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Outer Game Puzzleheaded_Gain493/r/seduction17/05/25 11:28 PM
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It might be different up there then, try it and find out
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:40 PM
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If you’re in the west esp UK, it’s a waste of time even if you’re tall handsome jacked with perfect social and flirting etc especially if you’re after the top tier ones like 8/10 Most people naturally prefer to meet people through social circle , mutuals , it’s always been like that. Might cold approach in the street work, yes but you’ll have to run insane numbers just to get a number, which usually flakes. The majority especially the boujee ones want to check your instagram first, if no lifesty…
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:37 PM
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Nooo way, I wasn’t sure about self diagnosing as adhd 😅 but I do feel my focus is a lot worse than it once was, can’t concentrate on mundane stuff, tasks, work, staying power on my laptop for important work without taking constant breaks, and a lot of those breaks constitute distracting myself through mindless entertainment mostly through my phone , or opening a load of tabs on my laptop for no reason Have you found any good ways to combat this Oh I do miss pre smart phone era. But there’s so mu…
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:54 AM
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Love what sorry?
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:51 AM
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Couldn’t have put this better myself. They always try and come up with ways to market themselves as ‘different’ and they have the ‘solution’ when it’s all marketing bs, they just want to make money and girls in their vids are just paid actors, a lot have been outed as not even getting girls at all just insecure liars
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:50 AM
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I have to say this was a good read, and I definitely self medicate with phone breaks sometimes instead of just taking a walk outside. Most work isn’t ’interesting’ per se, even if it started off interesting and you were excited about it, eventually becomes about paying bills. I’ve seen a few comments say your job is a dating coach so maybe you don’t have to struggle with screen time, but then again how do you manage your work without social media or a place to advertise your courses/coaching Thi…
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:49 AM
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That’s a gross over exaggeration 😅 not sure about mids but for the hottest of the hot in London , money or/and pre determined social proof is necessary to even get a look in
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:47 AM
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Don’t overthink it, depends what kind of quality you are going for, but I can tell you straight up unless you have money forget about the 8 plus range, as for below that not too sure but even their egos are through the roof. Tbf tho they don’t owe guys chat, a lot will just be out to enjoy with friends don’t sweat it too much
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:46 AM
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It’s good but some stuffs pretty outdated. A lot of the guys pics in London are from early 2010’s 😅. Ldns always been competitive but high end scene has accelerated 10 fold
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:43 AM
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Men need to stop with these thoughts honestly for their own sanity , they’ve always loved attention anyway but now with online and most of their love for Instagram than men, they’ve always loved always enjoy the attention & validation more than any satisfaction they get from being with a man. Getting with a man is just circumstantial, right place right time (even if you are some ‘top shelf’ male 😆), just live your life!
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:13 AM
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Yh 100%. I’m curious to know what the response is like in Eastern Europe , haven’t been but planning to go to Warsaw this year. I find Slavic girls most receptive to me in England so will be interesting to see how they are when I’m in their country. I have heard hooking up in general in Eastern Europe isn’t so easy because they don’t want to be seen as easy , so you need to date get them comfortable etc. In Budapest the really hot ones were like this but I had positive interactions
/r/seduction26/02/26 02:10 PM
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Not far but I do go sometimes. It’s good for volume. But there is a high rejection rate so be prepared for that even with the smoothest most calm approach , even after getting the contacts London girls especially the hot ones are tough to set a date with , tried both directly trying to set up a meet or texting for a bit until they’re comfortable to come out , but if you treat it as fun and casually socialising without expecting to get anything it’s fun
/r/seduction26/02/26 02:08 PM
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That’s what a lot of these online ‘dating coach gurus’ don’t want to admit , that is volume based till you find one that also clicks with you, they just want to sell a supposed blueprint that doesn’t really exist That’s why I was curious which city / town you’re doing approaches in because they never say how that’s a factor , blow out rate in ‘higher end’ cities are so much higher
/r/seduction26/02/26 01:43 PM
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That’s good, gotta bring positive energy if you can. I meant location wise cos London has great volume but it’s a highly image fuelled especially with the baddies. Cold approach is good there but yields low results especially if you’re super picky
/r/seduction26/02/26 01:33 PM
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Where are you doing most of the approaching
/r/seduction26/02/26 01:15 PM
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Loool @ social anxiety, appreciate your comments but it was nothing new to what I already knew , but appreciate it nonetheless I’m confident in real life interactions don’t nerve me at all, it did when I first chatted to strange ones ie outside my social circle , yrs ago but these days it’s on autopilot It’s just in DMs (my profiles decent but only low followed) so get a lot of adds back , but moment you try set a meet they not interested so my mate said you’re doing it too soon, changed approac…
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:19 AM
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Thanks man In that case I won’t risk it with my personal account The other account I’m looking to start if organic growth is slow I’ll risk it , but like you said buy few hundred at a time till I get 5k (don’t need 100k overkill), won’t need more to look legit when people land on it and that should then increase following naturally especially if I do the old fashioned follow for a follow lol , but hopefully my reels will carry it too , it’s just that initial push that’s hard. Need to find legit …
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:16 AM
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I think the reason bro confused cos clowns online like fresh n fit be confusing them Telling them Instagram is the BIGGEST DATING APP in the world 😂 , yh maybe in Miami where everything’s superficial
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:57 AM
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So nothing to do with insta then
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:56 AM
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Let us know how that goes I’m curious too 😅 Also what’s your strategy for beating the algos on dating apps and does it work for the absolute hottest ones on there. I’m just curious , I don’t know where you’re based but unfortunately where I am the apps just tend to have low quality on there
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:55 AM
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This is so real I try to reason with a friend of mine that it matters & he’s adamant girls don’t care about your followers & it doesn’t matter especially if you’re the same ethnicity (we aren’t British white) , he says look around you can see girls tag their boyfriends who have way less followers than her. You hit the nail on the head the people on there are superficial , lacking substance whenever I’ve met heavy users of it offline they’re really dull. I would find dating these types boring so …
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:54 AM
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I’d generally agree with this, it’s unlikely to be an effective way UNLESS she’s set to gain something or is a pure gold digger & can see there can be a clear benefit from dealing with you. Prepare to be actually rich or fake rich if you want to attract this type, either way you gotta look like u can spend
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:45 AM
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When you say ‘make your move’ , is that ask her out after a few messages , or do you need to talk for couple of weeks first before going for the meet up , after all you’re a ‘stranger’ (like everyone is at the start tbf even if you meet in a ‘safer’ mutual environment like study or work) I’ve experimented with both , and doesn’t make a difference either way, they’re usually averse to a meet up to someone on insta unless like u said strong mutual presence or there’s a benefit to her as in you loo…
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:44 AM
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SoFlo short for South Florida I’m guessing?? Can’t comment as I’ve never been. All I know about is the Miami type of girls from the internet lol 😅. But Yh uk London same type of flex. But yh depends of what’s hot to you & what kind of girl you’re trying to attract. But fair play brother like I said whatever works for YOU that’s all that matters
/r/seduction29/01/26 09:31 PM
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Trivia?? Is that some quiz , don’t know where you’re based but in uk that’s bingo night or something like that at pubs/ bars If it works for certain guys then fair play but round here you only get average to below average looking girls coming. The hottest baddest girls with insta type bodies only go to the best spots , so no depends on what context you’re referring to. If you want the best you gotta go to the best
/r/seduction29/01/26 09:27 PM
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You need to spend money or have good connections to host a ‘cool party/event’ in a cool venue. I guess the next best way is get access to the cool events in the high end venues and invite her along
/r/seduction29/01/26 09:25 PM
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For short term he’d have to. Some guys do it & even if they find out after , if the girls likes them enough to want to still date them after the casual phase from what I’ve heard they tend to stick around , and actually say had the guy told them their real age, their mind that’s always looking for a reason to reject a dude would’ve rejected them on that basis 😅. might raise some morality qs but each to their own I guess as long as nobody’s hurting or abusing anyone
/r/seduction28/01/26 12:38 AM
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Early 20’s in the west even at his high SMV (looks like it) they age reject even if they’re initially attracted before they find out the guys in his 30’s or even worse for them 40 It’s rare that they aren’t affected by the weird media surrounding age gaps for adults
/r/seduction27/01/26 11:19 PM
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Can you guys debate the GirlsChase website guy, he keeps pushing the idea that you might not be able to date the status conscious Instagram baddie type with the sexy physically attractive bodies as you refer ^ (you can find some who aren’t on insta but majority of this type will be with a lot of followers) but you can still ‘hookup’ with them if you’re ‘broke’ (broke to this type will still be average earner) Is this guy deluded or living in a fantasy land he’s created for himself after having a…
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:06 PM
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But what would they do for work there, they need an income to survive yet there’s hardly any jobs in these 3rd world places, which is why the local women seek out the foreigners and tourists for financial reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:47 AM
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We not saying that , it’s just usually better , doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a one off, ofc you can
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:56 PM
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Absolutely horrendous take, one night stands are abysmal sex connection and chemistry with a consistent partner is how it gets good, besides college or university guys should focus on getting good grades to build a good future for themselves, when it comes to women interact with them even be friends with them to understand them better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:22 PM
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😂😂 what a low IQ response thought people on here were smart. Shouting at a screen doesn’t make you interesting, there’s a difference between being actually fun & a fool or clown , there’s a fine line mate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:52 AM
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Streamers 🤣 that percentage is horribly low, it’s almost the same as saying look what a young 25 yr old actor or well known singer can attract, at least that’s proper fame , all these online guys do is attract hook ups from girls in similar space who want to use each other for clout, it’s not a good example at all, they all eventually end up single Besides which woman who truly wants to have a proper relationship will go out of their way to get with an immature streamer which by the way there’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:34 AM
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These threads are so funny 🤣 where do you guys get your facts and stats from - there’s no evidence to suggest either way which age gaps are positive or negative It just depends on the people involved, attraction and connection is subconscious, it’s these feminist backed articles, videos online etc and younger insecure guys who fear older guys will take ‘their women’ who produce content to try and manipulate people’s thinkings, plus similar age situations will lead to more people being single the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:31 AM
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Talk is easy my bro … you mentioned something key there MAX out LIFESTYLE, why would a 9 beg it off a mid broke dude. The lies are oh Yh a 9 will chase any old dude with gaaaame or ‘manipulation game’ and peacocking and all this other nonsense that was spewed by PUAs , guys have clocked on to all that marketing BS old news
/r/seduction05/07/25 08:12 PM
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Women hardly ever chase , and the times they do it’s usually because there’s a clear difference in ‘value’ , good luck getting a 9 to chase 😂
/r/seduction05/07/25 03:57 PM
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Nonchalant and being distant 😂… how’s a woman meant to know of your presence if you don’t show some sort of intent , which is pursuing Big difference between pursuing and chasing If a girl then ghosts you because you showed normal non needy interest level that’s on her or you misjudged her interest for you Bro woman don’t chase men , until they’re invested in you, you’re a man you have to make the first move just don’t overextend Women who are more eager from the offset usually have something to…
/r/seduction05/07/25 03:56 PM
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Haha where are you based. I like a lot about England but other than cost of living, this age gap dating issue is super frustrating, I’m in Hungary & I’ve noticed younger women are majority with older men
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:38 PM
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I mean escalating to something more than just getting attention becomes difficult
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:04 AM
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You can attention sure, don’t know where you’re based but in England the moment they realise you’re 29/30/31 and not 23/24/25 like they initially thought, by the way they’re not stupid they can tell you’re not 20 most likely the maturity shows compared to their peers despite being youthful etc, anyway their demeanour and mood switches up on discovering age thing, not all ofc but a lot seen it happen to guys
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:04 AM
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Maybe not fully the reason yes but trust me whoever has this weird agenda to keep men and women separate has succeeded in convincing younger women to ‘age check’ men , as if that makes a difference to how successful their relationship will be
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:48 AM
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This age thing is getting ridiculous nowadays guys in their mid to late 20’s usually look best especially if they’ve maintained themselves And girls usually like older guys it’s biological how has society managed to manipulate what women naturally find attractive , socially engineer things to a point that as guys move into their prime they are being denied opportunities with younger women who are their match based on age , it’s weird noticed it’s more of an issue in western countries especially …
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:47 AM
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BMI of 28 is huge what’s your weight and height and what kind of diet and training did you do to achieve such an amazing transformation
/r/seduction27/05/25 01:14 AM
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Brother that’s all good & well, but when I talk about this topic I go into detail, I’ve spoken to & been out with guys who are on serious game, and they see the same thing, handsome too. I have to prefix this with the fact I haven’t been to a range of different environment , I only like certain places so I go to the same ones, so results may change depending on where you are, demographics & ethnic background- not jaded bro just observation & experience - just seeing what other people think & whe…
/r/seduction24/05/25 09:37 AM
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Ahhh really interesting dynamics & I’m guessing LA girls are really one of the most difficult to pull, flakey , entitled etc. what I meant was older guys who look after themselves grow into their looks, im a very young looking 30 & your face matures , gets more chiselled & sames happened to a friend of mine who’s still very active - your face is softer looking when you’re 20 Yes most older guys peaked at 22 unfortunately which means they never truly found out what it feels like to actually peak …
/r/seduction23/05/25 08:38 PM
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Hahaha fair play man. Again appreciate the frankness lads. Just confirms again that sometimes you can’t have your choice of exactly the type you want , as you said it’s sales & closing, they say chances of closing a deal are generally 1/10. I mean when I have these convos I’m always hoping there’s some sort of strategy of landing the exact hotties you want. Because I’m so picky I only speak to 4 to 5 girls on a night max , even had lads with me accuse me of maybe not being straight 😂😂 , I hyper …
/r/seduction23/05/25 08:21 PM
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Yh 100% can’t disagree with any of that. I’ve always said the exact same thing, because that’s what I used to see. I’m decent height 6ft 1 lean not jacked , can’t compete with taller and jacked guys & I suffer with the same issue only easy ones are mid at best. The attractive ones will show some interest their friends will tell you she’s interested , then she’ll pull away later & accuse you of being a player & you’ll probably be speaking to other girls through the night, well no shit Sherlock if…
/r/seduction23/05/25 05:15 PM
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I can’t comment on those places I’m not from the US, from UK so I’ve got to take your word on it. I’ve heard Austin got baddies, I met some Texas girls here , from San Antonio. Yh height and looks defo a plus 👍🏼 when you say ‘got good game’ what do you mean by that, because ppl define game as different things (forgive the qs i just love this topic 😂). I’d love to compare bar game US v UK , I don’t drink so maybe my outlook is skewed but because I’m sober I observe a lot. What would be the typica…
/r/seduction23/05/25 04:51 PM
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I rate the fact that you see past the nonsense and fantasies of most men. Ideally even as a good looking guy you’ll be able to get a stunner. But even for good looking men you see their standards plummet pretty quickly. I’m not against men wanting no strings attached with average looking women, it’s just I don’t see the point of being in the field when you can easily get into a relationship with a mid woman off of your looks alone And haha that’s great , I’m 30, I hate to say it but whenever I m…
/r/seduction23/05/25 04:16 PM
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No offence because I don’t know you can’t verify it , but we all know guys gas the ratings up & exaggerate , true true baddies & stunners are rare we all know this & majority of time they’re out of reach of most men
/r/seduction23/05/25 04:09 PM
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😂😂cope. Why do guys get gassed over mid girls just go be in a relationship with one of those, dudes be trying to run game on mid tier wasting their time energy and money what’s the point
/r/seduction23/05/25 10:40 AM
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What kind of girls though
/r/seduction23/05/25 07:29 AM
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And yes agree on not pushing for it. But girls will be in a different frame of mind away from the night out, so a lot of the time if you don’t capitalise on the night and ride the wave of emotion there and then, there’s a high chance she’ll flake later on. Girls prefer to date guys from their day to day life, social circle, mutuals etc. she’ll only see strangers again from night out if you got her invested enough , otherwise she’ll put down meeting you to the alcohol
/r/seduction23/05/25 07:28 AM
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What city if you don’t mind me asking
/r/seduction23/05/25 07:23 AM
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Haha exactly guys talk so much and they gas up dead looking girls. The good looking ones barely hook up with strangers they don’t need to
/r/seduction23/05/25 07:11 AM
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I live in the uk so can’t comment on LA. What I will say is it’s becoming less and less common even in a really liberal place like England as girls are glued to their phones sucking up attention and becoming super picky with men. A lot of the time you’ll just see dudes chasing it after it all night , or getting strung along & then played or ditched. Any time someone is taking a girl back it’s usually average, below average regardless if the guys handsome , rich etc all the metrics guys bang on a…
/r/seduction23/05/25 07:10 AM
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I’m not referring to that 😂. Obviously 25 is fine, but I usually attract younger 21/22. I know some might say that’s too immature now but out of those ones most still don’t care, but usually ethnic ones , med, Asian even if they’re British born still don’t care, but I’m in a geo area where the girls are predominantly Caucasian and tinder is mainly Caucasian too. It’s just what I’ve seen online when they talk abt ‘gaps’ on videos, and in person few times their friends will say ‘oh he might be too…
/r/seduction21/05/25 11:26 AM
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😂😂😂 well if I didn’t know before I sure know now. Only joined few months ago for career advice but soon realised it’s full of tech nerds. No offence to them but their brains work a little differently. Wouldn’t mind posting in another forum/app just wouldn’t know where haha open to suggestions especially if they can have a healthy discussion about this topic
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:31 PM
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Best answer 👌 The odd insta DM here and there may work but in general you’re right there’s this daft notion being spread that it can double up as a dating app, was first pushed hard by that stupid podcast in Miami , fresh n fit, which their ideas have been debunked many times. Yh if you’re in a superficial place like that , take fake social proof pics, buy a bunch of followers, fake rich, then it may work but in general it’s a fruitless pursuit , especially as guy pointed out a lot of these ‘ins…
/r/seduction19/05/25 10:21 AM
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I was going to comment with a general view in mind, but then I saw one of the comments about the instas being of south Asian girls. From what I’ve seen & come across south Asian guys tend to be so insecure, god knows why and your post reeks of insecurity. Stop being desperate simping for girls on insta that don’t know you. The best response was by someone who said stop falling for the nonsense that insta can be used as a dating app. It can only be used like that if you’re a very well known ‘infl…
/r/seduction19/05/25 10:17 AM
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I do get it because obvs 36 to 20 sounds a lot, but it’s frustrating that society looks down on it that men feel the need to lie. I’m not even after those ones I’m saying 22/23 and they will sometimes say 32/33/ too old 🤦‍♂️. Did you get caught out with the 28 thing 😂 or did you just run with the story (also is it ok if they find out later, could you get in trouble or am I overthinking it). And sorry to ask I’m just genuinely curious how this stuff happens, for me with that crowd it’s been eithe…
/r/seduction19/05/25 08:41 AM
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Oh Yh I absolutely get that & agree wholeheartedly. I’m speaking from this weird societal perspective we have going on nowadays. I’ve noticed in person even if the vibe is great and they’re clearly attracted to you, half of the times they’ll pull back after the age reveal or their friends will say ‘that’s too old for you’ etc & I’ve noticed this is more pronounced with number ‘3’ . At 26/27/28 wasn’t as much of an issue, but also when speaking to them they say it’s because they immediately think…
/r/seduction19/05/25 08:32 AM
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love the enthusiasm & positivity. One last point at 36 when you did pull it off with 20/21 yr olds how did it play it out if you don’t mind me asking, you mention being creative what do you mean exactly (as in fun, dress younger etc) dress ones interesting I’ve found some esp from other cultures will be 19/20 & like u in a suit, I know it’s a sensitive topic nowadays so if not comfortable to share here feel free to PM 😊
/r/seduction18/05/25 10:39 PM
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I agree but the lower limit seems to start at 25/26. There are some hot ones in the mid 20’s to 32 range but let’s face it the hottest ones are 22/23 , I feel in the west stigma associated with number 30 , makes them not want to bother even if you’re very attractive unless you’re very well off
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:52 PM
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Judging by your handle assuming you’re 37. I’ll be honest I think you’ve got limiting beliefs. I’m pretty sure you’re more physically attracted to 23/24/25… even though nothing wrong with late 20’s. Notice you conveniently left out early 30’s. Be honest and I’m no way trying to shame you. Are you in shape, workout etc, dress well fitted shirts etc good style
/r/seduction18/05/25 05:53 PM
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Ahhh yes very good point. It’s a tough one because if you look at the statistics for uk vast majority of men won’t make that kind of money until they’re in their 40’s unless they work in finance, banking, tech. Even healthcare takes 20 yrs to become specialist and law partner again late 30’s, early 40’s. Thing is when you refer to those kind of girls they’ll be looking for a jet set lifestyle , even most older men can’t provide that. Also 100k a yr isn’t what it used to be due to crazy inflation…
/r/seduction18/05/25 01:48 PM
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It happens the other way round too. People are just weird nowadays, an attractive man who’s 29 will get turned down by a 23/24 yr old woman, or girl should I say because the amount of immaturity is beyond belief. There must be a reason though that older are attracted though , is it because you look older, are you tall , muscular , jawline etc - use this to your advantage, maybe even lie abt age 😂
/r/seduction18/05/25 01:35 PM
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I think just being responsible and having a full time career you’re in is good enough. If they demand more especially in a cost of living when your money doesn’t stretch as much as it used to, I don’t want to deal with girls like that no matter how hot they are
/r/seduction18/05/25 01:17 PM
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When you say ‘game’ can you expand. And is he only doing this in Ibiza , I’m going there next week funnily enough 😂. I think that environment is a little different people are in party mode , I’m presuming this guy socialises with them, drinks & smokes with them , goes to the parties etc and through localised social proof gets his value up. And yes 100% agree money , status is an excuse but I’d be interested to know how he does in day to day in uk as I said those are specific environments where p…
/r/seduction18/05/25 01:16 PM
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Yh that would be great what’s the blog. I’m tall low body fat and objectively good looking (people tell me I’m not trying to brag) , I have good posey photos in London but problem is when I ask ppl to take pics of us in an activity etc they don’t come out good & you can’t exactly bring a photographer 😅 I think they say 6 good photos, clear head/face shot, full length, activity , sport , social/group photo preferably mixed group and interesting/animal / comical or goofy shot to highlight personal…
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:59 AM
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How old are you may I ask? a rough range is fine if you don’t want to disclose specifics. I think your experience maybe the reason so I get it, you can’t find commonalities in those environments anyway it’s purely physical , plus depends what you’re looking for. You are in a perfect position to be honest to look for something serious again despite the divorce setback (hope you’re doing well) , you have to know also to vet these older more ‘mature’ women , a lot of them aren’t mature like you thi…
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:33 AM
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That’s a nonsense spewed by feminists who are old single and bitter and trying to ruin things for younger women and men who’ve peaked their attractiveness in their prime. Women mature way earlier than men and hate to break it to you they stop maturing , men’s frontal lobes fuse at 27/28 whereas women is 21. They are a lot sharper than men at younger ages too which is why they play guys so easily , it’s also very rare for a girl to be naive in the era we live in. Ppl same age can manipulate eacho…
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:23 AM
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Off Tinder?? And how old are you may I ask, rough range like mid 30’s is fine if you don’t want to disclose specifics In person you can dispel any myths around age through your personality , im just wandering how you can do this online and not allow them to discriminate by age
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:20 AM
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Exactly! 👍🏼 society seems to want to reward women in their prime and punish men in theirs. Those men who max their attractiveness in this period biologically match up with a 23 yr old , the immaturity argument is a nonsense they don’t mature past 21
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:18 AM
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Are you a dude or a girl? Not even going to bother with a discussion about , off the bat dating is about phys attraction so don’t try to make it weird
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:16 AM
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I’ll be honest I get attraction off the bat just in physical sense , a lot of the time they think I’m only like 2-3 yrs older but Yh I wouldn’t want anything below 22 now. Even then a lot of these situations nowadays will be short term that’s how society’s going so it’ll just be physical, even though girls even in hookup environments try to rationalise if there’s long term potential after the night. That’s where age thing comes in because powers at be have convinced them only date those around y…
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:15 AM
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Ok I’ll explain it more succinctly. During night time in bars etc they don’t question it, they just go off attraction which completely debunks this age gap thing that has been created by some leftists in society. Once you’ve got the contacts and they are speaking to you during the day, once discussing age etc some change their mind and it can only be attributed to this stupid societal programming
/r/seduction18/05/25 01:09 AM
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And as a 36 yr old when you have managed to get a 20 something how did it happen And you say it’s harder but why would it be & why should it be harder ??
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:55 AM
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In person just depends on the girl and the vibe. I’ve had much younger like 19 show interest and I’ve decided against it because I do feel the gap. With 21-24 they’re in this odd stage where they still feel young enough to not be serious, may want to mess with a handsome 35 yr old but then start thinking about potential of it being serious and cut off the idea of it due to age gap concerns. But what I’m referring to is online where it’s very picky and thinking is there any point if they might us…
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:55 AM
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I agree but in person or in social settings where they get to know you over time to overcome the weird societal programming nowadays of having an age dating cap and limit, so online you may struggle to overcome this unless a girl doesn’t care and isn’t affected by the programming
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:46 AM
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I agree that would happen but what period of time are you talking. If you just got into early 30’s now it’s a weird situation especially in places in the uk girls in their early 20’s have put caps in their mind and 5 yr limits. Only way round it is if you somehow get socialising over a long period of time for them to forego the age gap. Online you don’t have that luxury
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:44 AM
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What are you trying to say 😂… reddits not deep what’s with the grammar police
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:21 AM
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I think it’s just tough in general regardless of age … lots of ppl with mental blocks nowadays, selfishness, internal strife etc … just gotta keep yourself stable, sane and content with your own interests and activities
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:17 AM
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I don’t know where you’re based but uk ppl are weird about this. Only setting they don’t care abt it is nighttime bars etc but during day or few days later they start succumbing to this weird programming which questions age disparity nowadays even tho 21/22 yr old women are fully matured. But Yh in essence I’ve always agreed with what you’ve said just haven’t tested it online dating
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:12 AM
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Really appreciate this answer, very balanced and level headed. It’s interesting you mention dating going downhill and coinciding with post covid - I wander why would be interesting to see if any studies on it. I would have never asked this question 7-8 yrs ago in my mid 20’s But society’s gone weird towards age gap now, I will preface by saying I’m not Caucasian white and born and bred in a western country dominated by this ethnic, 2nd being south Asian then Caribbean ,,, I’m Mediterranean Girls…
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:09 AM
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Are you sure, because a lot of people seem to tell me it’s going to affect it and it’s best to not be on tinder anymore or straight up lie abt age which id rather not. In person younger 21etc haven’t minded but some maybe because in front of their friends and society weirdness towards ‘age gap’ nowadays express slight concern ,,, but Yh need to hear from guys who are on their and what ages they match with
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:03 AM
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What was that YouTube account
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