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Pureevil1992/r/seduction27/02/17 12:30 AM
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The biggest thing I think to me is to not be outcome dependent. If you are interacting with someone with only the intention to get laid its nearly impossible for that to happen in my experience. If you are just having fun, getting to know someone, and fine if it happens or doesn't its much more likely. You can still lead the interaction towards that, escalate things and be somewhat obvious that's what you want, but if there's any sense that you need a certain result because of neediness, despera…
/r/seduction26/07/26 01:25 AM
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I don't believe you have spent 7 years trying to learn game and got no action man. I got out of an 8 year relationship about 10 months ago and have already gotten laid like 5 times. I haven't practiced game since I was 25 and im 34 now. Im chubby, my hairline is receeding, and my game was really rusty and still is. To be fair a few of the girls were below my usual standards but its not like i was trying to date them anyways. Maybe im wrong and you are unlucky and actually chopped. But id bet you…
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:28 PM
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Don't explain or justify yourself to them. Agree + amplify or make fun of their joke. So like that example maybe just be like "yea i am too cool for that shit." Or yea only losers go to events like that, I bet you were there. Or just simply "i didn't want to". You don't owe her or anyone an explanation of why you did or didn't do something, and when you explain yourself you are showing you care about her opinion too much.
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:47 AM
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You realize that just because a woman is beautiful doesn't make her worth your time or energy. If anything a lot of beautiful women tend to have very few other good qualities because they have the advantage of beauty. Basically evaluate her as a person, regardless of how beautiful she is.
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:35 AM
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Once a woman wants a man, she is most of the time, going to want a relationship with him. The man usually has the power to decide if the relationship stays as just sex/fwb or actually dating with potential for marriage.
/r/seduction11/07/26 09:38 PM
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No, women nowadays have infinite options for sex, even the ugliest woman you know can open tinder and get laid within an hour. You have to have enough value that she wants more from you than just sex, most likely that she wants you to commit to a relationship with her, then she will chase you. Your power is a man is you always choose if theres a relationship or not, unless you are giving away that power to her.
/r/seduction11/07/26 11:47 AM
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I think this is mostly women. I mean for me personally atleast id be fine with an average women, and I tend to like them more than the ridiculously gorgeous women because of how that tends to affect their personality. But yes you are correct, even average or women slightly below my standards put in very little effort and seem to expect a lot for basically nothing, or they are so focused on themselves that they shouldn't even be trying to have a relationship but I guess their mom or friends press…
/r/seduction28/05/26 02:58 PM
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Why did she drive you home first of all. Did you leave your car there? Otherwise the only advice i have is don't just ask girls to come in, give them an excuse. Most girls are afraid to seem too easy or whatever, so give them an easy excuse like having a drink, showing them this cool thing you got on vacation, showing them your guitar, idk whatever you can come up with really. If you just ask them to come in its like you are just asking if she wants to fuck, and that's too forward for most women…
/r/seduction23/05/26 02:31 AM
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Have you been to a church? I guess it depends what religion you are but where i live a solid 50%+ of people going to church on sunday were just getting drunk in a bar or at a party the night before. You can definitely be a good person and not have sex on the first date if you want, but there are just as many hoes in religion circles that are mostly pretending to be good now because they are ran through and looking for a husband, its up to you how seriously you want to take your religion, but mos…
/r/seduction18/05/26 08:26 PM
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Don't worry about it man. The vibes were weird. Other people are saying you should lead or whatever but I understand. I can't escalate if the vibe is off either. Its not worth it either, you never know with these women if she feels weird before something happens she might try to claim she didn't want it afterwards. There will be more women.
/r/seduction17/05/26 05:53 AM
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I don't know what you mean by an invite, but ive had my share of fuck buddies and one night stands and ive never felt invited by the way a girl was looking at me, and ive never had a woman approach me that I hooked up with either. She should see you coming, but you are expecting her to gice you permission with her eyes, stop waiting for permission and just do it. My old boss always said its better to ask forgiveness than permission, and he was just talking about doing construction work and fucki…
/r/seduction08/05/26 12:32 AM
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I don't have an opinion on your looks, I don't think you are uglier than me. But as far as your post. Waiting for an invite to talk to a girl is bullshit, even when I get something that i think is an invite it rarely is correct. Just go talk to them if you find them attractive and want to get to know them. If you hang around waiting for invites all the time you are really limiting yourself, if they say fuck off, not interested, i have a boyfriend, whatever else girls say to reject you, don't wor…
/r/seduction06/05/26 12:50 AM
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Im not trying to judge you, but based in my experience this is a subconscious self confidence issue. Look at it this way, if you went and had the same approach with a woman you don't find very attractive/don't care about the result with would you still get the heart racing nervousness? I know i never have even before I learned any game, the nervousness comes from wanting a certain result and her approval. Which ultimately means in your own subconscious you are projecting her as higher value than…
/r/seduction25/04/26 05:32 PM
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Why would you care. I don't even let women tell me they have a boyfriend anymore. I say "hi im pureevil", they say their name, I say " are you single id like to take you on a date/get to know you". They say yes or no, and i know if I should walk away or keep talking. It doesn't matter why, if shes testing you with some bullshit, find a different woman, if she actually has a boyfriend, find a different woman.
/r/seduction24/02/26 06:58 PM
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Everyone else already told you but everyone is chasing someone. Even the 10/10 girls that everyone wants, well most of them wont get to even sleep with Brad Pitt or henry cavill, and theres a ton of other guys who are just high status by owning their own business, or a ton of other different reasons. Basically the top 10% of guys are getting all those girls, so become one of those guys and you won't be able to keep those girls away from you.
/r/seduction01/02/26 07:03 PM
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It seems to be like this in most places right now man. This is the culmination of the dating app era I think, maybe some problems with extreme feminist ideas also. Women's egos are so inflated and their opinion of men is so poor that women feel its ok to just collect money from men while providing nothing in return. The bigger problem is a huge amount of men actually give them the money for no return, like its not even prostitution these guys are paying for text messages and nudes. So its hard t…
/r/seduction29/12/25 05:06 AM
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Yea the truth is all the methods can work, and none of them can work too you can just go talk to women and be normal. There isn't some big new tech here because for the most part as a species we understand our psychology very well. All these methods did is translate psychology into something based around getting women and translate it into something the average monkey can understand. Just do whatever you want and don't overthink it bro.
/r/seduction21/12/25 08:26 PM
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There isn't a simple answer here OP. A lot of the comments are right. I can offer you my advice. Id recommend you study pickup game, read books like the game, the subtle art of not giving a fck, no more Mr nice guy. Learn about human psychology, im not saying you need a degree, but it helps to understand the underlying reasons women act why they do. The most important advice though is don't focus on getting women, focus on becoming a man that women want to be with. If you care about and love you…
/r/seduction12/12/25 04:41 PM
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Thats what it sounds like to me too, its like when young children do something they know they shouldn't. To test the boundaries they can get away with before they actually get in trouble. First she canceled and you agreed to exactly what she wanted, now she's gonna see if youll bring a friend for her cousin, or maybe that's just a big bullshit test too and she's just going to cancel and waste you and your friends time.
/r/seduction12/09/25 04:37 PM
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To add to this, if you can't dance but atleast have a little rhythm. If you're at a club with a dance floor find a girl that knows how to dance and ask her to teach you, or even another guy honestly. Its a great way to make some new friends or even get in with a group for a bit and learn to dance some. Plus it also shows a lot confidence that you don't mind going out there looking like an idiot with some girl leading you and spinning you while you mess everything up. Last check out your locals b…
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:08 PM
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You're showing your calm and not worried about the othe r guys approaching her. You aren't in a rush to talk to her and are getting what you want first, and it gives her an opportunity to show IOI. It makes a lot of sense to me, I've definitely done similar "moves" before. I dont think they were even that well thought out or conscious decisions at the time.
/r/seduction06/09/25 04:05 PM
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I used to go to the mall and either buy some clothes or pretend I wanted to buy clothes. You are basically forced to talk to the usually pretty girls who work at those stores and you can even try to flirt a little or atleast just ask their opinion of what would look good on you too, even if she's just selling you a shirt if would probably help your confidence a bit. Stay in a high energy mood, listen to your favorite songs on the way to the bar. Try to focus on having fun first and you'll probab…
/r/seduction06/09/25 06:48 AM
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Thank you for sharing too. Its definitely encouraging in someways that you went through almost exactly the same thing and made it out the other side. Thank you for the kind words and advice. I am taking it one day at a time, and its funny you mention it, the other day I was happy I had made it a couple days without crying, and then I lost my streak because one of her damn long hairs randomly got stuck on my arm. I think in my craziness im not helping myself very much also though. I went and sign…
/r/seduction05/09/25 09:22 PM
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Yea i was the opposite of a natural also. I was a virgin until 19, only got laid maybe idk 4 or 5 more times between then and 25. That's when I really put the work in to do it. Im not really blaming myself, but I do love that girl. I honestly think she's perfect for me, but I wasn't meeting her needs well enough because of, well you read the story. So the biggest thing im struggling with is that I want her back still, but I dont think I can be what she wants or needs. Overall though our relation…
/r/seduction05/09/25 09:12 AM
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This is great advice and really well explained, and exactly how I had to do it when I was doing this. Just force yourself to go talk to the hot girl, regardless of how much you sweat or stammer or look like an idiot or get rejected. Once you do it like idk 100 times and nothing really bad has happened you will eventually retrain your brain to realize its safe to go approach women, and its fine if she rejects you even. You arent going to be everyones cup of tea most likely. Even the guys who are …
/r/seduction05/09/25 09:01 AM
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Im just trying to, idk survive right now. Ultimately my relationship probably wasn't the right fit for both of us, but I did and still do really love that girl, and its only been about a week since it ended so its not easy. Im glad you appreciated it and I hope it helps you and whoever else could use that advice. I also really appreciate the encouragement. You're right this is an opportunity for me in a lot of ways, it doesn't feel like it right now though.
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:41 AM
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This is pretty much the answer if all you really want is to sleep with women. I have a similar story in my mid twenties. Well not that similar. I just worked on myself a lot. I quit playing video games every day and worked out and learned guitar and if I wasn't doing one of those things I was probably out socializing. It was really hard for me to be honest because im naturally more of an introvert and a homebody. Then every weekend I went to the local bar in my town and I mean, I did ok. I didnt…
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:25 AM
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Honestly the only examples I see of this are normal decent looking guys with fucking cows. There's like 1/10000 couples you see where the woman settled with a guy who's way less attractive, but you see normal guys with women who look like you couldn't get past their fat rolls to have sex with them everywhere.
/r/seduction03/09/25 06:22 PM
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I like the post, but more important than doing cold approach is self care and goals. I never had success with women until I started working out, learning guitar, and pushing for more in my career. Im not saying anyone should wait until they lose 30 lbs or whatever to start approaching women either, so dont use that as an excuse, but you cant really fake feeling confident.
/r/seduction25/08/25 02:35 AM
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It happens. Just move on. If you let every rejection hurt you, you'll never get anywhere. This doesn't even apply to just women, you can apply it to jobs, friends, life in general. One failure doesn't mean you aren't good enough or did anything wrong sometimes people just aren't going to like you, aren't going to want to hire you, etc. Just move on.
/r/seduction19/06/25 02:13 PM
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Coke causes me to do the same thing, I can't stay fully hard. Alcohol can cause the same problem, so im not surprised you had that issue when doing both. Also, I know you're young, but you shouldn't do coke while drinking. You can Google the effects for yourself if you care enough, but basically, it's really bad for your liver. Pussy is better than coke and alcohol and every other drug ive done, atleast to me, so maybe try without the drugs and then you'll have a real opinion.
/r/seduction09/06/25 11:58 PM
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I'm definitely ok with more intimate touching like that, I couldn't imagine most guys being upset about it. It's also a pretty clear sign, whereas a touch on the arm, hand , or back, can be friendly or just nothing.
/r/seduction11/05/25 04:15 AM
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A touch on the arm or hand isn't enough for me or most guys, I assume, to know you're interested. I can't speak for all men, but if a woman is interested in me, I'd prefer she be straightforward about it. Just ask him on a date or something, or if you do touch him be very obvious and flirty with it, run his muscles, neck, thigh, something that is clearly past the realm of friendly.
/r/seduction11/05/25 02:57 AM
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Well, whatever helps you, I guess. Honestly, I think I'd be more depressed being in a "relationship" with an ai than just being single.
/r/seduction20/01/25 06:09 PM
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Can the ai connect to a sex robot or something? You don't want real companionship and intimacy? I think this post might have been written by the Ai, I can't imagine a human thinking this way.
/r/seduction20/01/25 05:44 PM
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I hate to say it but the man is right. My cousin is one of those guys, and I saw it my whole life partying with him as he's also one of my best friends. 8s would open him when we were out. He literally didn't have to try.
/r/seduction08/08/24 01:35 AM
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Yea, they are rampant in my area, say they are looking for hookups but then when you message them they give you rates, and also the same is most of them aren't even very attractive just like a 5 or 6. I suspect a decent amount of them are scammers, though. I messaged one and pretended I was interested or well. I basically told them I'd pay them, but they kept asking for money upfront. I think it's probably not even a girl running the account, just some scammers taking pictures of pretty girls an…
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:24 PM
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I mean, you can't get it by just gaming. You're gonna have to find a girl who's bi or curious atleast. I doubt anyone short of very famous actors or sports stars could pull it off with women who are actually straight.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:17 AM
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I never approached girls at the mall because i was terrified one of them would be 16 and not tell me or something, or they start yelling and suddenly a mob is trying to kill me.
/r/seduction03/08/24 09:09 PM
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I dont see a downside. The pup gets more pets from the girls. Also, a dog is your best friend, im sure he wants you to be happy and get laid.
/r/seduction01/08/24 12:00 AM
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Yea, this is the only thing that worked for me. I used to get extreme anxiety almost to the point I felt like I was going to faint or throw up, I would get the cold sweats and heavy heartbeat. I'm pretty sure I still would get the same thing if I had to give a public speech to a large crowd. However I was able to get over it for approaching women, after the first 20-30 it gets much easier and at this point I can do it with no anxiety even though I've been out of the game for a while, occasionall…
/r/seduction28/07/24 04:22 AM
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By the time you get rejected 300 times you won't feel anything when they say no or go away, you won't even know what they said because you could tell in their facial expression it was a no before their mouth moved, and you won't care at all you're already looking for the next girl to open. In other words quit being a pussy.
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:13 AM
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What worked for me was well, I went out 2 nights every week when I was gaming, so my tolerance was high enough I could always control my level of drunkeness. If you keep going out consistently, you will get there. I would always do some shots or have some whiskey and coke when I got to the bar to get a good buzz going, then I could just drink like 1 beer an hour and an occasional shot with friends or a girl and I'd stay right at that perfect level. Everyone handles alcohol differently, though, s…
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:42 PM
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You say you like yourself how you are but you can't see how you are atrractive to women? Sounds like bullshit. And if you want to have an attractive girl you have to meet alot of women, the girl I'm with now I chose, because I met alot of women and she was the one that was what I was looking for. You don't learn to "trick" women in seduction you learn to come across as confident and give value regardless of what your interests are. But if you're really so set in this mindset of "I'm antisocial a…
/r/seduction05/12/17 09:09 PM
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It doesn't always work. But I definitely get less flakes using this. If I look back on it the ones that do flake are the girls I didn't spend as much time with. If I spend 30-45mins or so in set and then setup the time then I haven't had a flake yet. Like I said I've only started using this on girls that logistics makes it so a pull won't work out.
/r/seduction29/11/17 05:30 PM
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I was just trying to address that you said a majority of your girls flake. I can't help much with pulling, I should probably follow some of the advice in this thread because it's not something I do very often. Most of my lays are on d2s. But honestly i don't mind it too much because in my experience a pull is always a one night stand whereas a d2 lay can turn into fwb pretty easily.
/r/seduction29/11/17 05:35 AM
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What has helped me is setting up the date there. If I decide the pull can't happen I'll ask her hee schedule for the week. Or say something like Tuesday let's do x does that work for you. If not just suggest another day ask her what her schedules like for the week. Don't just make and then get her number and ok bye. Make plans in person that way the text is just confirming your plans.
/r/seduction28/11/17 11:45 PM
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That everyone would see me approaching tons of women/getting rejected and think negatively of me. First of all most people don't have a clue. I've had multiple people that I met them after a set ends and they're like. "You're with those girls you were talking to right?". Also that it's not really important, most people are so in their own head and worried about their own self image that they can't even see anything past "how does this make me look?".
/r/seduction28/11/17 06:51 PM
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Exactly she won't learn either, she won't go to the gym, she won't put in the work to get a high quality man and you're the same with your whining so you're perfect for each other.
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:26 PM
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No-one can make you. Just go find a fat girl and get married like every other loser if you aren't willing to put in the work based purely on the excuse that women don't have to learn this so you shouldn't either.
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:10 PM
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http://articles.rsdnation.com https://www.youtube.com/user/RSDMaximilian
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:07 PM
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Stop looking at it as trying to get success. If you're trying to improve yourself for women it won't work, if you're trying to improve to get laid it won't work. Improve because you want to be the best you that you can be. I can't give you a step by step guide you're just gonna have to grow some balls and figure it out. Maybe watch a few rsd videos.
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:02 PM
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Well sitting around crying about how your life is falling apart and how your dick isn't pornstar worthy isn't going to help I'll tell you that much. Maybe try taking action and making changes in your life instead of just whining about it on reddit.
/r/seduction28/11/17 01:58 PM
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I'm literally the same size as you and I've never had a women complain. Probably because I've never let it affect my mindset, I used to worry about it alot too. But now I have enough reference experiences, some girls have even told me I'm the best they've ever had. It only affects you as much as YOU let it affect you.
/r/seduction28/11/17 01:54 PM
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Go meet other girls. That's the only thing that works for me when I'm feeling that oneitis coming on.
/r/seduction20/11/17 01:47 AM
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You've got to stop worrying about the outcome. Don't go talk to the girl trying to win her over. If anything go in with the mindset that she needs to win you, you're putting women on a pedestal based entirely on their looks. Which most likely means your just objectifing them, you're going to have to decide that her just being pretty isn't enough, and once you meet enough of them you'll see that it's not anyways, a woman looking good does not make her a nice, fun person.
/r/seduction16/11/17 01:17 PM
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Ah the old oneitis crush. Try to look at it like this. Why is this one girl so special? Why is she the only one for You? What can she offer besides a pussy and maybe an ego boost from a hot girl on your arm? If you can answer these questions honestly to yourself you'll see how silly you're being. The sea is well populated. Start throwing bait everywhere and see how many bites you get.
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:36 PM
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It's not the size of the hammer it's all about how you swing it lol. But really it doesn't matter. I'd suggest reading the sex god method. Sex for women is about alot more than the size of your dick.
/r/seduction07/11/17 03:00 PM
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Don't even bring up a relationship until she does, just keep taking her on dating and fucking her. When she does give you the "what are we?" Be honest about it. Maybe not that you don't like her that much but just that you don't want a commitment.
/r/seduction07/11/17 02:58 PM
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No I texted her essentially saying I was tired of her bullshit. She called like 30mins later.
/r/seduction04/11/17 12:57 AM
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I'd say being direct is the best answer. I had to do this with a girl today that's been too "busy" for me. She called me and apologized and wants to take me on a date tommorrow night. She could've said w/e I'm not interested in you wouldn't have mattered. But just be direct with her. Girls appreciate when you're honest about your feelings instead of worried about upsetting them or scaring them away.
/r/seduction03/11/17 11:59 PM
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You gotta get back to the self love phase. For me that's what pickup is truly about. Before I got into this i was apathetic and depressed about every aspect of my life because I felt who I was naturally wasn't good enough. Pickup ultimately was just a way for me to break through those negative thoughts and see that my true self is enough for anyone worth caring about. Anyone who thinks I'm too much of a nerd or something like that is just missing out. Because I'm awesome. You need to get away fr…
/r/seduction03/11/17 11:56 PM
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I think this is something guys just don't realize, I didn't either for a long time. It took my mom telling me before it really hit home, she's tried to set me up with multiple girls and realized how high my standards are. One day we were talking about it and she told me, If you want to have high standards for women you're going to date you need to have higher standards for yourself. Because value attracts value.
/r/seduction28/10/17 06:21 PM
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Yes I did this. But this is the largest city in my state. I'm working on a job change soon that will allow me to travel alot more though. Hopefully then I can meet some awesome rsd wings.
/r/seduction24/10/17 11:27 PM
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I'm still waiting on mine to accept me. For like 2 weeks. Only 137 members I guess they are basically inactive lol.
/r/seduction24/10/17 10:03 PM
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Maybe so. I don't get to day game very much can't really help
/r/seduction24/10/17 07:21 PM
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She probably didn't really have a bf that just gets rid of alot of boring guys easily. Since you stayed in frame she wound up attracted to you. Time to close.
/r/seduction24/10/17 06:38 PM
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Honestly don't think it matters. It's just personal style . I like to just open with hi my name is PureEvil. Then after a weak line or I'll pick a feature I actually like about her. The easiest one is to get her opinion on something and then, that's awesome give me a hug, once I pull back from the hug I pull her back in and tell her she smells amazing. It's only the easiest because almost every girls hair smells really good. I feel like it's taken alot better when it's something that's actually …
/r/seduction24/10/17 06:36 PM
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Because both states of being are necessary. Rsd madison describes it better than me I think but I can't remember the video. Basically we have 2 different states, one is when you're in your head and thinking deeply. Every thought you can branch into causes and effects and try to predict what you think will happen. This is many guys problem is they get stuck in this state. They are so worried about getting the result or about their insecurities and men are naturally logical so your trying to think…
/r/seduction23/10/17 06:25 AM
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Id recommend going to a club with a nice dance floor early in the night and dancing when there's like no-one else on the floor. Or very few, honestly I try to do this every time I go out. It really makes you realize nobody gives a about what you're doing in these environments. He'll sometimes people will even cheer me. I've always been super introverted and terrified of being the center of attention and this works wonders for me as long as I just go have fun and do me. Once that good mood starts…
/r/seduction21/10/17 08:59 PM
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Pickup isn't only about casual sex. It's about being good enough in your abilities to get women to be able to choose. You can't decide you want a relationship when you can't even get one.
/r/seduction19/10/17 11:34 PM
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Getting in my own head too much. Now that I understand game and look back at nights I've pulled or hooked a fwb before knowing anything about pickup (fwb 3 different times in 7 yrs since I turned 18). On those nights I was so on point and have gotten some of the hottest girls of my life I had no intention of going out seeking sex/friends/approaches/experience/etc etc. I was just out with friends and having an awesome night and my friends were pussys so I'd go to a group of girls and get them to …
/r/seduction08/10/17 12:34 AM
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I think I have an idea of an exercise for you. Go out and talk to women, without the goal of asking them out at all. Just have a conversation with them and don't even think about trying to get a number or sex. Just talk to them like you're trying to make new friends. Then when you're ready to leave the conversation decide if you think she's worth getting to know and if you do then ask for a number or a transition ( something like hey I'm going to go get a coffee at so and so place wanna come alo…
/r/seduction06/05/17 11:25 PM
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I might be upset by the end of the day. But I can't remember the last time I was rejected that many times continually. I get alot of numbers that end up as flakes or just never answer. But even that is a confidence booster for the night because I got a number that could turn into something. Also women seem to have a sense of your inner game and if you're approaching seeking validation you will get rejected alot more.
/r/seduction06/05/17 11:17 PM
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I had periods where I got really upset about it and wouldn't go out again for a week or two, but eventually I just completely stopped seeking validation because I had decided I was happy with myself regardless of what some random woman that I'll probably never see again thought of me.
/r/seduction06/05/17 11:10 PM
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Yea it doesn't really matter to me what the outcome is anymore. I think that's the part you're missing. The important thing is you're putting yourself out there. If they don't like you then that's their loss. I'm not expert and I don't pull a ton of girls but I spent alot of time devolping the confidence to be able to have this mindset. Whether or not the girl likes you shouldn't affect your mood very much. If it does that's probably a huge part of the reason you're getting rejected, because you…
/r/seduction06/05/17 11:04 PM
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Generally for me after the first two or three approaches the anxiety is completely gone. I've been going out almost every weekend for about 4 months now though, and approaching alot of women.i don't know if I'll ever get to the point where I don't have it at all. It's almost like my mindset resets everytime. I have to force myself over that initial hesitation and after that it's easy again. I think if the fact you're getting rejected alot is making you more anxious then you're too outcome depend…
/r/seduction06/05/17 10:55 PM
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Just give up on the that mentality, I know it's not easy but get used to just saying whatever comes to your mind first. If you just wanted to meet her bc you think she's pretty say that. If you thought her shoes or scarf or whatever were interesting when you noticed them say it. And then use that to lead into a conversation. My best interactions have been when I'm completely honest with myself and her. For example the other day I talked to this very pretty girl for about 30 minutes, she was laug…
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:23 PM
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I think the more important question is why are you letting a girl who (I'm assuming) you aren't in a serious long term type of relationship with you come before your long time friends/ hobbies/career/ etc?
/r/seduction08/02/17 06:29 PM
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Yea I finally realized this like last week, I got super anxious when I went to open this gorgeous girl. Later that day I talked to many, not quite as pretty girls. When I was going over my interactions mentally the next day I had to stop and think to myself why did i let myself get so nervous with that one girl just because she's prettier than the others and once I thought it through I realized it doesn't make sense for me to be like that. That one girl didn't act any different than a uglier gir…
/r/seduction08/02/17 06:22 PM
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Don't put up with that, this girl sounds exactly like a girl that I was with for a while and it ruined me. It's alot to go through emotionally and mentally when someone just plays around with your feelings and it's not worth it I promise. It took me years to get over the insecurities that relationship created.
/r/seduction06/02/17 02:11 PM
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