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| 1 | Why are you interested in a relationship/sex?Why I like sex/ want sex: I enjoy the movements and feelings, it’s fun, it’s enjoyable, it’s connective, I find people sexually attractive, I want to act out fantasies with them. Sex for me is a fun thing to do and I really enjoy it in a way that is different to masturbation. Why I like/ want relationships: the connectivity with someone I care about, sharing aspects of my life with someone, having someone I know and understand and that knows and understands me (in a different way to friendships)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes?That’s a real shame. I’ve had one person that I didn’t contact again for similar reasons- I’m lucky in that the lesbian dating scene is a lot more accepting of staying friends with ex’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes?I always have a no contact break after relationships, normally for the length of the relationship (so 3 year relationship= 3 year no contact) and after that see if we actually get on and would want a friendship. It’s been about 50/50 as to whether we get back in touch and create friendships, but the ones that it has worked out with have been amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Why hook up with guys at the bar/club when you can hook up with hotter guys off of Tinder?I prefer seeing people in person over any app. I don’t want to be shocked the first time I see someone in real like because they’ve only been showing the flattering photos/ they take bad pictures and are actually hot. Or because you can’t feel peoples vibe/ sense of humour/ voice etc online. Also I’m barely good enough at replying to maintain my current relationships, let alone potential ones online!! I’d always rather go meet people in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodI put ‘any’ for age/ race, minimum height and wages, and it was still 43.5%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 09:58 AM |
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