PurpleTacoTuesday Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	STBX Wife already deleting our pictures on her Social Media Yeah save any of those photos and assume she deletes her entire account. Find hobbies. Work out. Make friends. You’ll forget all about her.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/22 06:47 AM
1	“Tainted” by your ex Stop talking about your divorce to people you’re dating. If you are talking shit about your ex, then you probably shouldn’t be dating right now. Get some damn control of your emotions before venturing off into the world.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/22 06:23 AM
1	Ex’s family is buying her a house. Is there anyway this can be accounted for when calculating child support payments? I’m in MA. You should probably sell the family home so that you aren’t living paycheck to paycheck.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/22 06:27 AM
4	How do I tell my wife I’m leaving? Having gone through some bullshit… I love seeing posts like this. Detailed and defensive.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/22 06:17 AM
1	Buy Out HELOC	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/22 06:10 AM
1	[WA] Violations of court ordered behaviors and limits - Serious or slap on the wrist? Literally stop talking to her unless the words are necessary. “Coming to pickup” “Coming to dropoff” “Is school still XYZ?” Nothing else! Parent alienation is definitely a thing, and you should tell your lawyer if you have proof of that, and they can write a letter to get your STBXW to sit the fuck down.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/22 06:25 AM
2	Stop working before Divorce. Better to get your support establish and go on to have the best earning years of your life. Make more money. Enjoy life more. Taking a shit job so that you don’t have child support, but then you have no money…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/22 07:39 PM
1	Is your work history part of the divorce process??? It’s weird, if you two are still talking. I was not talking to my ex during our divorce and all communication went through lawyers. They definitely asked for every possible detail about my employment history.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/22 06:14 AM
3	How to get a Fair parenting schedule? Switch to 50/50. 2/2/5	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/22 06:59 PM
1	Feel like dating will be a challenge… Tell yourself “I’m not thinking about this” and go to the gym. You will be just fine, I promise. Plenty of time to find a new lady that wants to have more kids. Not drinking is more and more common. Again, just to workout and ignore the dating thoughts until you’re thoroughly divorced.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/22 05:57 AM
1	What's it like walking away from your kids? That’s a lazy solution. If you want 50/50 then show it.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/22 06:03 AM
7	Vehicles Yes. Make a spreadsheet, every row is an asset. Make columns for each of you, and start putting assets into your columns. Make a running total in bottom to see the total assets vs divided, and who gets what…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/22 01:16 PM
3	Veterans VA loan If she cannot afford to pay the mortgage after buying you out, then she cannot keep the house. If you cannot afford to pay the mortgage after buying her out when you cannot keep the house. For either of you to go buy a new home you’ll have to be completely off of the title and mortgage for this first home. Otherwise your loan financing will look at all the numbers from this first home. Yes she would have to refinance into a new loan and she would have to qualify for that new loan.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/22 12:38 PM
2	Should my wife keep my name if she wants to divorce me? Brother, just move on. Change your name back as soon as you can.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/22 01:54 PM
1	I was served last week and just hired a lawyer. How long does this process take if you just stay in mediation? Mine took 13-months and still settled in mediation. Lot of bullshit can happen to make sure mediation goes their way. Obviously it can be much quicker/easier and everything varies by state.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/22 01:35 PM
2	Divorce with a one boy, do you get sense of freedom once divorce is finalized? Yes of course. That’s the point of divorce. You’re free to spend time with your child however you like. Then you’re free to spend your own time however you want.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/22 04:51 AM
1	When I should I report cheater to HR? Your HR won’t give two shits about this affair. Just move on man.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/22 04:40 AM
2	I need help I went to a coding bootcamp at 30 years old with zero prior experience. Now I work remote making $200k/year.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/22 03:08 AM
1	taking care of the kids Split the cost proportionally based on income. She made 30 K last year. If you make 300 K in a year. Then she would pay 10% of costs and you would pay 90% of costs. On another note, if she’s not asking for alimony then you should pay whatever she wants in child support and run.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/22 10:52 PM
1	Go now or wait? Your problem is that custody could go her way entirely, and you’ll be paying a lot more child support and maintenance than if she had some real income.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 05:43 AM