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| 15 | Are all women past a certain age (e.g. 27/28) alpha widows?Only if she’s been out of a movie madly in love with a guy, which to be honest is not that common. A woman can get over a bunch of random dicks but will never get over who she thought was her soulmate. Soul ties and shit, men are the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/24 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Which do ya’ll prefer, cold approach or social circle?Social circle can help you get a girlfriend above your SMV if you have status in that circle. Other than that, it’s too low volume to have a regular dating life. Unless you’re working in nightlife and are always surrounded by new hot women. The odds of an attractive girl in your social circle who is single and also attracted to you is low. There’s also awkwardness that comes with bad dates and can harm your reputation in the circle. Lots of yuppie women also avoid dating within the social circle… | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Tinder experience as “Ripped” good looking maleIt’s your photos that are shit, I’m the same. Also you can pull off being a bit overweight IRL if you have a decent face and presence but to look good in photos you have to be quite lean. Work on getting your bf down | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingDon’t know why you’re getting downvoted. Being attractive makes game way easier. You still need social skills and game but she has to find you attractive | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 12:38 AM |
| 2 | How so many people here so good on apps yet have 0 success approach irl. 25MExactly. On dating apps, your profile does most of the selling for you. You can also showcase a lot of value up front in a passive way. Harder to pull this off in person. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Noticed something regarding attention receivedAnother thing to consider is that it’s safe for them to check you out/ put themselves out without risking rejection because you’re off limits. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker?Yes. Get your ass in the gym and watch what you eat. You can still pull while chubby if you have extreme game/charisma but given you’re asking this here, I’m going to assume you don’t. Keep approaching women in the mean time while you get fit but game becomes significantly easier when the girl is attracted to you and meeting you halfway. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL?I’ve been that guy you talked about when I worked in restaurants. Women would react to me in ways I could never understand. Things like rubbing their pussy and tits on me the moment we met. But you know what, I’ve also had guys with game steal girls under my nose because I was too much pussy to make a move. Women do have responsive desire with 99% of men. Giving up because you’re not the 1% is like not going to work because Bill Gates’s daughter never has to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Why I don't enjoy clubs for night gameYeah if you're attractive, clubs are the best because you can move around and women will start hovering/ rubbing their tits on you. Makeouts and grinding is easy but pulling can be tricky as you have to deal with the girls friends and cockblocks. The girls who make the first move are also generally less attractive than you. The attractive ones will eyefuk but you're still expected to make the first move | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?That means you can still get things going with 5%of them leading to 1-2 lay a week. Thats peak male experience on dating apps. You can’t expect to sleep with all the matches. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 03:34 PM |
| 12 | Why so hard despite being attractive?Are you making a move and escalating? Being attractive makes it really easy to get in the door but you still have to make the moves | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 05:23 AM |
| 32 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badI feel dating used to be easier back in the day because women had nothing elso to do. No Netflix, Tiktok and IG to give you instant dopamine hits. Now they can just spend time bed rotting and scrolling on their phones rather than put effort to go out and meet a stranger. She really has to see value in you to do so | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Gym girls - here’s how I go success with themYeah if she's into you it's plausible deniability for both of you to have a conversation. She knows what you're doing and play along with whatever BS you have with a sly smirk. | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 09:35 PM |
| 6 | How to know which girls are easyI’ve made similar observation as well. One thing guys miss about seductions is how confident the girl is in herself and open to be seduced. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Improving my game when I'm already an attractive guy?Got to over complicate things to sell courses. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 3 | What are things that worked for you guys that got you laid in day game?Have gone up and down in weight all my life, can map out the inverse correlation between body fat and attention. And I’ve never even been ripped, just jumped between skinny fat and fat. getting to low bf is probably the best thing you can do to pickup. Game is way easier when she’s into you and also participating in the interaction. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.True, you need a basic volume to even attempt running game. If you talk to 10 girls, 1 will be hell yeah, 3 will be hell no and 6 will be maybes. Game will help you close some of the maybes. Your SMV will determine the number of women in each of those category and game will help you convert them. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Bars and nightclubs are a huge waste of time. Thoughts?Alcohol consumption is going down among Gen z. They do a lot of weed, Molly and ketamine though, especially at raves | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 10:08 PM |
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