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Why do you care what she thinks? That is blue pill mentality. If she doesn't know what she gave up yet it's not because you haven't fucked it's because you don't outwardly look like anything she cares about losing. Work on that and become better.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:33 PM
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I still have feelings for her. Just this means that you cannot turn her into a FWB. Very few people can plate an ex and you are in no place to do that. Stay away.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:26 PM
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She has sent plenty in the past
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:02 PM
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Yes that's the ideal and why I swallowed the pill years ago. Every once in a while it will happen regardless, trying to see what to do in that case
/r/askTRP19/08/16 09:38 PM
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As a final question, how would you go about getting the message across if she stopped sending any for a week or something? Just again, focus on other priorities? If it gets brought up later on why you're talking less do you go with, I've just had a busy week or what?
/r/askTRP27/06/16 05:46 PM
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Very understandable thank you. I was getting caught up in my head of thinking about it too much. Need to meditate and work on myself. I appreciate the guidance brother.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 11:47 AM
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This is a good point, would you mind giving an example of how to go about this? Was that rule a failed rule at the start? I would really appreciate if you'd take the time to explain your point of view here or in pm, thanks
/r/askTRP27/06/16 10:19 AM
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So, reduction in attention, focus on other things?
/r/askTRP27/06/16 09:27 AM
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You don't do it as reactionary, more as you haven't demonstrated that you are worth my time so right now you aren't.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:54 AM
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An alternative is saying "You look great, sheesh why do you always fish for complements?" in a humorous tone while barely paying attention and laugh at whatever her response may be.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 10:36 PM
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If everything you are saying is true in how you are interacting with them than yes, this comes down to a SMV issue. One issue that comes to mind is you may be coming on too hard at the start and thinking about specifics of how you are "supposed" to handle girls. Each girl requires the ability to know if you need to slightly change your approach based on how you perceive their personality to be. Aggression is not an attractive trait while amused mastery is, etc.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 10:32 PM
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No reply on your part is needed. I agree with vandaalen on his points. The only way you could possibly save this is by not responding and hoping she has given you enough thought that she hamsters. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 10:27 PM
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I lost it to the best friend of the girl I was first "in love" with (it's in quotations because that was back in my blue pill days and she was not worth my time) and to be totally honest with you, it may have made me more jaded towards sex and put less weight on it, but that is not a bad thing. If anything it is a good thing. My opinion would be to go for it so it takes a weight off of your mind.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 10:03 PM
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The key to organizing good events is making them so that regardless if anyone shows up you still have fun. If you have a hobby such as rock climbing or something of the likes, tell people that you are going at a certain time and to meet you there and you can show them the ropes. If they flake just have fun and do it yourself. If you do this often, they will start inviting you to their events. If you're at a job, ask coworkers you enjoy the company of what they are doing that night/weekend etc. a…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 09:46 PM
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I have started, I know that when I am alone for extended periods of time and when I don't get enough sleep I get depressed. I believe alcohol is also a factor but I'm not certain. What seems to work is I have to force myself to want to be happy which is hard. Very hard. Then I make a fake smile and laugh and it starts fading.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 12:21 PM
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Ok, makes sense, thank you for the well thought out reply.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 01:37 AM
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I needed that
/r/askTRP06/02/16 01:36 AM
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I agree with at that. I have become very good at external game but my internal game is poor. Depression runs in my family and I feel it sometimes, those times I lift. I do simple meditation but never studied it or delved into it deeply perhaps I should. What would you recommend for internal game?
/r/askTRP
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I find myself in a very similar situation to you and the girls sound almost identical. I appreciate the advice brother.
/r/askTRP
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That's sort of what I decided, I guess adding to the question I've started worrying about essentially what if she cheats on me and I never find out(though she has given no reason for me to suspect that)? How do I not worry about that or is that something that will just come with the territory?
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