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I believe that makeup is the reason why women are more attracted to women.
/r/MensRights02/08/26 07:36 PM
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I mean if your claim to fame is just sex, I guess. But personally for me it's about connection
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:50 PM
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The problem is women love to shift the goalposts.
/r/seduction02/08/26 09:59 AM
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You don't say?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/26 02:03 AM
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If Rashid wants to talk about violence? I'd love to hit him in the face and be done with it. The only people who owe an apology to women is the people who have committed violence against them.
/r/MensRights01/08/26 08:38 PM
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You want to know why men aren't approaching? Well you guys keep moving the goal posts. #MeToo made it so men were creepy just for approaching. Then comes along online dating, which I contend is a huge problem. Online dating is still being used but now we're being expected to approach again? The goal posts keep getting moved and we not even told about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:47 PM
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Jesus being able to falsely accuse, in the middle of public. The Audacity these women have. I mean should we fear false accusations trying to get us hemmed up? We need to make a punishment for false accusations
/r/MensRights01/08/26 03:57 PM
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For both tribes males married between 20 and 30. For aboriginal females they were betrothed between 12 and 15. The Zulu females were between late teens and early 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:44 PM
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Neither had mating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:19 PM
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Even the peasants still had an opportunity to mate. It just happened later in life. I believe 22 to 24 age. Yes monogamy has been more acceptable in history because they already knew that having a large part of unattached men would be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:02 PM
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Young men having an option is in mate is not a modern invention. In the middle ages, children of nobility would begin marrying at 12 to 14. The male loneliness epidemic is the product of many different situations. So let me ask this, you say women have no blame, but how is that possible when women find 80% of men unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:56 PM
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Now we both men just look at the looks and it's on to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:59 AM
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Sorry, I misquoted it was 200. Link 1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:39 AM
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Online dating is the worst things ever invented. I was listening to Scott Galloway who said men need 2000 swipes to get 5 coffees. Out of those 5 coffees, 4 will ghost you. Also it seems like the younger generation is trying to reinvent the wheel when it comes to dating. Like who wants a will they won't they relationship? When people used to get together that was it. You didn't even have to say don't bang other people, it was implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:29 AM
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No, online dating and social media are just ruining our lives. Life used to be a lot better before they even came along. And honestly it seems like the younger generation is trying to reinvent the wheel on dating. Like a situationship. Who the hell wants a will they, won't they relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:16 AM
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Not to be that guy, but it wasn't even 20 years when 16 year olds were going at it like rabbits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:07 PM
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I wish personality was more prevalent because let's face it we all get old and looks fade. But people are vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:23 PM
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No, I would consider that wasting my time and I only have a finite amount of time left.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:56 PM
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Just saying from personal experience investing in the wrong woman can ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:46 AM
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I agree unfortunately though it's a hard lesson to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:14 AM
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Make no mistake, HR only protects your company, not you. Besides there's an old saying, Don't shit where you eat. It only ends badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:38 AM
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I don't even know where to begin here. Men without stable careers/income insist on getting married and having children Not sure if you've noticed but the birth rate is plummeting. Not only that, but I believe that men have got wise to the game. Let's face it, 9 times out of 10 marriage these days have nothing more than a shitty Return on Investment. At this point, let's admit the economy is not great to put it mildly. It's getting harder for everyone to live, but I'm sure this is a male only pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:40 AM
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How can anything be optimal when there's so many differences?
/r/seduction19/07/26 02:20 PM
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Looking at your post history, it sounds like you could benefit from therapy because you sound bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:53 AM
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This began 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:23 PM
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Men love women the way people love puppies That's just not true. Would women sacrifice themselves for men the way men would sacrifice themselves to protect women? I say absolutely not. You're absolutely correct here. At the same point however, this is part of the problem. Men's love is still based on possessiveness Where are you getting these far fetched views from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:25 AM
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It's not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:17 AM
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Yes. Prior to dating apps, this is how it was done. Completely Underrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:00 AM
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Alimony and child support, as well as asset division during divorce, offer protections to women who give up some of their chances for professional success Parents should pay equally when it comes to raising their kids. But to think they should automatically have them is ridiculous. Especially when you consider that women end 70% of marriages. Protections for women who choose to take on family responsibilities should be supported by anyone who wants their partner to spend more time at home. While…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:22 AM
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Personally I couldn't stay in that situation. While yes, the sex would be an issue, but I believe the rejection would kill me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:20 AM
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Well hypergamy is a thing. Now, I'm also smart enough to recognize that with the way things are going (men falling behind, women making higher incomes) that hypergamy will actually be reduced because the number of men at the top will be reduced and there will be less opportunity to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:06 AM
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I remember when I was a teenager and things in this country were just so much more pleasant. There were no gender wars. I believe that were in a state of hyper individualism, and the loss of connections is driving us all a little batty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:52 PM
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I get it. I'm honestly not even trying to be an ah. There's just some times when you feel the need to speak up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:30 PM
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Men would rather sexually coerce (rape) their wives than leave them That's a hell of an accusation which sounds like it has no basis in reality. Men don’t value true intimacy (emotional connection) only sex Once again, not true. I believe over time men have tried to open up to their partners. I will say personally I've received negative reactions when previously opening up. Now I'll be the first to admit that men most certainly do have faults that they need to address in the sex crisis. Now, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:35 PM
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Just goes to show that no fucks are given when it comes to men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 09:46 PM
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Now this would be true reality TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:30 PM
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That sounds like a pretty extreme reaction. Like even though I have depression I'm not going to go out and make so that my little man doesn't work. He needs to be ready and available when called to service. I'm not going to sit her and sabotage myself. Too many men shoot themselves in the foot and honestly it's their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:22 PM
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So it seems like someone decided to choose violence this morning. Well buckle up buttercup. Here we go. You mock men about opening up about not receiving sex. Here's what it comes down to, quite frankly nobody is worth staying in a dead bedroom relationship for. The emotional intimacy that men and women recieve from sex is a fundamental need. Yes, there certainly other avenues to open up about, but I'm not going to sit here and allow you to downplay the fact when sex is not taking place a fundam…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:34 PM
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Is it just me in thinking or does the fact in school you have to sit down, be quiet, which for the most part goes against the very nature of boys? Now what I'm about to say next is not meant with disrespect, but a big part of the issue in their being a boy crisis is that most mental health providers are now women. They account for 80%. In Social Work, men only account for 12% to 20%. Boy's are severely underrepresented. Not to be that guy, but if you think the suicide rate is bad now, it will ge…
/r/MensRights02/07/26 09:23 AM
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Gender development is messy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 08:56 AM
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Ah, Double Standards. It's not empowering , it's controlling. And also the statement Yes Queen Slay should be removed from the dictionary. I swear the older I get the closer to Idiocracy we get.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/07/26 03:10 AM
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Yet you have not provided a single example. So you're criticizing me for doing the same thing you did, even though I'm right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:47 PM
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Ma'am I think you believe that only your answer is correct. At least I've explained mine. I can't help you don't accept facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:32 PM
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Just because you don't like my answers doesn't mean it's not true. In my mind, I've proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:46 PM
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So I can't what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:43 PM
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Hypergamy was displayed as a rigid, institutionalized system of rules dictating family alliances
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:54 AM
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Hypergamy became a formalized social structure anywhere between 4 and 5000 years ago. It emerged alongside early agriculture, patrilineal clans, and structured patriarchy, where class hierarchies and dowry systems first began to dictate social mobility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:12 AM
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You can deny it all you would like, but women marrying into better positions then what they were in helped establish their lives. You say that they worked, which yes they did, but it wasn't paid work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:54 AM
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Honestly a 40 year old woman seeing high schoolers as attractive isn't that much of a stretch. I mean how many women teachers have been brought up on sexual assault charges this year? Gen Z doesn't have anti sex mentality. It's absolutely mental to believe that these boys don't want to get laid. The issue is that women have pivoted from Marriage and children to career. Some eventually will have children but I believe that most will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:36 AM
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Hypergamy - the dating of someone from a higher socioeconomic status. It was absolutely necessary historically for women to date up because well women couldn't even have a checking account until the 70's. Back then most women were stay at home moms, not in the workforce. While women may not control hypergamy so to speak, but they do control their next partner who is usually of a higher socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:24 AM
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Sorry OP, Hypergamy is a real thing. It seems women today have an over inflated sexual market value. You don't see average guys dating average women anymore. Women in history have always dated up and for the most part a lot of men don't have an issue dating down. You say that women don't have control over hypergamy., when that simply isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:25 AM
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Do I have to all the work for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:43 PM
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If you re-read some of your comments in the automod, you'd realize that I specifically addressed some of the statements in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:55 PM
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Dear Jesus. I don't even know where to begin at with some of the ridiculousness in these comments. In case most were not aware, this whole anti male/dumb husband/bumbling dad trope has been in the mass media for at least the last 50 or 60 years now. This is not new. Society has always worked better when most males at least have the chance to have a family and reproduce. In today's society, for most men this is just not an option. People can always say that they want a nice society, but for the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:19 PM
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Well if attraction isn't there then there'd be no relationship in the first place. But Hypergamy as were discussing not only has to do with attraction, but also Socioeconomic status as well. I was speaking previously about the financial part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:10 PM
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Appreciate it Boss. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:46 PM
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I get it. Good explanation though..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:39 PM
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In my opinion, as we see in current events that women are dominating college and in the workforce. As men fall back a bit, the chances of hypergamy will reduce for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:11 AM
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So for the conclusion yes men need to be reminded of their worth. Obviously being needed only for tasks would just feel unfulfilling. But at the same point, unless close, I don't really see a whole lot of women going out of their way to remind men of their worth. It's kind of like compliments. Women get them all the time, but men will exactly remember the last time they were complimented, because they come so far and few between.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 11:39 PM
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Why ne informed when they can and do blame us all the time.
/r/MensRights24/05/26 05:04 AM
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No it's much worse, their completely ignored.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 07:45 AM
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Yeah because men and women's relationships are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:18 PM
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..... for any man. There it's fixed
/r/MensRights02/07/25 03:16 PM
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Men aren't going to stay. Infidelity is infidelity and we're sick of it.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 02:16 PM
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That's not true. I figure the ones who are in relationships but still report feeling lonely are likely in dead bedrooms. Deriving emotional needs isn't even what we're talking about. Better they know now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:37 AM
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Hug your friends doesn't work in practice. I don't understand why you assume that men are touchy- feely. We are not. Nor do we derive fulfillment from other men. I'm sorry but deep meaningful friendly connections are not the same, nor are they a substitute. You can still be lonely and have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:27 AM
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According to continously single men. Sexual will always be a big part of social regardless of whether you recognize or not. Touch between friends will never be a substitute. Since when have men begun to go around touching friends in anyway? I don't hug friends. It's not unhealthy, it's life. Therapy is great and all, bit let's face facts. Therapy doesn't hug you, sleep beside you, or make you feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:25 PM
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Sexual intimacy is a core human need. The lack of intimacy feels like rejection. Romantic success is often the sign of masculinity in many cultures. Touch deprivation of leads to emotional distress. If romantic intimacy is not fulfilled that leads to the pain of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:40 PM
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Every consistently single male out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:39 PM
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Platonic relational bonds are not will never be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:34 PM
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Men like you speak of have absolutely no motivation to invest in something that doesn't even accept him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:18 PM
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Actually that is what is called an example. Maybe you've heard of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:49 PM
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If all of history is included maybe, but not today. Today, I know at the very least a few teenage girls who have higher body counts than I do. So no it simply true anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:46 PM
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Also more women enter into marriages as virgins compared to men. This is just simply isn't true anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:41 PM
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Non paywall click here
/r/MensRights21/03/25 12:31 AM
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Then he should appreciate the few options he does have Ah yes, the let them eat cake defense. Appreciate your scraps peasant. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:57 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/vmDOWGGFAr
/r/MensRights19/01/25 02:28 PM
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Stop trying to invalidate people's experiences. It just sounds like you're romanticizing neurodivergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:24 AM
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Then why hasn't 4B?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:07 PM
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Excuse the fuck out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:13 PM
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And be ostracized by every over woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:49 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:25 PM
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but there is no rapport, no shared interests or shared tastes. They aren't friends. They are two strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:00 PM
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But as long as the incels get laid it's all good, right? You wouldn't like the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:28 PM
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Honestly who cares at this point if American women get one sniff that you've been to a prostitute your immediately ostracized.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:14 PM
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This. I recently read about your diagnosis, and I can certainly empathize. Back in August I was told it was "very likely" that I have Vascular Dementia. Luckily for me I've found a sweet spot mental health meds wise, so I am trying to look at this as best as can one day at a time. On top of issue's of putting myself out there, I have even worse issue's of isolation. For almost 3 years now it's just been work, sleep, repeat. Of the "friendships" I do have their all one sided. If I don't reach out…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:07 PM
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Double Standard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:16 PM
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I'm both. I was told last month that I'm in the mid tier stages of early onset vascular dementia. Lack of sleep, irritability, lack of motivation, low self-esteem and difficulty concentrating. I have basically have every symptom you discussed. Men, what are the symptoms of sexual frustration and to what extent does it impact your daily life? Here's the the biggest for me: I'll watch TV and a sex scene comes on and I get butterflies in my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:21 AM
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How does one make friends while dying? Over the course of my life I've never did well socially. I mean I do have a few friendships that I've known for 30 years, but let's face it, it's nothing more than a one way relationship. At this point I guess it's too late anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:35 PM
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I know these all sound like easy suggestions, but they aren't for everyone. Personally, between my social anxiety and ADHD I don't go out my way to talk to people. Then again, neither do they.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:49 PM
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Well I'm sure that would work for others, but my social circle is pretty small.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:32 PM
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Struggling men do not get invited to these activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:30 PM
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Struggling guys don't get invited to those activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:29 PM
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Boo hoo. Cry me a river.
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:53 PM
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No worries. Water under the bridge. I apologize if I came off as harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:40 AM
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Incel? Wow. I was just talking about people being healthy. And you use that to attack me when you know nothing about me? I'm sorry you got the wrong motherfucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:25 AM
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Not all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:35 PM
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Women run from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:25 PM
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I felt this. Unfortunately I'm wound too tight for my own good sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:29 PM
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I reread the original post- I interpreted it wrong. Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:08 PM
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If a woman leaves a long term relationship it’s because the guy didn’t keep the romance alive by taking her out on regular dates or he didn’t do things around the house or his personality changed and he was being more of a jerk Why are you placing blame on one gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:41 PM
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You read my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:22 PM
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OP - I can definitely understand the sentiment. I am a fellow neurodivergent person to be fair most NT's do not understand how we process our relationships. Personally, I have a core group of friends that I've had since high school and in one instance elementary school. Most of these friends have grown and have families by now. I am thankful that they do still try to associate me in their lives. While I'm sad that it has never happened for me, looking back it's probably for the best. Unfortunate…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:11 PM
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You think suicide statistics are bad now? Just wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:35 PM
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Ok let's get this straight. I don't NEED a woman to live. I WANT a woman who would like to be a part of my life and a partner. Sometimes it's just the perception of the quality of life. Although I'm not sure why you think I'll be getting used.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:03 PM
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If you don't have a deep level of connection, you start to see a myriad of negative effects, from increased odds of high blood pressure, heart disease, obesity, a weakened immune system, addiction, suicide, anxiety, depression, cognitive decline, Alzheimer's disease, and so on. Isolation is terminal. I can't upvote the enough. I'm a rather introverted and quiet guy. It's not in my nature to go out of my way to just have conversations with people. About 3 years ago I moved with a friend to a smal…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:43 PM
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It's hard not looking at my life like it's already over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:10 AM
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I'd rather be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:29 PM
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As someone with experience in this area, I feel I owe my two cents. I dated a woman for 7.5 years. She had two sons living with her. Her sons were 9 and 1.5yo at the time. I even went through and bought us a house that was paid off. Most of the relationship was good, but the end was very horrible. Long story short, I haven't haven't talked to them in over 4 years. I will never do this again. I feel like my time was completely wasted, and could have been put to better use with a better partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:37 PM
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Same exact thing happened to me. So I'd probably never date a single mom again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:14 PM
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I'm neurodivergent also and let's face our social issues will always be looked down upon. All this post tells me is there is no happy ending for me and that I may as well be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:20 PM
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Can't say I'm surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:30 AM
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Unfortunately that may not be an option at this point. In fact it may be the opposite and I may have to retire. I would at least like to work until I can't but I have no idea when that'll be. I guess it really depends on how advanced my case is. Some background: the woman I was with back then, well she was just the wrong woman to invest in. I bought a house for me, her, and her children. I lost it all in 8 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:20 PM
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When it comes to suicide, I've considered it and even tried it. Granted, it's easier to fight off those ideas as an adult. I would be in the 50% that does have a mental health issue. I only found that out a few year's ago that I have ADHD Inattentive type. Very empowering because I learned why I tick like I do. Also learned that my introverted father most likely had it too and wasn't aware. However I learned that at least my mother was aware I was diagnosed at around age 5, she just didn't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:29 PM
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Will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:02 AM
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It can get worse than just being neurodivergent. I was diagnosed at 41 (probably earlier, but that's a different story altogether). Now I just turned 44 about 7 weeks ago. About two and a half weeks later I ended up getting diagnosed with mild cognitive impairment. MCI is step 3 of 7 when it comes to dementia. Pretty sure no one someone whose brain is deteriorating. Sadly this is what the rest of my life will look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:08 PM
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