| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 39 | A Rant About Stares | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | PuzzleYum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 02:38 AM |
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| 64 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouthThe funny thing about that is, it seems they forget what their own word means. I am not involuntarily celibate. That would be obvious just by looking at me. Lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:12 PM |
| 3 | When did you first notice men noticing you in a sexual way?When I was 7. It was a grown man asking me to watch him masturbate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 01:45 AM |
| 10 | A year of climbing without menThis is great. I actually have a large to-do list of "life events" I've always wanted to do. Go skydiving. Zip lining. Go snowboarding again. Horseback riding. Just a bunch of random shit I've always wanted to do. And I've declared I will take a hiatus on dating men for the next few years. Sounds like this is a good time to bang out that list in the upcoming years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 08:51 AM |
| 26 | Sometimes men of all classes just don’t listenThis literally has nothing to do with mental illness. You are seeing an attack that's not there. FDSers have talked about mental illness in the past and will continue to do so, I'm sure. But this particular post about a very specific person and his specific actions have no bearing on "any human being with mental illness". He is just one man and we are talking about his invididual actions. And BTW, he has all the time and money in the world to get help. He can easily ask his community and followe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 07:39 PM |
| 4 | US-based women who are actively dating/in relationships: Protect your wombI agree with this. Plus increased privacy violations as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 12:24 PM |
| 101 | Roe will likely be overturned.Mine cost just over $2K. If u have good health insurance, maybe they'll cover the rest, but since it's a voluntary surgery and birth control optiions are available as an alternative, they may make you pay the amount in full. I got my bill and paid it off over time in installments. Oh capitalism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:21 AM |
| 18 | Roe will likely be overturned.I truly believe that one aspect of the 3rd world war will involve this conflict between men vs women. Just like how the (2nd?) World war had women filling in working roles of men here at home while they were off at war, leading to the realization (lol) that women CAN work and do a great job at it, even better than the men, which finally led to more equality and the right to vote, etc. Something big is gonna happen in this next one, as we all know it's stirring up. I just wonder what exactly will… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:16 AM |
| 85 | US-based women who are actively dating/in relationships: Protect your wombFight for it. Go get a second opinion and this time, bring a typed up essay detailing every single reason you want the surgery, and then also print out articles that support your arguments (don't just cite them). When I brought documentation, it was harder for the doctor to refuse. I got my bisalp at 26. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:04 AM |
| 35 | Never feel bad about enforcing boundariesGirl. I needed this post like a desert needs water. Gave me total life. I'm so thankful. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.This man is braindead. She is fucking gorgeous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 02:06 AM |
| 101 | What is your sexuality?I'm bi. I stopped telling men that I am. I'll only tell women because I want the ladies to know up front since, unfortunately, there are abundant pickmes who will act like they're into a woman just to impress a random dude watching from afar. I know that a lot of lesbians in particular have lost their trust in the words "I'm bi" because of this phenomenon. It sucks for me when dating, but I also understand because I too would hate to be treated that way, only to realize the entire interaction wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:53 PM |
| 69 | What is your sexuality?He told you to do something and then you did it and he got mad? Literally what happened when I was babysitting my neighbor's 4 year old. She asked me to cut up an apple for her, so I did but not the way she liked. She said, "No, not that way!" Lmao. Guess she had a twin in the form of a scrote somewhere. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:50 PM |
| 3 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠This is one of the most disgusting things I've ever read. And I'm not easily grossed out by most things, but this shit? I can't believe this woman is even asking for help. There is no help to be given for a man like this. No solution whatsoever. Just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:09 AM |
| 4 | Out of the mouth of babes, comes forth wisdom. If they're not proud to be with you and treat you accordingly, then it's time to go.I was replying to the person calling her a "donkey of a woman". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 02:41 AM |
| 14 | Out of the mouth of babes, comes forth wisdom. If they're not proud to be with you and treat you accordingly, then it's time to go.Ypu don't have to drag her down to make your point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:14 PM |
| 5 | People are dying but let me make it about how men are suffering since they all can’t get home cooked meals.We're all stuck in the house and many ppl have free time now. Youtube has tons of free cooking videos. Time is the best resource right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 05:38 AM |
| 4 | I asked him why he's poly and the answer is what you'd expect.Full Disclosure: I am a bisexual woman, and I often get stereotyped in a way where people assume I'm exactly like the guy you describe. Loose, full of disease, and poly for the sake of 'lacking control'. I am none of those things. The only reason I commented is because I was hoping to shed light that "bisexual" does not equal "STD-infected slut". That's all. Now the numbers within the linked content are atrocious! I gotta say, I was surprised that those numbers are still high. But then I remembe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 06:01 PM |
| 10 | Quarantine & LVMI live alone too. If I get lonely? There is always Skype, the phone, reddit, discord, email, the phone, zoom, the phone. We're not living in the dark ages here. Stop caring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Would you be able to list him as an emergency contact?I fucking hate it when dudes do that shit. I can't believe that's a thing. Immature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:23 AM |
| 14 | Who else had to unlearn normalizing and being flattered by men creepily leering and sexualizing you?So much this. I also had to stop watching some of my fav music videos because so many of them have this kind of interaction in them. Complete turn off now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 08:54 PM |
| 9 | A Security PSA - How to not get DoxxedGet an Exif remover on your phone. There are many free apps that accomplish this. After taking a photo, run it thru the app and clear off any data. I'd also reccomend renaming the photo itself since there's usually a date there by default. Once all the metadata is cleared, it will save, and now it's ok to post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | A Rant About StaresOh my gosh! That's so scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 08:41 PM |
| 7 | A Rant About StaresEw. The pedophilia is real. I am a short woman, and I look young for my age, so I imagine the frequency and constant-ness of the stares I receive may be attributed to this. I do wear pig tails on occasion, but I couldn't really tell you if it was increased on days I wore that hairstyle or not. I think guys will probably assume you're younger/more naive than you look just based on the hairstyle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:28 PM |
| 8 | A Rant About StaresThank you for saying that. ❤ It's really hard for me to ignore the stares because I really hate how each one steals my energy and my concentration. I remember once walking down the street, I was feeling really good and smiling, just cuz it was a gorgeous day and I was feelin myself. Then out of the blue, dude was driving by and goes "there's that smile" and immediately my good mood was ruined. I know we're "not supposed to let it get to us", but people don't realize how much emotional maturity t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | A Rant About StaresI appreciated the insight because at least there's one man willing to admit that this is a problem and that it IS indeed obvious. With the ocean of gaslighting that we're swimming in, I really started to wonder if men really were this ignorant/delusional. But knowing that this guy sees it, any man willing to actually look will find the hatred of women obvious. Therefore, the participation in misogyny and the failure to acknowledge it is by choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:19 PM |
| 8 | A Rant About StaresSo much this. Winter isn't enough tho. I could have seven layers on and a parka and men will still stare. I'll be hitting an age milestone soon and everyone around me is teasing me about becoming an old lady. But they don't realize I've actually been looking forward to being this age practically all my life! Yea, def come on menopause. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:16 PM |
| 13 | If you are a woman, it is named differently.I wish I could like this 70 more times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 04:20 PM |
| 4 | How is this normal!?! *waves arms in every direction* 30+ yo Men need to be told to shower and brush their teeth before a date!?! WHY DO THEY NOT KNOW THIS!?The comments there are sooo crazy. Lmao. I love how the men are all "why is this woman getting praised? If it was a guy talking about paying for sex ppl would call him a creep?" Like, a woman owning her sexuality and guaranteeing a safe, positive experience for herself is so fucking threatening. Meanwhile men have been taking advantage of and abusing women who do sex work for hundreds of years. Dudes always gotta turn it around and be like 'but what about the other side?' When the 'other side' h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 4 | FDS Shower Thought: Always Feeling Like You Don't Belong? Congratulations, You're An Enigma, Work It.Thank you so much for this. This was exactly what I needed to hear. I didn't realize I needed this extra boost, and I'm so glad to have seen it. ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 03:04 PM |
| 35 | We need a sub called "Am I With An Asshole".Avgirl, sooo true! I had the same experience. I had paid laundry in my apt bldg, and homeboy hated wearing shir twice (for whatever reason). My laundry expenses went from $10 a month, to $40 a month. Nah, nigga. You pay that whole shit yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Life Hack: Ladies, want to avoid being beaten, raped, abused and murdered by your significant other? I have the solution for you! Just date Nice Guys!Nah, girlfriend, you did not have to explain all of that to me and I hate that you felt that you needed to. Instead, I wish we could live in a world where HVM treatment was the norm. And I totally feel you on the 'money does not make an HVM'. I've def heard horror stories, too. So happy to hear you are in a good place now and getting the love and support you deserve! ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:56 AM |
| 29 | Sexism and misogyny of "How I met your mother"Another one I recently discovered: Bob Hearts Abishola. Dude literally looks like a walking block of cream cheese, and Abishola is this young gorgeous accomplished nurse. How they met? Dude had a heart attack cuz he's too fucking old, and Abishola was his nurse. So what does he do? He hits on his nurse. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:17 AM |
| 14 | Life Hack: Ladies, want to avoid being beaten, raped, abused and murdered by your significant other? I have the solution for you! Just date Nice Guys!It sucks that dudeface only did all that stuff to try and manipulate you. But girl, def appreciate that you've had several men provide in such a way. Like, the bar is soooooo fucking low for dudes that hearing about one, individual woman, receiving such a standard more than one time? I gotta be honest. I'm jealous. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:36 AM |
| 6 | Why peel a potatoI stopped shaving several years ago. Out of all the boyfriends and friends with benefits in that almost-decade, NONE have cared about me having hair. Not a one. I use an electric trimmer on my legs and pits (it is not a 'smooth shave' whatsoever) but no one would know because it looks exactly like if I have shaved. No one ever notices. I can go to the beach without sand-burn. (Ever made the mistake of going to the beach the day you shaved? Never again in my life, homie. Never again.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:57 AM |
| 5 | China Doesn't Like that I'm a Single Woman, Here's WhyThanks for the additional background. I didn't wanna watch any further because I didn't wanna find out that this was going to be just another show of women's suffering and not much else. I will watch the full doc after all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:23 AM |
| 27 | China Doesn't Like that I'm a Single Woman, Here's WhyI thought this was gonna be a woman's list of reasons why it's great for her to be single, but asian countries in general can be brutal against women who don't follow the norm. This family is acting like she is ruining them just because she's making a decision for herself. I do love how you can see the 'nope' on her face the second the man says some LVM bullshit, tho. Lol. But I bet this documentary was filmed by a man, or a woman who promotes that misogyny because they are highlighting this wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:52 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to "Whaaaaat how are you single? You're so beautiful"?Hmm. Swan Princess, huh? Ironically I've NEVER heard of that movie but I will def have to watch it now. Haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:18 PM |
| 7 | We’ve all heard the phrase: “Clothes make the man”. What has been your experience?Yea. I've also lived in both areas and Fl dudes reaaaally don't bother. Like, they literally won't understand what u mean if u suggest they dress a little nicer. I had a friend who literally asked me "dress nicer how?" Lmao. Clueless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:53 PM |
| 8 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsI had a bf like this too. He got fired from his job and was unemployed and got really depressed. Since he was home all day (b/c of course, I had let him move into my apt), I figured he'd take care of the place, and job search to the best of his ability. Even small, baby steps. Did that happen? Nah, sis. Course not. He played video games all day, trashed MY place, never did the laundry when he had some weird obsession with not wearing something twice (and this was paid laundry, so he'd actually t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:46 AM |
| 6 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsGirl, relate! My dude, get your dirty, dry ass fingers outta there. Step 1: wash your hands first (I can't tell you how many times I've had to remind guys to wash their hands even tho we've been out all day). Step 2: actually make effort to get me aroused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:34 AM |
| 9 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsI have a really terrible one. A truly embarrassing one. I had the lamest bf last year. He would pretend to be sleeping all the time at random moments, *even while we were having sex*. Sometimes I would think it'd be sexy to wake him up with a blowjob or something, but no. He would literally pretend to sleep, even tho I KNOW he was awake, but would continue until he came, and then I had the gall to expect him to finally get up, admit he was awake, say thank u, and return the favor. No, he'd somet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:31 AM |
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