Punkybrewsickle Archive

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1	Her attorney F'd up again Feeling this hard, except the part where it will get fixed. That part didn't happen for us. I married a man w/CS & spousal (4 kids, 6 figure salary, the 17 year SAHM). Well 2 years into our marriage, kid1 graduated HS. But support didn't adjust. The state calculation of $1,774 was rounded up to 1800 in the decree to have nice round numbers. His spousal support was an additional $1,900. The roundup was $26 a month for an even $1,800. In our state, if you deviate from the state calculation by $10 …	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/23 02:24 AM
2	Anyone Else Only Married Due To Kids and Finances? I have my own room.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/22 11:08 AM
3	I’m (29M) considering divorcing my wife (28F) due to her failure to contribute anything to our marriage financially. Yes, I can support her and I make a pretty good living. My problem is that I should not need to support her at the level that I am, due to the context of our marriage currently. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Having specific goals and dreams with specific monetary milestones can incentivize a job (renting or buying a home you love, your bucket list vacation, even building a baby fund if parenting is the dream keeping her from wanting to lock herself into the employment trajectory). Sometimes having just a 2-year plan will make the time being seem more purposeful. I have a personal hard time with people who put their spouses or others in the position of providing fo…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/22 02:41 PM
0	The Golden Uterus Yeah, I'm part of the two income force required to keep the golden Ute fed, housed, and jetted around to Hawaii twice a year. They told me after my baby was born that my uterus was just made of uterus, so my life would now consist of working full time to pay for some golden uterus' lifestyle, and the rest on my own peasant spawn's daycare. The guy I married definitely needed me to add an income to replace all of his so the kids would have a couch to sleep on when they visited him. But yeah, dayc…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/22 01:07 AM
4	There has got to be some sort of justice in this world. I think it's wayward wife, used sometimes in support forums.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/21 12:56 AM
3	I’m actually grateful my wife divorced me after only 3 years… Can't wait for my turn. You gave me hope!	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/21 12:07 PM
1	Anything I can do? As a woman, I honestly have to agree with you. When I learned of my first husband's infidelity, I was alone in our home and he was out of state on business (that's where you go to a conference remotely about your job so you can pork a stranger that doesn't have one, unless you count loitering at convention centers.) I was frozen in place in suffocating silence. My first thought was the Xbox. Under my car tire. But then I remember thinking that was wasteful. Both of the tech AND the opportunity t…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/21 06:03 AM
2	Unexpected Costs and benefits This is a very temporary expense, but it will equip you reasonably and effectively, to feel confident for years to come. You will soon have enough of what you need for a dignified closet, and your expenses will be freed up again. I'm happy for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/21 06:59 PM
5	Just typical.. I'm so sorry. There's no expression that can articulate what you must feel, or ease the emotional toll. Good on you for finding a place to unpack a little of it. I hope you find support and understanding on this sub. Be easy on yourself. You're not alone.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/21 11:26 PM