PuzzleheadedNote3 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why women don't chase men? They chase you just have to be him and she has to be the type of girl confident enough to be used to seducing men to get them to chase her	/r/seduction	23/04/26 06:30 PM
0	Are 3șum even a real thing? The girls ive known to do it are the ones going through a spiral have drug abuse issues mental health issues in my 20s. Even then having a bi friend is what ive seen work.	/r/seduction	17/12/25 10:09 PM
1	Do you go cold approaching alone? I'm especielly interested in night game. Well its definetly easier not being alone. I will say though i think youre overestimating the potential for a fight. Unless youre in some really seedy areas, in which youre in for a fight anyway. The type of person who starts fights at bars wont really care if theres one more.	/r/seduction	30/11/25 07:40 AM
1	How do you know if you’re a dom or a sub? In my experience the types of people that like to be dominated are higher up in the natural hierachy irl. For women id say it still holds true but women tend be more complex. In terms of guys good buddy of mine was pretty high up in terms of male hierachy former air force jacked tatted had his life together respected. Dude had hella stories but he did tell me his best nut was when one of his exs make him cum while strangling him with a belt. Keep in mind this dude has killed people in iraq.	/r/seduction	26/11/25 04:33 AM
0	Women full of themselves? Yeah the more attractive they are the worse it gets imo. The dumb ones arent very good at masking it. This is especially true when youre 18-29. Someone else mentioned it but you care too much about what shes saying.	/r/seduction	25/11/25 10:05 PM
2	Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back? Id say depends on age/life stage. If youre in early 20s college or have a lot on your plate. It could be as simple as enjoying the attention/flirting but being avoidant, not wanting a relationship, past trauma, etc. If theres no reason for them to not entertain a relationship, could be someone else in the picture could be lack of progression like someone else mentioned, bad sex/lack of sex, not being what you thought itd be. Options are endless really	/r/seduction	15/11/25 06:14 AM
7	There’s this super hot bartender I can’t stop thinking about. Theres no such thing as a one size fits all. But my ex became a bartender mid relationship when i was already emotionally commited and not in a place to breakup with her. I do not recommend bartenders. Ive worked in the service industry someone else already commented this but take the amount she would get hit on and take it to the power of 4. Service industry people are fun have good personalities but the industry trains you psychologically towards addiction (random interval reward) ergo attract…	/r/seduction	15/11/25 05:35 AM
7	Is it common for competent women to go after submissive guys? Thats kind of the core of a woman imo. Theres a reason that some men become less masculine after being a LTR no matter the type. They beat their men into submission then lose attraction. Even in what would be considered healthy relationships it happens think about it.	/r/seduction	22/10/25 01:54 AM
2	Are there any advantages of playing "Nice guy" The one thing that isnt taught to men at a young age is the distinction between "nice" and "kind". Being nice falls more along the lines of being a pushover lacking assertiveness. Being kind on the other hand falls along the lines of being empathetic. On the extreme end Ive seen shallow douchebag borderline dumb guys that were incredibly kind do very well with women. The key Id say as you mature as a man you learn to balance your masculine energy with the feminine. As you mature and as you get b…	/r/seduction	15/10/25 05:25 AM
47	Her Story Made Me Rethink Everything About Dating Ohhhh brotherrrrr. Youre in for sooooo much BS	/r/seduction	06/02/25 10:24 AM
1	Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like? If you think the US.has no safety net dont even look at asia. The US is technically ~20% socialist if you look at govt programs.	/r/seduction	31/08/22 02:04 AM
2	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" How true this is depends on age and attractiveness but the truth hurts. The more attractive she is the likelier it is to be true especially in your 20s	/r/seduction	24/04/22 01:43 AM
6	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me Dont ever listen to women who try to tell you how to live life as a man EVER. Women will always try to tell men how to be men without knowing a goddamn thing about being one. Their opinions typically are self serving or coming from a place of ignorance if you peel back the layers of logic.	/r/seduction	01/04/22 01:39 AM
1	A waiter at a restaurant waited until I went to the restroom to flirt with my gf, am I in the wrong to feel mad and disrespected? If youre extremely offended yes ita insecurity but its also mad disrespectful acknowledge both make a decision on whether you want to punish that in his tip and move on	/r/seduction	09/03/22 04:57 PM
4	Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend? Well for starters as many others have said guys wont approach a group of women especially during the daytime except for certain situations. Your best bet is if you want a certain guy to approach you gotta give him the go signals. You know the look at his eyes then look down look at him again smile or w.e equivalent you use. If the guy knows what hes doing or interested/has the balls he'll approach. Honestly unless you directly give a guy a signal its kind of wierd to approach a group of women un…	/r/seduction	04/03/22 02:15 AM
1	[NSFW] I’m tired of jerking off I bet youll get a girl quicker if you stopped jacking it	/r/seduction	13/02/22 03:51 AM
1	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? Which is why i hinestly think anyone who doesnt get this is most likely a kid	/r/seduction	22/01/22 08:36 AM
2	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? I thought you were being sarcastic i had no clue about the /s first time ive ever heard of it. 🤷	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:06 PM
2	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? Not sure if youre being sarcastic or not. The existence of hierarchies doesnt mean people are absolutely confined to them that idea is idiotic. How you define "leagues" is incredinly subjective as well. Not to mention that you can talk your way up hierarchies in dating if youre a guy. Ima just assume anyone who doesnt get that is either a kid or a bit dense.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 09:45 PM
4	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? Thats a good thing to tell yourself in practice. But there are hierarchies trying to argue against the existence of hierarchies is just stupidity.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 08:29 PM
3	Am I bad if I just want sex? No matter what you want just be confident in it. Dont feel guilty for wanting what you want. By the same token you cant get upset either if you dont have any success	/r/seduction	19/01/22 10:23 PM
15	Gym girls There are women who want to be approached at the gym and ones that dont you have to determine what category that girl fits into to. The ones that look fairly new spend a lot of time checking out guys not really focused on lifting fall inti the former. I will say though heavily dependent on the individual as long as you approach the situation correctly you can approach anyone at the gym. It might help at first to just talk to people in general ay the gym be friendly. Obviously how well this will …	/r/seduction	19/01/22 07:49 PM
7	Why do female friends get jealous when their male friends flirt with and talk with other women? Women are possessive keep in mind that men dominate physically, women by nature have to dominate psychologically. Theres a reason men tend to say women are crazy since to an extent they are in that you cant necessarily comprehend how theyre thinking. In my early 20s i experienced this a lot where women would never show it outwardly but you could see it on a subconscious level. Just as men have notches women do too, though they might keep score differently. This manifests sometimes into women thi…	/r/seduction	19/01/22 07:39 PM
1	[deleted by user] Yup thats pretty much as accurate as it can get on a general perspective	/r/seduction	03/10/21 07:00 PM
1	Girls texts you fun party pics but no invite LOL Well yeah but at the same time youre assuming one end of the spectrum. Theres a lot of info thats missing here. Context age specific information the amount of repour established how they met to begin with. Yes women are afraid of rejection. But given that the guy in this instance took the time to ask a bunch of people on reddit A) shes most likely a high priority to him in a dating sense B) given the context my assessment fits a generalized situation. Theres no one size fits all. How you handle …	/r/seduction	01/03/21 01:06 AM
13	Girls texts you fun party pics but no invite LOL Def a shit test to see howd you respond. If she wanted you there she wouldnt send you pics of it imo. But that would depend on how old you are id say and the pics in question. Best way to handle that id say depends on her tone. Id say if she wanted you there shed outright ask you not throw a bait and not invite you. Tbh itd be kinda wierd to go to that party if shes already there id say play it based on the fact youre not going. Ergo you need to respond in a way that youre not interested. Since …	/r/seduction	28/02/21 09:20 AM
1	What causes you to lose interest in a girl? Highly recommend approaching guys that youre interested in. Bumble works cuz women initiate. Studies show that relationship success is a lot higher if a women initiates interest. Not to mention youre more likely to have better selection at your age. Youre at an age where therell be social situations where it shouldnt be too difficult once corona is over. From a guys perspective when i initially approached by the girl first it shows me more interest. Chasing women is a fool's game if the girl is …	/r/seduction	22/01/21 12:42 PM
2	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? Yeah for sure i just hit 30 and while in my earlier 20 I wouldnt really care nowadays like you id be kinda irked too. My guess is that the OP is likely in his early 20s.	/r/seduction	27/12/20 08:36 PM
4	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? I get your point but if a girl is willing to cancel id say she probily wouldnt even show up tbh. But i get your point i think this really depends on age and where you live ergo like demographics and urban vs suburban. What i mean is if youre in college vs early 20s in downtown area vs late 20s/early 30s the best course of action would be completely different. Regardless id say take that into consideration	/r/seduction	27/12/20 07:53 PM
6	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? I think people are just trying to tell you theres a way of confirming without coming off needy ergo little to no downside. If you can go solo anyway then why not go ahead and confirm? No response? Then you can still solo and not waste your time. Whereas not confirming could be misconstrued by some. Obviously whichever method being more benefitial depends on age situation etc. But you can have your cake and eat it too. If you dont care about rejection confirming shouldnt matter	/r/seduction	27/12/20 07:40 PM
1	Tried to dirty talk with a girl during a sex, didn't go as I expected. What can I improve? Delivery is everything id wager if you were stoned it might of come out different than you expected. Also context matters you cant say something like that out of the blue ya know. I dont know you or the girl youre with but anything sexual you gotta tailor fit to the individual for proper execution. Some things work most of the time but things like that you gotta take time to consider what she likes what gets her off what her fantasies are how sexual the girl is.	/r/seduction	27/12/20 07:34 PM
7	Tips on attracting men for women? Talk to them its honestly that simple in my mind. Theres a reason bumble has a higher success rate. Relationship success is higher when a woman approaches the guy. Most guys are either used to doing the bulk of the work or never being approached period. Talk to guys take interest in them. Take a nibble then walk away if theyre interested theyll reapproach you or make some move to show interest. From that point, balls in your court. Whether the guy reapproaches you or not its a win win for you as…	/r/seduction	23/11/20 01:24 AM