PutSomeRespectOnIt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
222	Natalie Portman Says Being 'Sexualized as a Child' Made Her 'Afraid': 'You Don't Feel Safe'	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	PutSomeRespectOnIt	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 03:45 AM
205	Filipino women reacted scornfully to President Rodrigo Duterte’s statement country’s top leadership role was “not for women” because they were emotionally different than men, deriding the 75-year-old for ignoring contributions of women leaders and furthering already-prevalent sexism in country.	THINGS SCROTES SAY	PutSomeRespectOnIt	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 06:32 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Boundaries are not just about people That’s a nightmare experience, OP! Was there no local anaesthetic for the IUD insertion? Mine was inserted last summer and other than mild cramps for the first period, and a feeling of “something” inside me for the first three or four months, it’s been easy and painless. Heavier periods than previously experienced but other than that, my body is pretty much back to normal. No cramps and I no longer even “feel” the presence of the IUD.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 03:19 AM
21	Forgive yourself if you can't follow FDS principles perfectly. It's okay to slip up as long as you recognize your mistakes and you vow to do better next time. Thank you for this. It’s important that we grant ourselves and our sisters the grace and space to grow and become better. No judgement. Just empathy and support.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 01:59 AM
16	Erection does not equal affection, ladies. Someone can desire you who doesn't truly value you. Wait for the one who will truly treasure you, body AND soul. A guy can get their physical urges met with their hand, a random stranger, or even a hole in a wall with a faceless stranger on the other side. These they can “want”, but none of which they value. N/LVM don’t know, nor care about, the difference.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 01:46 PM
7	This is for those that need the tough love It’s me, I’m the one who needs to hear this. Today of all days, I need to hear this. Thank you for posting this, OP. I feel like I need to siphon some of this energy to stay strong today.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 01:40 PM
12	Hilarious and true!!! I love her energy! I feel bad for any N/LVM that gets on her bad side. LOL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 02:20 PM
14	Creepy scrote laments that “giving leads to disappointment” because the young women he wanted to prey on under the guise of “Mentorship” sniffed him out. Men, if you’re “doing something nice” to get something out of it, it’s not something nice. That whole article screams pathetic and predatory. He’s using his position and connections to lure young women as mentees and interns, with the expectation that they will return the favour by “liking” him. He’s dangerous and an abuser, and it sounds like his frustration, with not getting what HE deems is a “fair” return for his investments in his interns, is mounting. I bet many of his mentees and interns have felt that gut instinct that he’s a creep, despite all the “nice” things he does.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 03:49 PM
11	Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends. FDS is elevating women everywhere and no woman will be left behind.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/21 02:53 AM
185	If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low value I agree with this so much. I had an ex who couldn’t keep a job and was just lazy af. He wanted so badly to move in together, but I just knew that I’d get sucked in to his sad, lazy life. We broke up not long after. N/LVM are vampires who will prey on their chosen victim until they’ve bled them dry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 07:25 PM
27	Sigh... he’s short and maybe 6 out of 10, luckily only 2 dates in for the truth to come out. I’m a size 8 and too fat apparently... Every time a scrote falls back on the weight insult, it just reveals how immature he is. They really think that we’re defined by how attractive we are to men. They have no concept of a woman’s worth being beholden only to herself and her standards, no one else’s. Good riddance to this trash, OP!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 02:42 PM
12	Honestly I need a full series of this: a modern Cell Block Tango That was so well done! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 04:51 AM
50	This is the energy! From the affectionate tone and the laughter, it sounds like 11 years of sustained happiness! Love this, OP.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 04:00 AM
18	If you're looking for a sign, this is it Cockholm syndrome. Didn’t realize there was a term for it. TIL! Removing family from your life is super hard to do. I applaud your strength in recognizing the abuse and taking appropriate action. Your grandfather sounds legit and cool at.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/21 07:42 PM
5	Filipino women reacted scornfully to President Rodrigo Duterte’s statement country’s top leadership role was “not for women” because they were emotionally different than men, deriding the 75-year-old for ignoring contributions of women leaders and furthering already-prevalent sexism in country. Exactly, and also they’ve been writing history as they pleased. It’s only their version of how things came to be.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/21 01:41 AM
3	Filipino women reacted scornfully to President Rodrigo Duterte’s statement country’s top leadership role was “not for women” because they were emotionally different than men, deriding the 75-year-old for ignoring contributions of women leaders and furthering already-prevalent sexism in country. Heard that too, and I wouldn’t doubt it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 11:54 PM
11	Yup LOL this song came to my mind too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 11:32 PM
305	Yup Truth! Plus the emotional labour since N/LVM are often man-children who have unresolved issues / baggage that they drag into their relationship and expect their wife/gf/fiancée to help them unpack and resolve.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 11:32 PM
8	Filipino women reacted scornfully to President Rodrigo Duterte’s statement country’s top leadership role was “not for women” because they were emotionally different than men, deriding the 75-year-old for ignoring contributions of women leaders and furthering already-prevalent sexism in country. Right?! Men are the ones who fomented war, raped and pillaged throughout history!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 10:38 PM
5	Filipino women reacted scornfully to President Rodrigo Duterte’s statement country’s top leadership role was “not for women” because they were emotionally different than men, deriding the 75-year-old for ignoring contributions of women leaders and furthering already-prevalent sexism in country. Since weed smokers usually mean weed possession, for sure there have been tragedies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 08:48 PM
9	Filipino women reacted scornfully to President Rodrigo Duterte’s statement country’s top leadership role was “not for women” because they were emotionally different than men, deriding the 75-year-old for ignoring contributions of women leaders and furthering already-prevalent sexism in country. It’s insane the number of extra-judicial murder that LE have carried out in the “war on drugs”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 08:32 PM
27	Filipino women reacted scornfully to President Rodrigo Duterte’s statement country’s top leadership role was “not for women” because they were emotionally different than men, deriding the 75-year-old for ignoring contributions of women leaders and furthering already-prevalent sexism in country. Exactly! And these same overemotional men are put in charge of nuclear codes and whole armies!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 08:31 PM
14	Filipino women reacted scornfully to President Rodrigo Duterte’s statement country’s top leadership role was “not for women” because they were emotionally different than men, deriding the 75-year-old for ignoring contributions of women leaders and furthering already-prevalent sexism in country. Oh I agree. He’s one of the most glaringly controversial presidents, and for Philippines, that’s saying a lot.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 08:30 PM
32	Filipino women reacted scornfully to President Rodrigo Duterte’s statement country’s top leadership role was “not for women” because they were emotionally different than men, deriding the 75-year-old for ignoring contributions of women leaders and furthering already-prevalent sexism in country. Duterte and Trump are two glaring examples of scrotes that have been enabled to the detriment of their countries. It’s infuriating that these men get such positions of power. The narrative and the political landscape must continue to change for the better, for women to continue to advance globally.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 06:35 PM
17	Why do men pm women of this sub to ask questions about things they could easily google? Why is anyone on FDS validating the men’s PM’s with a response? Why acknowledge it? Even worse are the posts about these inane and often disrespectful PMs. Don’t pay attention to them. Don’t respond. Don’t feed it with any of your energy. Don’t legitimize. Just don’t. Ignore, block and move on. The high value women that frequent this sub have deeper things to ponder. We are on a journey to build up ourselves and our sisters. We have to give sustenance to the crops that we wish to flourish. Time …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/21 12:21 AM
15	I swear, why are male “feminists” always so terrible? 🚩 Married scrote with woke tags ON HIS TINDER PROFILE is still, painfully, a low class scrote. Remember, this guy always swipes right, because you’re worth it! 🤮 I bet his wife would absolutely think his Tinder account is cheating. Also, he’s a predator. A “good guy” who picks on the women on tinder with a low enough self esteem that she’ll overlook that he’s married, AND will hang on his every breadcrumb “encouragement” until she’s fully trapped and codependent. Classic abuser.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 04:15 PM
7	If this is what ‘the wall’ is sign me up. She’s 35 with a disability and looks and is way better than men What an incredibly inspiring woman. I love seeing stories like hers. Thank you for sharing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 02:51 PM
2	Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤 I agree that it’s a Scrote post, but could also be a troll, or, which is also sadly true, there’s really a guy this selfish and narcissistic, and a girl willing to put up with it. If it’s real, I hope she maintains no contact and kicks him out of her life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 02:47 PM
14	Never let a men guilt you for ghosting..Ghosting should be the most acceptable form of breaking up or not continuing a date (unless the guy was high value, in which case explaining is an okay thing to do) Oh to have been a fly on the wall to see his face and hear his reaction when the line went dead! 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 02:19 PM
139	Equip yourself with facts so men can’t bully you at work/dating/etc. Agreed! Strong, aware and independent. I am in awe of the coming generations.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 09:09 PM
14	OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to this That is insane. I hope that she sued the physician’s governing body, the gynaecologist, the hospital, the attending staff at the surgery where the doctor removed her tubes and all their progeny after them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 08:32 PM
2	Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence. Congratulations on the purchase of your home!!! Funny how life works, eh? The trash really did take itself out. The universe acknowledged that you levelled up. Losing this guy is a GIFT, and I hope you feel a massive sense of relief amidst the pain. From one internet stranger to another, I am giving you the loudest, most obnoxious standing ovation! What an inspiration your story will be to our sisters.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/20 09:02 PM
78	Since I left my abusive ex, I’ve lived in an all female household and I’ve unlearned so many harmful habits. Like I've learned it’s ok to have opinions on movies, books, and even activities. I’m making choices and participating in things I never would have considered otherwise. “Meet me in the middle, says the unjust man. You take a step toward him. He takes a step back. Meet me in the middle, says the unjust man.” - A. R. Moxon This is why holding firm to high standards is so important. We should not compromise, diminish, ignore, deny or postpone our needs in favour of a man’s, at a detriment to our own growth and well-being. Remember: YOUR NEEDS MATTER. Period. Make your choices and live accordingly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 10:57 AM
43	Friends with benefits for what? She nailed it. Benefits? More like taking on a liability and future sunk costs. No thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/20 02:42 PM
37	How to safeguard against future faking: Ask "When?" This is genius and a good thing to employ with people in general. It’s helped weed out the fake friends, fake coworkers, fake OLD matches, and even fake family. Once someone suggests an activity, instead of allowing it to remain in the nebulous future, date stamp that plan! Then sit back and see who actually follows through. If they commit, help plan and show up? That is an example of a person who is “walking the walk”, and is worthy of further time, emotional and financial investment. The other…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 04:20 PM
54	I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age. This is awesome! The self-assurance, confidence, SELF-LOVE and self-respect are blossoming amongst our sisters.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 03:57 PM
10	Men lying on their dating profiles... What in the actual F?! I’m sad for her, but if she needed proof that this was a LVM, then she just got it. Unequivocal proof. I don’t envy the decision she has to make though. And the blowback on their kids.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 02:29 PM
10	obese entitled scrote thinks he deserves better than his gf despite being a LVM Open and shut case: she needs to kick him to the curb. That kind of comment, delivered as a “joke”, along with all the other behaviours and comments (because surely these aren’t one-offs?) are the tip of the iceberg of how he truly feels about her. She knows it, and he knows she knows it. It’s almost a dare. How much of this disrespect is she willing to take? She should call his bluff. He wants to be free? Then she should cut the “tether” to his obese, entitled ass to the wild so that he can get…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/20 10:20 AM
23	Natalie Portman Says Being 'Sexualized as a Child' Made Her 'Afraid': 'You Don't Feel Safe' I didn’t even know about the countdown. Every time a layer is peeled back on Hollywood, the more we see the depths of the depravity prevalent in the industry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 01:35 PM
18	Natalie Portman Says Being 'Sexualized as a Child' Made Her 'Afraid': 'You Don't Feel Safe' Agreed! Legal should not be the guiding post on what is right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 01:34 PM
36	Natalie Portman Says Being 'Sexualized as a Child' Made Her 'Afraid': 'You Don't Feel Safe' The Professional by Luc Besson is a cringe inducing movie to watch due to the sexual tension between the child (Portman’s character) and the adult man who “saves” her. One Redditor linked in their comments that the original movie script included a sex scene or rather a CHILD EXPLOITATION AND STATUTORY RAPE SCENE, reportedly cut out by Portman’s parents. It’s insane that this is one of the top movies of all time. We need to protect our children and young women from predators, even when, or especi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 03:51 AM
2	Wisdom from older people That perspective on viewing a cheater as a rabbit, an animal that ruts constantly, is spot on for the last stain that I unfortunately allowed into my life for too long. Thinking of him as a rabbit has flipped the way I look at him. Made me realize he’s nothing but an animal. In defense of rabbits though, they wouldn’t lie to your face. They’re actually super cute and affectionate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 07:35 PM