Yeah that does make sense. I think I will get there too. Just dealing with lots of emotions and the betrayal. Catching her cheating was the last straw for me which is why I left.
Thank you! Obviously I made some mistakes but I thought we were building towards a better life and she was committed to it. And to be fair it’s not like I paid for everything. But a lot of the life choices she made I blindly followed. But I also realize she is somewhat of a child still mentally. She would throw a fit if she didn’t get her way. I think in my mind I thought she would never leave so I was trying to keep her happy. But now I realize she can never be happy because she’s always chasin…
Yeah you’re right. But it’s hard to balance, kids, spouse and family. I guess I should have tried harder before it was too late. I still have a lot of unanswered questions. It was a crazy whirlwind ride! Everything happened so fast. But the way she went about it and how she treats me now make me glad we are Seperated.
