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Dude, I see you responding to almost every divorce post about BPD. Spreading awareness on it is a valid pursuit. I personally will choose never to be with someone mentally unstable with the label of "Bi-Polar". Do they deserve love? Of course, we all do. Will I give them my love? Never again. I believe in personal responsibility for one's emotional patterns. I say NO MA'AM!
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/21 07:43 PM
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This is exactly what I am going through. I feel terrible for her. Thinking about her in jail, eating a bologna sandwich.. how can I let my loving wife remain in that situation? But you are clear and unbiased in your assessment.. she is not my wife anymore. We were so in love.. I hate this. Thanks for your reply it really helps.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/21 11:46 PM
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Thank you for this advice. I am alone at the house now worried sick about her, because it is engrained in my mind to worry about her. I see why people end up dropping charges so often. But you are right, I shouldn't. I will talk with my lawyer about the exclusive use motion; she has mentioned it before.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/21 11:38 PM
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It was criminal charges by the state. I called the police after she assaulted me. But I think you are right and something similar will happen.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/21 11:36 PM
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I'm late on this so sorry but.. the way a baby looks can change so much over time. I would be safe and just go ahead and get one for confirmation.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/21 02:55 PM
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I had sex with a chick in college. Totally consensual, her and I were fine around each other afterwards even playing in the jazz band together. 5 months later I get a girlfriend who is also in the band and the chick became jealous. She reported that I raped her to the police and the college and I was told I could not come back the following semester. No trial, nothing. There is no way to win the game. Just don't play.
/r/MGTOW17/05/21 08:19 PM
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Same situation here, man. My wife got pregnant two months into our relationship so I married her out of duty.. big mistake. Found out she was insane. Don't delay until the kid is older. GET OUT NOW. It'll get way worse. Here is what I did and what I would suggest doing: 1) Get a DNA test first. Make sure that kid is yours. I bought one on Amazon that you send off to a lab and it worked. If you see she is not yours, you can alter your plan. 2) Hire a lawyer. Tell him/her you want to pay zero to n…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/21 02:39 PM
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Yep, you gotta GTFO. Because if you stick around trying to make it work you will just end up owing her more in the long run. It may not get you a BMW and fancy house, but a government job/pension will give you stability for your kids and you can save a LOT while living simply. You'll get through all the mess, and so will I!
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/21 07:36 PM
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Yea man it's a good thing you are getting out NOW before it will really be painful. I feel like a babysitter and paycheck for my wife as well. AND she has the bi-polar tendencies.. therapy has helped me get through it. I use GEHA health benefits and an app called MDLIVE to do virtual therapy sessions at no additional cost. I could probably stand it for a few more years while the kids grow up, but the primary reason I am getting out now, other than the fighting, is so that my government benefits …
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/21 07:33 PM
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I am a federal employee currently going through a divorce. I was not told that federal regulations supersede any entitlements my wife will have for my pension. My soon to be ex has a right to ask for half of what I've earned in FERS during out marriage. Here is what my lawyer told me. My ex is entitled to half of my FERS benefits earned during our marriage. so for those first 9 years of your federal employment, your wife can collect a percentage of your pension, assuming your nine years of servi…
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/21 07:05 PM
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My opinion: If she left the burden of fixing that house on you, then it is your choice and only your choice what you do with your money. Invest $1,000 on a bike for your own happiness or to flip the thing, it does not matter what she thinks. If pressure to sell soon isn't high, then I would just invest in my own happiness and live in a house that needs some work.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/21 05:07 PM
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Without hesitation, buy the bike and do not react to her objections afterward. Just shrug them off. It was very unselfish of you to sell your bike to pay bills. Now it is your time.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/21 03:14 PM
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I made the same mistake. My wife is wonderful but I am also in a role that doesn’t suit me. I married her out of duty because I got her pregnant. I had to experience it for myself to realize that it truly is not for me and as you suggested in your reply, love doesn’t always carry the day. It makes me very hopeful and glad to hear your story, my good man. To tie into the OPs topic, I believe a truly good relationship is as rare as a four leaf clover. Everything has to be perfect and both people h…
/r/MGTOW207/03/21 10:17 PM
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I am currently trying to get off the plantation. Were you ever married?
/r/MGTOW207/03/21 04:33 AM
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How long did you stay trapped? Are you getting out?
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/21 03:49 PM
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Thank you. I know I will gain a ton of peace of mind, even if we have to live together for a while after. Just knowing my pension is safe and I am on the road to a new life will keep me going. I am happy for you as well.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/21 04:46 PM
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Pretty sure that's the mom's handwriting too.
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 04:29 PM
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Currently going through the process of getting off the plantation myself so I can retire at 57 with peace. Out of curiosity, how long were you married before you realized you needed to jump ship?
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 03:55 PM
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Neither one of us.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/21 03:12 PM
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She belongs with someone else who will treat her right. And I belong alone.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/21 03:12 PM
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We had two initial discussions and it put my mind at ease. I will ask him about the post-nup, but through my research I have seen that it doesn't mean a thing in my state.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/21 03:05 PM
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Most women aren't smart enough to realize that the higher they elevate themselves, the less available their men are for other women. When you break yourself down, make excuses, and refuse to accept personal responsibility, you make him accessible to anyone he thinks doesn't exist solely as a parasite.
/r/MGTOW19/02/21 05:20 PM
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https://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 07:56 PM
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"All women, whatever age, rank, profession or degree, whether virgins, maids or widows, that shall impose upon, seduce or betray into matrimony any of His Majesty's subjects, by scents, paints, cosmetics, washes, artificial teeth, false hair, iron stave hoops, highheeled shoes, bolstered hips, or padded bosoms shall incur the penalty of the law enforced against witchcraft and like misdemeanors and, upon conviction, that marriage shall stand null and void." —Act of British Parliament—1770
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 06:27 PM
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wow. same exact situation for me.. even the son and then the second accidental son (both adored by me). I'm still stuck and need to get out after this 3 year hellish union.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/21 05:13 PM
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So tragic. My buddy is single and slays on dating apps. I've warned him that it's dangerous. He thinks all he has to worry about is pregnancy or falling in love, but this is a real threat to men. The next day after the chick talks to her friends, she realizes it wasn't consensual and the shitstorm begins. Go monk.
/r/MGTOW16/02/21 04:41 PM
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My house is in my name only, but that means nothing since it was obtained during my marriage. Our kids are 2 and 1, so I would like to stay in the house until they start school and then sell and pay her her share. She has no income. If I have to sell now because we don't agree, that's fine too. I am trying to let go of all emotional attachment, like you say here. I just want to be free and buy a modest home for me and my boys to live in, with peace and without all the BS of a bad marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/21 04:32 PM
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I see this a LOT playing online games. That rare female gamer in the lobby causes simps to go full white knight. Usually the gamer chick is very vocal about her experience in the game and gets someone on the hook to join her party and defend her "honor". I call the BS out every time. The dude usually mutes me while the gamer chick just can't ignore someone who doesn't blindly want to worship her feminine demeanor. Then I become the one getting invites, which I decline. I run into too many partie…
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 04:17 PM
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I was in the Infantry for three years and talking like this to each other is a requirement. There is some beauty in the unspoken rules that govern this method of communicating. The real jerks are the ones who don't recognize these rules.
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 07:51 PM
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Let him go.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/21 03:54 PM
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Don't try to repair the marriage as everyone else always says. Get the hell out. Do it now to minimize the damage. You are looking into divorce, follow your gut. Don't even consider staying for the kid. I don't know what state you're in but I can offer what I am expecting in my state per my lawyer's advice. Judges start to think of granting alimony after about 5-6 years of marriage. Usually 1 year of alimony for every three years of marriage. So, in your case, it would be reasonable to assume yo…
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/21 03:49 PM
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If it were me (which it kind of is because I’m in a similar situation) I would leave her now, before you have to pay her alimony. You aren’t being unreasonable. You are putting food on the table and she is acting entitled to all of it. Hire a lawyer, tell no one, and leave her is my advice. If you do decide to stay, never let her see you acting weak. I suggest looking around at r/marriedredpill if you do stay. You have to be a leader and accept no bullshit if you are going to be happy in the mar…
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/21 05:34 PM
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Just know that in a few years, after focusing on your health and well-being, the tables will turn. She will likely pine for YOU while you are doing fine. When that time comes, just don’t fall back into the trap.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/21 01:13 AM
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Everything is because of me. I am an asshole. I provoke her. I am a total piece of shit in the husband department. She is not to blame for my problems. She deserves better. And so do I. It's like that FFDP song with a twist: "You're better off without me, and I'm better off alone."
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 04:01 PM
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False statement. That doesn't even make sense.. Why would someone advertise for some obscure forum on r/MGTOW? Wouldn't that person choose a better target to cast their net? And if that was my intention, I would create dozens of dummy accounts to upvote that particular post to achieve my desired result. I interrogate people for a living. That is why I consider myself a master manipulator.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:49 PM
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wow thank you for pointing me to that forum. Lot of helpful stuff. I am on my way to freedom!
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:39 PM
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Funny from a distance, but no laughing matter when it is your reality. Don't make the mistake I made. They are unstable yet predictable beings.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:36 PM
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Absolutely not. I plan to get my wedding ring cut in half and placed into a shadow box with the words "Never Again" etched or embroidered. Then I will place it at eye level above the toilet where I piss every single morning. Fuck marriage. Fuck the drama.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:34 PM
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Cynical as all hell. And you are wrong. I will post an update when the situation unfolds.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:32 PM
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Thank you, kind sir.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:31 PM
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I know it must sound silly to most but.. I married the unicorn. I really did. She will consider me even after I have rejected her. She will remain amicable. I've always had this effect on women. I'm not even that handsome.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:30 PM
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I will post an update when I successfully keep my house. Then lurkers can see that it IS possible. Or, the cynicism seen here will prove true. Stay tuned.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:28 PM
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She won't get a lawyer. I married the unicorn, seriously. She is sweet. But fuck women in the butt. They suck. Done with her.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:25 PM
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Thank you, my good man.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:24 PM
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falst DV is my number one concern right now. I stay stoic. Her attacks on me are met with apathy. I will keep my house. I am a master manipulator. I will get her to comply thinking it is in her best interest.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:23 PM
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I regret not doing this when she "attempted to kill herself" the last two times. My chance will come back again though.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:19 PM
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Not going to happen. If anything she'd kill me.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:18 PM
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Yea. Thanks. I know. Obviously. Not helpful. That's how I do shit. I go all in on things. It's a strength and a weakness. Moving on.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 03:16 PM
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The full title of the video he bookmarked was "Busty College Girl Fucked with her Hands Tied behind her back". It's on Pornhub. If anyone was curious. As I was. Nice video. I bookmarked it.
/r/MGTOW213/01/21 09:09 PM
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Only married for two years, so that’s a good thing about getting out now. Not sure what state your in but it sounds like you could avoid alimony and just pay CS, which isn’t too bad. Go for half parenting time and give your kid a stable place to grow and be loved. Others are going to tell you keep going to counseling and work it out.. I disagree with that. You’ve been through plenty of counseling and you aren’t happy. You’re probably feeling just like I am (married 2.5 years with 2 babies) like …
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/21 03:12 PM
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Do not give her the satisfaction of any response. Wash the stuffed animal, and act like you never noticed. Everything a female does is deliberate and manipulative. Remain indifferent.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/21 10:47 AM
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“I did it all for the nookie.”
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/21 03:11 PM
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No matter what, someone always calls someone a whiner when he reaches out to faceless people on Reddit for advice. I believe a man is best alone. That is all. A marriage does not improve the man’s life at all when he is the provider. I made a mistake and I refuse to spend my life paying for it. Fuck marriage and cohabitation with women. It’s not for me. You ate focused on my comment about people not changing.. but we just have differences in interpretation of the word “change”. Of course people …
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/21 03:05 PM
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Really loved this comment. Thank you for it. I think she might be bi-polar and I might be the one with Borderline Personality Disorder. I will likely go the way your friend went and have separate households so the kids don't have to grow up with chaos. I will check out the subreddit and again, I appreciate it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/21 06:02 PM
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Cannot you not get therapy!! This is the most confusing double negative I've ever read.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/21 06:00 PM
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Are you stuck in your marriage? You sound a little bitter.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/21 05:58 PM
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CS for 1.9 decades.. I suppose you could call that decades.. My lawyer has assured me that no judge in my state has ever awarded spousal support in a marriage less than 5 years unless there is some sort of disability involved. This will not be a spousal support case. I am quite informed on the matter.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/21 05:58 PM
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Good advice for sure. Do you have a plan for yourself? It really does eat away at you, I know. Something is telling me staying for the kids is a dumb move.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 11:09 PM
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I mentioned the idea of a nanny about a month ago. She was completely appalled at the thought and accused me of just wanting some woman in the house that I could have around. She accused me of wanting to cheat on her in our own home. Do you see the insanity I am living with? I take your assessment of me taking a self-centered perspective as a positive.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 07:50 PM
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I'm not. People don't change. Her mistrust of me is unjustified and she will never trust the way I do. And I won't be one of those fucks who waste 20 years in a marriage just to lose their pension and everything else.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 04:08 PM
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I got a DNA test done on the first kid, confirmed mine. The second looks just like me. I am certain. She is not cheating. I wish she would. That would justify an immediate departure from the marriage. Plus, she deserves someone who loves her. Post-nups are not recognized in my state.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 04:02 PM
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Let's ask yourself this question, do you love her, do you want to divorce. No to the first question. Yes to the second. It might well be that she's stressed out with the kids and bored if the daily grind, and sees that you have the freedom to come and go, work, haircuts etc. She doesn't have that. It definitely has to do with that. She doesn't even have her license, but she leaves the house more than I do for social/errand reasons. She hasn't taken the initiative to get her license, which I some…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 03:59 PM
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Thinkers planned what muscle built. Be serious for once. You will age. Your body will fail you. All you will have is your mind at that point. What will you be?
/r/askMRP31/12/20 05:52 AM
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Straight as true north. You’re projecting. And assuming too much. Would love five minutes alone with you.
/r/askMRP31/12/20 05:47 AM
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I always wondered how MRP feels about MGTOW. I am really becoming inspired to take on hard mode rather than going the easy route as most MGTOW are. Something about a community that can call you a faggot and it isn’t offensive is therapeutic. Those who are here CHOOSE to be a man rather than fit into society’s roles for men. Truly inspiring.
/r/askMRP31/12/20 03:21 AM
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This suggestion really helped, unlike some of the feedback I have gotten. I have tried this in practice today and there has been calm in the house for once. Seriously, thank you for this.
/r/askMRP31/12/20 03:18 AM
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Believe it or not, some individuals do not fit into the archetype of marriage that your subreddit has deemed reality. I am no troll. Just a freethinking man who had life figured out and lost his way. Physical fitness and mental toughness is important, but it cannot fix all marriages. Especially when married to a suicidal BPD woman as I am. She worships me. My mind and my body. My musical ability. My wit and wisdom.. I just want to be alone. I want to stay together for the kids, but she deserves …
/r/askMRP31/12/20 03:16 AM
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I have my doubts that that is how it actually transpired. Either way, I don’t want to have sex with my wife or any woman.
/r/askMRP31/12/20 03:11 AM
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I want to show my sons to think for themselves. As I am. As you’re likely not. However you affirm that you are in control of your marriage, self, and family, you don’t have anything when married. YOU don’t have it. You are only leading with your wife’s permission. You alter your behavior to please her. It is my belief that no self-aware man should do this. My boys are toddlers. Memory-making age is ahead of them, and when they start to form memories of me, I want it to be of my true self. Not a …
/r/askMRP31/12/20 03:07 AM
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I haven't banged her in 6 months. I don't want to risk another pregnancy. And if she does get pregnant, there will be no doubt that it is not mine.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 10:36 PM
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Alimony will not be required in my state for marriages less than 5 years.
/r/askMRP29/12/20 10:35 PM
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If I stay for too long, my exit won't be very strategic as I will lose a ton more than if I left now.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 10:32 PM
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Saving this one. Thank you. Statistics? Please share.
/r/askMRP29/12/20 10:30 PM
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How does that not make me look weak? She gets to lay into me with insults and I just take it? Serious questions. this is helpful.
/r/askMRP29/12/20 10:29 PM
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Not exactly sure what you are saying. We all could use some encouragement. I am confident that the replies with care and concern will help me, and this one will be ignored by me.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 10:26 PM
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She snoops through all of my things and acts suspicious when I go out to get a haircut. Monitors my location on her find my iPhone app, distrusts me even to go out to the store.
/r/askMRP29/12/20 10:22 PM
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I have many values for myself, including Duty. I believed it was my duty to give my son a shot at having two full time parents. Here on the other side, I realize that may have been a mistake. You know what you sound like, Troll_God? A Troll.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 10:17 PM
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How can I prevent fights with her?
/r/askMRP29/12/20 10:12 PM
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I do. Hence why I included the bit of information of it being obtained during the marriage.
/r/askMRP29/12/20 10:10 PM
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It is hard to resist engaging in her with conflict when she is preventing me from being who I am. She snoops through all of my things and acts suspicious when I go out to get a haircut. Monitors my location on her find my iPhone app, distrusts me even to go down to the basement and get some laundry for fear that I am going to fire up the computer and whack it to some pornog. She's awful, and our fights always start with me sticking up for myself. I don't want to save it. I want out.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 10:08 PM
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Pretty damn happy with myself. Sometimes too much. Just hate living with a woman. No, I do not NEED encouragement from faceless people online, but it helps when you could use a good sounding board to get your thoughts across.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 10:00 PM
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Someone who has been there.. that is what I was hoping for on this thread. Thank you for your encouraging words. I am craving that peace of mind that comes only from GYOW. I had it, I lost it, I will regain it. Do you wish you would have gotten the divorce sooner? Or was the timing right in your case?
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 09:49 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I have thought of staying with her for the kids until they are grown, but there are two problems with that: Our constant fighting will fuck with their mental well-being That means 20 years of assets and retirement is half hers. Fuck that. No, I need to get out now. I can focus on being a great dad with half parenting time. I don't think it is punishing them. I wouldn't be doing this if it wasn't in their best interest. They cannot grow up around parents like us together.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 08:56 PM
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Child support, yes. As for alimony, my lawyer has assured me that this will not be a spousal support case because the duration of our marriage. According to him, in my state, 5 - 6 years is when a judge will start considering alimony. If I stay another year, it will get too close for comfort to the alimony area. I will not stay in this marriage, and I will not go through the regret of letting anymore time pass. Thank you for giving me what I needed. I am not the type of man who just compromises …
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 08:50 PM
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I did for the first one and it was confirmed. The second one looks just like me so I don't doubt he is mine. I have been on MRP, but I don't get the mindset they have. They are all about lifting weights and dominating their wives. I don't want that. I want to drop out of the race, not win it. I thought this sub would be better to post this.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 08:41 PM
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Yes, hence why I referred to myself as "former MGHOW". I am not claiming to be going my own way. I have lost the way, and need to get back, so I can encourage others and show my sons that it is possible to be alone and happy.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 07:14 PM
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I don't recommend advising your friend to hide his assets. It could make him look bad in family court and therefore affect his time with his kids. What I would recommend advising him to do is take out ~$40 cash back every time he gets something at the grocery and stockpile this cash somewhere safe. If the divorce takes a year and he does this 2 times a week, he would have stashed away a couple thousand dollars. And, of course, never marry again.
/r/MGTOW222/12/20 04:17 PM
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Join the Army. Worked for me in the same situation.
/r/MGTOW218/12/20 02:24 PM
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Counseling won't help, follow your gut. Ask yourself if this seems right for you. If not, get out now and forget about what other people think. You will regret not leaving in in 5-7 years when you just can't take it anymore and by that time you have to give up half your assets that would have been obtained and possible alimony. Get out now, go your own way.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/20 02:19 PM
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The answer is mindfulness. Your internal wiring will always be driving you toward reproducing with a worthy mate. That does not make it an advisable path to follow. A lot of things we are wired to crave are not the best thing for us. The mind is a terrible master, but a wonderful servant.
/r/MGTOW215/12/20 03:19 PM
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I don't think the OP wanted external validation in that moment. Some men have higher awareness of empathy for others, even women. That can be a very useful strength. He saw that she was disgusted by his elation and that puzzled him.
/r/MGTOW215/12/20 03:15 PM
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Dude that is sad, but hold onto that memory. Those epiphanies keep you on your own way. I think video games are the most common example. Often women in relationships with men do everything in their power to disrupt and infiltrate gaming sessions. Joy caused by a source other than her from an activity she can't join in on? Not on her watch! Yet the woman will develop a love for Yoga or crochet and the man will encourage and admire it. Why? I think it is their motherly nature that explains this. W…
/r/MGTOW215/12/20 03:03 PM
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I had a unique experience with this. I first attended college in 2006, then I worked a few jobs, spent some time in the military, and returned to college in 2016. In those ten years, the nature of the student body and the professors changed drastically. Cancel culture was rampant. Groupthink was epidemic. The way students emotional needs were prioritized over logic was out of control. Coming from the Infantry, this was quite a culture shock. I consider myself a libertarian. I believe in personal…
/r/MGTOW214/12/20 04:04 PM
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I appreciate the contrary take. I think you have a point. While I feel it was wrong to invade my privacy, it doesn't negate it's impact on her. I thought I could give up my privacy by marrying this woman but it turns out it is harder than I thought, and ultimately something I am not willing to do.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/20 09:26 PM
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The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene.
/r/MGTOW209/12/20 10:08 PM
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I totally agree. I think the time and money put into marriage counseling would much better be used for individual counseling.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/20 04:39 PM
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Hell no it isn't worth it. My buddy slays on Tinder and it is a ticking time bomb. He thinks his only risk is falling in love and marrying one. There are so many more: Pregnancy - not only YOU getting her pregnant, but someone else knocking her up and her deciding it's actually yours. Sure you can prove otherwise, but why put yourself through that? Spermjacking - Crazy, but also known to occur. Stalker - She's never heard no and won't accept it as an answer. False rape accusation - You reject he…
/r/MGTOW209/12/20 04:17 PM
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I definitely want my boys mother to be alive. She is not a bad person and deserves to be happy. She has mental issues for sure. I don't think she is cheating but I wouldn't care if she was. I no longer have sex with her.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/20 02:53 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience. One detail I didn't mention was that the house is in my name only. Since she has no income I think that could work to my advantage. Our kids are so young they won't feel like they are being uprooted, which is why I want to do it sooner rather than later.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/20 02:50 PM
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I appreciate your response. The home is in my name only, I made sure of that when I bought it. I think that might work to my advantage. Also, my wife has no income and I think her dad would try to give her the money to buy me out but he likely does not have it. The main reason I want to keep the house is because I used a vet loan for it with no down payment so my equity is low. I need to stay and build up equity for a few more years before selling. This isn't truly the house I wanted, it's the h…
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/20 02:45 PM
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