PuzzleheadedLurker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Q4W: What do you think men get wrong when raising daughters? Would you mind elaborating on treating well?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 06:25 PM
1	The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of men Now that you put it this way, I definitely agree. That can happen but it doesn't happen most of the time. I am probably pretty biased in this sense as graduating early and starting to work in a field I am thrilled to be in was the best thing ever happened to me and my SMV. Thanks for putting it in a clear and concise way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 02:26 PM
1	The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of men I agree to disagree here, as this is a matter of preference, but FWIW, even I would let a non-famous version of Dwayne Johnson hit on me in a pub to find out what it feels like getting wet with a penis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 02:05 PM
2	The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of men It again goes back to the matter of correlation vs. causation I guess. I agree that if you take 100 men who are 29 years old and 100 men who are 22 years old, chances are the number of attractive men in the latter group will be significantly higher. Here is the catch though: This mostly because many 22 years olds have energy to look out for their physical appearance and spare time to hit the gym while many 29 years olds are busy with working in a corporate job they don't like and possibly let th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 01:08 PM
1	The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of men 22 year olds almost always look better than 29 year olds As a heterosexual male, I may not be able to convince you about this but I strongly suggest that you ask a couple of honest female friends of yours as to what they think about this statement haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 10:48 AM
1	The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of men I am also a believer that the greatest SMV leap occurs for men when you go from being student to making your own money (i.e. having your life in control) but what makes you really think that your 29 will not be better than your 26? I mean, you can go from a bulky guy wearing L-size shirts to a fairly lean guy still wearing L-size shirts in 3 years. You can quickly climb up the corporate ladder (or it's academic counterpart) in 3 years. And handle probably many other stuff in your life that wait …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 10:16 AM
2	The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of men Sexual market value (SMV) refers to an individual's mating value, and it's the the sum of all resources, personal qualities, and fitness indicators that he possess. source: https://thepowermoves.com/sexual-market-value/ Other than a definition, I will have to ask this: Are you seriously thinking that physique is the only way to make a woman wet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 12:28 AM
6	The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of men As far as I am concerned, SMV stands for Sexual Market Value which does not solely consist of physical fitness. Am I missing something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 12:06 AM
5	The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of men I am sorry but if you argue that men peak at 24-25, you are supposed to back it up. And no, this is not a common knowledge. Many men may be living their best lives about those ages as it is the only short period of time for many where they make their own money (therefore have their own life) but has no internal/external pressure to get in a committed relationship. However, this doesn't imply that they peak their SMV at 24-25. I am currently 24 years old and many of my friends are still virtually…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/21 11:19 PM
2	[Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience? If you want to go with empirical evidence, go outside and take a look. You will find millions, if not billions, of cases that clearly show that we partner mainly based on looks. If you are strictly adhered to the studies and have no intention to leave the house, you should better look up the term "correlation does not imply causation". First off, the fact that very unattractive women at age 29 were more likely to be married doesn't necessarily mean that they "performed better in the dating marke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/21 11:15 AM
1	What are your standards? I am free to choose from the pool of men who want me, and it only makes sense to pick the best one. As fair and reasonable as it can be. We are actually on the same page about all the things you wrote. I’m very beautiful and very attractive. Clear skin, soft hair, and I’m youthful and full of joy. Would you have any problems being solely valued for these characteristics? I am pretty sure you are not limited to being attractive and feminine so what I mean to ask is, would you have any problems be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 07:23 PM
1	People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature". We are on the same page there. However, sexual attraction is not solely about fucking. That's why I emphasized non-sexual acts up in the comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 06:30 PM
2	What are your standards? Myself, that's it. This is sadly the only sentence that pertains to my original question. If that's the only answer you are willing to give, I have no other option but to accept it. But if you could elaborate on that a bit, that might be really helpful. We are actually not on different pages, that's not why I am asking. In contrary, I believe that some women have the luxury to think and act so under certain circumstances (which I will not be naming for now in order to not influence your answer).…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 05:16 PM
1	People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature". One of "those" people, I will have to respectfully disagree on the in-denial part of it. Let me put it this way: For me (as a supposedly masculine man), the difference between a girlfriend (in the sense of a relationship) and a fuck buddy is huge. A fuck buddy is, by definition, not supposed to provide me with a constant feminine energy throughout the week. I am talking about the energy that I need the most when I start to feel like being worn out by the masculine activities I normally enjoy doi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 03:40 PM
2	People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature". Why do people always assume that everybody believes in and seeks love? In order to rant about "using Tinder to find love", first you have to assume that everybody is looking for love in a relationship. The same arguments were made yesterday in a similar post here. If you are looking for a lifestyle compatibility and similar personalities, run away from Tinder as fast as you can. However, there are MANY people who believe that sexual attraction is the most important part of a romantic relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 02:45 PM
6	What are your standards? I am sorry if I got you wrong but as far as I am concerned, you literally described a traditionally masculine man while refusing to adopt the traditionally feminine roles. Would you mind if I asked what you bring to the table when this tall, wealthy, generous and understanding man decided to start a relationship with you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 10:59 AM
4	What are your standards? I believe you may be overlooking the importance of #4 that is emotional stability. The profiles you named are very likely to miss adequate amount of self-confidence and/or good mental health to lead a healthy relationship. Don't you think so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 10:50 AM
–	Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual Preferences Could you explain this in detail?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 06:11 PM
2	LTR with perfect Looks or perfect Personality? I don't agree but I agree to disagree as it is a matter of preference. Wanna shake hands on a stable 9?	/r/askTRP	01/03/21 09:07 AM
5	LTR with perfect Looks or perfect Personality? Reporting after 2.5 years with a crazy 9, having run out of all my patience and sanity, I'd do it again. 9 is a 9 and the only options that are better than a crazy 9 are stable 10, crazy 10 and stable 9.	/r/askTRP	01/03/21 08:49 AM
4	I lack understanding about RP in a "healthy way" these are my doubts. I am looking forward to your advice, thank you. IMHO, you don't lack the understanding of RP in healthy way, but rather, you are able to filter out some of the unhealthy aspects of it. Let me elaborate on that: 1&3&5) There are literally billions of women out there, who will have sex for short-term pleasure. Just like they are not "using men" to have sex, men don't use them either. Many people think that women are not down for casual sex, and will use sex as a currency in exchange for commitment. This generalization is wrong on so many levels…	/r/askTRP	24/02/21 01:31 PM
1	I lack understanding about RP in a "healthy way" these are my doubts. I am looking forward to your advice, thank you. TRP is indeed about teaching men how to be a high-value man but unfortunately, it is pretty difficult to argue that it isn't about "tricking" women at this very point. This sub has become all about "chick did this, what's my next move" and it's perfectly sensible for OP to have this confusion. I don't argue that women nature should be overlooked either. As a matter of fact, I would not have decided to change my lifestyle 3 years ago, if I had not become aware of the tough facts about women. Howe…	/r/askTRP	24/02/21 01:00 PM
3	Is this a shit test or plausible deniability? You relax and be playful by asking "think you can resist?", not by answering it. Stop overthinking and be yourself. If you have no problem not having sex for a weekend, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. There's no one-size-fits-all. You don't have to make strategic moves to be desired by women, you need to be you and don't be afraid to express yourself when you feel like YOUR needs / boundaries are being ignored, not MINE nor OURS.	/r/askTRP	24/02/21 08:33 AM