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What do ya'll think about Lady Gaga?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:23 AM
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It seems like someone hurt you in the past. Shouldn’t you have spotted their behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:57 AM
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I’m not mad. I’m amused. I love arguing with trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:53 AM
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If you think misogyny is an argument how did you even pass English?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:50 AM
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Blah blah blah I’m a misogynistic asshole who is salty he can’t get his dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:42 AM
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Blah blah blah I’m a misogynistic asshole who’s salty he can’t get his dick wet. Look at me! I can go through post history too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:40 AM
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Are you going to respond to every one of your comments? You must have a lot of time on your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:35 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:30 AM
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When he started talking about his ex girlfriend and how she was a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:27 AM
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Then you shut your damn mouth about Taylor Swift.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:26 AM
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How? I was 14 and this boy showed no indication of being an asshole until 2 weeks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:24 AM
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Maybe you should exchange your shallow asshole behavior for a few...umm...feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:24 AM
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I’m only showing him how shallow he sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:23 AM
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No it is relevant. You are asking a woman to change something she can’t (her body structure). Should I ask a man to change his height?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:21 AM
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A lot of men are nice at first. They reveal their true colors later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:18 AM
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The reason was I was young and lonely. And I wanted to be less lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:17 AM
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Imagine if Peter Dinklage exchanged his acting skills for a few...umm....inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:16 AM
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Men, who do your consider your looksmatch? Back in high school, I was in a relationship, if you can even call him that. My boyfriend, a tall older (by 3 years) boy with acne, braces, and who was already balding never let me forget how lucky I should feel to be with him when several cheerleaders have wanted to be with him. He always either expressed desire of being with more attractive women (my classmates, my cousin, my choir friends, his ex girlfriend) or he’d propose different ways I could mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:47 PM
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I dated once when I was 14 and once when I was 16. I decided to not date again until I can financially support myself. I never want to financially depend on a man, nor do I want them to financially depend on me. Most women in abusive relationships financially depend on the man, making it hard to leave and I don’t want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:10 PM
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There is no ”in general”. We are individual human beings. Can I say ”in general” that men are shallow? Is that fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:09 PM
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Pete Davidson.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:04 PM
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Then stop saying ”women” as if we are a homogenous hive mind and not individual human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:01 PM
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What men have entered my holes? I’m a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:01 PM
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Oh really? What was the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:57 PM
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Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:24 PM
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Not me. I hate criminals and men with poor character.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 05:06 AM
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Jasmine liked Aladdin before his transformation tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:23 AM
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No I'm reffering the modern sitcom you cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:22 AM
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Which specific sitcom is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:19 AM
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They were hot before their transformations tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:18 AM
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Murray Goldberg?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:12 AM
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Aladdin? Hercules?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:11 AM
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Men would do the same if a woman put that profile. I'll prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 11:12 PM
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Did they actually try to meet up with him though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:54 PM
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Out of everyone who swiped right on him, how many actually tried to go on a date with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:46 PM
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What if your son ended up being promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 09:40 PM
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Personality: the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual's distinctive character. Character: the mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 08:55 PM
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Here's something to consider though... Do trauma victims prefer low character guys because they like it, or is it because it's familiar to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 08:53 PM
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Yeah it is. It's a gender stereotype that women are the gatekeepers of sex when men just as easily could have preferences too and they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:52 PM
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That's why I said infatuation blinds. These women are blinded by infatuation. I don't know where you're seeing women en masse date hot guys just because they're hot. Is your sample group a high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:50 PM
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I feel the attractiveness-confidence correlation holds true for women too. I would be a lot more confident around guys if I was attractive. I'm just as scared of people making fun of my appearance and thinking I'm creepy or clingy as you might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:33 PM
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I can tell just by looking at her, even in the ones she’s smiling that she is dead inside. Even when she tries to look happy there’s this look in her eyes that says ”help me”. It makes me wonder what her home life was like. The fact she had anorexia explains a lot. She probably had some form of body dysmorphia and exploited older men not out of malice but out of a desperate need for approval and worth that she's not able to give to herself. I feel her pain. I had self worth issues when I was a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:22 PM
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If she was anorexic she was actually working hard (WAY TOO HARD) to appear attractive. Anorexia and bulimia is what I'm talking about when I say that some aspects of being attractive aren't handed to you. Just like most born-rich people make their own money attractive people still have to spend their lives maintaining their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:13 PM
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I think that is tied to both physical attractiveness and charisma. I like men who can hold a conversation with me, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:10 PM
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Can you link me to a news article of her or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:07 PM
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If she's skinny, unless she had an amazing metabolism she must be either dieting or exercising and neither of those is a cakewalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:06 PM
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Was she also fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:04 PM
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I also hear a lot of men on here saying saying they wish a woman would rape them because they think it proves they are sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:57 PM
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But that ignores the fact that some people are just good at pretending. There is some truth to your statement though. I believe that the people who end up in multiple abusive relationships aren't shitty people themselves but have shitty self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:54 PM
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Also, I must add that although having a symmetrical face is handed to people makeup, diet, and fitness isn't (unless you are also born with an amazing metabolism). Though they were born with the right genetics, they spend a lot of time maintaining their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:52 PM
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Well we don't have to conform to shitty gender stereotypes anymore. Women can be the hunters and men can be the prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:49 PM
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Rich people don’t always work hard for their money. Many of them are born into wealthy families where they receive better education and better opportunities to make better connections which in turn gets them better jobs so they can make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:39 PM
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But how do you know that the women knew that person was shitty before they dated them. Often, infatuation and gaslighting can blind someone to character flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:38 PM
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What do you think about a man having an onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:33 PM
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What about when a male student is raped by their hot female teacher and men say "nice" or "I wish she was my teacher"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:30 PM
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I am allowed to give input on what women want because I am a woman. Women are not a hivemind, they are individual human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:27 PM
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No. If given the choice between a hot guy with character issues or a simp with character issues I would reject both. I’ve dealt with enough assholes in my life that I will wait my whole life for the one guy I’m attracted to that isn’t an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:16 PM
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There is no number. Just a feeling. If my feelings are stronger for another guy I will choose that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:56 PM
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When comparing two men I’d typically choose the one I’m more physically attracted to IF he also had a good personality and character to boot. If both options don’t work for me I choose neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:54 PM
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If you mean physical attraction that’s not too complex either. Either he makes me feel like I want to spend time around him or he doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:53 PM
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It’s not a points system. Either he makes me feel like I want to be around him all the time or he doesn’t. It’s a brain thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:50 PM
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Exactly! The first guy I ever dated was an older boy who constantly negged me about my appearance and claimed that all men really want is either ass and titles or a pretty face and that I have neither. Does that make me a bad person for staying with him? I was just 14 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:49 PM
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I don’t look up to Kardashians or Cardi B. My female role model is and will always be Lady Gaga. She’s talented in so many ways and all around a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:45 PM
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We don’t have a ”complex selection mechanism”. We just judge men based on our experiences with other men. To try and figure if he’s a creep we compare his behavior to previous creeps we were too young or naive to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:31 PM
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Bribing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:59 AM
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I didn't want these behaviors. I was in high school, and I didn't know what I wanted. I was 14. I don't know what you saw that told you I don't desire empathetic men. I stopped actually dating for four years, and I don't plan on dating again until I find a guy I'm attracted to who can support me as I support him and who I have a deep emotional connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:07 PM
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Not true. I look worse with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 09:55 PM
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I wasn't attracted to the first, period. At first he was just a friend and when he asked me out I said no but he said "I'm dating you anyway." and that's how I ended up with him. I never chose to go to him. I'd sit in the corners of the hallway and he would always find me. I was a bit attracted to the second and stopped when I realized what he wanted but I always felt the guilt of not giving the nerdy guy a chance so I let it go. Yeah, you are an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 09:49 PM
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That’s what I’m saying. Below average women don’t have it much better than below average men. I am a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 05:48 PM
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Yes. The patriarchy means the highest positions in my country are held by rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 05:04 PM
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It’s saying that girls don't have an easy time getting into or staying in school as many say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:42 PM
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Around 61 million girls are of school, according to UNICEF in 2016 - 32 million girls of primary school age and 29 million of lower secondary school age.” -UNICEF
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:26 PM
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Oh so now I'm just being too emotional. He brought up personal experiences so I brought up some of my own. But of course I'm the one that's too emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:23 PM
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No. I never said my experiences are worse than anyone else's. I refuse to dismiss my own accomplishments with just "vagina".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:18 PM
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I'm a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:16 PM
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My first dating experience was with an older boy who emotionally abused me. This is pretty much a summary of everything he said to me over the course of the 6 months we dated. The first day: You're not pretty, but that's fine because you're special. You should see my ex girlfriend, but she was a bitch. I want her back. Why can’t you be pretty like her? Guys like ass and titties. You have no ass and titles. A week later: ”I’m more attracted to your personality than appearance.” Another week later…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:56 PM
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So ya'll are saying that you want ugly rich guys to spoil you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:22 PM
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The same except less people try to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:19 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:18 PM
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The only reason it's different is that women have jobs now. Are you saying women should just go back to only doing housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:17 PM
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Then how is pregnancy a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:11 PM
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Paternity is also a choice. The man chose to have sex. I'm asking what is the solution. But sure, just bring up an unrelated issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 12:19 PM
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I never said life isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 11:27 AM
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I said my life was not better than his. Male privilege negatively affected my life too. Thus, my life is worse (it isn't).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 11:25 AM
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Okay, while we're talking about female benefits what do you suggest we should to fix the pregnancy penalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 11:25 AM
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So the laws they put in to help women hurt men. What do you suggest they do instead to ensure both men and women get custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 11:19 AM
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That's sad but that doesn't mean women ALWAYS get custody. There was a time when men always got custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 11:17 AM
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Like eggy (the incel) with long blonde hair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 11:07 AM
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The law isn't against men. It's just protecting women. Your life is nowhere similar to a Roman women's. You can choose who to marry, they couldn't. Men aren't prevented from meeting in private with women to stop them from having sex. Men aren't told to uphold a chastity vow. You care about men dying more than women dying because you are a man. You hold a bias towards your own gender because their issues is your issues. Admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:59 AM
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I don't mean you specifically. I mean people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:56 AM
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I'm not playing into your oppression olympics. If you want to believe you have the odds stacked against you because penis then that is your choice. It is my choice to believe that men and women have it equally hard in different ways. Anything else is disregarding the pain on either side of the equation. It is also my belief that oppression is not the result of gender but of other factors such as attractiveness, race, and socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:49 AM
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I don't deny that there is female privilege. Just that a lot of what you think is female privilege is just pretty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:45 AM
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Yeah it is. What do you think about the case of Jeremy Meeks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:40 AM
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As a young white woman, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:39 AM
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I specifically did not have higher grades than my male peers and unless you can find my records and prove it this conversation is over. My life was hard in some ways and so was yours in some ways. I will never, ever say that men have it worse than women nor that women have it worse than men. Deal with it. Let's face it, I don't know what it's like to be a man and you don't know what it's like to be a woman. To say you know my experience as a woman is disingenuous. You can NEVER say what my life …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:38 AM
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Proof for some children isn't proof it happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:29 AM
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Exactly. Though I am not conventionally attractive by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:28 AM
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No I wasn't. Unless you can go into my school's records and compare my scores to a man's and find that I got a higher score I will NEVER believe that. I had an F in band because I couldn't play flute well enough. And I was forced to take band, mind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:27 AM
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Amy Schumer is ugly to you. She is still conventionally attractive compared to someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:09 AM
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I was never graded differently from my male peers because vagina. It happens, but it never happened to me and thus I will never, ever say that my life is better than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:07 AM
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I will not fucking acknowledge that because I never got more points for the same answers. A guy got 2 points, I got 2 points. No, I won't indulge you in the oppression olympics. I had a hard life. You had a hard life. Let's leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 09:51 AM
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Where did I tell you to wave a female privilege fixing wand? I'm telling you to recognize attractiveness privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 09:46 AM
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I would've failed if not for an extra credit math project. Do not attribute my own accomplishments to my gender. I didn't barely pass that class because vagina. My teachers did nothing to help me for the majority of it. Nothing. I went in for tutoring and was told "You would've learned this if you paid attention in class." I had a male classmate who repeatedly poked me and whispered things in my ear while I was trying to do classwork. I had to beg my teacher to move my seat. She was right there …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 09:35 AM
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I had to take small group (read: special education) math and science classes because I almost failed algebra and biology. I passed with a grade of D- for both. I was moved from honors English to regular English and then special ed English. Can you point out what exactly went my way there? I am where I am now because I had an epiphany during my sophomore year and busted my ass so I could prove myself to people. While kids in my class slacked off I did extra credit. I did more work than the teache…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:47 AM
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Weinstein was rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:38 AM
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I’m not saying female privilege doesn’t exist. Just that a lot of things you might think is privilege universal for all women is only universal for attractive women. I am explaining that attractive women get away with statutory rape because of attractiveness more than gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:29 AM
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Pretty woman=people do whatever you want for sex Rich man=people do whatever you want for money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:23 AM
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I clawed my way up to where I am now. I spent my whole life with untreated ADHD and being told I’d never make it to college. I spent most of my childhood with a father who wasn’t sober a day in his life until I was 15 and with multiple health issues that made it hard to learn or even socialize. Other than having men help me carry heavy things I don’t know what privilege I’ve experienced. I’ve been sexually harassed and had people do nothing but laugh. I’ve never had someone stand up for me. I go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:22 AM
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Amber Heard wouldn’t have gotten away with it if she was ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:49 AM
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Ah yes. My life of being bullied, excluded, and harassed for my looks was handed to me on a silver fucking platter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:47 AM
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But that doesn’t take into account whether the criminals were attractive or unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:45 AM
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Yeah, that's called a vocal minority. I don't think it's fair to judge movements by their vocal minority. By that logic all incels are misogynists, all conservatives are trump-flag toting rednecks, and all BLM activists think white people should die.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:34 AM
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I've made several announcements to other feminists. But the reality is I can't change things because feminism is not a hivemind which follows one leader. It's a group of millions and millions of different people with their own experiences, opinions and agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:28 AM
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Ted Bundy had multiple women send love letters to his prison cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:23 AM
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Here we go again with the broad generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:20 AM
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So if I got an award from some prestigious organization that would make me representative of feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:19 AM
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Still even if that's more than one feminist that doesn't mean feminists want women to never be jailed. It means some feminists do. That's like me saying a lot of conservatives are racists. Therefore, conservatives are racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:17 AM
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Yeah, they're a feminist, but that doesn't prove feminists as a whole want women to never be imprisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:13 AM
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So an award makes you representative of all feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:12 AM
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I corrected myself. My point is that is still one feminist out of millions. Citing one example of one feminist saying so and saying this is proof feminists as a whole want this is strawmanning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:10 AM
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That still doesn't prove that feminists think women shouldn't ever go to prison. It's proof that a feminist thinks that. By your logic I can take a random post on r/MensRights that says "women are only good for breeding" and say "see, Men's Rights activists think women are only good for breeding." I would be strawmanning. And you would be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:07 AM
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Yeah, I'm sorry. I replied to the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:07 AM
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Yes, but there's a reason they got away with their crimes for so long. Jeffrey Epstein ran a private island where he molested minors for years. Ragusa had sex with students which means that she got away with her crime enough to have assaulted multiple people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:51 AM
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You're right. I can't answer your question, and that's because you provided no proof that feminists want women to never be imprisoned, only that a woman who never claimed to be a feminist at any point in the article wants women to never be imprisoned. You created a strawman, and you expect me to debate that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:50 AM
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What did you expect me to do? Take a broad generalization at face value?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:40 AM
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Can you give an example of an ugly woman getting a lower sentence than an ugly man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:38 AM
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Can you tell me again what you think these privileges are? Because the point of my post is a lot of what you think might be female privilege is just pretty privilege. Kind of like what people think as male privilege is just rich privilege or high status privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:35 AM
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When he says "Women's vaginas turn into roast beef after too much sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:46 PM
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You generalize. That's not facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 04:49 AM
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If you think opinions are facts, how did you ever pass high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:19 AM
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Am I free at 3AM? Is this comedy store also a 7-Eleven?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:59 AM
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That's from dealing with people like you every day. I bet you're the three LARPing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:56 AM
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You have eyes, but not hunter eyes. And the orbitals must be weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:54 AM
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You aren't hot enough to call them not hot enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:51 AM
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r/BlatantMisogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:37 AM
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No, sir we are all misandrist radical feminist bimbos. Is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:36 AM
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Ah yes, when I wake up in the morning I think "Today I want to manipulate people and ruin their lives!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:46 PM
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I have watched Hazbin Hotel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 06:51 PM
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Yes. Though I kinda hate Millie's new voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 06:45 PM
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Why should only women wait to have sex until marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 06:44 PM
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I have never cheated. However, I have been cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:52 PM
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So...you post the recordings?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 05:02 PM
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Can you explain exactly why you need to film them? Or yourself for that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:26 PM
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So you, without asking, just start recording women during sex? And you don't see anything wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 07:18 AM
1

Fixed that logical discrepancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 08:34 AM
2

Except 911 doesn't take those calls. You would call animal control.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 11:09 PM
2

As you are driving you see an old dog lying the street. You pull over to the shoulder to see it is malnourished and covered in it's own feces, but it's not dead. If you bring him to a vet and help him get healthy again, he may survive. But at the same time it's cold outside, you're late for work, and you just got a brand new car. There's no one around, so whether you saved the dog or let it die, no one would know. What do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 09:49 PM
1

Because I had no friends. My anxiety was so bad that for five years I was selectively mute. I couldn't spit it out that I wanted to break up with them. And even bad company is better than no company.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 08:40 PM
4

Social skills. I've noticed that women with high extroversion low neuroticism and high quality agreeableness get married more often than women with high introversion, high neuroticism, and low agreeableness. The same is true for extroverted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 08:33 PM
1

None of them were attractive. And now you're probably going to excuse their behavior by saying I would've liked it if they were Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:18 PM
7

I do care if a guy has hobbies besides video games. A guy saying "my hobby is video games" is like a girl saying "my hobby is watching The Bachelor"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:09 PM
1

I'm 20. I'm not too young. I won't let any man or woman into my bed who has shown me they don't respect me. I've gone through some trenches. I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship where I was taught to feel too worthless for anyone but him. I've been in one where he kept crossing my physical boundaries, and I left before he could cross any bigger ones. I've woken up in my own bed to a guy from a party kissing me and cuddling me because my door was broken and even though I tried to barr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:02 PM
1

I haven't had sex at all. But if I will, it's going to be with a man or woman who has shown me they respect my boundaries and want me to enjoy it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:01 PM
1

I don't care what you say women do. I as a woman will only have sex with a person if they've showed me they respect my boundaries and that they want me to enjoy it too. I won't have sex with a man who cares only about his sexual pleasure. That is a massive red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:52 PM
1

No it is not. A man who is nice only because he thinks he gets a reward is creepy, regardless of attractiveness. Plus, women are not the hive mind you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:48 PM
2

Nope it's because we want someone who is nice because they are nice, not because they're trying to get into our pants. I'd turn down an attractive guy being nice to get into my pants too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:23 PM
2

There is a difference between being nice to get a girl's pants and being genuinely nice. A "nice guy" lies. He gives empty compliments. He pretends to have the same interests. And often he tries to pit you against others. He's so insecure when he sees you even look in the direction of another guy, he assumes you're cheating on him. The main reason women don't like him is that he is a deceptive, very manipulative person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:45 PM
1

I agree and I have a term you can use to make your arguments more logically sound; love bombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:40 PM
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I think you all overestimate how much people think about you in general. Most of the time when I see a below average guy I just say ”oh it’s a person” and I move on with my day. Unless you’re either legitimately deformed like the elephant man or an Adonis lookalike women don’t really notice you. That's what it's like for men to see me too. I'm not the most hideous person but I'm also not a supermodel so I am mostly invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 02:24 AM
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I mostly just try to mind my own business and don’t really interact with guys in general unless they talk to me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 12:44 AM
2

Get a prostitute. Or the next time one propositions you on the street, say yes. You're spitting in the face of those who offer you help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 09:11 PM
4

I feel sexual frustration because I haven't yet met a guy who I can connect to on a personal level and who wants to have sex. Expecting me to have sex with horny men off Tinder is like me telling you to just get a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:42 PM
2

You're assuming I don't feel sexual frustration. I feel it but it's not killing me:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:39 PM
1

Are you dying from a lack of sexual intercourse?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:28 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 11:25 PM
1

What would you say this was then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 08:38 PM
3

As a woman, I browse TRP subreddits to remind myself of what guys to avoid. But this is just my personal experience so take my opinion with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 08:30 PM
2

Many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 05:09 PM
4

Do you see women claiming all women are equally seen as sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 04:03 PM
2

Why is this circlejerking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 03:45 PM
2

Did someone say only women can exercise them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 03:13 PM
9

I think unattractive women get a lot of hate as well. As an unattractive women I’ve noticed that people often make friends/date with those who are as attractive as them. So that’s limited me both friend wise and relationship wise. Sure I occasionally get the horny fuckboys who just want sex and some men don’t ever get sex so I should see it as a privilege but I really don’t. I don’t want any guy to use me for sex. I long to find one man who I can spend the rest of my life with and share life exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 03:05 PM
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Also the way they treat fat and/or unattractive women proves differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 02:57 PM
2

That kind of attractive man doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 10:35 PM
3

There’s the problem. You talked only about her job and her week. Did you tell her anything about you? Girls want a connection, not an interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 10:21 PM
4

Chad doesn’t exist outside your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 10:13 PM
2

What exactly did you say to her? What was the convo?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 10:07 PM
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You do realize the safety aspect of not meeting up with a guy after the first message, right? The thing is us women realize that we are at a high risk for date rape or worse. So we try to do everything we can to assess the situation before it gets to that point. I need to get a feel of what this guy is like, if he might be controlling or pushy, and if we may have interests in common. None of that can be construed from one message saying ”meet up?”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 08:46 PM
1

But this isn’t a rant. It’s an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 08:42 PM
1

I do agree that I have a high level of neuroticism. However, that doesn’t change the societal messaging that has been hammered into women’s heads since they were young girls. My college held a whole seminar for incoming freshman girls. It was all about staying safe at parties. And a little bit of not being rapists ourselves. But mostly safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 08:41 PM
2

And maturity. I like a guy who is emotionally mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 07:52 PM
3

I am not afraid of men because they have a penis. I am afraid of being overpowered, and men are physically stronger so overpowering isn’t that hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:14 PM
2

It’s called hypervigillance. And most women we're taught to do so by their mothers, who in turn were taught to do so by their mothers, and so on. It’s a product of rape culture, which states that if a woman just had done this or that the rape wouldn’t have happened. Growing up, anything related to men was ”don’t be in a room alone with them”, ”they will take advantage of you”. My parents would show me several movies about children and women getting kidnapped and raped and the fear of that ever h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:30 PM
2

We aren’t willing to spend more, but we’re forced to anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:16 PM
1

How is this off topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 11:19 AM
1

Except accusers aren't in charge of their results. That's the prosecutor's job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 07:56 AM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 07:07 AM
3

I criticized them for assuming I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:46 AM
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I didn't notice because I was asleep and I drank so much that I was passed out. And yeah you're gonna say "Well then don't drink so much." He wasn't a random man. He was a guest at a party my roommates threw. But there was so many men and so many faces that I can't quite remember. He looked kind of like my roommate's friend but at the same time I can't know because it was dark and my vision was blurry. I didn't dream it. Not at all. I woke up from a dream where I was fighting off a tiger to his …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:34 AM
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But I don't need to be told what women experience because I am currently experiencing life as a woman. And as you said, it's horrid. I am not whining about how men have it, I am trying to point out things people don't consider when they talk about false rape accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:26 AM
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I had a guy break into my bedroom and start kissing and cuddling me. He didn't rape me, not that I know of as for four hours I was passed out, but he could've. If he did I wouldn't know who he was. I only vaguely remember what he looked like. And most likely he didn't leave evidence. And even if he did, rape kits have low turnovers and probably the police would find nothing and dismiss it as "unfounded". Would I be lying in that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:25 AM
1

If a person who had their wallet stolen doesn't know who the thief is or have any evidence they could use and police dismiss their case as "unfounded", are they lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:17 AM
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That's what I'm trying to figure out. A way to protect rape victims and get the justice they deserve while also not convicting innocent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:12 AM
2

A bonus? Like money?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:09 AM
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"Overwhelming lying about rape" That statement is suggesting that false rape accusations are prevalent. That is a lie. "Unfounded" cases, which fail to be proven right or wrong due to negligence and low turnover of rape kits, are more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:32 AM
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But it's not feminists. It's law enforcement. And societal norms that perpetrate the narrative that every man is a potential threat such as telling women to use the buddy system, watch their drink, and watch what they say. At a camp for my university, there was a whole lecture about how to be safe. I am affected by that narrative. I can't go on Tinder, or walk alone at night, or even talk to a man without my brain playing the "is he a rapist or a normal guy" game. I constantly have my guard up. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:20 AM
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Don't tell me what women experience. I am a woman. And the fact I care about preventing false rape accusations doesn't mean I care less about sex crimes as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:17 AM
1

How many of us here do you think are married? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:14 AM
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But it's not a man hating problem. It's a class problem. And a race problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:58 AM
0

I think in order to be proven false the accusation had to be done willingly and maliciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:55 AM
1

I agree. And have there be routinely investigated by law enforcement to ensure that no evidence is hidden or tampered with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:44 AM
2

I would be in support of it. But only if the accusations are proven false. Not just "unfounded". But false.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:22 AM
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Women couldn't care less...except his wife who set up a go fund me for him. And the women that have donated to that cause. No one even knows who the false accuser is. There are no pictures of her or accounts. All we know is her name: Sarah Bost.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:02 AM
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So it's bad that the Stanford rapist didn't get treated as if he wasn't a criminal? Ronnie Long was in jail not because of sexist reasons but racial reasons. His sentence was the result of police and the all-white jury being racist. The police hid the evidence of his fingerprints and semen samples that lacked the woman's DNA, which is why he got convicted in the first place. He's raised 32, 190 dollars on his gofundme and several women have donated. His wife set it up because she was outraged th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:51 AM
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Women don't really show outrage. But we sure as hell don't support her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:37 AM
2

I think women do address that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:29 AM
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I guess I should've never complained about the fact a guy broke into my room and started kissing me and cuddling me. Being treated like a sex object makes me feel so privileged. I am so grateful for the privilege of waking up to a random man in my bed. I am so grateful for the privilege of men on Tinder going "let's fuuuck" when I stated on my profile I only want something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:02 AM
2

Injustices to women are (disproportionally compared to male cases) date rape. What exclusively male injustice compares to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:58 AM
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All I want from a man is to not be a dick (as in, emotionally or physically abuse me) or force me to do things that I don't want to do (aka forcing me into sex, or even smaller things like kissing) I myself make sure I'm not a dick to men or force them into things they don't want to do either. So I think it's pretty balanced. Just don't abuse me. I won't abuse you. That's really my only criteria. Now, I do like taller men but it's just a preference. I had a massive crush on a shorter guy this ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:46 AM
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Would you call this coercion? I was 16 and he was 18. He asked me if we could chill at his house and I asserted several times that I couldn't because I didn't know him that well. After our first date which actually went well, he asked if we could cuddle and I said "No. I just don't think I'm comfortable with that." He said in response "Okay, but cuddling makes my back better." I thought he got it, and then he asked again. I said "No, I'm not ready." Flash forward to our second date he gets even …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:28 AM
0

You're not exactly going your own way if all you do is talk about women.
/r/MGTOW20/10/20 08:54 PM
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”Feminists” is a generalization. There is more than one type of feminist. If you want people to start taking your anti-feminism seriously do your research onwhich kind feminists don’t want selective service.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 07:58 PM
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Yes, but it’s not fair to refer to feminism as if it is all radical. Please say ”radical feminists” Just ”feminists” is a generalization.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 07:56 PM
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Which exact kind of feminists attacked those men’s rights meetings? You know there is more than one kind, right?
/r/MensRights18/10/20 07:51 PM
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I’m just saying the same false thing about MRA that they say about feminism.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 07:49 PM
0

Then it’s just the same. Feminism as a whole wants equal treatment for women.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 07:47 PM
2

Intersectional feminists despise the sexism and extremism of radical feminists.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 07:33 PM
-1

Incel is not a virgin shaming term. It’s a misogyny shaming term.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 06:06 PM
1

So men being virgin shamed is more important than women being slut shamed? I think both are equally important and both need to be addressed.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 05:51 PM
0

You do realize that benevolent sexism such as ”we’re just protecting women because their ovaries are fragile” is will sexism?
/r/MensRights18/10/20 05:50 PM
1

Are you going to address my third point?
/r/MensRights18/10/20 05:33 PM
-1

How about the right to have sex without being judged as promiscuous or a whore (men are called whores too but mostly being a ”manwhore” is seen as an accomplishment while women are seen as morally dubious). Or the right to not have children without intense scrutiny? Or the fact there are entire diseases that only affect women that doctors don’t know exist yet because male is the standard they use for all research and most studies are still done on just males? Or the fact teenage girls in public …
/r/MensRights18/10/20 05:17 PM
0

Do you also acknowledge, though, that women lack social rights that men do have?
/r/MensRights18/10/20 05:11 PM
0

What’s your plan if men take advantage of that right and there’s a whole epidemic of single moms and bastards because no man wants to stay? Everything has a consequence.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 04:53 PM
1

Why should it be the man’s choice what a woman does with her body? She’s the one who will have to go through all the physical pain of delivering it.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 04:42 PM
0

Feminism is not a monolith. You cannot refer to it as ”their”. There are 4 different types of feminists.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 04:39 PM
-12

Women equal to men is the same as that.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 04:25 PM
2

I know.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 04:17 PM
-22

Feminism is not a movement for female supremacy. It is a movement to make women be seen as equals to men. Equal to men doesn't mean superior.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 04:03 PM
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But ya'll do hate feminism and want a more male centered society.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 02:22 PM
2

The cop didn’t believe he was raped.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 05:14 AM
2

Fine no gender needs to take a job they don’t want. But both genders are socially pressured into taking jobs that best fits the gender role society assigns to them. In order to fix this problem, we must crush those gender roles and leave them in bloody shambles.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 04:01 AM
1

These are all correct except for you citing that the article said ”men’s equal treatment of women is perceived as sexism”. The article says nothing of the short. It simply shows the association between BS (benevolent sexism) and HS (hostile sexism).
/r/MensRights18/10/20 03:45 AM
0

Or they. Do you like that better.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 11:25 PM
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Also, cops are notoriously shitty at believing women too. Cops believe rape is by a male stranger in an alley. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2019/05/23/us/rape-victims-kits-police-departments.amp.html
/r/MensRights17/10/20 11:09 PM
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I am so sorry this happened to you. Both the prostitute and the cop should be in jail. We need to spread awareness, especially to cops, that male sexual assault is real.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 09:48 PM
-12

There is support for your movement too. You just cherrypick who doesn't so we can win the oppression olympics.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 09:09 PM
-12

Men didn't give a fuck about feminists either so we had to create it. How about that?
/r/MensRights17/10/20 08:07 PM
-5

So there’s a conspiracy causing men to take dangerous jobs?
/r/MensRights17/10/20 05:30 PM
-4

Other than construction work there’s engineering, being a lawyer, being a doctor, being, being a professor, being a researcher....hell a man can even join a more women-dominated job like teaching or SLP if they want. There are more jobs out there than steel work. If you don’t want to die, take them.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 05:20 PM
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Feminists do not do double duty as men’s rights activists. You can do that yourself. If men don’t want to die, they shouldn’t choose dangerous jobs.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 05:08 PM
2

Men want attractive women too.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 04:38 PM
1

I asked you if you were saying stealthing isn’t reproductive coercion and you responded by putting words in my mouth.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 09:08 AM
1

You do the same with feminist posts. And I am NOT radical.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 04:55 AM
-5

You literally acted like no woman's rights issues still exist.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 04:44 AM
-1

I am not radical and I do not hate men.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 04:43 AM
-8

You know which ones.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 02:58 AM
1

Women who fought for the right to vote were put in jail.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 12:36 AM
1

I'm not saying that feminism addresses men's issues. I'm asking why men's rights expects it to and calls it gynocentric when they don't exactly address women's issues either and yet no one calls the men's rights movements androcentric? Why are men's rights clubs allowed to complain about feminism for not focusing on men?
/r/MensRights17/10/20 12:17 AM
1

It doesn't matter because men's rights are always more important when it comes to this sub. I see that feminism is gynocentric for not talking about men's issues but I don't exactly see this sub talking about women's issues either and it's not being called "androcentric."
/r/MensRights17/10/20 12:03 AM
1

No I’m talking about men purposefully removing the condom during sex after the woman tells them they need to keep it on.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 08:06 PM
0

I am a woman and I don’t see rape accusations as a tool for attention. I fear rape more than anything.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 07:15 PM
3

That is definitely rooted in truth and not based off one personal experience at all.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 07:00 PM
2

No. Liberal feminists think women are responsible for fighting discrimination while radfems blame society.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:46 PM
14

The number of false rape accusations is based off judicial rulings and doesn’t include someone lying to their family they were raped.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:23 PM
2

Do you also agree that women shouldn’t be told how not to be raped?
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:16 PM
1

I just feel like the posts here identify women as feminist when they are simply sexist pigs.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:39 PM
2

Please don’t think this woman is a feminist. Imprisoning all men is not what feminism stands for.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:19 PM
1

But when us feminists get mad about MRAs telling them men get raped too it’s not because we don’t think male rape exists or that we want to sweep it under the rug. It’s because often MRAs bring that up on personal posts about sexual assault, drawing attention from the victim who needs support to them.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:13 PM
-1

Giving a name is not sexual abuse, regardless of the gender.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:02 PM
1

So you’re saying stealthing is not a form of reproductive coercion?
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:00 PM
2

I am not a radical feminist. I am a liberal feminist.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 04:56 PM
0

I never said anyone has the right to preferentiak treatment.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:47 AM
2

Nothing is tax exempt. Except newspapers, school supplies (under 100), and sales to or by Native Americans.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:43 AM
-1

Okay. You don’t know me. But okay.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:37 AM
1

Exactly. Tampons are one of the items that could be tax-exempt but aren’t because they are classified as a ”luxury item”. It’s really not a luxury to have periods.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:35 AM
1

"Tampon tax" is a popular term used to call attention to tampons, and other feminine hygiene products, being subject to value-added tax or sales tax, unlike the tax exemption status granted to other products considered basic necessities
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:08 AM
6

Who are these people giving you weird looks just for being a dad?
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:05 AM
-1

approximately 8.6% (or an estimated 10.3 million) of women in the United States reported ever having an intimate partner who tried to get them pregnant when they did not want to, or refused to use a condom, with 4.8% having had an intimate partner who tried to get them pregnant when they did not want to, and 6.7% having had an intimate partner who refused to wear a condom; approximately 10.4% (or an estimated 11.7 million) of men in the United States reported ever having an intimate partner who …
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:02 AM
1

Because I think there is something deeply misogynistic about telling me that feminism, the system that gave me the right to vote, is bad for me.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:47 AM
3

Well for one I'm taxed for pads and tampons even though it's not my choice to have a period. There are 32 countries where if I was married and wanted to get a pasport I've have to ask my husband first. If I lived in Israel and I was married, I have to ask my husband's permissions to divorce. I could go on and on about the rights some women still do not have.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:45 AM
1

To contribute a woman's perspective. And to ensure that both feminists and MRAs are working towards equality and not superiority.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:36 AM
0

Throw her stuff in a trash dump and tell her that if she still wants her stuff she can go there.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:02 AM
4

Can you give me a link to the study done in the Obama Administration?
/r/MensRights16/10/20 04:43 AM
0

I was told that I can’t even refer to myself as a woman. I have to refer to myself as ”female”. You claim to care about women, but you allow anti-female rhetoric.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 04:11 AM
-2

Affirmative action (more women get into schools) Rape accusations (if I’m raped the current model of guilty until proven innocent favors me, the accuser)
/r/MensRights16/10/20 03:58 AM
7

I will. I want men and women to have equal rights. No gender has superiority over the other.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 03:57 AM
2

I’m saying the post generalizes conservatives.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 03:50 AM
-1

What would be ”arguing in good faith”. I simply disagree with some of the beliefs you hold.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 03:35 AM
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I’m down with that. I didn’t even know that was a right women had.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 03:19 AM
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What are you gonna do if I don’t delete it? Dox me? Insult my appearance? I’m an ugly fat landwhale with a bad eye area chubby cheeks and double chin. I look like Sloth from the Goonies and Sid from Ice Age had a baby. I look like I have fetal alcohol syndrome. My face is shaped like an egg. There’s nothing you can say that I haven’t been told before. I’ve been compared to a pig, a cow, a frog, a whale, a bird, a Moomin, a potato, and so, so much more so bring it on bitch.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 02:25 AM
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So instead of rebutting my argument you make a dig at my appearance and post history?
/r/MensRights16/10/20 02:15 AM
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So, in other words, shut up and look pretty? Look, not every man wants to oppress me. That is true. But I’ve had so many experiences where men crossed my boundaries that I also need a support system. And feminism is that for me as men’s rights is for you.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 02:01 AM
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As a woman, how would you prefer I go about my rights. What topics am I allowed to talk about?
/r/MensRights16/10/20 01:37 AM
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Can you tell me exactly how Hillary Clinton was less competent than Trump?
/r/MensRights16/10/20 01:25 AM
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Does the same "sex starved" justification also apply to women who can't get sex. Are women also allowed to cheat if their partner won't put out? I personally think that expecting someone to have sex with you whenever you want and not when you feel comfortable is toxic. Women don't "sex starve" men and men do not ”sex starve” women. We get nervous, or it hurts when we do it, or we're just simply not in the mood.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 10:31 PM
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What is your opinion on that article?
/r/MensRights15/10/20 10:13 PM
1

In what case has rape ever been just a "shitty evening".
/r/MensRights15/10/20 09:16 PM
3

Context?
/r/MensRights15/10/20 08:27 PM
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Dating apps also aren't your only option. You can find people with similar interests as you and build a romance from there.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 07:57 PM
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That is generalizing.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 07:21 PM
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She could've meant that in a negative sense.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 07:06 PM
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But how do you know what the texts from her said? You're assuming that the texts she sent after positively affirmed the tea. What if they said the same thing she said to her family?
/r/MensRights15/10/20 06:52 PM
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Okay, let me use the tea analogy, You told me over text you like tea and we texted back and forth about tea. I meet you in person and as I'm hanging out with you I ask if you want tea. You've decided you don't want tea, not this instant, maybe you just want water this time (to make out). But I shove it down your throat anyway. You tell your family I shoved tea down your throat. But you wanted that tea. You said over text you wanted that tea. No one can ever change their mind about tea. You false…
/r/MensRights15/10/20 06:37 PM
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”According to the information supplied, she is most likely a liar." The information you got is ancedotes and text messages (which again, cannot be used as evidence she consented to sex). I would assume it was true because let's be honest, false rape accusations aren't as common as you think.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 06:24 PM
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I won’t let you gaslight me. I can plainly see with my own eyes that people are assuming the woman’s guilt. They are taking his side over hers even though he could very well be guilty. You accused her of falsely accusing him. It’s fucked up that you care more about defending a man’s reputation than the well being of a woman. You don’t relate to being told all your life to never let your guard down. You don’t relate to your friends and family telling you about their assault and that they never go…
/r/MensRights15/10/20 06:07 PM
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Fine. Not the entirety. The majority of this thread assumes her guilt. Including you. Also ADHD is not a mental illness and it has nothing to do with my perceptions of sex.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 05:09 PM
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So being asexual and socially anxious makes me mentally ill? Ooookay. I’m not speaking legally. I’m asking why he is automatically innocent while the entirety of this thread assumes she’s guilty. Why not just assume both are innocent?
/r/MensRights15/10/20 04:58 PM
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I'm not a troll. I just don't get why innocent until proven guilty doesn't also apply to the girl?
/r/MensRights15/10/20 04:46 PM
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That's your opinion.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 04:35 PM
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Even if she does agree to something in texts that doesn't necessarily translate to sexual consent. Consent isn't a one time thing. It must be two things-continious and enthusiastic.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 08:47 AM
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Sexting isn't proof of consent.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 08:34 AM
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What will you do if it turns out he actually did rape her?
/r/MensRights15/10/20 06:16 AM
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I guess you haven't heard of a fleshlight before, have you?
/r/MensRights15/10/20 02:48 AM
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If there is no patriarchy then why do men keep using us like we're property?
/r/MensRights15/10/20 02:27 AM
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