PuzzleheadedSlide774 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Would a man seek a lifelong relationship with a woman who has kids? Personally single mom is the dealbreaker, I don’t want to take care of another man’s children and the ex to be still around somehow. It’s the case for a lot of childless single guys from what I’ve seen, especially younger ones. I think the best option is a guy who’s a single dad honestly.	/r/MensRights	03/04/25 08:02 PM
17	Netflix says it has made 'Adolescence' available to all secondary schools across the UK and that a 'healthy relationships charity' will produce guides and resources for teachers, parents and carers to 'help navigate conversations' around the series Not even just straight men, most of my gay male friends are leaning more and more conservative now. Granted it’s more about immigration issues and the fact that the LGBT community has gone haywire, but the result is the same. I think it’s genuinely coming.	/r/MensRights	01/04/25 04:37 AM
1	What's the bottom line on height? It’s really blown out of proportion. Obviously if you are 5’2 aka shorter than most women then yes it’s going to be harder for dating ,but guys from 5’6 to 5’9 aren’t actually short outside of social media and the land of female delusion that is dating apps. The rest will be unaffected regardless. I’m 5’8, I’m short according to these spaces but irl most men are around my height. It’s average. Even 5’6 doesn’t stick out IRL. Never got rejected for my height, never got called short either. I was …	/r/MensRights	01/04/25 04:23 AM
1	Netflix drama demonstrates that smartphones are poison for boys’ minds. Only boys minds. I thought it was that too but more nuanced, basically how generally unsupervised and unadvised kids can result in tragedy. The girl being a bully in a way adults can’t understand, the guy being influenced with views they don’t understand either, the explosive combination of these two things and the tragic aftermath. The completely powerless parents and school who do nothing. The end result is two lives ruined and two families broken, not just one. The girl is dead. The guy is landing himself a m…	/r/MensRights	29/03/25 06:15 AM
1	We gotta Learn to Decenter Women The “bear” and “4B” is only when they’re not attracted to the guy and/or he doesn’t comply to the demands and/or holds them accountable for anything. Made me laugh when they wanted to do 4B after Trump’s election because it’s really business as usual for 80% of men these days anyways, and the rest isn’t included in that 4B concept. What changed. 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/MensRights	19/02/25 08:30 AM
3	We gotta Learn to Decenter Women 100%. A few of the problems we have right now with women are men’s fault at the root. Not in the way feminism says : it’s men’s behaviours that get exploited by women for their own benefit. Cut out the root, kill the tree. Notice how women keep calling men sassy and gay when not getting what they want ? It offends guys because they think sassy and gay is bad. If it don’t mean shit anymore then women lose the ammo. Why do we care about random women opinion again ? Notice the crazy dating standard…	/r/MensRights	19/02/25 07:49 AM
2	I find it interesting how the dating bar is often raised for men Literally happened to me with an ex, she got into that « I want a provider » mentality due to social media influence, I refused to fund her life, a month after it was over and a week after that she had someone else. The guy is not necessarily better looking and is significantly poorer, but he was willing to simp and especially, to pay up. Saddest part is she had a lucrative and respected type career. Not my problem tho.	/r/MensRights	14/02/25 09:50 PM
3	I find it interesting how the dating bar is often raised for men Real. At this point I feel bad for the men who go on the « self-improvement » route for women and get trapped in the spiral. It will be endless, because the destination is a woman that will bring not as much as them to the table, thus, a liability. It doesn’t feel like the destination so they keep pushing and pushing, but it really is.	/r/MensRights	14/02/25 02:38 PM
5	I find it interesting how the dating bar is often raised for men Honestly it’s gotten to the point where I don’t understand how other men are still playing that game. The efforts needed compared to the payoff puts you in the deep negatives, and even appearance isn’t even a criteria you can openly have these days - try saying you have a type or don’t want to date women that are X and Y. So even attraction will be debatable. Women date up so much that they’re almost never worth it for the man. I’ve got all the criteria they want except height (might be the reas…	/r/MensRights	14/02/25 05:39 AM
1	The "women need to take so much care into their appearance" argument My only argument to this is that lookism affects both men and women, but that for women the standards are far lower and the payoff is higher. Not being fat and looking decent is not hard. For men the threshold to a decent payoff is way higher and 50% of it is genetics. To get the same level of « beauty privilege payoff » as an above average woman you have to be a genetic miracle. The only thing women have it harder in that equation is that if they don’t meet the base threshold they will be withh…	/r/MensRights	06/02/25 06:34 AM
4	False accusations (a rant!) Unbelievable that people gave her blind trust when had history of doing the same to others. Surely this should make anyone doubt at least a little. This is what saved me personally, people found it out of character for me so when the girls’ past accusations ( in similar contexts too) came up my allegations got buried. Before I got accused I used to be in the « believe all women » camp too, but now if the girl always has drama surrounding her, is very quick to tell everybody/social media, all tha…	/r/MensRights	26/01/25 11:52 AM
10	False accusations (a rant!) I was falsely accused too but thankfully mine didn’t go too far, the girls’ story changed everyday, she had a history of doing this and she was known as extremely unstable. Some people still believed her but enough of them told her to get lost with this so it didn’t go further than losing some friends. Basically she had a boyfriend and wanted to leave him for me, he found out and left so she was pissed she « lost everything » when I rejected her ( a few days before )- so she made this shit up. H…	/r/MensRights	26/01/25 07:17 AM
5	Let’s list every hardship men go through Sexual harassment is one and as a man you’re expected not only to just take it but also be be appreciative of it. Also when you speak out be sure you’ll hear that women get “raped daily” if not have it dismissed as bragging.	/r/MensRights	25/01/25 06:21 AM
18	Incels are Oppressed Also incel pretty much nowadays just means “not willing to drink the kool-aid”. It’s THE word degen women use to counter any criticism against them. I’ve been called one because I told an OF girl acquaintance I didn’t want to hear about her predatory not-a-real-job hustle when she was ragging on about how hard this “work” is. I’ve got called that when I mentioned body positivity from women only goes one way. Etc,etc… I was in a quite public relationship each time with a woman with the same opini…	/r/MensRights	24/01/25 06:15 AM
3	The incel problem I witnessed that attention thing lately and it’s absolutely crazy. I have an acquaintance who’s decent looking but nothing crazy either and the caliber + number of men on her DM’s…. Men willing to pay for her attention and stuff too. I expected it but not to that extent. Her ego is massive too ( I always through she was a bit of a narc and keep her at arms length because it gets insufferable ) and now I understand why. Like wouldn’t I have turn like that too if I was in her position type shi.	/r/MensRights	23/01/25 06:22 AM
1	Let's boycott women It kind of does itself honestly. I’m probably asexual so I view it without any lust clouding my judgement. Most women I’ve encountered were not only 0 perk but a net loss since I don’t care for sex and don’t want kids, but they want X and Y paid or whatever. 5 years ago the options I had had not much to offer except their appearance but I did date a few - there was still some benefit. Now ? they date so further up now that if you’re the average guy with a good living what you get is really mid g…	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 12:38 PM
1	False accusations and the dating landscape is dangerous I was falsely accused of SA when I was the one SA’d by a girl at some point. She was my friend and I was planning to just let it go, unfriend her and « drink less next time » when, months after, I heard she was telling people I raped her. Basically to save herself when her long term boyfriend started hearing rumours she cheated. « Thankfully » the girl was known for being a mess with prior cheating and past false accusations were also discovered, so it didn’t go super far. However I felt deeply …	/r/MensRights	11/11/24 05:03 AM
18	Gender movements I get what you’re saying but they’re not owed money. Even through to be honest these women who expect men to pay for everything should just be avoided, if the woman expect the man to do so the relationship becomes transactional. If you don’t fulfill your end of the deal then… the deal is off. Now I don’t know maybe the woman brings other value than just sex, in which case then I agree with you. However in a lot of cases, for that specific type of women ( the « pay my bills, my nails and my hair …	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 06:42 AM
3	The 4B will hurt the women who support it All it will do is turn more men to the right, both as a direct and as a long-term consequence. It’s pure stupidity. Short-term, leftist men are the ones who’ll suffer from this. Right-wing men don’t date leftist women. Leftist men however… now we’ve seen that the rise in unhinged feminism and male loneliness epidemic already turned men to the right more. So this will turn the less brainwashed (or more fed up) side of leftist men to the right. Moderates will turn even more. I’m a centrist who tur…	/r/MensRights	08/11/24 01:42 PM