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Field ReportPuzzleheaded_Back181/r/seduction01/01/25 11:33 AM
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This is like telling poor people to just buy a house and become a landlord, bro just buy million dollar house. if I had a woman obsessed with me I wouldn’t be on this subreddit
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:42 AM
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Coworker that was shadowing me asked me If I wanted to hang out with her at her house, verbatim she said “my mom is cool she doesn’t care we can hang out in my bedroom” she was 19 or something and I was like 23 Mind you this was probably the hottest girl I’ve ever seen in my entire life, to this day I beat myself up over it It was so unbelievably obvious.
/r/seduction22/10/25 08:41 AM
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I was in your position a year ago, the moment I stopped talking to other women and focused on her she left my ass. As long as it’s not a actual committed relationship don’t stop talking to other women, I swear they can smell it when you have no hoe’s and lose attraction
/r/seduction18/10/25 09:26 AM
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Man just be unapologetically yourself there’s not one thing people dislike more than being pandered to, it’s awkward and it makes you feel uncomfortable. Just fucking be a person and stop thinking about fucking or falling in love, if it happens it happens. I think honestly a lot of these dudes have or had potential to actually hook up with the girls they get friend zoned by but they have no idea how actually create tension or make the woman feel something. It’s always the same response you get f…
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:39 AM
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18 to 35
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:07 AM
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2 if she’s mid 3 or even 4 if she’s really hot It happens eventually y’all just need to be chill and not get super frustrated about it, it’s honestly so much better when you get to know the person and you really start wanting them physically.
/r/seduction05/08/25 06:47 AM
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They like older guys in their 30s maybe not some 43 year old dude
/r/seduction25/07/25 09:38 PM
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You’re a creepy old man to 95% of them early 20s is basically a high schooler dude it’s gross and this ain’t coming from me, this generation doesn’t really do age gaps like that anymore even 30 something’s are gross to them. If you’re rich or at least can play the part you might find someone who will use you for your money and if you’re really lucky she might fall in love with you, 30 year old woman are hot, go for that instead. I’m 27 and like 80% of the early 20 something girls I meet literall…
/r/seduction25/07/25 01:27 PM
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As someone who has done this a lot… except subpar performance in bed unless you somehow grown attached to the person emotionally and looped holed into finding her attractive/developed feelings for them, I would do it if you’re new and need to get some experience. I’ve tried it multiple times and I haven’t been able to keep it up multiple times, it’s embarrassing and humiliating for both parties. Find someone you’re attracted too and focus solely on them, honestly man focusing your attention on p…
/r/seduction25/07/25 02:21 AM
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5’7 17 27
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:27 AM
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Why would I date someone with all that baggage? If I can date someone that’s 4 or 3 years younger than me with no trauma that actually likes me for me not for how many diapers I can buy or bills I can pay
/r/seduction16/06/25 08:57 PM
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I don’t date women over 27 anymore, if she’s single after 27 I genuinely think there’s something wrong with them, the only exception is if they are down for a FWB situation which is just rare at that age, they are usually looking for husbands at that age and have high expectations that no man their age or younger can fulfill Nothing but bad experiences
/r/seduction16/06/25 04:02 PM
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“I’m glad y’all take care of her, trust me you ain’t got worry about me.. laughs” That’s it
/r/seduction10/06/25 04:06 AM
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100000000% The amount of times I’ve had woman basically throw themselves at me, woman literally asking me out for drinks and shit at works and being extremely flirty. All the opportunities I’ve had that I’ve blown by being autistic and wanting to know exactly what she wants from me is insane.
/r/seduction09/06/25 11:34 PM
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I’m 250lbs standing tall at 5’8 Never had a problem dating or attracting women, I get a ton of matches and I I’ve hooked up with women on the first date. Honestly it depends, being fat doesn’t mean you’re unattractive or ugly necessarily, you got a nice face, nice beard, some cool tattoos and cool style? Then you can still be pretty successful in the dating scene. My face doesn’t look fat and I’m a fairly good looking dude despite the fat, I’m not saying I’m delusional but you kinda have to beli…
/r/seduction01/06/25 07:18 AM
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That was great “laughs”
/r/seduction30/05/25 08:19 AM
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Meh If it’s a job you can replace easily and you aren’t in a position of power go for it dude. That being said only shoot your shot if she’s literally begging you to do so, you will be surprised just how many times they will give you their number unsolicited and or basically throw themselves at you. I would only act if they are literally throwing themselves at you and trust me if you’re even kinda of attractive they will lmao.
/r/seduction28/05/25 07:44 AM
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Like 90% of women will assume you don’t like them if you don’t at least give them a kiss, this ain’t the 90s anymore lol heck a good 30% of them will think you’re boring or lame if you don’t at least TRY to take them back home on the first date
/r/seduction25/05/25 03:35 AM
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That’s like 80% of the hot couples I see out and about, woman don’t like dating men prettier that them
/r/seduction21/05/25 05:31 AM
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Get a nice haircut, drive a nice/ish car, dress good, smell good, take a girl out on a date, open every door, pay everything, treat her like a princess and treat her to some tiny gifts here and there. You will get laid trust me, I’m 245 pounds 5’7 with a albeit decently cute face (debatable), I’m so awkward and anxious sometimes I wonder if I’m autistic and I’ve had no problems getting laid on the first date. “Ohhh well it’s sooo much moneyyy” It’s really only expensive for the first or second d…
/r/seduction20/05/25 04:00 AM
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Oh you can trust me especially at 25
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:46 AM
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No a bolt of lightning will strike you from above the moment you do, on the spot, palabra homie. Lmao what do you mean or course you can? The logistics are ask your parents when they won’t be home and maybe even let them know about a lady friend that’s coming over, I would coordinate with your dad to keep moms clueless and away. Or do what I do and have them meet your parents when they come over lol
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:45 AM
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Anyone can pull a hot girl as long as you look enough like her dad, I see literal reincarnations of Shrek dating insanely attractive woman all the time
/r/seduction15/05/25 02:31 AM
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In real life yes 100%, on the apps nope 20 something’s are easier if you’re cute and 20 something too. That being said easiest woman alive are the non binary LGBT crowd, like no date pick me up and let’s go to your house fast lmao.
/r/seduction15/05/25 01:19 AM
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Well at least it’s not Chat GPT or he mistyped to make it look like it wasn’t chat gpt
/r/seduction05/05/25 05:42 AM
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If she makes eye contact with you and she looks like she wants to be approached yes
/r/seduction04/04/25 07:42 AM
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Honestly man women don’t know what they’re doing half of the time, it’s not your job to decipher signals because honestly women will give you insane signals and then one day lose interest and it’s gone or they were bored that day or whatever the fuck, people are shitty and annoying. Flirt with her, ask her out if she likes you it will work out.
/r/seduction07/03/25 08:54 AM
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She does not respect you
/r/seduction01/03/25 09:09 AM
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Ultimately the answer is yes, people on here saying no are just used to having it all the time so they don’t really care anymore. To be fair it really depends on just how good the sex is and how much you actually like the person: I’m convinced that “soulless casual sex” is really code word for “women I’m not super attracted to” I mean I’ve been there before and yeah I did feel worse after the fact especially when I didn’t really preform good. But even then my overall mood for the rest of the wee…
/r/seduction20/02/25 04:32 PM
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Want to go to the back? “points to the backseat”
/r/seduction14/02/25 04:44 PM
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I’m assuming you visited during “día de los muertos” around October, we honor the dead and put food and trinkets on the graves of our deceased relatives. It’s just traditional Mexican culture, decorative skulls are seen as festive I guess instead of being associated with flat out death.
/r/seduction29/01/25 04:35 AM
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Honestly.. yeah I was a weirdo introvert and even I got a lot of play, I would go back in a INSTANT if I had the chance
/r/seduction28/01/25 10:26 AM
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Brazil, Puerto Rico and closely followed by Mexico and general Latina America… they be having sex all the damn time, the music, the dancing, the culture. In Mexico, Brazil and PR you literally grow up listening to music about suckin and fuckin at birth and it’s not implied, these songs literally say shit like “I fucked your pussy really good, you liked to suck my dick, let’s fuck, blah blah” like it’s so raunchy it’s ridiculous. They play it at your birthday parties, they play it at school event…
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:57 AM
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Those exist?
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:28 PM
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“Bro just work on yourself and they will come, the less you try the faster it will come” Like reverse psychology works on the hoes or the universe like that, life won’t hand you a goth latina baddy if all you do is go to the gym, track your macros and work, you need to actively get out there and try to talk to women.
/r/seduction23/01/25 06:14 AM
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“Unintentional passport bro realized why white dudes travel to Latin America for love” The post, dating apps only works for men if you’re A) Conventionally attractive B) Have status (like you’re a Dr or something) C) Rich You will only get a decent amount of matches if you fill out some that criteria, I fill out A and B and I don’t really need to try and find people outside the apps, they work for exactly what they are intended for.
/r/seduction19/01/25 10:02 PM
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This is some Chad max advice if I heard one, bro thinks we operate at his power level
/r/seduction19/01/25 06:40 AM
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Just think about it most men just swipe right no matter what, like even on women they aren’t interested in really, of course she has more options
/r/seduction19/01/25 06:06 AM
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I don’t know why but this post is hilarious “massaging the boobs in between” is hilarious I have no idea why
/r/seduction15/01/25 12:51 AM
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My face is a little above average but I’m pretty fat not the cool fat kinda way just a fat fuck, like If I’m not wearing the right clothes I just look like a troll that belongs under a bridge, the only woman I’ve ever been with have been super attractive, broke up with this 9/10 with ginormous tits and a ginormous ass and started talking to this girl at work that is literally built like a board, no ass, no tits, acne but good personality and kinda cute, I told her liked her after SHE said she wo…
/r/seduction13/01/25 11:48 AM
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Lmao you’re literally 22 bro you aren’t a late bloomer you’re just a bloomer, you have like 5 years if you have bad genetics, don’t wear sunscreen and aren’t predisposed to balding to do whatever the fuck you want and still get away with it by being young. I have shit genetics and didn’t wear sunscreen my entire life, I look older than my age at 26, You still have so much time dude you’re young. I know Redditors will shit on you for advice like this but here it goes, live your life a little reck…
/r/seduction13/01/25 07:18 AM
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That just means you’re attractive dude, it’s compliment and I would lean into it
/r/seduction10/01/25 05:46 AM
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Just pay for everything on a date, yeah that’s right I know y’all don’t want to hear it but it’s true, y’all want best possible chance of actually achieving anything? Pay for all the little expenses that come up.
/r/seduction06/01/25 11:48 AM
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Most valuable lesson I’ve learned is to be detached from the situation, best way to do this is have a shit ton of options, yeah be charming and everything but never get too attached to the outcome I fumble the moment I realize she likes me, when a “crush” develops, the moment I like her more than she does me. Had a girl ask me out and give me her number at work and somehow I fumbled by being too clingy, double texting and telling her I liked her when she just wanted to “have fun with me”
/r/seduction06/01/25 11:29 AM
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Yep real bad
/r/seduction06/01/25 12:15 AM
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Woman are attracted to me and stare at me but I can never actually seal the deal, I’m just a fucking idiot when it comes to actually taking to them.
/r/seduction05/01/25 11:30 AM
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Lmao nah it’s going to be a little harder but that’s it, you can’t expect to do better than you did when you were a fresh face 22 year old
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:29 AM
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You know how guy’s say woman hit the wall after 30? Well guess what bud that doesn’t just happen to womab
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:25 AM
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A/B 4 months ago (Situationship thing with one girl that lasted 7 months) 24, knockers the size of my head and her ass was ginormous, just a little chubby and her face was fire, it was pretty much every other day kind of thing, we would rent out a hotel and go at it multiple times in the span of a day, I was sick of her by the end and thought I could do better, I was wrong and kinda right at the same time she wasn’t really my type.) 1 year ago nothing 2 year ago coworker, couldn’t get hard proba…
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:45 AM
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I swear this feels like I’m seeing a picture of my old 22 year old self, this feels like a scene from a movie where the character is trying to talk to his younger self and for whatever reason the younger person isn’t able to hear anything. OP please you need to understand that time is relative to where you currently are, you only feel this way because you’re currently 22. That feeling you’re describing NEVER goes away, you will reminisce like I do now at 26 for my 22 year old self, every single …
/r/seduction04/01/25 04:49 AM
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26 year old guy here that lived that life for his entire existence until very recently, I really wish I understood this when I was younger the reason why they are doing all of those things and you aren’t is simple. You aren’t trying hard enough, no being on this subreddit is not you trying, you need to get out there and actually meet and talk to women for it to happen, just do it I don’t care how scared you are if you really want it you will do it. PLEASE fucking get out there dude, get on the a…
/r/seduction04/01/25 04:37 AM
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Honestly that’s a good majority of young women today, they all “aren’t looking for anything serious and just want to have fun” the moment they feel like you’re getting attached they are out.
/r/seduction04/01/25 03:18 AM
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I know it makes a difference, I literally called her cute through text a like a day before i sent the I like you text, she called me funny and sweet after the cute comment and then she dried up the moment I told her I liked her
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:35 PM
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Go read my last post on this subreddit man, trust me it’s risky AF if she just wants to fuck, telling her that she’s cute is completely different than telling her you like her man.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:03 PM
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Literal gold
/r/seduction03/01/25 11:55 AM
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Trust me man you’re wrong, you’re thinking with your man brain trying to logic yourself into an answer, go to TikTok and look up “when he likes you back” and see the hundred of examples of why you shouldn’t do this. Remember the less you seem to care about her the better, she’s supposed to be obsessed not you.
/r/seduction03/01/25 11:33 AM
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Lover boy here that has done this multiple times, it has blown up in my face multiple times and this was with women that basically pursued me, like they asked me out and gave me their number, there is a certain type of woman that doesn’t actually like it when she know she’s got you in the bag, frankly that’s most women we all want to chase something we can’t have, the unattainable. If she’s telling you she’s looking for something serious then maybe, if she’s the “I just want to have fun and see …
/r/seduction03/01/25 11:27 AM
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Yeah I realized the error of my ways now, I don’t know what to do I spend a entire hour alone with her and it feels excruciating I feel like giant creep weirdo which is exactly what I always try not to be in life. I will apologize once more “I just want to let you know I don’t see you that way at all anymore, we are just buddies and I rather have you as a buddy than anything else, I’m really sorry I ever even thought about you that way at all”.
/r/seduction03/01/25 06:48 AM
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Yes Yes Yes I’m 5’7 and say 5’9 and wear boots and or docs, woman don’t actually know what 5’7 actually looks like unless they are 5’7 or above. I’ve met 5’7 woman on the apps before and I just make up a dumb lie and they usually care, all of them have gone on second dates and majority of them I had a situation ship for 6+ months, tall women don’t care about height unless you’re shorter than them.
/r/seduction03/01/25 06:32 AM
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They love white dudes believe it or not, I’m Hispanic and they don’t even look at me at all
/r/seduction03/01/25 01:22 AM
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Get sexy, like go to the gym everyday and do 45/30min of cardio and do a proper weightlifting routine that prioritizes aesthetics, the 45 minutes of cardio are important, you have no idea how much weight is being added to your face by living sedentary. If you get decent gains and she still don’t fuck with you it’s just over man, hopefully she does, I mean there’s a reason why she was attracted to younger you.
/r/seduction02/01/25 08:32 AM
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My new 6’1 legs arrived from the mail today, I don’t need this subreddit anymore
/r/seduction02/01/25 08:16 AM
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“The most attractive people aren’t the ones who rely solely on their looks. They’re the ones who know how to create emotional tension, flirt in a way that’s playful but respectful, and leave the other person wanting more” I’m learning so much from this sub, I’m a fairly attractive guy and woman have stared a lot my entire life but I just assumed their brains worked the same as ours “I find you attractive and easy to talk to let’s fuck/get in a relationship”. I spent the majority of my life being…
/r/seduction02/01/25 03:49 AM
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I don’t know why they are downvoting you, this is really good stuff
/r/seduction01/01/25 09:27 PM
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Yeah really valuable lesson, It’s interesting how as a man you never think about “hormonal highs” like we are just horny all the time you don’t consider that maybe she isn’t always going to be that attracted to you, the feeling can be fleeting and you need to take advantage of it when it comes, oh and also never get to comfortable and assume you got in the bag.
/r/seduction01/01/25 01:23 PM
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So aggressive is the move then? I’ll try to talk to her in a friendlier manner and test the waters, make my intentions clear and be more aggressive I’m just scared of getting reprimanded, I don’t know exactly what’s going on in her head and I can’t lose my job.
/r/seduction01/01/25 11:59 AM
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Holy fuck dude talking to woman can feel like walking through a minefield sometimes one wrong move and you are fucked, like I had it FULLY in the bag, I didn’t even want it at first and she basically threw the coochie at me and I fucked up. Please tell me you fucked her and please for the love of god tell me how you did it, I’m too old to be getting put in the fucking friendzone, what do you recommend man?. Should I be a little more aggressive? Tell her she looks good? Maybe explain to her that …
/r/seduction01/01/25 11:46 AM
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Older woman and overweight woman seem to really like fit men, like guy’s with muscular bodies in my experience. I’ve getting some newby gains at the gym and my arms are looking pretty good and I’ve getting attention from milfs 24-7 now
/r/seduction01/01/25 05:18 AM
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