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Aaron Pierre sure has something going for himself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:47 PM
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You must be the exception then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:39 PM
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The only thing making my life hard is the job market. I really do look forward to dying alone nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:32 PM
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It definitely begins to be suspicious when all the female attention you get is comphet-driven in some form
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:59 PM
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Easy to say that when you're not dealing with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:51 PM
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They should stop going for men they're not into. I deserve better than women who're only with me due to comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:34 PM
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For starters, it only began showing up once they'd gotten to know me for a while. They were into an idea of me as a vessel for their own "heterosexuality," that I was a nice enough of a guy to justify their performance. I've also gotten some attention from men (mostly DMs from strangers who want my dick pics), and it's obvious they're not trying to justify anything to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:33 PM
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Do you know where can I buy some heroin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:27 PM
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I too would rather have women be straight (or bi) as their default. But that's not reality, and all we can do is have societal expectations conform to who people generally are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:26 PM
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Ace women are valid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:24 PM
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Uh-huh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:24 PM
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But I do get some interest. I wish it wasn't performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:24 PM
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Even chads will mostly get only performative attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:11 PM
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Discernment that you're not into men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:07 PM
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Women not being attracted to individual men, or even most men, doesn’t mean that they are attracted to women True. Ace women are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:40 PM
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My sister is 22. I'm still waiting for her to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:34 PM
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This just in: comphet was never real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:26 PM
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Still zero arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:20 PM
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The entire post was about that, but you only answered when it became explicit that the help in question was having sex. Why would it be worse than any other kind of help, for the issue in question?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:19 PM
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Bi-identified women only tend to settle down with men due to comphet, not attraction. Moreover, the standards you mention need to be examined. More often than not, they'll boil down to having a successful and fit (AKA a high status man) who feels emotionally bonded to them. The attraction is not to the man in question. Women are not chadsexual. They are attracted to heterosexuality itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:17 PM
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So you have no arguments then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:08 PM
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It isn't shaming biology when female heterosexuality is as rare as it is. Moreover, since you admit that the population is too high, it would be a net positive to engineer our societal pressures to be in accordance to the majority demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:07 PM
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Because I'm addressing issues regarding the imbalances created by comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:00 PM
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When did I say any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:59 PM
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When did I say any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:55 PM
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Having high standards is not the same as being performative
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:55 PM
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What argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:49 PM
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Wonder why they'd be. Men get fucking hate crimed for being gay and they're not known for being selective. Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:49 PM
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women felt pressured to experiment with women lmao. Next time they'll say arachnophobes feel pressured to never be around spiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:47 PM
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Yes, this view is solidly grounded on the work of Adrienne Rich and Sheila Jeffreys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:46 PM
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go be gay and brave I'll be waiting for when reverse conversion therapy becomes a thing for that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:45 PM
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Maybe lying about it (at least when your actual sexuality itself isn't stigmatised) should
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:44 PM
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That's an easy conclusion when you're not the one noticing that the gender that is supposedly into you is only LARPing attraction. Even for chads, the majority of female attention is performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:43 PM
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Why would I want to watch sex I'm not a part of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:41 PM
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No, women should be free to be into each other without anyone batting an eye
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:39 PM
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How do I get you to think I'm a loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 06:55 PM
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Then the fuck is the actual sense meant to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:44 PM
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How would it be any different from any other kind of help? I really don't think women owe men anything, but it's weird to be so laser focused only when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:37 PM
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Comphet really be coming out in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:57 PM
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They rarely ever did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:11 PM
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Bullshit. Men invented looksmaxxing, not women. This is for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:53 PM
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Predation is when men are interested in women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:52 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:56 AM
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I've just come to terms with the fact that finding a woman who'll actually be into you is incredibly out of reach. Even for chads it is. So it's better to be alone than with a woman who'll only stay around because of comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:51 AM
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That's because it is losing. Having love be the whole selling point of your relationship is a sure ticket to a life of misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:36 PM
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Sure. Women who are not into men in the first place and are only looking for a simp should just drop off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:30 PM
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Cool how you think of men with no self respect as good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:20 PM
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You're not the CEO of self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:16 PM
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Fine. Advanced self respect is being picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:11 PM
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Many would argue the Earth is flat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:10 PM
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TIL basic self respect is being picky
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:46 PM
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The fuck? I still have to work 45 hours a week. On some previous jobs it was 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:52 PM
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That being said, there are also many women whose genuine goal is to find the RIGHT man they'll be happy with. Sad. Comphet really is everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:41 PM
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No, the kind of men you talk about is labeled a misogynist who pumps and dumps women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:11 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:08 PM
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No. I've never been one to care about how socially acceptable my sexuality is. Though I have to agree it is generally not seen as such. I recall how everything in video games used to be called male gaze 10 years ago. This is one of the few aspects where I think things have gotten better society-wise regarding sex positivity. Female fanservice in media has become a lot more common in recent years. It definitely is quite interesting how most of the social media accounts posting this kind of conten…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:21 AM
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Yellow pill just means that women are not into men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:19 PM
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And neither are women. Some are into women. Others just want men to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:06 PM
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O stromgly doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:57 PM
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No; makeup is how women drive men away
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:19 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compulsory_heterosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:44 PM
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I dunno, maybe she just got horny and felt like having sex. I have a massive respect for the gay community for having created Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:25 PM
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Either way, if I only got there for being a nice guy, it wasn't worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:22 PM
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My dick, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:16 PM
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The problem is that being with a woman who chooses you because you were a nice guy is a sure ticket to misery
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:09 PM
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That doesn't mean she's into him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:20 PM
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they can and do have genuine relationships where their partner is actually attracted to them They theoretically can, but expecting women to be attracted to the men they partner up with is too tall of an order. No pun intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:09 PM
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This is because this is the gender flipped version of the narrative women have been fed by feminism. They have learnt that it's OK to be complacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:06 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:55 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:54 PM
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So any time a woman dates a short man she’s secretly not attracted to him? Most of the time. Same for tall men. It's not women's fault to not be into men. I'm not into men either, but at least I'm honest about it. ETA: I'm disturbed by your last sentence. Do you believe women owe love to men they're not into in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:51 PM
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So comphet is fake, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:50 PM
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Are their partners actually into them? It's probably comphet (not that this doesn't happen to chads too).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:39 PM
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History is full of men doing great things. This isn't because we aren't inherently superior, but because we are incentivised to be. My biggest gripe with feminism, as opposed to red pill content, is how it demands nothing of women. It's all about what women deserve, but nothing about what standards they should be held to. I really wish there was some form of content pushing to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:35 PM
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being fat as a women is actually hard True. It's almost as bad as being fit as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:27 PM
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If they're hot and well off, they'll manage to get a woman who's not really into him but can't do any better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:51 AM
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Based. If it weren't for hypergamy pushing men to improve, we'd never have adopted agriculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:24 AM
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I never said she had to be into other women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:10 PM
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Probably autogynephilic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:58 PM
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Then you should stop LARPing heterosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:25 PM
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Looking forward to it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:23 PM
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All men are 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:22 PM
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If they aren't going to change anything, then they should actually not complain about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:44 AM
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Then you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:55 PM
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Her argument wasn't about being turned off by politics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:43 PM
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Then what even is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:35 PM
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Ok, how does that make me liable for anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:23 PM
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I'm pretty sure stimulating the clit is meant to be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:16 PM
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Sure. I've had plenty of fun by myself already.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:17 PM
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Huh, MY personal experiences say that you totally can survive a bus crashing you at smth like 40 km/h. Guess I should try that again!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:35 PM
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Then don't have it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:30 PM
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…was there a game?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:26 PM
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So you really do identify as cattle. God, therians have exploded in popularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:16 PM
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most men won't wanna stop at giving oral You got a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:06 PM
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So you could just have that, but that would mean dropping the excuse you already have as to why you're not having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:00 PM
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Good thing you're honest about treating sex like a reward
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:48 PM
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I was pretty sure the main complaint women had was not enough oral
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:47 PM
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Are you even aware not all forms of sex lead to pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:21 PM
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I believe being a straight woman should be something different from a closeted ace or lesbian. But your model has them act exactly the same. Let's assume that there has been little continuity in the ao3 userbase. The old female userbase has been mildly replaced, now accounting for less than half of users (and that is, assuming no women have joined). How does that explain why trans men are so overrepresented, but not trans women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:45 PM
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I wasn't asking about what lesbians do. My point is that men are significantly more likely to be the target of desire from other men than from women, despite only a minority of men identifying as gay or bi. So the numbers don't add up if we take straight-identified women at face value. AO3 data really is quite interesting once you compare centreoftheselights' two datasets. Cis women, in 2024, are not overrepresented among ao3 users (and trans women even less so). What has happened since 2013 is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:20 PM
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You're right. It's not like men have ever been hate crimed for having sex with men. They have so much sex with each other because they face literally no consequences! Also, are you being fucking real on the subject of smut? Most of the members at my AO3 author Discord server are men!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:59 PM
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they dont have real standards (beyond physical appearance) when it comes to women You think too much of them. Chopped women get simps all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:27 PM
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societal assumption and pressure that heterosexuality is the default, natural orientation Nah, that's just heteronormativity. Comphet relies on you being socialised to look up to the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:43 PM
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Looks like you don't. Go read the original again and tell me once you understand why it's not describing a general case of heteronormativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:30 PM
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What you described was not comphet. I already explained why it's not the same as heteronormativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:04 PM
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That would require an explanation as to why they rarely ever show any interest before liking who the man is as a person. As chopped as I may be, I'm experienced enough on the subject of female attention to know it has shit to do with them desiring men. I, on the other hand, have gotten more than a handful of male attention, and it's clearly obvious that they actually feel desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:29 PM
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True. They're actually split between aces and lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:19 PM
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It's like violent movies. I don't really like Friday the 13th, but I totally love going on a killing spree sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:17 PM
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Related: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=N8R3egAiEzE&pp=ygURanJlZyBtYWxlIGZyaWVuZHM%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:12 PM
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They are attracted to men and want to fuck the men they find attractive. That's how babies are made, Comphet: allow me to introduce myself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:09 PM
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True, I forgot that one. I also respect myself too much to be an Uncle Tom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:29 AM
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A mix of looks and a lack of free time. But mostly, I'm rarely ever motivated to go out at all. I guess that will likely take care of itself once I'm doing well for myself financially and professionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:25 AM
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Looks like my doxxing and online harassment hobby will come in handy at some point!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:48 PM
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Nothing screams "I have artistic hobbies" like arriving to your date in a clown suit full with make up and a foam nose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:37 PM
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I doubt so. 30s sounds more like it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:50 PM
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Comphet is not the same as heteronormativity. It specifically refers to how women are socialised into looking up to men, and thus will be predisposed to showing interest in men whom they perceive to be superior to them in any meaningful regard. So it's basically the same as hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:10 PM
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