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| – | How much does your physique matter with girls in terms of attractiveness and attention?Yeah man I just wanna do whatever it takes and get better at whatever I need to get the most attractive girls possible. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How much does your physique matter with girls in terms of attractiveness and attention?It's not that man, I just like having a large size of responses rather than basing it off one guy's opinion. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 02:17 AM |
| – | How much does your physique matter with girls in terms of attractiveness and attention?Alright, thanks for the advice, could you explain a little more what do you mean by "the work"? | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 01:34 AM |
| – | How much does your physique matter with girls in terms of attractiveness and attention?Oh okay so are you saying if you have a good body it's harder to get girls or would it make things easier? I guess I also need to improve my "game" as well. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 01:15 AM |
| – | How much does your physique matter with girls in terms of attractiveness and attention?Yeah I feel what you're saying 100%. How much do you think it would affect your rating of attractiveness, are girls more intimidated if you're in good shape. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 11:21 PM |
| – | How much does your physique matter with girls in terms of attractiveness and attention?How much would you say it raises your attractiveness? And does it change how you would game girls? | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 11:14 PM |
| – | How much does your physique matter with girls in terms of attractiveness and attention?Would you say it changes game or makes things easier when you're more physically attractive? | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 11:12 PM |
| – | I'm 20 years old and have already given up with girls, is this a bad mindset? I haven't had success so I'm done.Yeah I've pretty much given up on everything not even just girls I have no real drive to do anything. | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 05:01 AM |
| – | I'm 20 years old and have already given up with girls, is this a bad mindset? I haven't had success so I'm done.Do you really think it's that young tho? It probably doesn't help that I'm skinny and scrawny with no real ambition to do much at all. | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 04:22 AM |
| – | I'm 20 years old and have already given up with girls, is this a bad mindset? I haven't had success so I'm done.Nah man it's like I've gotten to a point where I've convinced myself to give up for the rest of my life. I feel like I have no value or even worth going for it in my life. | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 04:00 AM |
| – | Does working out increase a guy's sex drive?If I'm underweight do you think that would be a factor? | /r/seduction | 15/07/17 10:21 PM |
| – | Does working out increase a guy's sex drive?And I could literally try to give myself a boner for a fuckin hour with hand play lol and nothing will happen | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Does working out increase a guy's sex drive?Ahaha yeah every dude I've talked to has told me my sex drive should be at its highest right now and I should be wanting to bang girls all the time lol | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 01:47 AM |
| – | Does working out increase a guy's sex drive?Alright, thanks for the advice. How long should it normally take for me to give myself an erection from hand stimulation at my age? And what do you think could be the problem. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 01:31 AM |
| – | Does working out increase a guy's sex drive?I don't watch too much porn man. I don't eat much during the day either I'm pretty damn skinny I'd say I probably eat less than 2k calories most days. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 01:16 AM |
| – | Does working out increase a guy's sex drive?I'm 20 will be 21 in a few months | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 01:10 AM |
| – | Does working out increase a guy's sex drive?Somebody told me if I can't get an erection from self hand play at my age that's a bad thing. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Would I attract and get more attention from girls if I go from very skinny and scrawny to more fit and muscular?How do you think things would change for me with girls going from skinny to more jacked and lean. Do they approach? More receptive to you? | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 11:51 PM |
| – | Would I attract and get more attention from girls if I go from very skinny and scrawny to more fit and muscular?Absolutely. I no doubt can only go up with improvements. I'm no way interested in lifting and getting bigger solely for girls either, there's many different reasons. I've thought of the girls part wondering if it's one of the big benefits you get from working out lol. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 08:03 AM |
| – | Would I attract and get more attention from girls if I go from very skinny and scrawny to more fit and muscular?That's exactly how I was thinking. I personally feel like I get nexted and overlooked by lots of girls bc I'm very skinny, they don't see me as a possible protector and a MAN in their eyes I feel they see me as very young and possibly they even think not a possible good lay lol. Some ppl have told me before that everything gets easier with girls when you're lean and fit, such as they're more receptive to you, easier to make moves since they're physically attracted to you, sometimes they'll appro… | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 07:04 AM |
| – | Would I attract and get more attention from girls if I go from very skinny and scrawny to more fit and muscular?Yeah I'm currently young and in college, so obviously trying to get lots of play with the ladies. Been focusing on school and doing well to make $$$ when I'm done to have a successful future and therefore have that to help with women in the future too lol. I'm always pretty hard on myself and have been trying to improve a lot man. Confidence is something I've been trying to build up but it is so difficult with girls sometimes. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Would I attract and get more attention from girls if I go from very skinny and scrawny to more fit and muscular?I'm definitely not going for the musclehead meathead type lol. More of a lean and fit look, compared to the way I look now which is VERY skinny and scrawny body type lol. No freakishly big goals here lol. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 06:53 AM |
| – | Would I attract and get more attention from girls if I go from very skinny and scrawny to more fit and muscular?I've heard some people say before it's a big difference with girls and people in general the way they interact and treat you. I feel what you're saying though. I'm saying for instance their attraction and initial interest level, do you think they'd approach or show interest? | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 05:10 AM |
| – | IF I Get no random bonars during the day at age 21, is that a sign of Low T?Lol ok, So you don't think that's a sign of low T? | /r/seduction | 13/04/17 04:29 PM |
| – | IF I Get no random bonars during the day at age 21, is that a sign of Low T?Ahh misspelled lol, yeah I get there's no doctors on here I'm just trying to see what people would think if they possibly know if that's a symptom before I go to the doc. | /r/seduction | 13/04/17 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Thanks for all the motivation Boss | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 04:55 AM |
| – | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?How do you think it affects game and interactions with women? | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Yeah that's exactly what I was thinking but I can't exactly describe it, how did things change for you or how do you think it would change for me?? | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?And like you said about how girls blew you off when you were overweight now are interested in you, I recently approached a girl and she wasn't interested in me lol not really concerned about her even if she was to like me in the future with my improved body but I was curious for a little while if that's why she wasn't into me. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 11:29 PM |
| – | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Oh I feel you on that bro. I'm currently skinny as all hell. I've been trying to improve game and flirting too cuz I've definitely got room to improve there but I've also thought wouldn't things as far as game and interactions change from how I look now compared to when I have a better body. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Oh yeah bro I know it's a grind to get an aesthetic and nice physique. And I see lots of toned and lean guys with bitches and it seems like it's way easier for them and that they don't even gotta try that hard to get them attracted and get them wanting them. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 11:01 PM |
| – | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?The part about women is something I was wondering if you think it would make a difference with women in terms of getting more interest and being more attractive to them? What's your opinion on that? | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Well no man that's definitely not my only motivation to work out and lift lol. I mainly wanna workout to get stronger overall and for health benefits. The women and pussy part was something I was curious about when I would achieve a nice physique and a respectable body. I've been trying to learn more about diet and nutrition recently so I can lean bulk and minimize fat gains as well. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:40 PM |
| – | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?How so? | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:32 PM |
| – | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Oh yeah I do know a few ppl that hit the gym pretty hard man. Yeah I've pretty much felt the same way as you said, I have decent confidence, obviously not as high as it could be, but I never had much success with women. How would you say lifting and getting bigger has helped you with women? | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 05:53 PM |
| – | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Yeah I've had people tell me that I have good facial aesthetic, bro I've had the same kinda thing with body being told about it by people lol. Do you find you get more interest from them such as looks/glances, do they approach you or is it easier and they're more receptive when you approach them? | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 07:32 AM |
| – | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Do you think it makes a big difference with women?? I'm definitely skinny af been told by many people lol. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 07:21 AM |
| – | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?How long would you say it would take to achieve an attractive body bro? | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 06:40 AM |
| – | If I bulk up and gain lean muscle will it make a difference and help me with women?Thanks for all the help bro. I've seen ppl say about how to count the macros and stuff like that. For example earlier I had a 7oz chicken and on the nutrition facts it said 61g of protein, so I assume if I had 2 pieces of that it would give me close to the amount of protein I need daily right? Or am I wrong? | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 06:32 AM |
| – | If I bulk up and gain lean muscle will it make a difference and help me with women?Yeah that's what I'm hoping to achieve. Somewhere around 160-170 10%bf or lower. Do you think I should start around 3000cals? I've been trying to figure out more about diet, I was thinking lots of chicken,rice stuff like that but I get confused kinda on how much I should eat of them daily lol. Like for example should I have a piece of chicken with rice for lunch and dinner. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 06:18 AM |
| – | If I bulk up and gain lean muscle will it make a difference and help me with women?I'm 5'7" and around 130lbs for reference. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 06:08 AM |
| – | If I bulk up and gain lean muscle will it make a difference and help me with women?Yeah I've had a few people tell me with a year or two of solid lifting and nutrition I'd look good with an attractive physique, I've been trying to get better with "game", flirting with girls too. I've been told that the lifting and muscle gains would raise my testosterone which would affect me and make me better with women as well. Do you think that's also true? | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 05:52 AM |
| – | If I bulk up and gain lean muscle will it make a difference and help me with women?I feel you on that bro, how necessarily do you think it would change things? Would it make "game" easier since they'd be physically into me? Would I get approached by them? | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Oh yeah I've thought about looking into stuff like that. But would you say getting the better built physique also makes "game" easier since they're physically attracted and into you? | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 04:14 AM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?lol yeah I've heard a 3000 cal diet and I've got protein and some powders. So like you said yeah How do you think it would make "game" easier? Because I've been trying to improve game too to go along with eventually my bod. | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 12:59 AM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Yeah it's gotten kinda frustrating seeing friends and other guys with girls and I'm wanting it lol. I wish it was faster to get results in the gym and a better body. | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 12:04 AM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?I'm absolutely getting on the gym grind. Would you say "game" becomes "easier" when you're in shape and built bc they're already physically attracted to u? | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Yeah I'm definitely getting it checked out. My libido and drive is crazy low. I've been trying to improve with flirting and "game" too bro. Lots of ppl have told me to lift and go from skinny af to more lean with muscle bc that will help with women I've just been trying to figure out how true that is and if it makes a big difference. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 06:00 AM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Yeah I've for sure been trying to build up more confidence bro. I approached a girl recently and failed, got rejected and it kinda fucked my confidence. I was wondering what I did wrong or how I messed it up. I'm not sure if I just wasn't charming or funny enough or she wasn't physically attracted to me. I've been trying to get better with "game" bc my flirting skills aren't the best. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 05:56 AM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Do you think lifting and gaining muscle mass would also help with attracting and getting women bc I'm pretty skinny af. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:15 AM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?I haven't choked the chicken in awhile & nah I don't currently lift or anything like that bro | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?I'm pretty skinny I'm 5'7" and around 125lbs never lifted before, do u think lifting and gaining muscle would also help with getting female attraction? | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?I don't even whack it that often though lol | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Yeah I feel you on what you're saying I was told before that I might have hyperthyroidism I'm curious if that could maybe be the problem. I scheduled a doc appointment for tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:10 AM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?I was also told recently that I might have hyperthyroidism I wonder if that's possibly the problem | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:09 AM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Do you think it could be low T? | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 08:22 PM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?I answered no to all of them lol. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 08:01 PM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Do you think it could be low Testosterone or something different? | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 04:35 AM |
| – | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Yeah I feel like I might have low T bro. Nah I don't jerk it that much daily. Do you think there's a good chance it could be low T? | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Would I be able to attract and get more attention from women if I was to get bigger and gain some muscle? I'm 5'7" and around 120lbs (pretty skinny). Would it have any impact?Yeah I've always been friendly and I'm trying to improve my conversation skills they're not bad but could definitely be improved. What do you mean by "growing stage"? | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 05:22 PM |
| – | Would I be able to attract and get more attention from women if I was to get bigger and gain some muscle? I'm 5'7" and around 120lbs (pretty skinny). Would it have any impact?How else do you think I could improve with women? Everyone says confidence but I have confidence lol. Often times I feel like I just don't get them "turned on" or really interested. | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Would I be able to attract and get more attention from women if I was to get bigger and gain some muscle? I'm 5'7" and around 120lbs (pretty skinny). Would it have any impact?I guess I'm asking because I'd say that I already have good confidence. I feel like a lot of the time I'm just not good at flirting/attracting them to me. | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 03:42 AM |
| – | Would I be able to attract and get more attention from women if I was to get bigger and gain some muscle? I'm 5'7" and around 120lbs (pretty skinny). Would it have any impact?I feel you on that. Would you say it makes a difference with women though? | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 01:23 AM |
| – | Would I be able to attract and get more attention from women if I was to get bigger and gain some muscle? I'm 5'7" and around 120lbs (pretty skinny). Would it have any impact?How would you say it makes a difference? What did you experience? | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 04:46 PM |
| – | Would I be able to attract and get more attention from women if I was to get bigger and gain some muscle? I'm 5'7" and around 120lbs (pretty skinny). Would it have any impact?Would you say it makes a difference with women? | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 04:40 AM |
| – | Would I be able to attract and get more attention from women if I was to get bigger and gain some muscle? I'm 5'7" and around 120lbs (pretty skinny). Would it have any impact?You think It would help and make a difference with women? And how long do you think it would take to gain the muscle working out 3x a week? | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 04:27 AM |
| – | Would I be able to attract and get more attention from women if I was to get bigger and gain some muscle? I'm 5'7" and around 120lbs (pretty skinny). Would it have any impact?How would you say I can improve with women other than getting more fit? | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 03:36 AM |
| – | Would I be able to attract and get more attention from women if I was to get bigger and gain some muscle? I'm 5'7" and around 120lbs (pretty skinny). Would it have any impact?What would you describe as "interest". I get that there's smiles and glances, but you mean more than that right? | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 02:49 AM |
| – | Would being more fit,lean and muscular attract more women to me? Would it make a difference or increase my attention from women?Teach me the ways brah. | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 12:28 AM |
| – | I haven't had a erection in 4 days is there a problem that I should be concerned about? I'm 20 years old right now.Yeah I'm going to a doc tomorrow to see what's up about it. I think it might be depression but I hope they can give me a good answer and not just try to dismiss it. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | I haven't had a erection in 4 days is there a problem that I should be concerned about? I'm 20 years old right now.I'm going to a doc tomorrow. Been 5 days now. I hope I can get a solid answer on it. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Could I possibly have low testosterone levels? I have low sex drive,very little muscle mass pretty much soaking wet 10 pounds. Depression & lack of energy during the day. I often lose concentration and focus during the day. Could I fix this if I have it naturally with muscle gain and working out?Do you think it would raise my testosterone levels if I was to start working out and gaining muscle? | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 11:56 PM |
| – | Would being more fit,lean and muscular attract more women to me? Would it make a difference or increase my attention from women?Would you think getting more muscle would help me boost my overall attractiveness and in turn get more girls interested in me though? | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 04:02 AM |
| – | Could I possibly have low testosterone levels? I have low sex drive,very little muscle mass pretty much soaking wet 10 pounds. Depression & lack of energy during the day. I often lose concentration and focus during the day. Could I fix this if I have it naturally with muscle gain and working out?I mean I've been really depressed about a lot and haven't had that much motivation to do anything lately I don't know if that could also be it. I know it's doubtful but do you think it could be a possibility? | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 04:01 AM |
| 1 | I haven't had a erection in 4 days is there a problem that I should be concerned about? I'm 20 years old right now.I definitely experience some of these symptoms such as depression,mind fog,low sex drive/libido. I mentioned previously I'm only 5'7" and around 125lbs I'm pretty thin with not much muscle I don't currently work out I'm pretty sedentary. I don't know if that could also be an issue. | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 09:43 AM |
| – | I haven't had a erection in 4 days is there a problem that I should be concerned about? I'm 20 years old right now.Thanks for the advice Boss. | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 08:58 AM |
| – | I haven't had a erection in 4 days is there a problem that I should be concerned about? I'm 20 years old right now.Do you know what could be causing the low testosterone. I'm just trying to get an idea of how it could potentially be that. I don't workout, I'm a pretty skinny guy, friends have told me that could be part of it. I've had some depression as of late but I wouldn't think that would cause that. | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 08:21 AM |
| – | I haven't had a erection in 4 days is there a problem that I should be concerned about? I'm 20 years old right now.Yeah I'll definitely get to a doc if it keeps up. I was wondering what could even cause the low testosterone? Some people have told me it could be due to lack of exercise. Do you think that could be part of it? | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 08:17 AM |
| – | I haven't had a erection in 4 days is there a problem that I should be concerned about? I'm 20 years old right now.Yeah I know. I just think that would be very uncommon for someone of my age. | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 07:46 AM |
| – | I haven't had a erection in 4 days is there a problem that I should be concerned about? I'm 20 years old right now.Yeah I have done that lol. Some people have told me it could be low testosterone but idk if that's true. | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 07:31 AM |
| – | Could I possibly have low testosterone levels? I have low sex drive,very little muscle mass pretty much soaking wet 10 pounds. Depression & lack of energy during the day. I often lose concentration and focus during the day. Could I fix this if I have it naturally with muscle gain and working out?I hear you 100% bro. So you do you think me gaining muscle and hitting the gym and being more active would in turn boost it for me? As I said I don't have much muscle on my body as I'm pretty sedentary currently during the day. | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 04:39 AM |
| – | Could I possibly have low testosterone levels? I have low sex drive,very little muscle mass pretty much soaking wet 10 pounds. Depression & lack of energy during the day. I often lose concentration and focus during the day. Could I fix this if I have it naturally with muscle gain and working out?Ok I gotcha. So do you think I could possibly have it? | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 03:51 AM |
| – | Would being more fit,lean and muscular attract more women to me? Would it make a difference or increase my attention from women?I feel like I just haven't approached them the right way. Or I handled the way of asking them out or getting their number the wrong way. I mean the last girl I waited till maybe the 3rd or 4th time I saw her to ask for her number. People have told me that's a mistake right there. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 10:54 PM |
| – | Would being more fit,lean and muscular attract more women to me? Would it make a difference or increase my attention from women?What weight do you think would be ideal for my height? | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 10:50 PM |
| – | Would being more fit,lean and muscular attract more women to me? Would it make a difference or increase my attention from women?I'm trying to make the most of working with girls in retail right now but it's not working out too well. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 10:49 PM |
| – | Would being more fit,lean and muscular attract more women to me? Would it make a difference or increase my attention from women?Ironically I work in retail right now and can't seem to get interest from the girls I work with lol. The last girl I approached was actually a girl I worked with over Christmas break and it didn't go anywhere. I don't know if I just messed up "game" wise or she wasn't physically attracted to me. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 10:47 PM |
| – | Would being more fit,lean and muscular attract more women to me? Would it make a difference or increase my attention from women?Yeah I mean have had some interest and looks from women already while being skinny. I've been rated and told I'm a 6-7 facially, but I've always been really skinny and told I should gain muscle and get bigger. Do you think it would make "game" somewhat easier? Also what weight do you think would be best for me and how long do you think it would take? Thanks for the advice bro. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 10:05 PM |
| – | Would being more fit,lean and muscular attract more women to me? Would it make a difference or increase my attention from women?Kk. Could you explain how you think it would help me? Would it make "game" easier? | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 10:02 PM |
| – | Could I be losing or not be able to achieve erections due to lack of focus or concentration? My mind is always racing about tons of things and I feel like I can't stay focused enough to keep an erection. Could this be the issue?I am on my phone and other screens a lot during the day. I'll definitely try that out. Do you think I should consider a medication of some sort? Because I've honestly had struggles with every aspect of life, bad grades due to lack of focus, absentmindedness. I often feel like I just drift off into la la land and can't really control it. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 03:22 AM |
| – | Could I be losing or not be able to achieve erections due to lack of focus or concentration? My mind is always racing about tons of things and I feel like I can't stay focused enough to keep an erection. Could this be the issue?I haven't that often lately lol. But I literally have a hard time focusing on one single thing without my mind being in ten different other places at once. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?I honestly wish I was more charismatic and more talkative with people in general. I've always been a little more on the shy side and I've tried getting more talkative and to be funnier but sometimes I feel like It's a struggle. | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?Yeah that's exactly what I was thinking with the texting. With the hanging out or the date, I know things usually just escalate but how would you turn things toward making out and then sex with her. I know she's gotta be comfortable first but I've heard touching and everything else is big. Like you mentioned when I approached her I should've touched her shoulder. | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 07:06 PM |
| – | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?I like that line bro, one thing I've always heard is you should have a place or something in mind instead of leaving it up to her to decide. Sorta like " I know a great coffee shop we should go to" do you agree with that? I know the first date doesn't always end up with a makeout or sex, how would you try to transition it towards that without being pushy. I'm getting what you mean about keeping it simple though for sure lol not over complicating the game. Even texting would you say to keep it sh… | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 03:47 AM |
| – | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?I'm a freshman in college. Yeah I was thinking 3 interactions was too late lol. I guess I was kinda thinking she'd feel like I was coming on too strong if I asked for her number or said we should go on a date within the first 3-4 minutes of meeting her. I get what you mean about the body language to know if they're interested. I feel like too sometimes I've tried to see if there'd be a sign or some point when I'd be able to know if the panties were gonna come off. Like I said the last girl I tal… | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 06:20 PM |
| – | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?Haha I guess that's one of my fuckups is I've overthought things in the past. I've always heard from people it's big to make her laugh so that's what I've tried to do during the convos. And I get what you're saying about closing and getting the number fast. The last girl I liked and approached I waited till probably the 3rd time I saw her to ask for her number. I've had looks and interest from women before so I guess I've just been the one fucking it up in the past lol. | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 08:11 AM |
| – | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?Thanks for the advice. Yeah I get what you're saying how you have to initiate the date. I guess also I've just thought that would come across as too fast if it was the first time I interacted with her to ask for a number and date. So how long would you say the conversation should be 2-3 minutes? Should I try to get a joke or banter in there or no lol. And I've heard people say I should bulk up and gain muscle since I'm only 5'7" 125lbs they say that would help with attraction. | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 02:26 AM |
| – | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?Thanks for the feedback. What do you mean by no closure? And intently listening i get what you mean by that. Do you have anything I should have said that would have possibly been better for the open or during the convo for maybe humor? And how fast should I have got the number? My friend told me I should've got the number 2-3 minutes in the first time talking to her. But that seems too fast right? And do you think I should've said something else instead of what I said when asking for the number? | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?I get you on what you're saying. Sometimes I feel like I have a hard time getting them to the point where "they feel like they've known me forever" I mostly talk to women around campus,part time gig and different social events. I haven't had time to hit bars or anything like that lately. Like for instance the last girl I approached. I went over to her smiled, introduced myself, gave her a handshake, she said her name,smiled, gave me a handshake. Then I chatted with her for a few minutes a couple… | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 03:34 AM |
| – | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?What are your tips for getting girls then? As far as first interactions go and how to get them interested and attracted to you? | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 08:36 PM |
| – | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?How do you suggest "do something sexual" at what point? And what're some examples if you have some? | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 03:53 AM |
| – | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?Lmao nah I would never actually use that. I just don't know a lot of the time what to say or how to get them attracted to me in the beginning. I'll usually say " hey, what's up my name is blah blah" then they'll respond with hey, my name is" then it's like where do you go to school, what's your major. I either can't think of something funny to say or I feel like they won't get my humor. I wouldn't use that line I said though lol. | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Would more women wanna sex me and be attracted to me if I go from 5'7" around 125lbs to more lean and muscular? I'm also trying to improve game with women any tips for opening and then keeping the convos funny and interesting?Lmao I'm jk I wouldn't actually say that one. I was just waiting to see what response I would get for it. Any advice though? Or good examples of flirting? | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 03:39 AM |
| – | How to escalate with a girl when you're at a friends house with other people around?I'm honestly trying to wrap my head around what I'm doing wrong lol. I've been rated looks wise around 7-8 and I haven't had a girlfriend or can't seem to get one because I must just fail at the interactions and getting them wanting to go on dates or sex. I feel like I'm missing out on cute and attractive girls too because I'm just failing at something. I've had people tell me muscle would help but then I've heard others say I'm fine now It's so frustrating. | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 04:58 AM |
| – | How to escalate with a girl when you're at a friends house with other people around?Lol when I say approaching from across the room I mean like at a party,bar or possibly classroom. I've heard some people say if a girl is into you she'll laugh at practically anything you say, even if it's not funny, is that really true? For the opener I mean if for instance at a party would " hey, how's your night going?" that wouldn't be a good opener right? With conversation topics I often feel like I run out of things to say and they fall apart. I've had interest from girls before but I've e… | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 04:29 AM |
| – | How to escalate with a girl when you're at a friends house with other people around?Hey! Yeah I agree with what you're saying. That's definitely something I've been trying to improve on is listening better and then trying to use their info to keep conversations going. What would you say are some good ways though to approach a girl you possibly see across the room or you just see her in the area, what would be good openers and ways to make that first interaction go well. Thanks for the info. | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?If I've been rated a 7-8 and I'm really skinny would my looks atleast go up if I was to build some muscle and put on weight? And yeah I hear you on personality I've been trying to banter and tease I just often feel confused on if the person would think what I think is funny, funny themselves. | /r/seduction | 30/12/16 12:32 AM |
| – | How to escalate with a girl when you're at a friends house with other people around?Ok yeah I understand what you mean about slowing down and taking things one step at a time. It is a New Years party and I don't know if exactly the girls will have dates with them. I've always heard the first few minutes of interactions with girls anywhere is huge in creating attraction with them. That's why I'm wondering about what I should say or do to have things go well. Should I tease,banter? I'm not the best or quickest when it comes to banter and teasing. As you mentioned if she's interes… | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 05:20 PM |
| – | How to escalate with a girl when you're at a friends house with other people around?Yeah I'm supposed to be going to my friends house this weekend and he told me he's inviting a few girls. So to answer the questions I haven't met her yet, I'll be meeting the girl at his house, no previous touching obviously. So how would you say I should approach the situation from the opening and from there on. I really wanna be able to get results. I just feel lost on what to say and how to build the attraction and "tension". | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 04:16 AM |
| – | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?Well that's the thing I am I'd say an extreme case I've been told by many I'm really skinny and that I should put on weight and muscle. So would you say I should focus on my body? | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 04:25 AM |
| – | How to escalate with a girl when you're at a friends house with other people around?How would you describe the last part " building tension" what do you mean by that? What should I do to build up the tension? | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 10:09 PM |
| – | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?Do you think muscle and abs on guys are like big breasts and a nice ass on girls? Would it make a difference if I was to get bigger and add lean muscle ( not freaky big) I've heard people say I could add muscle fast because I'm starting off being skinny. I'm just curious if that would affect game in any way. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 05:40 PM |
| – | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?What would you say are ways to have fun and spark attraction with the girls in the first interactions? How do I get them attracted in the beginning? | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 05:48 AM |
| – | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?Yeah I understand what you're saying not always approaching. Like one of my friends told me that instead of interacting with this girl at work the way I did (which failed). He said that I should've went over introduced myself to her talked to her for a only a few minutes then wait for her to come back to find me if she wanted to take things further. Do you think that would've worked. Or do you have any other tips or examples on the first time I meet a new girl or anything like that. I'm starting… | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 03:03 AM |
| – | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?I feel like my issue is I struggle with the flirting, teasing and banter side of interactions with girls. I'm fine with serious types of conversations but I can't seem to get them to laugh that often or tease and play around with them to create that fun vibe that they wanna be around me and then possibly escalate things physically. Most of the girls I've been talking to have been at my part time college job since I don't really have much time to go to bars and clubs. The job isn't that serious s… | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 02:17 AM |
| – | Why do I struggle with getting sexual attraction from women? I always suck with opening and knowing what to say to keep them interested and get them sexually attracted. Is there any advice or examples anyone could give me?I would say it's kinda a little bit of both. I've been mostly trying to talk to the girls at my part time school gig and at college. I haven't had much time to go to bars and clubs or anything like that. Most recently, I liked a cute girl at work and first I introduced myself to her and gave her a handshake. I Said hey how long have you been here, basically just talking about the job for a few minutes. Then I saw her again a couple days later and I was like so what's your major and she said what… | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do I struggle with getting sexual attraction from women? I always suck with opening and knowing what to say to keep them interested and get them sexually attracted. Is there any advice or examples anyone could give me?Lol. Maybe when I'm blackout drunk on the floor. | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 06:07 AM |
| – | Why do I struggle with getting sexual attraction from women? I always suck with opening and knowing what to say to keep them interested and get them sexually attracted. Is there any advice or examples anyone could give me?Maybe I should just say fuck it and just start drinking all the time with friends and just accept that I'm bad with women. | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 05:13 AM |
| – | Why do I struggle with getting sexual attraction from women? I always suck with opening and knowing what to say to keep them interested and get them sexually attracted. Is there any advice or examples anyone could give me?I understand what you're saying, but how exactly does that translate into being good at talking/flirting with girls? I'm currently in school and just started going to the gym. I just feel like I either say the wrong things or am not funny enough or exciting idk I'm just trying to understand why I suck at it. | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do I struggle with getting sexual attraction from women? I always suck with opening and knowing what to say to keep them interested and get them sexually attracted. Is there any advice or examples anyone could give me?I just feel like I struggle with making her laugh or turning the conversation sexual. It's not a confidence problem because I have confidence. I just feel like I simply don't know what to say to them. I sometimes think I'm too nice or too kind and they get turned off by it idk. I just hate not being able to keep them interested in me, when I'll see other guys getting women in their lives. | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do I struggle with getting sexual attraction from women? I always suck with opening and knowing what to say to keep them interested and get them sexually attracted. Is there any advice or examples anyone could give me?It's not even that I'm not interested. Perfect example, recently at my college, there was a cute girl I liked and I went over introduced myself with a handshake first the first time I saw her. Then I saw her again and began talking to her about her major and stuff like that. I talked to her maybe 3 times then I asked her for her number and if she wanted to get coffee. I then texted her and she responded the next morning saying " sorry, I left my phone at my boyfriends" which I know was just a wa… | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit I was wondering what are some ways I can phrase questions differently with women to avoid them being "interview questions". I thought I saw a post on here before about this topic,but can't seem to find it again.Ok I like your example, I'll give an example of something I might use. And you could give me feedback on how I could possibly improve. Me - " Hey! You're pretty cute and I wanted to come say hi and see if you're as cool as I think you might be, John, nice to meet you." Her - " Insert Name" giggle thanks, nice to meet you. Me - "So where are you from? You seem like a city girl" Her - " Insert Town or Neighborhood" Me- " Ahh, you know what they like to say about people from your town" said in a li… | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 07:04 PM |
| – | Would me putting on weight and muscle to go from 125lbs to go to 160-170 help me be taken more seriously by guys and girls and be more attractive I'm 5'7" (pretty much a stick) I have personality just feel like people don't take me serious bc I look like I'm 12 when I'm 20Could you give me some quick tips on game then I feel like I'm average with girls I can get them to talk to me but I feel like I struggle to create a real genuine and sexual connection with them either I feel like I'm not funny enough or I don't physically escalate enough would you have some examples of maybe openers to use to be funny and flirty like banter that works well with girls and how to keep them interested in conversations and not let them die out | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Would me putting on weight and muscle to go from 125lbs to go to 160-170 help me be taken more seriously by guys and girls and be more attractive I'm 5'7" (pretty much a stick) I have personality just feel like people don't take me serious bc I look like I'm 12 when I'm 20How long do you think it would take to gain the weight and muscle I wanna get from 125 to around 160 with a six pack I've heard people say it's impossible to get a six pack and bulk up with muscle at the same time | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 12:41 AM |
| – | Would me putting on weight and muscle to go from 125lbs to go to 160-170 help me be taken more seriously by guys and girls and be more attractive I'm 5'7" (pretty much a stick) I have personality just feel like people don't take me serious bc I look like I'm 12 when I'm 20How long do you think it would take to gain the weight and muscle | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 12:40 AM |
| – | If I put on muscle and size to go from 5'7" 120 to around 160-165 would it have an impact on the success and luck I'd have with girls I feel like most girls aren't interested bc I'm really skinny and my arms are even skinnier than them a lot of the time and they'll go for lean and muscle insteadI agree with your point, most of my friends tell me girls are shallow and will definitely atleast give you a better chance to get something with them if you're ripped/fit instead of frail and thin. It also just seems natural to me that girls are more attracted to a guy with muscle and built rather than a toothpick. For you personally though what do you like to use when you approach girls and open them after the initial physical attraction. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | If I put on muscle and size to go from 5'7" 120 to around 160-165 would it have an impact on the success and luck I'd have with girls I feel like most girls aren't interested bc I'm really skinny and my arms are even skinnier than them a lot of the time and they'll go for lean and muscle insteadFor me I feel like my main issue is I often can't think of something clever and funny to say to a girl when I first meet her or at the beginning of the conversation and how to keep the conversation going bc I try to not ask too many questions to them I know some funny lines and stuff but I just feel like that's partially my problem and I know how to have conversations and no problem with approach anxiety or confidence lol I just simply run out of interesting things to talk about or be funny with… | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 06:36 AM |
| – | If I put on muscle and size to go from 5'7" 120 to around 160-165 would it have an impact on the success and luck I'd have with girls I feel like most girls aren't interested bc I'm really skinny and my arms are even skinnier than them a lot of the time and they'll go for lean and muscle insteadWhen you said you notice a difference yourself in the reactions you get are you saying you find girls coming up to you or its easier for you to get girls once you approach them and start talking to them | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 05:06 AM |
| – | If I put on muscle and size to go from 5'7" 120 to around 160-165 would it have an impact on the success and luck I'd have with girls I feel like most girls aren't interested bc I'm really skinny and my arms are even skinnier than them a lot of the time and they'll go for lean and muscle insteadI mean I personally see some of my muscular friends and they have way more success with chicks and it seems effortless to them and I am just skinny and no real muscle and I definitely know it has to be a part of the reason why I don't get attraction from women is because I'm too skinny and half the time I'm skinnier than the girls themselves I just definitely feel it's part of the problem man lol | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:51 AM |
| 1 | If I put on muscle and size to go from 5'7" 120 to around 160-165 would it have an impact on the success and luck I'd have with girls I feel like most girls aren't interested bc I'm really skinny and my arms are even skinnier than them a lot of the time and they'll go for lean and muscle insteadThanks for the advice I'm just pretty depressed currently because I really liked a girl that I recently met and I know I blew it because I just wasn't interesting enough or say charming and funny enough and I'm just trying to change all of that lol | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:47 AM |
| – | If I put on muscle and size to go from 5'7" 120 to around 160-165 would it have an impact on the success and luck I'd have with girls I feel like most girls aren't interested bc I'm really skinny and my arms are even skinnier than them a lot of the time and they'll go for lean and muscle insteadFor me I wouldn't even say it's a lack of confidence or anything like that I have no problem talking to people or girls my issue is i feel like I often don't know what to say to be funny and interesting without coming off as a cocky dick or trying too hard like at the beginning of conversations or when I just walk by Its usually just hey how are you or hey how's life I don't know what to say lol to be funnier to spark an attraction | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:39 AM |
| 1 | If I put on muscle and size to go from 5'7" 120 to around 160-165 would it have an impact on the success and luck I'd have with girls I feel like most girls aren't interested bc I'm really skinny and my arms are even skinnier than them a lot of the time and they'll go for lean and muscle insteadI've never heard anything positive about puas just saying I've always heard their approaches are very creepy and awkward honestly my problem isn't even approach anxiety or anything like that it's just knowing funny & interesting things to say at the beginning and middle of conversations i never know what to say besides the casual hey how are you or hey what's up. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:36 AM |
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