hand women do enjoy privileges by being considered angels. On other hand it places expectations on women to behave like angels. Men are not the only ones promoting "women are wonderful" bias. Women do it too. How many women still claim that women are attracted to nice personality? And that doing chores is what makes men hot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you truly spend a year or more with a woman with zero intention of being serious/ married? And let her think otherwise?In my opinion people do have obligation to properly communicate all information important for relationship. Partner not asking is not an excuse. I myself inform partner about all such information. I ended several relationship because partner didn't... they lied by omission about things which were important for relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 08:40 PM |
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