PurposeIsDeclared Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually choose u/low-contact6500, I'd love your attempt at a response to this, if you're going to keep spamming your opinions on this subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 12:53 AM
2	unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually choose You keep listing every type of bad male behavior like it’s all one thing. catcalling, creeps, abuse, relationships… and then wrapping it into “men.” that’s exactly the generalization I’ve been pointing at. You're expecting women to navigate the dating scene by giving every man a year under a microscope, determine his entire personality, and even then only estimate whether he's "good enough" to "give a chance" to. Then five years later only break up if the relationship is completely unbearable. W…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 06:48 PM
1	What is the difference between calling out radical redpillers and radical feminists? "Women can commit crimes in our culture and get away with little to no consequence." Yes, I agree. But these things are equally openly adressed by discourses in law, our culture in general, or Feminism, by now. So, theoretically finally arrived in a society that would judge all ethics-criminals equally by their crime, would Red Pillers accept that this supposed primal nature is irrelevant, and that women can very well love a man for who he is, and devote understanding and trust to him for that r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/14 12:30 AM
1	Who came up with the claim that sexual strategy would be amoral, and how is it supposed to make sense? I read through a good bit of the threads and blog posts when I first discovered the Red Pill. I forgot I had read the thread you liked me to as basic Red Pill knowledge. I thought it was something more neutral, that is why I did not look it up there. The research I did do on reddit only led me to confusion, because a lot of people use the phrase in ways that have nothing to do with what it means [hence the examples in my question]. Thank you for the link. I agree with the message, but I think th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/14 11:01 AM
1	Redpillers, do you have empathy? "[...] good game is manipulation by definition." In the context of this world of yours, where the only reason for sex is that the individual who goes out to seek it wants to have it, and where consequently "game" is what happens to lead to it: Do you really think you have to change someone else in order to make them want to have sex with you? I realise that manipulation is a very broad subject, and does not have to be a bad thing. You have to change opinions that others hold for many good purpos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/14 09:58 AM
1	What is the difference between calling out radical redpillers and radical feminists? When I first responded, I figured I had taken things a bit too far off-topic, but some questions have been left open, and I hope you would not mind answering. "(Their unspoken wishes, not the fake ones they say they want)." I mentioned pretty clearly that I accept the Red Pill view of primal nature. I completely disagree, but I still think I made pretty clear you do not have to point out to me what Red Pill thinks about the female subconscious. I have read about the Red Pill opinion of how women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/14 09:33 AM
0	What is the difference between calling out radical redpillers and radical feminists? Even if you had communicated with less openly animalistic men among your acquaintences, that would not devaluate your examples. So those are okay for your argument. But that is not the problem here. The problem is that you assume that the fact that the people on the Red Pill are venting, driven by some rage, or desperation, would change anything about the faults in their ideologies. The criticism is not aimed at what Red-Pillers say once, but at what they defend. This line of arguments by you an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/14 09:43 PM
0	What is the difference between calling out radical redpillers and radical feminists? "[...]philosophy movement recommending personal changes to best effect a favorable outcome." Your sidebar consists of sermons about irrationality of women, and that men should be better than people dependent on women. That is the ideology that you promote, and then every now and then you throw in the internet-troll's favourite self-motivation/justification-line "be the best you" in order to convince yourselves that would actually be the topic or even purpose of your ideology. But it is not. It i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/14 09:33 PM
2	BP, why shouldn't I go RP? Well, thanks, I am done on this subreddit. If anyone asks me what the Red Pill is about, I will just link them here. =D	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/14 04:42 PM
2	Q4B : "Doesn't matter what they say" - What's implied? What "matters" is a question of your own purposes. Like all questions of values. If you live with the goal of becoming the person with the largest biceps on the planet, it does not matter what anyone thinks. If you live for the sake of making one person happy, then it does not matter what anyone but that one person thinks. If you live for the sake of being successful at night-life flirting, the opinion everyone involved has of you will be relevant. When people give the advice that it would not m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/14 12:36 AM
2	What is Manipulation? If it does not work to tell her about the consequences of her actions, that means she willingly breaks ethical laws. Make the people who interact with her aware of the fact. She theoretically loses protection from unethical behaviour towards her by not abiding these social standards. Practically, that does still not allow anyone living by those rules to break them when dealing with her. She is still put at a disadvantage when you people lose trust towards her. Let other's shortcomings be their o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/14 12:05 AM
1	What is Manipulation? Okay, at that point it would be less of a question about manipulation than one of ethics: Can you break one ethical law justified by how it maintains a multitude of others. But that is only why I would turn the entire approach around: Simply do not change her through manipulation, but openly express the reasons for which you would find her change desirable to her. Then, leave changing to her. I mean, of course you can waste time justifying half-assed unethical solutions to problems as well. But …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/14 03:57 PM
1	I'm 3 months into TRP and this is what I've learned plus a list of grievances and why I think many men join. Story inside. No, that cannot by why you choose TRP, because that is not what your cult is about. The Red Pill is a lifestyle of always having leadership in one's relationship, for the alleged reasons that women would be too emotional to take control for themselves. And because TRP-men have very specific preferences for women who often have no interest in them. Now, what this is not is a system to get past games in flirting. PUA-ing is such a system. Becoming successful in nightlife-sexcapades is not a lifest…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/14 03:52 PM
2	What is Manipulation? At this point you are really only discussing the theory of manipulation as a technique, completely out of this subreddit's context, right? Because I have yet to see a TRP-thread in which manipulation is used as an ethically [ethical rules in this case would be synonymous to basic social rules: Do not do things to others that they do not like - because you would not want to be done to anything of that sort, yourself] justifiable means for the greater good, or "prevent[ing] multitudes of other peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/14 03:33 PM
1	This Place Became Lame They instantly banned me when I asked whether there was any reason why the Red Pill denounces it so ultimately bad to "behave beta" by doing things for women for their sake, rather than for gaining something in return, considering that everyone can choose for themselves what purpose they want to devote their life to. I concluded the ban was supposed to mean that the Red Pill considers "being alpha" the only valid reason to life. I do not understand how that can mean anything to anyone, but hey -…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/14 03:27 PM