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Being honest I would have to agree; but I am interested to see an actual hashing out of the subject. At very least it will be interesting to see how exactly such a process is supposed to be justified in their minds.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 09:36 AM
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This may seem like a small comfort but have you considered studying extramurally? As a uni student in New Zealand this entire situation, while completely fucked up and wrong, seems weird. Over here most of our universities have distance learning programs where you can do your entire degree online; depending on your major. You can also do it from other countries should this suspension hold. If you don't want this to harm your academic career you may want to consider looking into this.
/r/MensRights13/12/14 08:44 PM
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I seriously felt sick to my stomach reading this. Her husband is living nightmare and doesn't even know it. Regardless of her evolutionary talk (which I am fairly sure is bullshit) she is still doing it without his consent. Personally, I hope he finds out and sues her into oblivion.
/r/MensRights20/08/13 10:39 PM
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I'm glad i live in nz, Feminism is much less crazy here. I would straight kick her to the curb for mouthing off like that too much. I can't stand that shit tbh.
/r/MensRights30/03/13 05:39 AM
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I'm glad someone else thought this. I think it is pretty condescending, not so much because its a "Cave" or anything its more because people seem to have a need to tag "Man" onto a lot of male things/activity's, another example would be "Manscaping" for shaving/removing body hair or "Manass" as an insult.
/r/MensRights30/03/13 05:38 AM
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Omfg, that is hard to read... This kind of article is a perfect example of how you can shape Feminist theory and terms to argue just about anything regardless of how stupid it is.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 08:34 PM
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or, we could tackle traditional masculinity and take down like 10 birds with one swipe. As imo most of the male inequity's floating around atm are hold overs from the traditional male role and people trying desperately to fit into that traditional box that society still expects men to fit into. But that would mean accepting men have issues and deserve help... which is where the problem lies.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 05:12 AM
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I like 99% of this. The only part that makes me nervous is.. consent to fatherhood should be assumed only if a man and woman are married or common law married Now, unless Ive missed something (please point out if I have) this still leaves men wide open for exploitation from a spouse. While its nice to assume everything is rosey at home. Under law I don't like the idea that any long term relationship can end up being a ball and chain against my will just like it is now. I would however support a …
/r/MensRights10/02/13 08:39 AM
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Because that would make too much sense...
/r/MensRights08/02/13 09:11 AM
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Warren Farrell's book "The myth of male power" is a good overview of the topic. if you can get your hands on a copy.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 10:01 PM
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New Zealand
/r/MensRights09/01/13 06:35 AM
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So your against contraceptives/abortion then? I come to this conclusion based off your obvious distaste for giving people a means to avoid unintentional responsibility. We should probli remove manslaughter from the books too, I mean if someone died because of you of course it was intentional right?
/r/MensRights05/12/12 08:36 PM
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Like many articles its a matter of prospective. If you are taking into account cases with no evidence, false claims, cases where there is only a vague description of the perp. Then yeah, I can believe it but I also think under those conditions these stats mean exactly nothing. And therefore the point that most rapes aren't convicted Because of bias is false. If these organizations put there resources toward some kind of study to help CATCH rapists Then maybe they would get somewhere. at best all…
/r/MensRights23/11/12 09:10 PM
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Hey this story is from my town! :D Also +1 for being sensible NZ
/r/MensRights23/11/12 08:47 PM
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Yeah sorry, I worded it kinda stupidly.
/r/MensRights15/11/12 07:39 PM
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That could be an interesting point, you'd think they would pick up those social skills in school. My mother was stay at home most of my childhood and I turned out fine, I was shy in my early school years but came out of my shell a few years in. My brother however is more like your friend your describing, socially hes very withdrawn and it has major effects on his life. Hes almost 30 and has never had a job, no girlfriend (unless you count online) and seems to have little aspiration to change his…
/r/MensRights15/11/12 07:38 PM
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Yeah I worded it like that so people might see where I got the question from, just ended up confusing people :P gah! Ive always thought that but there seems to be very little discussions by MRA's or feminists about actually encouraging Child rearing > working. Obviously it couldn't be baseline like child care funding is right now. we don't want to encourage "Professional mums" I wouldn't think.
/r/MensRights15/11/12 07:32 PM
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Is this assuming a two parent household? Having no job and no one else to support the family seems like a fairly bad choice for a single parent. I agree that its not society's responsibility per ce to Support someone choosing to have a baby. But If having devoted parents produced more sensible, healthy balanced (Perhaps more intelligent?) children for the next generation wouldn't that be worth the pay off? I don't know if this is the case, But it would seem like a not crazy conclusion to come to…
/r/MensRights15/11/12 11:07 AM
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To clarify I'm not saying we should push women back into caring exclusively for kids. I'm asking do people think there should be more emphasis on taking time out of their careers (Be they male or female) to raise their kids. Gender roles were and are stupid counter productive. So do you think there isn't any major benefit to having full time parents?
/r/MensRights15/11/12 10:58 AM
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This, it's not unreasonable to expect a sexual relationship. nor it it unreasonable to leave if the relationship isn't going to make you happy. it's nice and fine to spout feelgood jargon about "it should b about feelings" but romance and passion go hand in hand for a lot of people.
/r/MensRights14/11/12 01:41 AM
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I think its also worth pointing out that your speaking in different context. He is assuming that the man is innocent of rape if he was unaware of withdrawal of consent. You are branding him a "Rapist" before you even establish guilt. In other words what your arguing about IS figuring out if he is a "rapist" or not. No one is arguing on behalf of anyone who intends to and is actually guilty of rape to go free.
/r/MensRights12/11/12 11:23 AM
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I normally throw and news story in there when I approach telling someone about the MRM and the issues men face. I find it makes people much more receptive if you frame it within a specific discussion rather than just throwing it out there. That being said People in NZ seem decently receptive, and Ive only gotten one or two people take offense or completely reject the idea and its normally in the form of "I dont want to hear about it men have it awesome" fingers in ears nananana cant hear you! ty…
/r/MensRights19/10/12 01:24 AM
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Good links, recommend reading.
/r/MensRights11/10/12 12:13 AM
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There is, but it depends on who you talk to. For every person willing to discuss the matter there is 10 idiots completely uninterested in addressing the issue past "Men have all the power and are on top k?"
/r/MensRights10/10/12 10:26 AM
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I see :) ty!
/r/MensRights13/09/12 11:42 AM
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I wish everyone viewed it the same way you do :P
/r/MensRights13/09/12 07:20 AM
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http://www.du.ac.in/fileadmin/DU/Academics/course_material/hrge_06.pdf Sorry! it was supposed to be in the title link, I'm new to actually posting here on Reddit :P
/r/MensRights13/09/12 07:13 AM
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I agree and sympathize with pretty much everything you said right up until the last part. "“Patriarchy” is a loaded term that has become wholly ineffective at conveying any solid idea, but is rather molded into whatever its user needs it to be (much like the “feminist” label itself). Arguing that patriarchy is responsible for men’s problems too is asinine and used to shoehorn MRAs into believing “feminism is the solution to men’s problems too.”" I think if you look at it objectively it does conv…
/r/MensRights13/09/12 06:16 AM
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I think you misunderstood what they were inferring by calling men "patriarchs" there not saying that "Patriarchs" are the people who are involved in patriarchy, there saying that they are the ones holding power or excessive privileges are a result of the system. Just because those lower men don't have those same privileges doesn't mean they are aren't a part of the system (Women are too) it just means they don't benefit from it as much. The sexism is prejudice + power thing sounds like complete …
/r/MensRights13/09/12 06:02 AM
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From what the first post said and what Ive seen the main issue is the name/implications left over from a purely women's movement. I actually think if feminists made some effort to just term things more evenly and iron out some of the more nasty insinuations in the theory it could be a very constructive theory for both men an women.
/r/MensRights13/09/12 05:26 AM
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Seems like a giant misunderstanding to me. I don't see much talk amongst MRA's as to appropriating or critiquing this term though. Wouldn't it be much easier to add our own 2 cents to it as a way to get more sane discourse between feminism and the MRM? Its gotta be easier than fighting them tooth and nail over every issue.
/r/MensRights13/09/12 05:23 AM
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Exactly loose. Obviously I don't agree with the idea that you cant be raped in skinny jeans. I just don't like the knee jerk reactions and implications of suggesting that was the sole factor in their decision. We don't know what happened. Which is what makes these cases so dicey. But I (and the original design of the legal system) Would rather let a rapist go free than see a innocent guy go to jail over a false accusation.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 10:41 PM
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The thread was more about my friends instant reaction that he was guilty as opposed to the story itself. Im fairly certain any sane jury wouldn't actually use "Your jeans are too tight" as the sole basis on which to aquit a suspect of rape. @grape I actually completely disagree with your second statement. Yep maybe she took off her pants of her own will and didn't want sex. That could be the case, But the fact that the jury believed she did. Yet she ardently claimed she didn't means in that case…
/r/MensRights06/09/12 08:12 PM
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@tracy exactly @jolly Im pretty sure any decent amount of punishment (even a black stain on their record/ a short stay in jail) would suffice in scaring away most false accusers I would think. The only reason this is happening is because the punishment is so lax and its easy to get away with. A lil stamp that says "I falsely accused a man of rape and tried to ruin his life" would surely seem just in my eyes. If he risks having that bombshell on his record then she should have mitigating risks as…
/r/MensRights06/09/12 01:17 PM
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That shocking... how can people ignore stats like this?
/r/MensRights06/09/12 12:44 PM
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That is pretty atrocious, there really should be harsher penalty's for falsely accusing someone of a crime. Esp one as serious as rape. Something like half the sentence the accused would have gotten if its concretely found that they lied or something.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 11:57 AM
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wait what?! That is a new one on me. Can you elaborate or show me some examples?
/r/MensRights06/09/12 11:11 AM
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Short answer, Yes it exists. But women have a list as long if not longer that is the same deal. Your GF's position is one based not in knowledge of how women are disadvantaged, but in ignorance of how men are too. Also, if she cant keep a lid on those heavy feminist leanings and is "Hounding" you about it like you say. Id get outta there fast. No offense man but being a slightly MRA kinda guy myself I cant imagine how much it would piss off my GF if I was preaching at her 24/7 about how men have…
/r/MensRights28/08/12 10:56 AM
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very interesting video, but also rather depressing.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 09:22 AM
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I met a feminist, listened to her worldview which conflicted with my perceptions and experiences and called bullshit. Did a lot of research and came out on this side of the fence most of the time.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 07:31 AM
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Feminism is about stripping women of their traditional gender roles and making everyone equal. By exclusively pushing the female side and hoping the male side will just fall in line. I'm not "Anti-feminist" by your description. Equality has a different definition for everyone. My equal world doesn't have Laws that discriminate against men left and right. Deny then due process and vastly exaggerate female problems to downplay the idea that men even have any. Which in my view a large number of the…
/r/MensRights12/08/12 11:25 PM
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I'm not looking for change right now, But If I can share my views and open up a few peoples eyes to the misandry and double standards floating around. Ill be fine with that, Ive already brought these views and ideals to many of the other young men and women I accociate with. And my generation is very receptive from what Ive seen. Keep up the good fight gentlemen we are indeed making progress.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 09:55 PM
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