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| 4 | AskTRP is officially bannedthat website is whorseshit. there are posts for dick pills and anal beads on it...nobody uses it. sucks because there was a lot of good shit on asktrp. | /r/newTRP | 25/06/22 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Cougar GameYeah this is a chick I can actually be sexually forward with more so than the younger chicks I’ve been with. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Cougar GameYeah I have. Can you point to something in the sidebar that’ll help? I’ll check it out again. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Holding frame and confidenceYeah. I feel like shit cuz I keep replaying it. Told my friend this story and he was like “Yeah it’s not like you to back down like that.” It was purely that guys size that threw me for a loop. Prob 6’2 ft 250 lbs so like he would have crushed me. Realistically, it never reached that point. But my head rationalized the possibility of it and made me look weak. I took Muy Thai and that’s when I felt my most confident. There is merit behind getting senior proficient in a martial art. Guess I gotta … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 04:20 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being so neuroticHow much are you taking? It all depends on that. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 03:20 AM |
| 1 | DARE not DEER HelpDeflect , agree and amplify, repeat, exit. Four ways to handle a woman’s bs. Search dare not deer on main sub | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | DARE not DEER HelpI agree. She does like me and wants to have a convo. Your suggestion for a response sounds like an explanation tho. So i guess it is warranted to explain yourself in this situation without losing value? Thanks for a genuine response. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 07:37 PM |
| -1 | DARE not DEER HelpNo hard and fast rule for nexting. If you’re at bat and you strike out three times are you going to give up on the fourth attempt? Your advice is for younger less experienced guys that still get oneitis and don’t have plates. I merely looking for a way to practice deflecting or AA and build on principles of trp. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 07:33 PM |
| -3 | DARE not DEER HelpShe’s come over...typo | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 07:24 PM |
| -2 | DARE not DEER HelpHow is me ignoring her text = to orbiting like a simp... | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Letting chick crash on the couchHaha | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Letting chick crash on the couchYep. It’s depends on how much rapport has been built. One hour long phone call isn’t enough rapport. I’ll offer the spare mattress. Do you think it’s too soon to offer this considering I just texted her yesterday? Was gonna call her tonight. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Letting chick crash on the couchYeah. I’ll just call her instead of text. Hopefully that reverses some of this blue pill shit she may have sensed | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Letting chick crash on the couchYeah. I agree. I texted her yesterday so I’ll hit her back like tonight. I’m so retarded when it comes these things. Should’ve just said you can stay at my place. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Letting chick crash on the couchI didn’t want to trigger her ASD by offering my couch. I thought she’d probably see thru that. Like he’s just offering me his couch so he can fuck me. But I guess that couch is enough plausible deniability not to trigger her ASD. I don’t think is gonna undo the frame I built over the phone call. But fuck I didn’t think this was really gonna come off as blue pilled after reading comments | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Letting chick crash on the couchShe’s not sure if she can find a place to stay because her friends might be busy. Just a night. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 05:55 PM |
| -3 | Common text shit textsI know all this. This type of chick requires more comfort building. Hence the lengthy banter. Ultimately a witty reply here would seal the deal. A half assed reply won’t hurt but it won’t help. I already tried to soft close earlier too. So the second time around I was more laid back. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Did I do the right thing? Ran into girl that left me on readDid she text you back? Ignoring can sometimes get her chasing. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Aerobic Instructor flakedI don’t believe in soulmates. If you next every girl that throws some shit at you you’re getting easy girls. So I put in a little extra effort where most guys would give up. That doesn’t mean I’m paying for her shit or being a supplicating bitch. Just means being tastefully persistent. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Aerobic Instructor flakedNot too worried as that kind of stuff doesn’t bother me. It’s only awkward if you make it awkward. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Aerobic Instructor flakedOk. Here’s where I struggle with this. Yeah it’s rude to blow someone off and not apologize. She may do it in person. I dunno. Regardless, I dated my ex for 3 years and it was literally only because I tastefully persisted. I was smart in how I approached. Never came across as needy. I took every opportunity to game her. And shoe her I have other options. Some of my approaches were bold, high pressure approaches. All the while other guys were trying to get with her too. Ultimately, I succeeded an… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Aerobic Instructor flakedYeah i have a feeling that she’s one of those that likes to guys to chase her. See above for more thoughts on this. Interested in your thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 03:52 AM |
| 4 | Aerobic Instructor flakedIt only been a few hours since I texted her so she may still respond. If she doesn’t respond by tomorrow, then yeah it’s time to next. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 02:56 AM |
| -5 | Aerobic Instructor flakedSo do I talk to her when I see her in class? | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Become quick wittedThanks for the recommendation. I’ll check him out | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Become quick wittedWhat are some examples of these responses? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 01:45 PM |
| 2 | How to handle very extroverted femalesThis is standard protocol. Recommended for those of you who text incessantly. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 03:26 PM |
| 2 | How to handle very extroverted femalesThis would have worked. Fuck. I need to lead more. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How to handle very extroverted femalesThat is exactly the approach I took. Stayed my grounded self. What bothers me is that she changed her plans with me over the course of the date. And I dunno how to proceed now. Feel disrespected. She was 100% down to continue the night but then changed her mind. And left me hanging. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | How to handle very extroverted femalesI hesitate so much it’s annoying. I don’t have that inner confidence to act on what I wanna do. And yeah I guess I felt like I wasn’t good enough at times. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 01:09 AM |
| 2 | How to handle very extroverted femalesAs in Hand on the thigh, holding hands. I should have escalated more and gone in for a kiss. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | How to handle very extroverted femalesI was able to initiate decent kino. But yeah the convo never got too sexual. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | By Approaching someone you’re playing their frame?This perspective is helpful. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Confused with LMRIf I Actually left I would not have had sex. The question I’m asking is why didn’t the sex happen at that time. Felt like a shoo in. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Confused with LMRI did this several times. But she would hold onto me. Hold my hand or just hug me. And wouldn’t let me go so I just tried to talked about some bs comfort themed topics and tried again. I’ve never been in a situation like this. Genuinely confused as to why we didn’t fck. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 03:38 PM |
| 5 | Best topics of conversation for a first date?This is extreme. You need to makes jokes and get her laughing. She can talk all you want but won’t fúck you if there’s no connection. Now that connection may be as weak as the WiFi in the Sahara but still it’s a connection. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 04:54 AM |
| 8 | Friend invites his girl to guys tripJust spoke to him on the phone. Was prob the easiest thing. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Hesitant in the club/barIt’s where the most attractive girls are. But yeah definitely not my scene. Where else do you out at night? | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Got falsely accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed? (Part 2)Lol look at all the autists here. Bobs shit testing you bro. Agree and amplify. On a serious note, lawyer up and sue. You’re not going to get your rep back. The comments here echo my sentiments | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach on the streetThis sounds like something Marcus Aurelius did. I remember a post about this visualization technique. I’ve always brushed this technique off. I’ll give it a try because I tried to go out and cold approach again today and just couldn’t do it. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Getting blowjobsNo. This was how I approached her at the bar | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Getting blowjobsDope this should work. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:07 AM |
| 17 | My date asked what is my age and I responded with "Old enough to fuck".Lol most of the people commenting “AUTISM” have autism. This line could have worked if: Your frame was that of a high status guy. If you dress like a goodwill mannequin and have drool all over face and say this line you’re going to get a bad reaction from her. Was the interaction sexualized at all? Was there a premise established? If not, then you can’t jump to a sexually charged statement so fast. Gotta warm women up. It’s like turning up the volume knob. Little innuendos here and there, follow… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Bringing her home after first dateI hear ya. Think it was one of those times we’re it just wasn’t happening. I just feel like if she was attracted enough to me she wouldn’t give a fck about waking up for her meeting and would have come home with me. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Bringing her home after first dateBounced to one place. It was 10 pm so anymore places would have been too late to pull. She went along with Mario kart. Pretty sure it was just that she has to wake up early. Thinking for doing a weekend date and then pulling back. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I'm too sarcasticSounds like a fine line between the two. Care to point out a few differing traits? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm too sarcasticThanks. This might be it. I’ve read that post before. What are some lines you say to tease women? I suck with little kids. So the whole treat them like their 5 thing doesn’t resonate with me. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 03:09 PM |
| 0 | I'm too sarcasticI’m not carrying myself like a beta tho. The girls laugh and flirt back until I drop the bomb. I thought 8s and 9s could handle those types of jokes....clearly not | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Ways to escalate and pull back to your placeYeah sounds like I should be a bit more assertive. Prob would have fcked her if I did. Next time. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 10:59 PM |
| 3 | I usually text for logistics not only because TRP recommends it, but because I really have a hard time making good conversations through text. Should I leave like that or work on text game?Logistics only does not work. It makes you too aloof. Unless you’ve actually got other shit going on. And the girls knows it. And you have social proof to back it up (ie a celebrity), logistics only will kill your text game. Text game is kind of a misleading. You can’t really game a girl via text without there being a baseline level of attraction. Once you have piqued her interest even a little bit, texting can either really help or ruin your chances. Few tips on good text game: Think of witty r… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Got numbers, girls were down, schedules didn’t sync, no responseI’ve had decent success. Nothing beats cold approach. But it’s suoplemental income | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Social Media: Go in Or Get Out?You sound paranoid man. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Texts that make her hamster spinIt’s to get laid. In this situation, I’m just trying to stay on top her mind, not boost my ego. I’ve always been too aloof. In fact I’ve lost 3 plates in the past few months. And being too aloof definitely played a role. So I’m trying to engage more with plates and potential plates. And find the balance between being too available and aloof along the way. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Texts that make her hamster spinI’ve done that. This is strictly a text game question. Is it a little disingenuous. Fck yeah it is. But these hoes ain’t loyal. It goes both ways. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Need a reminder on frame with dating appsLol. Realize that dating apps are solely there for girls’ validation. Quality girls will not be found on dating apps. Any 9 or 10 you see is purely there just to know “guys wanna fck me.” That being said, dating apps can lead to lays. You gotta play it smart. It sounds like you’re dishing out openers left and right without really anticipating the girl with reaction. Use the girls profile to try to get a sense of her personality. And send her a calibrated opener. Never open with a question. Push … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Response when girl tries to seek validationPush pull is the safest bet here. “Are my nails cute?” “Yeah..wait except for that one is it chipped?” | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Girl texts short, plain, and far-inbetween but “is interested”. Held frame..For now. What’s going on?I’ve had a girl do this while she was really into me. So it’s not necessarily a sign of disinterest. She could just be 1. Stupid 2. A shit texter | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Long distance plates?Like once a month. Feel like her interest is waning tho | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you recover from a failed comfort test?Yeah that’s why I’m thinking of sending a ping text but I don’t want it to sound needy. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Generic playful ping textsIt’s the right move for this interaction. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 01:07 AM |
| 55 | Apart from lifting and meditation what other habits gave you a good return on investment?Not watching porn | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | If a girls does the following...The dynamic between me and her feels really relationshipy even though we’re not dating. For example, she was asking my friends while we’re out “why is he talking to other girls” and she asked me “why haven’t you texted me this whole week?” This was a comfort test that TRP also confirmed. I’ve only been sending dirty, playful texts till this point and I think she is looking for normal convo. I never get into long texting convos. So not doing that here. But I feel as though she trying to build rap… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Find it difficult making friendships with people at work. Any recommended reading/advice?People might be thinking that you have some sort of agenda when they speak to you. And it sounds like that agenda is to make more friends. If this is the case, be more subtle about it. Let the lulls in the conversations do some speaking for you. Let the person you are talking to ask some questions. Basic convo skills brother, just do some reading on it and you'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Issue's with getting second datesTook me a while to get this down. After you have had sex, keep texting to a minimum but don't just limit to logistics. A few back and forths and then set up the next date. It comes across as super weird if your texts are only logistical. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Girl using my weapon against me and taking days to respondYeah not as much as she was. It’s crazy how that changed in a matter of weeks. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl using my weapon against me and taking days to respondYeah think by responding a day later She’s misconstrued me being busy for disinterest | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Girl using my weapon against me and taking days to respondYeah I have a feeling that’s the case. So do I respond or just leave it and start a new convo later | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Inner game / Mental health advice neededOn the days you feel off are you getting good sleep? What you describe happens to me a lot. Feel like you’re on top of the world. And then the next day not so much. I treacle my sleeping patterns and noticed that when I sleep poorly I’m off the next day. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with this situation...I do have a plate. Working on another one as well. This chick here happens to be showing the most interest in me. And is more of a FWB than plate. I just don’t know how much attention I should be giving her given that she is attention seeking but at the same time likes me a lot. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Chick I haven’t fcked yet is visiting. Friend will join her later. How to handle this?Lol | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Chick I haven’t fcked yet is visiting. Friend will join her later. How to handle this?Crossed my mind. But she’s not my type. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Nuances of Push/Pull and knowing the difference between comfort and shit testsI haven’t fcked her yet. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 03:34 PM |
| -1 | How do I Flirt Sexually and make my Intentions Clear without coming on too strong?Be smooth. Try to be as indirect as possible. This is what game is alll about. It’s about getting sexual without actually saying anything overtly sexual. An exercise to help with this is try and reinterpret anything she says sexually without using sexual lingo. You need to have a certain level of SMV for this work btw. Her: “I need to go home” You: “We can talk about your needs later. It’s too early for that” | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Being Aloof vs showing interestThink you’re right on the comfort test. Honestly I wasn’t expecting that so soon. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Solid hook up. Now what?Women initiate things if they’re really into you. Some women are good at hiding that and will play games. Others are not and will initiate. Either way I think it’s best just to take the lead. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Girl I was eyeing and talked to occasionally just broke up with BFThis is a dumb question. Act on your instincts. Don’t overdo it. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Bumble Interaction. What might went wrong?Never answer anything seriously at first. Keep things fun. After a couple messages you can answer seriously. But until then keep it fun. Think about all the messages girls get and figure out a way to stand out. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Escalating to sex once you start making outThanks this helps. Just to clarify. I’m making out with her. Things are getting heated. And just before I escalate further. I stop everything and just lie there? Like look at shit on my phone? Or get into a convo with her? Just a bit confused. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Escalating to sex once you start making outThey push my hand away but keep making out. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 05:08 AM |
| 15 | Just got thrown for a loop.She might be bored with her husband and is just testing the waters with you. Do not engage her under any circumstance. It’s not worth it. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Comfort building and long convos with girlsI usually hit that sweet spot. But my boy just got engaged so I had to drink a shit ton to forget the horrible decision he made. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Comfort building and long convos with girlsLol for real. if you suck on some titties you still in the friend zone because you didn’t smash...don’t think that’s how the friend zone works. Meeting up next weekend and that’s the plan. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I lift, start calisthenics, or box?Do them all. Your body will get used to lifting exercises over time. Always keep your body guessing as to what you’re doing next. That’s how you continually get bigger and not plateau. Definitely box or muay Thai if you like kicking shit Or get into BJJ. all solid skills. And can definitely help you in precarious situations. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Can a Sigma male thrive in todays society?Your post makes you sound like a beta. Sigmas are the creative type or have some sort of artistic skill they are cashing in on. Like russel brand. I’m 100% summarizing. There’s more to it. There’s a great post on the main subreddit. Search there and see if you’re really a sigma. You wouldn’t want to evaluate your life from the wrong lens. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | “Maybe another time?”This is what I was thinking. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 04:55 PM |
| 2 | “Maybe another time?”Yeah the interest is about as high a ten minute conversation at a bar can achieve. Wouldn’t say high but wouldn’t say low. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 04:53 PM |
| 0 | The Long Game: Girl on backburner for years. When to escalate?The dude she is with is the provider type. Complete bitch. As I said, seems like a shoo-in. What’s the next move? | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The Long Game: Girl on backburner for years. When to escalate?I wouldn’t say it strokes my ego. If a text doesn’t need a response, or I feel as though I’m giving her too much attention I’ll just stop responding. I don’t definitively know if that has any effect on 9s and 10s... they have a host of guys texting them so why would they care. But it certainly does stand out to them. It shows you got other shit going on. It’s the same as Push-pull | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Girl in LTR, lots of IOIs over the yearsGaming 9s and 10s are harder. You need sharper wit and quick retorts to shut down the barrage of shit tests that are comin your way. I’ve been playing the long game for years now. I think it’s time to make a move. She’s extremely flakey based on what my friend says which isn’t very promising. May just skip the text banter and meet up in person. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 09:27 PM |
| 16 | Feel like my fraternity brothers treat me less cause im smallThree things: 1) don’t be a bitch. Use this as an opportunity to develop your quick wit. Why do you think a Kevin Hart is “funny”? He got clowned on growing up for being small. Instead of assuming the fetal position he clapped back. Probably wasn’t funny at first but he got better the more people picked on him. 2) hit the gym. 3) realize the odds are not in favor. A taller guy is automatically gonna be attractive at face value. BUT there are things you can do get a higher SMV. You already know t… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 12:48 AM |
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