PurpleTrollaway975 Archive

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1	CMV: Aging means committment is based on false advertising Then see above. Just use hookers. Normal dating is not sustainable if you want young hot girls as you get older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 01:31 PM
1	CMV: Aging means committment is based on false advertising But the hot partner wants a hot partner too. If you expect her to not age while you do age... that's not how time works. If you expect to trade in for younger hotter models as you keep getting older, the women will be less willing unless for $$. BB, sugar dating, or hookers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 01:05 PM
1	CMV: Aging means committment is based on false advertising If a man only likes sex and doesn't like women's company, intimacy, companionship, or any of that... why the fuck is he in the dating market? Just use hookers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 12:45 PM
1	What exactly forms a man into a "natural" ignoring uncontrollable genetics and circumstances? This is a major extreme of older brother / younger brother dynamics. Older sibilings tend to be nerdier while younger sibilings tend to be more social, benefiting indirectly from social experiences of older sibilings. What do you think you did wrong? What would you do differently if you could change things? Is there anything you want to try to change now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 10:59 PM
1	4 Attractive Variables for Men - PLZ MAKE YOUR ANSWERS SUPER SIMPLE FOR OVERTHINKING PPD MEN This and the overall OP question are pointless. Neurotypical women do not systematize the reasons for their attraction. It's a binary reaction, either YES or NO. They don't stop to think about why. Worse, your terms are subjective to interpretation. You'd be better off giving them examples of different men and seeing which they feel attraction to. Since their reaction depends on things you can't convey well in text, this experiment is futile on Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 02:27 AM
1	Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal more That's not fundamental to the male condition. It's a modern social construct. Parents and teachers have greatly lowered their expectations of boys, so there's less motivating them to grow. Men do respond to expectations from other men that have nothing to do with sex (strict fathers, coaches, military leaders). However these influences are sorely lacking for modern boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 01:14 AM
1	What exactly forms a man into a "natural" ignoring uncontrollable genetics and circumstances? Strongly encourage the child to find some sport he likes. Not everyone wants to play football. But there are many options to choose from: team sports, racket sports, martial arts, running, gymnastics, dance, obscure track and field events. Find a niche he likes. Work at it. Practice. Build work ethic, skill, and mastery. All of that will make him more physically and mentally attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 12:16 AM
1	Are you all from countries where women dont go to college or work and.. Every woman I've dated (including current partner) had her own career and financial means. That's the norm here. There are some RP men from countries like Brazil. Others are in the US but want tradcon wives, then get upset that divorce pays SAHM for their labor. Yet more are probably incels who base their opinions off online rhetoric not real experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 12:22 AM
1	Redpillers are right about how women have higher standards than men. However, they're wrong when they say that's because women are inherently shallow. Women aren't shallow, they have higher standards due to other reasons I fully agree you shouldn't settle now and should keep all your standards as long as they suit you. I'm just saying it's hard to predict what future you will want, for anyone of any gender. We set 10 year goals, but a lot changes in that time. 32 is 12 years later. Think about what you were doing 12 years ago at age 8. How well would that small child know what you want today? You're still young, growing, and finding yourself. A lot changes. There's a big gap between lowering standards to have "j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 10:11 PM
1	Redpillers are right about how women have higher standards than men. However, they're wrong when they say that's because women are inherently shallow. Women aren't shallow, they have higher standards due to other reasons At your age, some friends wanted to revel in hedonism and die in a blaze of glory before 40. Most planned to never have kids. Half of those who said "never" are now married with kids, including some women who planned to OD on drugs before now. Some said they'd kill themselves before ever working a desk job, now working desk jobs. Some made pacts to desperation marry a friend by 30 or 40 if they couldn't find anyone - didn't even stay friends with that person 2 more years and definitely did not m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 09:45 PM
1	Redpillers are right about how women have higher standards than men. However, they're wrong when they say that's because women are inherently shallow. Women aren't shallow, they have higher standards due to other reasons Oh ok, that adds a lot of context to your position. Yeah, at 20 nobody can even think about settling and everyone wants only the hottest they can get. You're still growing and figuring out your life. At that age you have abundant dating options and can (and SHOULD) be as picky as you want. Hell, at that age most people I knew just wanted to revel in hedonism and die young in a blaze of glory. Many feel differently by 30-35 though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 09:36 PM
1	Redpillers are right about how women have higher standards than men. However, they're wrong when they say that's because women are inherently shallow. Women aren't shallow, they have higher standards due to other reasons How old are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 09:30 PM
1	Redpillers are right about how women have higher standards than men. However, they're wrong when they say that's because women are inherently shallow. Women aren't shallow, they have higher standards due to other reasons I'm picky about women too. Nothing wrong with being picky - IF you're able to get what you want. What often happens is many women pursue attractive higher status men, and those men have their fun but won't settle with her. If you're able to actually find, marry and keep the kind of guy you aspire to have, all the more power to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 08:18 PM
1	Disgust toward average men who see sex-workers has more to do with their social status than genuine morality concerns While this is true overall, the scrawny nerd seeing a hooker is NOT improving himself, success, growth, or positive. For the high-status guys it's treated as a forgivable sin, like a drug addiction (which many high status people have), but still not seen as some kind of growth activity. Why do women mock "inferior" men? The same reason they mock inferior women (which you may not see if you're a low-status male not around women much). Women are far more oriented towards social status and social h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 05:27 PM
1	What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers? No, he killed himself because the wife getting the house kids & money made him FEEL bad. He didn't know how to cope with those FEELINGS, adapt to change, and still live a happy life on his own. Therapy. People go through much worse and don't kill themselves. It's not the objective situation, but that he can't cope with his feelings over it. Therapy. A lot of those guys also depended on the wife to cook and clean and can't take care of themselves, so their quality of life goes to shit, contributi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 09:00 PM
1	Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number? Yeah, I'm just trying to understand what was enough to motivate approaching for a relationship. Just really hot, like 10/10, and most guys you met weren't that good looking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 08:12 PM
1	What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers? Most married men are completely out of shape compared to unmarried men. That may be true for married 30-40 year olds who let themselves go vs single 30-40 trying hard to slay on dating apps (ignoring the 50%+ singles who are too out of shape to get dates). Later in life that changes. There aren't many single, fit old men. There are plenty of lonely old men who just let themselves go. Perhaps that could change if more men learn to properly cook, clean, take care of themselves, manage emotions, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 08:07 PM
1	Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number? Oh, I see. So the social media was for stalking/vetting more than exchanging info to set up a date like exchanging a number would be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 06:36 PM
1	Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number? How did you know they were someone you wanted a serious relationship with knowing basically nothing about them? That's why I asked if it was just because you wanted to fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 06:33 PM
1	Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number? How short? Less than 2 minutes, literally just "hey I think you're cute... a few sentences.. can I have your IG?" Or like a 5-10 minute exchange where you flirt and get to know each other a bit, hit it off, and then exchange info?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:49 PM
1	What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers? Married men live longer than unmarried men. That's not newlyweds, that's old people married 40+ years. Most wives overall improve the man's physical health and quality of life (cooking, cleaning, healthier diet and habits, taking care of him when he gets sick). Children, family pressure... shit you're the one thinking about young people. What about cancer treatments and shitting into a bed pan? Most men don't have emotional support outside their wife or female friends. Lonely men commit suicide …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:42 PM
1	Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number? Without any dialogue? Why did you want their social media? I've had women approach me, have dialogue, flirt, and then give out info. I've done that back too. But I've never approached a woman and immediately asked for # without dialogue either. Seems weird, and not a "male" thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:14 PM