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I used to babysit and I remember one father in particular who would complain about my rates because in his words, his son was asleep. The mother of that family never complained because she understood that kids just don’t sleep and stay asleep, esp if their parents are out of the house. They want comfort, they want to fib and say they are thirsty 12x a night, go to the bathroom and of course be read to, and the whole nightly bedtime routine. It’s funny because before I was hired I told him my rat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:21 AM
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I wanna know what group please, spell it backwards or something so it’s not retraced. I can appreciate learning from others’ mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:25 AM
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She agreed to it going in it sounds like and now wants to change it and he said no. This is a valuable lesson for us and a hard lesson for her. Start with the standards you want going in, because it will be more challenging to come back later requesting more. Esp when it comes to living together. Maybe she didn’t realize she wanted more but she knows now and will know for the future that 50/50 is a scam. Good luck to her. She played herself but it seems like she realized that when she added up a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:20 PM
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Lmao this reminds me of that post last week, where someone on Twitter was like men will have to be more poetic now with the social distancing in effect. No. It just means they will ramp up the requests for free phone sex and free pics. Men are hella cheap on top of being disgusting, because they go to “civilian” women with sex worker requests. I’m not promoting sex work, but it’s a reality that some people do work online that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:46 AM
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It’s like when someone doesn’t care about condoms with new people... it shows they don’t care about their own health so they won’t care about yours, which means that you are hanging around the wrong person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:40 AM
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People who are commenting about their fathers and brothers and uncles being Good Guys(TM)... I’m glad you all had great relationships with these men, but you know them in a different context than say, a woman who isn’t blood family and who isn’t their child knows them. You also knew them at a certain point in their lives and not before, and any info you have from times before you knew them is second hand and edited. All people have secrets and pasts, and not all of it is good. I’m not saying tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:47 AM
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Sometimes I just want to yell at men, “go see a f-ing therapist!” These are one of those times. (And how come they think when they get soft early that that has to be the end of sex? If she likes getting her box eaten, then eat it. Im assuming his mouth or his hands still work. Use them. They like consuming lesbian p-rn but learn nothing from it. 🙄)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:35 PM
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Oh I am sure they are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:52 AM
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Women will collectively still be accepting LVM and their bullshit. Dick pics and offers to sext and maybe cam. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:55 PM
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A man who is really into you will risk his fears to keep you to himself. He was already in an exclusive thing with you without him having to commit to you, you were not seeing anyone else. If he was really fearful of commitment yet didn’t want to mess things up with you potentially, he would have let you go. He didn’t do that. It was a lie. If his words don’t match his actions you should leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:30 AM
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Nevermind opening your legs and giving him a**, that’s “casual” Dinner? So serious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:48 AM
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Neediness in men makes my box dry af to be honest. Silence and Blocking was the right thing to do. Good for supporting your friend. That friendship would probably last longer than that thing with that man you were texting for a month. Gross... 1 month in, no meeting yet, and he’s like that. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 06:40 PM
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I tried looking up various versions of “accidental anal” just now to see if women were talking about this online, to see if it wasn’t just me having extremely good luck to never have had an accident and the only thing that came up was porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:40 PM
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He’s probably circumcised and addicted to porn... that combo kills their sensitivity. Also, he probably is watching anal porn were the women don’t appear to be liking what’s happening, and it mentally gets him off. So he’s accidentally-on-purpose doing this to her. It seems like it’s on purpose. That’s never happened to me, not even once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:29 PM
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“If men don’t have anything at all, they do have the AUDACITY.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:18 PM
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Who chile, this is a mess. Not something to emulate. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:46 AM
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These women eventually breed with sicko men and put their children and other children in danger. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 07:58 PM
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Make them sign non disclosures and put out gag and cease-and-desist orders on all of them 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 02:21 AM
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Found it! Specifically about resetting, Via Natalie Liu’s blog: Resetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:51 PM
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Oh, haha. Good I guess. Back from whence he came.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:48 PM
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@masbetter This book by Natalie Lue goes over a lot of male bullsh*t: Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl: The Definitive Guide to Understanding Emotionally Unavailable Her blog is here I’ll see if I can find more stuff. If I do I’ll add it to this thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:41 PM
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What did he say afterwards?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 03:46 PM
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In the future, check him in the moment when he does things like that. Trying to figure it out after the fact is hit or miss... He could be testing you( for abuse or that choking kink people seem to be into now). Or he could be playing around but then you let him know that you don’t like that (if you didn’t like that or it made you scared). He can play around like that with his male friends if he wants to, but he should touch you nicely and respectfully, if it bothered you. But regardless, let hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:24 PM
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It’s definitely negging behavior but if you’re asking about what his intent was, as in if he was naturally a narcissistic asshole or if he is a guy “simply” using negging and PUA techniques, I can’t say. Let’s just assume he’s a dick. Sorry he treated you badly. Sounds like some fool I used to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:51 PM
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You can tell them and initially (depending on his mindset) he will probably be relieved that you don’t want any. That means (to him) that he will never have to worry about being tied to you for life if he doesn’t want to. You won’t accidentally-but-really-on-purpose get pregnant. You’d actively be using something to not wind up with a kid. But later, if he likes you, he may feel a ways about you not wanting his kid. Be careful of birth control saboteurs; men have stealthed women in order to knoc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 12:10 PM
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He has his profile picture of himself laying on his bed shirtless... automatic skip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:48 AM
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A failed attempt at Resetting. If it was bad timing a week or two ago then what would make it better now? Silly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 10:43 AM
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Touch on that nostalgia factor..see if she bites... I see a man using the technique called Reseting. It’s used to restart the relationship where they want it to start from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 10:44 AM
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And another one bites the dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 12:55 AM
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Some men have a small penis humiliation fetish where they don’t care if you say it’s small as long as you just see it and are talking about it. Men sexualize just about anything... but good one! Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 09:41 PM
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He’s right in that no communication is communication. He is communicating that he doesn’t care about you. If he is not talking to you, block him and find a guy who is overall better. He sounds like an idiot. That’s not a time to lean in and chase. Sometimes... the trash takes itself out. It’s a blessing when it does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 04:22 PM
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Yeah that “oosies” to them can have us sterile and with an inflamed uterus, in need of a D and C, hysterectomy or something else if left untreated for too long. It can impact an unborn child in a pregnant woman. It can have us needing to take hormonal medications bc our uterus and cycles literally trigger our brains to start and stop our hormones. Never mind that stress from catching a disease or worrying about a cheating partner passing along something can throw hormones off as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 06:29 AM
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Tell the truth anyway, it doesn’t mean you’re being phobic or hateful. The topic is men... not specifically the gayness of gay men. The monogamous or traditional gay male man who is looking for his match endures some of what we women go through dealing with the bulk of straight males out there bc men are doing similar bs, gay or straight. Thanks for bringing up this topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 06:14 AM
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Oh, I see we keep it really mf real in here. This statement could not be uttered aloud in certain spaces for reasons that to me don’t make sense... but it doesn’t make it any less true. It is very true what you wrote. I sometimes wish many of these straight men would be gay and not come back to us women. I think they would be much happier. The way they approach women dick-first would be more appealing to men. It’s like they are mad we aren’t men or something lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:41 AM
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Hahahaaaaaaaa! thanks for the laugh. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 02:28 AM
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All I can say is “right,” bc that’s all the energy I have for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 02:15 AM
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Statistically men are more likely to leave their wives when they are sick vs when the husband is sick. Keep that in mind when dealing with them, and date as hypergamously as you can for exactly this reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:59 PM
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THANK YOU. They don’t get female attention and here women go giving it to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:50 PM
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21f, 28m... not surprised. It’s not ok but I’m not surprised. Probs all the women in his age range dropped him for speaking like that. “That thing?” That’s how immature men refer to vaginas. Young women in this sub should be wary of older men coming onto them. Lots of them are rejects to women their own age and are looking for women who don’t know any better. You don’t have to outright ban them... but be wary and vet. You are at the height of your power with men supposedly at 21 (that’s the age …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 11:13 AM
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Don’t accept a threesome thinking it will make him like you more or strengthen the relationship if 1) he doesn’t already respect you and 2) you aren’t truly into the idea of a 3some. Speaking as someone involved in the kink community, but who isn’t into cuckholding or group sex: Cucking is typically a specific type of MMF dynamic with one man being sexually submissive to a woman. They have brought in another man into the mix who is perceived as more sexually dominant than the 1st guy. Sometimes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 11:02 AM
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This is how a lot of them are, honestly. So following behind them, sleeping with them, and looking to them to lead and love you, thinking that all you need to do is be pretty and sweet and kind to receive protection love and respect from them, is a death sentence if you don’t vet them properly. Separate the wheat from the chaff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 12:49 PM
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I am so sorry to hear that you endured so much bs with that man!! Him moving in with your brothers is beyond weird. I hope you are happy now, and truly free from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:36 AM
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Agreed, @modernmesussa... I just wanted to clarify for the group what I meant. Not debating with with you or your post. Women sometimes get soo wrapped up with their “project” (their disrespectful, abusive, neglectful or lazy man) and want to save them from themselves that they might see my post differently than what I intended. I wanted to make it clear that the focus is on self preservation since I know some of us will take what I said to mean, “if I leave he will change then I can take him ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:32 AM
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Yes, they do have to feel the sting, but I wanna be clear that it’s not even about fixing these men, it’s about us having our sanity and dignity. Therapy is effing expensive! Men may or may not get the lesson when you leave, but they definitely won’t if you stay. It’s like dealing with an addict... they only change when facing real consequences. Consequences are the catalyst for change. I think another woman on this post said that she thought that her ex boyfriends changed when she left but when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 08:56 PM
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Note that the lesson here for women is that men do not change while you are with them. They get clarity when you finally leave them. Good for the girlfriend of OP. I hope she isn’t too emotionally messed up by her ex’s behaviors. I hope OP learns from this and treats women better going forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 06:54 PM
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