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I don’t have an opinion as to whether you are being unnoticed but it seems that neither you nor Kevin are focusing on the correct statistic. It’s not the percentage of black fathers and mothers that are unmarried that gives that perception - it is the percentage of black children that are born to unmarried parents. 70% of black children are born to unmarried parents. That’s more than twice the percentage of white children born to unmarried parents. Statistically, if you meet a black child, it is…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 03:46 AM
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Exactly this - would you like to be a 38 year old mother of 3 and have to compete with a 24 year old for your husband’s affection? Either or both of you will always feel inadequate and vying for your husband’s attention. I could see polygamy working where it is purely transactional in nature and little to no feelings involved, but otherwise no.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 04:05 AM
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I have a slightly different take on this: It sounds to me like he might be feeling under appreciated or taken advantage of. Does he pay for 100% of things all the time? Have you ever bought him a luxurious gift or picked up an expensive tab? I can’t tell from your post the specifics of the conversation, but it might be enough for you to willingly, happily splurge on him once in a while. That does not take away from him being a good and generous provider - its just a way to show that you value hi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 04:57 PM
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I recall reading that research has shown that there is a high correlation between intelligence and social anxiety. The higher your IQ, the higher the chance your social apprehension is higher than usual (not necessarily to the point that requires intervention or medication, but probably enough to hinder enjoying parties and approaching women). The most successful men I know are those that are intelligent and educated AND that have overcome their social anxiety. Usually, that means repeated expos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:31 PM
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Maybe, but I don’t think high earning men are really looking for high earning women, it’s just that they tend to have a lot in common and end up paired up together. High earners tend to be personable, extroverted, conventionally attractive, smart/quick witted, and value hard work and success. My husband and I met young and we were broke when we got married (I was 22 and he was 26). But I think we had a lot of the listed qualities in common which attracted us to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:13 PM
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This is an interesting theory! Is there any research or discussion to back this up? Not challenging it, just interested in reading up on it
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/22 07:46 PM
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We’re both high earners and we outsource just about everything we can. We prioritize spending time with each other and our kids, but have zero interest in arguing over chores. The benefit of being a high earner is you can outsource!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:51 PM
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I am not morally against FWB, but I would caution women from going down that path. It really does change a man’s perspective about you. The same way a high number of past partners is a turn off, so is a history of casual sex. Again, I am not morally against it, and I am not commenting on whether it “should” impact a man’s view of a woman, just noting that it does for about 95% of men. I tried to think of an equivalent for women - imagine your man showering women in the past with lavish and expen…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/22 05:15 PM
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Sexual compatibility is #1. Men will put up with a lot if they are with a sexually submissive girl. If you arent crazy and are sexual, your man will be happy! Initiate, put out often, and be very enthusiastic - it took me wayyy to long to realize this! I was too shy and embarassed, but over the last year have really understood how important this is to men. Now, I just sneaked a look at my husband’s phone and his most recent porn search entries are for “wife” 😂. i work full time and make good mon…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 06:09 AM
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He’s happy with once a week. I think he must fee l some subtle pressure - but I am not sure what to do. I do legitimately feel sad and frustrated that he does not desire me more.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/21 08:02 PM
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Yes, I definitely get the vicious cycle feeling - that’s exactly what it can feel like!
/r/RedPillWives19/06/21 03:53 AM
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You’re right! I just hate the thought of getting dressed up only to wind up not having any intimacy - the rejection stings. Maybe I should do it anyway.
/r/RedPillWives19/06/21 03:52 AM
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I workout every day, shower, floss, get regular keratin and color treatments. I dont have flawless skin (always 1-3 pimples due to cystic acne) and I have a tummy pooch from post-pregnancy (sadly, I think this is excess skin and not likely to go away). I dont think I look as good as I did when we met (at 19), and I generally look older, but otherwise I do try and take care of myself. I dont wear makeup on a daily basis and I am usually wearing form fitting yoga pants - we both work from home.
/r/RedPillWives16/06/21 01:38 PM
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I wonder if he is trying to communicate something to you but is going about it in a very ineffective (and hurtful!) way. Does he want you to wear tighter, more asset-showing clothes likt the fitness models? Does he like their hair and makeup all done up? How is your frequency in the bedroom - is he wanting to communicate that he wants you to be “sexier” for him as he imagines these women might be? Hard to say what he is trying to get at, but I would do some digging to get inside his thoughts.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 03:25 AM
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Love this - thank you! My kids are finally old enough (3 and 6) where I have some time not to be “frazzled and tired hot-mess mom” haha
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 09:01 PM
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I’m sorry, it is always so hard to hear that our husband is not attracted to a particular trait about us. I am surprised that peach fuzz is an issue - everyone has peach fuzz! Is it particularly noticeable (light skin, dark fuzz?) or is this just a quirk of his? If the latter, I agree with the posters above that he should either pay for laser hair removal or figure out a way to deal with his issue. If the former, or if you would like to deal with it anyway, here are two cost-effective alternativ…
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 03:14 PM
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This is a really good suggestion! I would love to be able to continue to do fun/fit activities when I get older so that is a good source of motivation.
/r/RedPillWives26/05/21 04:46 PM
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I think you may end up putting a lot of stress on your husband by quitting your job. I am ALL for stay at home wives! My mom was one and I truly loved my childhood. That being said, I am not in a position where I could be one and not end up causing my husband to be too stressed or to feel like he was missing out because of having to support our entire family (there is so much pressure when you are the sole provider!). So here’s what I recommend: Can you simply check out of work for a bit? I mean…
/r/RedPillWives24/05/21 07:45 PM
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My pleasure! I grew up in a household that did not laugh much, so it’s something I learned. I don’t ever fake it, just express myself better :)
/r/RedPillWives08/05/21 01:38 PM
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I would say try to smile more (and smize!), laugh/giggle more easily (sometimes we find things amusing, let yourself express that!), light touches and leaning in, do the princess Diana look (head tilted down and looking up). I think these little touches can go a long way towards making someone “softer.” Also, have a ton of patience and be able to go with the flow. Honestly, I would aim to emulate the general happiness and aura of a young kindergarten teacher :) good luck!
/r/RedPillWives08/05/21 02:16 AM
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Did you find that your husband now has as much sex as you desire? This is one of the things we struggle with in our relationship. I never truly feel desired by him because I have a higher sex drive. I avoided any big talks for 10 years, but it has made no difference. I finally had a “big talk” and as you could probably guess, it just got worse :-/
/r/RedPillWives08/05/21 02:12 AM
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