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hoes before bros 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:16 PM
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Depends Extroverts like he can't enjoy silent or low interation activities NO Extroverts like they like to talk a lot and have many friends SURE I think I'd probably be more in tune with an introvert unless they don't want to do activities outside. That could be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:05 PM
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FOr me it's the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:49 PM
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Last night I had a dream about an Asian guy (he was tall and semi fat) who was interested in me. We kissed but the kiss was so terrible I woke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:36 PM
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I loved that my ex was emotioanlly vulnerable. That made me feel safe and understood. In fact I've seen all of the men I have dated cry, even the FWBs- And it never made me think less, on the contrary, it made me think they were strong people going through hard times. Every woman I know thinks the same. But what do we know? we are only women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:27 PM
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exactly ARE you a cheater or are you not? do you want to have children or not? do you want to adopt cats or not? are you monogamous or poly? WoMeN DoNT KnOw WhAt TheY WaNt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:23 PM
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if you can carry a conversation and tell funny stories then you're already at that level without having to fake anything. Exactly, This is what I mean when I say social skills and I don't think you can kafe it. Faking social skills doesn't mean lie and say you have a boat lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:30 PM
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The difference is that we can lie, so we can fake social skills that we don't actually have. I don't think you can fake that you have social skills. If you can fake it, that means you have them. And they are not tied to social status money or looks. It's about a quick joke, a good conversation, etc. You are all tallking about mating rituals, you are making it weird and complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:26 PM
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Social skills. Meaning they can read the room and take action in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:03 PM
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the other day I had that argument with a woman she said it was my fault men treat women like objects. She also said nobody is going to want to marry me. 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:00 PM
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I dated a guy for 3.5 years because of his personality I also dated an incredible handsome man and the physical attraction wore off after a couple of months. The guy had some red flags. It was fun anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:45 PM
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WHat about PMS? Once a month I feel sad and hungry for no reason. I have cried for stuff that wasn't that bad. Believe me, female hormones are worst
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:32 PM
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I feel that a guy who isn't sexist is like a unicorn. In fact the ones who are the least sexist aren't usually aware of it, so they carry silly sexist jokes. As long as he can understand the concepts of feminism and doesn't argue, it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:16 AM
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are you kidding? look at that smile
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:51 PM
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Murderers who are hot: Ted Bundy, Jefrey Dahmer, Chrios watts, a blonde incel I can't remember his name, Elliot Rodgers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:57 PM
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Is this because even though many women have been saying for decades that too buff guys are unatractive you still need to ask it again to another people to see if you have a different answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:02 PM
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He's hot obviously but IRL he's too buff. Too buff guys only appeal to other gym bros this isn't a global conspiracy, it is known
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:52 PM
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ah you mean that a woman would think his dick is broken some maybe think this way probably, but some also think what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:12 PM
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yeah, that's pretty common too. Because a guy is supposed to want sex all the time with anyone. So you must be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:06 PM
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A few years ago it was common for people to say that it's the woman's fault for not being able to cum. "You need to relax" "have you seen a doctor about it" "are you doing therapy?" "have you tried masturbating?" Do you know yourself?" turns out we weren't doing enough foreplay duh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:59 PM
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damn he's hot I totally get how Ted Bundy got away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:10 AM
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Leave my hobbit feet alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:32 PM
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😡Those bastards with their stupid smiles and their stupid penises how dare they 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:09 PM
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This is speculation. We have to go by the information we have, not speculation. The information is someone decided to break up. When someone breaks up it's because the relationship isn't working. This is just how LTRs work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:55 AM
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the worst case scenario is he leaves her, which is rare (as women file for 80% of divorces) I've seen this so many times and I think you guys have never been in LTRs. The one who speaks about the relationship isn't necesarily the one who is screwing it up. That's a 2 people work. The fact that she is filing for divorce doesn't mean she alone poisoned the relationship. It's likely that when some men want to break up they start making your life imposible so that you are the one who does the dirty …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:30 PM
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Men are the ones to blame for treating women as sex objects. What you are describing is victim blaming. Stop valuing yourself thriough the eyes of men, use your own eyes. Edit to add: I think this conversation is pointless. I feel like arguing with a church lady lmao, so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:39 AM
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when you were the one who ended up with all the social consequences of sex while they walked out free? that's not a punishment in my social circles 💁‍♀️ You could use some fun from time to time, it'll make you a less invested in other people's lives
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:13 AM
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who said they used me? I used and disposed of them 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:35 AM
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No, women don't like casual sex. lmao this is ridiculous maybe you don't but plenty do. I do for example and I have had casual sex before. It was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:16 AM
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ah yeah you are right PPD doesn't get personal, maybe that's why is so toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:14 PM
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I don't participate anywhere else pill related so I assume it's this sub This morning I made a comment and a few hours later the message appeared in my inbox 🤷‍♀️ if you've never been banned from a sub, are you really a redditor?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:11 PM
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wym? PPD is about dating mostly, there are tons of posts about dating like the guy asking "do women have valid opinions in dating?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:45 PM
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my sister earns more than her husband my mother used to be the breadwinner it's about marrying someone with less fragile ego
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:29 PM
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Oh no, I have been banned from r/dating for participating here "You have been banned for participation in a subreddit that is dedicated to either redpill, pinkpill, blackpill, incel, femcel or generally toxic content." While I agree that this is a toxic sub I feel like they leave the incels to give advice to each other and I'm not sure something good can come up from that oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:19 PM
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25? she's about to break a hip jokes aside, no, it doesn't mean anything. Remember The Nanny? they joked about being old at 30 A LOT and TRP didn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:17 PM
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he's real good at filling in 👀👀👀👀👀 I'm sure he is 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:15 PM
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Never let him go! Competent men are so sexy (no sarcasm)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:53 PM
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Sometimes I eat Nutella with a spoon as if it was yoghurt 🐷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:49 PM
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next Q4W: Would you rather date a guy who’s 6’5” or 7’4”, all other things being equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:15 PM
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probably the shorter one since I'm also short 5’2” and above for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:14 PM
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There are probably many but because they don't make it their whole personality you don't talk about it For example I excercise regularly, I swim and ride my bike but you'd never guess from looking at me because I also like to smoke weed and eat junk food hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:33 PM
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lol exactly! Imagine dating a gym guy who can't apreciate the beauty of eating huge amounts of calories while on weed? what if he wants to go running? What if he wants to explain to me how keto diet works? I see a muscular guy on Tinder and the idea stresses me out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:15 PM
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The idea that women don't find intelligence is so fucking stupid idk what to tell you I've been looking for intelligence for a while with no avail 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:30 AM
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Because they are 2 different things. One is offering a service, the other is using the service. One one hand I don't feel comfortable telling people what to do with their bodies. She could be doing it out of neccesity or kink. On the other hand I do think (today 2022) prostitution promotes the idea of objectifying women, that's why I don't like it very much when men do it. However, it's not the act what's wrong, it's how patriarchy leaks in: "you (male) have the right to beat this prostitute" If…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:53 AM
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The Chad guy isn't hot The Chad guy is what men here think is what women want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:04 AM
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That's a lot of words for "I want to assume stuff and be mad about them" The link isn't there, otherwise you'd have shown it to me. You are just assuming it's the same women who think both. I'm pointing out that what you consider "truth" is just speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:58 PM
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I'm calling you on that leap, exactly, that came from your ✨ imagination ✨ Imagine seeing a RPwomen post about submissiveness and then going to another sub and saying "it's hypocritical of women to want to be submissive while they also want a career and independence" Women are not a hivemind some are conservative, some are against abortions, some are bleaching their asshole to have sex with everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:33 PM
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I'm not saying some women don't think this I'm arguing that I don't think it's the same women who complain about ncount
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:24 PM
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The post only tells me that some women don't like bisexual men Have you found any of those users complaining about ncount?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:20 PM
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how do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:15 PM
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I don't get the anti bisexual thing honestly I don't think it's the same people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:13 PM
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NO I NEED EVERY MAN TO LISTEN TO THE EXACT SAME MUSIC, SERIES, STREAMERS, POLITICAL IDEOLOGY AS ME hehehe jk of course
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:34 PM
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Then I'm going to look for that one guy who doesn't care 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:57 PM
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oh YES he is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:40 PM
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ahh I understand you don't care about your job so why would you care for other ppl's job
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:08 AM
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Nah, real life is what counts, not internet rants Also PPD isn't representative of ALL MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:30 PM
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cats are cleaner than humans when they eat what are you talking about? I have never seen a cat with mucus and food all over their face while they eat Dogs depends. Some are super messy and fall under the same category as children for sure, but short haired ones or delicate ones are clean. At least none of them have mucus constantly hanging from their nose 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:45 PM
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Not for me I have an issue also with mucus and food stuck in their face. While my friend is feeding her child I have to look away because it's really gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:41 PM
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That's why I don't discuss my job much with dates The problem with this though is that you are probably going to attract people who don't care about their job. I care a lot about mine because I worked so hard to be here and I love it (I'm a 3d artist). I can talk about work for hours and I'm looking for someone who is interested in their job. It shows that they have their shit together and have aspirations in life. So maybe you can talk about your job but not disclose how much money you make? Ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:10 PM
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This is absolutely me I go to their house and my uterus closes itself at the sight of the mess and the noise. It's a reminder that kids are not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:56 PM
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Something like that is happening to a friend. He's 36 with 2 kids and his group of friends from childhood is casting him aside because of different interests. They are still living the childfree life that my friend can't keep up with so they stopped inviting him to do stuff. And when he invites them to his house they don't want to go. I can sort of understand this because his house is a mess full of toys literally everywhere. I can totally understand why a group of single guys wouldn't want to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:53 PM
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That's sexy (no sarcasm) I like a man who values himself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:56 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:51 AM
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you have very nice eyes btw
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:36 AM
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your username reads as "gayest"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:28 AM
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Nah I do ask for help from men for moving heavy stuff though Sometimes if I can't open a jar I will jokingly ask a man "can you use the power of patriarchy and open this jar for me?" or "can you help this feminist who thinks she can do it all?" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:27 AM
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-The fact that he was so comfortable not being "traditionally masculine" and that he made jokes about it -Having delicate but precise movements, like a cat. -Being able to cry and express feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:22 AM
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smelly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:07 PM
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Depends on the context If it's a hostel then sure, I receive "hi" and also "hi" other people If it's while walking on the street then no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:22 PM
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idk, for me mutual interest is a huge turn on and I can't know if someone is LTR material until I've dated them. For me the decision to sleep with them is situational
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:58 PM
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There were 2 guys I dated that were on the ugly side. At first I wasn't really phyically attracted and ended up head over hills for them. But I think it depends on the person and how flexible they are to new things. Like how some people stop listening to new music and some continue discovering stuff and learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:57 AM
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how hard is it to understand that all women aren't the same? go to rkpopthpughts and ask for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:14 PM
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I bet my LIFE AND MY SISTER'S LIFE given the choice armys would choose bts over henry cavil You have no idea how batshit crazy intense they are for their idols Also liking "not conventionally masculine men" and "men with make up" is a common bonding topic on kpop Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:03 PM
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what do you mean you don't know you can't deny the existance of the kpop community.... you can'0t deny the existance of Henry Cavil..... so what exactly you "dont know"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:56 PM
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So maybe it's both? Some women like bulky guys Some like skinny guys I think this makes much more sense that "either or"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:41 PM
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There's a whole kpop community thirsting for small skinny extremely beautiful guys so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:45 PM
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Say you have a boyfriend. "Im NoT JeAlOuS" "ThEn WhY diD He lEt YoU Go OuT LiKe tHaT" -says the guy while still holding my arm at the club without letting me get back to my friends I used to wear a ring for this excuse an it doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:15 PM
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🤤 yeah no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:22 PM
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Cheating is a self esteem issue though CHeaters cheat even to people who are hotter than them if they feel insecure ("I'm going to do it before he/she does!")
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:46 PM
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you just wrote 0-10 like that's a perfectly ok thing to write this sub has the creepiest people I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:40 PM
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If she's giving you clear instructions and you are not following them it is your fault. But if it's just something that randomly happened and she doesn't know how to repeat it then it's not your responsability. There are no such things as magic dicks. It's usually the vagina person who knows how to achieve such things. And some things just happen randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:37 PM
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Elliot Rodger he was also good looking so what made him struggle was something else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:11 PM
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I've met plenty of hetero men who clean a lot. In fact I know more tidy men than tidy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:09 PM
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I don't believe that we carry that much from our cavemen years If there's a perfectly good explanation why people change their eating habbits I'm going to go with that. Like when people travel and gain weight. Sure you can say stress is asociated with a possible danger, that makes you fatter for future difficult times Or it also could be that you travel and you want to try every strange food available, also you are happy and relaxed because you are taking time off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:16 PM
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Of course they do that's why they think women do too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:09 PM
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OR ooooor and I t hink this is more logical When you go out on dates you go to restaurants and eat nice caloric food because you are happy. When you are dating everything feels like a celebration and you also get past the "looks" phase so you relax and grow a belly. And when you have kids you literally have no time to excercise or prepare food. It's not a evolutionary thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:39 PM
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As a proud member of the Crazy Plant ladies collective, please don't forget us!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:34 PM
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a therapist can't prescribe medication you are thinking of a psychiatrist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:13 PM
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I thought you said 7 previously
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:27 AM
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amazing episode
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:26 AM
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PPD is basically alt accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:24 AM
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I always go 50/50 unless I like him and he insists. That means I'm paying next. A coupon? great! shows he's careful with money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:20 AM
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Now I want sushi dammit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:14 PM
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I personally don't see a point in describing my day every day, it'd be very boring if I did that lmao, my life is a loop. lol I like the score though. Imagine thinking about that aesthetically and then turn it into a painting or a cool graph. So after a year you can say "oh I guess autumn was good" I like the word thing. I do that when I travel. I write words that help me remember the trip without wasting too much time writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:06 PM
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fresh and fit is a perfect name for a salad or a vegan deli also
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:00 PM
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looks: 9.5 what she's talking about: 0 how she says it: 0 make up: 3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:58 PM
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I think he really didn't want to move it but didn't say it from the start idk why people do this, it's worst than saying no IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:48 PM
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freestyle as in maybe it's a drawing, maybe an infographic, maybe I want to write the same word over and over, maybe I just want to understand something so I rant all my logical reasonings- some things y write chronologically like a story that I want to remember in the future, etc what about you? what works best?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:47 PM
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Yes! I've been journaling since 2002. Not constantly obviously but I have like 10 diaries. In case of a fire that's the only thing I'd save Always on paper. I draw a lot to express my feelings. It's such a good exercise I'd recommend it to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:26 PM
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It's rude to count money in front of poor people If your parents are giving you a home you should definitely live near them and visit often.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:24 PM
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this is soooo truth, in fact I'm convinced some are bots If I don't see a flaw then I won't swipe on them. I also found a guy friend on Tinder and his profile screams "I'm the perfect bf". He's got it all, the looks, the fitness, he's a doctor, he has a boat, extreme sports, likes cooking, etc The problem is this guy IRL is so... uninteresting. As spicy as white bread. I think I associate perfect profiles with unflavored people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:22 PM
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let's see: "I don't like the fact that you know unflattering things of female nature and call me out on it and hold me acccountable for those standards." = I'm going to insult all women and you So, yeah, maybe toxic isn't the word, more misogynistic I think, since he's saying unflattering things about all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:17 PM
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Did he promise he was going to do it? or you are frustrated because he didn't follow orders?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:09 PM
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It's fun! why are you saying it's wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:05 PM
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Much more common while travelling My way of striking conversations while travelling normally is by cold approaching people. I don't have romantic intentions though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:37 PM
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yes I was camping with friends and there was a group of guys on the tent close to us. We had already exchanged some random comments so when we were packing he just came to me and started a conversation like "where are you from" blablabla, nothing out of the ordinary. And then he asked for my number and I gave it to him. We dated for a while but nothing serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:30 PM
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I've been a woman for 37 years and I've been in and out of BC and none of what you describe is real. So yeah, explain to me how hormones work, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:11 PM
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the article you linked is super vague though and also a quick google search: https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0210162 I'm sorry I choose to believe in my doctor, my own experience and my friend's experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:27 PM
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BC mutes the ovulation hormones that are supposed to go in action for a part of the cycle, but the rest remains the same so why would there be any change? If you are in a relationship you don't switch from "I like you with make up" to "i like your masculine features" during a month, that's not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:18 PM
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According to OP (I think it's BS but whatever) the women not in BC would be attracted to OP (assuming op is "masculine") only for a few days a month
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:12 PM
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Also how would that explain my attraction to women? I've been into women (girls because of my age) since I was 12. How does that work? you are right! How do people who are interested in women fall in this equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:06 PM
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I'm not entirely sure where are you getting this info but my doctor told me modern BC doesn't lower your libido or anything. It only regulates cycle and makes PMS less dreadfull I've been on and off BC and nothing changed except those things I mentioned and adult acne This whole theory is pretty weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:02 PM
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It's more about a symptom than a milestone. If you are incredibly awkward maybe you get a first kiss and sex, but you are probably going to continue struggling because of your personality. It's not like a gate opens and pussy starts flowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:00 PM
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I think as long as women have options then the sexual revolution hasn't failed. If the norm is to sleep on the first dates then yeah, it has failed, but then men are also free to not wanting to wait, so idk Anyway, freedom is always better than the alternative which is having to get married and have kids even when you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:15 PM
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what do you mean by redpilled women? Because I went to that sub and they all talk about finding a HVM they can follow to be the captain of their ship and how they want to be feminine. That is so far away from what I'm looking for in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:45 PM
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If you believe a dumb internet theory written by bitter inc*ls can help you as much as personalized therapy done by a professional my god you are so lost Maybe the first therapist you tried didn't work out but you should keep trying. What you said it's like saying the horoscope helps more than a real doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:42 PM
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he’s going to do everything in his power to keep her That'd be ideal however there are A LOT of guys who are insecure because of their looks and cheat just to avoid feeling inferior or because they don't think they deserve happiness. The idea that ugly people don't cheat is such a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:09 PM
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Exactly this If I'm going to be cheated on might as well be with a hot guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:06 PM
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D, woman Next week on PPD "women don't value men's gifts!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:40 PM
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I think they are legal here, with a permit, but people don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:22 PM
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congratulations, you solved domestic abuse we should all go tell those poor victims that the solution was not to date a crazy boyfriend in the first place Why only domestic abuse? We should tell all victims of murder about your amazing discovery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:21 PM
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I live in a third world country with lots of street violence and I never understood the need for a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:04 PM
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I'm not from the US, there's a lot of violence here and guns are not common in civilians. But it makes sense: For instance I'm not going to start learning how to shoot and I would absolutely never defend myself with a gun. If I take out a gun I'd be killed instantly. I'll leave that to TV shows Secondly it makes sense to not want other people to carry guns. It decreases the chances of being murdered by a crazy boyfriend with anger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:03 PM
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When someone asks if they like bald men they usually think of celebrities who look good You can't just take it as a solution, no, you have to still cry about it my god people here are insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:38 PM
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As a bald fetishizer I agree I liked bald guys since forever I never understood George's Constanza issues lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:35 PM
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Lesson learned Yeah me too. I learned that if I have to say it out loud then they are probably going to say no. Better invite them for a beer or something more casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:39 PM
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I submitted myself to horrible sex with ugly men that did nothing for me I feel this comment so much. You are not alone. Me and some people I know also went through that phase. When I started demanding not to be hurt in sex then all of the sudden I wasn't cool anymore. Fuck you POS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:13 PM
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When I was an adolescent I used to listen to heavy metal which made all guys say "oh! you are not like other girls" I honestly hated it because I wanted to be like other girls but I never questioned it out loud. So by shutting up I used it to my advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:08 PM
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It's so weird because these guys threaten women with "you are going to end up alone with a bunch of cats" Meanwhile these "alone" women spend their time posting about their cats, their travels, hobbies and friends I also once suggested to a guy to travel because solo traveling is a perfect way to interact with people while also knowing new places and the guy was just "nah, travel is stupid" 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:52 PM
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hahaha there should be a megathread where we can keep score
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:26 AM
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Then why talk about "all women" when you don't mean all women? The worst thing is that I don't really think they hate women. I think they are incredibly frustrated• Anger is an acceptable way for men to express feelings. I'm sure many of you will find love with a normal person and will leave this nonsense forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:34 PM
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If they believe their own words then no They won't be able to recognize a HVW when they see her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:21 PM
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yes, I don't see anyone here saying LVW or "some women", they all talk about women as a hive mind. So it's safe to assume they hate all women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:00 PM
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If everyone is shallow it's fine but you can't insult women and act all pikachu face when people call you misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:56 PM
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if you say that women primarily care about looks is saying that women are shallow 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:54 PM
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it's still a generalization you said women are shallow don't come crying here that you can't get a date with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:46 PM
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This exact comment is what they are talking about. You don't like women if you think they are shallow, yet you want one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:41 PM
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The amount of misogyny and hate that you read in this sub is out of this world The ncount, the hypergamy, the women are gold diggers, the women want a beta to take care of her children, women with kids are the worst, the women date just for the food, the even if she lijes you she's going to cheat with a chad, etc etc etc It makes me want to stay single forever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:39 PM
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Also according to this sub, women have to keep their N count low. So they can't have immediate sex with every guy that they come across, or else no man will want a relationship with her. it really doesn't make sense no? I'm curious to hear what they come up with as a solution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:03 PM
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they say they do! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:11 PM
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lol don't be mean! As long as they don't reproduce that's fine by me!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:10 PM
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Elliot Rodger was hot There's also another guy, he was blonde and super hot. I can't find the name. He made a YT diary, and top comment was someone pointing out exactly that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:26 PM
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its not worth it anymore. what? life? just adopt a bunch of cats and travel, there's no need to commit suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:37 PM
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yeap, it's like saying "now there are more gay people" It's not like they didn't exist before. They were quiet because of social stigma. Same with adhd and autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:03 PM
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Again, why? You are just repeating the theory adding some anecdotal, I know the theory, I see it here every day. Why do men don't go up the social ladder by marrying a rich woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:48 PM
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It's more likely for a woman to find a 6ft tall man than a 45 y/o man find a 25 year old woman to sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:42 PM
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I know how the theory here is, I'm asking why False, we men don't find another man worthy of respect because of the woman he has. We respect a man based on his accomplishments, his success, etc. There was literally a post yesterday about trophy wives. The definition literally is "a young, attractive wife regarded as a status symbol for an older man." So you can't tell me this type of thought is false. There was another post asking if having a girlfriend helps you earn more money and everyone agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:55 PM
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sure 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:23 PM
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nono, I meant for women If 30 year old woman cares less about physical appearance she can go out with a guy uglier than her and problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:20 PM
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Having standards is awesome I applaud standards. It's better to be alone than with a shitty person. What doesn't make sense is to have crazy high standards and then complain that the others have the same standards. Seems hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:19 PM
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Because most men dont care about a womans status I think you are not seeing the big picture. I'm asking why? what's the reason for this dynamic? Why wouldn't a man want to be richer through a woman? Everyone wants to have more money no? but somehow men don't want to have that money through women. Why is that? ​ Where are you meeting these men? Men who are looking for beautiful women? Here on PPD and it seems kind of logical to look for someone who is good looking, it's not a crazy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:14 PM
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While complaining here "women's standards are too hiiighhhh waaahh"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:55 PM
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Sooo what's the plan if you are 40 and single? Persue 20 year olds? are you suuuure they are going to pay attention to a 40year old guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:45 PM
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Maybe you are right and it speaks horrible of men Why wouldn't a man want to raise his status by marrying a high status woman? Is it because woman isn't able to raise the status of a man? Is it because men don't want to be with someone who earns more than them because of some fragile ego? Is it because the only way for a woman to raise his social status is through a man because she will always be paid less? or maybe they don't share the same interests as women and what "status" is to women, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:31 PM
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of course not men get more rich, don't have a wall, don't have ncount, and they even age better I'm not sure why men here complain so much when they clearly have less issues than women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:12 PM
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I think it's very reasonable to assume that EVERYONE aims for high quality people. Isn't that the basis of evolution? But for some reason JP and the RP in general only talk about women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:06 PM
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because physical attractivness is now out of the table as your asset. Unless the standards change too and physical attractiveness isn't that important anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:01 PM
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owww did I hit a nerve? I'm so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:22 PM
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I didn't meant it as literal models I meant it like reaaaaallyy good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:01 PM
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Nono, feminism fights against patriarchy and whoever supports or benefits from it. It can be men and women. For example, feminism fights against toxic masculinity (not masculinity in general). Toxic masculinity tells men they can't cry. Mens rights advocates for less suicides in men. How do you think that can be solved? by eradicating toxic masculinity, letting men express their feelings. So if a woman shows a negative reaction to a crying man, she's also to blame for the perpetuation of toxic m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:50 PM
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the consequences for her is carrying and raising alone a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:15 PM
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just leave and the mother won't have the resources to find you. Men have been doing this since the beginning of humanity with no real consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:16 PM
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Biology isn't equal. I really wish it was, but it isn't and there's nothing we can do about it. Again, you can always leave like many fathers have done through history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:53 PM
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I do because I'm making both parents equally responsible. Not even equally because you are not even required to be a father, just to send money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:39 PM
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You can always leave like so many fathers have done throughout history. Fatherless children are not a new thing. This is not your choice, no matter how much you scream about it. You don't have a uterus, you don't have a choice. You do have a choice not to have sex, to get a vasectomy or don't stick your dick in conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:19 PM
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And a conservative woman not wanting to get an abortion because she thinks she's killing a real human is exactly "my body my choice".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:59 PM
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Having sex carries risks, pregnancy is one of them. If she doesn't want to abort there's nothing you can do other than deal with the consequences of sex. If you had a uterus you can decide whatever you want but you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:46 PM
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What about all the women who think that their pregnancy is a child that it's going to die in an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:33 PM
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I had a coworker who I thought was so hot in a nerdy way I instantly tried to flirt with him to the point I think people at work noticed. BUT then he started talking about incel stuff and it was such a turn off. I also saw him swiping on Tinder behind his back and he only swiped right on models. Women absolutely and completely out of his league. So that also was a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:13 PM
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I can't say I would consider someone that doesn't think feminism is evil to be an mra. Until mens rights don't accept feminism they won't be taken seriously. Take a look at the top comments on this post. Those fights can be fought alongside with feminism with no issues. But for some reason they don't want that, so until then..... good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:49 PM
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This is EXACTLY what I feel about mens rights But for some reason if you post that on their sub (besides from automatically getting banned from other unrelated subs) they will disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:38 PM
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I'm saying you made a sexist comment and you are agreeing with me? Does that mean you are aware that you are a red flag? As it turns out you don't have to read minds after all, some people will say their misogynistic takes in your face
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:39 PM
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So, how come some women, despite apparently having the ability to "smell" misoginy and abusive men still choose to be with these men? Then, why did women who could "smell" abusive men got together with abusive men? This 2 sentences imply that women choose to be in abusive relationships. This is victim blaming. Women are NOT responsable for choosing bad men. You are also confusing misogyny with social skills. Women go to men with good social skills, if they are abusive or not, that's a different …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:33 PM
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But it's YOU who is victim blaming. You even got a response post: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wgkiuf/pick\_better\_men\_is\_a\_cop\_out\_to\_not\_hold\_men/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:49 PM
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I read you backwardssss Im sorry im deleting the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:03 PM
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you can be a woman and be a misogynist. The classic "I'm not like other girls" is that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:59 PM
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How a post like this exists in the same space as such terms as beta bux, divorce raped and MGTHOW is crazy to me. The manosphere goes on and on about height, fat, money, status, they circle around avoiding the main issue: people skills The fact that they don't see how this post has misogyny written all over tells me their lack of people skills. Which is the main source of problems with sex. If an abuser has people skills you fall into their trap. If they don't you spot them immediately. It's alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:51 PM
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There are very competent women, I wouldn't call it rare 🚩 OP is saying that women can't read minds but you only have to read letters, like this comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:41 PM
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🚩 this red flag right here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:39 PM
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on the contrary! moms get shit done
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:31 AM
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wait till they become moms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:25 PM
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I feel like you want to be masculine because society tells you that's how you should be. But you are not. You can't fake something that you are not. You remind me of an ex boyfriend that joked "give me that hammer, I'm the man of the relationship so I should do this" all in a funny "macho" voice. He wasn't masculine at all, he knew it but the jokes made him sound confident AF. Confidence is sexy and genderless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:17 PM
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Are you the kind of dudes that just doesn't let a conversation die because that's the only way you can interact with a woman? I'm flattered, thanks Let go the toxicity, you'll feel better, I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:20 PM
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So the argument that all women who are into “abusive” sex must be brainwashed by the patriarchy or internalized misogyny just doesn’t stand up to scrutiny. I agree with this BUT I think that some women might fit your description,. Not all, obviously. I'm talking about the kind of relationship where the guy pretty much leads the sex and she is afraid of setting boundaries. This type of relationship has always existed but the "50 shades of Grey" going mainstream didn't make it any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:51 PM
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9/10 it's not a 10 because of the anger thing. Maybe not mention it? Mentioning that you rarely get mad gives me public shooter vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:59 PM
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owww did I hurt your feelings? poor you 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:26 PM
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Ultimately it's your choice to either go by other people's repressive thoughts or be true to yourself. Most of us want a world were men are able to express their feelings and the way to achieve that is do it and fuck the world. Society will never tell you "now you can cry" society changes happen the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:42 PM
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Be careful with what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:57 PM
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I don't think you have a choice though. The emotions are there you only can choose to express them or repress them. Repressing emotions, as we all know, generates a problem in the future. So if you are with someone who doesn't like you to express your emotions they can leave. To control other people's emotions is super toxic, why would you want to be with someone like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:55 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I swear it wasn't me!! idk. I'm very emotional so maybe it's contagious?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:38 PM
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YAY x3513511 The more emotions the better so I'm not alone and we can share them I can say I've seen all the men I dated cry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:33 PM
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and I'm saying YES, I agree, women don't listen BECAUSE the environment is toxic and nobody listens. If you wanted to hear only the first part that's too bad I'm going to say it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:34 PM
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Pointing out that people in ppd are generally pretty toxic isn't whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:54 PM
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I have changed my mind in various subjects just not thanks to the conversations in this sub. Also the "studies" shown here are mostly 10 line abstracts of studies behind a paywall OR BuzzFeed/twitter polls. And when you post credible sources like CDC they are like "PeoPle LiE On sUrVeYs"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:42 PM
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TBF this sub is particularly toxic. I think nobody listens and everyone is bitter. For every example you make, I can think of another where men say "women think X" a woman says "no we/I don't" "shut up woman, I know better". So when a woman doesn't listen to what men says you all go *pikachu face* So I'm not sure what are you expecting from Reddit people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:29 PM
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Yes, my last FWB was like that I knew him, we became friends, I wasn't attracted to him. One thing led to another and 4 years later I started to feel attracted to him. We started sleeping together. Anyway the guy didn't want to have a relationship, we kept sleeping together and now we are separated and that's it. What changed my mind? I'm not sure. Getting to know him maybe, we spent a lot of time together. He made me feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:18 PM
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But can't you see for some people fighting is not an option? Some women have it harder than others because of biased bosses. If you are a mother then you absolutely can't talk back to your boss because you might get fired like me. For leadership positions it's preferable to be assertive. But some bosses perceive female assertiveness as "bossy" or "bitch", so they don't promote them. If a woman is agreeable then she's not going to be boss because that's not what the job requires. So what then? Ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:07 PM
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People who use those labels are just jealous. If it were only about people calling you names there isn't really a problem. Some are quietly jealous and some just simply fire you, don't promote you, leave you out of cool projects, asks you for less challenging tasks, or simply ignore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:40 PM
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These are traditionally masculine traits. We need to convince people that this traits aren't just a men thing. Otherwise this stuff is still going to keep happening. I know plenty of assertive women, but they are considered "bitch" "bossy"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:22 PM
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Yes, it was a series of small business. This didn't just happen once, it happened several times until one day I got tired and started saying stuff like you said “Sorry, Bill, that’s not my job.” Do you know what happened? THE POS FIRED ME "we don't like your attitude" Needless to say I sent them a lawyer and got a lot of money from them because it was so unfair. But imagine someone with a family who can't afford the luxury of talking back to the boss? That was so unfair I'm still mad. That's the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:05 PM
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How many times have you actually been ridiculed or are you just imagining that you would be ridiculed? I've been asked to make coffee, pick up the phone, wash dishes, etc several times. I'm graduated from university and being a secretary is definitely not my job. None of those tasks were expected from my male coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:46 PM
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then bye byeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:43 PM
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If you come to me with "I think it's ok to ban abortions" bye byeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:18 PM
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SO MUCH THIS I realized I didn't care enough for politics and now it's a main vetting point. Having your shit together is sooooo sexy who cares you are going bald? we are all going to grow ugly anyway so, might as well choose someone I can have a conversation with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:17 PM
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same Once I got super anxious while chatting with a guy so I just deleted the app all together. Then I realized the last question was him telling me about his call center job. So I realized he probably thought I didn't like his job. But in reality Tinder made me 500000% anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:11 PM
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no, that's comparing apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:39 PM
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because I like how it looks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:20 PM
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obviously but it's not a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:19 PM
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I have 2 birds (local species from my country) sitting on some leaves. It covers part of my hand and all my forearm. I'm planning on continuing it to my shoulder because birds are so cool. guess we are not meant to be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:17 PM
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fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:12 PM
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yeah but everyone has baggage and psychological issues
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:11 PM
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like wearing UGG boots you would say no to a girl over shoes? You care a lot about fashion for someone who claims they don't want to be with someone who cares about fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:09 PM
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only with the tattoo and big earrings they excluded 95% of population
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:06 PM
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lol totally If she likes progressive metal bands, scrambled eggs, and follows XQC that's def a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:03 PM
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Oh no! I'm out bc of 8!! (tattoos) (and maybe there are more since I'm not emotionally perfect) its your loss anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:00 PM
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You discover your boyfriend experimented at college with other men. He was not on top...could you maintain attraction to him? Yesss. I fact a guy told me he enjoyed watching tranny porn. That was so hot. Your partner did drugs for a while back in the day. I don't care about this He cheated on his previous long term partners and neglected to tell you. This is important although I think I'd never ask. I'm a firm believer that people can change and a mistake in the past doesn't mean they are going …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:03 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:37 AM
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Dario because he has LTR experience. If Dario didn't have this and Mario did, then it's Mario.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:47 AM
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Dario because he has LTR experience
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:45 AM
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If this is true, it's like a 5%, it's so mild women don't even notice. I know you are going to say "subconsciously" but it's like PMS and wanting to eat everything. Sure, it happens but it's not like your natural urges will make you break a diet. You just treat yourself a bit more. It's not decision-changing. If a woman thinks a guy is hot while ovulating, they are probably going to find him hot while PMSing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:54 PM
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I asked 4 guys out and got rejected lol 💔 The other times where something did happen I think it was mutual. I brought up some food topic and then "hey we should go to that bar". With my ex I think I invited him camping. I'm so bad at this that I rely on OLD so that the intention is very clear
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:23 PM
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all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:08 AM
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I know the theory, I just don't agree with it, it's all BS
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:47 AM
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I think men here overanalyze women and try to tackle the dating issue as if women were in the stock market Also I don't believe the 20/80 thing, I think men mislabel themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:06 PM
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Says someone who thinks human nature is a set of "shoulds" that's printed in a book. "should" means a tendency, a belle curve, the exact opposite of printed in a book or set in stone. There are people who can't be friends with the gender they are attracted to, but that doesn't mean none can. Do you want me to say that what YOU do is the NORMAL thing? Well I'm not going to say that because it is known that people have friends. I don't have female "friends" and the vast majority of men wouldn't us…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:23 PM
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I'm a human from Earth. Maybe stay away from toxic people, I can assure you you are allowed to have friends while in a relationship. What about bisexual men? Bisexual men dating hetero women have friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:40 PM
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I think it's very "Human" to have friends of any sex/gender/age And I also think it's a personal thing. If you can't separate sex from friendship, doesn't mean nobody can. I wouldn't generalize your experience as "human"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:33 PM
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as someone who has declined sex from not only the few female friends that have tried something with me This proves my point You mix sex with friendship. That mix between sex and friendship is what you consider a friendship. And it doesn't have to be that way. Yes, people can fall in love with a friend but as an exception, not as a rule
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:31 PM
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That's because you se female friends as possible hookups instead of asexual friends. (note: This is not a gendered issue. people should be able to have friends of any gender)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:50 PM
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Then when you get into a relationship she doesn't want you to have any female friends. This is not normal This is not supposed to happen. If your gf starts saying this stuff it's a 🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:27 PM
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increasingly treat their wife as bad as possible until she’s pushed to do it than go file for it themselves. This gave me PTSD. They make you feel like you are making the decision.......
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:40 AM
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The usual conclusion users here arrive is this: Okay, I jest, but there is either some virtue signalling going on or we just somehow got all the exceptions to the rule here. So, if none of the options is "my studies might be BS" or "I might be reading the studies wrong" then why even ask? I've seen those "studies" people don't even read them. They don't even stop and think how was the study carried, how many people were interviewed and where do they come from. They just read the title and share …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:24 PM
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But do you have single friends of that age? Maybe you attract anxious or depressed people.... otherwise it doesn't make any sense. In my circle anxiety meds don't correlate with marital status. I know 2 people with anxiety meds, one of them is my sister who is married and the other a gay guy who has sex regularly but is not committed to 1 person. The rest are living their lives like normal people, no meds. I find it hard to believe that EVERY SINGLE SINGLE person of 30-40 years old is on meds. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:35 PM
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But what if she wasn't? The antidepressant thing was something that someone assumed but there are plenty of women (and men btw) who are in that situation and they are happy with no anti depressants. Would you still believe she's happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:05 PM
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How do you know they are lying? Also if you know they are lying why do you keep asking? If you think the only way of knowing women is through StUdIeS then why not stick with that and leave everyone in peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:19 PM
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So if they are not on medication then can you believe they are happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:11 PM
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So, let me get this straight. There's a woman in her 30's with plants, cats and no bf. She's not complaining, she says she's happy. She's doing her life minding her own business. But you, who has nothing to do with her life, you say she's not happy. You are not her, don't even know her or are part of her life. Yet you think you know better than her, she must be deeply unhappy, she's clearly neurotic. Is this for real? because it doesn't make much sense.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:32 PM
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But would it kill the women to admit they liked the apples? But they don't. Why ask if you are not going to believe the answer? You are making it way more complex than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:12 PM
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I think psychiatrists should start prescribing "date Nice GuysTM" instead of medicine, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:38 PM
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If a happy partner means nothing to you, what are you looking for? How envious you have to be to dismiss someone's happiness just because they don't need a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:34 PM
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women would secretly or subconsciously This is why men and women have such a hard time understanding each other. This sub is often: Q4W: do you like apples? W: no we don't QW4: Studies show that subconsciously you like them, also women are so hard to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:19 PM
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This is my standard, anything lower is just low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:17 PM
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For me personally HUMOR is the key. You have to be smart and socially aware to make a good joke. Emotional intelligence is very sexy too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:22 PM
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Could be yeah I don't think I disagree with your post. I wouldn't say I feel literally attracted to the people I've tried to set up. If I'm attracted I'd want them for myself lol. BUT I wouldn't try to set my friend up with a horrible guy. They have to have my approval first because I want what's best for my friend. I think that's the whole point of setting someone up, so that you don't introduce them to a terrible/ horrible random person. They have Tinder for that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:10 PM
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He was definitely not a chad though lol like really far away from the chad stereotype more like a George Constanza 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:24 PM
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My female friend set me up with her ex! We went to a party and he asked her for my number. I didn't know he was her ex though lol We dated for 6 months or so. He was a cool guy, it didn't work out sadly :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:59 PM
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A guy once told me that "well you are not that good looking anyway" 🤣🤣 and my low self esteem ass took it as a compliment 🤡 The whole thing was ridiculous. The guy invited me to a concert on a Wednesday at 11PM- As I had to wake up early for work I said no, so he got very pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:02 PM
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What's more important I think it's the flexibility. In a LTR doing exactly the same every day gets kind of boring. Even the domination game gets dull after a while. But if you are able to keep changing styles depending on the mood I think that's super healthy for a LTR. Also you might discover together new stuff you didn't know you might like. I find the guy who always wants to be dominant generally close minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:35 PM
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I've been having an excellent experience with buying frozen diet meals for the whole week. It has been helping with controlling the portion size.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 01:59 AM
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this is exactly why I created an alt account and guess what? people here respect your opinion more if your avatar indicates you are a man who would've guessed it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:22 PM
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I agree and I respect that, so sorry Now that I think about it, what OP mentions, it's something that in theory shouldn't happen but it does happen. I was going to call them "bad feminists" but they are still accepted as "good feminists" so what's the point of me thinking they are bad.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 11:59 PM
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I'm sorry that wasn't my intention. I think it's better to be against feminism for the correct reasons, not based on an incorrect definition. edit: a valid reason like "hookup culture". Feminism sold us that being sexually liberated is a good thing so now if you don't want to hookup with a thousand guys on a first date, you are considered a prude. But if you say that feminism is out there killing puppies, then no, that's not correct. You leave here saying that and people might not take you serio…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 07:09 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you but I'm sure body shamming in any form is not a part of feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 05:45 PM
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Btw whats a POS men? People here use a lot of acronism i got lost sometimesof because of this Piece Of Shit I had the hardest time figuring out what OLD (online dating i think) was. As you can imagine Google was of no help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:20 PM
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Yes! and if you don't then your standards are super high They are as hot as Simon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:02 PM
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That's the whole point of FDS and TRP right? having high standards. If you have low aesthetic standards you are probably going to be happier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:36 PM
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I'm smoking common sense, do you want some?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:24 PM
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That's not relevant. My point is that the guy is good looking AND a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:23 PM
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by treated like shit I mean abused, ghosted, raped, not being respected, hit, treated like a dumb blonde, being cheated on. Look at Rihanna, she's one of the most beautiful humans on Earth and she had a POS as a bf. There are tons of women models celebrities who went through POS men. I think you are idolizing being beautiful. Beautiful women maybe have more matches and chances of hooking up but emotionally they don't have any advantage over average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:23 PM
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I went to private schools with super rich kids. Ah this explains why your standards are so high lol you are a rich kid lmao And that explains the matchmaker thing. Here normal poor people have to do the dirty work of filtering through Tinder trash lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:16 PM
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I would not say the women in Tinder Swindler were beautiful. WTF dude your standards are SUPER HIGH, like really? They are "average"? come on. I bet you are the male version of what you think an FDS is. I've never seen FDS talk about going to see a matchmaker. I don't even know what this is. You hire someone to introduce you to people? Does that exist? I don't think they need to. Because as there are more men than women in dating aps the only thing they have to do is be able to filter better. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:06 PM
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But are you sure that beautiful people aren't used or treated like shit as well? It's quite common seeing beautiful women talk about how men usually use them for sex. There's even the blonde dumb woman stereotype. Being a good person isn't related to how beautiful you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:01 PM
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They posted pictures? they are craaaazy lol I assume TRP and FDS are normal people like you and me. Some are probably ugly, some are not. Maybe an ugly person finds another ugly person beautiful and they consider them as HVP. Who knows...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:20 PM
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O course, we are talking in their terms. I don't even use the "league" words in my normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:18 PM
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nono, this sub is filled with determinists. In fact that's usually their only argument. If Neanderthal men went out to hunt and women took care of the kids it's only logical that all women secretly desire to be a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:31 PM
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That's not anecdotal. There are plenty of beautiful LVM because being a HVM it's more than looks. Barney Stinson represents them very well. He wouldn't be a popular character if he was so anecdotal and weird. When you see a beautiful person, do you assume they are good people? In FDS they say because they work out and take care of their looks they deserve a HVM who is beautiful AND many other things (tall, money, respectful, etc). So I'm not sure where people get the idea that they are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:17 PM
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But being beautiful doesn't guarantee you a HVM. Look at the Tinder Swindler. They are all beautiful women and the guy is nice looking POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:42 PM
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Why are we so sure these people are ugly though? I've never seen a FDS post of them being ugly. Why do you assume they are? In the TRP case I've seen many man complain that they are considered ugly, so no argument there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:20 PM
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Yeah sometimes I see posts like "My bf hurts me when we have sex and I already told him to stop but he won't listen" and I swear some comments are "go to therapy" "go to the doctor to see why sex hurts for you" LOL what? I can understand why FDS reposts that with "🤡"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:01 PM
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But she did know she was meh for him. She just hoped she'd get over it . But my question is how can you know this? You need a study to reach a conclusion about something? lol no, you (general rp you) always cite studies of the craziest unmeasurable stuff like "happiness" "gratification" "ugliness" But there's no way a study can cover this "what if he was a Chad" topic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:00 PM
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So, her actions show that she chose this man and hoped things were going to work out enough to marry and carry his children. She's not a liar (you said it yourself). So your theory is that if the guy was a Chad they wouldn't have gotten a divorce? I don't think there's a study that can be done about "what would've happened if....." because time is linear. So what's the logic here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:07 PM
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Just to make sure I'll ask again. So you think the woman doing this on purpose? That stuff you linked doesn't say if it's on purpose or something that just happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:04 PM
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*shudders*
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:50 PM
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So... lets recapitulate A woman meets a guy. She thinks he's beneath him so she's not in love with him but they date anyway. They become bf/gf, a year passes, they get engaged and get married. During all of this time she's not in love with him, she just wants his seed and his money, right? So then after 18/25 years, when the kids leave, then she finally is able to show her true colors and admit that she never loved him in the first place. Yea, seems an absolutely reasonable way to think about wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:49 PM
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Ah so they marry low just to have children then leave their husbands because being a single mom is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:28 PM
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Does this mean a woman prefers to be single than date lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:23 PM
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and men need to internally sort it out to process. OR society conditioned men to not talk about their problems and look vulnerable, making them more suicidal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:30 PM
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ikrrrr When I come across users like this I just assume they are no more than 15 years old. Otherwise it's worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:27 PM
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maybe you guys are in italy for the fucking 5th time, who cares? Oh no, that sounds awful /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:28 PM
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I get that it's easier to assume other people's relationships are shit to feel better about yourself. I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:19 PM
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FDS like RPW in general aim for the same thing, a healthy relationship, stability, love, etc. They are different in how to obtain it but they want good things. They give each other wholesome answers and support. TRP is waaaaaay more depressing. I'm not entirely sure their members want the other users to feel great and find whatever they are looking for. It feels like spite more that real advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:30 PM
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Advertisers (except for specific items), stopped targeting husbands and instead targeted their wives. As someone who works in advertisement this is so untrue. Do you think wives convince husbands to buy overpriced sport outfits and playstations?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:02 AM
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Garlic and sex, that's a bad combination
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:55 AM
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That's a lot of words for "I wish I was as happy as this guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:19 PM
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What more do I want? THE LINK OF THE STUDY, not the 10 line abstract LOL I told you I don't believe when you people talk about studies, because when you ask about them it's usually some bs like this. What's next? Vaccines don't work because someone said it on Facebook?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:12 PM
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Only the abstract? That's where you are drawing conclusions? from a 10 line paragraph where they don't even explain demographics? where? when? who? compared to men? This is why I don't believe when people here say "studies say...." This is like posting a Buzzfeed poll as a source
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:45 PM
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I can only see an extract with as much information as a buzzfeed poll I registered to see if they let me have free acces but no, Did you pay 47USD to read it? I rather say you are right than paying that amount of money lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:27 PM
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No I mean physically she’s in a worse spot. It’s easier for women to date when they’re younger. The other option would be to settle while young for fear of finding it harder later in life? mmmm sounds like a perfect cheating scenario. Also isn't it a but sad that a woman settles for you for fear of being alone? not because they like you? ​ I have yet to meet men who don’t slut shame in the company of other men. you definitely need new friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:07 PM
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You know what's funny? FDS say the exact same thing and I don't agree with either. That perception is highly determined by the women around you. Most of my single friends seek casual sex and get very annoyed if the guy so much as offers them to stay over night. (please don't say "Studies say.." unless you can provide a real scientific peer reviewed paper link)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:49 PM
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That's only if they decide to date people who s**t shame. Thank god not all men are like that. And I was explaining why a woman might want to change the amount of time they wait for sex. It's not that you are less desirable, it's them who are prioritizing other things in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:25 PM
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women have sex with fuckboys all the time. Sometimes they know they are fuckboys but are in only for the sex so who cares, and sometimes they are tricked by them into having hope for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:53 PM
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but what if they are in a happy committed relationship, what are the condolences for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:45 PM
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or don't want to rush things for fear of being considered a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:43 PM
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I feel like all this behavior does is incentivize men to behave more poorly (less than boyfriend material) so they can get laid. HA never thought of it that way! There's a fine line between unfuckable and "not bf material" tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:42 PM
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Being accepting and forgiving of the past of a woman who has come to the realization that other men have taken advantage of her good faith and kindness and now she's not willing to be good faithed and kind anymore because of it, represents for every man the most evident defeat. If a woman wants to have sex with no commitment and they find men who also want sex and no commitment. Why is she being taken advantage of? I see it as a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:27 PM
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because she didn't get the intended results The intended result of hooking up is just sex. Women enjoy having sex as much as men do and not all of them are looking to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:20 PM
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It's not promiscuity what women don't like about fuckboys, it's the lying and the stupid games IMO. You can have a promiscuous FWB for years with no issues but the moment they start making unnecessary mind games and promises instead of having the talk about just being a hookup, that's when they become fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:09 PM
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Yeah I don't get it either haha it's like a recipe for feeling miserable no matter what anyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:48 PM
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What if they realized later in life that hookups are not worth it and to find a LTR she should focus first on other things than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:01 PM
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These women are probably having more sex than you though Enjoy dying alone then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:04 PM
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Men usually cheat because she isn’t meeting his needs Isn't it all the same though? A woman cheats because she found someone better, meaning someone who can fulfill her needs better. Men cheat bc she isn't meeting his needs, so he cheats with someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:58 PM
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I don't understand why it's only women who cheat? men don't cheat? I did a quick google search and in the first 5 results it said that men cheat way more than women. so....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:49 PM
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omg I confused employee with employer, sorry, not a native english speaker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:37 PM
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OP listed his standards and yet he says he's a job seeker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:48 PM
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nono, I was answering with your words. I still know that women initiate and get left on read, like guys, because this isn't 1920n anymore. This is a fact I'm not sure why you think otherwise having tons of memes, forums and movies about it. When you seek a job, do you list your standards? No! you go there and listen to what they offer you and make a decision. Who lists standards? employees or job applicants? employees do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:32 PM
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Women are the employers because they want men that demonstrate behaviors The wording is twisted but it's the same. If a woman flirts with a guy and he "doesn't want to demonstrate the behaviors to activate attraction" (AKA doesn't like the woman) YOU are deciding not to demonstrate. She is the one left with the feeling "I'm not good enough for this job" because YOU decided it. It's the same. Standards and job descriptions are kind of that. And everyone should have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:03 PM
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nono, it's not that they "might" initiate, they do. This is a fact. All those memes about being left on "read" aren't made entirely by men. In Bumble it's the woman who initiates and more often than not men don't answer. Because men also have standards. So I'd correct OP by saying that the one who initiates is the job seeker and the passive one is the employer. Even according to this sub's theory (or the manosphere idk) If all the women are aiming for the 10% of chads out there, there's likely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:34 PM
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Women go for guys, this is a fact, this is not 1920 anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:14 PM
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Yes but "nice guys" aren't usually "nice" that's the problem. Really nice people don't go around saying that they are nice, they don't need to. "nice guys" are the ones who list all of their nice qualities expecting something in exchange. Really nice people don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:33 PM
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What about women who seek guys and the guy says no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:31 PM
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No you are not with the standards that you mentioned. By wanting a "pure" woman you are already discarding A LOT of people who already had sex. Those non pure women who would want a relationship with you are out of the question so..... If you said yes to everyone then I'd agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:29 PM
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most men who don't get laid already have their standards at 0, can't get lower than that also people on this sub: LOL YOU ARE FAT SHE HAD AN ONLYFANS? EW OVER 30? EW THE IDEAL FEMALE BODY IS 23y/o SHE HAS A CHILD? POOR USED BITCH, only lame men would go for that loosened vag
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:52 PM
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This explains a lot about this sub actually. The standards are really that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:00 PM
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Don't be silly, ugly women don't count as women /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:47 PM
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exactly. Date to have sex it's easy for women but if you are dating to find a partner then it has the same difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:44 PM
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That's when you use lube or foreplay, so that everything runs smooth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:08 PM
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Source?? That's because you are trying to get to know women through studies lol It's just basic common sense, anyone who has been in a healthy relationship of any kind knows that worship is bad. Unless you are narcissistic, then it's going to be great for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:45 PM
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if you can't feel a tampon you won't feel foreskin, it just doesn't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:42 PM
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but gliding is more related to lubrication, being that natural or lube. When the penis is erect the head is out in both cases. There-s absolutely no way you can feel that extra skin on you vagina, the same reason why you can't feel tampons. Anatomically impossible. If it hurts then you need lube, not extra or less foreskin. And if he's wearing a condom it's 100% imposible. Stop spreading misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:50 PM
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If this is not conventionally beautiful I don't know what is https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81KS5H8wGEL.\_AC\_SL1399\_.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:40 PM
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OP you are being weird For women you can't even tell the difference I could understand that someone might not want to have sex with people outside their religion, that'd make more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:09 PM
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I supposed that was the case but I wanted them to expand on it, maybe you had some kind of special laws regarding children or single mothers, who knows, or maybe they had a weird theory, but no, it was just the wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:58 PM
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you don't like obama? He's the perfect example of someone who becomes sexier when they speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:57 PM
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Are you trying to prove OP's point or.......?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:47 PM
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Rami Malek is hot, is he considered ugly? My god standards are high
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:39 PM
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But every movement/group of people has it's annoying loud radica extremes. It's obvious that #notallincels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:02 PM
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lol the hippie vegetarian boy wasn't ok with it but at least he didn't blame it on women. There's a lot of ways to canalize that (absolutely normal) frustration yet incels decide that it's women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:31 PM
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I obviously don't agree with any of that but I'd have to write an essay and I'm getting the idea that I'm not going to change your mind so, thanks for the conversation, have a good year!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:26 PM
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I'm sure if given the choice women would gladly be presidents or CEOs. Everyone loves power and money, even if that means paying more taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:14 PM
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By that definition he was an incel then. He resented women regarding dates and sex. Coupled with personal issues obviously, people are more complex than an internet tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:49 PM
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He didn't have sex though, he told us. He only had first dates. I don't think that counts. The difference with average people who don't have sex is that you could tell that he resented women for that. We had another teammate who didn't have sex either (we were all losers lol) but this one was more hippie. Like someone you'd find doing yoga and being vegetarian. He got along well with women, didn't resent them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:42 PM
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So women actually earn less money than men and the the salary gap is true? Wasn't there a study made in the 70's that disproved it? People here always send that study as a proof that the salary gap is a myth and that men and women actually earn equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:33 PM
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But the difference mainly is the sex right? Now I'm lost on definitions. What's the difference between a RP man and an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:48 PM
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As you might have noticed I'm not from the US so I have no idea what are you talking about. I find it super weird that a first world nation has such backwards ways of taxing people. I'm also surprised bc this is the first time I see it. If you don't want to explain, don't I couldn't care less lol It obviously can't be because women earn less, right? That'd be the only reasonable explanation I can think of, but many people mentioned here the "salary gap" in the US is a myth so..... which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:40 PM
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His opinion word by word was very incelly. We had many conversations about dating (we sat next to each other and shared lunches with the rest of the team) and he just repeated everything people say online about "leagues" hypergamy and such. He didn't expect me being a creature of the internet as well. He also found it very hard to date. He went on a couple of Tinder dates with no positive results. When he talked about relationships he had never been in one (formal or informal) only dates here an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:24 PM
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We are talking about the US, right? I don't understand, so if you put that you are a woman in your tax form then you get to pay less taxes? By how much? If your local law favors women, can't you change your gender for profit? or it doesn't apply to trans women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:02 PM
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I met once once IRL. He was cute, I started flirting with him but then out of nowhere the guy started talking like an incel, blaming all of his problems on women, the hypergamy and such. That turned me off :( . Everyone at work noticed and I was so embarrassed to backtrack. He was a nice guy overall but very toxic regarding the opposite sex. I also saw him swiping on Tinder without him noticing and he would swipe right only the top most gorgeous women. He completely ignored average looking women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:44 PM
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Are you saying that because women earn less money than men, that's why their contribution is lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:28 PM
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They say their height though and it ranges from 170 to 180 cm. You can also see that only very few of them have abs and none is bulky (except one). Most are small and skinny. Very different beauty standards in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:03 PM
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Completely agree. I live in South America where guys on average are too 175cm. Women usually say "taller than me". I'm 158 cm so that's not difficult lol. Boys here are trying to find a perfect height number but the real number is "taller than me"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:01 PM
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JASON MOMOA DOESN'T HAVE A DAD BOD lol the guy is as ripped as Henry Cavil what are we talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:55 PM
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LITERALLY there was a post 10 minutes ago about how all FDS are fat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:53 PM
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Whenever the tall guys topic appears I remember all the kpop fandoms drooling over short asian men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:45 PM
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I don't get it. Here men always talk about hypergamy. If a woman says they date their "league" you say they are lying. Then there's a community of women who is proud of that hypergamy. And you are mad too. And the joke is that they are fat? an anonymous online community is fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:12 PM
3

are you saying boys/men can't get raped? There are tons of sexual abuse survivors that disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:08 PM
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Is this one of those moments where "nobody cares about sexual abuse if it happens to men"? because it totally sounds like it. If a man is sexual to a 7y/o girl it is abuse but if genders are reversed it isn't? hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:01 PM
9

wtf at 7 you don't know what you are doing this is why we have age of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:54 PM
2

absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:50 PM
2

*most guys on this subs. Take that video to real life and you're going to be mocked
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:33 PM
1

They think about women as "used" or "new". I'm not sure how this works in the long term, if they get divorced or are single by 40, are they planning on sleeping with 19 year olds forever? Or are they going to try to find 40 year olds virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:51 PM
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Well yeah, you said it, men label women as promiscuous, that IS men's fault. I don't think the solution is for women to start slut shaming men, that's dumb. When people ay this I usually assume they are jealous because they can't get any and are having a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:17 PM
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I guess to each their own. If a dude cares about my bodycount I wouldn't want to be with him anyway, there's plenty of guys who don't mind. You don't see how sad it is for a 30 year old guy to seek 19 year old women instead of adult relationships? That's a whole bunch of red flags including the fact that he's wearing sunglasses indoors lol, the guy must be bad looking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:13 PM
7

Nothing makes me respect a man more than he accidentally calling a woman "cunt" lol. I paused after that. Also he looks like a greasy version of Pitbull lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:40 PM
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Absolutely only guys are not labelled as "promiscuous"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:45 PM
4

So what are these desperate women doing right now? They are surviving somehow and it's not sex work. They are cash registers and hostesses stand. Unless there's some extra benefit why would they want to suddenly start having sex for the same amount of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:41 PM
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lol same. For me it's more a 60% - 40% I honestly couldn't care less about what men think about sluts. They are having more fun that them/us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:16 PM
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But evolutionary theories (which is like 80% of RP arguments) talk about women in general. Does this mean evolution doesn't apply to lesbian women? Either you generalize evolutionary theories to all cis women OR you clarify that you are talking about straight women, but then don't bring up evolutionary theories that don't apply to a huge chunk of cis women. The only way you can have both is by saying that women wear make up to attract what they want to attract, being that men or women. That way …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:32 PM
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dude chill OP's question makes sense. Lesbians, believe it or not, are women. You can't argue everything with an evolutionary POV but then dismiss a big chunk of society because they don't fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:38 PM
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I wish you drew your conclusions from real life women instead of that evolutionary BS that is completely disconnected from reality. Only damaged people go for the kind of dynamic you are describing. Then don't come crying because "women are crazy", you are attracting crazy women with that attitude (if you are attracting ANY lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:11 PM
3

Normal, meaning someone who isn't actively trying to force a weird power dynamic (probably taken from HIMYM lol) is fine by me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:08 AM
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it actually can be described as putting them in their place by acting in a way where they feel inferior to the man Yes baby, send me to the kitchen... A sandwich you say? OMG YES, THIS IS MAKING ME SO HORNY RN Thats why the being a cocky asshole works so well Please if other men are reading this, this absolutely doesn't work for everyone. I for instance would probably laugh at your face and block you instantly. It's a risky move. Confidence works but cockiness and "puting them in their place" is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:49 AM
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I knew 2, not particularly only fans but they did porn via conference call. One of them was travelling the world, the other paid her rent thanks to guys who pay A LOT for basically chat and some sexy dance. She didn't even have to take her clothes off. no shame or consequences for either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:35 PM
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How can you possibly know this? Why do you know so much about OF personal lives? So you buy OF and are judgmental at the same time, that's another level of sexual frustration lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:55 PM
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About sexual attraction and love. If a woman says "I like short guys" you shouldn't cancel her opinion with "but studies say you women are attracted to tall guys" (I'm simplifying the argument obviously). Listen and learn from real life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:13 PM
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I don't disagree I'm just saying that IRL it's much more useful to listen to what women have to say about their feelings than the empiric theories. If you use theories to understand women (assuming to date them) you have to listen to them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:59 PM
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Because you are cancelling what women can say about their feelings with theories written by men (for men).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:24 PM
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What you are describing should be the standard IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:55 PM
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in this answer *post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:33 PM
1

For me it is 50% cultural/evolutionary treats (stuff out of my control) and 50% free will outside societal norms. And sometimes I decide to stick my behavior to societal norms just to feel included. That's why generalizations are fine to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:48 PM
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What matters is that you felt bad in that situation, that's what you should be dealing with. I don't think the label "sexual assault" is a binary thing either. It's very weird for outside people to help you label a situation that we weren't part of. I'm glad you are able to speak to him and sort things out.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/21 09:16 PM
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17 bmi is unhealthy and unattractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:31 PM
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lol +1 for honesty and/or sci-fi dream
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:11 PM
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Exact same here! except replace lady for man and the fitness part for binge eating junk food after extensive walks or bike rides.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:44 PM
1

If you could redirect all of that anger you'd be 150% happier man. I'm not being sarcastic or snarky or whatever, have a good year
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:37 AM
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Those achievements are great but we really don't know what would've happened to humanity if men could've expressed their feelings from the start. I just feel bad for all those guys who turn inability to talk about feelings into anger or depression. I grew up going to therapy and you have no idea how much it helps me through emotional moments. I just wish everyone could have the choice to open up of they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:22 PM
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note: I'm not from the us so I don't know a lot of history but I remember that picture of this black girl entering a while school where there's a white woman giving her a bad look. It's toxic to enforce what you want to change (if they want change, maybe not). To continue your racism example, it'd be like wanting equal education but not letting the first black girl to go to a while school. Changes in society happen when people break the norm. Which is different than giving sound advice. For exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:47 PM
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Thanks for your answer. I can understand but it seems kind of counter productive to actively enforce not to show feelings while talking about how difficult life is for not being able to show feelings. Isn't this kind of toxic? I thought the point of expressing how not being able to show feelings was so that society would change and accept men's feelings. I thought they wanted to change!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:02 PM
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hahahahaaha I'm going to use this for future FWB, "I have genitally feelings for you"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:42 PM
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giving in the bedroom (extended foreplay etc) it's so foreign in a casual sex context I don't know about the rest but if I'm going to have a FWB we have to be compatible in bed and that means that what you mention is a must. Extended foreplay shouldn't be a price for relationship material, it should be the standard. If you are not going to have a good time during sex in a relationship that's only sex, why bother? But maybe that's just me, everyone has their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:30 PM
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And that any hint of emotion is somehow weak, showing affection to a woman is simp behavior. I'm honestly very confused about this. I've read a million times about how society doesn't let men have feelings. I usually see it coming from RP men. If that's something you want to change (which is super positive) then why do they say that showing affection is bad? The same men that say that want to be allowed by society to have feelings are the ones saying that feelings are bad? what am I missing here…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:21 PM
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But hopefully we are all "in progress" until we die. If you stop growing at 25 it's kind of sad, you are missing on a lot of potential learning and progress. Isn't the best case scenario to grow with someone who is being supportive (you to them end them to you) by your side? If they stop loving you or you loving them then break up and move on. But trying to find people who have stopped growing for fear that they will find someone better if they do speaks more about your fear in life. If the wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:35 PM
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that's different, that's depression and it's not a sex or gender thing, it's a psychological factor. I mean, it doesn't happen as a result of too much masturbation, it happens because your brain decided to stop rewarding you with the good chemicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:06 PM
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Like sex addicts. They use sex as comfort like some use food or drugs for emotional support. I sometimes go through moments where I eat not because I'm hungry but because I'm anxious and I don't even enjoy the food because I'm so full my stomach hurts. But I can't stop eating. If that's what we are talking about then sure, it's possible for someone to feel that with sex but then it's not about the repetitive sex (or the amounts of food) the problem there is the anxiety or void that you are tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:44 PM
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oh my god why would too much sex bring anyone numbness? that's absolutely insane. How many times have you masturbated in your life? does it start to feel numb after a few years? of course not! That's not how humans work unless there's psychological issues like depression. Which as we all know is not a sex or gender related issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:31 PM
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it doesn't go numb after too much sex ​ it's just scientifically wrong please talk to any doctor and will explain to you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:18 PM
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lol, it's science not religion but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:16 PM
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It doesn't loose anything with use, that's not how vaginas work. Ask any doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:12 PM
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The vagina has the capability to go back to where it was after having babies, I'm sure they can handle a penis. Ask any doctor, they will tell you this. It's a myth that the vagina gets loosen after having too much sex, it's just scientifically wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:03 PM
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Nono, it's very common not to cum on PIV for women. Porn makes it seem like an easy normal recurrent thing but real life is another thing. It is possible but requires work from both. And by no means that means women hate the penis lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:53 PM
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They may be numb from too much sex with so many men. You know this is total BS right? Bodies don't go numb from too much sex. That's not how humans work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:45 PM
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I talked about my personal experience. It's also what my friends say and do. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:07 PM
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My theory is that if some men fail on a date they automatically think it's because of their looks but in reality it is their personality. Many women here and on the feminists subs say that they date guys for their personalities, yet we are still called liars. I've personally dated both ends of the spectrum and still think that personality is what seals the deal, so idk, again believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:40 PM
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Bad personality and red flags definitely puts off women. Believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:30 PM
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The real problem for some here is their personality, and that's a truth not everyone is ready to hear. Sure, blame it on looks and society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:54 PM
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Exactly, they are trying to solve the problem with numbers and statistics and attraction doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:50 PM
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BuT StaTisTicS SaY WoMeN LiKe ChAdSssS/55%$
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:49 PM
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If being afraid of getting raped is the same as being misandrist then I have bad news for you because, like I said before, it's one of the most common fears. But women still go on dates and have male friends, so it's just an extra precaution like letting your friends know where you are just in case something bad happens. I don't know why this bothers you so much, why not instead make women feel more comfortable? saying that there is no logic in women's fear will lead you nowhere and it's also a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:24 PM
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Are you arguing about if women have the right to be afraid of getting raped or murdered? Because that's like one of the most common fears. So instead of thinking if we should be or not afraid think instead why are we afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:16 PM
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You are more likely to be murdered by a man than by a woman, that's what's being discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:12 PM
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Even the FBI has a hard time identifying psychopaths, so I doubt any of us can do that. Incels yes, they are easy to spot, but incels are (in general) not violent so it's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:11 PM
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I've found more difficult to reach men in the feelings conversation. It feels like women have more practice in putting feelings into words and being listened to. But it definitely varies from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:11 PM
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Purely anecdotal: I have a male friend who is poly and that's the kind of hetero relationships he gets into and also a couple where he instigated it and they came up with a whole bunch of rules but it works for them so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:14 PM
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Nobody is stopping you from being afraid of women! Both can be afraid of getting murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:54 PM
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I doubt that if you are in a heavy storm with severe turbulence you'd be at least a bit afraid. I thought so too until I was in one. The normal thing is to be afraid if the plane is tumbling like a leaf in the wind and you missed the landing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:53 PM
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sure, murders and rape are extremely rare, harassment and sexual abuse are a myth as well. I want to be in your parallel universe where domestic violence doesn't exist honestly. I really hope you are a troll otherwise I'd suggest you go outside and talk to real people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:33 PM
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So you are smarter than the FBI and the police? Even though they are mostly men. Maybe work for them since you are so smart!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:01 PM
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Statistically there are more men murderers than women. By like A LOT. But whatever... Are you saying women shouldn't be afraid of getting murdered because men get murdered/raped too? sure, makes perfect sense /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:36 PM
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Sure, women made the whole rape/murder thing up. silly me....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:18 PM
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But how am I supposed to know who is a psychopath! Psychopaths have the ability to blend in perfectly in society because they are unable to empathize. How can anyone know this on a first/second/third date?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:12 PM
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Definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:11 PM
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Sure but if you are on a plane during a storm, aren't you going to be scared? Sure statistics are on your side but the plane is shaking and people are screaming. What if this plane crashes? What if the guy slip a drug while I went to the bathroom? Besides most women (if not all) have been cornered/stalked by some dude at some point in their life. Even if the date doesn't end in murder or rape, harassment can be scary and it's super common. There are no statistics about it because nobody calls th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:58 PM
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I think the fear of being murdered/raped cannot be taken that lightly. Sure, you have less choices but the fear of maybe getting murdered while you are at someone else's house makes it difficult to relax and have a good time. The fear of trying to guess if the guy you just met is a psychopath or not. While victim blaming is bad, once you are dead because you overlooked psycho vibes, there's no turning back. The consequences for you are loneliness, for women are rape/death.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:48 PM
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100% THIS omg I wish I could pee everywhere too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:39 PM
5

I'd go for theoretical rapists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:12 PM
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we are almost 8 BILLION people in the world and you are worried that birthrates are declining? Covid killed 5 million and nothing changed? lol that's some altruistic BS
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:18 PM
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As another user pointed out you have to throw capitalism into the mix too. Who is profiting from all the beauty contest?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:50 AM
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We were talking about women who use men for entertainment but in the link you sent she says she loves him and is happy with him and their family together. She also mentions she had sex trauma, that could explain stuff. However I can totally see someone having shut down the sex part for their partner in a marriage. Take a look at the deadbedrooms sub and there are A LOT of experiences of low libido people having partners as friends (male and females surprisingly). So if you are low libido, asexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:38 PM
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I think if these women date the guy it's because they were attracted to them. Who dates someone without being attracted to them? Could happen maybe once or twice, but if it's a repetitive thing it's more likely that he's more good looking than he thinks and he doesn't have a good personality to keep the relationship going. The alternative of all women dating below average and then realizing it's not their league seems kind of too much coincidence. Another possibility is that the guy makes poor p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:59 PM
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If hot women keep leaving him then he's got other issues than looks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:39 PM
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Yes! That and the "bases". I learned all this in movies. For someone who grew up in a country without baseball or leagues it's a strange concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:37 PM
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It doesn't 'balance' anything out, it intentionally unbalances the system to stop it from ovulating. If you are naturally unbalanced then it balances you because it overrides the ovarian function. If you are hormonally unbalanced then you probably have mood issues as well. So the chemical balance makes you have less PMS, making you more rational. If you are naturally balanced then it won't do anything to you. That's how it works plain and simple. ​ and yet doctors happily prescribe hormonal trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:14 AM
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A good way of avoiding that is to always split the bill. That'll leave out the women you talk about. As simple as that. Unless your kink is to be a sugar daddy.... no judgements lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:43 PM
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Very compelling argument, I'm convinced /s You probably don't have a rational explanation, do you? Contraceptive pills do that, balance hormones, they are used for many other things other than pregnancy and one of them is PMS. Same way men use testosterone when they have some issues like low libido, which also affects the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:36 PM
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I did and this non-Chad guy turned me down so... idk, his loss I guess. Anyway don't worry, me and my friends are hoeing for feminism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:31 PM
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yeah me too. They don't have to be feminist but they don't have to be anti feminists. And show it in actions because there are plenty of men who say they are feminists just to sleep with you. love the flair btw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:13 PM
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it works by tricking the body it's in the early stages of pregnancy This is false. There are A LOT of hormonal stuff going on in early pregnancy stages that don't happen while on the pill. Those new hormones are the ones the pregnancy test can detect in the urine. But if anything the pill makes women more rational. Without the pill hormones go out of control and can make you have feelings that are too much. Like when you take anti depressants that balance your brain chemicals, the pill does the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:09 PM
2

I heard Skydaddy only cares about the hymen so the rest doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:57 PM
1

He gains societal recognition for that. I've never thought of this but: what if men don't want to loose that recognition either? Why would men slut shame women when women are "giving them" exactly what they want? I've always found that notion so odd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:30 PM
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This goes for males who do so as well. Oh that's BS. Men are considered successful if they get to have sex as fast as they can. They are sluts but they are not considered as such because slut has such a bad connotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:31 PM
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Talking in absolutes sometimes is as weird as bringing up personal experience. I've never heard any woman have an issue with bi men. I've heard A LOT of women have feelings for gay guys, that's a normal thing. I'm not sure why people in this post think otherwise, this is the first time I see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:19 PM
1

I'm also trying to do the math. I'm assuming we are talking about straight women right? So they are dating men. So for every successful woman there is a man who also got lucky, right? So why is everyone so sure there is an imbalance? There are even more women than men in the planet, so all the women are having sex with the same small group of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:37 PM
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While in domestic abuse statistics there's probably a margin of error, in murder cases most perpetrators are men. I don't think there's much of a statistic error there. The key issue for me is why men do it way more than women? Everyone knows that murder is not ok, however there's a difference in behavior between men and women. How do you explain that difference? I don't think it's physical strength given that there are tons of ways of murdering someone non violently.
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